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March 4th, 2019, 10:29 PM
#21
Dreamer
Originally Posted by
dreamofdaughter
My levels only went up 200 in 48hrs. I think it’s a MMC.
I'm sorry to hear that <3
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March 4th, 2019, 11:24 PM
#22
Originally Posted by
dreamofdaughter
My levels only went up 200 in 48hrs. I think it’s a MMC.
I’m so sorry. I just lost a baby at 6 weeks in know the pain.
Please know you did NOT cause this - by your husband abstaining or anything else.
Hugs and prayers to you.
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March 5th, 2019, 12:17 AM
#23
Originally Posted by
barrebabe
I’m so sorry. I just lost a baby at 6 weeks in know the pain.
Please know you did NOT cause this - by your husband abstaining or anything else.
Hugs and prayers to you.
Thank you both.
barrebabe I’m so sorry for your loss. sending hugs and prayers back to you!
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March 5th, 2019, 01:35 AM
#24
Originally Posted by
dreamofdaughter
My levels only went up 200 in 48hrs. I think it’s a MMC.
I’m so sorry to hear that xx
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March 5th, 2019, 12:46 PM
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Oh no I'm so so very sorry to hear that, Dream. Please let me know how I can help.
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March 5th, 2019, 09:18 PM
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Thank you Hopeful. You’ve been such a great support since I joined the site. ❤️
Thank you atomic. What can I do to kickstart the miscarry? The spotting was just that one time in toilet paper on Monday morning. Then it stopped completely. No sign of it starting up, sadly. I desperately don’t want to use the pills since it means I can’t try again right away I have to wait for first period. And I definitely don’t want a d&c.
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March 6th, 2019, 02:24 AM
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Am so sorry , i have had a mc too and know upsetting it is sending a big hug 💞
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March 6th, 2019, 06:59 PM
#28
Atomic, the clinic my dr is sending me to won’t see me until next week to confirm loss via u/s they said even with bad hcg they can’t confirm it and they want to give it time to catch up. It was measuring 6w, 2d. I feel like this is false hope.
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March 7th, 2019, 08:29 PM
#29
Swaying Advice Coach
Originally Posted by
dreamofdaughter
Thank you Hopeful. You’ve been such a great support since I joined the site. ❤️
Thank you atomic. What can I do to kickstart the miscarry? The spotting was just that one time in toilet paper on Monday morning. Then it stopped completely. No sign of it starting up, sadly. I desperately don’t want to use the pills since it means I can’t try again right away I have to wait for first period. And I definitely don’t want a d&c.
What I would do is, and I"m sure this is the last thing on your mind right now, is an orgasm. Don't have sex (it might end up with infection) but an O for you will often get things moving.
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March 7th, 2019, 08:32 PM
#30
Swaying Advice Coach
Originally Posted by
dreamofdaughter
Atomic, the clinic my dr is sending me to won’t see me until next week to confirm loss via u/s they said even with bad hcg they can’t confirm it and they want to give it time to catch up. It was measuring 6w, 2d. I feel like this is false hope.
I know it sounds like false hope but quite a few people have seemed to have bad news, only to have it turn around. I honestly prefer them doing it this way than what they did only a few years ago, which was rush people to have interventions done and end up ending healthy pregnancies. They can make mistakes, and while the more data points we have, the less likely that is (so with both the ultrasound and the HCG, those are not good signs) they're actually trying to do right by you and not inadvertently end a pregnancy that actually is developing on its own timeline.
another thing we can try is a spicy meal. Don't get carried away with this, just something that's hot and/or garlicky can sometimes help get the blood moving and in a normal pregnancy, would not cause harm.
Atomic, this may sound crazy but I’ve been reading about moon phases… I have a ‘red moon cycle’ currently which I didn’t used to have. Meaning my period is coinciding with the full moon. From...
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