What gender was your rainbow baby?

[MamaLuv]

I was hoping for some encouragement. I just lost my baby last week and I'm soooo sad! Had a D&C. I don't even know when to ttc girl again. I'm afraid...

[Mrs_Incredible]

Sorry for your losses ladies. I'm 38, had a blighted ovum in feb at 6 weeks natural mc. I had been very ill during the pg that resulted in mc, as in felt yuck and couldn't really eat much almost from conception. I (thankfully) stuck to one attempt at +opk and by some miracle caught the first egg. My dc4 is our longed for dd due in November confirmed by harmony and 4 scans. I firmly believe the mc and one attempt swayed for me, helped by the lack of appetite during my lost pg, which for me was the closest i got to le. I was hopeless at the diet. But should mention the week before attempt my appetite returned and i ate normally most of that week. Good luck xx