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Thread: Lost my little one...
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September 11th, 2014, 03:37 PM #1
Lost my little one...
Found out that my baby's heart stopped at 6 weeks but didn't know until I was 11. Had a D&C. I'm soooooo sooo sad. I swayed pink. I don't know what to do. Part of me wants to try again soon but I'm afraid and I was eating whatever I wanted to during the pregnancy (including meat). I feel like I'm rambling but I needed somewhere to get it out to people who understand and don't think I'm crazy.
Happily Married
Mommy of 3 ACTIVE boys
Lost my dear unborn baby August 2014, gender unconfirmed.
STILL for my
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September 11th, 2014, 04:05 PM #2
I'm praying for you. I was so Excited about your baby and can't wait to meet him or her in heaven. I hope you do try again.
praying and swaying
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September 11th, 2014, 04:07 PM #3
So sad to read this. Time helps the helping process as well as surrounding yourself with the people you love. Thinking of you xxxx
5 yrs 20 months. Hoping for
Cycle 1 - HRC August 2013 - Long Lupron protocol - poor response, cycle cancelled
Cycle 1.5 - HRC October 2013 - Microdose Lupron protocol - 15 eggs, 10 mature, 9 fertilised, 8 to day 5 All abnormal No transfer
Cycle 2 - HRC January 2014 - 13 eggs, 8 mature, 8 fertilised, 6 to day 5, 4XX, 2XY - 4 abnormal BUT... 2 normal XX
FET 1 - HRC May 2014 - BFN
FET 2 - HRC August 2014 - BFP!!!
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September 11th, 2014, 04:11 PM #4
I'm so so sorry! Definitely do what feels best, I've been reassured from the lovely ladies that m/c sways so I would try again when you feel emotionally ready rather than stressing about being off diet while pg. Hugs!
DS1 (2012)
Due 7/13/2015 ! Swayed pink and I am blessed to be with and (TWINS!)!
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September 11th, 2014, 05:09 PM #5
So sorry mama. I had a very similar experience. It is so heartbreaking. I do hope you try again. For me I feel I wont heal until I have a baby in my arms but I'm scared that I will have more losses. Very tough situation. Get some rest and keep in touch. Big hugs to you.
DS 1 2008
DS 2 2010
DS 3 2013
May 2014 at 5 weeks
August 2014 at 12 weeks
DD1 our beautiful rainbow baby joined us october 2015. No sway...just miracles.
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September 11th, 2014, 09:57 PM #6
So sorry mama heartbreaking. You know what is best for you but lots of ladies have conceived quickly after miscarriage Xx
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September 12th, 2014, 02:14 AM #7Dream Vet
How heartbreaking MamaLuv. The loss of a baby is something that's all too common but something no mum should have to go through, whether it's 6weeks, 36weeks into a pregnancy or after birth or later, either way it's the loss of a child and it hurts.
After my loss in April, it was hard to try again and I was worried about being off the diet etc but m/c also sways pink. I got pregnant with our twins the second cycle after the loss and so far they are happy and healthy!
Sending you love and prayers xxMum of 9 boys & my stillborn angel daughter, Shaylah Anne 20/02/2015
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September 12th, 2014, 02:29 AM #8
I'm so sorry for your loss.
If you feel ready to try again then do everything you did to sway and + it is believed that m/c sway pink. If you don't feel ready, take as much time as you need.
I would like to tell you what my OB told me when I had my m/c "a great amount of pregnancies are rejected by our body because it knows something is wrong".
I don't know if it gives you comfort, but it helped me to deal with my loss.
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September 12th, 2014, 02:47 AM #9
Sorry to hear of your loss MamaLuv sending love and healing your way.
'01 model (my baby girl forever 5mths '02 model)
'05 model '10 model '15 model
My gender dreaming success arrived safe July 2015. He is a complete dream come true and an absolutely beautiful little boy.
A huge thank you to Atomic for all her encouragement when I was up against things out of my control and ready to chuck it in. I can never thank you enough. Thank you also to all the other knowledgeable and ever supportive ladies that have helped and encouraged me. I truly believe my dream would not have come true without this site, my boy gender plan and the incredible love and support.
http://genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-conceive-boy/27056-he-diet-faq.html
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September 12th, 2014, 11:28 AM #10
Thanks ladies. This is the hardest thing I've ever endured. It hurts knowing I'll never know my baby. I think about him or her everyday. :-(
Happily Married
Mommy of 3 ACTIVE boys
Lost my dear unborn baby August 2014, gender unconfirmed.
STILL for my
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