Thread: Need Help...Miscarriages
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June 10th, 2013, 02:40 PM #1
Need Help...Miscarriages
Hello, I've read a lot on this site about swaying for a Daughter but have never posted before. I have 3 beautiful boys & am trying one more time for a Daughter. For 8 weeks I skipped breakfast (which I normally always been a breakfast person) & tried the LE Diet. I have been keeping my calories around 1,200 since normally I only eat 1,500-1,800. I am very petite. I have been doing fast walking for an hour a day. I dropped 3/4 lbs. Recently I found out I was pregnant & at 6 weeks I miscarried. I started comparing that my lifestyle changes this time resembled a lot of what I was doing a couple years ago when I had another miscarriage, I was skipping breakfast & cutting calories & putting in a hour a day on the treadmill. Back then at the time I was not swaying but just trying to lose some weight when I found out I was pregnant which ended in a miscarriage. A month later I got pregnant again with my DS2. I can see why I have 3 boys by doing a lot of reading on this site. I've always ate breakfast, meat, etc., each one of them was conceived on ovulation day & I always had a lot of EWCM. My Husband has high testosterone, very muscular & is very active. He is willing to do anything to help this sway as he would love a Daughter too. I am really trying everything possible to have a Daughter since this is it for me ( regardless I would love another boy) but am beginning to think maybe I can't conceive a girl because when it seems like it's a pretty good situation to conceive a girl I end up having a miscarriage.
So what I'm wondering is..am I doing something wrong or is it just a coincidence?
Thanks for any help. Don't know what else I could do to up my chances of a Daughter.
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June 10th, 2013, 04:36 PM #2
There are many different factors for a miscarriage. It could be anything. If it was an issue developmentally with the baby it most likely could not have been prevented.
I'm sorry for your losses. I do think you can get a girl. If your DH is so willing to help, let him! Supplements etc. You can work out but maybe still focus on eating healthily, or enough but do other aspects to sway.. Vitex, supps etc.
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June 10th, 2013, 08:26 PM #3
I thought I saw something about Vitex & Vit B combo? Have you heard of this?
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June 10th, 2013, 08:45 PM #4
I heard Vit b helps support healthy eggs.
I would recommend also that you increase your Folate. Folic acid is a synthetic form of Folate, which some people cant properly absorb. About 2000 mg of Folate per day as you've had previous mc's. It's best to start 3 months prior to conception since it takes 90 days for an egg to mature before being released. This Isn't a sway but very important.
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June 10th, 2013, 10:23 PM #5
If your body doesn't think it can support a pregnancy it won't. Even small changes are a good sway. Skip breakfast, up your calories a bit, stay vegetarian, and drop the exercise. I wouldn't add vitamins except folic acid.
Cycle#1 Jan/Feb 2013: 10 eggs retrieved, 8 mature, 8 fertilized. 1 expanded blast frozen to batch.
Cycle #2 May/June 2013: 17 eggs retrieved, 14 mature, 11 fertilized, 3 blasts frozen. Sending all 4 to Natera: 2 normals- 1 girl (cycle 2) & 1 boy (cycle 1)
Cycle #3 September 2013: 11 eggs retrieved, 8 mature, 8 fertilized. 4 biopsied. 2 normal boys
FET #1: October 25th: BFN
Cycle#4: Feb/March 2014: 12 eggs retrieved, 11 mature, 10 fertilized. 1 normal XX! Transfer March 3rd. BFP: 3/9/14!!!! Beta: 7dp6dt:38, 9dp6dt:139!, 6weeks 1 day: heartbeat!!!
She's here and I'm in love
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June 11th, 2013, 06:45 AM #6
Another thought~ You can also stagger calories- one day do 1200, then 1500, 1800, 1200, 1200, etc whatever way you choose.
Cycle#1 Jan/Feb 2013: 10 eggs retrieved, 8 mature, 8 fertilized. 1 expanded blast frozen to batch.
Cycle #2 May/June 2013: 17 eggs retrieved, 14 mature, 11 fertilized, 3 blasts frozen. Sending all 4 to Natera: 2 normals- 1 girl (cycle 2) & 1 boy (cycle 1)
Cycle #3 September 2013: 11 eggs retrieved, 8 mature, 8 fertilized. 4 biopsied. 2 normal boys
FET #1: October 25th: BFN
Cycle#4: Feb/March 2014: 12 eggs retrieved, 11 mature, 10 fertilized. 1 normal XX! Transfer March 3rd. BFP: 3/9/14!!!! Beta: 7dp6dt:38, 9dp6dt:139!, 6weeks 1 day: heartbeat!!!
She's here and I'm in love
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June 11th, 2013, 09:24 AM #7
This explains a lot http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gend...scarriage.html . I'm so sorry for your losses . As far as not thinking you can not carry a girl, it is actually boy embryos that are weaker and that is why the he diet includes so many healthy nutrients.
Mom to 2009 and 2011. My joined us in October! Thanks GenderDreaming!
My sway here- http://genderdreaming.com/forum/add-...girl-sway.html
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June 11th, 2013, 10:02 AM #8Cycle#1 Jan/Feb 2013: 10 eggs retrieved, 8 mature, 8 fertilized. 1 expanded blast frozen to batch.
Cycle #2 May/June 2013: 17 eggs retrieved, 14 mature, 11 fertilized, 3 blasts frozen. Sending all 4 to Natera: 2 normals- 1 girl (cycle 2) & 1 boy (cycle 1)
Cycle #3 September 2013: 11 eggs retrieved, 8 mature, 8 fertilized. 4 biopsied. 2 normal boys
FET #1: October 25th: BFN
Cycle#4: Feb/March 2014: 12 eggs retrieved, 11 mature, 10 fertilized. 1 normal XX! Transfer March 3rd. BFP: 3/9/14!!!! Beta: 7dp6dt:38, 9dp6dt:139!, 6weeks 1 day: heartbeat!!!
She's here and I'm in love
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June 11th, 2013, 11:04 AM #9
Thank you guys!
One more question I had that I'm not sure about when swaying is, if I am trying to conceive a girl should I be taking fiber? Is so how much?
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