BFP today! Of course the month things were messed up!

[Mommy3boyz]

Finally got my bfp today! I was actually hoping I wouldn't conceive this month as it got all screwed up! The goal was one attempt 2-3 days before ovulation but ovulation was delayed and I freaked out and dtd more 😞 Here's my notes for the cycle:

One attempt on June 25th (CD 13) ph was 4.5/5 before, 7 after dtd, fans going, No big o, both smoked an hour before dtd, husband took hot shower
Total mess up month---ovulated later than expected---High opks cd 15&16 Positive opk-cd 17&18 (usually positive on cd15)
*dtd on cd 17(pulled out) and cd 18(first pull out, 4hrs later roughly half pull out)
BFP July 10th- guessing 10dpo

My supps (stopped 5/27)
-Lydia Pinkham 3Xs a day af-o
-Saw palmetto 160mg 2xs (took extra pill on 5/29&5/30 due to late opk +
-vit C 1000mg
-cranberry 25000 af-o
-baby aspirin started a week before o- till 5/6 days after o

His supps (stopped 5/25)
-licorice root af-o (3-4 pills daily 450mg each)
-cranberry 25000 af-o
-cal citrate af-o
-vit c 1000mg

Ions-Salt rock lamp, rose quartz, hematite and amethyst bracelet, negative ions magnetic bracelet, painted nails, and lavender oil, shampoo, body wash and lavender deodorant. Used aerosol sprays.

LE diet- not super strict but started beginning of march. no breakfast most days, 1 coffee with milk/sugar some mornings (only a few times this cycle) Still ate meat, no red meat this cycle prior to ovulation. No more eating before bed which was a huge challenge. Drank clear American sparkling water and cherry Coke Zero. Some Coke/Pepsi occasionally. Rode recumbent bike 6x week for 60 min starting in mid-may (wasn't strict with it this cycle, I did 6 days the week before o, then stopped for the 4-5 days before ovulation) Weight 172 beginning of march, 158 beginning of July.

PH- typically around 5/6 Rephresh lowered to 4.5- only used once this cycle 5/23

Prayed a LOT several times a day (and during attempt) for a healthy baby girl

Hopefully I still have a chance for pink!! 🙌🏼

[XXforhubby]

Huge congrats on your BFP! You have a good chance for pink! I think sometimes when we let go of things, we make room for what we really need. All that happened had to happen for this little one to come to you!

🤞🏻for !!


8/2010 6/2013 11/2015
Baby Girl EDD 9/30/2017

[Mommy3boyz]

Thank you so much, I'm so nervous! I just want a daughter so bad and this is definitely my last so I have been praying sooo sooo hard for the chance to have a baby girl!


*Mommy to Mason 8/28/08 Tyler 5/25/12 and Brayden 4/4/15* Praying for healthy PINK to join my crew!

[Mommy3boyz]

I just wish I knew when I actually ovulated! I feel like my positive today is decently dark so I'm not sure if I'm really 10dpo, I had a bfn yesterday on a wondfo but it was there this morning. Very faint but visible. The Walmart cheapie with smu (1.5hr hold) was the darker positive!




*Mommy to Mason 8/28/08 Tyler 5/25/12 and Brayden 4/4/15* Praying for healthy PINK to join my crew!

[XXforhubby]

You probably ovulated 9-11 days ago most likely. I'm guessing based on your tests. Just a guess though!


8/2010 6/2013 11/2015
Baby Girl EDD 9/30/2017

[atomic sagebrush]

Yes I see it! Good luck!

[Mommy3boyz]

Thanks ladies


*Mommy to Mason 8/28/08 Tyler 5/25/12 and Brayden 4/4/15* Praying for healthy PINK to join my crew!

[Mommy3boyz]

Well found out via harmony blood test that it’s a boy. My 4th boy. So very disappointed and mad at myself. Guess my chance for a daughter is gone forever! It hurts so bad

[Georgia_Peach]

Well found out via harmony blood test that it’s a boy. My 4th boy. So very disappointed and mad at myself. Guess my chance for a daughter is gone forever! It hurts so bad

I just looked at your sway and although you say it was A "light" sway, I disagree. You honestly had a great sway. You really only dtd once if the others were pull out method...
Please don't beat yourself up. I honestly think this little dude is meant to be and you tried the best you could! We are here for you if you need to vent.
Xo

[ksmom]

I'm so sorry your sway didn't go your way. I felt really upset too when my pink sway didn't work. It gets easier with time. Take care of yourself and know it's okay to feel sad.