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December 29th, 2018, 10:08 AM
#11
Dream Vet
Originally Posted by
atomic sagebrush
Even under ideal circumstances only about 20% of the time do you end up pregnant, even with perfect attempts.
Let's cut the Preseed by 1/2 just in case it actually had a negative effect.
Are you doing every 4 days (in the 72 hour pattern) even out of the fertile window/?? If not, do. It may help boost your fertility and more importantly will cover you in case you aren't Oing when you think you are (or that happens in future months)
Yes we are doing every 4days anyways...that’s what dh is capable of. Ok i will just wait and see what happens and will use lese preseed. Thank you !
DS1 2010
DS2 2012
DS3 January 2020 - endometriosis - DH low motility
Due Date 23.08.2021
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December 29th, 2018, 01:58 PM
#12
Swaying Advice Coach
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February 8th, 2019, 04:48 AM
#13
Dream Vet
Another slap in the face...turns out that DH s sperm count is very bad...if the endo wasn’t enough pfff I heard it yesterday from my fertility doctor and I am so devastated....(who a :3, b:37, c:14,d:46) they told me “a” must be at least 15. And that it will probably would be ICSI so if it’s not getting improved after the vitamins he has to take.
Last week I had an ultrasound turns out that my left ovary is damaged from the laparoscopy and it doesn’t make eggs anymore!!! I could scream for regretting the operation !The right is thank god fine, amh is also fine (2.02)
I think swaying girl is doomed for us...maybe I won’t will get a baby at all..
Atomic do you have tips please? Do you think its still possible to sway? Or does Intermittent fasting doesn’t make any sense?
Sorry I’m just overthinking the whole time I just don’t understand how this can happen we conceived two healthy boys in the first month
DS1 2010
DS2 2012
DS3 January 2020 - endometriosis - DH low motility
Due Date 23.08.2021
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February 8th, 2019, 05:29 PM
#14
Swaying Advice Coach
oh no I'm so sorry to hear about your left ovary! That's terrible but I'm so thankful that your right is working.
Intermittent fasting will still help because it can help to make higher quality eggs.
I would focus on doing whatever it takes for DH to make healthy sperm - no swaying on his part.
If they're thinking of doing ICSI can you guys do PGD and then select an XX?
What else did you plan for swaying in the future?
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February 8th, 2019, 06:17 PM
#15
Dream Vet
Originally Posted by
atomic sagebrush
oh no I'm so sorry to hear about your left ovary! That's terrible but I'm so thankful that your right is working.
Intermittent fasting will still help because it can help to make higher quality eggs.
I would focus on doing whatever it takes for DH to make healthy sperm - no swaying on his part.
If they're thinking of doing ICSI can you guys do PGD and then select an XX?
What else did you plan for swaying in the future?
I thought about trying for 1,5 years naturally...in the hope dh s sperm
Gets faster with the supplements. It’s so overwhelming the HT never ever thought we maybe need HT...I need time to accept this all.
We’re living in Germany. I think it’s illegal here to do pgd or not I don’t know it ?
DS1 2010
DS2 2012
DS3 January 2020 - endometriosis - DH low motility
Due Date 23.08.2021
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February 9th, 2019, 02:23 PM
#16
Swaying Advice Coach
Sometimes even in countries it's illegal they're willing to take family balancing into account but I suspect in Germany you're right and they won't do that. Any way to go overseas?
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February 10th, 2019, 08:06 AM
#17
Dream Vet
Originally Posted by
atomic sagebrush
Sometimes even in countries it's illegal they're willing to take family balancing into account but I suspect in Germany you're right and they won't do that. Any way to go overseas?
To Go overseas is a little bit hard because we are bounded the kids have school here. The good thing is that the city were I live has one of the best Fertility clinics in Europe! So it’s practically only a half an hour from my house...
You know I really want a healthy girl but in the moment I think i would be happy too if I get a healthy baby at all. Even it’s a boy. They said with this motility it’s even not enough for IVF... DH lives healthy never smoked. I just wanna go in a corner and cry. Do you recommend other vitamin es that are good for motility?
DS1 2010
DS2 2012
DS3 January 2020 - endometriosis - DH low motility
Due Date 23.08.2021
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February 10th, 2019, 01:39 PM
#18
Swaying Advice Coach
I'm confused - how can they suggest ICSI without IVF? You have to do IVF to do ICSI.
if you have time can you tell me everything he's taking?
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February 17th, 2019, 05:35 PM
#19
Dream Vet
I mean they suggested icsi because of his sperm is too slow.
In the moment he is taking wellmann conception one a day, vit D10.000 & Vitamine C 1000. And some raw honey with fertility herbs.
When in was swaying he didn’t sway with me at all. I think this is al because of the Opiats he did take after his surgery.
DS1 2010
DS2 2012
DS3 January 2020 - endometriosis - DH low motility
Due Date 23.08.2021
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February 18th, 2019, 12:57 PM
#20
Swaying Advice Coach
I understand, but first they told you it had to be ICSI but then said you couldn't do IVF? Was there another sperm test done after they told you ICSI? So then they changed their minds and said you couldn't do IVF?
I do not like the Wellmans. Can you find a different kind that doesn't have the herbs and such high doses of B vitamins in them? I think Wellmans causes more problems than it solves so I'd suggest having him wean off that and onto another fertility vitamin.
What "fertility herbs"? Many herbs are really actually BAD even though the people who sell them say they work.
Hello, Atomic hopefully you will see this! It has definitely been a while. I am not TTC, my cycles have been MIA for over a year, I'm quite certain. I have not been charting but haven't had it....
Not sure where to ask not TTC