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  1. May 5th, 2016, 09:25 AM #1
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    Sad Face Advice.... Total novice!!

    I think I have ruined my chance!! I got a positive OPK yesterday and we bd last night, my ph was 4.5 - 5 but I did orgasm have I now ruined my chance?
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  2. May 5th, 2016, 09:47 AM #2
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    No, not at all! Orgasm isn't that big a deal, it's a very minor sway factor at most. Diet, exercise, one attempt are a billion times more important! Plenty of ladies had big O when they conceived girls.

    My Ovulation Chart     currently TTC, Cycle #16 since last BFP

    TTC #1 - swaying pink on & off since Nov 2013 - hoping for a girl first but excited for either!

    Dec 2001 - May 2006 : 5 early abortions of healthy singletons (3 medical @5w, 2 surgical @8w, last 4 pregnancies conceived with late DH, all conceived while TTA/on birth control)
    Mar 2012: miscarried B/G twins @5w (conceived 2 cycles after remověng Paraguard copper IUD while NTNP), one twin was ovarian ectopic

    Me: 34, widowed, late O + short LP, normal-good hormone levels excepting undetectable testosterone, seeking a known sperm donor/life partner
    My sway: vegetarian LE for over 28w, skipping breakfast, fibre (ground psyllium husks) with/before/between meals, physically inactive, drama avoidance, ocassional minimal YesBaby lube as needed, alternate cycles on low dose Clomid, double shot lattes (with meals)
    Past sway tactics I've dropped (in order): Vitex, Sudafed, antihistamines, intermittent fasting, one attempt per cycle at positive OPK, one attempt in fertile period
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  3. May 5th, 2016, 10:12 AM #3
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    Thank you 👍 I also used Aci jel after as I heard that can help.
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  4. May 5th, 2016, 05:21 PM #4
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    It can't have hurt!

    My Ovulation Chart     currently TTC, Cycle #16 since last BFP

    TTC #1 - swaying pink on & off since Nov 2013 - hoping for a girl first but excited for either!

    Dec 2001 - May 2006 : 5 early abortions of healthy singletons (3 medical @5w, 2 surgical @8w, last 4 pregnancies conceived with late DH, all conceived while TTA/on birth control)
    Mar 2012: miscarried B/G twins @5w (conceived 2 cycles after remověng Paraguard copper IUD while NTNP), one twin was ovarian ectopic

    Me: 34, widowed, late O + short LP, normal-good hormone levels excepting undetectable testosterone, seeking a known sperm donor/life partner
    My sway: vegetarian LE for over 28w, skipping breakfast, fibre (ground psyllium husks) with/before/between meals, physically inactive, drama avoidance, ocassional minimal YesBaby lube as needed, alternate cycles on low dose Clomid, double shot lattes (with meals)
    Past sway tactics I've dropped (in order): Vitex, Sudafed, antihistamines, intermittent fasting, one attempt per cycle at positive OPK, one attempt in fertile period
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  5. May 10th, 2016, 10:54 AM #5
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    I had an orgasm when I got my DD.

    We have done TONS of polls and threads on this and while there is a small trend in the direction of boy moms having more O's than girl moms, PLENTY of girl moms Oed when they got their girl(s)!
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  6. May 10th, 2016, 10:55 AM #6
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    Quote Originally Posted by mariakirk View Post
    Thank you �� I also used Aci jel after as I heard that can help.
    I prefer you guys only use Acijel before because after may kill too many sperm, but it doesn't sway blue, we have stats on it and at the very worst it's neutral.
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