Unable to do FR and O+12 not an option?

[bethiew]

My husband and I are TTC a little girl. I've scoured this site for hours (THANKS ATOMIC) and have everything planned in my sway. Question is my hubby is 41 and I don't want to attempt the o+12 because of his age and I'd like to get pg asap. I'm 33 so it isn't so much an option for me. Also, my DH cannot DTD every day as he cannot always finish (not sure if nerves from TTC or not since this is new but I am supportive). So if we dtd every other day does that all but put me in a blue sway if I am able to do other things like PH, diet, RePhresh, Sylk, etc.? Thanks for any thoughts

[rainbowflower]

have you considered compressed frequent release? i.e. have him release (and discard) at least once, and then make an attempt within 12hrs of the last release. You could start that when you notice EWCM or when you get a pos OPK

every other day is optimal for sperm count which would sway blue, RepHresh would keep your pH low, but his sperm count would likely still be higher

[atomic sagebrush]

My husband and I are TTC a little girl. I've scoured this site for hours (THANKS ATOMIC) and have everything planned in my sway. Question is my hubby is 41 and I don't want to attempt the o+12 because of his age and I'd like to get pg asap. I'm 33 so it isn't so much an option for me. Also, my DH cannot DTD every day as he cannot always finish (not sure if nerves from TTC or not since this is new but I am supportive). So if we dtd every other day does that all but put me in a blue sway if I am able to do other things like PH, diet, RePhresh, Sylk, etc.? Thanks for any thoughts

If you are doing a lot of other things to sway, then you can overcome less than ideal frequency!

Is he taking licorice root? That can def. cause that particular problem. I would say to use Viagra but it sounds like the prob. is not, the getting going part, it's the getting done part.

If he is having trouble finishing, he may not have super high T levels (and count) anyway so you may need to forgo things that drastically lower T and count and just go for it.

If it is just nerves, he may want to try having a drink (only one though because more than that will contribute to the problem) 20 minutes or so before BD to help him relax.