i paid to find out the gender and got crappy shots! Is this really...

[byebeautiful]

i have 3 boys and yesterday we had an ultrasound, baby was not cooperative at all!!! was curling in a ball, then had its ankles crossed. We got a few quick glimpses between the legs and she said it was a girl. But looking at these pics i am ify about it! Does this look like a girl to you?







The first one you cant even see 3 lines. The 2nd one she said those 3 dots are the labia. I thought id just see 3 lines, im so confused. I really have no idea what im looking for or at when it comes to a girl scan lol.

[Angelone]

Looks kinda girlie to me... I I'm no expert but no sign of anything else lol x

[Violet_]

I think that's a girl. Pretty sure you'd see scrotum and/or penis if it where a boy. Do you have another ultrasound coming up again soon?

[byebeautiful]

yep i have one at 20 weeks. I am just so upset that i paid all that money and didnt get any clear gender shots I went just to find out the gender and left not feeling confident. Although she seemed confident, but i have 3 boys, never seen a girl ultrasound so i dont even know what im suppose to be looking for other than 3 lines lol

[Violet_]

Hope you don't have too long to wait until your 20 week scan. I know how you feel, except I didn't pay, I had a medical reason for needing an ultrasound at 15 weeks, and tech thought it was a girl. But I'm not sure either. I also have three boys. So now I'm holding out for my 20 week ultrasound, which is now three days away! Scary. I'm not really sure what to expect when I go in there. Hope it's a girl as I have kind of got my hopes up now.

[nuthinbutpink]

Looks like a girl to me.

[byebeautiful]

Thanks ladies! I will be 17 weeks tomorrow, so i still have a few weeks to go until i have my anatomy scan, and i am seriously debating about paying again and going somewhere better, lol. Isnt that crazy? I cant wait now! lol. I hope you get your girl!

[Cinss]

I agree you got crappy shots, but it does look like a girl to me.

[WantingPink]

I am sorry. I just had a 15 week private scan and I understand where you are coming from. I did get some great shots however, if I didn't then I would have been unhappy also. I can't really make out much from your scan other than I don't see any boy parts. I am like you though I wanted to see the girl parts not just lack of boy parts. Maybe lovemy4 will chime in??

[Violet_]

I can totally understand how hard it is to wait and needing to KNOW. If we were in a better financial position then I would have paid to get confirmation earlier. If you can then I don't see why not. The stress and anxiety caused by not knowing is very hard to live with day and night for weeks on end. You want to get your hopes up but then have to keep pulling yourself back from getting excited just in case. It's a really hard place to be.