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August 9th, 2014, 12:14 PM #1
Help! I think today is O day and I have a DTD question
Hi Ladies,
Thanks to AS, I think I figured out why I never got a + OPK- I would start taking them at CD17/18 because FF said I O'd on CD19-21.
Well, she said it looked more like CD14-16 and today I got a GLARINGLY positive OPK (it sat longer than 5 minutes, but it is DARK)!
With that said, I need advice on DTD. We ***really*** want our girl, even if it means another month with a - (so it's not imperative that we get pregnant this month).
Today is CD14 - at 9:30 I had a tinge of blood in my CM when I wiped (sorry, TMI) and a positive OPK minutes later.
We last DTD CD11 at night. I used repHresh before and after, and on CD12 we sat in the hot tub (not sure if that would kill off any swimmers who made it in me?)
With that said, it's only been three days and I'm nervous about messing up my sway (I have been very diligent for months and would hate to mess it up with poor timing -- even though timing has been disproved, I have it so engrained in my brain that it's hard to kick).
Advice? If it is to DTD, should I try and time it to 9:30/10pm tonight to be 12 hours after the bleeding? Also, if we do do it, what should I do/not do today?
Thanks a billion!Luckiest mama to a (2011) and my sweet (2013 unmedicated VBAC).
Missing my Angel Babies (1/2015), lost due to twin partial molar pregnancy. Another , June 2015.. rainbow 2016.
Hoping for a rainbow girl in 2017; PGD/IVF.
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August 9th, 2014, 12:34 PM #2
I would Dtd tonight without rephresh. I would think you'd be ok but hopefully others will chime in.
praying and swaying
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August 9th, 2014, 11:39 PM #3
Update: GLARINGLY positive OPK this evening (just a little while ago). It was more positive than this morning.
I'm drinking a glass of red and DH is getting ready to hit the hot tub for a little bit.
I just painted my nails and slathered on some lavender essential oils. I'm getting nervous
Please send some sticky pink baby dust my way!!!!!Luckiest mama to a (2011) and my sweet (2013 unmedicated VBAC).
Missing my Angel Babies (1/2015), lost due to twin partial molar pregnancy. Another , June 2015.. rainbow 2016.
Hoping for a rainbow girl in 2017; PGD/IVF.
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August 10th, 2014, 01:45 AM #4
First, don't stress, it sways blue! Second, I don't think you're going to ruin your sway by trying the third day instead of the 4th. I would NOT try an O+12 as only the most best eggs survive 12 hours anyway and it takes the sperm 3-4 hours to get to them! I think you have done all you can, good luck!
2010 2012 2015--home water birth VBA2C!!praying for one last
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August 10th, 2014, 08:29 AM #5
I would BD tonight or tomorrow. Good luck!
My Ovulation Chart currently TTC, Cycle #16 since last BFP
TTC #1 - swaying pink on & off since Nov 2013 - hoping for a girl first but excited for either!
Dec 2001 - May 2006 : 5 early abortions of healthy singletons (3 medical @5w, 2 surgical @8w, last 4 pregnancies conceived with late DH, all conceived while TTA/on birth control)
Mar 2012: miscarried B/G twins @5w (conceived 2 cycles after remověng Paraguard copper IUD while NTNP), one twin was ovarian ectopic
Me: 34, widowed, late O + short LP, normal-good hormone levels excepting undetectable testosterone, seeking a known sperm donor/life partner
My sway: vegetarian LE for over 28w, skipping breakfast, fibre (ground psyllium husks) with/before/between meals, physically inactive, drama avoidance, ocassional minimal YesBaby lube as needed, alternate cycles on low dose Clomid, double shot lattes (with meals)
Past sway tactics I've dropped (in order): Vitex, Sudafed, antihistamines, intermittent fasting, one attempt per cycle at positive OPK, one attempt in fertile period
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August 10th, 2014, 04:04 PM #6Swaying Advice Coach
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I would have had you stick with the one attempt. Has nothing to do with O day or not, it has to do with the 3 days vs. 4 and you not being in a big hurry to conceive. I'd have wanted you to err on the side of the one attempt (altho I admit with RepH before and after - and please ladies, DON'T FREAKING DO THAT the odds are slim with that other attempt). But whatever you did was the right answer.
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August 10th, 2014, 04:06 PM #7Swaying Advice Coach
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O+12 does not sway and the bleeding probably has nothing to do with the egg actually coming from the ovary. Much more likely your cervix getting soft as ovulation approaches. True O spotting usually takes a bit of time to come out - it is NOT "oh there's some blood, I've now ovulated and 12 hours later will be O+12". Instead it's a tiny amount of fluid and blood comes out with ovulation that then has to make it all the way down the tube, thru the uterus, and out and it does not add up that that would happen immediately upon ovulation.
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