Thread: 2-3 day cutoff
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May 18th, 2014, 12:29 PM #1
2-3 day cutoff
This is our first month TTC and my question is this. I'm wanting to do a 2-3 day cutoff 1 attempt.
That day DH will release in a.m. and possibly during lunch, then hot shower before attempt, during attempt shallow release with a J&D.
Sooooo how do I know *when* I will O? I've started OPK's and I have an app that charts and keeps track of stats. I personally like it better than FF.
Today is my CD12
The pictures are the OPK I took this morning and the app, to show I'm beginning my fertility week. The app suggests that I should have the highest LH surge the 21st.
I'm thinking attempt tonight or tomorrow evening.... Any advice?
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We are finally getting our princess!!! I can't wait to hold her and kiss her
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May 18th, 2014, 01:03 PM #2
Is this your first month charting?
My Ovulation Chart currently TTC, Cycle #16 since last BFP
TTC #1 - swaying pink on & off since Nov 2013 - hoping for a girl first but excited for either!
Dec 2001 - May 2006 : 5 early abortions of healthy singletons (3 medical @5w, 2 surgical @8w, last 4 pregnancies conceived with late DH, all conceived while TTA/on birth control)
Mar 2012: miscarried B/G twins @5w (conceived 2 cycles after remověng Paraguard copper IUD while NTNP), one twin was ovarian ectopic
Me: 34, widowed, late O + short LP, normal-good hormone levels excepting undetectable testosterone, seeking a known sperm donor/life partner
My sway: vegetarian LE for over 28w, skipping breakfast, fibre (ground psyllium husks) with/before/between meals, physically inactive, drama avoidance, ocassional minimal YesBaby lube as needed, alternate cycles on low dose Clomid, double shot lattes (with meals)
Past sway tactics I've dropped (in order): Vitex, Sudafed, antihistamines, intermittent fasting, one attempt per cycle at positive OPK, one attempt in fertile period
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May 18th, 2014, 05:00 PM #3Swaying Advice Coach
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you don't. kind of the huge and undeniable downside of the cutoff method.
if your cycle stays the same this month, hey great use it. but unless they have invented an app with the ability to predict the future, there is no way to know if it is anything other than a wild guess.
I'd just do OPK and see if it matches with the date of your attempt as decreed by app.!!! Questions?? Check out the NEW and improved Complete Index !!!
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May 18th, 2014, 05:25 PM #4
This is my first month charting. Previous to this month I was on BCP and didn't think using opks and charting would be accurate.
Aug 2008- Married high school sweetheart
May 2009- DS #1 born
Dec 2010- DS #2 born
Praying for a princess to complete our family
We are finally getting our princess!!! I can't wait to hold her and kiss her
BFP: 6/3/14 confirmed by doc office 6/4/14
TTC cycle #1
See my sway here: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/add-...y-attempt.html
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May 18th, 2014, 07:27 PM #5
I would just attempt when you get your positive OPK, which is when the test line is either 100% equal to or darker than the control line.
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May 19th, 2014, 01:09 PM #6
I'm with atomic. Coming off BC you have no way of knowing when you might O regardless of the app. I would definitely temp and use OPKs and forget about doing a cut-off, though if you DTD right at positive OPK you may get lucky and achieve a 2-3 day cut off anyway. You would need to have a very regular cycle and months of charting experience to be able to accurately predict O.
My Ovulation Chart currently TTC, Cycle #16 since last BFP
TTC #1 - swaying pink on & off since Nov 2013 - hoping for a girl first but excited for either!
Dec 2001 - May 2006 : 5 early abortions of healthy singletons (3 medical @5w, 2 surgical @8w, last 4 pregnancies conceived with late DH, all conceived while TTA/on birth control)
Mar 2012: miscarried B/G twins @5w (conceived 2 cycles after remověng Paraguard copper IUD while NTNP), one twin was ovarian ectopic
Me: 34, widowed, late O + short LP, normal-good hormone levels excepting undetectable testosterone, seeking a known sperm donor/life partner
My sway: vegetarian LE for over 28w, skipping breakfast, fibre (ground psyllium husks) with/before/between meals, physically inactive, drama avoidance, ocassional minimal YesBaby lube as needed, alternate cycles on low dose Clomid, double shot lattes (with meals)
Past sway tactics I've dropped (in order): Vitex, Sudafed, antihistamines, intermittent fasting, one attempt per cycle at positive OPK, one attempt in fertile period
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May 19th, 2014, 04:57 PM #7Swaying Advice Coach
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then there is absolutely no way an app could predict even remotely when you will ovulate.
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May 19th, 2014, 05:55 PM #8
Cut offs don't guarantee gender anyway. My son is a 4-5 day cut off (not 100% sure of O day). I seriously thought there was no way is get pg. DTD once at +OPK relieved a lot of boy swaying stress and ensures one attempt in your fertile window.
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May 20th, 2014, 12:02 PM #9Swaying Advice Coach
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I have 3 boys with cutoffs too Got my DD from one attempt at pos OPK
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May 25th, 2014, 02:20 PM #10
We ended up DTD at my +OPK. The following morning I got a - OPK. I guess I'm now in my 2WW.... I suck at waiting LOL
Aug 2008- Married high school sweetheart
May 2009- DS #1 born
Dec 2010- DS #2 born
Praying for a princess to complete our family
We are finally getting our princess!!! I can't wait to hold her and kiss her
BFP: 6/3/14 confirmed by doc office 6/4/14
TTC cycle #1
See my sway here: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/add-...y-attempt.html
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