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    Girl sway, curious what you guys think

    Hi all,

    This month I will start my first try at swaying for a third daughter. The diet and supplements I choose to use are based on a Dutch research regarding natural swaying (https://www.rbmojournal.com/article/...49-3/abstract). The rest of my sway is a combination of things I read across the internet and checked in peer reviewed journals. Would you guys take a look and let me know if there is anything I should add or change? Thanks on forehand!

    Gender Result: Unknown
    DW Age: 31
    DH Age: 36
    Current Children's Gender(s): girl 11 girl 13 (with other DH)

    Number of Months TTC:
    Will start in November
    Did you purchase and follow a GD Personalized Plan?
    No

    DIET
    Did you follow a diet plan?
    Yes

    If yes to diet, which one did you most follow?
    Low Sodium/High Calcium/low calorie

    Comments regarding DW's diet changes-
    I eat as less sodium as possible, with a maximum of 1 g per day. Potassium as low as possible. Minimum 500 g of dairy products per day. Add magnesium to diet where possible. Max 45 g sugar per day.

    If diet was used, length of time before attempt?
    9 weeks so far

    Did you skip breakfast regularly?
    Will skip breakfast every day in O week

    Did DH change his diet with you?
    Yes, same diet from day 1 cycle to O.

    Did you consume alcohol?
    No

    Did you try to limit caffeine?
    Yes, 1-2 cups per day

    WEIGHT AND EXERCISE
    What did you weigh/BMI do leading up to O?
    Not much change, lost 2 kg

    Any Weight/Exercise related additional info/comments?
    Will do cardio every day in O week. Used to lift weights but stopped doing that 9 weeks ago.

    THINGS in VG and CONCEPTION DATE(CD) INFO
    pH Before Starting a Sway Program, if known
    4.5 - 5

    Any VG potions used?
    NO

    CM pH at attempt
    4.5 - 5 (more towards 5 during O)

    DH pH
    8-8.5 before diet or supplements

    How many BD attempts did you make for the BFP cycle?
    Not started yet

    BD Dates according to Ovulation
    7-10 November

    Any additional comments?
    My O date occurs between day 17-19 of my cycle, I have not managed to pinpoint it exactly yet.

    THE DEED INFO
    DH Info about Swimmers
    Abstained for a week
    Plan to BD from day 14 to positive OPK

    BD Position
    Missionaris

    Did you Jump and Dump?
    No

    Any relevant attempt details?
    DH will take a hot bath before BD. We will Sylk as a lubricant. Will BD in the evening.

    SUPPLEMENTS USED
    DW Supplements
    Calcium 1200 mg
    Magnesium 560 mg
    Cranberry 15000 mg fresh fruit equivalent
    Vitamin C, Vitamin K, Vitamin D, Folic Acid

    DH Supplements
    Calcium 1200 mg
    Magnesium 560 mg
    Cranberry 15000 mg fresh fruit equivalent
    Licorice Root 450 mg
    Vitamin C, Vitamin K, Vitamin D

    Any additional supplement info?
    I am thinking about taking Vitex to lengthen my luteal phase, which is currently around 9-12 days. I want to try one cycle without though.

    Did you do anything with Ions?
    I will try to paint my nails every night in O week, but do not consider Ions to be critical.

    Moon Phase during conception?
    New Moon

    Did you use any Old Wives Tales?
    No

    Things worth mentioning:
    I had my other two girls without swaying with my first husband. Do you think this will increase my chances now?
    2005 2007 - TTC

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    I am not atomic, but I would like to point out right off the bat that since your DH's age is over 35, it may not be a good idea to use the abstaining method. I believe because it can increase genetic problems. I can try to grab that info for you in a min. A good alternative would be frequent release, daily, for at least 7 days before attempted BD.

    Also, daily BD to TTC isn't recommended either. Your best bet is just to do frequent release until you get a + OPK, then BD.

    I want to say that high calcium may sway boy, so I wouldn't necessarily aim for high cal.
    [8-20-08] [4-7-13] [5-1-16] [11-2018] & hopeful in feb '19.

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    Okay, it is linked to birth defects, my mistake.

    Here you go. https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum...pink-blue.html
    [8-20-08] [4-7-13] [5-1-16] [11-2018] & hopeful in feb '19.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lexzeppelin89 View Post
    I am not atomic, but I would like to point out right off the bat that since your DH's age is over 35, it may not be a good idea to use the abstaining method. I believe because it can increase genetic problems. I can try to grab that info for you in a min. A good alternative would be frequent release, daily, for at least 7 days before attempted BD.

    Also, daily BD to TTC isn't recommended either. Your best bet is just to do frequent release until you get a + OPK, then BD.

    I want to say that high calcium may sway boy, so I wouldn't necessarily aim for high cal.
    Thank you so much! Definitely no abstaining then ;-). I think we will do a combination of FR and BD till a positive OPK. I am doubtful about just BD one time because I do not want to decrease my chances of getting pregnant. And more BD is a higher chance right?

    I read a lot of scientific articles and I am pretty sure that high cal sways girl, so I will stick with that. I copied the method section of a study who found this diet and minerals effective.
    2005 2007 - TTC

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    Bump :-) (as said in my intro post) Take your time offcourse, no rush!
    2005 2007 - TTC

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lexzeppelin89 View Post
    Okay, it is linked to birth defects, my mistake.

    Here you go. https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum...pink-blue.html
    You're not wrong, actually -- sperm DNA will get more fragmented with further between releases, so can increase miscarriage risks (or, of course, birth defects for any surviving genetic/chromosomal abnormalities).

    Dutchie, as you already have two girls (though I see from awhile ago), what was your lifestyle like then? I'm also not sure what possible articles you could have read on high calcium swaying girl, as most current, validated research shows it much more likely to sway boy -- and this site has going on a decade of support with that, too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dutchie1986 View Post
    Thank you so much! Definitely no abstaining then ;-). I think we will do a combination of FR and BD till a positive OPK. I am doubtful about just BD one time because I do not want to decrease my chances of getting pregnant. And more BD is a higher chance right?

    I read a lot of scientific articles and I am pretty sure that high cal sways girl, so I will stick with that. I copied the method section of a study who found this diet and minerals effective.
    Have you checked this out yet?
    https://r.tapatalk.com/shareLink?url...4&share_type=t

    BD often sways blue from what I've read, I know atomic *highly* recommends one attempt for ttc girl!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dutchie1986 View Post
    Thank you so much! Definitely no abstaining then ;-). I think we will do a combination of FR and BD till a positive OPK. I am doubtful about just BD one time because I do not want to decrease my chances of getting pregnant. And more BD is a higher chance right?

    I read a lot of scientific articles and I am pretty sure that high cal sways girl, so I will stick with that. I copied the method section of a study who found this diet and minerals effective.

    Oh also, forgot to mention this but I tried to click on the link you posted & it didn't work!
    [8-20-08] [4-7-13] [5-1-16] [11-2018] & hopeful in feb '19.

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