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TtcBlue18
June 17th, 2017, 12:02 AM
Ah I see.. I think I may just wait until 11dpo then.. or the next day (when af is due anyway). :/ hmmmmmm

Pbn3
June 17th, 2017, 12:05 AM
Spoilsport [emoji13] [emoji23]

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TtcBlue18
June 17th, 2017, 12:12 AM
Oh hell with it, I only get 3 months to ttc anyway and I have 5 tests atm. I might as well take one at 9dpo. So much for don't ask me! :rofl:

Pbn3
June 17th, 2017, 12:15 AM
I know right!!! I did try to warn you 😂😂😂😂

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TtcBlue18
June 17th, 2017, 12:17 AM
Thank you for all your help and answers to my never ending questions :) I'm happy to have someone who knows so much in a private group!

Pbn3
June 17th, 2017, 12:20 AM
No probs and not sure I know all that much 😂 but always happy to point someone in the right direction if I don't know 😀

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TtcBlue18
June 17th, 2017, 12:27 AM
I was told you were the wise owl, you must know everything lol! Which by the way, do most people ovulate the day after positive opk? Is that why we generally assume day after if we aren't charting?

Pbn3
June 17th, 2017, 12:32 AM
Hahaha wise owl 😂 and unfortunately no, don't know everything 😀 Ovulation generally takes place day after pos opk (12-48 hours) so yes you would count day after pos as o day :)

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TtcBlue18
June 17th, 2017, 12:33 AM
Okay, that's what I thought :) thank you!

LMSM
June 17th, 2017, 12:59 AM
I usually test around 11dpo, and here I was testing at 8dpo this morning, you might well be tempted toi ttc! :rofl: these ladies are darn convincing :P

Skyblue
June 17th, 2017, 03:14 AM
Hello Ladies.
Mommy2apples- I missed reading about the surgery of ds. So sorry about that. It's always so hard. Dd had a surgery recently and I know how it feels with the kids. But I like Pbn's idea of pirates. All boys love pirates. What about your ds?And it's all worth when your little one gets all better. Hugs.
Iwant4kids- I also love my coffee with some milk and sugar. I even put milk
sugar in my tea. I can't stomach black coffee. Haven't had coffee in a long time though now. [emoji51]
Maxim - I can't wait for your test. Hope u get ur bfp on 9dpo just like Lolla said. 🤞🤞🤞🤞
Nacire - Glad you joined in on testing. Can't wait to see more. Yay. 🤞🤞🤞
LMSM - I love the idea of scheming all day before telling dh. I did that too. I confirmed it with the ladies here first because I thought it couldn't be true and then told dh before bedtime. He thought I was joking. Took him 5 min to figure out I wasn't. [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23][emoji23]
🤞🤞🤞🤞for your test in the morning. How is dd doing now?
Ttc blue - Yay for 3dpo. Good luck waiting. Let me warn u though, I swore I would wait until 9dpo and secretly saved fmu on 7dpo and tested in the afternoon since I couldn't hold any longer and waited till night to post the pic here and these lovely ladies confirmed it was a bfp. POAS addiction is contagious [emoji12][emoji12][emoji12].
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Pbn3
June 17th, 2017, 05:45 AM
Maxim hope you had a lovely dinner out! Also I hope your not planning on sleeping in just because its the weekend, you have people waiting on you 😂😂

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IWant4Kids
June 17th, 2017, 06:59 AM
Do you think my pre-O temps are too low? They're lower than usual!


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Pbn3
June 17th, 2017, 07:02 AM
Iwant4kids they are on the lowish side I guess but being we are coming into the colder months that could make a difference? I always found my temps lowered or raised throughout the year depending on the season? Have you got an older chart from last year you can refer to or from previous ttc?

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Pbn3
June 17th, 2017, 07:13 AM
@maximbella you realize your chart is classic triphasic right? I am doing my best to stay up for your temp and test because how will I sleep!!!??

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IWant4Kids
June 17th, 2017, 07:19 AM
This is the only chart I have from a similar time of year...
we don't have any heating on in this house overnight. I am orally temping...worth switching?


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Pbn3
June 17th, 2017, 07:27 AM
Yes absolutely worth switching! You'll still get a good number of temps in before o happens. I honestly thought you were already temping vaginally 😮 plus just remembered your taking clomid and that usually can increase your temps abit or at least maintain the usual, but not lower.... strange... it is your first cycle after d&c though so things may look a little different while everything is still on the mend as such. Think this cycle will be a bit like watch and see what happens (well until your bfp anyway!)

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IWant4Kids
June 17th, 2017, 07:37 AM
Okay I'll switch tomorrow! Overall my temps have been lower this year....hmmmm strange!
Two coffees today! Miracle lol [emoji23]


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Pbn3
June 17th, 2017, 07:41 AM
So jealous of the coffee!!!! I actually relaxed and treated myself to a real coffee today and oh my it was divine 😀 I bet you acquire a test for it!!😂😂 I never used to drink coffee or wine in my early twenties but boy did that change once I started 😂😂

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LMSM
June 17th, 2017, 07:45 AM
@maximbella you realize your chart is classic triphasic right? I am doing my best to stay up for your temp and test because how will I sleep!!!??

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Ditto!!!

Pbn3
June 17th, 2017, 07:47 AM
I'm struggling LMSM how about you? Its only 9.45pm but it feels like midnight!! Maxim has normally posted an hour earlier than now, hope this means good news coming 😀 I'll stay up till 10pm but will have to wait till morning after that 😭😭

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IWant4Kids
June 17th, 2017, 07:52 AM
Cmon maxim!
Pbn3 - you can always check during a night time wee [emoji23]


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Pbn3
June 17th, 2017, 07:55 AM
Very true Iwant4kids!! Surely there'll be an update during one of the six times I get up to pee during the night 😂😂

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LMSM
June 17th, 2017, 07:58 AM
I'm struggling LMSM how about you? Its only 9.45pm but it feels like midnight!! Maxim has normally posted an hour earlier than now, hope this means good news coming 😀 I'll stay up till 10pm but will have to wait till morning after that 😭😭

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Usually am a nana with kids up by 6/6.30 weekends included.. we watched a dvd but I reckon I won't last long now plus am feeling meh lol
But keen to see Max s post!

Pbn3
June 17th, 2017, 08:01 AM
Well its 10pm and still no temp entered in her chart so I'm going to sign off and see you ladies in the a.m :) ps. Maxim I bet you post in like 5 minutes time 😩

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maximbella
June 17th, 2017, 08:10 AM
So so sorry ladies! It's DHs birthday and the girls woke us up early and laid in bed with us! I got up at 5 and took temp, but went back to bed. Just (discreetly) went to POAS but it looks negative still. [emoji24] I'll post a pic shortly.


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LMSM
June 17th, 2017, 08:17 AM
Īm off too, hoping for good news when I get up!! :D sweet dreams PBN! It just started raining here, my favourite way to sleep so hope I can get a good night without getting up :D

LMSM
June 17th, 2017, 08:18 AM
Ahhh will have to hang around for 1 more min :) (and HB to your DH!)

maximbella
June 17th, 2017, 08:22 AM
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kat1234
June 17th, 2017, 08:23 AM
Max - still early IF its negative!

maximbella
June 17th, 2017, 08:33 AM
Thanks Kat! I got bfp with both DDs at 9dpo, so just a little bummed. I feel bad because I'm sad and it's DH's birthday morning...


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Lolabelle
June 17th, 2017, 08:33 AM
Max-I know everyone is diff, but you're at the point where I also had a BFN with fmu at 9dpo, then BFP in the evening. Enjoy your day celebrating DH's bday, then try to do a hold with limited liquids this evening. Feel like you're going to get your BFP then! If not, it's still early & all depends on when you implanted. Fx sooooo hard!!! That OPK is looking darker right?

kat1234
June 17th, 2017, 08:41 AM
Max - I'm opposite this time. Got bfp at 9 PM this time, but not until 11 dpo with my other pregnancies. I know it can be depressing but it will happen and you have no time pressure now except your ready. And IF this cycle isn't your cycle wouldn't a spring baby March/April/May be better for NYC anyways [emoji7] Like my pep talk?! Both my girls are Spring babies and I love it - perfect time for births and birthday parties! I'm a tad nervous about winter germs with this Feb baby.

kat1234
June 17th, 2017, 08:42 AM
Max - I know Pbn doesn't agree with the opk but seemed to work for me and Ash and your looks darker too!

Lolabelle
June 17th, 2017, 08:57 AM
Kat-to add to your pep talk, DS2 is a March baby & he's awesome & celebrating in the spring is awesome [emoji322] It was a sunny, gorgeous day for his bday party this year. Always wanted a spring/summer baby vs a Feb baby, BUT just glad that I won't have 2 bdays around the exact same time in March!

Mommy2apples
June 17th, 2017, 08:58 AM
Sky: thanks! Sorry your little one had to have surgery. It's scary for us momma' to watch our little ones go through something like that. Will def try the pirate thing!

PBN: lol! I am going to miss my coffee for a while too!

Max: you sure that wondfo doesn't have a line?


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maximbella
June 17th, 2017, 09:04 AM
Awwww you ladies truly are fabulous! Thank you!!! ❤️ We are out now but I'll put up another pic of the dried tests side by side later. And you're right, march and April would be better for sure weather wise!!


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AshFind
June 17th, 2017, 09:06 AM
Aww max I'm sorry. It is still early my 9dpo dh swore was a bfn. Everything crossed for tomorrow


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IWant4Kids
June 17th, 2017, 09:11 AM
Sorry Max! There's still plenty of time though. Hope you can enjoy DHs bday today. Looking forward to seeing the dried test in the AM.
Night!


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Lolabelle
June 17th, 2017, 10:28 AM
Max-I was disappointed each cycle. Loved the idea of November baby-still nice weather in the South close to my mom's bday. Thought about skipping Dec didn't want a Christmas baby then realized it would be the best gift ever. Then a Jan New Year baby sounded perfect, but now that it has worked out to be Feb, I'm happy that we won't have to double the presents in Dec & it's close to Valentine's [emoji180] so I've grown to like the idea. I know you're ready now & I'm soooo ready for you! There is def still hope! A March/April/May baby would be equally awesome & better weather as Kat mentioned!!
LMSM-when are you testing again?? What is Feb/March weather like in Oz? Is that summer?

Skyblue
June 17th, 2017, 11:07 AM
Max - I see something on both but I think I really may have a line eye. The more I look the more I see a hint of a line. [emoji51][emoji51][emoji51] I have bn desperately waiting that someone else says the same.I am saying it very cautiously and dying to see the dried tests and pls hold and do one in the pm. A very Happy Birthday to your dh. It's still early. Hang in there. 🤞🤞


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Mommy2apples
June 17th, 2017, 11:08 AM
I thought I did too Sky on the wondfo!


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Skyblue
June 17th, 2017, 11:10 AM
Thankyou for saying that Mommy2apples. I havebn going nuts looking at the tests. [emoji4]


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Mommy2apples
June 17th, 2017, 11:10 AM
I know! I'm excited for her!! Hoping tonight or tomorrow confirms it!!


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maximbella
June 17th, 2017, 11:12 AM
Thank you ladies! [emoji8]almost home and will take a new pic.


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meoab
June 17th, 2017, 12:01 PM
I am on my sixth day of positive opk and we will bd tonight. The line is very dark, looks even darker than the one I took yesterday. Hope my body releases the egg..or has released it.

meoab
June 17th, 2017, 12:02 PM
Good luck Maximbella

maximbella
June 17th, 2017, 12:09 PM
Thanks ladies. Definite bfn.

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Mommy2apples
June 17th, 2017, 12:20 PM
Meoab! Hopefully you catch your egg!!
Max: still early!


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Skyblue
June 17th, 2017, 12:34 PM
Max - Honey, I have a major line eye. I still see it on Osom. [emoji51][emoji51] Waiting for pm test of u r up for it. 🤞🤞so tight for you. Do u see anything at all?


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Skyblue
June 17th, 2017, 12:36 PM
Meoab - I think Pbn's idea of switching to eod would do really good with the pos opk. Did u think about temping? Vaginal temping makes so much sense. 🤞 u catch that egg.


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maximbella
June 17th, 2017, 12:38 PM
Thanks sky! No, I don't see it...and that says a lot from a major line eye gal! ;). I'll keep you posted with more pics tonight.

Got super sad this morning, and then this pic of my girls came up on my Facebook timeline feed from several years ago. Reminds me that I have a lot to be thankful for already! [emoji175] That said, I'm just so ready to add another one to my crazy bunch!

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Skyblue
June 17th, 2017, 12:43 PM
Oh my god ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ super awwwww. My heart just melted seeing these gorgeous girls. No wonder u want another one. They are sooooooo beautiful. U are truly blessed and u will have another one really soon. Such cuties you have.
I m sorry [emoji52]. I told you I have a major line eye that's why I didn't believe my eyes even on my obvious bfp. Waiting for tonight's test. 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞so tight.


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Mommy2apples
June 17th, 2017, 12:45 PM
Your girls are beautiful Max!


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maximbella
June 17th, 2017, 12:49 PM
Thanks ladies. They might look innocent, but don't let them fool you! [emoji12]


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Pbn3
June 17th, 2017, 12:50 PM
Maxim your girls are so beautiful and their outfits just gorgeous 😍😍 I also thought I seen something on the wondfo but its 2.50am and I don't trust my eyes. Will wait to see how tonight's tests look 😀 back to sleep (hopefully) for me :)

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maximbella
June 17th, 2017, 01:06 PM
Thanks so much pbn!


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NACIREMADREAM
June 17th, 2017, 01:16 PM
Maximbella - Your daughters are absolutely gorgeous! I'm with everyone else I swear I could see a line too :) I bet you see something on your test this afternoon.

Lolabelle
June 17th, 2017, 01:49 PM
Max-OMG!! Beautiful girls!! Agree with sky-no wonder you want another to add to the bunch so badly with those adorable faces [emoji4]Seriously can't wait for your test tonight!!!

Pbn3
June 17th, 2017, 01:58 PM
I'm still awake [emoji24] it's now 4am how on earth am I going to function today [emoji24] I'm so tired but I cant sleep, any suggestions?

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maximbella
June 17th, 2017, 02:03 PM
Thanks ladies! Lola, I know I've asked you multiple times (and I apologize for doing it again), but did you have a line in the am 9dpo, or was it stark white until the evening test? How long did you do a hold for?

Pbn, I can never sleep anymore either. It's awful! I always day dream about the beach and getting a massage and then I eventually fall back asleep. :)

Pbn3
June 17th, 2017, 02:09 PM
Thanks maxim and yes Lola's was stark in the a.m and obvious in the p.m at 9dpo :)

Hoping to get an hours more sleep at least before the boys get up. Watching tv at the moment 😂

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maximbella
June 17th, 2017, 02:11 PM
Lola, girlfriend I'm praying mine follows the same pattern as yours!!!!!

Get some rest PBN! :)

IWant4Kids
June 17th, 2017, 04:18 PM
Took my first vaginal temp and it's so much higher! Will probably need to delete my previous temps but will just wait and see first.

Meoab- hope you catch the egg!

Max - beautiful girls! They will both get to be big sisters very soon! Hopefully we can join a due group together [emoji4]❤️


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Lolabelle
June 17th, 2017, 04:36 PM
Max-yes pbn is right! No BFP until about 7:30 PM 9dpo. Not good at holding at all, so I did prob a 2hr old with limited liquids. I'm praying with all my might that this happens for you [emoji1374] I didn't have a line on the wondfo until the same time!!
Pbn-hope you get some rest. I've had trouble getting to sleep at night & I have counted as I breathe in and then as I breathe out trying to not concentrate on anything such as my usual "what ifs"

AshFind
June 17th, 2017, 04:49 PM
Max beautiful girls! [emoji166] will be stalking for pm test


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maximbella
June 17th, 2017, 05:04 PM
Thank you all so much! Will test in a few hours.

Iwant4, thinking of you this cycle. I love the vaginal temps, seems to really be much more accurate.


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Pbn3
June 17th, 2017, 05:54 PM
So happy I got back to sleep woohoo!

So much closer to your next test maxim!!!

LMSM did you catch any fmu in case you change your mind about testing?

Nacire that's a lovely jump in temp! I'm still leaning towards you being 6/7dpo. Also noticed you've recorded no fertile cm since cd12 so that's another good sign you did indeed o around cd14. Have you tested again today?

Iwant4kids that looks better!! ✋

Ttcblue halfway to testing day 😂

Mummy2boys getting close to testing time now!!! Will you be starting in 3 or 4 days?

Mommy2apples cant wait for the next week to fly by so o day will almost be here!!

Shinay I don't think you're reading along but just in case. I'm so sorry that things went haywire for you. It looks like you've stopped temping. Hoping to hear an update from you soon that you've gone to see a doctor/ob and they know what's going on. We'll be here when you come back ❤



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LMSM
June 17th, 2017, 06:15 PM
Morning!
Yet another difficult end of night so temp unreliable...and yet another BFN.
I hate these indent lines, which are I assume from where the liquid stops on the strips, and leaves a shadow but no colour...definitely negative. I caved in this am, I was so just queasy last night and have like strong O pains on the right...just wanted to know but still no answers, just kinda of wish AF would come early so I could stop hoping for nothing gah! If no af by tomorrow evening, will only test Tuesday like I said, by then whatever the result I know it will be reliable. This cycle the time would have been just sooooo perfect ...I guess infertile one day infertile forever, who was I kidding thinking I could just get preggers in a couple of cycles :P

Anyhoo, Max I still think I see something but since it's not irl, it may just be my line eyes... FX hon!

Have a lovely night/day all!

Pbn3
June 17th, 2017, 06:26 PM
LMSM it could a very faint line as its hard to say if it has colour when its starting. I said the exact same thing that I didn't know if it was a proper line or frer fake line because of lack of colour. I've seen so many frers now (talking 100's) so please share a pic 🙏 and yes by all means hold off till Tuesday and you should have a good idea by then. And its not going to be a case if 'infertile' forever. There is still a great chance this cycle! You're only 9dpo. What if the pains you experienced last night were to do with implantation? You won't get a pos hpt till Tuesday in that case. So I'm going to keep holding onto hope and only admit defeat if Tuesdays is stark 👊

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mummy2boys
June 17th, 2017, 06:44 PM
Hi ladies. Max, oh my goodness your girls are so adorable!!! Makes me want a little girl even more, such gorgeous outfits too. Hope your no 3 is on the way soon. I thought I saw a faint line on your strip test but could have the dreaded 'line eye' like we all seem to get lol [emoji23]
Sorry your test was negative LMSM, you are still early though. Indent lines are mean.
Pbn, you are so kind to keep thinking of everyone! I'm probably not even going to hold out 3 days as I have plenty of tests [emoji23] Will keep you updated. It's super hot here at the moment which is very rare! Will that mess with my temperatures?


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Pbn3
June 17th, 2017, 06:49 PM
Shouldn't too much Mummy2boys unless you're suddenly sleeping with a/c on. It might change them slightly higher or lower depending on whether you're sleeping warmer or cooler. But nothing to worry about :)

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LMSM
June 17th, 2017, 06:53 PM
I only did a couple of ICs this am ..pic next to yesterday frer ;)
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Not too sure re potential implantation due to bad sleep so unreliable temp..I know DD2 you could see a clear implantation dip but I used another site for temping back when trying for #1 and can't remember which email address login usernames etc so can't log in and check what the go was that cycle lol

LMSM
June 17th, 2017, 06:55 PM
Just saw the pic of your girls Max, on my gosh are they cute!!! (like mine, you'd be fooled by their cuteness but they are cheeky little ones hehe)
:ballerina:

Pbn3
June 17th, 2017, 06:56 PM
Implantation dips don't always happen though so I wouldn't assume you're out if you don't see one. Also I feel like I'm seeing something on the IC blue dip test. Wish you'd used an frer!! Don't suppose you kept the urine sample? 😂

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LMSM
June 17th, 2017, 07:01 PM
What you see I see what is on all 3, that darker zone in the 1 st part of the test, but it's not a line, it's the full part of the strip that is darker and stops being darker where the test line should be..hence making it look like a phantom line... does that even make sense?! :( :rofl:
I told ya, am a cheapskate, would love to poas madly with the frers but only if I was actually preggers, otherwise I feel it's a waste :rofl:

Pbn3
June 17th, 2017, 07:07 PM
I know exactly what you mean about seeing the line where it the wet meets the line but I'm not used to seeing it on IC's. Check again when the tests have dried right out?

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Pbn3
June 17th, 2017, 07:08 PM
Then again that really does look a faint line on the dried frer from yesterday so it could be my phone screen or line eye.

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Mommy2apples
June 17th, 2017, 07:08 PM
You and me both PBN!!


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Pbn3
June 17th, 2017, 07:09 PM
In any case LMSM I'll wait for Tuesdays test! Please tell me you'll use an frer?

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LMSM
June 17th, 2017, 07:10 PM
I will take a pic again in the next 30-60 min should well and truly dry by then ;)

LMSM
June 17th, 2017, 07:12 PM
In any case LMSM I'll wait for Tuesdays test! Please tell me you'll use an frer?

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Will do IC and likely FRER then, yes ;) will def skip tomorrow as it's doing my head in lol

TtcBlue18
June 17th, 2017, 07:18 PM
Sorry I haven't checked in today, I just got done reading all the pages I missed out on while making father's day crafts with the girls :)

Max, your girls are so precious! I can't wait until mine are their ages and so lovey dovey to each other. Super cute having them match too, I just love it!

You ladies have officially drawn me into your game. I'm waiting on edge for those to turn positive! FX for yous!

LMSM
June 17th, 2017, 07:29 PM
Dried it looks even more neg lol
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Pbn3
June 17th, 2017, 07:35 PM
Yeah that's negative. Not seeing the line now :(

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LMSM
June 17th, 2017, 07:41 PM
See why I'm deflated ? :(

Pbn3
June 17th, 2017, 07:52 PM
About that particular test yes. But your only 9dpo and your testing on an IC which has no where near the sensitivity of an frer. Frer can pick up as low as 6.25mIU whereas most cheapies only pick up 20-25mIU so I'll wait and see how your frer looks Tuesday :)

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maximbella
June 17th, 2017, 07:57 PM
Well booo, I'm continuing the chain. It's a definite bfn unfortunately. We are heading to dHs birthday dinner and going to put on my happy face, but not going to lie that I'm super sad. [emoji17] Sorry LMSM...feel your pain!


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Mommy2apples
June 17th, 2017, 07:58 PM
Sorry Max and lmsm! You all are going to conceive soon! I just know it!


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Pbn3
June 17th, 2017, 08:10 PM
Sorry maxim :(

Hope you and LMSM take turns posting bfps over the next couple days

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Lolabelle
June 17th, 2017, 08:17 PM
Ohh Max & LMSM-sorry :(
Max-Hope you can enjoy DH's dinner. Didn't pbn once mention that you could possibly be 8dpo depending on when you o'd (or am I just hoping?).
Fx, that tomorrow brings BFPs! If this isn't the cycle, you both WILL conceive in just a matter of time! Remind me how long have both of you been ttc?

kat1234
June 17th, 2017, 08:37 PM
Lola - I *think* this is LSMS second cycle. Really think she started with me. And maybe Max's 3rd?? I really don't think long for either [emoji5]

TtcBlue18
June 17th, 2017, 08:48 PM
I wouldn't give up hope yet, didn't pbn say depending on implantation some women don't get Bfps until 11dpo??

TtcBlue18
June 17th, 2017, 08:56 PM
"Most of the time, implantation occurs about nine days after ovulation, but it can occur as early as seven days or as late as 12 days after ovulation."

This is what Google has to say about it, and pbn said it takes about 48 hours after implantation for hgc to register on a test. So I'm thinking some women may not get a Bfp until 14dpo...??

Don't give up yet ladies, I'm still :pray: for you!

Lolabelle
June 17th, 2017, 09:07 PM
Ttc-I think that you're right that it may take longer for some depending on implantation. I never had a BFP before 11dpo on a frer until this cycle at 9!
LMSM & Max-I KNOW how bad you both want this & it's SOOO hard waiting, but easy to feel defeated each cycle. I really was at my wit's end on my 5th cycle ttc & would've been on my 6th, so I KNOW what you're feeling!! This one is not over yet & really really really hope you're both pleasantly surprised tomorrow [emoji173]All my fingers crossed!!!

TtcBlue18
June 17th, 2017, 09:13 PM
"The early urine home positive pregnancy test (HPT) can usually detect pregnancy 6-7 days after implantation."

Okay actually google says this too, so if you add the longest possible days it takes for implantation (12) and longest possible days it takes to get a positive after implantation (7) that would mean some women test negative until 19dpo :think: That seems way off...

I think I'll just shut up and stay off google now. But I do still believe it's a possibility for anyone to become pregnant and still test negative up until a missed af.

Pbn3
June 17th, 2017, 09:48 PM
9dpo is far too early to write a cycle off but I've been there so many times and felt exactly the same, it's hard to believe you can still get a pos hpt when everyone else seems to be getting one at that dpo.

Ttcblue not sure what early tests those are referring too but 6-7 days after implantation would not apply to sensitive tests. Here is a quote from a government published study:

RESULTS:

First Response Early Result had an analytical sensitivity of 6.3 mIU/mL, which was estimated to detect greater than 95% of pregnancies on the day of missed period. The sensitivity of Clearblue Easy Earliest Results was 25 mIU/mL, which indicated detection of 80% of pregnancies. The sensitivity of the five other products was 100 mIU/mL or greater, indicating detection of 16% or less of pregnancies. Three of these last products included faulty devices.



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Pbn3
June 17th, 2017, 10:26 PM
Here's just one of many of these types of tallies (I cannot for the life of me think of the word that describes these tallies 😠😠 total brain fail 😂) As you can see, more people got a bfp on 11dpo than 8, 9 and 10dpo
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Pbn3
June 17th, 2017, 10:26 PM
Survey!!!!! The word is survey!! 😂

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LMSM
June 17th, 2017, 11:48 PM
Max, hope you still we're able to enjoy your your night out hon!

Kat, this is only cycle 2, which is like barely the start of trying..but admittedly, am over swaying, am over waiting..I feel like with getting pregnant with my girls I have given enough/ all of my patience to Mother Nature and now should be my turn to be rewarded, and just fall pregnant by like looking at hubby like so many seem to... I was hoping HE was doing my fertility levels some good, and just cannot bear the thought of going down the path of fertility doctor/medicated cycles/timed sex ( or potentially ivf) , and hubby either. It's basically either we conceive naturally and soon or it's game over :(

Appreciate your reassuring words ladies, but yeah with so many getting their BFP s at 8-9 dpo, feels like there is no hope to hang to any,ore..surely even if it's early there would be a hint of something
Anyways, I promise I will brush it off and be more positive tomorrow..don't like it when I am so down, it's just not me.

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Pbn3
June 17th, 2017, 11:59 PM
LMSM that's the hard part about being part of these forums. I had to take a break a couple of times over the past couple years because I'd get so sick of being left behind cycle after cycle. You're allowed to be down, and you're right about bouncing back to positivity, it will happen. Can I ask what you mean by fertility levels? Are you referring to ovarian reserve?

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Mommy2apples
June 17th, 2017, 11:59 PM
Hugs lmsm


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LMSM
June 18th, 2017, 12:08 AM
LMSM that's the hard part about being part of these forums. I had to take a break a couple of times over the past couple years because I'd get so sick of being left behind cycle after cycle. You're allowed to be down, and you're right about bouncing back to positivity, it will happen. Can I ask what you mean by fertility levels? Are you referring to ovarian reserve?

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I've been on and off forums I've read the years for that same reason ;)
But was so confident the HE would do me good!
I actually had my Amh etc tested early March as I had weaned DD2, and all came back normal..my amh was 27 so excellent for my age! Prog , Oestrogen, prolactin etc all good too ( which they weren't the cycle before as I was still bfing E).
My specialist basically thinks all is in order and I ovulate and have good chances of conceiving naturally...
Might be DHS swimmers too I guess.he just turned 39, not a spring chicken lol

Mommy2apples
June 18th, 2017, 12:09 AM
Am I the only one that can just lay by their husband and be ready to get it on? Literally have to sleep away from him on the days we aren't supposed to do anything. lol it's like we are still teenagers!


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Pbn3
June 18th, 2017, 12:15 AM
That is an excellant result!!! If I can get pregnant with an amh result of 1.8 you surely can with 27! Just a thought, IF this cycle is a bfn would you consider eod for next cycle?

Wow Mommy2apples, my dh could only wish I was like that. I have THE lowest sex drive and lucky he's so tired all the time that his is low too 😂 He probably only went along with ttc for so long because hebwas actually getting sex regularly for the first time since we've been together 😂

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June 18th, 2017, 12:15 AM
lol PBN! Mine says I wear him out! [emoji23]


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LMSM
June 18th, 2017, 12:54 AM
M2A, when getting closer to O, definitely could be all over him...but rest of the cycle, happy to go like a week without Dtd lol

PBN, I know there are two ways of measuring amh, but yes mine was a great result...issue is that I still seem to struggle getting quality O..and as I said DHS swimmers may not be quite quite as frisky as they used to.. he is not keen to see the fert spec so right now ą SA is out of the equation and last one dates back 5 years.
I def would do eod if I could ge him to it, but it's darn hard with bad sleep and work etc... just worried he might run out of steam before O too

Skyblue
June 18th, 2017, 01:19 AM
Max and LMSM - So sorry and booo for bfn. I know it's not easy specially being in the group where everyone is ttc and some are getting bfps just like Pbn said. You are allowed to feel
Down and we are here to cheer you lovely ladies on and u are not our yet. I got bummed too when didn't get my bfp and others did but I was always excited to start the new cycle because I thought that there is something that I can do better this time for
my sway that I missed before. LMSM, it took me 3 cycle to get a bfp. But I honestly feel that u r not out until af shows up and everything crossed that it stays away for both of you.
Max, try not to be sad and enjoy dh's birthday.
Also, I always treated myself with a couple of drinks over the weekend when af showed up. That was my way of cheering myself on. [emoji847][emoji847][emoji847][emoji847] and cheer up beautiful ladies. You will get a bfp very soon. ❤️❤️❤️❤️


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TtcBlue18
June 18th, 2017, 03:34 AM
9dpo is far too early to write a cycle off but I've been there so many times and felt exactly the same, it's hard to believe you can still get a pos hpt when everyone else seems to be getting one at that dpo.

Ttcblue not sure what early tests those are referring too but 6-7 days after implantation would not apply to sensitive tests. Here is a quote from a government published study:

RESULTS:

First Response Early Result had an analytical sensitivity of 6.3 mIU/mL, which was estimated to detect greater than 95% of pregnancies on the day of missed period. The sensitivity of Clearblue Easy Earliest Results was 25 mIU/mL, which indicated detection of 80% of pregnancies. The sensitivity of the five other products was 100 mIU/mL or greater, indicating detection of 16% or less of pregnancies. Three of these last products included faulty devices.



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Right, I thought you had said 11dpo before but couldn't remember (and honestly didn't want to search through the last 30 pages trying to find it) :rofl:

But when google brought that up I knew it sounded wrong.

I'm just completely convinced that LMSM and max will surely get abfp in the next couple days. Not sure why I feel so strongly that they will, but the feeling is there, so I'm hopeful :)

For now I need to get off here and get back to bed, as it's 2:30 in the morn here lol. Goodnight ladies, can't wait to see your new tests when I get back on!

TtcBlue18
June 18th, 2017, 03:41 AM
Wow Mommy2apples, my dh could only wish I was like that. I have THE lowest sex drive and lucky he's so tired all the time that his is low too �� He probably only went along with ttc for so long because hebwas actually getting sex regularly for the first time since we've been together ��

This is the story of my life the last 7 years and I'm only 23. :rofl: (Met my dh at 16, it's always been this way for me.)
Okay but now I really have to go to bed lol.

meoab
June 18th, 2017, 05:37 AM
I lost track here lol. Don't remember who asked me about the vaginal tempts last time, but I can't download fertility app atm. Will do it soon though. Today marks my seventh day of positive opk and it hurts deeply. The lines are extremely dark. I have read online that it could be due to a cyst :(. My abdomen hurts and I feel so stressed at the moment. Must workout and do some yoga to relieve stress.
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This photo was taken yesterday and todays was even darker!

IWant4Kids
June 18th, 2017, 05:38 AM
Maxim - Thank you! Fingers crossed it's our turn soon. I hope you manage to enjoy dinner lovely.

LMSM - Sorry to hear that the line doesn't have colour. Don't lose heart

TTCblue - father's day crafts sounds lovely! Spoilt DH!

Mommy2apples - Nah not like that here.....I'm all good around O time, but otherwise, sleeping is priority (to me anyway LOL)

IWant4Kids
June 18th, 2017, 05:40 AM
Here is my OPK progression. C means clomid...

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Pbn3
June 18th, 2017, 05:42 AM
Oh wow meoab!! Hopefully your abdomen pain is your egg about to pop and not a cyst because geez that opk sure is positive!! But it does sound like a cyst could be a good possibility. Can you get in to see a doc this week?

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Pbn3
June 18th, 2017, 05:43 AM
Let the true fade in begin Iwant4kids!!!!

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meoab
June 18th, 2017, 05:49 AM
I am going to an emergency first thing in the morning. They really have to check my hormones and do some ultrasounds as I have been experiencing these pain for almost two/three weeks. This week less painful..

Pbn3
June 18th, 2017, 05:53 AM
Good to hear you'll see someone tomorrow. Update us when you can! Fx its sorted out quickly for you!

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IWant4Kids
June 18th, 2017, 05:55 AM
I lost track here lol. Don't remember who asked me about the vaginal tempts last time, but I can't download fertility app atm. Will do it soon though. Today marks my seventh day of positive opk and it hurts deeply. The lines are extremely dark. I have read online that it could be due to a cyst :(. My abdomen hurts and I feel so stressed at the moment. Must workout and do some yoga to relieve stress.
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This photo was taken yesterday and todays was even darker!

On no! Sorry to hear. Hope they can do something to help at the ER xo

meoab
June 18th, 2017, 06:02 AM
Thank you ladies. I did have a smear test few weeks ago and it came back normal. Abnormal cells were not found.

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June 18th, 2017, 06:36 AM
Pbn3 - Aldi have them too!

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kat1234
June 18th, 2017, 07:58 AM
LSMS - don't lose hope! I'm wondering if Pbn is suggesting EOD since you are unsure about DH's sperm quality. I thought about doing that bc I think it's optimal for sperm. But you wouldn't have to do EOD from AF to O. If you know about the time you O, you could just start a few days before. I really think with the HE diet you will get pregnant soon, but I agree feeels like soooo much work some days.

Mommy2apples
June 18th, 2017, 08:41 AM
Lmsm, Iw4k, ttcb: lol don't know what it is. I've always been like that with him!!


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maximbella
June 18th, 2017, 09:01 AM
Thanks for the support ladies. My GD membership expires in a few days, so it's been over 6 months. Got off pill before that though and we informally tried. My tests from last night are negative, the IC has a faint double line but I had the same thing last cycle. The osom is stark white. Again this morning. I'm disappointed, but looking forward to a clomid cycle and praying that helps! Im going to start a new thread for atomic asking for advice for this coming cycle. I'm going to stop swaying and just try to get best odds of conception. If anyone has suggestions, would love to hear. Hope everyone is having a nice morning and happy Father's Day (for those of you in US).


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AshFind
June 18th, 2017, 09:20 AM
Sorry max i can't imagine the disappointment. I'll be watching out and praying for your next cycle bring on the clomid


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Lolabelle
June 18th, 2017, 09:56 AM
I'm so sorry Max :( I was really hoping this would be it! I know just how frustrating it is & I'm so sorry you're going through this disappointment. I'm so excited for your Clomid cycle and can't wait for your BFP. I seriously considered SMEP SMEP - Sperm Meets Egg Plan (http://spermmeetseggplan.com) since it's supposed to help you get pregnant faster, but sways blue and Atomic advised for me to try e3d first. With your naturally girl friendly body & Clomid cycle, maybe this would be a good plan for you? Can't wait to hear what Atomic suggests!! If this cycle doesn't pan out, you're officially in spring birthday territory which would be awesome! How was DH's bday dinner & how did you decide to celebrate Father's Day? Enjoy the day with DH & those beautiful girls & know that we're here for ya anytime [emoji173]xoxo

maximbella
June 18th, 2017, 10:34 AM
Thanks ash and Lola!! Appreciate it!

Lola, thanks for sharing that. Is the premise just eod BD? It sounds really interesting!! I'm going to wait to post the question until I'm 12dpo and still negative hpt. Here's my testing until now... wondering why I keep getting the super faint lines on IC! Do they all get that after drying, or am I having chemicals? My opk is a touch darker this morning.

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kat1234
June 18th, 2017, 10:44 AM
Max - have you tested this AM with the osm or whatever those sensitive ones are? Those opks are looking good. If you are seeing a faint line on wondfo hpt that's awesome!

maximbella
June 18th, 2017, 10:56 AM
Thanks Kat! Yes, but the osom are stark white....


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TtcBlue18
June 18th, 2017, 11:28 AM
Thanks ash and Lola!! Appreciate it!

Lola, thanks for sharing that. Is the premise just eod BD? It sounds really interesting!! I'm going to wait to post the question until I'm 12dpo and still negative hpt. Here's my testing until now... wondering why I keep getting the super faint lines on IC! Do they all get that after drying, or am I having chemicals? My opk is a touch darker this morning.

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Maybe ask pbn about the fact that opks are now getting darker.. I had a girlfriend tell me opks can be use as early pregnancy tests (which is obviously wrong, pbn confirmed this is wrong) but when I looked it up prior to asking, I came across multiple women who said that as they continued to take opks daily after o, the tests would go negative and then very gradually get darker (because the opks were mistaking HGC for lh) but those same women also said they got positive pregnancy tests before the opks would read positive again.

I'm not trying to get your hopes up unnecessarily, I just think there might be sometching to look forward to if your opks continue to get darker. I would get pbns opinion :)

Lolabelle
June 18th, 2017, 11:39 AM
Max-yes I do think SMEP is pretty much the same as eod starting at CD8, then 3 days in a row at pos opk, skip a day, then 1 more day. Your OPK is def getting darker & I see the faint line on the wondfo, wonder why the OSOM is not picking it up too? Mine had lines at the same time, but everyone is different. Try again in the evening, maybe the wondfo is more sensitive? I really hope it's just still early & maybe you were off a day with dpo & will see something this evening!! Do you think you could actually be 9dpo? What if you o'd on the morning after pos OPK just before you took temp?

kat1234
June 18th, 2017, 11:44 AM
Lola - That's a good point too! I wonder if your only 9 dpo Max? It wouldn't be the first time FF is wrong.

Lolabelle
June 18th, 2017, 12:02 PM
Kat & Max, I soooooo hope that's the case. It seems like the OSOM would pick it up too, but maybe not if it's really early!! FX!!!!!!

NACIREMADREAM
June 18th, 2017, 01:53 PM
Hi! I got 2 darker than the line OPKs 2 days in a row. I was super sad yesterday:sad:. I woke up and took my temp and it's 98.9 this morning. It had a big jump from yesterday. I took OPK (Which is darker again) and Pregnancy test.... I will need Pbn3 to please look at my chart to know how many dpo I am. FF still doesn't know anything. Maybe once I add the positive test it will. 36657

kat1234
June 18th, 2017, 02:04 PM
Nacire - that hpt says pregnant! Can you post a link to your chart?

NACIREMADREAM
June 18th, 2017, 02:08 PM
Thanks Kat1234 -https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/51f80f

Pbn3
June 18th, 2017, 02:08 PM
Nacire who cares about ff!! That is a bfp my friend 😀 Huge congratulations!!!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉

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Pbn3
June 18th, 2017, 02:11 PM
Just stop temping now and forget about charts! Are you going to do a digi?! I bet it will say 'pregnant' 😀 So happy for you! How are you feeling?

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NACIREMADREAM
June 18th, 2017, 02:12 PM
Pbn3 - Thank you so much! I just really wanted to try and pin point how far along I'd be. I am very excited!

NACIREMADREAM
June 18th, 2017, 02:13 PM
I do have a digi and I will take it next bathroom trip:bigsmile:

XXforhubby
June 18th, 2017, 02:15 PM
Huge congrats Nacire! Let me take a look for you on FX...be back in a minute...


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NACIREMADREAM
June 18th, 2017, 02:16 PM
I've been feeling pregnant this whole week if that makes any sense. I get extremely veiny in my chest when I'm pregnant. My boobs are bigger and sore to nurse sometimes, backaches, weird I've been itchy on my arms and chest. Other than that I've been feeling pretty good :)

NACIREMADREAM
June 18th, 2017, 02:17 PM
Thank you XXforhubby! I couldn't be more happy!

Pbn3
June 18th, 2017, 02:21 PM
Thanks ash and Lola!! Appreciate it!

Lola, thanks for sharing that. Is the premise just eod BD? It sounds really interesting!! I'm going to wait to post the question until I'm 12dpo and still negative hpt. Here's my testing until now... wondering why I keep getting the super faint lines on IC! Do they all get that after drying, or am I having chemicals? My opk is a touch darker this morning.

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Maxim I'm sorry the osom is negative :( but I can see that faint line on your wondfo and would keep testing over the next three days to see if it darkens. It may not be a chemical just yet, perhaps the wondfo is simply more sensitive? If you need to move onto next cycle then I like Lola's suggestion of e3d. Still in girl territory (especially combined with clomid) but can up the odds of conception. E3d will cover you nicely plus by all means add in an extra bd when you do see a pos opk to boost your odds of conception even more. This swings away from girl attempts but from memory both your girls were conceived with two attempts anyway :)

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Pbn3
June 18th, 2017, 02:22 PM
Nacire I'd say your 8dpo :)

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XXforhubby
June 18th, 2017, 02:23 PM
Looking at your chart, I'd say you're 8-12dpo based on your first opk and CM. Although I can't be too certain since there are a lot of wonky temps. I believe the second and third positive opks picked up a secondary estrogen surge that sometimes happens in the LP ( Luteal Phase). This can also cause temps to drop low.

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Skyblue
June 18th, 2017, 02:23 PM
Omg Nacire. That's a bfp. Congratulations dear. I also just looked at your chart and thought u may be 8dpo. [emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322] So happy for you. Hugs.


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Skyblue
June 18th, 2017, 02:28 PM
Max - I m so sorry that Osom is negative but I see a line on the bottom
Wondfo and it's pretty clear. Is that the latest one?


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Skyblue
June 18th, 2017, 02:29 PM
Nacire - Do a digi pls.


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Pbn3
June 18th, 2017, 02:31 PM
Nacire your o pains and bloating/tenderness were during the second lot of pos opks right? From memory you didn't experience any o pains during that first pos opk on cd10? That's why I believe your 8dpo :) Combined with fertile cm and temp shift :)

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Lolabelle
June 18th, 2017, 03:58 PM
OMG-congrats that is clearly a BFP!!! Wowzers!!! [emoji322][emoji322] Cant wait for your digi!!! Post as soon as you can!!!

IWant4Kids
June 18th, 2017, 04:01 PM
Maxim - please don't lose hope yet! It's still early. I really hope the line gets darker!
If not, then maybe fate wants you to take that clomid and this is all part of the plan xoxo


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IWant4Kids
June 18th, 2017, 04:02 PM
Nacire- huge congrats! Wohooooo!


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maximbella
June 18th, 2017, 04:21 PM
Nacire, beautiful lines!!! Congratulations!!! [emoji322]

Thank you so much for your kind words ladies! I'm a big believer in fate, what's meant to be will happen!


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LMSM
June 18th, 2017, 04:23 PM
Congrats Nacire! That is one clear hpt especially so early in the cycle, you were right with your feeling pregnant earlier :)
Enjoyyyyyy!

Mommy2apples
June 18th, 2017, 04:55 PM
Oh Naci!!! Yay!! Congrats!!


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TtcBlue18
June 18th, 2017, 05:35 PM
Congratulations, Nacire! So happy for you! :)

mummy2boys
June 18th, 2017, 05:43 PM
Congratulations Nacire! Fantastic news [emoji322][emoji3]


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Lolabelle
June 18th, 2017, 06:19 PM
Nacire-when are you doing that digi??!!

LMSM
June 18th, 2017, 06:31 PM
Nacire-when are you doing that digi??!!

Ditto! :D

NACIREMADREAM
June 18th, 2017, 07:03 PM
Thank you so much everyone!! I am super excited!

I took a digi earlier after posting, and it came back Not Pregnant. I’m assuming they aren’t as sensitive as a Wondfo?.. I will test again in a few days with a digi.

Pbn3
June 18th, 2017, 07:04 PM
LMSM I see your temps dropping :( hope your ok and get some stock ready for af day (wine, chocolates, ice cream, pizza whatever your weakness is)

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Mommy2apples
June 18th, 2017, 07:05 PM
Naci: correct they are not as sensitive. Should say in about 2-3 days I bet!!


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June 18th, 2017, 07:09 PM
Mommy2apples - Thank you for your response! I was a little sad to see the Not Pregnant, but I got on google and found it common. I made Father's Day breakfast with a sad face this morning:sad:

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June 18th, 2017, 07:09 PM
Hugs girl!! I'm so excited for you!!


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June 18th, 2017, 07:10 PM
Plus I always took those with fmu!


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NACIREMADREAM
June 18th, 2017, 07:11 PM
Thank you!:wink:

Mommy2apples
June 18th, 2017, 07:12 PM
Welcome girl! So excited!!


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LMSM
June 18th, 2017, 07:14 PM
Hey everyone!

Nacire, it’s still super early and digis aren’t as sensitive - you clearly have a good level of hcg in there already so it likely won’t be long before the digi will be able to pick it up! So happy for you as I know you were worried between the swaying pink & breastfeeding that it might take long, but see, and still pregnant in a flash – how good is that :woohoo: have you noticed a difference in your youngest re his feeding especially? I know that my DD1 did not seem to be as interested when I was pregnant and still feeding her! ;)

Meoab – how are you doing? That was one dark opk – and if you are having such strong pains, it’s def not to be excluded that it is a cyst –did you end up going to the ER? Please let us know!

TTcblue – won’t be long before you’re in the “poas” timing – did you settle on starting at 9dpo? ;)

Max – so sorry that it doesn’t look positive - big hugs - I’m with you there – been there, done that for so many years, the waiting, the disappointment, over and over and over – even if 6 months is in the very normal range for TTC still, it is hard when you feel like you are being left on the side of the road – but you are right being positive, fate has plans, and knows when the time will be right! I’m sure the Clomid will work its magic! :)
What’s wonderful is that you already have the girls, so you have the gender you ‘wanted’ (i.e. you don’t necessarily want a different gender to what you already have, like most of us do) so either way it goes, you will have a great family dynamic, whether that be a sorority of 3 or 2 girls looking after their baby brother! And I mean, look how cute those blonde girls are, whether it be a girl or boy mini version of them, you will be so blessed! :D

I want 4 – hope the Clomid doesn’t give you too many side effects? I know I had the most horrid O pains but the comforting thing was that I knew it was doing something to my body! ;)
Can’t wait to see how this cycle pans out for you!

Sky – thanks for your sweet words darl – I think I am out for sure – and admittedly I had hoped the crazy fertile vibes here would have made their way to me, I felt like karma should have been kind to me for once – but eh, only so much one can control (though I hate that I can’t control that – my “perfect” plans having now gone up in smoke it’s a matter of seeing the positive in it all! lol) – next month we’ll have better odds, I will diet harder, workout, and get more BD in too which I think lacked!
I have so much to be thankful for, maybe karma wants me to be just thankful, full stop – and if no bfp by September, I think we will stop TTC until probably March-April next year – just to give ourselves a break too – and maybe get Dh tested in the interim so we can start fresh (it will take him a whole to get him convinced etc).
Sooo looking forward to your 1st appointment! How is your DD? Has she picked up on the pregnancy or not yet?

Can’t wait for the end of next week when you gals have your appointments :D

Kat – yes, with hubs sperm quality unknown, anything to help improve it will be good! The SMEP seems like a great way to do it – now will have to brief DH – if we can wait until the end of AF (maybe try to get a BD in somewhere there to keep the swimmers fresh – not sure how he feels about releasing on his own given I struggle with BD during AF) to start eod, given I O between Cd13-16 ish it would only be what? 2-4 BD before the 3 attempts so could be feasible! The issue is hubby struggles with keeping up if he feels like he has to perform – he otherwise is fine, but my sheer increase in libido means he can feel it is ‘time” so I think that pressurises him a bit without meaning to…

PBN – yep drop in temp and it wasn’t that much earlier than usual so I actually am taking it as a valid temp – it’s still above coverline but definitely know I am out (don’t cry don't cry – you are at the office you can’t :( )… I will wait for AF but will try to just stick to HE – and neither booze or chocolate is good for HE (nor my skin and had plenty of choc cake after Dh’s Bday) – maybe just indulge in yogurt with nut butter mixed through it, and that’s about it lol
In Feb-March it’s the end of summer beginning of spring – so it can still be quite warm… I’m hence trying to look at the positive of what would now be an end of March/early April bub if next cycle works – likely to be a lovely time of year – so now just wanting for AF to arrive – given the drop in temp this am won’t be long I think! I will cry my eyes out when that happens and then move on…
Had hoped to be able to be preggers for when my parents arrive mid-July, and had a 1st scan to ensure things looked ok – but if waiting another month means a better chance of having a son, then so be it!

Mommy2apples
June 18th, 2017, 07:20 PM
So many hugs lmsm!!


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Pbn3
June 18th, 2017, 07:40 PM
Having a big cry will help (hugs) just wanted to mention if you were to start eod from say cd8 or 9 then af would be finished and if you o around cd14 again then that would be only three bd's to do and then you have the option of adding some extra attempts in at pos opk IF doable (so pretty much smep which they say to start at cd8) otherwise you're covered with your eod attempts.... I'd honestly give it a go. Maybe not discuss it with dh at all, just initiate bd for the eod part and then let him know when pos opk rolls around so he thinks you're still only trying for multiple attempts at pos opk??

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Pbn3
June 18th, 2017, 07:41 PM
Nacire try a digi in a couple days! Cant wait to see tomorrow mornings wondfo 😀😀 So have you worked out your due date?

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Lolabelle
June 18th, 2017, 07:43 PM
Nacire-I thought about that after I posted! I didn't use my 1st digi until 10dpo. That was a lovely line on the wondfo, so I bet you'll get a "Pregnant" in just a few days!! [emoji173]
LMSM-Hugs! hang in there! As the saying goes: good things come to those who wait [emoji173]I was thinking SMEP may be a good plan for you as well since it sways more blue! And I totally agree that a spring baby would def be a positive! Sending my blue dust to you & Fx that you get your little guy soon [emoji170]

LMSM
June 18th, 2017, 07:50 PM
Having a big cry will help (hugs) just wanted to mention if you were to start eod from say cd8 or 9 then af would be finished and if you o around cd14 again then that would be only three bd's to do and then you have the option of adding some extra attempts in at pos opk IF doable (so pretty much smep which they say to start at cd8) otherwise you're covered with your eod attempts.... I'd honestly give it a go. Maybe not discuss it with dh at all, just initiate bd for the eod part and then let him know when pos opk rolls around so he thinks you're still only trying for multiple attempts at pos opk??

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Oh I had not intended to mention the “plan” to him at all :rofl: - will just be the ‘kinky all month” wife :rofl:
Isn’t it worth getting a tad more BD in before for sperm quality/count though? I will probs try tonight as AF will likely arrive tomorrow that way by the WE we can BD and then continue on with eod before pos opk - and then will try to get at least 2 attempts in at pos opk wgich will likely be end of next week, so might be able to get some WE BD in too…
I do think it’s doable - FX!
Anything to add in his “diet” to boost him? He has a men’s multi (he takes it most days - will police it more) – and eod has a fish oil tab and a CQ10 tab – at this stage I just want him to be in a good shape, even if we only have like 2 weeks to get him there..
Will help him to actually go to the gym by kindly suggesting it.. I mean he pays for the darn membership! lol

LMSM
June 18th, 2017, 07:58 PM
Thanks lovelies – you are a truly lovely bunch all of you! <3

AshFind
June 18th, 2017, 07:59 PM
NACIRE that's a Bfp! Huge congrats I got a super faint on wondfo with fmu like fainter line that yours today and then tested with fmu the next morning and got "pregnant"!


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Pbn3
June 18th, 2017, 08:00 PM
If you bd cd8, 10, and 12 then that's a good rollover in sperm plus you'll likely get an extra attempt or two in as well. Definately bd in the 2ww as well. I've mentioned this several times in older 2ww threads (prior to the current ladies here) that its a known fact that couples (with no known fertility issues) who bd regularly throughout a women's cycle will fall pregnant more easily or faster than couples who don't. A women's body sees sperm as an invader and will basically seek and destroy hence so very few sperm actually make it to where they need to be. However by bding regularly your body will come to accept this invader more and more allowing a greater number of swimmers to make it to where they need to be. So its not just about bding regularly to keep dh's swimmers healthy, its also to keep these invaders coming so to speak so that the female body responds more favorably. I don't mean eod by this either, just two times a week is good then up the ante when it comes to fertile window (so eod during said window)

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AshFind
June 18th, 2017, 08:02 PM
Lol pbn maybe this is why I fall pregnant so fast! Dh has so have it all. The. Time. [emoji23]


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Pbn3
June 18th, 2017, 08:02 PM
Would make sense Ash!!!!

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AshFind
June 18th, 2017, 08:12 PM
Max I'm browsing Facebook I have an add that popped up for smocked auctions! [emoji15] weird....


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TtcBlue18
June 18th, 2017, 08:17 PM
LMSM.. I'm so sorry this wasn't your month, for some reason I really thought it would be. I really do believe things work out for the best. I bet this is God's way of making sure everything is perfect before he sends you your precious angel. Hugs to you! :bighug:

I think I may start testing at 9dpo. It's getting a lot harder to stick to he diet. I'm not used to eating so much or so often and it's starting to get me down. I just want some coffee, ice cream and then to get this weight back off so I can wear my favorite jeans again. I know in reality I'm much healthier than I was before, it just doesn't feel that way when I'm so far out of my norm. What I'm really afraid of is gaining all this weight and then I don't conceive in 3 months, dh will pull the plug on ttc and it all will be for nothing. Then I'll just be fat for no reason instead of for a baby boy. :(

LMSM
June 18th, 2017, 08:30 PM
PBN - Yep, will definitely want to BD early and late in the cycle too even when outside of potential fertile window (beyond the whole keeping #s healthy)– I read about the whole woman’s body “recognizing” her partner’s sperm, and giving signals that he is there as a permanent figure not a hit and run type of guy – which also sways blue.
I already sent a message to hubby saying no baby this month – we’ll just have to have lots of sex – just got a smile back :P
Ever the planner, I have redone a calendar with ideal BD planning haha

TTCblue – will wait it out with you! Exciting to have a few more of you in the tww ;)
I try to look at it that way too, though am not religious, I do believe in fate and karma – and if fate thinks best to wait a bit, so be it!
Like you, I have put on some weight and feeling a bit flab (admittedly my exercise level is not what it should be) and it frustrates me – if and when I do fall pregnant, I will of course continue eating healthily but there will be no junk, as really will want to keep the weight gain reasonable – I am not big to start with (51kg for 1.68m – probs more 53-54kgs now) and the extra weight kills my back so bad (I put on between 15-20 kgs for my girls) – so hope I will get pregnant soon! :D

Lolabelle
June 18th, 2017, 08:30 PM
LMSM-seriously lol at "kinky all month wife" 🤣

NACIREMADREAM
June 18th, 2017, 08:41 PM
LMSM - Thank you! I don’t know if it’s a good level of hcg or It was just good fmu :) My youngest is still breastfeeding like it’s going outta style lol Since my hubs is back home he tries to keep him busy doing big boy things. Maybe when he sees and knows I am he will forget about it? Sorry this month wasn't your month, but I love the Kinky Wife Plan :)

Pbn3 My first day of my last af was May 28th. I know I;d be due in early March :) Last night, and now this afternoon I’m having some consistent mild cramps. I googled it it says from my ovulation day I’m suppose to have possible implantation yesterday, today, or tomorrow..

Thanks so much Lolabelle :) I wish I saved it for another day, because it kind of brought my mood down.

Ashfind - Thank you so much! I’m going to try and wait it out till maybe middle of the week to use another digital test. I hope I can hold out :)

maximbella
June 18th, 2017, 08:53 PM
LMSM, so sorry...I'm right there with you! And thank you for your kind words. Fingers crossed for next cycle!

Ash, how funny! I buy a lot of stuff off that site. I love matching monogrammed outfits [emoji12]

Ladies, my ob said to take clomid cd 5-7. Is that the best odds of conception, or 3-7?


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Mommy2apples
June 18th, 2017, 08:54 PM
Atomic says 3-7


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Lolabelle
June 18th, 2017, 08:55 PM
Nacire-was it a cb digi? Maybe get a box of 2! Right after I posted asking when you were testing, I thought about mentioning-don't be surprised if you get a "not pregnant" this early. I know exactly what you mean about bringing you down b/c there's something about seeing those words that makes it feel real. In a day or 2 after you test again with the digi, I'm sure that mood is going to be turned around to celebration [emoji322]Testing with another wondfo in the AM? Can't wait to see!

Pbn3
June 18th, 2017, 09:00 PM
Max do you mean 5-9? I asked my ob at the time about taking clomid 5-9 as opposed to taking 3-7 as I was worried about multiples and had read that 5-9 is supposed to increase quality and 3-7 quantity. She said she recommended 3-7 firstly because I was on a time frame age wise and 3-7 may release more than one egg but gave me better odds if conception and also there was no real proof that 5-9 increased egg quality. Also because I oed around cd14 was another reason for 3-7.

I'd definitely take it 3-7 as you're not opposed to twins right? Plus I don't think the risk of twins is actually that much greater to be honest. Higher - yes definitely, you are taking a drug that stimulates ovulation after all but overall I think the odds aren't that much greater to worry about. It'd have to be a decision you make. Can you ring your ob perhaps and ask his/her reasoning for choosing 5-9 over 3-7? Make ot clear you are wanting to conceive as quick as possible and see if they change it to 3-7? Just a thought?

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Mommy2apples
June 18th, 2017, 09:03 PM
Since I got scatterbrained and didn't do clomid until cd 4-8.. I don't do opks until cd 12?


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maximbella
June 18th, 2017, 09:10 PM
Ok interesting! The RE said that clomid can't increase quality, just release more eggs so the probably that a better quality egg is released is just higher, if that makes sense. I'll call as soon as AF starts and confirm, but for sure want to try best odds so might go with 3-7.

Twins sounds scary to me right now, but as long as my body could carry them to term, I would do it. My frame is small and I never thought I would be able to do that...


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Lolabelle
June 18th, 2017, 09:10 PM
Max-I remember reading somewhere too that Atomic recommends cd3-7 for odds of conception and 5-9 isn't that much less of a risk for multiples as she has seen it happen.

TtcBlue18
June 18th, 2017, 09:41 PM
TTCblue – will wait it out with you! Exciting to have a few more of you in the tww ;)
I try to look at it that way too, though am not religious, I do believe in fate and karma – and if fate thinks best to wait a bit, so be it!
Like you, I have put on some weight and feeling a bit flab (admittedly my exercise level is not what it should be) and it frustrates me – if and when I do fall pregnant, I will of course continue eating healthily but there will be no junk, as really will want to keep the weight gain reasonable – I am not big to start with (51kg for 1.68m – probs more 53-54kgs now) and the extra weight kills my back so bad (I put on between 15-20 kgs for my girls) – so hope I will get pregnant soon! :D

I believe in fate as well :) I too will definitely be limiting junk if I fall pregnant. I gained 65 pounds with my first, lost all but 20 after having her, then turned around and gained another 45 with my second. After having her, I kicked it in high gear and lost 100 pounds. I was so proud.. Then I found gender dreaming 18 months later and I feel like all my hard work was for nothing because now I'm gaining it back. I really hope that I will just be able to maintain weight for the majority of my pregnancy if I do get a Bfp. Some days I pray I don't get a Bfp this cycle because I want to improve my sway, but other days I pray I do get one because I don't know how much of the he diet I can take.

Pbn3
June 18th, 2017, 09:45 PM
Since I got scatterbrained and didn't do clomid until cd 4-8.. I don't do opks until cd 12?


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June 18th, 2017, 09:47 PM
Thanks PBN! :)


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LMSM
June 18th, 2017, 09:51 PM
Max
If it can give you any insight my RE gave me Clomid from Cd3-5 only so only 3 days and only 25mg (half a tab)– and that was plenty to get me ovulating – I O’d around Cd12 both times and was pregnant on 1st cycle both times after 18-22 months of ttc without success before that ( I did have a pregnancy when DD1 was just 11 m.o but miscarried so all my conceptions were Clomid successes bar that one which was natural but failed).
Just a note too, Clomid does tend to dry your CM out so plan to have Robitussin or the like on hand – and it may well make you O earlier than naturally so ensure you plan for that too :)
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NACIREMADREAM
June 18th, 2017, 10:32 PM
Lolabella - Yes it was a Clear Blue digi. It was a big mood killer for me, and it had me staring at the positive wondfo wondering if its just a fluke :( I will test again tomorrow with a wondfo fmu.

Lolabelle
June 18th, 2017, 10:51 PM
Nacire-don't let it get you down b/c that was a clear BFP & I really believe it was just too early for it to detect. See how your wondfo looks tomorr AM & def grab some more cb digis! If you're feeling up for it try again or wait until Tues for the digi b/c I believe you will be 10dpo-just a guess from your chart & what everyone is saying. It doesn't look like a fluke so fx!!!!!

NACIREMADREAM
June 18th, 2017, 10:58 PM
Thanks so much Lolabelle :) You've been so helpful this cycle!

Pbn3
June 18th, 2017, 11:00 PM
No way that's a fluke nacire. For reassurance why not do a two hour hold and use another wondfo. Expect the line to be lighter because its not fmu but maybe seeing a line again will give you some confidence :)

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LMSM
June 18th, 2017, 11:12 PM
Nacire, second PBN – you definitely have hcg in your system, enough for the IC but enough for the digi to pick it up – a few hours longer and the levels could be high enough to be picked up by both – I understand that makes you feel down, after the excitement of the wondfo, but I think you can safely assume you are pregnant – it’s also very very early so a couple of days from now, all tests should start picking up the hcg – big hugs

Pbn3
June 19th, 2017, 01:59 AM
Mummy2boys are you testing tomorrow?

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maximbella
June 19th, 2017, 06:35 AM
Max
If it can give you any insight my RE gave me Clomid from Cd3-5 only so only 3 days and only 25mg (half a tab)– and that was plenty to get me ovulating – I O’d around Cd12 both times and was pregnant on 1st cycle both times after 18-22 months of ttc without success before that ( I did have a pregnancy when DD1 was just 11 m.o but miscarried so all my conceptions were Clomid successes bar that one which was natural but failed).
Just a note too, Clomid does tend to dry your CM out so plan to have Robitussin or the like on hand – and it may well make you O earlier than naturally so ensure you plan for that too :)
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LMSM, thank you for sharing that. Temp went down today, so sure I'll be starting clomid soon, and praying that it works for me like it did for you. Do you remember what your BD pattern was with your DDs? I'm worried that e4d won't cut it on clomid for me. I'm going to ask atomic about smep also. How do you use robittusin? Never heard of that for ttc! :)


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IWant4Kids
June 19th, 2017, 06:39 AM
LMSM - Thank you! Feeling normal now that clomid is finished. Hoping it's doing its magic.
Sorry it doesn't look like it's your month. xoxo

Maxim - I take clomid from Day 2-6

Nacire - I second doing another normal test for reassurance.

AFM - SOOOOOOO super tired today.....maybe my body is getting closer to O so it's draining me? Only 4 days of work to go and then 3 weeks of holidays! CAN NOT WAIT :)

Pbn3
June 19th, 2017, 06:48 AM
Max I'll leave LMSM to explain robitussin (it can be used to increase cm) but just wanted to say make sure you are getting the one with the correct ingredient as some are mixed ingredients and there is a particular ingredient it needs to have :) cant remember its exact name, starts with a 'g'??

Iwant4kids I too am looking forward to school holidays!

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maximbella
June 19th, 2017, 06:55 AM
Oh good to know, thanks pbn! Night night!


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June 19th, 2017, 06:58 AM
Iwant4, how many mgs did you take?


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LMSM
June 19th, 2017, 07:02 AM
Max I'll leave LMSM to explain robitussin (it can be used to increase cm) but just wanted to say make sure you are getting the one with the correct ingredient as some are mixed ingredients and there is a particular ingredient it needs to have :) cant remember its exact name, starts with a 'g'??

Iwant4kids I too am looking forward to school holidays!

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Will re on that in the am guanafesin (not sure of spelling) you need the one that loosens mucus... ;)
Will explain it all in the am, am going to bed to try to get some bd in before AF arrives lol

LMSM
June 19th, 2017, 07:05 AM
LMSM, thank you for sharing that. Temp went down today, so sure I'll be starting clomid soon, and praying that it works for me like it did for you. Do you remember what your BD pattern was with your DDs? I'm worried that e4d won't cut it on clomid for me. I'm going to ask atomic about smep also. How do you use robittusin? Never heard of that for ttc! :)


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I can share my chart for DD2, as it's on FF (will do in the am)... but my chart for DD1 is via another website and can't remember the login for the life of me (and would like to see too lol). Am pretty sure the pattern was pretty similar to DD2 though. If I can login somehow will let you know :)
Will detail it all in the am :)
Sorry temp went down..looks like we will be new cycle buddies :)

IWant4Kids
June 19th, 2017, 08:24 AM
Iwant4, how many mgs did you take?


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Just 50, the lowest dose. Worked for DS1 first month and worked for me this year too (except blighted ovum).

maximbella
June 19th, 2017, 09:53 AM
Thanks Iwant4...fingers crossed tightly for you this cycle!!!

LMSM, thanks, looking forward to seeing the chart! And hoping that we can all join the DDG together next month! :)

meoab
June 19th, 2017, 11:33 AM
@ttcblue dont worry I have gained a lot of weight too. My AF went missing for three months that's when I started doing my kettlebells more, and yoga and accupuncture. I even have inotisol, clomic imported from Spain and vitex or something. Havent used any but bought all of it just in case. Anyone here from London who would love to buy it from me? lol

Ok so I have got positives for ages now. We have been bd'ing a lot since I got it from day one. Today I went to the store and got myself clearblue pregnancy tests...one normal and one digital. The normal one showed this
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Lolabelle
June 19th, 2017, 11:53 AM
Meoab-let me see if I have this straight....you have been getting a lot of positive OPKs along with pain in the abdomen & considered going to the ER? Did you end up going to the ER? You'll have to catch me up on your story, but do you have PCOS with the pain you're having which could cause false positives or does this mean you are preggo & celebrations are in order?!!!!! [emoji322][emoji322][emoji322]

Mommy2apples
June 19th, 2017, 11:59 AM
Only way she would know for sure right now is to go get betas done right?


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TtcBlue18
June 19th, 2017, 12:08 PM
@ttcblue dont worry I have gained a lot of weight too. My AF went missing for three months that's when I started doing my kettlebells more, and yoga and accupuncture. I even have inotisol, clomic imported from Spain and vitex or something. Havent used any but bought all of it just in case. Anyone here from London who would love to buy it from me? lol

Ok so I have got positives for ages now. We have been bd'ing a lot since I got it from day one. Today I went to the store and got myself clearblue pregnancy tests...one normal and one digital. The normal one showed this
36666

Thank you, you're a sweetheart.. I think I just need to start working out more to get my positive mindset back, as I'm really slacking.

Meoab, this is definitely a positive! Are you worried that this is not accurate? I'm confused??

meoab
June 19th, 2017, 12:28 PM
Meoab-let me see if I have this straight....you have been getting a lot of positive OPKs along with pain in the abdomen & considered going to the ER? Did you end up going to the ER? You'll have to catch me up on your story, but do you have PCOS with the pain you're having which could cause false positives or does this mean you are preggo & celebrations are in order?!!!!! [emoji322][emoji322][emoji322]
I have pco tendencies due to weight gain Atomic told me. Which put me off for months! Then in May my AF came back, which made me use the opk's for the first time. I had all negatuves till last week Saturday. That's when the positives came back to back and they got darker and darker each day. We bd'ed like crazy (5 times). So this must be a positive pregnancy test correct? I did not go to my gp because I felt like testing it myself at home first before going to my
gp.

We also bd'ed twice or three times at the end of May but that was a 1.5 week after my AF ended. My ovulations tests were all negative at that time. My only concern is how I can have a positive pregnancy test this early?

Mommy2apples
June 19th, 2017, 12:30 PM
That's very much a positive.. a dark one at that.. you must have conceived sooner than you think!! Anyways yay!! So excited!!


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Mommy2apples
June 19th, 2017, 12:31 PM
At 3.5 weeks on that test with my baby girl it was much lighter than yours.


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meoab
June 19th, 2017, 12:31 PM
BTW this is the first cycle we have been trying for real. I was very down the months before and never tested any opk nor did we bd much. Did not expect to get pregnant this cycle..I felt infertile for months lol.

meoab
June 19th, 2017, 12:34 PM
Thanks mommy2apples. Planning to test it with the digital one for clear indication..I hope for a healthy baby (boy).

Mommy2apples
June 19th, 2017, 12:42 PM
Welcome sweetie!! You can have all my boy dust!! Lol pass along your girl dust!!


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Lolabelle
June 19th, 2017, 01:25 PM
Congrats Meoab!!! Def a positive, especially if you were getting negative OPKs earlier!!! Can't wait to see the digi! As mommy said, you must have gotten pregnant sooner than you thought!! What dpo do you think you are??
Nacire-how are you today? Thinking about you & wondering if you tested?

XXforhubby
June 19th, 2017, 01:42 PM
Huge congrats Meob! I'll give you my blue baby dust [emoji597][emoji92][emoji170][emoji843][emoji170][emoji94]! This happened to me with my DS1. I was shocked though! For us, it happened the first month. I just assumed it would take us a few months. I felt pain in my abdomen and ovaries. I took a test and it was very positive! I bet you conceived earlier than you think. I'm curious to see what you get on a CBD with weeks estimator- if you have any!

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June 19th, 2017, 02:28 PM
Congrats Meob!! Conceiving first cycle is super great for boy! You can have all my blue dust as well [emoji100]


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meoab
June 19th, 2017, 02:56 PM
Thank you sweet ladies! I hope it is and I just got my digital result which shows 3+ weeks of pregnancy. I am scared..We were not doing much of bd and I dont know whether we did it twice of three times nor do I remember whether it was all the times within two/three days or every two days...I am scared :(. Don't know if its good for blue. Just praying its a healthy baby (boy). Can't help it but the desire is strong.

Mommy2apples
June 19th, 2017, 02:58 PM
Oh yay girl!! You are 5 weeks or more!! Eek that is so exciting!!
Fx this is your boy! Did you not chart bd on any of your fertility charts?


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NACIREMADREAM
June 19th, 2017, 03:00 PM
Hi! I'm sitting here a little confused and embrassed :( I kind of wish I could take back my post from yesterday. I took a few wondfo's this morning with fmu and they're BFN :( Is this even possible, maybe a bad batch of test?! I've been feeling achey for the past few days in my lower abdomen. Maybe af is coming soon and that test really was a fluke, but wouldn't explain how I've been feeling lately :( I'm sorry I got everyone so excited for my BFP :( :(

NACIREMADREAM
June 19th, 2017, 03:01 PM
Meoab - Huge Congratualtions!!! I hope you get your baby boy :)

Mommy2apples
June 19th, 2017, 03:02 PM
Aww Naci! Go get a blood test done? That will tell you yes or definitely. Hugs wish I could be more help:


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Pbn3
June 19th, 2017, 03:30 PM
Meoab wow congratulations!!! I too am a little confused as I thought you'd tested with hpts when you kept getting pos opks and they were negative? Bizarre as you wont get a pos opk like that before getting a pos hpt. In any case how amazing 😀🎉🎉🎉

Nacire can you post this mornings hpt beside your pos hpt from yesterday? I know all about limbo and am I, aren't I so big hugs!



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IWant4Kids
June 19th, 2017, 03:39 PM
Meoab- wohooooo! Congrats!!! Try not to think about it anymore. Getting pregnant first try means you're super fertile which is boy friendly I think?
Time to get a blood test and enjoy xo


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June 19th, 2017, 03:40 PM
Nacire - maybe a chemical pregnancy? Sorry to hear [emoji26]


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Pbn3
June 19th, 2017, 03:59 PM
Nacire back in April? a lady called dreamingella got a bfp at 6dpo then nothing for two days before getting an obvious bfp three days after original bfp ao hang in there! Could just be that particular test was super sensitive and the ones this morning arent. I will see if I can find the post/s later and copy/paste it to here :)

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NACIREMADREAM
June 19th, 2017, 04:03 PM
Here is yesterday's BFP and followed by 2 fmu and one 2 hour hold :(36670

TtcBlue18
June 19th, 2017, 04:12 PM
Congratulations, meoab!! I've been really hoping to see you get your baby boy ever since I read your story (you were talking to atomic about not having af for months and you were feeling really down on your luck). This is such amazing news and I don't think I've ever been so happy to hear that someone is pregnant! If I had any blue dust, I would share it with you ;) I hope you have a h&h pregnancy and get that little boy your heart desires!

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TtcBlue18
June 19th, 2017, 04:18 PM
Here is yesterday's BFP and followed by 2 fmu and one 2 hour hold :(36670

Im so sorry :( I think you should get in to see your doctor, or give it a few days as pbn said. I'm hoping it was just a sensitive test to where you get more Bfps in the next couple days, because that first one was definitely positive and it's pretty rate to get a fluke positive. FX for you!

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Pbn3
June 19th, 2017, 04:18 PM
Nacire I definately still see something! Hang in there! It really is early still at 9dpo and that test yesterday was soooo vivid it could be making these other ones look bad lol. Honestly for 9dpo I would more expect ehat we are seeing now rather than yesterday.

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June 19th, 2017, 04:20 PM
Oh and the 2 hour hold one looks darker than the fmu ones which just proves that test sensitivity really can be quite different :)

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TtcBlue18
June 19th, 2017, 04:24 PM
Pbn, when bd e4d (to keep dh counts up) I know you should from af-o, but what about from o-Af (the 2ww)? Should we be doing e4d all the time or is it okay to take a break after o? I thought you might know, instead of having to post to atomic.

Pbn3
June 19th, 2017, 04:29 PM
Ttcblue if your not temping to confirm o then it's a good idea to continue e4d either until af or at least twice more after you *think you've oed. Are you doing e4d then multiple attempts at pos opk? From memory you'd be 5/6dpo now and had 2 attempts this cycle?

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NACIREMADREAM
June 19th, 2017, 04:30 PM
Mommy2apples - Thank you! Your always quick to respond with so much kindness so that is clearly enough help :)

Pbn3 - Thank you for your encouragement! Good to hear weird things like this can happen. It really gives me hope for a good outcome. I keep staring at these bfn and willing there to be a line lol

TtcBlue18 - No worries! AF isn’t due till the last day of this month if it’s a longer cycle (33 days). I’m not going to stress myself out more than I have. I will wait it out and hopefully it will be positive later this week. In past pregnancies I’ve always had to be late to show up on a regular test so I keep that in the back of my mind. Thank you!!

NACIREMADREAM
June 19th, 2017, 04:32 PM
Want4kids - Chemical sounds so sad :( I will have to google that one. Thank you!!

Pbn3
June 19th, 2017, 04:32 PM
Nacire here's some screenshots of dreamings tests I was talking about. I could only find two but if definitely took three days for her line to come back as dark as her original bfp on 6dpo :) first pic is her 6dpo test and second pic was the following morning?
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TtcBlue18
June 19th, 2017, 04:46 PM
Pbn- We do e4d but dh wears condoms until I get a positive ovulation test, then we get 2 attempts in. This cycle I got lucky and got 3attempts because e4d landed me 2 days prior to a positive opk and he didn't have condoms :) and yes I'm currently 6dpo.. we just can't seem to keep up with e4d after we get our attempts in at o. We do great from af-o, but after o it turns into more like e5d or e6d... then we get back on track when af arrives..

Lolabelle
June 19th, 2017, 04:47 PM
Meoab-wow 3+ does mean 5 or more weeks-how awesome! Have you worked out when you think your due date is?
Nacire-please don't be embarrassed! There is a clear line on your previous wondfo. Sometimes they're really light this early & maybe you just had a really concentrated sample for the first one. Fx that it darkens over the next couple of days 🤞🏻[emoji1374]🤞🏻

NACIREMADREAM
June 19th, 2017, 04:49 PM
Lolabelle - Thank you so much! I'm still hopeful :)

Mommy2apples
June 19th, 2017, 04:51 PM
Still cheering you on Naci!!


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Lolabelle
June 19th, 2017, 04:58 PM
Nacire-here are my barely there lines at 9 & 11dpo this cycle. Luckily I had the OSOMs where I could see the progression better
with darker lines. Fx it's just early & your lines will darken!!
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Mommy2apples
June 19th, 2017, 06:02 PM
Would it be okay if I get my attempt into tonight, as tomorrow is going to be super busy and follow it up with e3-4d. I don't think I'm ovulating today either. I've been sweating this all day. It's only e2d.


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NACIREMADREAM
June 19th, 2017, 06:17 PM
Lolabelle - Thank you for sharing those pics!

Skyblue
June 19th, 2017, 06:23 PM
Meoab - Congratulations dear. 3+ wow. This is awesome though and like everyone else I would say getting bfp in the first cycle means you are super fertile and boy friendly. [emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322] :bluecheer:
Nacire - Hugs. I remember dreaming getting bfp on 6dpo and then faint lines like Pbn mentioned. I really hope it keeps getting darker. 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞so hard. We r rooting for you.
LMSM - How are you this morning dear? How is dd feeling now?
Max - How are u today? Have u decided days for clomid?



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NACIREMADREAM
June 19th, 2017, 06:28 PM
Skyblue - Thank you!