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Pbn3
March 30th, 2017, 10:41 PM
No all good lol!! I wouldn't test any earlier than 8dpo with frers but I used to start at 7dpo 😂
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Skyblue
March 30th, 2017, 10:58 PM
No all good lol!! I wouldn't test any earlier than 8dpo with frers but I used to start at 7dpo [emoji23]
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Lol. It's hard to wait. Isn't it? I still have 4 more days to go. [emoji854]
netti02
March 31st, 2017, 02:00 AM
Thanks Lolabelle.
Turns out I had influenza A ugghh just gota hope I can get back to work next Wednesday.
All this serious sickness just keeps reminding how great it is for a girl sway 😂😂😂 ive been on strongs antibiotics though. Im not sure if Ive even ovulated yet I had some suspicion it may have been Thursday as I had really bad pains but im still getting O pains and fertile CM. Maybe I currently am O'ing. Oh well don't think that's enough to convince my DH 😂
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AshFind
March 31st, 2017, 07:55 AM
Sky my hubby is gone until Monday evening so I will be testing Tuesday morning 7dpo.... I know it's early so I know not to get upset until 9dpo that's when I got pos with other babies
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Lolabelle
March 31st, 2017, 08:34 AM
Yikes Netti! Get well soon! ...And yes, at least it helps your girl sway :)
Ash-1st time I've wanted to rush the weekend so we can get closer to testing yay!!
I want4kids-can't wait for today's testing update!
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momamia4
March 31st, 2017, 09:57 AM
I hope you get better quickly Netti!
Ash and Lola, I can't wait for Tuesday!!
Iwant4kids, wake up and test!! LOL!
I'm so nervous for my IUI today!! DH can't be there with me because he has to work. I just have to lay on the table and have a nurse shoot DH's sperm into me. So. Weird. I think it's amazing the lengths us women are willing to go to in order to get pregnant, lol! It's crazy! I hope I don't have too much cramping afterward.
momamia4
March 31st, 2017, 10:13 AM
I don't know what it is about today but I'm feeling so emotional. :sad: My anxiety is horrible!! I'm all over the place! Sometimes I'm excited, then I'm sad, then I'm freaking out, then I'm angry, then back to excited. Holy crap! I'm exhausted and it's only 10am!! Maybe it's grieving since this is my last cycle? I'm definitely still trying to come to terms with it. Sometimes I'm totally ok with it and then I get kind of sad. Nowhere near as sad as I used to, but just a little. I think it's more the thought of letting down DH. He wants a DD more than I do at this point in our journey. He'll be so sad if it doesn't work! He's been telling me that he's been having dreams of what she'll look like and holding her in his arms. UGH!! I'm so sad!!! I wish I could just do this for him!!! We're both so exhausted though. He's doing the same thing as me where sometimes he's fine with being done and other times he gets really sad about it. I definitely can't keep doing this though. It's too emotionally draining to continually have so much heartache. The roller coaster of getting excited at the beginning of each cycle and then complete devastation when af shows up again has taken it's toll on me. Sorry for all the whining. :worry:
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Shannshaff
March 31st, 2017, 10:22 AM
HUGS Moma. It is so so tough. Praying that this is it for you and DH!
Lolabelle
March 31st, 2017, 10:31 AM
Moma-vent anytime :) Positive vibes sent your way!! I'm excited for you!! You've got this :hugs: It's completely normal to feel a range of emotions. It won't be easy, but try your best think positive thoughts and know that you've tried your absolute best to make this happen ...and the rest is out of your control. Fxfxfx soooo hard!! Keep us posted on how it goes.
momamia4
March 31st, 2017, 11:04 AM
Thanks ladies! I will definitely keep you posted! :)
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AshFind
March 31st, 2017, 12:02 PM
Oh mommamia I'll be thinking of you! I can't wait to get your results! I've been trying to stay calm but it is so hard!! How many times have you done iui? I couldn't even imagine getting to that point
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momamia4
March 31st, 2017, 01:36 PM
So DH's sperm count was much lower this time, which makes sense given this is the 4th day in a row of ejaculating, and less than 24 hours since our last bd. Pre-wash his count was 48 million. Post-wash the count was 33 million. His motility was great at 80%! Hopefully 1 sperm will be able to do its freaking job!!!
Ash, this is my second cycle of iui. It's really inconvenient. I've read of women doing like 10 cycles of iui. I would never be able to do that!!! It's so time consuming. My doctors office was running 45mins behind schedule today!! Then after they finally took me back, I had to lay there for 20 mins after the iui. It seemed like forever!! I wish they would have told me when I got there that they were running behind. I would have gone pee and gotten a coffee from the Starbucks in the hospital, lol! Just one more iui tomorrow and then I never have to do it again!!! Yay!!
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AshFind
March 31st, 2017, 02:47 PM
GL mommamia I'm hopeful for you!
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momamia4
March 31st, 2017, 03:42 PM
Thanks Ash! :)
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IWant4Kids
March 31st, 2017, 04:17 PM
Sorry to keep you waiting, BFN so I'm out. My fevers really could have been to blame as they were so high. I think fertilization occurred but no implantation. Good news is that I'll still ovulate and test during April!! So I can stick around
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AshFind
March 31st, 2017, 04:21 PM
So sorry Iwant4kids what a bummer I don't like bad news it gets my hopes down ☹️
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momamia4
March 31st, 2017, 04:34 PM
Sorry Iwant4kids!! Hopefully next cycle will be the one for you! :D
AshFind
March 31st, 2017, 04:45 PM
Sky is up next.... bring us good news!
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Pbn3
March 31st, 2017, 04:55 PM
Sorry I want4kids :( what dpo are you?
Ash I'm loving those jumps in temp on your chart. Looks like how my bfp chart in November started! Its the temps from 6dpo'ish onwards that count but I think sometimes the first few days temps can be promising which in your case it looks it to me!!
My chart looks very ordinary but this was first cycle taking clomid later so I know it messed with my temps abit... will have to see what happens over next few days but its hard to feel excited when it looks so crappy lol!
Yay for iui number 1 momamia 😀 are you sure you don't have a couple cycles left in you? I can hear in your words that your exhausted for sure but it still sounds like you and dh haven't quite come to terms with stopping. I say this with love and understanding ❤ it's taken me almost a year (11 months) to finally be ready and at complete peace to stop again. I don't know what I'll do if I get a bfp and miscarry again, I think this is why I'm so ok with moving on as the uncertainty of a healthy pregnancy if I do get a bfp is always in the back of my mind......
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momamia4
March 31st, 2017, 05:21 PM
Yay for iui number 1 momamia are you sure you don't have a couple cycles left in you? I can hear in your words that your exhausted for sure but it still sounds like you and dh haven't quite come to terms with stopping. I say this with love and understanding ❤ it's taken me almost a year (11 months) to finally be ready and at complete peace to stop again. I don't know what I'll do if I get a bfp and miscarry again, I think this is why I'm so ok with moving on as the uncertainty of a healthy pregnancy if I do get a bfp is always in the back of my mind......
Yes, I'm sure. The threat of miscarriage is the exact reason I want to stop. I have no idea if I'll ever have a healthy pregnancy again. I definitely need to take a lot of time to focus on me and my kids. I've spent so much time, energy, and money ttc for the last 2 years. It's been the main focus of all of my thoughts and plans. I'm tired of it. We might NTNP eventually but I'm definitely not going to be opk testing, temping, or following any message boards. As much as I care about all of you ladies, it's just too hard to come on here and see all of the women who now have babies (sometimes more than 1) in the time I've been trying. It's just too emotionally draining for me. I have other things in my life that I want to accomplish and have put on hold while we've been ttc. I'm ready to actually finish those things. :) Now that my first iui is done, I'm feeling more at peace. I know that we've put everything into this cycle and have exhausted all of our options. If it doesn't happen this cycle, I'll be ok. We've also already decided that DH is getting a vasectomy at age 40. That's 5 years from now. What will be, will be. I'm done thinking about it.
AshFind
March 31st, 2017, 05:26 PM
Now it's super important to get that bfp this cycle mommamia so we don't have to be without you!
Pbn your getting me excited [emoji846]
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Pbn3
March 31st, 2017, 05:39 PM
Sorry momamia :( I didn't mean to question your feelings like that. I should have pmed you about it too. You certainly are giving it your all this cycle and I hope it all pays off xxoo
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momamia4
March 31st, 2017, 06:11 PM
No worries at all!!! 😁 I hope this cycle is successful for both of us!!
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maximbella
March 31st, 2017, 06:29 PM
Momamia, I totally understand the emotional back and forth. One day I'm so excited and optimistic about the possibly of #3, other days my kids are hard and I cant believe I'd even think about adding another, some days I'm happy about it, others I'm negative. And sometimes all those thoughts happen in a matter of minutes.[emoji38]Wishing you the best in this cycle!
I'm sorry Iwantmore...big hugs!
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momamia4
March 31st, 2017, 06:38 PM
Exactly, maxim! It's nice to know I'm not the only one who goes through that. :)
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maximbella
March 31st, 2017, 06:56 PM
Exactly, maxim! It's nice to know I'm not the only one who goes through that. :)
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Not even close.... ❤️
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Lolabelle
March 31st, 2017, 07:03 PM
Moma & maxim-I feel the same way sometimes! I love my boys, but when they both have a complete meltdown at the same time in a store...I think I'm crazy for wanting 1 more. However, if I don't at least try to have a girl...I'll always wonder about #3!
Moma-yayyyy for only one more iui!! Fx that this does the trick!! We are all rooting for you & of course want you to stick around :)
Sorry to hear Iwant4kids! What is your dpo? I know it's different for everyone, but I've never gotten a BFP before 11dpo. Hope it's still just early! I'm glad there's the silver lining of you sticking around, as you mentioned...
Pbn & Ash-keeping fx!!! Tempted to test on Monday at 9dpo. Ash-you've had a BFP that early?
Skyblue-are you testing this weekend?
Maxim-how is everything?
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AshFind
March 31st, 2017, 07:14 PM
Yes Lola with my 2nd it's on my chart from 2008 that's still saved on ff. I don't remember any of the rest though.
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AshFind
March 31st, 2017, 07:16 PM
Lola I def. don't want you to take my word and be let down because it's so early! I'm sure it's best to wait [emoji6] though I know I won't... or cant
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IWant4Kids
March 31st, 2017, 07:32 PM
Omg must have ovulated later than I thought! Just looked at last night's test! Temp is low though so could be a chemical. Still hope! https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20170331/87c3f5bf75ec219423d21f4bbe85b724.jpg
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Pbn3
March 31st, 2017, 07:37 PM
I want4kids was there a line before you pulled apart the test? I can't tell if there's any pink in that line. Unfortunately you'll almost always see a line on these strips when they are exposed to air. It's whether they have colour or not that makes the difference. Can you get pics of your next frer intact? Fx!!!
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Pbn3
March 31st, 2017, 07:39 PM
Can you also get a screenshot of your chart?
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IWant4Kids
March 31st, 2017, 08:12 PM
Testing again
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maximbella
March 31st, 2017, 08:14 PM
I totally see that 2nd line, but didn't know you get it when you expose it to air. And how in the world do you guys take those tests apart??
Lola, my temps are low, not having much CM, opk's still negative. I'm already CD26 now. :( If it's status quo by Monday, I'm thinking to call my OB to see if they can induce AF to avoid another 60 day cycle. If I do that, they'll move forward with a saline ultrasound to see what's going on, and possibly rx clomid. Do you guys think I should wait out O this cycle knowing that it's again delayed, or should I go ahead and ask to induce AF?
Pbn3
March 31st, 2017, 08:19 PM
Maxim I would bring on af and do a cycle with clomid if you to sway as pink as possible... but in saying that you're pretty close in your cycle when you oed last cycle... tough one 😐
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IWant4Kids
March 31st, 2017, 08:30 PM
Momamia4 - What a journey you've been through. I hope the IUI went as well as possible. I really hope this is your cycle and take home baby. Either way, you have a plan that you're content with xoxo
Pbn3 - I don't know if there was before I pulled it apart.
Maxim - When I was in the middle of a long cycle but Ob bought on AF and gave me clomid. In saying that my friend has got pregnant everytime in long cycles.
Ash - chart looks great!
Netti - hope you're feeling better!
Lola - chart looking good!
Sky - not long to wait!
AFM: sorry I haven't been keeping up well. I'm a teacher and we had our last week before holidays, so I'm super happy as I'm on a 2 week holiday now!!! YAY!
With my cycle....the day I marked as positive OPK, was maybe just off a complete positive, so maybe I ovulated 1-2 days after, right when I was in physical pain (sore everywhere) and had VERY high fevers. These fevers were disregarded by FF, which is why my O line is where it is. So maybe my O date was 2 days later, which would make me 9dpo.
I can see a line on this mornings FRER which is still intact. I'll try and get a photo. I don't 'feel' pregnant though...plus my temp is down today, so it could be a chemical. Time will tell. As I said if not, I get to stick around this thread as O day will be mid- April. Thanks for keeping me sane!
maximbella
March 31st, 2017, 08:39 PM
Thanks ladies! Iwant4, how long were the cycles where your friends got pregnant?
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momamia4
March 31st, 2017, 08:44 PM
Maxim, I'd personally call my ob to bring on af. That way you can move on to the next cycle sooner. Obviously everyone is different, so do what makes you feel the most comfortable. :)
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IWant4Kids
March 31st, 2017, 08:46 PM
Thanks ladies! Iwant4, how long were the cycles where your friends got pregnant?
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I'm not sure of the exact number, but between 40-60. Before I went on clomid I had 60 day cycles and my body would gear up to O many times a cycle. I have tried to attach a photo of one.
IWant4Kids
March 31st, 2017, 08:49 PM
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Pbn3
March 31st, 2017, 08:58 PM
I cant see the pics I want4kids :( just shows a broken attachment. I'm out and about but I'll go thru desktpop if need be to see these pics 😀😀😀
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momamia4
March 31st, 2017, 08:59 PM
I can see them. That's weird. I wonder why you can't Pbn?
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maximbella
March 31st, 2017, 09:06 PM
Thanks for sending. That looks so similar to my last cycle. Ok, thanks for the advice - I'll reach out to him Monday to start the process. Can't believe it's the second cycle of these delayed O'd. Wonder what gives...
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IWant4Kids
March 31st, 2017, 09:13 PM
https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20170401/2ff044ca06ec232cab3a0071c80a2c1d.jpg
Can't get a photo with it showing! Even DH can see it IRL
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Lolabelle
March 31st, 2017, 09:14 PM
Iwant4kids-I see that 2nd line! See if you can snap a pic of the one still intact for us! Hope it's still just early and not a chemical! I just had my 1st chemical last cycle and it was so disappointing. Didn't get a BFP until 14dpo.
Maxim-I envy the clomid!! I would def give it a try!! Not sure about bringing on AF, but with your history of delayed O, may be a good idea.
Ash-looking good! You're right..I'll see if I can hold out until at least 10dpo better to wait.
I still have ride sided cramps-almost like the round ligament pain I had during pregnancy. I don't really have any other signs. This is really weird though...it has been about a month since I stopped nursing my youngest (it was only at night). I've been having that "milk letdown" feeling several times today, but no milk...just that uncomfortable feeling. Could that be an early sign...of course I want it to be haha, but probably my body just adjusting to not nursing after 2 years!!
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XXforhubby
March 31st, 2017, 09:14 PM
I can totally see it Iwant4! FX it darkens soon!
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Lolabelle
March 31st, 2017, 09:22 PM
Sorry-posted before I saw this Iwant4kids. I feel like I can see it when I zoom in! I'm so interested to see how it looks over the next few days...fx!!
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IWant4Kids
March 31st, 2017, 09:26 PM
https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20170401/6fd225a79f33bda63bf595e0a37b4a65.jpg
Me again! Too it apart lol and this is straight after. Doesn't look as dark but it will dry darker. Both my boys started with taken apart FRER tests ;)
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Pbn3
March 31st, 2017, 09:31 PM
Can see your last two uploaded pics fine I want4kids!! I also feel like I can see the 2nd line and it looks pink 😀 I bet there'll be a decent line tomorrow!!!
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dancingdiva88
March 31st, 2017, 09:31 PM
Can definitely see a faint line in the top one iwant4kids!
As for my first attempt - I got a raging darker than the control line positive opk with fmu. DH and I DTD yesterday evening, so we DTD again this morning and we'll go again tonight.
Fingers crossed I get a sticky blue bean.
Pbn3
March 31st, 2017, 09:32 PM
Yay dancingdiva!!! How exciting!!
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momamia4
March 31st, 2017, 09:32 PM
Fx Dancingdiva!! :)
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Lolabelle
March 31st, 2017, 09:36 PM
Definitely see it Iwant4kids, especially on the top one!! Forgot to mention-hope you relax & enjoy your break! I'm about to have spring break in a week & can't wait to have time off!!
Yay dancingdiva!! Fx for you!! :)
AshFind
March 31st, 2017, 09:48 PM
I can def see it on the taken apart one Iwant4kids!!
Yay! Dancing diva! I give you all my blue blessings [emoji23][emoji23]
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AshFind
March 31st, 2017, 09:50 PM
Lola I feel like I'm SUPER tired and felt slight cramps today.... but I keep telling myself it's all in my head! With my 3rd I felt it in the boobs first but didn't realize I even was pregnant (we weren't actively trying) I was setting in church the day of af and thought man my boobs feel huge lol long behold we had boy #3!
And I got pregnant with boy#4 as soon as I started #3 on solids at 6 months!!
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AshFind
March 31st, 2017, 09:50 PM
And I should add I was Bf and have been for 3 years [emoji58]I just stopped 5 months ago
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Skyblue
March 31st, 2017, 10:15 PM
Hi everyone.
Momamia - I can totally imagine feeling like that. I struggled a lot with the worries during my first pregnancy and now I feel we waited too long to ttc second. I feel that even if/when I get a bfp, I will be scared everytime I will feel a cramp or go to the bathroom. I m a mess thinking about all this and honestly can't even talk to dh about it because I just feel that he won't understand.
I hope and pray with all my heart that you get a bfp and a healthy pregnancy. Everything crossed.
Iwant4kids - I see a second line. What dpo are you? Hope the line gets super dark.
Pbn and Ash - Are you guys going to POAS on the same day? I think you guys got the + opk on the same day. I am so excited.
Lollabelle - when are you going to start testing?
Maxim - I have no knowledge about this but One of my friends was in the same situation. I mean her cycles are long and she wasn't even using O sticks and got pregnant in a 60 day cycle accidentally. Hugs.
Dancingdiva - Yay. Fx fx for you. I am also swaying blue.
Thankyou for thinking about me ladies. So I couldn't hold any longer and did the test today and it's plain Simple negative. I guess too early.
I honestly won't be super sad since it's just the first month trying. Will be trying again next month. Now I am going to hold on POAS. [emoji51]
Waiting to see those tests. Bring it on.
Skyblue
March 31st, 2017, 10:17 PM
Lola I feel like I'm SUPER tired and felt slight cramps today.... but I keep telling myself it's all in my head! With my 3rd I felt it in the boobs first but didn't realize I even was pregnant (we weren't actively trying) I was setting in church the day of af and thought man my boobs feel huge lol long behold we had boy #3!
And I got pregnant with boy#4 as soon as I started #3 on solids at 6 months!!
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Wow. Send some blue dust this way please. [emoji4]
Can't wait for you to start testing. Is this your first cycle of ttc?
Lolabelle
March 31st, 2017, 10:40 PM
That sounds very promising Ash!! Fx for you!! It's not always in our head, ya never know. I feel like I had signs before my BFP with this recent chemical pregnancy-frequent urination, strong tastes/smells, tired! This time I'm having the weird boob feeling...maybe I just want it to be a sign!
Skyblue-how many dpo? I think I'll test Tuesday.
Skyblue
March 31st, 2017, 10:52 PM
That sounds very promising Ash!! Fx for you!! It's not always in our head, ya never know. I feel like I had signs before my BFP with this recent chemical pregnancy-frequent urination, strong tastes/smells, tired! This time I'm having the weird boob feeling...maybe I just want it to be a sign!
Skyblue-how many dpo? I think I'll test Tuesday.
I am only 5dpo. Shouldn't have tested so soon. [emoji51]
Can't wait for the you all to start testing.
Skyblue
March 31st, 2017, 10:53 PM
Test
Skyblue
March 31st, 2017, 10:55 PM
Definitely see it Iwant4kids, especially on the top one!! Forgot to mention-hope you relax & enjoy your break! I'm about to have spring break in a week & can't wait to have time off!!
Yay dancingdiva!! Fx for you!! :)
Can you see my chart?
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Pbn3
March 31st, 2017, 11:28 PM
Skyblue 5dpo is impossible to get a bfp! Implantation usually takes place between 6-10dpo and it'll take 2-3 days after that to see a line :) Test away to pass the time though I know I always did 😂
I'm trying to hold out until 10dpo to test which is next Saturday. This is going to be such an exciting week with you, Ash and Lola testing 😀😀
I want4kids cannot wait for morning to see your next test! Please post asap, all our eyes are on you lol! Our first April bfp fx fx fx for a darker line!!!
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AshFind
March 31st, 2017, 11:29 PM
Haha sky secretly I will probably poas tomorrow which is 5dpo [emoji23] I can't hold it any longer but I honestly hope I don't get a bfp till hubby gets home!!
This is my first cycle trying. Seems like when I "try" it takes me about 4 months but when I don't try it happens on its own.
I've always had a weak uterus I don't know if that's the right word but I've always had early contractions and had all my babies early even with a weekly progesterone shot and I know there's no way Implantation has taken place but I seriously feel like contractions are happening! Is that possible without being pregnant?? It's always hubby sperm that makes it happen even when I'm not pregnant and he does it I feel pressure when standing. It's crazy and I don't understand it
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Skyblue
March 31st, 2017, 11:34 PM
Skyblue 5dpo is impossible to get a bfp! Implantation usually takes place between 6-10dpo and it'll take 2-3 days after that to see a line :) Test away to pass the time though I know I always did [emoji23]
I'm trying to hold out until 10dpo to test which is next Saturday. This is going to be such an exciting week with you, Ash and Lola testing [emoji3][emoji3]
I want4kids cannot wait for morning to see your next test! Please post asap, all our eyes are on you lol! Our first April bfp fx fx fx for a darker line!!!
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I thought so too but darn I am
A POAS addict. Shouldn't have bought yesterday. [emoji52]
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Skyblue
March 31st, 2017, 11:37 PM
Haha sky secretly I will probably poas tomorrow which is 5dpo [emoji23] I can't hold it any longer but I honestly hope I don't get a bfp till hubby gets home!!
This is my first cycle trying. Seems like when I "try" it takes me about 4 months but when I don't try it happens on its own.
I've always had a weak uterus I don't know if that's the right word but I've always had early contractions and had all my babies early even with a weekly progesterone shot and I know there's no way Implantation has taken place but I seriously feel like contractions are happening! Is that possible without being pregnant?? It's always hubby sperm that makes it happen even when I'm not pregnant and he does it I feel pressure when standing. It's crazy and I don't understand it
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I knew it.[emoji4] Its hard to wait when you have so many tests at home. Isn't it? You metioned that you do have tests. See that's why I bought two. I knew I would give in hence the second when the time is right. [emoji51]
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Skyblue
March 31st, 2017, 11:39 PM
Can't wait for Ash, Lolla and your test Pbn next week. Everything crossed. [emoji4]
Can Next Saturday be here already. Boy the days are crawling.
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dancingdiva88
April 1st, 2017, 12:41 AM
Hahaha I'm a POAS addict too. Then when I run out and need to get more before I've even got to the point where I'm due for AF, hubby points his foot down and forbids "wasting more money and having the temptation there". Haha
Pbn3
April 1st, 2017, 12:52 AM
Dancingdiva my husband put his foot down after I spent $120 on frers all before af was due 😐 I had to resort to sneaking more tests in the grocery shopping 😂 but never went that overboard again lol
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Skyblue
April 1st, 2017, 01:57 AM
Lol. Ladies you crack me up.
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Lolabelle
April 1st, 2017, 04:45 AM
Haha, I sneak my tests too. Bought some online to try to save $$.
Skyblue-we're close in dpo, fx you get a BFP in the next few days!
Pbn & Ash-eek, can't wait for all of us to test next week!!!!!
Iwant4kids-I realized that you're a day ahead of me and my morning is your evening! So I've been looking for updates at the wrong time. Can't wait to see your next update!!!
IWant4Kids
April 1st, 2017, 05:14 AM
Omg I'm actually pregnant! Just held on and did a FRER at what's now 8:15pm and line came up straight away!!!!!
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Pbn3
April 1st, 2017, 05:15 AM
Congratulations I want4kids!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉 our first bfp!!!!
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IWant4Kids
April 1st, 2017, 05:16 AM
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IWant4Kids
April 1st, 2017, 05:40 AM
Thanks Pbn3, glad you're in Oz too and can join in the excitement in real time LOL
I hope my luck is a sign of things to come for all. I know I'm not out of the woods yet, but I'm pretty excited about eating breakfast and meat again
Pbn3
April 1st, 2017, 05:57 AM
That's a great line 😀 so happy for you! So what meat is first on the agenda? Steak or chicken? 😂
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momamia4
April 1st, 2017, 06:10 AM
Yay Iwant4kids!!!! Congrats!!!! :)
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momamia4
April 1st, 2017, 06:15 AM
Skyblue, feel free to vent to us whenever you need to. That's what we're here for!! :) :bighug:
Well, I definitely started ovulating which is fantastic!!! I had a big temp jump this morning, much bigger than my last like 4 or 5 charts! I'm hoping that's a good sign!!! 😁😁😁
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IWant4Kids
April 1st, 2017, 06:25 AM
Hmmmm it will probably be chicken! My DH is doing some in the smoker tomorrow....wonder if that's safe in pregnancy? (off to google).
Hope my temp goes up tomorrow...
Momamia - Chart is looking great! Good sign.
netti02
April 1st, 2017, 06:26 AM
Congrats Iwant4kids
Pbn lol definite addict. I was the same when ttc.
My body is still tricking me. Fertile CM one minute, AF pains the next. I had really bad pains wake me last night and they took my breath away for about 10 minutes then I was fine. Im organising an ultrasound to check for endometriosis or PID.
Right now my BBs are hot and tingly. I feel like I have OHSS, can you get it without meds? A quick google search seems unlikely.
Feeling better slowly. Ds4 is unfazed with his broken arm. The trick is keeping it dry during the shower 😂
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momamia4
April 1st, 2017, 06:48 AM
I'm sorry you're having a rough time netti! I would think that endometriosis or PID is most likely. I don't think you can get OHSS without meds. I hope you can get in soon for an ultrasound! I'm glad DS4 is doing ok with his cast. :) They are amazingly resilient, aren't they?
Iwant4kids, I'm pretty sure smoked chicken is fine in pregnancy. Enjoy! :)
I'm about to leave for my 2nd iui. I'm going up with DH for him to make his "deposit," lmao! Then we're going to go shopping for a little while, kind of like a mini date, before the actual iui. They have to prep the sperm, which takes a few hours. FX!!!
netti02
April 1st, 2017, 06:54 AM
Best of luck momamia4 xx
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Pbn3
April 1st, 2017, 06:57 AM
Hope you get some answers soon Netti! Sounds painful 😦
Yay momamia!! Have fun!
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Lolabelle
April 1st, 2017, 07:40 AM
Yay congrats Iwant4kids!!! Starting off the BFPs yayyy! I love waking up to great news :)
Great news Moma, GL at your appt with your last iui! Enjoy your mini date too!
I'm sorry things are up & down Netti :( Hope your ultrasound helps find the answer & hope you get better soon!
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maximbella
April 1st, 2017, 07:47 AM
Iwant4, beautiful second line!!! Congrats!!!
Moma, good luck!!! ❤️
Ash, I'm jealous reading about your libido lol [emoji23]
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AshFind
April 1st, 2017, 07:55 AM
Congrats Iwant4kids how many dpo are you again?
Sky I bough 50wondfo hcg off eBay for $16usd that's pretty cheap and I can afford to pee on them all day long [emoji23][emoji23]
Max it's all in the sake of ttc haha!! There was no way my hubby would do e4 +1 so I figure we should go the other frequent release route!
My temp is still on a steady slow rise eekk.....
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IWant4Kids
April 1st, 2017, 08:11 AM
Momamia - Good luck and enjoy the couple time
Netti - hope you can get a scan soon, doesn't sound fun :(
Ash - eeekkk exciting!
Thanks everyone! Fingers crossed this is real and it keeps getting darker xo
maximbella
April 1st, 2017, 08:47 AM
Ash, I totally get it, but still don't think I could do it that often! ;) I LOVE the e4d route lol...
Ladies, I know there's good news today and I'm so happy for everyone, but I'm feeling really down today (told you moma about the ups and downs lol). I'm really frustrated that my O is this delayed, mad at myself for waiting this long to try for #3 (I'm having a hard time sleeping the last few months as I keep kicking myself for not starting this journey last year, it's literally all that I think about), and most of all getting anxious every day that goes by because it means there will be an even larger age gap between my two girls and a 3rd (if I'm lucky enough to get pg). As it is, my daughters just turned 5 & 7 and will be 6 & 8 when another arrives. I know that's not THAT large, but there's no chance that I can get DH onboard for a 4th and being that my two girls are 19 months apart and inseparable, I hope that doesn't increase the chances of a 3rd being like an only child and being left out. This whole journey is exciting and I'm really trying to go with the flow, but part of me also wonders if it just hasn't happened yet because it's not meant to be for my family for all of the reasons above. I don't know, just wanting to vent...most of my family and friends don't know we are TTC and certainly wouldn't understand.
Lolabelle
April 1st, 2017, 09:30 AM
Maxim-sorry you are feeling down! I'm only on my 3rd cycle ttc, but I just thought it would be easier like my past...so I'm thinking what if I had started sooner too. Hindsight is always 20/20. I wouldn't have been able to start sooner though b/c AF hadn't returned yet due to BFing. I had always hoped for twins, but then after I had singletons I thought at least I won't have an empty nest at the same time. So with an age gap, at least you wouldn't have an empty nest right away. Some parents get excited about that, I think I will be super sad when they go off to college. I bet your girls will be at the age where they love having a baby sister to help out with & treat like their very own real life doll baby!!! They'll be like little mamas :) My brother and I are 7 years apart and I was definitely a little mama to him! When I was driving age, I drove him to school, sports or just out & about with me. I loved picking out clothes for him & helping him with HW. Now that we're grown, he is a great friend and don't even feel the age difference. He will tell everyone in a heartbeat that I was like a 2nd mama. He is married and has a baby girl now & such a wonderful daddy! Don't let the age gap worry you!! Fx for you & big HUGS!!!!
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AshFind
April 1st, 2017, 09:58 AM
Max I def have ups and downs also your not alone!! Our age gap is about the same between my first two and my second two. And my first is always playing and caring for my third (most of the time) and I also have two brothers were each 5years apart and I'm closer with my youngest brother who is 10years younger than me! It'll be ok but also if you talk hubby into another lol we have two ages 9 and 7 and then our second round ages 3amd 2
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Lolabelle
April 1st, 2017, 10:10 AM
Ash-you're chart is looking nice!
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momamia4
April 1st, 2017, 11:00 AM
Maxim, I know exactly how you're feeling. Those are the same thoughts I've had a million times!! Our youngest will be 11 years old by the time the next one might be born. Our oldest is 16 and the next would be 14. But there is a big age difference between me and my siblings. My oldest sister is 10 years older, next sister is 6 years old, younger sister is 2 years younger, and two little brothers are 8 and 10 years younger than me. I'm the closest with my youngest brother. I took care of both of my brothers when they were growing up but may youngest brother and I definitely are the most similar. The age gaps really don't make a difference for them at all! :) My husband's brother and sister are 16 years apart and they are extremely close!! Please don't worry about the ages. Just follow your heart. If it's telling you that one more baby is out there for you, then go for it!! :) Personally, my ds4 is the closest to me. I don't know if it's because he was home with just me for the most part or what, but he's like a best friend friend for me, lol! He loves doing anything with me. The older two are more independent and do their own thing. I love having him by me doing everything together. I think you'll definitely have that was a 3rd baby. :) :hugs: I know it sucks when you're feeling down.
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maximbella
April 1st, 2017, 11:22 AM
Thank you guys, seriously needed that. Appreciate it more than you know...
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momamia4
April 1st, 2017, 03:34 PM
Ok, so my iui went really well! Dh's numbers were 73mil pre-wash, 35mil post-wash and 80% motility! I have to start my progesterone on Wednesday and take my next HCG shot on Thursday. Then I can start testing out the trigger again. They told me not to come back for beta hcg testing until 4/19!! OMG! That's so far away!!!! UGH!!! Also, I'm going to start a new thread since we've passed 50 pages. :) I'll post the link here.
momamia4
April 1st, 2017, 03:36 PM
Here's the link to the new thread! :)
http://genderdreaming.com/forum/2ww-gathering-place/58711-abundant-april-2ww-part-2-a.html#post897962
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