April/May/June 14 swayers...

[Boysway]

Mumofsix, I'm glad I'm not the only one. I hope we get our DG this cycle.


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[stephk]

you guys are not alone, I am so fed up of this TTC business. My DH had a massive go at me when he got home last night about my diet and the amount of time I spend in the gym. He was just letting off steam after a stressful day but he doesnt realise how much his blaming me for not being PG upsets me. He makes horrible throwaway comments and then forgets but then I spend ages afterwards thinking about the conversation and defending myself in my head, I hate him for it because he knows I am trying to avoid confrontation!!

[Boysway]

Huge hugs steph xxx

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[Rosie85]

So sorry steph. Men don't realize how much words eat away at us ladies! I really hope this is your month, you really deserve it to be.

I am feeling blah about ttc as well. My Dh had it out with me a little last night too. I keep going on to him about how the baby was a girl and that was my only chance and it's gone. He told me to get my butt to the gym and work for it. So I did. I have to stop thinking negatively but it's hard. I'm honestly terrified of having another miscarriage.

[stephk]

Rosie I am sure the reasons for the mc were nothing to do with exercise or swaying. It was probably something out of your control. I know it doesn't make things any easier for you but I really don't think at that early stage there's anything you can do. You don't even share a blood supply for the first 6 weeks. Sorry to hear your DH isn't as sympathetic as he should be x

[Rosie85]

I hope so steph! I just read on here about the increased rates of miscarriage due to swaying and it made me uneasy and unsure if I even wanted to sway anymore.

My Dh has been super sympathetic buy he doesn't like when I get in my Debbie downer mode and he was trying to shake me out of it. Sometimes I just need to be a Debbie downer though...it's my way of grieving I guess.

[daisymoo]

Men!!!! My god sometimes they haven't a clue what's going on do they! Steph I don't know how you held back last night Fair play to you! Ttc is so stressful I don't think men have any idea how stressful it is Bet he'll make it up to you later (he better!!)

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[Boysway]

Awww Rosie Huge hugs. I agree with steph. But, yes it does help to have a big cry every once in a while xx

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[stephk]

Oh yes Boysway I love a good cry too!! Rosie I don't know why these men don't just get it that there are times that we genuinely NEED to be Debbie!! Can they just leave us to it or be sympathetic and we will get over it quicker!!!

I confronted DH tonight because last nights comments were still p1ssing me off and it took him ages to acknowledge that he knows sod all about food, nutrition, women's hormones etc so why he has to opine on these bloody things!!! I don't tell him how to play cricket or how to be an engineer!!! I really feel he has ruined everything by making me stew mentally on this and then make stupid comments. Then finally he says oh but I didn't mean it I was just stressed what's your problem!!!

[Rosie85]

ugh!! Men are frustrating! I am glad you confronted your Dh Steph. Of course they never mean what they say...I don't know how many times I have heard that one! I hope you can relax a little more now that you got it off your chest. That is why we ladies have each other! To vent!