Originally Posted by
lemon2012
Hi KD
I find the other site hard bc no matter what they all want to do o plus 12. Atomic and others explain why that makes it hard to get pregnant. I also feel in order for it to work they use lime douch etc and all of those things will not help us get pregnant being older. I totally agree and I tried the lime and it just burned me. I could never get the PH right.
I am most likely 4 days away....so fr is out for me. I think I am in the same boat as you then. CD17 but last cycle I Oed on CD21 according to FF. My DH has not released since Saturday, so really not sure if he should keep abstaining or not and then try for O+12 or whatever. Was thinking about a 3 day cut off which would make our attempt tonight I think and then go for the O+12 once I do O, but I used the RePhresh last night and my CM is just the RePhresh right now. I figure keeping my PH 4.5 for the next 3 days is a good thing and a cutoff would work, but now I am thinking I was supposed to use RePhresh 3 days earlier than I did? I just don't know. Do I do the cut off now using the RePhresh?
I was thinking of waiting until tomorrow to dtd as today might be too far out...but what if i o early???? Last month I relied on my CBE monitor cause I did not think I needed to use OPKs, but apparently you are, and this am I got what I think is +OPK? I will post a pic if I can figure out how to do it on this post.
We have definitely abstained.....nothing much since last time we tried to conceive, I am worried leaving it this long is a bad idea at our age. I had been given the advice of DTD on +OPK day, O, O+12, and so on because of our ages, so I really don't know what to do????
I am sick right now and I just want to go to sleep!Being sick is supposed to sway girl, so that may work in your favor!
I am using rephresh tonight.....maybe not the whole thing though.,....you? I looked at the thread comparing Replens and RePhresh and decided to use the entire applicator as the thread directed 3 days prior to your attempt and then you are supposed to use 1/2 applicator 12 hr after attempt, so that is what I did last night before I went to bed. Never used it before and this morning I had this clear stuff, which was the RePhresh on my toilet paper. I guess the checking CM from now on is out of the question LOL?
You have 4 boys...do you know how you conceived them? With the first two boys, I know that I never JAD at all I just went to sleep after and my DH likes the AM better than the PM, so AM boys for sure. Would you try something different? Well no AM DTD for sure, so PM DTD. I am thinking of JAD, but since we are older, I wonder if his sperm count is low already? Part of me just want to just start DTD now and continue throughout O, but use the RePhresh as I already have to keep PH low. If I do that, I think the 3days DH has abstained we should or should not use that sperm? Release it, then do multiple attempts through O? Age is a positive for us right! From what I hear yes being older sways girls and my youngest son is 3, so I am hoping 3 years is long enough to get us a girl. I mean having 4 boys, the odds should be in my favor right LOL!!!
I also have a thyroid problem and I am on medicine for it. Do you still have your thyroid? Mine was removed and I have been on Synthroid since 2003 at 175mcg. Have you had your levels checked lately?
For my two boys I did abstain and 1-2 day one time attempt I think trying the opposite could definitely help, but knowing what to do is the problem LOL.
and the other was every other day on clomid as I had PCOS. I have heard Clomid sways girls, but you had a boy, huh, interesting.
So, I might have to work harder to get pregnant...not sure! It should really not be this hard LOL!!!!
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Healthy baby girl :)