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    Help me Atomic!!

    Dear Atomic

    I am so unsettled because I am not sure that I understand you correctly. I really want a girl.

    1st variant:
    0-1 (previously 7 days of emptying)

    2nd variant:
    0-2 (previously 5 days abstaining)

    Which variant do you recommend to me?

    My boy was conceived on 0-1 or 0 (previously 3 times BD)

    We have already practiced 0-3 / 0-2 but did not work ... I would be so grateful to you for an answer, I simply do not know how to do it because I did not fully understand an important post from you.

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    Either O-1 or O-2 with 7 days of emptying OR 7 days of abstaining is correct. The difference is in the husband's age.

    You can pick either O-1 or O-2, whichever you prefer. Since you have tried with O-2, I would try O-1 now.

    If your husband is over 35 years of age then do the 7 days of emptying. If he is younger than 35 do the abstaining.
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    Another Question

    Thank you very much for your answer. I am very grateful.

    Another question, I only take folic acid and magnesium (200-300 mg) to fluctuate pink. Can I take magnesium or do I not recommend it?

    This is my last question :-) Thank you for your time !!!

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    Thank you very much for your answer. I am very grateful.

    Another question, I only take folic acid and magnesium (200-300 mg) to fluctuate pink. Can I take magnesium or do I not recommend it?

    This is my last question :-) Thank you for your time !!!

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    Thank you very much for your answer. I am very grateful.

    Another question, I only take folic acid and magnesium (200-300 mg) to fluctuate pink. Can I take magnesium or do I not recommend it?

    This is my last question :-) Thank you for your time !!!

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    You are supposed to take calcium and magnesium if you are using the mineral diet.

    Personally, I don't think either of them actually work, and I do not recommend you take the magnesium OR calcium.
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    Dear Atomic

    I'm sorry to bother you again. But I'm so unsure. Unfortunately, it didn't work again this month (sex 0-2).
    On 0-2 I got the fallopian tubes flushed out by the gynecologist (at noon) and had sex in the evenings.

    Which worries me a lot. They say if man is over 36 then sex is every day. However, my gynecologist said that the likelihood of pregnancy is highest if the man abstains as long as possible beforehand.

    My second problem is that I am convinced of the theory on ES like boys before ES like girls.

    I just don't dare to go 0-1 with daily sex.

    Don't you also think that sex 0-2 with 7 days of emptying gives higher conception than 0-2 with daily emptying (according to my gynecologist)?


    Thanks again for your answer. You are so great and I am glad to have found you.

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    I think we may be having some confusion on "emptying." I thought you meant having your husband ejaculating??

    Your gynecologist is wrong - abstaining for more than 7 days actually makes some of the sperm start to die, otherwise he would explode if he kept making more and more sperm.

    I am not telling you to do daily sex. You need to have only ONE unprotected attempt. DO NOT DO DAILY SEX FOR PINK! You either have sex using protection like condoms, or your husband ejaculates on his own. But have only one unprotected attempt for a girl. If you feel you must do that attempt O-2 that is up to you.

    Both daily emptying and abstaining cut odds of conception by a lot.
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    All right, now I understand everything.

    Another curious question. Do you have better experiences with:

    7 days abstention and then one try or

    daily emptying and then ONE attempt?

    Thanks a lot :-)

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    We have gotten about the same results over time. Right now I think abstain has slightly better results, but in the past daily release has. Since both of them are much less successful than the site as a whole, I suspect that neither of them works.
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