Urgent advice needed!

[SamS_TTCPink]

Advice needed please!!

Ok, so I had a really bad day 3 days ago...I think the reality of our loss hit me, I had a horrible experience at the drs and I felt like crap - I had a headache, had EWCM, was cranky, had pain in left side - so much so that I thought I must be ovulating or about to! I was just so over everything and though f#%k it!! My opk was negative but I was so sure due to symptoms that we BD that night!

Now today, I get a blaring positive opk!

So, what to do now??? I know one attempt is best for TTC pink but would Tuesday have been too early and would it have been "boy territory"? Do we attempt again?

I'm so cross I didn't just wait until a pos opk but I really thought I was ovulating on tues with how I felt.

Have I stuffed up everything??!? 😢

[SamS_TTCPink]

It doesn't help that today is my birthday and I'm having a crap day as it is! 😞

[Abifasc]

Happy birthday!!!! So sorry you're having such a sad day.

If it were me, I'd bd tomorrow. So then you have two attempts 4 days apart. But I'm not an expert, just wanted to throw in my two cents. Hugs!!!!

[kitkat18]

Happy bday mum of six!!! Please make day a cheat day!! Go eat some cake xxxx

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[angielorna]

Happy birthday, sweetie! Can you manage it in the am? I'd be tempted to just dtd tonight. I wouldn't worry about the tues attempt being boy territory. I'm not sure if dtd Tonight would increase the boy chances or not, but I'm thinking the tues swimmers would be gone by the time the egg releases. At least that's my thought.
Good luck in whatever you decide to do <3
Angie

[kitkat18]

Do one attempt tomorrow xxxx

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[Rosie85]

Happy Birthday!!!!! No advice different than the others, I would BD in the am as well!

[stephk]

Happy birthday!!

I would BD ASAP if it were me, its only 3 days and there will be hardly any sperm hanging around anyway - you dont want to miss the egg coming out!

[Marika]

Happy birthday!!

I am no expert on this and had the same kind of question earlier this week so I can only give you my thought on how I would think:

If you BD tuesday, and today get an opk I would guess you probably O tomorrow (or around). By then I would not rely non the swimmers from tuesday being enough, so personally I would BD again now and consider the tuesday sperm as gone by the time egg releases.

Good luck!

[flowerlily]

Happy birthday MumofSix!!♥♥ Have some cake!

And I'm sorry you're having a bad day. Big hugs and good luck!