Help and Input please!

[atomic sagebrush]

Remember, both exercise and diet sway on their own, you don't necessarily need to do both.

Exercise + Clomid is still a good pink sway even without diet.

[tm29]

Listen to Atomic, I'm a terrible influence!!

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You're not! You're sweet. But sadly it does seem like I need to sit it out. Ugh. It's really hard. I did a very careful sway last time, too. But there is no point in thinking that way. Got to fight!

[tm29]

I wish you all the best of luck junie and tarasue with sway number 2. It sounds like the way the body is after mc is really pink friendly. I really hope you all get your little girls.

fx I can regain what I lost in the next 8 weeks or so and then try for my little boy.

[tarasue]

Let your body heal, then get at it
Sending all my blue baby dust your way!!!

[girliedreamz]

Big hugs! I know that guilty feeling. After two back-to-back losses, I was questioning everything I did, wondering if something had caused the mc. The truth is, it's likely something that I had no control over at all.

I second the advice of folate. On the off chance your body isn't absorbing folic acid well, this is an easy change that *could* make a lot of difference.

[atomic sagebrush]

I wish you all the best of luck junie and tarasue with sway number 2. It sounds like the way the body is after mc is really pink friendly. I really hope you all get your little girls.

fx I can regain what I lost in the next 8 weeks or so and then try for my little boy.

Remember though, the numbers in our stats were people who were SWAYING pink, not just the random number across the population (let alone swaying blue!) Even though I do want you to wait as per our prev. conversations, people DO get boys after losses, it's in no way a magic bullet.

[Junie]

I can't speak for others but I can also say that my 12 weeks of pregnancy were basically a pink sway as I felt so sick that I was barely able to eat anything and only took folic acid (my Dr. thinks the pregnancy multivitamins are unnecessary) who knows when I get pregnant and what I will have but I could imagine morning sickness being one reason for the higher pink statistics.

I bet the wait will be great for your body. I hope you are able to keep yourself distracted and then you get to sway for a cute winter boy

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[tm29]

Thanks Junie. Here's hoping 2015 is your year - and mine. I don't have time on my side! Why didn't I find the right guy earlier?!! I now suddenly want 3 kids and I am going to need a lot of luck to pull that off. Still not feeling all that lucky after what happened.

A 'cute winter boy' like you say would be my DREAM COME TRUE. Tiny winter girl in mittens and a pink woolly hat for you. (It is true the girly clothes are a lot of fun You'll be wasting all your money soon enough, I'm sure)

[Junie]

Don't worry boy moms love to obsess and plan so you have that on your side In the end I think we have to remember that a few months give or take won't make a difference in the grand scheme of things. You have the right guy and that makes raising the kids so much more enjoyable. I'm sure it will all work out for you.
I don't know how old you are but a friend of mine had her boys at 38 and 40 (she didn't sway but is pretty much the text book boy mom). So there is no reason to think that time has run out

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[atomic sagebrush]

^^^ agree TM and I have thought before you are more a "boy mom" in approach.