Why!!

[djmommy]

Seriously!! I know that I am not pregnant this cycle. My temps are lower than they have ever been, I have had cramping yesterday and just don't feel like I am. I am either 10 or 12 dpo today as my chart is so unclear BUT...I continue to still have hope only to be heartbroken again!! This is just sooo darn hard!! I wish that there were some type of magic pill I could take that would help but I know that I just have to continue to keep trying as my age and my hormones are all against me. Anyone else in my boat want to chime in and give me some encouragement as there are times I think it will never happen and I am so sad. We have been TTC for about 15 cycles.

[XXforhubby]

Are you having any spotting that makes you feel AF is coming? You may not be out yet. I had cramping at 9DPO and was worried I would have a short LP but got a BFP instead!

I know how much it sucks honey! It is a horrible feeling to not know how long it will take and keep getting hopes up. Please don't lose hope- it's all we've got! I think when we have fertility issues, it can take awhile to turn things around. I know it will happen for you, and you are in my prayers!


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[djmommy]

YUP!! I guess my walk brought it out! SO either I have a 10 or 12 day LP this cycle. I am have 2 cheat days! Already had chocolate!! Although I do eat a piece of milk choc everyday, I am not limiting myself today! Thanks for your prayers XX!! You know what they mean to me!

[atomic sagebrush]

Aw DJ, I'm sorry.

I have already said everything so I will just add on (((((hugs)))))

[djmommy]

Thank you Atomic!! I appreciate everything!

[Junie]

Hugs to you. I've only been at this 5 months since the miscarriage and am already frustrated so I can only imagine how you must be feeling. Just yesterday I read a FB post from a woman who got pregnant after 20 months after not changing anything so just remember it taking longer doesn't mean you don't have a chance!! I hope next cycle is your cycle.

[djmommy]

Thanks so much Junie! I am truly sorry for your loss! I know how hard that is as well! I know you will get your beautiful baby soon! Good things do come to those who wait!! XXOO

[maidentomother]

Big hugs, I can't believe it's been over 3 years since my miscarriage and I still haven't been able to conceive again. It seems like it will never happen for me so I know how you feel. Though I hate waiting longer I just need a break thus why I'm not TTC for a while; I know you don't have that luxury, but maybe even one month of not trying (don't prevent but no OPKing, charting, or timed BD) would help? I took a break last Summer after 4 failed cycles full on, actively TTC and it did help. I felt more hopeful and renewed after, like it was a fresh start.

[kitkat18]

I'm so sorry DJ big hugs to you! I'm with Maiden maybe take a little break from this forum, pressure to TTC and relax the diet just for 1-2months, start enjoying life again!! I know its nowhere as hard as 15 cycles but I conceived DD after 6 cycles (just after having a break for the last 2 as DH ruptured his appendix! ) anyway it did me so much good to just concentrate on him and not worry/obsess about everything little thing I put in my mouth or when I was ovulating. Sending you positive sticky vibes Xxxxx

[djmommy]

Big hugs, I can't believe it's been over 3 years since my miscarriage and I still haven't been able to conceive again. It seems like it will never happen for me so I know how you feel. Though I hate waiting longer I just need a break thus why I'm not TTC for a while; I know you don't have that luxury, but maybe even one month of not trying (don't prevent but no OPKing, charting, or timed BD) would help? I took a break last Summer after 4 failed cycles full on, actively TTC and it did help. I felt more hopeful and renewed after, like it was a fresh start.

Thanks Maiden! I didn't know you have been TTC for so long. I know it will definitely happen for you soon, especially since your hormone levels all came out good for the most part. I think you need to find the right "donor"!!