ttc a girl

[sassy86]

Ok I'll have a little think and maybe leave them out, is it just that cut conception or is there a chance they could potentially sway blue?

[atomic sagebrush]

They cut conception.

[sassy86]

Ok.........so I really feel like I'm driving my self crazy (and probably you) with all the questions, I feel like I know what I'm doing well sort of lol. This will be our 1st attempt this year I'm due to ovulate in just under two weeks so this will be my attempt if all goes well.....
1 attempt at pos opk
I have been put walking most days
Dh has done no exercise due to busy at work
We have both been drinking a lot more alcohol
I have lost a few pound, dh has gained a few pound
He has drastically cut down on protein
He is takkng ole daily
Dh has been using hot tub every other day
Dh is releasing every other day, he has an extremely high sex drive (drive me crazy as I literally have zero sez drive)
Dw folic acid
Dw and dh have started drinking coffee everyday and having no tea at all
Night of attempt dh will release and then go in hot tub for an hour with a vodka and I will have a hot shower and then we will have our attempt with a tiny bit of ky jelly as we usually have to use lube anyway
I will not use repleans or rephresh
I am taking hayfever tablets everyday anyway as I suffer with hayfever

Am I good to go?

Would it be beneficial for me to take cranberry supplements from af to ovulation and also would coq10 help as I have aeen a few ladies taking them?
Thanks atomic

[atomic sagebrush]

All that is looking great, we believe KY is swaying pink anyway and no need for that + other jellies

Cranberry supplements do nothing and may cause miscarriage or even harm your health when taken AF-O and dropped suddenly, and since they may cause miscarriage when taken into pregnancy you HAVE TO take them in that pattern anyway. Since they have huge potential to harm for no benefit, please do not use them

I only use coq10 for people who have issues with egg quality due to high blood sugar. Otherwise it's considered a blue sway supp and I don't think the average swayer needs to or should take them

[sassy86]

Oh wow I didnt realise cranberry can cause harm I wont include them. Ok great so I'll just use Ky jelly and not the other jellies.
Thank you fpr taking the time to reply, I did think about holding off a month and trying to get dh out jogging but hopefully we are doing enough that ot shouldn't be too much of a hige deal as I didnt really want to wait any longer

[sassy86]

Hi atomic, I have started to get quite a lot of ewcm amd have noticed line on opk getting slightly darker but still not quite positive yet, I have a feeling my the morning it will be positive so would it be ok to go ahead and bd in the morning or should I wait for the evening? I read somewhere that testorone is higher in the morning I just wondered what your thoughts are on this?
Thank you

[atomic sagebrush]

Testosterone has never been proven to sway and certainly not those kinds of daily fluctuations. Remember, swaying works because it sends a signal to our bodies about what gender offspring has the best chance of living to adulthood and successfully passing down genes to future generations, and in that paradigm there is no room for a boy at 8am and a boy at 8pm. Either a boy has a better chance than a girl or a girl has a better chance, if that makes sense, and it takes TIME to alter that signal, not just a few hours in the day.

[sassy86]

Oh thats good to know, so we ended up bd last night as I had run out of sticks yesterday afternoon and the last one that we tested had a slight line, my sticks arrived this morning and have tested and a slightly darker line but not the darkest should I bd again or just leave it at that?

[sassy86]

I have a feeling it will be positive in a few hours or tomorroq morning as the line is getting darker each time

[atomic sagebrush]

Is it positive though? Positive is as dark or darker than control. Wait for first positive.

NOT just a faint line. Faint lines aren't positive. Only when the test line is as dark or darker than control.

But it doesn't have to be the darkest positive you get. Just the first one.