Dreaming Pink Due Date Group: TTC and Beyond #2

[bunnywabbit]

Bunnywabbit....how are you feeling? I "might" have read in another thread that you are not experiencing the wide range of symptoms....lol, I had the least m/s with my oldest...most with the middle and a decent amount this time around. How is the MIL visit going??

I'm not too bad at all, thank you! No real nausea anymore, only if I eat something I don't really feel for or if I get really hungry. Trying to keep my water intake up but I find if I'm hungry filling up with water makes me nauseous too. Doing my best! Apart from that just slightly sore nipples. DH still thinks girl. My gut instinct says boy though...

MiL's visit is done! Wasn't too bad this time. Decided to tell her (and other immediate family) we were expecting - she was so excited and had a little cry when she saw the early scans. She'd apparently lost a few babies herself so understands. She even eased off with bothering me like she usually does. Oh, she'll be back in January, so she can help sort some storage for the ton of stuff DH and I are having to live with so it's a little easier to plan for baby's stuff. And March. Oh, and June! :( Would have been nice to have a little more rest and 'couple' time to potter about and do what we need to do before baby is due...

I'm so sorry you're ill. I've had varying degree of the same sticking cold since a couple of weeks before I o'd. Driving me nuts! You must be feeling pretty miserable - I hope it clears and you're better soon. Would manuka honey and paracetamol help? Maybe throw in there the odd pro-biotic/live yoghurt or yoghurt drink.

[bunnywabbit]

I think we need more pics on our thread, I want to know you all better! So here's my bump pics to start us off ;D
17 weeks

Lovely bumps! Your bump at 17 weeks looks like mine at 9 weeks (tomorrow), although mine's not as tidy. Not baby, just put on a load of tummy size. Have given up wearing belts although I still kinda need them - they're so uncomfortable. Feel so bloated!

[bunnywabbit]

Meeks, I totally get this. This is the main reason I'm thinking of staying team green - to be told one thing, then have it changed, then think you see something else would drive me insane. At least with team green it is what it is - no chopping, changing and insanity.

...Give me a few weeks, I'll probably change my mind and want to know!

[I Love Ladybugs]

The headache that accompanied my cold is making me crazy...and grumpy...and braindead! I will try to get a last preggo bump pic, I am thinking that I will have this baby sooner than later.....lol, this is my way to jinx myself into a closer to term baby!!!!

Bunnywabbit.....it is good to connect to MIL, hope that you get some time with your man. I almost can't remember life before kids....and I don't feel bad about that!!! Sorry to go off on a tangent...I love my hubby, but I enjoy this young family life....and the cuddles today are going to my heart and head!!!

Pumpkin...I love your new family pix....what a gorgeous family you will be adding those twinks too!!!!

Sorry for the lack of personals or forgetting people...my head is throbbing.

[I Love Ladybugs]

Yesterday was a prenatal visit....she did check for dilation, but as of right now, it looks as though this baby wants to stay put. I am trying my best to get rid of the sickness before baby arrives :)

[meeks32]

Ladybugs sorry you aren't showing more signs of going soon, I know how much everyone just wants baby out by 36 weeks plus. I remember hoping like mad I would go early both times. Fx for a swift and safe arrival to all those due in December. I just checked and Charlee, Dream and Tree are all due that second week of December so not long at all!

[Tree]

And I'm totally fed up of being in pregnant and all the aches and pains and lack of sleep that go with it!!
Slightly dreading labour though, third tile round you kinda know what's coming...

[Dreamofpink]

Ladybugs sorry you aren't showing more signs of going soon, I know how much everyone just wants baby out by 36 weeks plus. I remember hoping like mad I would go early both times. Fx for a swift and safe arrival to all those due in December. I just checked and Charlee, Dream and Tree are all due that second week of December so not long at all!

I'm actually due 'officially' on the 5th Dec!! I don't agree & by prog/ov/pg test believe I'm due on the 11th but my scans/fundal height etc all say the 5th :hair:

I'm only 11 days away from when the docs start the clock ticking as it were. Urgh! Come on little one!! I really don't mind being pregnant even at this stage as once you've had a preemie at 30 weeks going full-term is soooo much better than being stuck in hospital with a poorly baby that you can't take home. I'm just glad that I'm not due another 2lb-er & am happy to put up with the discomfort for however long it takes. We won't be pregnant forever!

Btw I'm getting some nice strong & fairly regular BH of an evening! It's exciting especially when they force me to practise my breathing. I keep dreaming that I've lost my mucus plug too, even though I haven't. I'm so excited to go into labour & try on my own without having to be delivered of my baby on an operating table - I soooo hope my vbac works this time! :)

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[thehappypixi]

How exciting! Come on da babies!!

I'm soooo wanting this little lady to turn the hell around already! I'm sick of being kicked in the foofy and the bladder, it's most unpleasant :/

[I Love Ladybugs]

For me, I too am ok with the being preggo part.....what is fueling my desire to meet baby is to know that all is fine with the "3%" stat on chromosomal issues...it has been on my mind a lot more since the last trip down to Vancouver and I just want to know that all is well. My hubby teases me that I am not allowed to go into labour on Black Friday or Cyber Monday....that shopaholic wants me to choose a day other than that!!!

We are all so close...and even those like you Meeks/Myrainbowgirl who are due in Feb....not that far now!!!!!!!

[TTCPink]

Sorry I have been missing lately, ladies! I was so sick this past week with a terrible cold. I was miserable and had two days where I did not even get out of bed. Finally feeling better thank goodness! My doctor's office called and said they had to reschedule my first appointment (which includes a scan) and I couldn't get another appt. until December 10th! I am so bummed. I am hoping they call with a cancellation this week because I was hoping to see the heartbeat so that I would feel comfortable telling our family on Thanksgiving Day. I have been spotting a bit here and there but since I spotted with both my boys in the first trimester I am trying not to worry too much. It's hard not to worry though, and I want to have the scan ASAP for peace of mind! I am 7 weeks today.

[TTCPink]

Best wishes all of you who are due this next month with your deliveries!! Wishing you happy and healthy babies!! I hope everyone will be sharing newborn pictures. I will be anxiously awaiting to see news in here! So exciting! :)

[I Love Ladybugs]

TTCpink....that cold is a doozie!! I am still fighting it and I know that you must have felt as awful as I do!!! Too bad about the appt.....I hope that they give you a call tomorrow and get you in sooner!! I know how it is to have all the concerns and spotting and pushed back appts....lots of hugs!!!! I am still so excited for you, Pumpkin and Bunnywabbit!!! It brings me such joy to know that babies are in all of you...and I just want Sunflower to join you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! As in NOW!!!!!!!!

[myrainbowgirl]

Hi ladies,
Holding on just fine over here. Feeling good in general! Overall, people have been great about boy #4...I was really dreading people's comments, but so far there have only been a few truly negative comments. Most people do ask if we're going to keep trying for a girl, and what can I say but yes! :) And what's funny is that almost everyone thinks it's grand! LOL. I had a lady today (with four kids, 2 of each) say, "Oh, I'd have 2 more in a heartbeat if I could convince my husband!" Anyway, makes me feel good about our decision to keep going. :)

Anyway, hope you're all well, and looking forward to seeing pics of sweet babies in the next few weeks!

[GeCon]

Good evening ladies,

Sorry I have been AWOL, but things have been a bit busy. I can't believe I am already almost 33 weeks and I can believe even less that any day now I could come on here and find one of you ladies announcing the arrival of your little bundles.

We went on a hospital tour the other day, it made things feel a lot more real, we have moved countries since the last time I gave birth, so we wanted to get an idea of how things are here. The good news is that they also do the gas and air here now, so I am relieved about that.

Other than that I am just trying to get things organised for the birth. And then of course there is Christmas. :)

Not feeling too bad apart from the fact that I feel constantly tired...

How is everyone else?

[Pumpkin2011]

Pumpkin...I love your new family pix....what a gorgeous family you will be adding those twinks too!!!

Awww that's so sweet thank you ladybug!

I can't believe how soon you'll all have your babies. It feels like I am AGES away from that. Haven't even realized I am pregnant because I am feeling awesome! No nausea only have to pee A LOT (at least 4 times a night) and a little tender breasts that's it. Can't wait for the next scan in 2 weeks I am so scared something might happen. The other night I had a dream I lost one of the babies 😔.

So the first babies will arive next week already?! I bet Charlie is the first one to hold her little one :).

[meeks32]

Awww that's so sweet thank you ladybug!

I can't believe how soon you'll all have your babies. It feels like I am AGES away from that. Haven't even realized I am pregnant because I am feeling awesome! No nausea only have to pee A LOT (at least 4 times a night) and a little tender breasts that's it. Can't wait for the next scan in 2 weeks I am so scared something might happen. The other night I had a dream I lost one of the babies 😔.

So the first babies will arive next week already?! I bet Charlie is the first one to hold her little one :).

I have a feeling those are two girls in there. ;-)

Don't worry I had dreams about loosing baby too because after swaying and ttc so long I think it felt even harder to replace than ever before. It's normal and doesn't mean anything. X

[meeks32]

Good evening ladies,

Sorry I have been AWOL, but things have been a bit busy. I can't believe I am already almost 33 weeks and I can believe even less that any day now I could come on here and find one of you ladies announcing the arrival of your little bundles.

We went on a hospital tour the other day, it made things feel a lot more real, we have moved countries since the last time I gave birth, so we wanted to get an idea of how things are here. The good news is that they also do the gas and air here now, so I am relieved about that.

Other than that I am just trying to get things organised for the birth. And then of course there is Christmas. :)

Not feeling too bad apart from the fact that I feel constantly tired...

How is everyone else?

Welcome back! I know what you mean about being busy and time getting away. Hospital tours are exciting, a great way to make it all feel more real. I had a breastfeeding class last week and that did the same (I only managed to feed ds1 for 4 months and ds2 for 2, so wanted to refresh and give myself my best shot at going as long as possible with this one). Seeing a few mum's lately with new babies has helped bring it all home for me.

I feel like sometimes at the moment I think oh I have heaps of time BUT with Christmas and new year in between, 4th Feb isn't really so far away! I don't even have my cot back yet, which I lent to a friend. I get it back soon but am only just now starting to feel like I need everything prepared in the baby's room because I am so busy between now and delivery with working 3 days (at this stage it looks like I will be working up until 1 week before my c-section) and the holiday season.

However I do tend to get a crazy level of nesting which I can feel coming on, so I think I have plenty of time to get things organised if I spend a few mad nights of frenzied organising and rearranging.

[Pumpkin2011]

Thanks Meeks you girls are awesome! Don't know what I would do without your support. Can't talk to anybody IRL about the fears and joys of pregnancy so it means the world to me that you girls are here. Hopefully I'll feel better once I am in the second Tri but it freaks me out that I have so little symptoms.

[bunnywabbit]

Hi all! I can't believe a few of you are officially at full term. GO BABIES, GO! Can't believe I'm a quarter of the way through the pregnancy already. I just don't really feel pregnant at all for the most part. Scan in just under 4 weeks, just hoping all is well in there... I really could sleep for Britain - got the usual fatigue from rheumatoid arthritis plus more tired from pregnancy and now dealing with insomnia to top it off. Yaaaaayzzz... :sleeping:

I Love Ladybugs, it's so warm and cosy in there - I don't blame LO for not wanting to move, nor would I!

Gecon, I'm glad you feel settled with the hospital arrangements - must be a huge weight off your mind. So just a waiting game now. Hoping all goes well!

Pumpkin, one of each would be lovely, but 2 girls would be fantastic! So surprised your sickness has stopped - well done, you! I'm not too bad with the constant peeing, thankfully, although it feels like something inside has changed shape or moved - up until last week it was almost like I had a sponge or something in there, I had tons of warning as to when I had to go and if needed I could hold on for a quite a while and my bladder would form a neat bump in there. As of this week, shorter warning and I don't have my 'bladder bump' anymore.

[3boys]

Hi girls, thought I would just pop on and say a quick hi. I stopped coming on here as it was making my GD really bad but I'm pleased to say at 35 weeks and 5 days I feel nothing but excitement for my new little man! Hope you are all well. Xxx

[Pumpkin2011]

3boys I was thinking of you a lot lately wondering how you are doing. Great to hear you are getting excited and I bet you'll be in love as soon as you lay eyes on him ;).

[I Love Ladybugs]

Hi girls, thought I would just pop on and say a quick hi. I stopped coming on here as it was making my GD really bad but I'm pleased to say at 35 weeks and 5 days I feel nothing but excitement for my new little man! Hope you are all well. Xxx

I was reading through the old Dec/Jan./Feb. thread the other day just to recall my emotions earlier in this pregnancy and you were on my mind!!!! I am thrilled to hear that you are so excited about your new little man!!!! Bring on the home stretch of pregnancy!!!!!

[myrainbowgirl]

Hi girls, thought I would just pop on and say a quick hi. I stopped coming on here as it was making my GD really bad but I'm pleased to say at 35 weeks and 5 days I feel nothing but excitement for my new little man! Hope you are all well. Xxx

I totally hear you, 3boys. I am getting there, too...glad to hear about your excitement! Please keep us posted of his arrival!

[TTCPink]

Nice to hear from you, 3 boys! Your sweet little one will be here so soon. So glad to hear you are in such a good place right now.

We told the boys about the baby this morning. My youngest (age 6) was so happy that he actually had real tears in his eyes. He was so excited to find out he is going to be a big brother! My oldest (age 8) did not have a lot to say. I think he is still letting it sink in.

We also told our family today. Upon our announcement, my sister in law announced that she is also pregnant, due the day before me! And my other SIL is having a baby in April. So, my husband and his two brothers are all expecting babies between April-July! It's exciting!

On another note, I overheard my mother-in-law tell everyone when I was not in the room that she KNOWS I will have another boy. UGH!! How annoying!! She is a mom of three boys, and I can't help but feel that she hopes I have another boy so that I don't get what she never had. UGH. It especially annoys me because I have been in such a good place about gender lately and just so grateful to be pregnant, and now I want more than ever to find out it's a girl to prove her wrong! I guess I need to put on my tough skin and be ready for all the gender comments now that we have started telling people!

[Charlee]

TTCPink- it's so funny because my boys reacted the exact opposite when I told them! DS1 was overjoyed, mainly because he knows DS2 won't be the baby anymore! Haha and DS2 was verrryyyy quiet, just soaking it all in. They've stayed that way throughout the entire pregnancy actually .. Now that baby is almost here they're both excited, mainly because dh and I are :)

Speaking of being close, 4 days till delivery for me!!! Induction is scheduled for Dec 3rd at 4 am :)

How is everyone ? :)

[meeks32]

Thanks Meeks you girls are awesome! Don't know what I would do without your support. Can't talk to anybody IRL about the fears and joys of pregnancy so it means the world to me that you girls are here. Hopefully I'll feel better once I am in the second Tri but it freaks me out that I have so little symptoms.

A little birdy told me that the less sick you are the more likely it's a girl, provided you were reasonably sick with your boy pregnancies. This was certainly the case for me. Apart from being hungry I pretty much had no symptoms after the first implantation week.

[meeks32]

TTCPink- it's so funny because my boys reacted the exact opposite when I told them! DS1 was overjoyed, mainly because he knows DS2 won't be the baby anymore! Haha and DS2 was verrryyyy quiet, just soaking it all in. They've stayed that way throughout the entire pregnancy actually .. Now that baby is almost here they're both excited, mainly because dh and I are :)

Speaking of being close, 4 days till delivery for me!!! Induction is scheduled for Dec 3rd at 4 am :)

How is everyone ? :)

4am!!! What doctor wants to be on duty at 4am?? Totally convenient for pretty much nobody!!!

[Charlee]

4am!!! What doctor wants to be on duty at 4am?? Totally convenient for pretty much nobody!!!

Haha tell me about it! She scheduled me for the 4 am spot because there is much lower chance of getting canceled then vs having the 7 am spot for instance... she doesn't want me to get bumped, which I appreciate, but it's going to be a LONG day for me lol... I have to leave my houseat 3 am which means iI'm getting up at 2 am! I hope I can squeeze a nap in at some point lol

[I Love Ladybugs]

I fell on the ice yesterday afternoon....and am paying the price today!!! My legs, hips and belly all hurt, but she has been moving decently and there is no bleeding. It sucks that this is the last weekend for the hubby to work...I am hoping that I can move a little bit easier tomorrow!

Charlee..you are so close!! I can't wait to see pix of your precious baby!!!!

[Tree]

So close Charlee, good luck!!

[GeCon]

Sorry ladies, but I really need to rant.

As you know we have decided on a name for a while now and are happy with our choice and have started calling the wee man by his name. Well, my parents asked about the name the other day and although I didn't want to tell at first, we decided to tell them. Also because I was worried DS1 might slip up and I didn't want to make him keep it a secret.

So today my mum rings and small talks 1st before telling me that my stepdad knows someone with that name and is that the only one we have on our list and bla, bla, bla. I am so pissed off. I am sitting here in tears, I could never believe that this could or would actually happen with my family. I heard other people's stories before and always thought this wouldn't happen to us. I feel like they have now ruined our excitement about the name. I tried to keep it together on the phone, but now I am really upset and angry about it. I asked her on the phone if they want to make a list for us with their top 10 names. And then I said "And while you are at it, why don't you also include your top 10 girls' names for the girl it could have been?". Because just after we told them it was going to be another little boy, my stepdad replied that he wouldn't have minded a little girl, to which I replied "Well, it is not a Music Request Show, you know?".

Sooo, sooo angry and upset just now...

[bunnywabbit]

I fell on the ice yesterday afternoon....and am paying the price today!!! My legs, hips and belly all hurt, but she has been moving decently and there is no bleeding. It sucks that this is the last weekend for the hubby to work...I am hoping that I can move a little bit easier tomorrow!

Oh no! I'm so sorry! I'm glad you're still feeling baby, but still what a shock. I hope all is well and you're better soon. I hate snow and ice anyway, but am absolutely petrified about falling over this year - almost heading into phobia territory. Really hoping I don't fall this year. DH has been a sweetie and said I'm to not go anywhere without him being there just in case, and we'll be booking cabs to and from work, etc. but I can fall stepping out of a cab onto ice too. So scared. Pleeeeease get me through this winter. :nails:

[bunnywabbit]

Sorry ladies, but I really need to rant.

As you know we have decided on a name for a while now and are happy with our choice and have started calling the wee man by his name. Well, my parents asked about the name the other day and although I didn't want to tell at first, we decided to tell them. Also because I was worried DS1 might slip up and I didn't want to make him keep it a secret.

So today my mum rings and small talks 1st before telling me that my stepdad knows someone with that name and is that the only one we have on our list and bla, bla, bla. I am so pissed off. I am sitting here in tears, I could never believe that this could or would actually happen with my family. I heard other people's stories before and always thought this wouldn't happen to us. I feel like they have now ruined our excitement about the name. I tried to keep it together on the phone, but now I am really upset and angry about it. I asked her on the phone if they want to make a list for us with their top 10 names. And then I said "And while you are at it, why don't you also include your top 10 girls' names for the girl it could have been?". Because just after we told them it was going to be another little boy, my stepdad replied that he wouldn't have minded a little girl, to which I replied "Well, it is not a Music Request Show, you know?".

Sooo, sooo angry and upset just now...

I'm so sorry, Gecon. Such a shame people don't stop to think of the impact their actions have on others. It may be small beans to them, but it clearly could effect you and your family. Part of the reason I'm keeping this pregnancy very private - I've mentioned it to management at work (health & safety) and quite literally three close (quiet!) friends and immediate family. My DM has said she'll say nothing, which I believe - she saw how upset I got last time. MiL, OTOH is asking for every last detail - when my appointments are, did I pee in a pot, what the midwife had to say, the lot. I'm keeping information as vague as possible and don't offer extra information. She's even making plans as to when she sees fit to tell everyone she's going to be a grandmother, which, I can understand she's excited, but a *lot* can go wrong in a short time - I haven't even made it to my 12 week scan yet!

I know the damage is done, but try to hang in there - not long now, then everyone will have to step off and stop with their assumptions and negativity - you'll have another precious LO to love and worry about. :hug2:

[GeCon]

You are right, Bunny. You know the thing is I read about these type of family dilemmas from others online before, but I never really thought that this could be an issue for us. I just wish we hadn't bothered telling anyone until LO is here as by then it is too late and rather tactless (although I think it was already tactless at this stage) to comment on the name choice and they would have probably kept their trap shut.

[I Love Ladybugs]

Gecon...BTDT, actually my hubby is the one who shared our boy and girl names with his dad when I was 16 weeks preggo with my team green pregnancy of DS1. The FIL had the nerve to call up until 36 weeks along about how awful our boy name was...but I am glad I did not allow him to get to me, as I still love the name we chose!! (((hugs)))

Bunnywabbit...I hope you don't fall....I hurt like crazy!!! And know that I need to take it easy tonight!!

[Pumpkin2011]

Ladybugs what a shock! I hope you and your little one are ok. Hopefully the pain will be gone before your princess decides to make her debut, giving birth is painful enough, isn't it?!

GeCon that's why we decided not to tell too much about this pregnancy. When we announced the name we have chosen for DS my FIL was not okay with it and told us he had another name for him. Up until today he calls DS by the name HE has chosen but finally DS is old enough to tell him what he thinks. As some of you know DH's family is from irak and my MIL already suggested me a few girl names. She always dreamed of a girl but since she has 3 DS's she didn't get to use the names and is now hoping we will. I am very sorry to say that but I would even use those names for my dog!!

We also decided to find out gender but to keep it to ourself. Our family was really pissed about it whereas our closest friends were great. My best friend said she is fine with every decision I make because she knows there are reasons for it. We didn't want to announce the pregnancy before week 13 which would be the week of Christmas but it already is more than obvious that I am pregnant. I already started to show plus the bloating I look like 5 months pregnant.

Bunny and TTC how are you guys feeling?

[GeCon]

Pumpkin, you made me laugh out loud about you not even using her girl names for a dog. So does that mean you won't tell anyone the gender or are you going to tell us? There is no way I could wait until the birth of the little pumpkins....

Ladybugs, thanks for encouraging me to stick to our choice.

Bunny, have you thought about getting yourself some spikes or chains for your shoes? I bought some for this year as I am also very worried about falling especially at such a late stage in pregnancy. I bought these: http://www.amazon.co.uk/RUD-shoechains-Quickstep-one-size/dp/B0048SZ8GG/ref=sr_1_9?ie=UTF8&qid=1385917091&sr=8-9&keywords=rud+shoe+chains

But try not to worry too much, Bunny. At the stage you're at at the moment, your little one is thankfully still very small and really well protected inside you.

[I Love Ladybugs]

Pumpkin.....I feel that she is ok, and that I am on the mend! My bottom is feeling the bruising and the muscles in the one leg are regretting hills and ice!
You are going to have to tell us what MIL wanted for her daughters name.....I have to laugh about not wanting to name a dog even with the names!!! It has been so much fun to keep my baby girl's name under wraps....I know that it is a good name for her and I really don't want anyone to spoil it for me.

Gecon....just dismiss what you have heard them say..I know this is easier said than done, but your wee one and your family get to love on the baby and name!

Charlee....one last belly pic???? I need to figure out what is going to bring labour on....I thought that a giant bruise on my bum would do the trick. Sending you fantastic induction vibes!!!!!

[GeCon]

And Charlee, if I don't speak to you before, all the Best and good labour vibes for Tuesday. Can't wait to see pictures of your new arrival.

Ladybugs, I seem to have missed the post about you falling. I hope you recover quickly. Can't believe you are so close too. Our LO was born 38+3, so I guess your wee lady could be here anytime soon too.

[Pumpkin2011]

GeGecon of course I am going to tell you girls, just decided not to tell anyone IRL. Don't want to deal with all the stupid comments. There are even a few people I am not going to tell I am expecting twins. I used to get my nails done once a month and when I called the lady to cancel my appointment and tell her I won't be coming anymore because I am pregnant I was so stupid to tell her I am expecting twins. Her reaction was "oh my god, poor you!!". Honestly? If she would be standing in front of me I would have punched her in the face. I feel unbelievably blessed and some stupid people act as if god is punishing me.

[GeCon]

What a relief that you will be telling us, Pumpkin. I would have had to come up to Hannover and bribe you to tell me had you decided not to tell us either. ;)

What a stupid cow for saying that. Some people are just sooo annoying.

[Pumpkin2011]

Ladybug I don't even really remember the names I tried to forget them as soon as possible. I don't like Kurdish girl names they sound so harsh and not girly at all. I love soft names and not names were people have to guess if it's a girl a boy or a dog. Just so you can imagine what I mean, some of the women in DH's family are called Cheman, Kazhan, bazian....

[GeCon]

and not names were people have to guess if it's a girl a boy or a dog.

:rofl:

[I Love Ladybugs]

What Gecon said....lol, I like feminine names on girls and my boys to have solidly boy's names!

Pumpkin, I am so excited at your 10 week ticker today!!! Just letting you know :)


:rofl:

[Pumpkin2011]

Well I bet they think the same way about the names we like :/.

[Pumpkin2011]

Pumpkin, I am so excited at your 10 week ticker today!!! Just letting you know :)


Me toooo ladybug, thank you! When I got my BFP I was dreaming of reaching the 10weeks Mark thinking it was ages away and i would never get there. I have a scan next Monday I can't wait. That's all I have to know if both are doing good, it's so hard to tell when it's too early to feel movement. I will be 11w1d way too early for a nub shot :(. I am going to ask DH to film the scan.

GeCon did you have an NT scan? I wanted to get it done but all the places I called want to charge me for each baby and that's way to expensive. My OB said she would think about it and tell me at my next appointment. If she is not going to charge me for both babies I will set up an appointment but I am not too hopeful.

[I Love Ladybugs]

I felt that way about each of the decade markers....and this might be a first pregnancy for me to hit 40!!!

That is wild that you would have to pay more for a twin scan...over here, the only difference would be if you wanted photos...just more as you would want a few more pix. Twins are amazing....you are going to have such fun all around!!!!

[GeCon]

Pumpkin, yes, we did have an NT scan. We decided that we would want to know even if it just to prepare ourselves and DS1 for anything if necessary. So although expensive, especially considering you will be adding two babies to the family, which will undoubtedly bring a lot of change in itself, I would be tempted to get it done for both IF you can afford it.

[meeks32]

Haha tell me about it! She scheduled me for the 4 am spot because there is much lower chance of getting canceled then vs having the 7 am spot for instance... she doesn't want me to get bumped, which I appreciate, but it's going to be a LONG day for me lol... I have to leave my houseat 3 am which means iI'm getting up at 2 am! I hope I can squeeze a nap in at some point lol

On the upside when I had ds2 at 7am Caesarian I couldn't sleep the night before, and woke up at 5am anyway, so probably doesn't matter when it is, you won't sleep much the night prior. Plus more chance of napping while waiting for the contractions to start, particularly if they start you with gel (useless).

[meeks32]

I fell on the ice yesterday afternoon....and am paying the price today!!! My legs, hips and belly all hurt, but she has been moving decently and there is no bleeding. It sucks that this is the last weekend for the hubby to work...I am hoping that I can move a little bit easier tomorrow!

Charlee..you are so close!! I can't wait to see pix of your precious baby!!!!

Oh honey I'm so sorry. I feel with ds2 and was very sore for a few days but think my biggest wound was mentally, I cried (not a crier) from the shock and relief that baby was ok (missed hitting my bump but twisted to do so and did my back). If you find you are sore after I saw a naturopath that did acupuncture and a physio and the acupuncture was what saved me.

Xxxx

[meeks32]

Sorry ladies, but I really need to rant.

As you know we have decided on a name for a while now and are happy with our choice and have started calling the wee man by his name. Well, my parents asked about the name the other day and although I didn't want to tell at first, we decided to tell them. Also because I was worried DS1 might slip up and I didn't want to make him keep it a secret.

So today my mum rings and small talks 1st before telling me that my stepdad knows someone with that name and is that the only one we have on our list and bla, bla, bla. I am so pissed off. I am sitting here in tears, I could never believe that this could or would actually happen with my family. I heard other people's stories before and always thought this wouldn't happen to us. I feel like they have now ruined our excitement about the name. I tried to keep it together on the phone, but now I am really upset and angry about it. I asked her on the phone if they want to make a list for us with their top 10 names. And then I said "And while you are at it, why don't you also include your top 10 girls' names for the girl it could have been?". Because just after we told them it was going to be another little boy, my stepdad replied that he wouldn't have minded a little girl, to which I replied "Well, it is not a Music Request Show, you know?".

Sooo, sooo angry and upset just now...

Omg geCon the exact same thing happened to me, when we told my mum! We had named bubs and ds1 was letting slip left right and centre (he's 4) so we decided to announce it. Thing is when baby isn't born yet, people feel they have a right to make what they think are subtle suggestions if they don't like it (not subtle), where if baby is born and named there is less scope for that (somebody always gives it a go).

I can tell you that after going through EXACTLY the same emotions in response to mum's comments (she called me for weeks suggesting this and that name) finally a month later she called me and said "a lady at work's daughter is called that name you chose, and she's beautiful and lovely, and my other friend also said she knew a girl with that name and everyone at work loves it" and that was it, she was on board because some randoms told her it was good, when myself and dh loved it, oh no that wasn't enough. Grrr! BUT if anything, despite taking away some shine from the name initially, I feel now being proven right (lots of others have loved it) has almost made me even more sure of the name. Plus baby now has an identity linked to this name and I ain't changing it for anyone. The boys know her by it and that's enough for me.

To distract her maybe you could let her go suggesting middle names (even if you have that chosen too) then it won't bother you so much. Explain exactly how sure you are, this is the only name you and dh agree on etc. I don't think my mum grasped how serious I was about it when I told her, until I had to keep fending off her name suggestions and eventually lost it and told her exactly how important it was and that she was ruining it. She felt so bad (we have a great relationship usually) and totally changed her tune (with the help of those colleagues).

[I Love Ladybugs]

Oh honey I'm so sorry. I feel with ds2 and was very sore for a few days but think my biggest wound was mentally, I cried (not a crier) from the shock and relief that baby was ok (missed hitting my bump but twisted to do so and did my back). If you find you are sore after I saw a naturopath that did acupuncture and a physio and the acupuncture was what saved me.

Xxxx

Most of the pain is concentrated on the right side....but the bump was kept nice and safe with falling on my bottom! I have been coughing so much that I have made a certain spot near my right boob hurt....I believe that labour pains will feel better than I do right now :) It is such a sunny beautiful day here with minimal snow and no freezing rain....totally perfect for a birthday!!!

Maybe Dream can be getting the Dec. 1st slot in!!!

[meeks32]

Pumpkin I don't have time to reply properly now but just LOL LOL LOL re the names conversation. Made my morning!!

Also can't wait for you to pop out two babies and hear about the ones who didn't know it was two and their reactions. FYI you will get size comments no matter if you tell people it's twins or not, "you sure it's not twins in there" is one of my all time faves (NOT!!)

[bunnywabbit]

I'm doing well, thanks. I was telling DH that I was pretty sure you'd start showing by now, Pumpkin (he pops his head over my shoulder every once in a while to check in on everyone!) I didn't think I'd start showing quite yet, but apparently look quite big. I'd been putting it down to bloating, but maybe not so much when a friend at work who knows said "yeah, you really look like your tummy's popped!" DH has been saying so too. I was expecting not to show for another couple of weeks. So... hmm... too big for regular waisted pants, but likely too small for maternity wear. Awkward.

LO loves McDonalds cheeseburgers. Had one from there a couple of weeks ago which didn't agree - too much ketchup, but soooo good. Not really what I'd count as a craving, but I count as a 'safe' (albeit unhealthy) food. S/he won't be getting loads - no worries! Had the first little bit of ice cream today which didn't disagree too much. Loves milk, especially in milkshake form. And cheddar cheese. CANNOT handle coffee. At all. Not only the taste but the smell too, especially cold, white coffee. Morning commutes are thankfully short, so I'll live.

Pumpkin, do you find out the gender at your 12 week scan or is it further along for you? I'm still very much in two minds about finding out. DH says he's happy either way to find out or leave it as a surprise, but found out he really does want to know. I have a feeling I will cave and find out - I'll feel mean withholding it if he wants to know.

[Dreamofpink]

Most of the pain is concentrated on the right side....but the bump was kept nice and safe with falling on my bottom! I have been coughing so much that I have made a certain spot near my right boob hurt....I believe that labour pains will feel better than I do right now :) It is such a sunny beautiful day here with minimal snow and no freezing rain....totally perfect for a birthday!!!

Maybe Dream can be getting the Dec. 1st slot in!!!

Hahaha Ladybugs!! No such luck despite nice regular tightenings again this evening. We've got the builders coming tomorrow for 2 days to fit our woodburner, then DH is going to decorate the front room before the carpet gets fitted next week. Oh yeah & the countdown is on with the boys opening their advent calendars this morning. 23 days left 'til Xmas...somehow we have to fit a birth in! :hair: (Thankfully all our pressies are wrapped & hidden) Trust me the whole world will know when I go into labour, I'll be soooo excited!! Come on babies!! Charlee will be first for sure & I can't wait to see the announcement :D

Btw, I'm so glad that little miss was saved from any harm when you fell, but you have all my sympathy :( Falling over when pg is so devastating emotionally, nevermind being hurt too. Big big hugs to you. We had the same weather here too today minus the snow & below freezing temperatures - well just above at 4 degrees. :)

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[GeCon]

Meeks, I am glad to hear that you and your mum have come out of it the other side. My mum and I also have a really good relationship normally, that's why I am so gobsmacked that she would even do that.

As for the favourite comments.. or NOT: Mine would have to be "Not long to go now, huh?" or "This LO is going to be here before Christmas, right?". Erm, no, he's in fact not due for another 6.5 weeks.

Bunny, I doubt that you will be able to find out the gender at 12 weeks. Has someone told you you could? NHS don't usually tell until 20 weeks, private gender scans usually from 16 weeks. Sometimes you can see something from 14 weeks, although I think there is still room for error then, but at 12 weeks I don't think gender can be predicted conclusively.

[GeCon]

Woohoo, Dreamofpink. Exciting about the tightenings. Maybe Charlee and you could start us off having our babies by having them on the same day.

[Dreamofpink]

Woohoo, Dreamofpink. Exciting about the tightenings. Maybe Charlee and you could start us off having our babies by having them on the same day.

Gecon, I think anyone trying to sway opinion on names that blatantly is well out of order. If you & DH love it then it's tough luck for everyone else. They've usually had their chance at picking names & this is your chance now. Use the name, but perhaps don't mention it again until it's a done deal & the birth's registered :wink: Btw your LO could be here by Christmas! I just hope mine is too as my midwife friend pointed out if I just keep going until he's ready then spend a few days in labour he could be born Xmas week. (I'm refusing all types of induction due to the risk of rupture) I bloody hope he'd here a lot sooner, though I doubt he'll be here as soon as the 3rd! :D



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[bunnywabbit]

Bunny, I doubt that you will be able to find out the gender at 12 weeks. Has someone told you you could? NHS don't usually tell until 20 weeks, private gender scans usually from 16 weeks. Sometimes you can see something from 14 weeks, although I think there is still room for error then, but at 12 weeks I don't think gender can be predicted conclusively.

True... I thought there may be a possible inkling of gender by then (I'll be just over 13 weeks by then) as far as people posting their nubs on the boards. I know there's still a big margin of error by then, but thought there'd maybe be an inkling. Honestly if not, I don't mind - for right now I just want to make sure all is well in there and baby and I are fine. DH will have to sweat it out a little longer!

[Dreamofpink]

LO loves McDonalds cheeseburgers. Had one from there a couple of weeks ago which didn't agree - too much ketchup, but soooo good. Not really what I'd count as a craving, but I count as a 'safe' (albeit unhealthy) food. S/he won't be getting loads - no worries! Had the first little bit of ice cream today which didn't disagree too much. Loves milk, especially in milkshake form. And cheddar cheese. CANNOT handle coffee. At all. Not only the taste but the smell too, especially cold, white coffee. Morning commutes are thankfully short, so I'll live.

Funny how the LO develops a taste for things, Lol!! Mine always gets the last bit of pudding or extra cake as in 'one for the baby too!' He particularly enjoys crisps, sweets & milk. I'm so hungry some days, I'm really glad I'm carrying so low as I can still eat a big Sunday lunch followed by pudding! And I wonder why I have boys.... Back on to LE within a year I hope, so I'm making the most of it now!

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[GeCon]

I have another MW appointment on the 19th, by which time I will be 36 weeks. I am really hoping LO will stay put until after Christmas as our local hospital, which we have registered with for having LO there only accepts women from 36+0 weeks as they have no dedicated neo-natal unit. This hospital is only up the road, otherwise we'd have to go to the next one with a baby clinic, but that's around 30 minutes in the car from here and would make logistics so much harder.

[GeCon]

Dreamofpink, back onto the diet for losing the baby weight or already planning your next sway?

Bunny, you may be lucky and get a look at the nub at 13 weeks, but most importantly you will see your LO again, which no doubt will make you feel so happy. :) Will you be having a private gender scan or waiting for your 20 weeks scan?

[bunnywabbit]

Funny how the LO develops a taste for things, Lol!! Mine always gets the last bit of pudding or extra cake as in 'one for the baby too!' He particularly enjoys crisps, sweets & milk. I'm so hungry some days, I'm really glad I'm carrying so low as I can still eat a big Sunday lunch followed by pudding! And I wonder why I have boys.... Back on to LE within a year I hope, so I'm making the most of it now!

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Oh yes, cakes, chocolate and biscuits are right back on the menu! Went right off everything sweet for up to 2 weeks. Miserable times. S/he loves Christmas cake already. Thankfully it's expensive and only available for a short part of the year or I could see that becoming a problem!

I don't normally eat a lot of crisps, but did find that salt and vinegar (must be high in vinegar or don't bother) really helped me with the waves of nausea.

[Dreamofpink]

Oh yes, cakes, chocolate and biscuits are right back on the menu! Went right off everything sweet for up to 2 weeks. Miserable times. S/he loves Christmas cake already. Thankfully it's expensive and only available for a short part of the year or I could see that becoming a problem!

I don't normally eat a lot of crisps, but did find that salt and vinegar (must be high in vinegar or don't bother) really helped me with the waves of nausea.

Mmm yes, salt & vinegar Discos are really good for that or Pringles. I love it when they make your mouth tingle. I love really spicy crisps too.

I still have to ice the Xmas cake that I made a year ago while swaying! It'll be nice & mature by now. :D

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[Dreamofpink]

Dreamofpink, back onto the diet for losing the baby weight or already planning your next sway?

Bunny, you may be lucky and get a look at the nub at 13 weeks, but most importantly you will see your LO again, which no doubt will make you feel so happy. :) Will you be having a private gender scan or waiting for your 20 weeks scan?

My next sway :hide: if DH comes round to it - again! - hence trying to put enough weight on. Atomic advised me to do that & I have eaten more than I'm hungry for at times. LE really helped me identify my actual appetite iykwim.

I can understand you wanting to get to 36 weeks totally. I was relieved to get to 34 weeks here as that's all the local SCBU take on. Fx he stays put!

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[meeks32]

My next sway :hide: if DH comes round to it - again! - hence trying to put enough weight on. Atomic advised me to do that & I have eaten more than I'm hungry for at times. LE really helped me identify my actual appetite iykwim.

I can understand you wanting to get to 36 weeks totally. I was relieved to get to 34 weeks here as that's all the local SCBU take on. Fx he stays put!

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LOL exciting! In some ways that makes this pregnancy super indulgent and luxurious for you. This being my last I feel like I have no such excuse. Also, LE totally ruined my taste. I have no idea what I want anymore. Haven't completely gone back to my previous cravings or food tendencies, and haven't really stayed on the LE ones either. I feel like i'm hungry all the time but often have no idea what I want (first time EVER) so often skip a meal because I simply can't decide or don't feel like anything I have at home. Its so strange!!!

However all this food talk is making me hungry!

[meeks32]

PS dream, charlee, ladybugs and everyone due soon, I want to know exactly:

- When you go into labour
- Some updates during it
- All the details after, complete with baby pics and baby name!!!

Since we aren't real life buddies I feel it's only fair, hahahaha! I have to distract myself somehow!!!

[Pumpkin2011]

Meeks I feel exactly the same way about food! I was struggling on LE always hungry and now I skip meals until I am STARVING because I just can't decide what to eat. That makes cooking for the family very hard. I don't have really any craving and I noticed my sense of taste is way stronger since I am pregnant. Never experienced that before. The other day I wanted some Pringles but after eating a few I noticed they just don't taste like they used to. Way too strong. Can't eat candy anymore because it tastes as if it's pure sugar and the other day we've been out to our favorite restaurant and the food tasted so salty that I could not eat it. I keep asking DH if he feels the same but he doesn't notice a difference.

GeCon we could afford the NT scan but we feel like we would only be doing it because we might have a chance to take a look at the nubs and we would rather safe the money and buy something nice for the kids. Last night it came to my mind that I might as well just pay for a regular scan which would be only 30€ and ask if I could have a full body profile pic.
Regarding the hospital: I gave birth to DS in a hospital only 10min away but with the twins I won't be able to do so because they don't have a neonatal unit. I am hoping I won't need a c-section since I want to go home a few ours after giving birth.

Dream how exciting to celebrate Christmas with a newborn. Oh I can't wait to hold my babies!!! DH and I keep imagining how it will be going from 1 to 3 kids but thankfully we are very excited about a house full of kids. I bet our neighbors are going to freak out when they find out :).

[GeCon]

Meeks, I couldn't have worded my eating habits since the LE diet any better. I don't really feel like I fancy anything, which as Pumpkin pointed out makes meal planning very difficult. I also find that I could have the same meal a few times a week without any change, which of course is not great for the family.

Pumpkin, if you would only do the scan for the nubs, just go for a normal scan and get the kids something nice with the rest of the money.

[Dreamofpink]

PS dream, charlee, ladybugs and everyone due soon, I want to know exactly:

- When you go into labour
- Some updates during it
- All the details after, complete with baby pics and baby name!!!

Since we aren't real life buddies I feel it's only fair, hahahaha! I have to distract myself somehow!!!

Of course I'll keep you all updated best I can. I need all the advice I can get having never been in proper labour before. Not sure if I'm in prelabour but I usually sleep really well. Last night I was woken about 4 times with painful tightenings. This morning I seem to be getting frequent BH that are quite noticeable & backache. I'm just knackered, so not sure if that helps! Got a quiet day babysitting the builders while my Mum takes the boys to their sports lesson so at least I can rest a bit. The way I'm feeling this morning I feel like this could be the week. :confused:

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[Pumpkin2011]

Dream if you are not sure if what you are feeling are real contractions try taking a warm bath. The pain should stop if it isn't the beginning of labour but if it doesn't the warm bath will help make the contractions stronger. It worked for me with DS. I woke up at 3am feeling mild cramps but I couldn't fall back asleep because I was so nervous. I went into the tub and the cramps stayed the same so I knew DS would be born that day. I stayed in the tub for three hours waiting for the contractions to get stronger and when they didn't I got out. That was the moment when the first REAL contraction came, so painful that it took my breath. 3 hours later I was holding my little one :).

[GeCon]

Oooh, Dream. This sounds promising. Fingers crossed that things will start off soon. I think there is every chance that this is your week.

[meeks32]

Dream I had lots of BH with ds1 too so found I was also confused by seemingly being about to start labour then nothing! Agree with the bath thing, they will stop if it's not it. Also I found I got super nesty the day before then on the day real labour I got super tired and couldn't do anything, just exhausted. I agree it sounds like you may not be far off.

[Dreamofpink]

Thanks for the advice ladies. I saw my MW today for a routine check up & all is well. It seems I'm most likely in early labour, especially as I was contracting while there. The student midwife with her got to feel my tummy as it contracted too! I've been getting around 3-5 per hour all day. They're pretty sore too & in between it's kind of like if you sneeze or cough constantly & your lower tummy just aches from it. I'm knackered & hoping I can rest tonight then go into proper labour in about 24 hours! I know I can't put my order in but I just need to rest tonight. I never had this at all with ds2 & it's strange contracting regularly all day though not enough to to be in active labour. I didn't quite know what to expect & know it could all tail off tomorrow but it's definitely ramping up slowly but surely, so fx for our little boy this week!

I did feel a bit sad today when my Dad suggested taking the boys for rugby lessons in the new year. The idea of being a sports widow terrifies me. My dh likes rugby (in a very measured way) but my worst nightmare's being a mum to a bunch of boys obsessed with sport & nothing else. My GD has reared it's head a little in these last few weeks. I guess it's just that I'm about to be a definite boy mum now with three. I know it'll melt away when I see this LO & also know that rationally my boys will no doubt still have plenty of other interests that I can share with them (e.g. music & cooking) but I'm just full of hormones & longing for a DD. It doesn't help having my Dad tell DH to go & get the big V. Thankfully DH doesn't seem too keen on that, although he's also not keen on dc4 either! We need life to settle down, this one to be nice & easy then I'm sure I can convince him on dc4. Sorry for the offloading here, needed to get it off my chest.

Charlee how are you feeling for tomorrow?! I'm trying to work it out with time difference but it must be less than 24 hours now before you get induced?! Best of luck & I'm certainly thinking of you!! X x

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[Mathilde]

Thanks for the advice ladies. I saw my MW today for a routine check up & all is well. It seems I'm most likely in early labour, especially as I was contracting while there. The student midwife with her got to feel my tummy as it contracted too! I've been getting around 3-5 per hour all day. They're pretty sore too & in between it's kind of like if you sneeze or cough constantly & your lower tummy just aches from it. I'm knackered & hoping I can rest tonight then go into proper labour in about 24 hours! I know I can't put my order in but I just need to rest tonight. I never had this at all with ds2 & it's strange contracting regularly all day though not enough to to be in active labour. I didn't quite know what to expect & know it could all tail off tomorrow but it's definitely ramping up slowly but surely, so fx for our little boy this week!

I did feel a bit sad today when my Dad suggested taking the boys for rugby lessons in the new year. The idea of being a sports widow terrifies me. My dh likes rugby (in a very measured way) but my worst nightmare's being a mum to a bunch of boys obsessed with sport & nothing else. My GD has reared it's head a little in these last few weeks. I guess it's just that I'm about to be a definite boy mum now with three. I know it'll melt away when I see this LO & also know that rationally my boys will no doubt still have plenty of other interests that I can share with them (e.g. music & cooking) but I'm just full of hormones & longing for a DD. It doesn't help having my Dad tell DH to go & get the big V. Thankfully DH doesn't seem too keen on that, although he's also not keen on dc4 either! We need life to settle down, this one to be nice & easy then I'm sure I can convince him on dc4. Sorry for the offloading here, needed to get it off my chest.

Charlee how are you feeling for tomorrow?! I'm trying to work it out with time difference but it must be less than 24 hours now before you get induced?! Best of luck & I'm certainly thinking of you!! X x

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Dreamof: good luck! I know what you mean with the gd, liked your analogy with "ugly head" popping up, that's just how I feel too, with it lurking around any corner. Bought a pram and babyseat today, feels good:) DH shocked me in the car recently, just blurted out that he isn't so pessimistic about no 4 if it will make me truly happy(tears) the best pre-Xmas present I could ask for!

[Dreamofpink]

Dreamof: good luck! I know what you mean with the gd, liked your analogy with "ugly head" popping up, that's just how I feel too, with it lurking around any corner. Bought a pram and babyseat today, feels good:) DH shocked me in the car recently, just blurted out that he isn't so pessimistic about no 4 if it will make me truly happy(tears) the best pre-Xmas present I could ask for!

Oh Mathilde, that's wonderful news!! Having a supportive DH is so important. Mine's always gone along reluctantly not quite understanding my GD. I hope he comes round to dc4 like yours has & you never know we could be swaying together in the future! :)

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[Pumpkin2011]

It's 9pm in Germany so I am already whisking you all the best for tomorrow Charlee. Can't wait to hear your little one is hear and see some pics. I am so excited for you!!

[Charlee]

On the upside when I had ds2 at 7am Caesarian I couldn't sleep the night before, and woke up at 5am anyway, so probably doesn't matter when it is, you won't sleep much the night prior. Plus more chance of napping while waiting for the contractions to start, particularly if they start you with gel (useless).

LOL you are soooo right! That's what DH and I said to each other this morning... good thing it's early because neither of us are going to sleep a wink anyway tonight! Haha

14 hrs till I walk out the door to head to the hospital! I am frantically cleaning the house as we speak LMAO

[myrainbowgirl]

Dream & Charlee - Ooooh, your babies are so close to being here!! So exciting. Will pray for safe and uncomplicated deliveries. Can't wait to see pics soon!

Ladybugs - I hope you are recovering nicely. Any signs she'll be here anytime soon?

Pumpkin, Bunny, & TTCPink - Glad you are all doing well and progressing nicely. :) Glad to know we'll get to find out your babies' genders! :) Can't remember who said NT scan was at 11w1d, but you *may* get a peek at gender if you're like me! Baby boy had a very boy nub at 11w2d. Although I will admit that for most it is too early. You never know what you might see!

GeCon - Ugh on your mom's comments! I'm so sorry. Stick to your guns, she will have to come around eventually! We haven't shared our name with our parents yet, because we want it to be a surprise...we're naming him after our dads. :)

Meeks - Hope you find some food that sounds yummy! Lol!

Mathilde - YAY on DH agreeing to #4!

AFM - I hear some of you ladies on the GD still coming out every once in a while. Even though I know we will try again, I still sometimes don't understand why I don't have a girl yet. I know when I'm on the other side of all this, it will all make sense, and I will be SO glad for all my little boys before baby girl gets here! Still, it can be tough. I'm just having to trust in God's perfect plan!

[Dreamofpink]

Best of luck Charlee! Will be thinking of you today. Hope your labour progresses smoothly & you're getting lots of cuddles with your littlest boy by the end of the day :heart:

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[thehappypixi]

Good luck Dream and Charlee! I wonder if they will share a birthday?!

[GeCon]

Thinking of you, Charlee. Hope things are progressing nicely for you.

Dream, any news from you? How are you feeling?

[Dreamofpink]

Thinking of you, Charlee. Hope things are progressing nicely for you.

Dream, any news from you? How are you feeling?

Gecon, I'm knackered & crying at Christmas songs so a hormonal mess I guess! My contractions were regular & strong from mid-afternoon to 9.30pm yesterday. They were 12 mins apart for that time then eased off to around 2 an hour through the night. I managed to sleep between them but my goodness it hurt! I thought it wouldn't be too bad after listening to the hypnotherapy cds, but they lie! I'm expecting things to ramp up again & am happy to get a break just now. I'm thinking my body will probably behave a bit like a first time Mum. Perhaps he'll come on his due date!

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[Pumpkin2011]

Charlee and dream I am thinking of you!!!

OMG ladies I am soooo excited after all I am having my NT scan :):):). I just decided to call my insurance and there is a new program I didn't know about. They will pay 80% of the NT scan. I couldn't believe my luck, I had to ask three times to make sure. I scheduled an appointment for dec 20th at 10:30. We will pay for it and the insurance will refund 80%. I will be 12w5d that's the latest they could fit me in. I am soooooooooo excited!!!!! I will ask DH to film it. Oh I can't wait to see my little ones on a high end machine and I know the scan will be longer than only 5 minutes. Can't believe my luck!!!

[I Love Ladybugs]

This thread is going to be celebrating a lot today!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Babies are on their way....and Pumpkin...that is wonderful about the NT scan!

AFM...I went to emerg over this increasing chest pain and it is the result of falling on that ice...I damaged/tore/traumatized a chest muscle group and even slight movement or coughing is making it in extreme pain. Lol, at least when I go into labour, that should take my mind off of that pain :)

[Mathilde]

Well, he's not THAT understanding, but sadly I think I make his life a little more miserable than i has to be due to GD.. If there is a next time, Im not going to sway! Im going super HT however much it will cost;)
Mathilde

[I Love Ladybugs]

Well, he's not THAT understanding, but sadly I think I make his life a little more miserable than i has to be due to GD.. If there is a next time, Im not going to sway! Im going super HT however much it will cost;)
Mathilde

And I pray it works for you.....that those embryos are all xx and that you have a successful cycle right out of the gate this time!!!

[bunnywabbit]

This thread is going to be celebrating a lot today!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Babies are on their way....and Pumpkin...that is wonderful about the NT scan!

AFM...I went to emerg over this increasing chest pain and it is the result of falling on that ice...I damaged/tore/traumatized a chest muscle group and even slight movement or coughing is making it in extreme pain. Lol, at least when I go into labour, that should take my mind off of that pain :)

Oh no! I hope you're better soon. Can they give oyu anything for the pain? Glad it's nothing more serious though, and LO is ok. In the home stretch now, bubba - give your mummy a couple of days to feel a little better, then GO, GO, GO!

[bunnywabbit]

Charlee and Dreamofpink, I hope all is well for you and your babies. Really looking forward to updates. And piccies! xx

[I Love Ladybugs]

Bunnywabbit.....nothing for the pain, I just am screaming when I get up or shift positions....totally ready for labour ;)

I am looking forward to seeing pics of the little lads born today!!!!!!!!!!!!! And hearing updates from their mommies!!!

[GeCon]

Great news on the scan, Pumpkin. See, you worried for nothing. ;)

Ladybugs, sorry you are still in pain. Fingers crossed your little lady gives you a few more days to recover.

*Patiently waiting for news on baby Charlee*...

[meeks32]

Ladybugs I'm sorry you are having such a tough time of it, that really sucks!!! I hope at least delivery goes smoothly and you've used up all your bad luck now so it's all good from here.

Dream and Charlee I'm crap with the time difference but omg that crept up!! The race is on, lol!! Sooooo excited.

Dream re the sports boys, that used to be my nightmare until someone pointed out boys into sport with good parents are just like girls going to dance, they learn team work, punctuality, fitness and health and if you are behind the scenes teaching them morals, to cook and clean up after themselves and maybe some other things to balance like art or music, they are going to be amazing men one day. I actually now hope my boys get into sport!!! Minus the crazy schedule that will mean at drop offs and weekends!!

[Dreamofpink]

Pumpkin great news on the scan!

Meeks thanks so much for your insight, it makes a lot of sense & makes me feel better about it all too.

Charlee, hope all's going well!

Ladybugs I pm'd you but sending you a huge hug too.

I'm still going, strong contractions all day but nowhere near as frequent as yesterday. I think I'm losing my mucus plug as I had a tinge of ewcm earlier then about half hour ago I had a big leak of slimy discharge with small ewcm globs. I panicked at first that it was my waters but it was in line with the slimier discharge that I've noticed today. I pray that it's not my waters yet & will keep an eye on it. Sorry for tmi but I don't remember my waters being slimy with ds2, plus I distinctly remember a pop & a gush. This was more like just before I ov. Hope I get into active labour soon!!

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[meeks32]

Pumpkin great news on the scan!

Meeks thanks so much for your insight, it makes a lot of sense & makes me feel better about it all too.

Charlee, hope all's going well!

Ladybugs I pm'd you but sending you a huge hug too.

I'm still going, strong contractions all day but nowhere near as frequent as yesterday. I think I'm losing my mucus plug as I had a tinge of ewcm earlier then about half hour ago I had a big leak of slimy discharge with small ewcm globs. I panicked at first that it was my waters but it was in line with the slimier discharge that I've noticed today. I pray that it's not my waters yet & will keep an eye on it. Sorry for tmi but I don't remember my waters being slimy with ds2, plus I distinctly remember a pop & a gush. This was more like just before I ov. Hope I get into active labour soon!!

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Could be the start of the plug, look for brown or dark red glob or bits of it. I lost mine in the shower after a very similar and long start to labour with ds1, I lost it whole, it was between golf ball and tennis ball size! I almost died. I had no idea it would look like THAT despite all the reading I'd done. Shortly after labour cranked up a lot.

[GeCon]

Good morning all!

How are we doing today? Any news on baby Charlee?

Fingers crossed your plug goes completely today, Dream and things start happening for you. My waters also broke with DS1 and it was just liquid really, so it sounds like it is part of the plug.

[bunnywabbit]

Meeks, I thought the plug would be quite big given it as it had to hold baby in. Tennis ball size?! I think As I have no clue what to expect until I see it, I'd have a heart attack too *gags*.

Really surprised no updates yet! Will check again at lunch time. GL ladies! x

[GeCon]

Bunny, don't worry too much about it. Not all women lose the plug in one go, some do, but others just lose bits at the time. Either way it is usually good news as it means baby's arrival is not far...

[Dreamofpink]

Quick update, I contracted regularly all night, managing to sleep in between. At 7.30am I had a bloody show with lots of slimy mucus. I think I also had some waters go too. My contractions have been a bit less regular since then :hair: Hate the feeling of the clock ticking with waters gone. Just desperate for my vbac!

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[GeCon]

Dream, thinking of you and sending you lots of quick VBAC labour vibes.

[GeCon]

I have a question for you, ladies. DS1 has always been very affectionate and cuddly with both my OH and myself. But recently he started being even more cuddly and needy with me, he is still the same as before with OH, just a lot more with me. Don't get me wrong, it is lovely, but can be a bit exhausting. I am wondering if it has anything to do with the pregnancy. Maybe that he can feel the change upon us? He has been BF quite long, maybe he can smell the milk coming back? Just wanted to hear other's experiences.

[Pumpkin2011]

GeCon our kids are about the same age, aren't they. I am experiencing the same with DS. Some days I am so exhausted and can't wait for DH to come home and help me but DS want ME to be around 24/7.

[meeks32]

Quick update, I contracted regularly all night, managing to sleep in between. At 7.30am I had a bloody show with lots of slimy mucus. I think I also had some waters go too. My contractions have been a bit less regular since then :hair: Hate the feeling of the clock ticking with waters gone. Just desperate for my vbac!

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Could be a slow leek with the waters. When mine went, like my plug, it was pretty obvious. A pop, and gush. My friend was told when unsure of her waters breaking, to put a big pad on, then call the midwife an hour later and describe how much water is in there. Apparently this shows if it's just mucus and bloody show or if it's waters. Also helps track if there is marconnium (spelling??) in there. Might be nothing and just *seem* like water given the plug is going. But talk to your hospital or midwife or ob. Xxxx

[Dreamofpink]

Off to the hospital! Be back with baby & news when I can x x

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[Pumpkin2011]

How exciting dream!!! Wishing you all the the best, can't wait to hear an update!!

[GeCon]

Woohoo, exciting, Dream. Good luck and can't wait to see some pics.

I wonder how Charlee and her wee man are getting on. Hope all is well and she is already enjoying some well deserved newborn cuddles with him.

[meeks32]

Dream yay!! Can't wait to hear the news, good luck honey.

[thehappypixi]

BABABIEEEEEESSS!!
Good luck ladies, I'm getting all nesty just thinking about it!!

[I Love Ladybugs]

I am just so excited about all the babies that are about to be born...and cuddled and loved on!!!! Charlee and Dream...I pray and hope that you are snuggling with your wee men right now!!

AFM....prenatal visit today, no cervical check as we don't want to push anything into happening! My MD is away for the next 48 hours, and while the back-up plan is good, I would like my primary plan to be the way things go!!!!

[Niva]

Wow, so exciting -- two babies coming today! Good luck to both of you, Dream and Charlee. Can't wait to see the pics and announcements!!

I've been taking a little break from posting (things IRL haven't been leaving me a lot of time to catch up with replying to everyone's news), but I've been checking in every once in a while to see how you all are doing. So very exciting that we're now at the baby-meeting stage -- seems like such a short time ago that we were announcing our bfps and looking for nub clues!

AFM, my GD has been really much better than I ever expected it to be, perhaps because I'm totally planning on going for #3, lol, although I also sometimes wonder if I'm being blind to the hardships of going from 2 to 3 kids just because I selfishly want to quench my GD. But for now, I realy can't wait to meet my new little boy. I'm nesting in full force -- painting the nursery yellow and teal, knitting baby boy sweaters, stressing that I only have two months left and I haven't yet got all my ducks in a row!

I'm excited about the birth already. This time I'm going to try going all-natural (tried last time too but my body didn't cooperate), and may even hire a doula and see a chiropractor to help the baby get into optimum position. We'll see though; a doula is pretty expensive. But I'd pay almost anything to avoid pitocin-augmented back labor again!!

Waiting for updates... What a big day!

[myrainbowgirl]

Dream & Charlee - Can't wait to hear your news and see pics! Woohoo!

Niva - Good to see you on here! So glad to hear you're so excited to meet DS2, and that GD is a thing of the past. You mentioned the hardships of going from 2-3, and I will honestly say that it was NOT hard for me! You will be just fine. :)

[cape grace]

Lovely to come on and catch up on who is about to have their babies close to my due date! Congrats to all you lovely ladies who swayed at same time as me and good luck to those who are still on the sway journey.
I am due my pink bundle on dec 17 but might be induced early..dec 12th..my birthday too so feels extra special! Fingers crossed..hoping for a natural labour with no drama please :-) i will update once i am back on my feet
Xxxx

[meeks32]

Niva I don't think you are mad at all for going for 3, in fact that's what I did, and got my girl! Mind you my "sway" for ds2 was so ill-informed I did Shettles, bahahahhaa! So I only really swayed for this little girl (#3). I totally get it.

But wouldn't trade ds2 for the world, he's absolutely the light of our lives and I am now SO glad I didn't get a girl second because I would have stopped at 2 kids, despite previously thinking I'd have 4. Now I feel like 3 is it for us (I have a lot of complications with pregnancy and birth so that's the only reason I wouldn't go more).

[I Love Ladybugs]

I am waiting for baby news....and keeping this one in until my MD returns tomorrow!!

Niva...it is good to see you around and that you happily preparing for your sweet second boy! Like Meeks, I could not imagine life without my DS2 who is the sonshine I needed in him.....and let me have the chance for baby #3. Jump on the baby #3 train....I think it will be fun!!!!!!

Meeks...we too will end at three and like you, my second son is just what we needed. I have to giggle at my IG sway with him...probably the reason that I refused to do supplements of cran/cal/mag and potions like Refresh/replense.

Myrainbowgirl....what projects are you working on for your new wee man???

Capegrace....that would be a great birthday present!! I think that Dec. babies are wonderful gifts!!!

[Charlee]

Baby is here! Edward Lee born December 4th @ 10:24 am!!! He weighed 5 lbs 3 oz and was 18.5 in long.... tiny but otherwise perfectly healthy! My labor was horrendous, 18 hrs and 2 hrs of pushing with a vacuum extraction at the end and 3 stitches. Induced labor is so hard I think. Anyway, other than feeling like I got hit by a truck I am okay :) He is breastfeeding like a champ already :)

I'm breaking out of the hospital today so I'll post some pics when I get home to my regular computer... he looks like a Blondie like ds1 though :)

[thehappypixi]

Ahhhhh!!!!!
http://i17.photobucket.com/albums/b99/thehappypixi/Congratulations_Comment_06.gif
Sorry your labour was so unpleasant, hope that squishy lushness will delete the memory soon!

[I Love Ladybugs]

Charlee..congrats on the safe arrival of little Edward....can't wait to see pix of your precious bundle!!!!!!!!!

[Niva]

Congrats, Charlee!! Yeah, getting induced is no fun at all... Glad you both are doing great now, though! :bluecheer:

[meeks32]

Baby is here! Edward Lee born December 4th @ 10:24 am!!! He weighed 5 lbs 3 oz and was 18.5 in long.... tiny but otherwise perfectly healthy! My labor was horrendous, 18 hrs and 2 hrs of pushing with a vacuum extraction at the end and 3 stitches. Induced labor is so hard I think. Anyway, other than feeling like I got hit by a truck I am okay :) He is breastfeeding like a champ already :)

I'm breaking out of the hospital today so I'll post some pics when I get home to my regular computer... he looks like a Blondie like ds1 though :)

So exciting! Edward is a lovely name, and I have to say the pic I saw of you right after looked like a model pic! How did you manage that after being hit by the labour truck??!! Well done honey, that teeny boy will be even more full of love when he meets ds1 and 2.

X

[myrainbowgirl]

Congrats, Charlee! Prayers for a speedy recovery headed your way.

[TTCPink]

Charlee, he is soooooo precious!!! I'm so happy for you and your family!!! Congratulations!!! :awe:

Any news on Dream?? I can't wait to hear more updates!

[Tree]

Huge congratulations Charlee!!! Bet you're feeling very in love with your new little man. Sorry the labour was not great. They say the third is the wild card.... I'm scared!!!

Due in just 10 days now, having loads of painful BH but I had that with my last and they never turn into anything.

Who will be next? Sounds like Dream??

[bunnywabbit]

Congrats, Charlee, on the birth of your little man! Despite the stitches, I'm glad you're both doing well. Looking forward to piccies! xx

[bunnywabbit]

DH and I have decided to go for a private NT scan next week (14th) at 12+2, as well as still going to the scan appointment on the 23rd (13+4). He decided he's not sure how he'll deal with a bad result so close to Christmas so wanted something earlier. Two lots of scans in a short space of time shouldn't cause problems, should it? Don't really want to cancel the 13+4 scan as there may be an inkling of a chance there may be more to see by then (DH says he really wants to know, but only wants to find out if I want to because I'm 'doing all the work', or something strange like that... Wouldn't be fair to tell him we're not finding out if he really wants to know). It's also the scan provided by the NHS so is no charge.

[I Love Ladybugs]

Lost most of my mucous plug over the last two hours, feeling some more painful contractions...will try to update before I leave for hospital. Thinking today might be baby day for me!

[thehappypixi]

Woohoo come on baby bug!

Sounds like a good plan Bunny, I got a private early scan with my 2nd as it was just before Xmas and I wanted to make sure there was someone home as I would have to tell people over Xmas why I wasn't drinking like a fish!

[Dreamofpink]

Baby Isaac Nicholas born 5th Dec at 00.56 by successful VBA2C!! Had to have help getting him out using forceps as he turned back-to-back when my waters went. He weighs 7lb12oz & is feeding very well. My labour went very fast only used pethidine & gas & air until being taken to theatre as he got stuck. We're still in hospital due to my bladder being not quite back to normal. Hoping to go home tomorrow. We have two very excited big brothers desperate for us to return!

Ladybugs!! Yay!! Can't wait to hear your update!

Charlee, huge congrats on your little boy! Will update better when we get home.

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Isaac Nicholas

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[Tree]

Baby Isaac Nicholas born 5th Dec at 00.56 by successful VBA2C!! Had to have help getting him out using forceps as he turned back-to-back when my waters went. He weighs 7lb12oz & is feeding very well. My labour went very fast only used pethidine & gas & air until being taken to theatre as he got stuck. We're still in hospital due to my bladder being not quite back to normal. Hoping to go home tomorrow. We have two very excited big brothers desperate for us to return!

Ladybugs!! Yay!! Can't wait to hear your update!

Charlee, huge congrats on your little boy! Will update better when we get home.

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Isaac Nicholas

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Huge congratulations!! Isn't he totally gorgeous! Makes me want my little one to arrive even more now!!! Enjoy all the baby cuddles. Hope bladder issues resolve quickly!

Ladybugs good luck!!

[bunnywabbit]

Aww dreamofpink, he's beautiful! Congrats to you, and so glad you got your VBAC. Can't wait for June to arrive - sooo broody!

[bunnywabbit]

YAY Iloveladybugs! Can't wait to meet little miss Ladybug. Hoping all goes well and is a straightforward and fast birth for you x

[Niva]

Yay, Dream, what a dreamy little guy! So precious!!! Makes me wish mine was coming sooner to hold and cuddle! Huge congrats, and hope you can go home soon!

[meeks32]

Awww dream like Charlee you have chosen a lovely name, Isaac!! He's just perfect!! You have to tell me how the recovery is vs a c-section!! I'm so jealous!!! Well done lovely, I'm sooooo happy you got your vba2c. I was hoping!

How long was the labour in the end?

Ladybugs it's all action these past few days with 3 bubbies arriving or on their way!!! Good luck honey I hope you aren't still too sore from that fall.

Bunny another scan won't hurt I think that's a great plan and a good chance at getting a nub shot!

[myrainbowgirl]

Congrats, Dream!! He is gorgeous...prayers for a speedy recovery. Congrats on VBA2C! Wow, good job, mama!

Ladybugs - Woohoo! Hope today's the day...can't wait to hear!

[thehappypixi]

Oh Dream he is precious! Totally gorgeous, I think my milk is coming in just looking at him! <3

[I Love Ladybugs]

Dream...he is amazing! Congrats on the vbac!!!!! I am so happy we both got our vbacs :-)

Little ladybug aka Larissa arrived at 1:09 pm. I will post more after a nap...my boys visited and are so in love, as are hubby and I!

[Pumpkin2011]

OMG what's going on here :)?

Charlee congrats once again, what a cute little man and I absolutely love his name. Can't believe you look that good after 18h of labour!

Dream huge congrats, well done!! He is gorgeous!

Ladybugs that was fast, wasn't it? Didn't expect to hear an update from you that soon, congrats on your princess! Can't wait to hear more and see pics. How is she doing, is everything ok?

[bunnywabbit]

Dream...he is amazing! Congrats on the vbac!!!!! I am so happy we both got our vbacs :-)

Little ladybug aka Larissa arrived at 1:09 pm. I will post more after a nap...my boys visited and are so in love, as are hubby and I!

Aww I love ladybugs, I'm so happy for you! Larissa's such a pretty name! I hope you're both well. Enjoy her and get some rest x

[I Love Ladybugs]

She is definitely a strong little girl....and so lovely!!! My "men" areb charmed by her...and I am so in love! If I can figure out this tablet that my hubby got for me, I will try to post a pic in the morning...if not, for sure when i get home !

[bunnywabbit]

She is definitely a strong little girl....and so lovely!!! My "men" areb charmed by her...and I am so in love! If I can figure out this tablet that my hubby got for me, I will try to post a pic in the morning...if not, for sure when i get home !

SQUEEEE! Can't wait! x

[Dreamofpink]

Thank you so much for all the lovely messages everyone! Ladybugs I can't wait to see pics of Larissa & I'm soooo glad that you got your vbac too! Looks like between you, Charlee & I, we had our babies on the 4th, 5th & 6th Dec - very cool! ;)

My bladder's rested & fine now but now I have an infection somewhere. I passed a big clot overnight & I'm not allowed home until they're happy that they have the infection under control. So frustrating especially as I feel so well!! I guess the silver lining is spending so much time with my darling Isaac but I'm missing Dh & ds1&2. Also wards are never peaceful places for a good night's sleep!

Here he is today in his Gruffalo babygro chosen by Daddy.

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[Charlee]

Ahhhh congrats Ladybug!!!! Can't wait to see pics :)

I think it's so fun that we had 3 births in 3 days! How exciting!

I'm going to post pics today, I promise!

[GeCon]

Wow, I can't believe that I am going away somewhere without internet access for 3 days and return to 3 babies.

Congratulations to Charlee on the birth of Edward Lee. A beautiful name, cannot wait to see pictures of your wee man.

Congratulations to Dream on the birth of Isaac Nicholas. Another beautiful name and great pictures if your gorgeous addition to the family.

And of course congratulations to Ladybug on the birth of Larissa. Can't wait to see some pics of your little lady.

I will update the 1st post accordingly.

Welcome to the world, Edward Lee, Isaac Nicholas and Larissa.

BTW, I wasn't sure how comfortable people felt with me putting the names into the 1st post, so I left them out. Let me know if you would like them added.

[thehappypixi]

I know Gecon, how exciting?!
Congrats guys, amazing! And beautiful names <3

[meeks32]

Ladybugs too!! Congrats honey. What happened in the end with labour vs c-section and local vs big city hospital??? Can't wait to see pics. So glad to hear she is strong and healthy, tell us more! Xxx

[Tree]

Ladybugs, huge congratulations!! I'm so jealous of all your girls delivering your precious bundles.

I will be 39 weeks tomorrow and have been having plenty of false labour but no action... And I have a feeling it will continue to be this way for a while!

Who is due next? Exciting!!

[I Love Ladybugs]

I have been trying to add a pic here since yesterday... still in hospital. Short birth story...lost mucous plug at 3:30 am Dec.6th-..or at least most of it, after a little water leaking at midnight. I did not get the best sleep, even though I tried. Got up and had a shower at 5:30, as I knew I would not be getting any more sleep. Contractions were picking up, so my goal was to get the big kid ready for school and the little to my mom's a bit after nine. I had Larissa at 1:09 pm, in my local hospital, with my MD who had been out of town for two days and got back one hour before I delivered!!! Great vbac...cuddly baby...can't ask for better than that :-)

[TTCPink]

I caught up with Charlee and Dream on the other thread, but I'm just seeing the news of your little sweetie, Ladybugs! So very happy for you. What a darling name. Congratulations!!! :DD:

[TTCPink]

I go to the doctor on Tuesday...finally! I am 9 weeks now. I will have a scan in the room to see the heartbeat. I can't wait!!! Then just a few more weeks and I will be nubsessing!! LOL

[MrsKateD]

Yay - so excited for you!! Congratulations on your pregnancy.
Fingers crossed you get your princess :)

[I Love Ladybugs]

I am home from the hospital and still trying to post you a pic now that I am on my laptop. I have posted enough in the past with pix...but for some reason, it will not let me show you how tiny and delicate she is!! Dream, do you think if I sent you both photos you could post for me???????

[Pumpkin2011]

Ladybugs I can't wait to see pics!!! So so excited for you girls :).

I had a scan today and both babies are doing great. Baby A was jumping around like crazy while Baby B was still hiding in the corner. I got some pics and think I can see baby A's nub looks pretty boyish, doesn't it? Would you mind taking a guess? It's still very early (11w1d). My OB said it's too early to tell but Baby A looks boyish to her. I will have an appointment every 3-4 weeks and she promised she would make scans every time. Next regular scan would be January 7th and she said she will be able to tell gender by then :).

I rescheduled my NT scan, having it next Monday so hopefully I will get some better nub pictures.

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In the second pic you can see baby A's nub, baby B is on top with it's head down. I think baby B's jaw loos girly. It's pretty pointy while DS had a more edged jaw (don't now if edged is the right word, hope you understand what I mean.)

[Tree]

Its early, but to me they both look girlie...

[TTCPink]

I am not good at nubs Pumpkin, but I know I have read that it should be 12 or more weeks to make a guess. Hopefully you will get some good nub shots at your NT scan next week! What I do know is there are some beautiful babies in there! Lovely to see them both and so glad they are doing well! :happy:

[Pumpkin2011]

Thanks Ladies! I have read it's 50% accurate at 11weeks, 75% at 12weeks and 95% at 13 weeks. Well, not long to go and we'll know more :).

[bunnywabbit]

OMG pumpkin, they're so cute! I know it's early bit I think two girls too. Did they confirm your due date with this scan or do you need to wait for the next one?

[Dreamofpink]

Sorry for not replying sooner Ladybugs, I only got discharged from hospital this afternoon. I can try posting pics for you! She is utterly adorable & I'd love to share the pics. :)

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[myrainbowgirl]

Congrats, Ladybug!! Can't wait to see pics!

Pumpkin, I agree with you that baby A looks boyish. I had my NT scan at 11w2d, and his nub was similar. But at 11 weeks, it really is too early! So it certainly may still be a girl, and of course, you haven't seen baby B's nub at all! I would bet one of them is a girl!

[I Love Ladybugs]

Sorry for not replying sooner Ladybugs, I only got discharged from hospital this afternoon. I can try posting pics for you! She is utterly adorable & I'd love to share the pics. :)

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You get your sleep and feel better cuddling with all your sweet sons...the pix can wait!

[meeks32]

Ladybugs, I am so happy you got the delivery you wanted with the doctor that made you comfortable!! After that fall and everything so close to delivery I think you deserved a break!!! Can't wait to see her.

Pumpkin I am awesome at nubs, if I do say so myself, because I completely nubsessed and looked through thousands when I was waiting for my scan. I can tell you for sure 11 weeks is far too early, and also those pics aren't that clear especially of baby B. I promise I will guess on your next one, after 12 weeks the stats are better, but also the unofficial stats I noticed were far more reliable after 12 weeks. I agree Baby A does look a bit boyish, but its so early I won't say for sure yet. I have seen very boy nubs at 11 weeks turn girl by 12-13. How far along will you be exactly at the next scan?

Looking forward to some more baby news for those due in December!! I am 30 weeks now and feeling tired but better after a long stint of gastro (thanks to ds1 and 2) and have already gained back the 2kg I lost (sigh). Everyone is telling me I look great but I have gained almost 14kg and feel like a heifer! Also, I am acutely aware of how rapid the weight gain will be over those last 8 weeks. I tend to retain a lot of fluid in the last bit too so I know I will change very soon. Not that it matters, but I will be hiding from the camera this christmas for sure!! In other news baby turned feet down a few nights ago, I am certain of it. Not that I had much choice for a vba2c given my bladder position meant it would rupture in labour, and I have a stupid pelvis (yes, that's the technical term, haha) but that just took any last hope (irrational) I had out the window. Oh well.

[TTCPink]

Meeks, I am glad you are a good nub guesser! I can only do the really obvious ones (like YOUR girl one for example!) I can't wait to get a nub shot! I'l be looking to you for your expertise! Only a few more weeks...

[Pumpkin2011]

Bunny my OB didn't change the due date she said both babies are right on track. Baby A was measuring 4,5cm, baby B exactly 4cm. When is your next scan?

Meeks I can't wait for my NT scan. I will be 12w1d. I can't believe I am already nubsessing over this one. When I zoom in it looks like it still might be girly, it's parallel to the spine but first thought is boy. Oh I wish I would have seen baby B's nub!

[bunnywabbit]

Looking at your scans again, thinking it could be one of each!

My next scan is a private scan on Saturday afternoon, then the original scan is in 23rd. Hoping all is well in there. Would be so much easier if I could see what s/he's doing or could feel movement. Soon...

[Charlee]

This thread has been such a joy to be a part of :) Having everyone at such different points in their pregnancy journey is great! I can't wait to start nub guessing with you ladies :) I don't know if you all remember my 12 week nub shot... holy moley he already had a penis! LMAO

I promise to post pics soon... things have been all kinds of crazy over here and I haven't even opened my laptop since I got home! I think baby Eddie is suffering from some transitional issues and a touch of colic... fun stuff. I lucked out twice with very easy babies so I guess it's my turn for a challenge! LOL ... we're working it out though :)

Can you believe I am already thinking about #4???? Damn you hormones! Lmaoooo

[Charlee]

Pumpkin For what it's worth I think both those nubs look girly! If it was me, I would kinda hope one was a boy though so your DS can have a brother :) Either way I think you can safely say you have a VERY good chance at having at least one girl! :) Can't wait to see your next scan pics!

[TTCPink]

Here is our little baby!! We were able to see the heartbeat today and the baby is measuring perfectly. Could not be happier!! 15635

[TTCPink]

For all of you who got nub scans, did your doctor order the scan at 12 weeks? My doctor has an ultrasound machine in the office so he already measured the baby and confirmed my due date today. My next doctor appointment is not until 13 weeks. According to the nurse I will not have an official scan until 20 weeks! I just assumed I would be getting a real scan at 12 weeks and be able to nubsess. But, now it does not sound like it will be happening! :confused:

[bunnywabbit]

Aww TTCPink, how sweet! So very exciting. Nothing quite like seeing the heartbeat for the first time (even if it isn't your first) x

[bunnywabbit]

For all of you who got nub scans, did your doctor order the scan at 12 weeks? My doctor has an ultrasound machine in the office so he already measured the baby and confirmed my due date today. My next doctor appointment is not until 13 weeks. According to the nurse I will not have an official scan until 20 weeks! I just assumed I would be getting a real scan at 12 weeks and be able to nubsess. But, now it does not sound like it will be happening! :confused:

Oh! That's what I would have thought, too. The scan I'm having this weekend (private - 12+3) and 23rd (13+4) is the NT scan. After that, I think I get another scan around 16 weeks (anomaly). Yes, the gender one (I think) is around 20 weeks. I wonder if by 'official' she meant they won't go ahead unless you're worried about development, so checking for anomalies etc. so will only run a test then. Strange...

[TTCPink]

By official I just meant not the machine in the doctor's office room, but an actual ultrasound that is scheduled...

Maybe I can request an NT scan? I want to make sure it will be covered by insurance first though.

[GeCon]

TTCPink, beautiful little peanut. :)

I think the number and timing of "official" scans depends on where you are. In the UK the scheduled scans are usually at 12 weeks for dating and then at 20 for anomaly. In Germany you get 3 scheduled (paid for) ones: between 10-12 weeks, around 20 weeks for anomaly and around 30 weeks for the big organ scan.

[Charlee]

Here we go... finally!

http://i1307.photobucket.com/albums/s597/charlee1015/momeddie_zps73e2573c.jpg (http://s1307.photobucket.com/user/charlee1015/media/momeddie_zps73e2573c.jpg.html)

http://i1307.photobucket.com/albums/s597/charlee1015/eddie2_zps56ee47bf.jpg (http://s1307.photobucket.com/user/charlee1015/media/eddie2_zps56ee47bf.jpg.html)

http://i1307.photobucket.com/albums/s597/charlee1015/eddie1_zpsef91a7d1.jpg (http://s1307.photobucket.com/user/charlee1015/media/eddie1_zpsef91a7d1.jpg.html)

[I Love Ladybugs]

Charlee....you are just glowing....and he is too precious!!!! You and Dream make such handsome boys!!!!!!!

[GeCon]

Absolutely gorgeous baby and beautiful glowing mummy, Charlee. :awe:

[Charlee]

Thanks guys :) This little person is giving me quite a run for my money! Haha

[bunnywabbit]

Charlee, you look fantastic. Little man is gorgeous! Congrats again xx

[myrainbowgirl]

Aww, Charlee, he's gorgeous! (You look beautiful as well!)

TTCPink - sweet little bean!

[meeks32]

Meeks, I am glad you are a good nub guesser! I can only do the really obvious ones (like YOUR girl one for example!) I can't wait to get a nub shot! I'l be looking to you for your expertise! Only a few more weeks...

Yes well when it comes to everyone ELSE's I am. Haha not so for myself. I was too attached.

[thehappypixi]

Gorgeous Charlee! Both of you!! <3

[meeks32]

Here is our little baby!! We were able to see the heartbeat today and the baby is measuring perfectly. Could not be happier!! 15635


OOOh sorry got interrupted last time I logged on and only got one reply in. So exciting for you!! How are you feeling? I'm so happy things are healthy for you too!

[meeks32]

For all of you who got nub scans, did your doctor order the scan at 12 weeks? My doctor has an ultrasound machine in the office so he already measured the baby and confirmed my due date today. My next doctor appointment is not until 13 weeks. According to the nurse I will not have an official scan until 20 weeks! I just assumed I would be getting a real scan at 12 weeks and be able to nubsess. But, now it does not sound like it will be happening! :confused:

Yes you have to order a NT scan, which where I am in Oz is a separate thing, you go to a proper ultrasound place and pay a LOT for it. But I would have had it anyway, not just to nurses, because it checks for a lot of health related issues etc.

[meeks32]

Here we go... finally!

http://i1307.photobucket.com/albums/s597/charlee1015/momeddie_zps73e2573c.jpg (http://s1307.photobucket.com/user/charlee1015/media/momeddie_zps73e2573c.jpg.html)

http://i1307.photobucket.com/albums/s597/charlee1015/eddie2_zps56ee47bf.jpg (http://s1307.photobucket.com/user/charlee1015/media/eddie2_zps56ee47bf.jpg.html)

http://i1307.photobucket.com/albums/s597/charlee1015/eddie1_zpsef91a7d1.jpg (http://s1307.photobucket.com/user/charlee1015/media/eddie1_zpsef91a7d1.jpg.html)


THERE YOU ARE!!! Well done, he is just gorgeous, I saw these on fb already but wanted to say so again!!! How is it all going? How are you feeling after such a rough pregnancy? Have things settled a little now?

I know I said it already but you look FANTASTIC in that photo, so soon after the birth! Have to tell me the secret, because I always look like a train wreck, EVEN AFTER A C-SECTION!

[Sunflower3]

I thought I would pop in and say hi. It's been awhile since I posted here.
Congrats again to Charlee and Dream! And I love seeing pictures of your beautiful babies !!

I think I'm 2 dpo. Some of you know last month I had another chemical. It was the worst one yet since my frers were getting darker everyday. Then I took a digi and it was - af showed 2 days later.
So this cycle it was like I was going through the motions. I had only two attempts on cd 11 and cd 12 and o'ed cd. 12. So if you can all say a prayer for me I would appreciate it ! I feel like the only person not pregnant!!!!

Excited for your scan pumpkin!

I have to read through the thread. So much to catch up on!

[meeks32]

Nawwww sun that was a nasty month, and very unfair. Hope you got on the raspberry leaf this month, it helped me Immediately. On the upside that timing and frequency is what got me my BFP and my girl after soooo long, I really wish you the same, this month more than ever.

[Sunflower3]

Nawwww sun that was a nasty month, and very unfair. Hope you got on the raspberry leaf this month, it helped me Immediately. On the upside that timing and frequency is what got me my BFP and my girl after soooo long, I really wish you the same, this month more than ever.

Thanks Meeks!
Yes it drank it 2-3 times a day.
O'ed early again too. Fx. Tx. Now the dreaded TWW!!!

[Pumpkin2011]

I agree with meeks sun, the RRLT did help me as well. I conceived the month I started it.

I had my NT scan this morning and the Dr said both babies are looking perfectly healthy. Baby A is measuring 5,7cm, baby B 5,6cm. Since we had to pay extra for the blood work he said there is no need to get it done, he didn't want us to waste the money since he was 100% sure everything looked great. We finally got to see Baby B, I am over the moon happy!

Would you girls mind guessing my nubs?
For a few minutes we could see baby B's nub very very clearly and I got all excited because it was very flat, long and forked. I was immediately so convinced baby B is a girl that I am thinking about going shopping already.
We should find out for sure on jam 7th.

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/ultrasound-gender-prediction/38154-pumpkins-12-week-twin-nubs.html#post507082

[myrainbowgirl]

I looked Pumpkin, and I think boy/girl!

[GeCon]

Pumpkin, cute babies. So happy for you. I'll stick with my original guess of Baby A boy, Baby B girl. Also great news on the babies looking healthy and the doctor not just trying to take your money.

[GeCon]

Tree, how are you? Any news yet? I think you are due today?

And next we have 3boys and Emily. How are you doing, ladies? Emily, are you in the UK yet?

Charlee, Dreamofpink and Ladybug, hope you are all enjoying your newborn cuddles and life is not too crazy for you at the moment.

[thehappypixi]

Woo hoo! Officially third tri ;D Boo hoo, been told I'm anaemic, again! I've been eating every iron rich food under the sun and been sooo careful as I know it could affect my home birth plans.

Hope everyone is well, any more secret poppings?!

[Dreamofpink]

Happypixi, get yourself to Boots ASAP & get some Spatone while it's still on offer. I lost 1300ml of blood during the birth & was hovering above the iron level (8.1) for needing a blood transfusion. I tried iron tablets & they had a horrid effect on my tummy. My midwife recommended taking this natural iron supplement & while it's not cheap it's excellent. It's just too expensive for the NHS to prescribe.

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[Dreamofpink]

Btw it's not bad when you get told to eat lots of steak & broccoli is it?! Beats the le diet anyway :D

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[Dreamofpink]

Thanks Gecon, how are you keeping? Life with a newborn is just fine, Isaac's slotted in no problem! Honestly going from 2-3 takes a little more thinking in these early days, but is pretty good. Once I have Isaac on a routine next month, things should get easier. It's our house which is causing all the problems as we have no hot water or central heating right now. Our boiler gave up the ghost last night. Thank goodness we had our woodburner put in the day before I went into labour. It sounds awful but Christmas is a bit of an inconvenience as we need to get the boiler sorted but I'm not sure if we'll manage to before next week! :hair:

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[Tree]

So...... My little girl arrived!! On her due date. I had a perfect and very fast water birth, it was amazing. I am so totally grateful for everything and feeling utterly in love.
I still can't believe she is a girl, its so strange seeing girl bits rather than boy bits and I've accidentally called her 'he' a few times.
What a journey, and a dream come true! X

[GeCon]

Tree, congratulations on the birth of your little girl. And welcome to the world, little Mini-Tree. Sounds like you had a perfect birth. Are you back at home yet? Any chance of some pics of your little lady?

[Pumpkin2011]

Huge congrats tree! Aww I always wanted a water birth, great job!

[shellbell34]

Hi everyone I am due on July 28, 2014 I hope you will let me join. I have two sons and tried to sway for a girl my last attempt. I hope everyone has a great day!

[Tree]

I'm back home yes. I don't know how to post pics!? And for some reason can't even see other people's...

[TTCPink]

Congratulations Tree!! :DD:

[TTCPink]

Hi ShellBell! :welcome: I am due July 13th, and also have two boys and swayed girl. And I am from Indiana too!

[shellbell34]

TTCPink have you been to doctor yet? I finally go next week I will be 9 weeks. I feel that is pretty long to be seen but I didn't know if that was a new thing or not.

[thehappypixi]

Happypixi, get yourself to Boots ASAP & get some Spatone while it's still on offer. I lost 1300ml of blood during the birth & was hovering above the iron level (8.1) for needing a blood transfusion. I tried iron tablets & they had a horrid effect on my tummy. My midwife recommended taking this natural iron supplement & while it's not cheap it's excellent. It's just too expensive for the NHS to prescribe.

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Crikey!! Yes I've had some similar advice, I saw an acupuncturist friend today who gave me some treatment with ax and wrote me prescription for Floridax, I'm guessing a similar natural iron supplement.

[thehappypixi]

Congratulations Tree!!! Photooooosss!!

Mrs anti pink here got an early baby gift from a lovely colleague, and I love it! It's such a lovely change, and such a thoughtful kind gift I was very overwhelmed! Excited for next year!!

http://i17.photobucket.com/albums/b99/thehappypixi/ad9d53c4005ac8bb7f8f6a8128d2306d.jpg

[Tree]

How do I post pics? I did it before but maybe because I updated app it changed?

[meeks32]

Thanks Meeks!
Yes it drank it 2-3 times a day.
O'ed early again too. Fx. Tx. Now the dreaded TWW!!!

Yay! Keep it up in the 2 ww and it's something to wean slowly off at bfp.

[meeks32]

So...... My little girl arrived!! On her due date. I had a perfect and very fast water birth, it was amazing. I am so totally grateful for everything and feeling utterly in love.
I still can't believe she is a girl, its so strange seeing girl bits rather than boy bits and I've accidentally called her 'he' a few times.
What a journey, and a dream come true! X

Oh congratulations honey, fantastic news. I always wanted a water birth!! Can't wait to see pics!

[meeks32]

How do I post pics? I did it before but maybe because I updated app it changed?

In my tapatalk app, I simply reply or post a new comment then press the picture of a camera on the bottom left of the typing box, above the keyboard... Or press the image next to it of mountains and a moon (supposed to be the icon for pictures in camera roll).

I'm on an iPhone.

[I Love Ladybugs]

15775 I hope that this pic will work... love having a new baby in the house!

[I Love Ladybugs]

Between a tablet and a new laptop, I could not post much...bad keyboards and photographs that would not load. She is a great baby and in the 97%.... not the 3%!!!!!!!! Perfect other than the kidney and bladder..... but she pees just fine :-) as on me..more than either boy did.

[Charlee]

She is amazing Ladybug!! Sooo cute :) What I wouldn't give to buy a flowery onesie! :)

[Charlee]

Congrats Tree! I am so happy for you to have a great delivery and have everything go smoothly :) I can't wait to see pics :)

[Charlee]

Dream - I am severely anemic also ... UGH. I can't stomach the iron tablets so I've been trying to eat lots of iron rich foods but it doesn't seem to he helping. My hair is starting to fall out by the handful! I guess this is probably great for a pink sway but I'm not too sure how soon (if at all!) I want to TTC again. How are you feeling about all that?

[meeks32]

Ladybugs she is beautiful. So glad it sounds like her health issues are minimal, and treatable? Does she need surgery?

Dream and Charlee I am anaemic too but luckily tolerate the iron tabs, have heard good things about the natural alternatives though.

AFM I have had horrible upper stomach pain, nausea, and barely eaten or slept in days. Off to the big city tomorrow for some blood and urine tests, and an ultrasound to see what's going on. No idea what it is but would really love the pain to go away. Still getting good movements but the pain ebbs and flows and when it's bad I can barely stand or speak, when it's eased off it's still there constantly niggling. Never had this in pregnancy before...

[bunnywabbit]

15775 I hope that this pic will work... love having a new baby in the house!

Aww, she's absolutely gorgeous, I love Ladybugs. Love her little button nose! Enjoy her x

[GeCon]

Ladybugs, she is adorable.

Meeks, sorry to hear you are not feeling too well. Hopefully you will get some answers and feel better soon.

Bunny, how are you feeling?

AFM: I am officially 36 weeks today, which is a relief as it means that should the wee man decide to come any time now, all going well we should be able to go to the local hospital. Seen the MW this morning. All is well. Wee man is head down, but not yet engaged, which is apparently normal for subsequent pregnancies. Let's see if we can make it to the next MW appointment on the 3rd January. And according to my ticker he is now the size of a honeydew. Not sure I believe the ticker as he was the size of a pineapple a few weeks ago, which to me is bigger than a honeydew...

[bunnywabbit]

Hello trimester 2!

I know I shouldn't be able to feel much at the moment, but am certain I can feel baby move. Not kicking, etc. but I have felt him/her move from the centre of my tum to the side. Tummy finally looks like I have a little baby in there - if I wake in the morning on my back there's a little bulge below my naval line which started on Tuesday. My stomach used to be completely flat when I woke.

Last half day at work tomorrow before breaking up for Christmas, then scan on Monday morning - looking forward to this one. Hoping LO is a little more cooperative than last time as bubba's granddad is coming to the scan. So excited!

[bunnywabbit]

Ladybugs, she is adorable.

Meeks, sorry to hear you are not feeling too well. Hopefully you will get some answers and feel better soon.

Bunny, how are you feeling?

AFM: I am officially 36 weeks today, which is a relief as it means that should the wee man decide to come any time now, all going well we should be able to go to the local hospital. Seen the MW this morning. All is well. Wee man is head down, but not yet engaged, which is apparently normal for subsequent pregnancies. Let's see if we can make it to the next MW appointment on the 3rd January. And according to my ticker he is now the size of a honeydew. Not sure I believe the ticker as he was the size of a pineapple a few weeks ago, which to me is bigger than a honeydew...

I'm not too bad thanks, GeCon. Hoping all is well with you and your little men. Still eating for one but wanting to sleep for two. Looking forward to Monday's scan. Will be 13+4 so may be able find out which one it'll be. Still thinking I'll hear boy, but for right now I just want to make it to term relatively worry free and have a healthy happy baby.

So sorry you're feeling rotten, Meeks. I hope it resolves soon. x

Had a look on thebump.com at what my little peach should be doing for the week and wondering how far out I am from my actual due date. I guess I won't find out as such until they measure at my 16 week scan, right?

[myrainbowgirl]

Congrats, Tree!

Aww, Ladybugs, she is gorgeous!! Do they think she will need any treatment or repairs? So glad she's doing so well!

Meeks - yuck on feeling badly. Hope they figure it out quickly!

Bunny - Woohoo on 2nd tri! Looking forward to seeing more nub pics!

AFM - Doing ok, feeling pretty good. Emotionally have had a rough week. The boys have been HARD, and I really had a bit of a breakdown yesterday, thinking I am not ready for another, and certainly not another little boy. BUT, took them all out today to get haircuts and then to lunch and ice cream, and they were actually very good. I just looked around at all of them with their adorable little hairdo's, and thought that I am so blessed to have each of them. God knew I couldn't handle another rough day, I guess! Still nervous about TTCing again, but know that He won't give me what I can't handle. Trusting Him! :)

[myrainbowgirl]

Congrats, Tree!

Aww, Ladybugs, she is gorgeous!! Do they think she will need any treatment or repairs? So glad she's doing so well!

Meeks - yuck on feeling badly. Hope they figure it out quickly!

Bunny - Woohoo on 2nd tri! Looking forward to seeing more nub pics!

AFM - Doing ok, feeling pretty good. Emotionally have had a rough week. The boys have been HARD, and I really had a bit of a breakdown yesterday, thinking I am not ready for another, and certainly not another little boy. BUT, took them all out today to get haircuts and then to lunch and ice cream, and they were actually very good. I just looked around at all of them with their adorable little hairdo's, and thought that I am so blessed to have each of them. God knew I couldn't handle another rough day, I guess! Still nervous about TTCing again, but know that He won't give me what I can't handle. Trusting Him! :)

[TTCPink]

I didn't go to the doctor until 9 weeks either. It was supposed to be 8 weeks but then they had to reschedule. The nice thing about it being a little later was that I was able to have a little ultrasound in the room and we were able to see the heartbeat. It was great for peace of mind.


TTCPink have you been to doctor yet? I finally go next week I will be 9 weeks. I feel that is pretty long to be seen but I didn't know if that was a new thing or not.

[TTCPink]

Ladybugs, she is so beautiful! So happy for you!!

Meeks, were they able to determine what was causing all of that pain for you? I hope you are feeling better!

Bunny, yay for second tri! Hopefully some new found energy will come to you soon. I remember feeling so much better around 13 weeks with my last two pregnancies. Hoping it happens again. I have been feeling terrible...migraines and nausea, and just plain exhausted. Never had much sickness at all with the other two luckily. This is no fun!

Charlee, I am enjoying keeping up with little guy through your pictures on FB. He is so precious! How are the big boys doing with the adjustment?

Rainbow, I have had a rough week with my boys this week too. I have been so frustrated and don't know if they are being that much different or if it's more me because I have been so sick and tired that it is hard to have patience.

GeCon, wow you are getting so close to meeting your new little man! So exciting!!

[Pumpkin2011]

Ladybugs your little one is so gorgeous!!! Keep the pics coming.

Bunny I am right behind you, 2nd Tri starts on Sunday, yayyyy. I experienced the same thing with my belly last night. It came out of nowhere I swear. The day before it was completely flat but last night I put my hands on my belly while I was sleeping and woke up because it felt so different. Here is the proof:

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After getting some boy/boy guesses on my nubs it came to my mind for the very first time that I really could be carrying two boys and I started to panic. I know I don't have to explain it to you guys, there is nothing bad at all about having boys it's just that I would love a daughter as well. I wanted to talk to DH about my fears and was so surprised when he got mad at me. He didn't get that at all and said I am not being grateful. After all we've been through I should feel blessed to be carrying twins but no matter how often I explained to him that I am over the moon happy he didn't get what this is all about for me. BUT when I said I believe I could be carrying two girls by looking at the nubs he said "no way, at least one of them has to be a boy." So why can he wish for a certain gender? I still think it's either b/g or g/g but the thought of 2 boys is somehow scary.

TTC I am sorry you are feeling bad but it will get better soon. You are looking awesome. I love your Christmas Card and you guys look sooo happy and always glowing! Will you have an NT scan?

Meeks do you know more by now? Did you find out what's going on? Haven't heard from you since yesterday, hope you are doing good!

GeCon it's crazy how time flies by. I remember how the two of us were line guessing on our HPT's together and now you are only a few weeks away of holding your precious little boy.

[Charlee]

Myrainbowgirl - I completely understand you getting overwhelmed! I had a moment like that too recently where the older boys were acting up and I just KNEW people were watching us thinking "and she's got another tiny one?!?!" LOL... I freaked out for a min, but then decided to say FORGET THOSE PEOPLE! Kids act up, and boys are a handful to boot so its not going to be all roses all the time. You are correct about God giving us only what we can handle and I truly believe we are such good Moms to boys that he trusts us with this many!

So you are going for #4? How long after delivery are you thinking about TTC? I am still so up in the air about it... this last pregnancy and delivery were very difficult for me and recovery hasn't been a cakewalk either... but I can't shake the feeling that I'm not done yet! I won't TTC until I am ready for another boy though! LOL

[Charlee]

Sorry, *going for #5*... I've been obsessing about 4 kids as you can tell! LOL

[Charlee]

TTCPink - The older boys are doing really well with the baby actually! I think waiting so long between pregnancies was a really good thing for us. They get a little impatient if they want/need something from me and I'm busy with baby though, but they're adjusting :) My 8 yr old is definitely more excited about his little brother, but my 6 yr old is doing good too :) All in all I couldn't have asked for a better transition!

[Charlee]

Meeks - how are you feeling? Did you get any answers from your Dr appt? Thinking of you and hoping all is well!

Pumpkin - if there are any group of ladies who understand the fear of having all boys, it's this group! Haha... but I promise you will love them to pieces even if that is the case :) I really believe you have at least one girl in there though... those nubs looked different from one another, so no matter how you look at it I don't think they are the same gender! But, it they are both boys then you can come cry to us, because so many of us understand that initial letdown! Keeping my fingers crossed for you :)

[I Love Ladybugs]

Pumpkin....one of those cuties just has to be a girl!!! I am not a nub guesser, but even to me the nubs look different, so it would truly shock me if they were both the same gender. For the 4 weeks that I had been told boy to finding out that she was a she...I realized that I was saying bye to the dream of a mixed gender family as our number was 3 max. I feel for you that your hubby did not understand.... lots of hugs!!! I still think that one of those mini pumpkins is going to be pink though.

Bunnywabbit....yay for being through 1st tri! It always felt the longest as the biggest highlight of it is near the end being able to hear the heartbeat....2nd tri always flew by for me. I hope that your upcoming scan is a great holiday treat....seeing baby in all their cuteness sounds like a wonderful present!!!

Myrainbowgirl..... (((hugs))) My boys, despite how great they have been with the new baby, are pushing their limits the closer it gets to Christmas. I blame my hubby....lol, that gingerbread house/icing sugar creation has been spawning 2 of the most "excitable" boys!! I hope for your sake your newest little man is MELLOW!!!

Charlee...I do think that with having older boys and now a new baby, it is so much easier than those who do add to their family closer together. My oldest has already been asking for number 4....

Gecon...36 weeks was my big aim too...I really wanted her here with my MD and not be forced the hour away in the less than optimal setting of the larger hospital. You are so close to meeting your new little guy.....it is going to be a great new year!!!

Meeks...so that is not cool about the pain...I do pray that they were able to determine what is causing it!

Emily...are you in the UK? Is that little baby here?????

AFM....thanks so much about all the comments about little Larissa! We are smitten by her....and so thankful that she is in the 97%...not the 3%. The u/s pushed back the visit to Vancouver to the 3 month mark, so I take it that they are not as worried as initially thought, but I don't know if it means surgery or not. For right now, I am just taking it one day at a time and making sure I cuddle her as much as I can.

[Emily]

Hello ladies!!!!!sorry Have been awol - i was staying with my parents who do not have internet so only managed the occasional FB over the last 3 weeks. i saw that Charlee has had her gorgeous little boy and got very broody which is weird for me as Normally think newborns (even my own) look like scrunched up aliens!!!! Belated congrats Charlee.

AFM i have now moved into my temporary flat and my husband and both boys are here too:) no baby yet but loads of increasingly uncomfortable BHs.

Right off to read the last three weeks of posts!

[thehappypixi]

Morning everyone! Hope you're all well ;D
Love seeing all these squishy pictures <3
I'm officially n maternity leave now and starting to feel nesty! Looking at the kitchen thinking it would look great purple! Haha! Got loads of baby clothes given to me that I need to sort through, exciting!
Hope you're all geared up for the big day next week ;D

[Pumpkin2011]

Thanks ladies, you are awesome!

Ladybugs so glad to hear Larissa is in 97%!! Can't wait to see more pics, she really is a cutie!

Emily good to hear from you. Not long to go :).

I watched a video of baby B today I haven't uploaded and found something that's looking like a potty shot to me. Is it too early for potty shots to be accurate?

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Charlee I love seeing all the pics of little Eddie, he is perfect!!

[thehappypixi]

Too early for potty shots, here's a website to obsess over like I did!

Embryo Development external genital sex organs - angle of the dangle boy or girl ultrasound gender scan - Baby2see (http://www.baby2see.com/gender/external_genitals.html)

[Waiting4Daisy]

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[Tree]

Charleee, I wrote on the other post about this but I too can't shake the feeling that we might not be done, or afraid that we are. Even having got our desired gender there is a part of me that is sad at the thought of never being pregnant again etc... It could just be hormones!? The only difference is that if we went for a fourth I really wouldn't care what we had. I don't think I'd want to find out.

How are you going? We are not getting much sleep here! Poppy doesn't like to sleep in her crib!

[GeCon]

Morning ladies,

How is everyone today? We are okay here, although I am so sore down there. I have no idea what it is.... maybe pelvic pain with baby moving down? I can't recall having this sort of pain in my 1st pregnancy. It is difficult to describe, but it it feels sort of bruised and sore in the complete lower region. It is okay when I sit still, but when I am trying to get up or move (for example when sleeping), it hits me...

[thehappypixi]

Sounds like pelvic gurdle pain, it's all the hormones loosening everything up for labour. Very helpful for birth, not so much for walking, sitting, anything else really! I have found a tight strap around my hip region helps.

[I Love Ladybugs]

I have a happy puker...she has been projectile vomiting the excess feeds, and it is scary after having a severe reflux baby with DS#2. She is already at 7lbs, her rate of growth is great and you would never guess all the issues we dealt with in this pregnancy.

Tree....I think it is preggo hormones effecting us all differently. I knew going into this pregnancy that it would be the last. With all the challenges throughout it, I realized that for our families best outcome, that it would most likely the last baby and pregnancy. I felt such guilt with DS2 that I felt any gender desire for a girl and did not put the value of enjoying what easily could have been the last pregnancy (DH would have been good with 2 children)....so this last pregnancy and baby was enjoyed as much as I could with the health concerns (esp. the 3% Downs comments by the specialists).

Gecon....round ligament all the way....getting in and out of bed was the worst!!! Just cry and don't worry what anyone thinks....or fall on the ice like I did so that the pain is just part of the larger picture. I think that it must have been more effective this pregnancy in loosening things as I got 2 pushes and baby was out!!!!!

Happy pixi....we have a silvery purple kitchen that I decided is going to turn into a photo gray this summer!! Lol, nesting hit me hard, but then when I fell on the ice, all I could do was boss hubby around, which did not work that well. What shade of purple are you thinking about????

[thehappypixi]

Not sure, mentioned it to Mark and he said no! Lol! We will probably be selling next year so vivid colours seem to be a bad idea if about to put house on market :/
Need a project, just not sure what! Plus I can't over do it with the spazzy pelvis going on too, makes once simple tasks quite painful :/

[Waiting4Daisy]

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[myrainbowgirl]

Pumpkin - Yeah, too early for potty shots, but that definitely looked girly! :)

Charlee - Yes, we are planning on #5...although the thought scares me out of my mind! A sweet friend of mine with BBGB just got pg with her 5th, so it will be fun to see 5 kiddos played out in front of me. Another good friend with GBG just found out she's preggo with #4, so I am lucky to be surrounded by big families! Not planning to sway, other than a few diet changes that I think helped me get preggo so fast this time. I also would love to not prevent (without trying) for 6 months or so, just to see if it would happen without my obsessing over it. We'll see! Right now I am honestly wondering how I will handle 4, but we both strongly feel that we are supposed to do this again (without HT, without swaying, without adopting...basically not controlling it so that God can do what He wants without my interfering)! Anyway, how about you? Will you sway for #4?

GeCon - Ugh, the pain sounds awful! Hope you are able to rest up a little or at least find a belt or something that helps!

Everyone else - Hi!

[TTCPink]

Well, I admit it. The gender obsessing is rearing it's ugly head for me. My brother in law and sister in law announced very dramatically that they are having a girl. They had an "It's a girl" helium balloon wrapped in a box and had my mother in law and father in law open it at the Christmas party. Everyone was over the top excited...and now I am 100% convinced I am having a boy. So is my husband! UGH. My other sister in law is also expecting. They will find out the same time as us. I just know they are going to have a girl too and I will be the only one having a boy. I even overheard relatives talking in the other room about how they just "know" I am going to have another boy. I was doing so well convincing myself I don't care about gender, but the announcement just really got to me. Sorry, just had to vent. It will be a long wait until Feb to find out what we are having!

[I Love Ladybugs]

Well, I admit it. The gender obsessing is rearing it's ugly head for me. My brother in law and sister in law announced very dramatically that they are having a girl. They had an "It's a girl" helium balloon wrapped in a box and had my mother in law and father in law open it at the Christmas party. Everyone was over the top excited...and now I am 100% convinced I am having a boy. So is my husband! UGH. My other sister in law is also expecting. They will find out the same time as us. I just know they are going to have a girl too and I will be the only one having a boy. I even overheard relatives talking in the other room about how they just "know" I am going to have another boy. I was doing so well convincing myself I don't care about gender, but the announcement just really got to me. Sorry, just had to vent. It will be a long wait until Feb to find out what we are having!

I hope and pray that you have a pink bundle on board.....and can come up with an over the top way to announce her arrival!!! From the moment I told family and friends that we were expecting our last, I was told boy from all family members and a majority of friends. It made me both sad and mad that they were saying what they were without thinking of how I would feel...all I wanted was my last to be welcomed with the same excitement that his oldest brother had back 5+ years ago!!!!!

I hope I make sense....newborn and tired momma here....which will be you next summer!!! I forgot how snuggly they are and now truly tired I could be nursing through the night!!!!

[GeCon]

TTCPink, I am so sorry you are going through this. I am so annoyed at people's comments about the gender. It is none of their business. And you still have every chance of this little one being a girl. And even if it wasn't, there is NOTHING WRONG with same gender siblings. I wish other people (outsiders, not us mums ;)) would stop obsessing and giving their opinion. *Big hugs*

[bunnywabbit]

Sorry your little one is a bit of a puker, Iloveladybugs. Glad her weight is keeping well though. Hoping it eases for you both soon.

Thehappypixi, I so badly want to decorate. And Declutter. And declutter some more, but am at the in-law's place for the moment - so much stuff I could quite happily have sent to the dump but can't touch. One day...

Gecon, I hope your pain eases soon one way or another - on the home stretch now, yay!

TTCpink, how insensitive! I can't believe people do this sort of thing, family of all people, and are happy to do so. You're still in the game for your little pink bundle... *bighug*

Hoping everyone else is well.

[bunnywabbit]

This morning's ultrasound went well, albeit fast. Note to self: scans at 11am are very uneventful. Baby's naptime again! My due date has been skipped ahead a couple of days to 24th June, so 14 weeks tomorrow (which is also step brother-in-law's birthday). Measuring at 8.4cm CTR. Strange how much baby's forehead shape has changed so much in a week.

Couldn't see anything of gender during the ultrasound. Scanned in one of the photos in which I think I might just see something gender related but not too sure:

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[thehappypixi]

Oh TTCPink that all sounds so insensitive and unbearable! I'm not sure I would have lasted the party :(
Hope once all the family pressure is off you can relax and enjoy either way in the new year xxx

[myrainbowgirl]

TTCPink - I am so sorry people are being so insensitive. It absolutely amazes me the things that come out of people's mouths! I have had a lot of people assume I'm having another boy, and I just so wish I could say, "No, actually, this one's a girl!" One day...but I know that once he's here, I won't be able to imagine him not being a part of our family! You have no reason to believe that you're not having a girl...just try to take comfort in that!

Ladybugs - Rest up when you can, and enjoy that sweet baby girl!

Bunny - I can't really see anything in that pic...what is your hunch? Will you have another after this? I remember you mentioning that you were older, and I couldn't remember your plans. :) I am 36, and will be pushing 38 before I will be able to TTC again, but still planning to!

[TTCPink]

Thanks girls. I am feeling a little better about it now. I guess what upsets me is the most is that I feel like it is a disappointment for some of our family if this baby is not a girl. Every baby is such a blessing and deserves to be celebrated. I know if it's a boy everyone will love him to pieces when he gets here, but it just really annoys me how much emphasis everyone is putting on the gender this time because I have two boys.

To all of those who celebrate Christmas...Merry Christmas! :heart: Have a wonderful time celebrating with family and friends!

[Charlee]

Thanks girls. I am feeling a little better about it now. I guess what upsets me is the most is that I feel like it is a disappointment for some of our family if this baby is not a girl. Every baby is such a blessing and deserves to be celebrated. I know if it's a boy everyone will love him to pieces when he gets here, but it just really annoys me how much emphasis everyone is putting on the gender this time because I have two boys.

To all of those who celebrate Christmas...Merry Christmas! :heart: Have a wonderful time celebrating with family and friends!

That's exactly how I felt! I wasn't necessarily disappointed at having another boy but my family was OBVIOUSLY disappointed, which fueled my gd greatly... but I'm here to tell you that I wouldn't trade this little man for any girl in the world! I am SO glad hes a boy and I have zero regrets :) I would still love to have a daughter, but if it's not in the cards then so be it.... You will be so in love no matter what gender. :)

Fwiw, your reaction will speak volumes to everyone else!

[Charlee]

Merry Christmas to all my lovely GD ladies! Whatever you do, don't have a baby today or tomorrow! LOL

[bunnywabbit]

Bunny - I can't really see anything in that pic...what is your hunch? Will you have another after this? I remember you mentioning that you were older, and I couldn't remember your plans. :) I am 36, and will be pushing 38 before I will be able to TTC again, but still planning to!

I have another scan in the beginning of February. I have 3 photos for this scan in total, but the other two manage to have even less detail than this one!

I think I can see two, small white lines if you zoom into this picture, but not wanting to read anything into it either way. Just wondered if I'm the only one who sees them and what they think.

[bunnywabbit]

Merry Christmas to you all from the UK. Have a lovely time, be safe and best wishes for 2014! xxx