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November 9th, 2018, 10:18 AM
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i think my surge is short too, i only get a positive on the clearblue digi for 1 day not 2 like it says on the box, i had an almost positive opk around 9pm on CD 13 and then it was positive with fmu on cd 14 so i guess the surge started sometime during the night?
thinking back my DD2 was conceived with 1 attempt the day before positive opk, funnily enough attempt on the day of positive opk has never worked for me, in previous sways or this time so maybe day before is better for me..i hope so!!
so cute its hard work when they get moving isnt it!! and i feel you on the siblings leaving stuff everywhere that happens here too
are you guys still planning to ttc around this time next year?
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November 9th, 2018, 07:37 PM
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Eek, FX!!! Maybe there is something to it sounds like your surge comes and goes out of your system pretty quickly so O isn’t far behind
I used the advanced CB monitor 3 days only- on CD 10 low fertility, next day high, and cd12 peak...BD on all those days got me Sofia
I think you have a great chance so here’s to good news in what, 10 days ish now?
Since I have trouble getting into gear, am so not blue friendly right now lol haven’t been since S arrived really...so need to get that going sigh
But as for ttc, I am still undecided...will depend on when I manage to wean bub of the boob too. How I feel work is going.
Plus, DH and his desire/ok for #4. Add to that the fact that I’d like to’ avoid being suuuuper big in summer (so falling pregnant in March-June best avoided), and ttc being better in summer or shortly after (sun exposure = vit D= blue!)...will have to do up my decision making excel lol
Buuuuut I think yes, from September onwards next year could be open to it. Both #2&3 were conceived with their siblings being 17/21 m.o so a 26/30 months gap- maybe leaving it longer could be good for blue, but am getting older too ( I turn 34 in Feb..so would at least be 35.5 y.o at delivery if we conceive straight away, in 12 months’ time) so not sure. See how many things I factor in, gah, hate it, I drive myself nuts haha - and wish I could just let go and say yup, will stop avoiding pregnancy from xx and see what happens..would be so much nicer lol
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November 10th, 2018, 08:57 AM
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November 14th, 2018, 04:19 AM
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Dream Vet
I wish I could let go, and just not plan, but that is soooo against my nature. Hubs calls me control freak lol I like knowing what I am doing and when....including babymaking :P
Self imposed stress (being competitive, setting yourself a challenge, etc) is good for blue whereas stress from external factors seems to sways pink..I think? I.e too much can be bad for’ fertility too, though.
I think personally, I will need to work on not stressing about external stuff but focus my energy on being super driven and use that to achieve a goal, including the ttc..iykwim? I.e not worn down and unwell from anxiety but motivated but self imposed challenges ..hope that works FX
An just a wee but counting down days for you, lovely..can’t wait to see if this is THE cycle. FX! When will you test?
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November 17th, 2018, 06:14 AM
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November 17th, 2018, 09:55 AM
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Originally Posted by
4blue2pink
That sounds like a good plan
dont stress over things you cant control just focus on your blue sway project.
Thankyou
i tested today (12dpo) and got bfp
so so happy
it looks like having our attempt the day before positive opk is what works for us.
Congratulations!!!! That's fantastic news!!! So you're due July/August?
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November 17th, 2018, 04:01 PM
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November 19th, 2018, 03:23 PM
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OMG, that is awesome news..woohoo!!!! Congrats
So happy for you, so exciting !DD1 was born in July..though here it’s the middle of winter then hehe
Might be a sign for a little girl, if your angel daughter was the only other child due in summer..maybe she wants to help “fill that gap” ,as you say
Team green this time too? (You’re going to make it hard for me, not knowing , just sayin’ lol)
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November 19th, 2018, 04:03 PM
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November 19th, 2018, 08:20 PM
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Originally Posted by
4blue2pink
That sounds like a good plan
dont stress over things you cant control just focus on your blue sway project.
Thankyou
i tested today (12dpo) and got bfp
so so happy
it looks like having our attempt the day before positive opk is what works for us.
Congratulations!!!! Just stumbled across this in a quick drop in! So happy for you!
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