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July 7th, 2017, 11:35 AM
#1
So desperate for a girl!!
Hi there,
I'm a mom of 3 boys and desperately want a little girl! My husbands family has 3 generations of all boys, there hasn't been a girl born in 96 years! I am new to all of this, does swaying really work? I am willing to try anything!
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July 7th, 2017, 11:48 AM
#2
Dream Vet
Yes, swaying can work, but it is not a guarantee. Sometimes there are opposites and you have to be ready for that.
The only guarantee is if you were to go High Tech (HT) and use IVF with PGD testing to confirm that you are putting back your desired gender.
me (42 ) DH (43)
1995 (gave up for adoption)
2005
2010
2013 (failed IG sway)
July 2015 (swayed, lost his triplet siblings
at 11w3d)
2017.
Swayed for our
but had all
. Our family is complete.
My Ovulation Chart
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July 7th, 2017, 12:18 PM
#3
Moderator
I agree with Shann. Swaying can and does work but not always. It is a roll of the dice so you have to be okay with getting a boy if it doesn't go your way. If I'm not mistaken, 20-30% of our pink swayers get boys. Now that's still way better than the odds without swaying but it is not a guarantee. If you're not okay with that then HT is a good option but that comes with its own risks. Best of luck with whatever you decide.
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Dreaming of pink through HT or adoption
FET January 2021: 1 HBAA XX - BFN
FET #2 August 2022: 1 HBAA XX - BFP!
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July 7th, 2017, 01:08 PM
#4
I've conceived all my boys without trying lol maybe doing something different could work! I don't even know where to start
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July 7th, 2017, 01:24 PM
#5
Moderator
Look in the TTC a Girl section for info on swaying. Also if you look in Atomic's signature, there's the link to the whole index on swaying. I recommend a custom sway plan.
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Dreaming of pink through HT or adoption
FET January 2021: 1 HBAA XX - BFN
FET #2 August 2022: 1 HBAA XX - BFP!
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July 8th, 2017, 02:00 PM
#6
Swaying Advice Coach
Hi and welcome!
I have a thread about our success rates vs. just sheer luck here. http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gend...-thoughts.html
Everyone can make both boys and girls.
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July 8th, 2017, 02:01 PM
#7
Swaying Advice Coach
^^^But yes if you need a guarantee, HT is the only way to go. Even under ideal circumstances we get 70% or so with swaying and that's an average - so plenty of opposites.
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Not sure where to ask not TTC