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December 22nd, 2017, 09:13 PM
#1
Any chance of a baby girl?
Last edited by Praying4agirl; February 22nd, 2018 at 10:19 AM.
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December 22nd, 2017, 11:58 PM
#2
Dream Vet
Originally Posted by
Praying4agirl
So Im pregnant. I'm not far along mabe 4-5 weeks. But I'm already experiencing gender anxiety. I didn't do a lot to sway I prob should of done way more but I didn't. As the months went by I got burnt out an discouraged. I just didn't feel like stressing over it anymore. Any ways all of my family has always said I will only have boys. My family already knows I'm pregnant and are already saying boy. My husband is also saying it's deff a boy. An now I have a lingering feeling in the back of my head that I'm having a boy but then again I just don't know. I feel selfish for wanting a girl so bad. I honestly wish It would go away. Did anyone else feel like they were having a boy to find out they were having a girl? Do I have any chance of a daughter? I just need some hope I guess.
Pray. Wait. Trust.
You always, always have a 50/50 chance of a girl whether you sway or not. I swayed this time around to hopefully help tip the scale in favor of a girl. I would just keep in mind you always have a chance of a daughter even without all of this.
Just be gentle with yourself and remind yourself that you did what you could with what you had and it’s enough. There’s always going to be “that one thing” you could have done, or didn’t do, but in the end as Atomic says, there is no perfect sway.
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December 23rd, 2017, 09:23 AM
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Moderator
You always have a chance at a girl. Nearly everyone that sways has moments of sheer panic afterward, wondering what they should have or shouldn't have done. What's done is done and baby's gender is already decided so please try to relax! Fingers crossed for pink!
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December 23rd, 2017, 09:54 AM
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Swaying Advice Coach
Huge congrats!
Everyone can have boys and girls. Families say all sorts of things none of which are good or valuable or true. http://genderdreaming.com/forum/sway...f-that-gender=
Yes, people tell me constantly that htey have a feeling about their baby's gender that is proven wrong. I was SURE my 3rd was a girl and he was the most boyingest boy who ever boyed LOL. Feelings don't predict gender.
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December 28th, 2017, 02:31 AM
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Ohhh, you have no idea how I relate to you right now.
Here I am, pregnant 4/5 weeks, at almost 39 with third child and I have very bad anxiety, since I think I really ruined my sway. I cannot enjoy these special moments because of my obsession with a baby girl. And I hate it....
I'll try as you said: pray, wait, trust
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