What are the chances!?

[ChrisM]

Hi! I'm new here and got my BFP last month! I have 3 boys & TTC a girl ���� Here's my "sway":
I had been skipping breakfast for 2.5 months. Eating lots of yogurt, cheese & salad. Some chicken but low. I was taking baby aspirin pretty regularly. I lost about 20 pounds FINALLY from DS3. I was planning on doing a 2/3 day cut off but Oed early. Ended up being 1-1.5 day cut off I believe. it was the 5th night of release (either Bd & discard or my husband released on his own). I was even going to do the night before and my husband had already released and said barely anything came out. With our schedules we aren't very active... maybe BD once a week and he releases once. So consequent is days is unusual. We BD at 7 pm on cycle day 8. When I woke up on cycle day 10 I had the temp drop. 3 hours before our 1 attempt I used half the applicator of represh. When checked ph 20 minutes before attempt I was at 5 so I put another squirt in! I also used sylk very generously. It was missionary position. Laid flat for about 4 minutes then got up to go to the bathroom. Got out as much as I could with toilet paper then did SEC (I think it's called- used kegel muscles to start & stop the flow). Not sure how much I believe in ions but been using our heat- attempt was end of November. The next day was walking around New York City in the cold fresh air. Also, used lavender oil on my pillow.

[XXforhubby]

Hi and Welcome! Huge congrats on your BFP! You always have a chance at getting a girl! That being said, you had a decent sway and have a good chance at hearing pink!

FX and GL to you!



DS1, DS2, & DS3
One Last Pink Sway

My Ovulation Chart

[Throwaway_panther]

Ions don't mean much, so don't let using the heat bother you.

Lots of things look girl friendly. The yogurt and cheese is actually more of a boy tactic, but I think your skipping meals, lower protein and recent weight loss all look like good girl moves.

[ChrisM]

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/3cc0e2


Wasn't sure how to attach chart- but this is the link! Days 5 & 7 are blank for BD but my husband realeased. Also not sure why it's not telling me my ovulation day but assuming it's day 10.
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR INPUT

[atomic sagebrush]

Huge congrats. I prefer not to go over sways that are done deals because I nor anyone else can tell anyone the gender of their baby and I think it invariably leads to false hope or false despair.

You always have a chance of a girl no matter what. Good luck and pink dust.

[MiaMelb]

Congrats on your bfp! Fx for a healthy pregnancy and a little girl.

[ChrisM]

Ok and thanks! I'm just stressing about only getting in 5 days and letting go of the idea of the 2/3 day cutoff. Hoping diet, crystal light, represh & sylk evened it out. Just keep telling myself did everything so different this time