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Pbn3
December 19th, 2017, 05:50 PM
Yep sounds like it could be girlswaylondon :)

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mwilson
December 19th, 2017, 09:29 PM
BBB still around ;). Just on cd 4 so nothing to share with me. I will be doing more attempts this cycle, kinda. Going for every 3-4 days vs the one attempt. I think I keep missing it or nothing is sticking. So thinking cd 8, then 11, and then 14 should cover my bases and not sway too heavy blue. Id like a girl, but after a chemical and then 4 more negatives I'd like to see a positive.

ABC.2606
December 20th, 2017, 12:46 AM
mwilson - hoping this is your cycle. I understand the frustration... We started ttc-ing 6 months ago - 2 early m/cs, 2 bfns, two cycles we had to skip, and now I have to wait another month again before next attempt. I'm sick of it and want to be pregnant w/ a healthy bub! Soooo much harder than when we conceived my boys.

Robin - So you decided to try this cycle? YAY!!!! Are you planning to do one attempt when your OPK is positive or get a few in?

FX for you sunstars!!

YAY Girlsway!!!! You're heading into the TWW now!! FX for you too!!!!

BBB thanks for checking in on all of us :) It was just a couple of weeks ago you were worried I was going to be leaving this board w/ my BFP, and now you're pregnant!! And apparently it's me who will forever be stuck here in the TTC/TWW board :) :) :) I know - I'm being negative! Trying to be positive still that my healthy bean is coming. How are you feeling?!! Do you have your first doctor appt scheduled?

Who else is in the tww I can't keep track! Noemi? Filzma?

Girlswaylondon
December 20th, 2017, 02:18 AM
Pbn- is quite strange I usually have pos opks for 2 days? Never mind we’ve had our attempt and whatever will be will be :)

ABC- thank you Hun!

Noemi2017
December 20th, 2017, 02:37 AM
Hello ABC yes now in tww, good it is Christmas i will” try “to think about something else:) im still thinking i was late for my attempt but now it is in Gods hands:pray:

Noemi2017
December 20th, 2017, 02:39 AM
Hello Girlsway are u also afraid u were late for attempt? We had similar and strange this month:hug2:

Noemi2017
December 20th, 2017, 02:43 AM
Pbn3 look pls at my chart. FF will show tomorrow that my ovulation was on Monday 18 in the day of my first positive opk and we had attempt in the night. I hope it was not late...?38480

Pbn3
December 20th, 2017, 02:46 AM
Pbn- is quite strange I usually have pos opks for 2 days? Never mind we’ve had our attempt and whatever will be will be :)

ABC- thank you Hun!Girlswaylondon all looks normal to me. Your temp hasn't spiked indicating o should happen today (day after pos opk) which is EXACTLY what we want. Thats how it's supposed to work, you get a temp shift/spike two mornings after pos opk indicating your attempt will be a 1-o bd. You haven't marked in your attempt from yesterday in ff?

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Girlswaylondon
December 20th, 2017, 02:49 AM
Girlswaylondon all looks normal to me. Your temp hasn't spiked indicating o should happen today (day after pos opk) which is EXACTLY what we want. Thats how it's supposed to work, you get a temp shift/spike two mornings after pos opk indicating your attempt will be a 1-o bd. You haven't marked in your attempt from yesterday in ff?

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Thanks for reminding me I’ll do that now! :) I have another app I use before I downloaded FF and it’s habit to log it in there first!

Also I’ve been cheeky and the past 3 days I’ve been temping vaginally too and writing the temps down in my notes (for fun) here’s what they’ve been:
36.32
36.55
36.51

Pbn3
December 20th, 2017, 02:49 AM
Pbn3 look pls at my chart. FF will show tomorrow that my ovulation was on Monday 18 in the day of my first positive opk and we had attempt in the night. I hope it was not late...?38480Noemi just seen your chart as well and your temp this morning puts you in post o range, not yesterdays. I think you'll see a further rise in the morning and ff will eventually allocate your crosshairs to cd19 (if they are put on cd18 tomorrow morning they may shift to cd19 the following morning once more temp data is received)

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Pbn3
December 20th, 2017, 02:51 AM
So girlswaylondon tomorrow both orally and vaginally you should see a shift. Let me know it is vaginally!

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Girlswaylondon
December 20th, 2017, 03:31 AM
Will do, pbn!

Filzma
December 20th, 2017, 03:49 AM
All the best mwilson. Hopefully this turns out to be your month!

Star4012
December 20th, 2017, 09:52 AM
Hello everyone! I would love to join in on this thread. My hubby and I have been ttc for a year and a half already. We have 1DS together and I have a DS with my ex husband. We know that our machines work but aren't sure why we haven't conceived yet. I took my first round of Clomid 50mg days 5-9 this cycle.... Ovulated on CD14, so I am currently on 6DPO. We are swaying for our last baby and hoping for a girl. Looking for ways to pass up this 2WW!! Haha

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plasticserenity
December 20th, 2017, 11:19 AM
Hey everyone, haven't checked in for a while (went away for a lovely romantic break with DP - log cabin in the woods, surrounded by snow with a log fire and a hot tub, absolute heaven!). Now back to work and reality and catching up with my online admin!

Hope everyone is doing well and that loads of BFPs have popped up in the last week or so while I've been gone (I will work my way back through the threads to try and catch up!)

As for me, I'm 16 dpo (with normally a 14 day LP!) and starting to wonder if I even ovulated at all. I FELT like I did (+ve OPK, really crampy on suspected O day) but hardly had any CM, temps were a bit whacky, and I'm still getting BFNs but AF not reared her ugly head yet. I don't feel pg and BBT is almost at CL so I'm sure she's going to appear any minute, just wish she wasn't messing me about!

My Ovulation Chart (https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6a5a33/)

Noemi2017
December 20th, 2017, 01:28 PM
Girlsway hello:) now we must wait...:nails:i will test 28 december...:pray::HH:
Good luck to everybody here:fingers::awe:

Georgia_Peach
December 20th, 2017, 01:40 PM
Hey ladies.
Is this now positive?
Tested with digital today for the first time and got a negitive result. but I think it always gives negitive this first time?
Top is yesterday bottom todayhttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171220/318c13ce457fd4996e0ca6a0f69a298c.jpg

Girlswaylondon
December 20th, 2017, 01:50 PM
Robin I still think negative but definitely darker, are you testing twice a day?

Georgia_Peach
December 20th, 2017, 02:40 PM
Robin I still think negative but definitely darker, are you testing twice a day?No but I am going to start now.
Thank you for your help! ☺

Girlswaylondon
December 20th, 2017, 02:44 PM
You’re welcome :) opks are so confusing when it comes to spotting a positive! But the line on the left basically has to be as dark or darker than the right :)

mtolbert1
December 20th, 2017, 02:46 PM
Welcome sunstars and stars4012!

Hugs ABC & Robin!!! Praying for you both! You all's strength amazes me!!!

So I have somewhat of an update.. I saw my OBGYN today. She wants me to start taking baby asprin every day and she did bloodwork to check my thyroid, liver, and kidneys. She said whenever I get my BFP, I need to come straight in and get more bloodwork and shes going to give me progesterone. She agreed to giving me an early ultrasound as well! She also said if I don't get my BFP, shes going to start closely monitoring my femara cycles. So overall, im feeling hopeful! I am either 5,6, or 7 dpo today. We've been trying for almost 2 years now.. so 2 years and 2 miscarriages later, im finally seeing some progress with my dr.

I hope to see a lot of BFP this month & I pray for all of you all the time!!!


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Pbn3
December 20th, 2017, 04:19 PM
Hello everyone! I would love to join in on this thread. My hubby and I have been ttc for a year and a half already. We have 1DS together and I have a DS with my ex husband. We know that our machines work but aren't sure why we haven't conceived yet. I took my first round of Clomid 50mg days 5-9 this cycle.... Ovulated on CD14, so I am currently on 6DPO. We are swaying for our last baby and hoping for a girl. Looking for ways to pass up this 2WW!! Haha

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Hi and welcome star! Wow you've been at it a long time! I really hope this first round of clomid gives you your long awaited bfp! Are you being monitored to know you oed cd14 or are you charting? Can I ask what you did attempt wise? And when will you test?

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Pbn3
December 20th, 2017, 04:22 PM
All the best for this cycle sunstars and mwilson!! Enjoy your Christmas and hopefully it will leave you feeling relaxed, ready and full of positivity for this cycle [emoji3]

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Pbn3
December 20th, 2017, 04:31 PM
Welcome back plasticserenity and wow that holiday sounds amazing [emoji50]

Have you had bw done to check progesterone levels 7-9dpo to confirm you're oing? Might be worthwhile making an appt with your gp and asking for some bw to be run. If you can get in the next day or so you might also be able to get some cd3 tests run for lh, fsh & amh if there's a blood collection that's open up until xmas eve and af arrives by tomorrow that is... Otherwise still might be worth getting an appt and having the bw requests ready in case af doesn't arrive until xmas time'ish? I've been watching your chart and even though your post o temps arent as high as last cycle you did show a nice pre o dip so o definately could have happened. But maybe you also geared up to o but didn't [emoji848]

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Pbn3
December 20th, 2017, 04:32 PM
Hey ladies.
Is this now positive?
Tested with digital today for the first time and got a negitive result. but I think it always gives negitive this first time?
Top is yesterday bottom todayhttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171220/318c13ce457fd4996e0ca6a0f69a298c.jpgNo not positive Robin but getting closer [emoji3] My guess would be tomorrows 1pm will be though fx! Are you cd12 today?

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Georgia_Peach
December 20th, 2017, 04:39 PM
No not positive Robin but getting closer [emoji3] My guess would be tomorrows 1pm will be though fx! Are you cd12 today?

Sent from my SM-G900I using TapatalkI'm cd11 today. Still had spotting today. Wtf!? I can't go by cm so far!

Pbn3
December 20th, 2017, 04:39 PM
Mtolbert that's fantastic news that you obgyn is being proactive!! Is she having you start aspirin now before waiting to see if you get a bfp though??!! Had she previously run tests on your blood for clotting etc? Also by monitoring your femara cycles does that mean you'll be getting u/s to moitor ovulation?! How awesome!!

I don't think you'll need to go down that road as you'll be getting a bfp in 3/4 days [emoji6] Cant wait for you to start testing [emoji16]

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Pbn3
December 20th, 2017, 04:43 PM
I'm cd11 today. Still had spotting today. Wtf!? I can't go by cm so far!Is it constant spotting or just once or twice when wiping? Can you tell if its blood mixed with watery cm? That's what I used to get... Cant wait to see your opk tomorrow! Please be sure to post us a pic! Also want to say to think of anything different (even spotting) as a good sign [emoji3] Different is good!

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Pbn3
December 20th, 2017, 04:48 PM
Girlswaylondon and noemi I'm looking forward to seeing your temps this afternoon my time [emoji3]

Filzma cannot wait for you to start testing!!! Can this week go any slower [emoji30]!!!!

GirlswayHGmama did you end up having an attempt Tuesday? I can only see the Monday one marked in your chart? Was that the one that dh was unable to release or were you's able to get a finished attempt later that night?



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Georgia_Peach
December 20th, 2017, 05:02 PM
Is it constant spotting or just once or twice when wiping? Can you tell if its blood mixed with watery cm? That's what I used to get... Cant wait to see your opk tomorrow! Please be sure to post us a pic! Also want to say to think of anything different (even spotting) as a good sign [emoji3] Different is good!

Sent from my SM-G900I using TapatalkYes I hope your right!
It's pinkish watery discharge. Mostly when I wipe but my AF left CD 7. Then cd10 that started. It's just different for me bc when AF is over.. It's over for me until next cycle. I don't get break through spotting.

Pbn3
December 20th, 2017, 05:06 PM
Yep I never did either until after my losses. And same! Af would fully finish and then 2-3 days later the spotting would start with watery cm. I was sure it meant something was wrong but my ob assured me it was fine at the time. I don't recall seeing it though any later than cd12 [emoji848] so hopefully its coming to an end for you :)

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mtolbert1
December 20th, 2017, 05:20 PM
Mtolbert that's fantastic news that you obgyn is being proactive!! Is she having you start aspirin now before waiting to see if you get a bfp though??!! Had she previously run tests on your blood for clotting etc? Also by monitoring your femara cycles does that mean you'll be getting u/s to moitor ovulation?! How awesome!!

I don't think you'll need to go down that road as you'll be getting a bfp in 3/4 days [emoji6] Cant wait for you to start testing [emoji16]

Sent from my SM-G900I using TapatalkI already take aspirin now just 3 times a week but she wants me to bump it to every day. I don't believe shes done bloodwork to check for clotting. If she has, it was along with other tests. Is it dangerous for me to up my aspirin to every day now??

Yes from what I understood if there is a next cycle, I'll be getting ultrasounds and possibly bloodwork to monitor ovulation!

Thank you Pbn, I really hope so!!!

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plasticserenity
December 20th, 2017, 05:23 PM
Welcome back plasticserenity and wow that holiday sounds amazing [emoji50]

Have you had bw done to check progesterone levels 7-9dpo to confirm you're oing? Might be worthwhile making an appt with your gp and asking for some bw to be run. If you can get in the next day or so you might also be able to get some cd3 tests run for lh, fsh & amh if there's a blood collection that's open up until xmas eve and af arrives by tomorrow that is... Otherwise still might be worth getting an appt and having the bw requests ready in case af doesn't arrive until xmas time'ish? I've been watching your chart and even though your post o temps arent as high as last cycle you did show a nice pre o dip so o definately could have happened. But maybe you also geared up to o but didn't [emoji848]

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No I've not seen my GP about anything. To be honest, as it's only 3 months since they took my coil out I doubt they'd do anything other than tell me to wait and see, I know the NHS isn't keen to step in before 12 months unsuccessful TTC :/ So I'm pretty much just gonna worry to myself (and you guys <3)

Girlswaylondon
December 20th, 2017, 05:35 PM
I’m feeling nervous this cycle! Haven’t had my usual o pains I get the day after opk! Hoping my body hasn’t started to mess up which would be typical!

Good luck to everyone trying xx

Pbn3
December 20th, 2017, 05:45 PM
Girlswaylondon you may get them while sleeping [emoji6]

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Filzma
December 20th, 2017, 06:00 PM
Pbn3 time has never gone slower. I’m actively trying to distract myself. [emoji30] this is draining. I’ve read everything there is to read about the 2ww, implantation, luteal phases ... everything

Filzma
December 20th, 2017, 06:02 PM
Jk just most of it [emoji5][emoji6]

Pbn3
December 20th, 2017, 06:06 PM
[emoji23][emoji23] yep that's classic 2ww syndrome right there!!

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Eighme
December 20th, 2017, 07:38 PM
This waiting game is HARD! I’m trying to steadily keep my mind distracted all the while wondering if any twinge or slight cramp means anything. Oye!


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hannahptrussell
December 20th, 2017, 09:06 PM
This waiting game is HARD! I’m trying to steadily keep my mind distracted all the while wondering if any twinge or slight cramp means anything. Oye!


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So I distract myself with the news from my friends who are in the tww as well! This is a text feed from a friend who has been trying for 3 years! She literally told me she is done. Last week. And then this today. I love this so much. To get to celebrate with friends who have been trying so hard, when getting those babies is hard and challenging. That’s another reason I love this board.



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Pbn3
December 20th, 2017, 10:16 PM
Hannah that's wonderful [emoji7][emoji7][emoji7] I'm so happy for your friend!!!

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Eighme
December 20th, 2017, 10:44 PM
https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171221/cfaa63b524d95f5ac9db8bc37a446b7f.jpg


So I distract myself with the news from my friends who are in the tww as well! This is a text feed from a friend who has been trying for 3 years! She literally told me she is done. Last week. And then this today. I love this so much. To get to celebrate with friends who have been trying so hard, when getting those babies is hard and challenging. That’s another reason I love this board.



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That is absolutely amazing! I’m so happy for your friend! It’s amazing how when you’re ready to give up and everything falls into place at that moment. I love this!


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HGmama
December 21st, 2017, 12:58 AM
Girlswaylondon and noemi I'm looking forward to seeing your temps this afternoon my time [emoji3]

Filzma cannot wait for you to start testing!!! Can this week go any slower [emoji30]!!!!

GirlswayHGmama did you end up having an attempt Tuesday? I can only see the Monday one marked in your chart? Was that the one that dh was unable to release or were you's able to get a finished attempt later that night?



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Thanks for asking! Nope we didn't attempt. [emoji44][emoji51] Ugh! He wasn't "up to it". I'm going to edit my FF. I feel like this isn't our month. I'm disappointed. My LE diet was a complete fail.
I forgot my opk for work today and yesterday it fell apart.
I'm attaching a pic. Most recent tonight is bottom one anf one second from bottom is last night. Not sure if I missed my surge or if I'm not there yet. Only time will tell... https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171221/7ca9e250d3ba83416b180aed39a444ce.jpg

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Girlswaylondon
December 21st, 2017, 01:58 AM
Pbn my chsrt says I missed ovulation? :(

Girlswaylondon
December 21st, 2017, 02:09 AM
Vaginal temps go:
36.32
36.55
36.51
36.54
38484

This is so confusing!

Noemi2017
December 21st, 2017, 02:54 AM
Flizma im doing the same:wink:i really wish it is already 28december so i can start to test:)

ABC.2606
December 21st, 2017, 02:55 AM
Welcome Star!!!!

Welcome back plasticserenity!!! Sounds like a great vacation!!

Mtolbert YAY that's great news that your doctor is being way more proactive now!!! And testing time is coming WOO HOO!!!! I can't wait! Are you going to wait until Christmas day to test?

Hannah that's AWESOME!! So happy for your friend!!!!!

I am really struggling now to get back on LE again after this m/c.... I was over the fat limit today and I'm having a harder time not snacking. I was so excited w/ this last BFP thinking I was DONE. And exercise is really a struggle right now too - I took two complete weeks off after BFP and I'm now trying to ease back in but it's hard. I have a nasty cold and my bleeding is just now about done so I'm trying to be easy on myself on that one but I've yet to get a full 60 minutes in still. And with the holidays the next two weeks are going to be a challenge. Sigh - oh well I guess.

Noemi2017
December 21st, 2017, 02:56 AM
Girlsway im also feeling nervous this cycle, it didnt go how i imagined this month, opk was playing with me:(

Girlswaylondon
December 21st, 2017, 02:57 AM
Girlsway im also feeling nervous this cycle, it didnt go how i imagined this month, opk was playing with me:(

Yep same here! I think my darkish opk the night before my blazin pos was my positive opk :( ah well! Onto January!

hannahptrussell
December 21st, 2017, 02:59 AM
Welcome Star!!!!

Welcome back plasticserenity!!! Sounds like a great vacation!!

Mtolbert YAY that's great news that your doctor is being way more proactive now!!! And testing time is coming WOO HOO!!!! I can't wait! Are you going to wait until Christmas day to test?

Hannah that's AWESOME!! So happy for your friend!!!!!

I am really struggling now to get back on LE again after this m/c.... I was over the fat limit today and I'm having a harder time not snacking. I was so excited w/ this last BFP thinking I was DONE. And exercise is really a struggle right now too - I took two complete weeks off after BFP and I'm now trying to ease back in but it's hard. I have a nasty cold and my bleeding is just now about done so I'm trying to be easy on myself on that one but I've yet to get a full 60 minutes in still. And with the holidays the next two weeks are going to be a challenge. Sigh - oh well I guess.

Oh ABC, I totally feeling you on this. I feel like the ONLY things I did right after my MCs were one attempt and cycle right after a MC. If anything to say a swayed girl! I just couldn’t do it. The diet was the hardest part!!



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Noemi2017
December 21st, 2017, 03:01 AM
Hello girlswayHG are u also temping?

Noemi2017
December 21st, 2017, 03:05 AM
It looks like u had ovulation like me on 18 december... it is possible u catched the egg with your attempt, dont give up:bighug:

Noemi2017
December 21st, 2017, 03:07 AM
Pbn3 here is my chart...ovulation was on 18december and attempt in the night. Is it possible ovulation happend during night? I really hope so.38485

Noemi2017
December 21st, 2017, 03:11 AM
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5eaa0f

ABC.2606
December 21st, 2017, 03:20 AM
Oh ABC, I totally feeling you on this. I feel like the ONLY things I did right after my MCs were one attempt and cycle right after a MC. If anything to say a swayed girl! I just couldn’t do it. The diet was the hardest part!!



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Hannah - Yup it's not easy :( I've had a bigger appetite the last week or so and I'm wondering if it's b/c of the m/c. I also think the fact that I had not been strict on it during that 1-2 weeks after BFP (when I was still pregnant) has thrown off my willpower now. And the dang holidays of course :) :) Hoping I can at least get back on track completely by Jan 1 so that I have a few weeks before our next attempt.

Girlswaylondon
December 21st, 2017, 03:32 AM
ABC I’m struggling with Christmas too! So much chocolate around!!

Pbn3
December 21st, 2017, 04:12 AM
Noemi and girlswaylondon remember that ff is a computer program and works on algorithms. It will often allocate crosshairs in the wrong spot and go on to move them as more data (temps) is received.

Noemi I believe you to be no more than 2dpo based on you temps.

Girlswaylondon you are 1dpo I am 1000% positive you are not 3dpo.

I believe you both have a 1-o attempt and should be very excited timing wise.

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Pbn3
December 21st, 2017, 04:14 AM
Also girlswaylondon drop vaginal temping as it will just cause stress seeing the difference in oral to vaginal temping. Continue orally for this cycle. If there is a next cylcle, switch to vaginal then [emoji4]

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Girlswaylondon
December 21st, 2017, 04:18 AM
Hoping you’re right pbn!! Will do vaginally next month :) now begins the 2ww! Can you believe it’s almost Christmas?!?

Pbn3
December 21st, 2017, 04:19 AM
GirlswayHGmama you're only 12dpo so it may be a few days until you see a pos opk. Keep testing at least once a day. If you happen to miss the 1pm one then just do an evening one instead like you have [emoji108] You're still in with a shot this cycle! Maybe at pos opk dont tell dh about it? Just act like its a normal day and initiate things that night? Take matters into your own hands so to speak [emoji6]


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Pbn3
December 21st, 2017, 04:20 AM
Hoping you’re right pbn!! Will do vaginally next month :) now begins the 2ww! Can you believe it’s almost Christmas?!?I know!!! I've been on another crazy cleaning blitz (this time outside) most the day and now that I'm slowing down I'm siezing up [emoji23][emoji23]

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Girlswaylondon
December 21st, 2017, 04:50 AM
Is it very hot where you are pbn? I have family in port Douglas :D

Noemi2017
December 21st, 2017, 04:56 AM
Pbn3 i think u r right:flowerz:i tried to write higher temperature for tomorrows data and it changed my ovulation on 19 december:fingers:

Filzma
December 21st, 2017, 05:18 AM
Noemi I know, it’s moving too slow. With all the festivities though, I’m sure we’ll be distracted enough. I’m stressing out because my ILs are coming over tomorrow and I’m no where near ready. Hopefully that keeps me occupied.

Pbn3
December 21st, 2017, 05:38 AM
Girlswaylondon yes! It's terribly hot at the moment! Plus I'm sure my body is ten degrees warmer already just from being pregnant. Laying in bed debating whether to get up and eat something (I really need to) but I am sooooo sore and stiff [emoji24][emoji24] achieved so much today so its kinda worth it but every movement hurts my back and legs wahhh!!!!...



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Filzma
December 21st, 2017, 05:55 AM
Aww pbn3, wish you had someone around to facilitate your food needs. You might benefit from a massage at this stage.Had one just before DD was due and felt short changed. Wish I’d known sooner!

Noemi2017
December 21st, 2017, 05:56 AM
Flizma i can imagine there is so much to do and prepare, at least time will go faster in this 2tww:)

Filzma
December 21st, 2017, 05:58 AM
I hope so. I feel like it been dragging lately [emoji37]

Noemi2017
December 21st, 2017, 05:58 AM
Pbn3 soon u will have your baby with u but i feel with u...it is exhausting:hug2:

Pbn3
December 21st, 2017, 06:10 AM
Thank you ladies! Hubby is making me something to eat so I can stay laying down in the air con moaning and groaning every time I move [emoji23][emoji23] Omg a massage sounds like absolute heaven!!! I may even look into it for week after next [emoji3]

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Filzma
December 21st, 2017, 06:19 AM
Make sure you call before to find out if they have the pregnancy massage beds with a hole for your belly. Its pointless if you have to lie on your back. It’s worth it!! Hang in there [emoji177]

Eighme
December 21st, 2017, 08:56 AM
Well, I took a pregnancy test this morning and it was negative. My period is “predicted” at six or less days away. Obviously there is no concrete proof I’m not pregnant until I don’t get a period. Would you say my chances are slim if I’m testing negative six days out?


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Girlswaylondon
December 21st, 2017, 09:18 AM
Eighme that’s still very early in my opinion! I think you still have a chance!

Eighme
December 21st, 2017, 09:22 AM
Eighme that’s still very early in my opinion! I think you still have a chance!

Thank you! I thought it probably was. I just decided to test anyway 🤷🏻*♀️


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HGmama
December 21st, 2017, 09:31 AM
It looks like u had ovulation like me on 18 december... it is possible u catched the egg with your attempt, dont give up:bighug:Yes I'm also temping. But if I look at my past two months, my temp doesn't spike much. And spikes a little late.

Honestly I'd rather go for girl for the first few months and not risk boy but then switch over to go for baby after 4 months or so.

So maybe this is a sign to just wait for January.

I talked to hubs after he asked when we need to dtd. I kindly explained the situation. He feels bummed that he messed it up on Monday and Tuesday. So he wants to be given a heads up on the e4d days so he can work it in his schedule.

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HGmama
December 21st, 2017, 09:37 AM
Make sure you call before to find out if they have the pregnancy massage beds with a hole for your belly. Its pointless if you have to lie on your back. It’s worth it!! Hang in there [emoji177]I had massage every few weeks last time when pregnant. Totally worth it. I wish we had the cut out belly ones but we didn't do they had me lay on my side. Still great!

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Filzma
December 21st, 2017, 10:54 AM
GirlswayHGmama oh my days! Those massage beds are worth their weight in gold especially in 3rd trim.I would come back feeling like a human again. Definitely search some that have the belly cut out in future. Felt soooo good to finally lie on my ‘tummy’.

Eighme lol that’s too early. I think we need to tie your hands. You seem susceptible to the poas virus. [emoji13]

Oh and I think the only thing I wasn’t prepared for is just how much pressure scheduled bding puts on DHs. There was moments I could tell he felt strained and irritable. Mentally it puts them off and puts so much pressure as they know they have to ‘deliver’. Only thing we get to worry about is watery/EWCM and even that can be bought. It’s hard. So take heart GirlswayHGmama, it’ll happen and hopefully the other ladies can chime in on how not to make it so scheduled.

Eighme
December 21st, 2017, 11:06 AM
GirlswayHGmama oh my days! Those massage beds are worth their weight in gold especially in 3rd trim.I would come back feeling like a human again. Definitely search some that have the belly cut out in future. Felt soooo good to finally lie on my ‘tummy’.

Eighme lol that’s too early. I think we need to tie your hands. You seem susceptible to the poas virus. [emoji13]

Oh and I think the only thing I wasn’t prepared for is just how much pressure scheduled bding puts on DHs. There was moments I could tell he felt strained and irritable. Mentally it puts them off and puts so much pressure as they know they have to ‘deliver’. Only thing we get to worry about is watery/EWCM and even that can be bought. It’s hard. So take heart GirlswayHGmama, it’ll happen and hopefully the other ladies can chime in on how not to make it so scheduled.

PROBABLY! Just go ahead because I’m so anxious! 🤣


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Filzma
December 21st, 2017, 12:18 PM
Lol tell me about it. We literally need to stop! I really see the point of making a thread just for the 2ww. I do! This is so hard.

Eighme
December 21st, 2017, 01:07 PM
Lol tell me about it. We literally need to stop! I really see the point of making a thread just for the 2ww. I do! This is so hard.

YES! I agree!


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Star4012
December 21st, 2017, 03:48 PM
YES! I agree!


Sent from my iPhone using TapatalkHey girl, how many DPO are you? I'm 7dpo and this 2ww is killing me! Haha I just want to know!! Lol

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Star4012
December 21st, 2017, 03:49 PM
And I have to admit I'm a POAS addict too [emoji57]

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Girlswaylondon
December 21st, 2017, 03:56 PM
:poas: here too!

Georgia_Peach
December 21st, 2017, 05:49 PM
You were right pbn!
My tests are now getting lighter on cheapies and still negitive on the digital. I didn't miss my serge did I?
I don't feel like I ovulated and I'm still only cd12... We haven't bd yet though [emoji848]

Eighme
December 21st, 2017, 05:53 PM
Hey girl, how many DPO are you? I'm 7dpo and this 2ww is killing me! Haha I just want to know!! Lol

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8 day’s over here!!


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Star4012
December 21st, 2017, 06:12 PM
8 day’s over here!!


Sent from my iPhone using TapatalkSo we are really close in our cycles!! Yay! I have tested each day since 3dpo bahaha I mean I know it's early but it helps me pass time lol. Are you swaying? Im swaying girl :) fingers crossed that the clomid worked and swayed. Here's my chart:https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171221/7b387111101b0aa40c91f8f672855ee1.jpg

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Eighme
December 21st, 2017, 06:32 PM
So we are really close in our cycles!! Yay! I have tested each day since 3dpo bahaha I mean I know it's early but it helps me pass time lol. Are you swaying? Im swaying girl :) fingers crossed that the clomid worked and swayed. Here's my chart:https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171221/7b387111101b0aa40c91f8f672855ee1.jpg

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Yay! Love having people so close! Yes! I am swaying girl over here. Hoping drastically changing my eating habits has swayed!


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ABC.2606
December 21st, 2017, 09:09 PM
Yuuuumm perfect dinner tonight: marinated salmon, roasted baby carrots, 1/2 baked potato and some organic malbec!! 3rd meal of the day (small 2nd meal). Totally within my fat, protein, and calorie limits, and I'm going to do my YouTube workout video tonight. Yay for a better day of swaying!!!!!!

Man this board is moving fast lately!! I can't keep up!! I'm hoping all of you ladies get your BFPs this cycle!! Sadly that would mean I may be the only one left on the January ttc board but oh well. It would be worth it to see all of you with your rainbow babies!!!!

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Pbn3
December 21st, 2017, 11:37 PM
You were right pbn!
My tests are now getting lighter on cheapies and still negitive on the digital. I didn't miss my serge did I?
I don't feel like I ovulated and I'm still only cd12... We haven't bd yet though [emoji848]Robin I wouldn't think you've missed your surge. You may o later than usual being an unmedicated cycle. Just keep testing and your line should start coming back in again hopefully in a day or two [emoji4]

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Pbn3
December 21st, 2017, 11:42 PM
Star that's a nice sharp dip at prime time for implantation! (Anywhere from 6-10dpo usually) however it could also just be you secondary estrogen surge which happens around now too. I prefer to think its the former though [emoji6] can you post a pic of your chart the next two/three days please?

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Verena
December 22nd, 2017, 05:43 AM
My hubby is driving me nuts!!! Actually he doesn't want to try for a third child yet... But I do. Yesterday we bd'ed completely unprotected. It was CD7 and normally I o on CD13. Earliest is CD11 so I think there are not really any chances of getting pregnant from this. Especially since I'm still spotting a little bit from AF. What do you think about the chances? [emoji51]

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Verena
December 22nd, 2017, 05:46 AM
Yuuuumm perfect dinner tonight: marinated salmon, roasted baby carrots, 1/2 baked potato and some organic malbec!! 3rd meal of the day (small 2nd meal). Totally within my fat, protein, and calorie limits, and I'm going to do my YouTube workout video tonight. Yay for a better day of swaying!!!!!!

Man this board is moving fast lately!! I can't keep up!! I'm hoping all of you ladies get your BFPs this cycle!! Sadly that would mean I may be the only one left on the January ttc board but oh well. It would be worth it to see all of you with your rainbow babies!!!!

Sent from my SM-G900T using TapatalkOh ABC, I'm getting hungry!!! Sounds really delicious!

Why do you actually want to wait until next month?

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Pbn3
December 22nd, 2017, 06:17 AM
Verena I'd say zero chance unfortunately [emoji17] I'd just try a bit closer to you usual o time (maybe cd11) and try your luck at initiating an unprotected bd? If he goes along with it then he's aware there's a chance.....


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Pbn3
December 22nd, 2017, 06:31 AM
Girlswaylondon one or two more temps and ff will shift your crosshairs.

Noemi glad to see yours has [emoji4]

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Verena
December 22nd, 2017, 06:32 AM
Verena I'd say zero chance unfortunately [emoji17] I'd just try a bit closer to you usual o time (maybe cd11) and try your luck at initiating an unprotected bd? If he goes along with it then he's aware there's a chance.....


Sent from my SM-G900I using TapatalkI thought so... [emoji24] I actually regret yesterday's bd. I think he would maybe bd unprotected again today or tomorrow but not at peak fertility. But today or tomorrow would be so blue friendly that I don't want to go for it. Both my boys were two attempts in fertile window... Sigh...

So I'm going to be a pee on an opk addict the next days hoping for really early ovulation [emoji6]

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Pbn3
December 22nd, 2017, 06:47 AM
So if you bded unprotected tomorrow that would be cd9 right? If the earliest you've oed is cd11 (and let's say you did again) there'd only be THE smallest chance of any swimmers left over from cd7's attempt and I would say none if you oed cd12. If he'd go along with dtd cd9 then I would definately go for it. That at least gives you the possibility of a 2-o or a 3-o attempt if you o by cd12. If you o cd12 then it would definately only count as one attempt IMO. You may want to get Atomics input to be sure though. Just raise a new thread under ttc girl forum :)

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Girlswaylondon
December 22nd, 2017, 07:09 AM
Girlswaylondon one or two more temps and ff will shift your crosshairs.

Noemi glad to see yours has [emoji4]

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Oh brilliabt, had no idea it did that I’m still figuring it all out :D thanks for letting me know!!

Verena
December 22nd, 2017, 08:09 AM
So if you bded unprotected tomorrow that would be cd9 right? If the earliest you've oed is cd11 (and let's say you did again) there'd only be THE smallest chance of any swimmers left over from cd7's attempt and I would say none if you oed cd12. If he'd go along with dtd cd9 then I would definately go for it. That at least gives you the possibility of a 2-o or a 3-o attempt if you o by cd12. If you o cd12 then it would definately only count as one attempt IMO. You may want to get Atomics input to be sure though. Just raise a new thread under ttc girl forum :)

Sent from my SM-G900I using TapatalkExactly, tomorrow will be cd9... If I really oed on cd 11, then that would be an O-4 attempt and if we bd again tomorrow an additional O-2. And the bd last night was at midnight, so almost on cd8 instead of cd7... I think I'm too scared to add another attempt [emoji30] at the moment I think I will make sure there are two full days between attempts, even though that could mean hubby doesn't want to bd unprotected...

But hubby keeps surprising me with "risky" (in terms of getting pregnant) bd wishes. So I just hope he is making up his mind and will be fully on board soon [emoji110]

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HGmama
December 22nd, 2017, 09:56 AM
Well I've convinced myself that my O day has not come. Opk are near positive but haven't changed over the last few days so no true blazing positive. My temps arent spiking. Looks like we are going to just restart ed4 tonight (it's almost 8am here in the middle of america) and see what happens.

If I would like to increase some old school sway tactics, what would you use? Which ones were you surprised debunked.

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mwilson
December 22nd, 2017, 10:32 AM
Yuuuumm perfect dinner tonight: marinated salmon, roasted baby carrots, 1/2 baked potato and some organic malbec!! 3rd meal of the day (small 2nd meal). Totally within my fat, protein, and calorie limits, and I'm going to do my YouTube workout video tonight. Yay for a better day of swaying!!!!!!

Man this board is moving fast lately!! I can't keep up!! I'm hoping all of you ladies get your BFPs this cycle!! Sadly that would mean I may be the only one left on the January ttc board but oh well. It would be worth it to see all of you with your rainbow babies!!!!

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I'm with you girl! I'll be on the January one too. Besides skipping breakfast and of course I live on coffee haha, I've kinda blown any diet and have totally slacked on my work outs...maybe once a week. So many cookies!! Damn you holidays haha. It is what it is. I didn't sway last time and I had a girl. With my son, looking back I seemed to sway blue....lots of bd and we used preseed, no coffee at that point ha.

HGmama
December 22nd, 2017, 11:30 AM
I did abruptly stop shakeology and vitamins. Not a huge coffee drinker but definitely started a daily dose last month. What do you put in your coffee? Okay to be iced? What's the theory on coffee, atomic?

Pondering rePhresh for tonight's attempt? Am I crazy?

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Eighme
December 22nd, 2017, 12:14 PM
I honestly just drink mine black. I know that doesn't work for a lot of people. It has zero calories and it just seems easier. But, if I do add something, I only add the tiniest bit of almond milk and stay away for sugar and the creamers (the calories tend to add up quickly for me). I think iced or hot doesn't really matter one way or the other. Coffee is supposed to sway pink, from what I've gathered.

Pbn3
December 22nd, 2017, 04:19 PM
GirlswayHGmama I second you haven't oed going by temps. Hopefully you'll see a pos opk in the next few days but you'll be doing an e4d pattern instead did you mean? I would probably opt for one attempt at pos opk instead this cycle if you're wanting to do your best mini sway in the shortest circumstances.

Coffee is fine however you have it. Most just do the dash of milk to keep calories below a 'snack' amount (anything above 18 calories from memory) I loved my cafe flat whites far too much so I would make my coffee a meal usually around mid morning, always a skinny though to limit calories but the downside was they were high in protein [emoji23]. Rephesh can really drop conception odds but if you are wanting to use it then maybe do so a few hours prior to bding? Alternatively you could try a j&d after 5 minutes instead? Other old sway unproven tactics you could try is hot shower/bath for both you and dh prior to bding, antihistamine to dry up cm (although I'm pretty sure I've read awhile ago Atomic has stopped using this as it hasn't proved to make much if any difference).

What I would do if I was you is create your own thread under the ttc a girl forum asking for last minute, old school tactics you can try? Atomic will see it and respond over the next day or two. She doesn't monitor these support threads, something may catch her eye on a rare occasion but it's just far too much for her to keep up with so anytime you want her to answer you directly always create a new thread under the related forum [emoji4]

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Pbn3
December 22nd, 2017, 04:20 PM
Eighme are you 4 or 5dpo??!! So excited for all the testing coming up [emoji3]

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HGmama
December 22nd, 2017, 05:34 PM
GirlswayHGmama I second you haven't oed going by temps. Hopefully you'll see a pos opk in the next few days but you'll be doing an e4d pattern instead did you mean? I would probably opt for one attempt at pos opk instead this cycle if you're wanting to do your best mini sway in the shortest circumstances.

Coffee is fine however you have it. Most just do the dash of milk to keep calories below a 'snack' amount (anything above 18 calories from memory) I loved my cafe flat whites far too much so I would make my coffee a meal usually around mid morning, always a skinny though to limit calories but the downside was they were high in protein [emoji23]. Rephesh can really drop conception odds but if you are wanting to use it then maybe do so a few hours prior to bding? Alternatively you could try a j&d after 5 minutes instead? Other old sway unproven tactics you could try is hot shower/bath for both you and dh prior to bding, antihistamine to dry up cm (although I'm pretty sure I've read awhile ago Atomic has stopped using this as it hasn't proved to make much if any difference).

What I would do if I was you is create your own thread under the ttc a girl forum asking for last minute, old school tactics you can try? Atomic will see it and respond over the next day or two. She doesn't monitor these support threads, something may catch her eye on a rare occasion but it's just far too much for her to keep up with so anytime you want her to answer you directly always create a new thread under the related forum [emoji4]

Sent from my SM-G900I using TapatalkThanks so much Pbn3!!! Yes I was thinking of getting back on e4d since it's been a week since a release and I have no idea when O may happen. Today is cd14. Really curious what my body is doing this first cycle off of birth control. I've been searching for the CM- been barely having any at all. Maybe the stress of the holidays, changing my diet a tiny bit, and the lack of hormonal birth control has me all messed up. I'd kill for regular cycles right now.

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Pbn3
December 22nd, 2017, 06:15 PM
They'll become regular but yep I'd expect the unexpected this first cycle [emoji23] Conceiving in the first few cycles after stopping BC is another pink sway tactic in itself so you also have that on your side! If you want to bd to have dh releasing every few days I'd use protection and then drop it for one attempt at pos opk. There's a theory (scientifically proven apparently) that people who bd regularly (I'm guessing regularly means 2-3 days/wk) on average conceive far more quickly than those that bd irregularly or once a week/fortnight kinda thing (again I dont know the exact details, thats just my interpretation of less). They believe it has to do with the female body becoming 'used' to having sperm in the body and therefore our bodies dont seek out and destroy the sperm 'invaders' as much as those who dtd less. So by using protection for your attempts that dont count you're keeping your body more hostile. This would just be for the first few cycles though (so any pink swayers who have already been ttc this isn't directed at you). By then you'd move onto e4d of unprotected attempts so you are still having just one attempt but your body may become more receptive to conceiving. Up to you which way you go, just thought I'd throw that out there [emoji4]

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Girlswaylondon
December 23rd, 2017, 02:49 AM
You were absolutely right pbn!! :) ff changed my o day!

ABC.2606
December 23rd, 2017, 02:52 AM
Oh ABC, I'm getting hungry!!! Sounds really delicious!

Why do you actually want to wait until next month?

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ABC.2606
December 23rd, 2017, 02:54 AM
I'm with you girl! I'll be on the January one too. Besides skipping breakfast and of course I live on coffee haha, I've kinda blown any diet and have totally slacked on my work outs...maybe once a week. So many cookies!! Damn you holidays haha. It is what it is. I didn't sway last time and I had a girl. With my son, looking back I seemed to sway blue....lots of bd and we used preseed, no coffee at that point ha.Ugh I know - big family dinners, cookies everywhere, it's killing me! Trying to do the best I can now and then get really strict again starting January 1.

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Noemi2017
December 23rd, 2017, 02:54 AM
Girlsway so when was your ovulation? 20? Mine 19 december38490

Girlswaylondon
December 23rd, 2017, 03:22 AM
Girlsway so when was your ovulation? 20? Mine 19 december38490

Day 20! :)

Girlswaylondon
December 23rd, 2017, 04:01 AM
Day 20! :)


Whoops I meant 19! But 20th december :)

Noemi2017
December 23rd, 2017, 04:15 AM
Ok:wink:When will u do your first test? Me 29:)

Pbn3
December 23rd, 2017, 05:23 AM
That's great girlswaylondon!

I'll check in tomorrow morning as my mum and stepfather arrived today!

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Girlswaylondon
December 23rd, 2017, 06:04 AM
I’ve learnt not to test till the day af is due from now on, it drives me crazy testing too early lol!

Eighme
December 23rd, 2017, 09:40 AM
I’ve learnt not to test till the day af is due from now on, it drives me crazy testing too early lol!

Definitely! I have to wait till the day of or after because otherwise I’ll test all day around the clock


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Star4012
December 23rd, 2017, 09:51 AM
Star that's a nice sharp dip at prime time for implantation! (Anywhere from 6-10dpo usually) however it could also just be you secondary estrogen surge which happens around now too. I prefer to think its the former though [emoji6] can you post a pic of your chart the next two/three days please?

Sent from my SM-G900I using TapatalkHey girl! Here is my after. I'm hoping it was implantation lol but I didn't get any bleeding or spotting so idk. I don't remember seeing spotting or bleeding when I was pregnant with my ds's. https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171223/73b98ac7e0a8581d45688466ba38d1f0.jpg

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mwilson
December 23rd, 2017, 11:22 AM
Ugh I know - big family dinners, cookies everywhere, it's killing me! Trying to do the best I can now and then get really strict again starting January 1.

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we will be starting e3d attempts tonight or tomorrow so my diet is what it is haha, cookies and all :giggle:.

Georgia_Peach
December 23rd, 2017, 11:58 AM
Positive cheapie today cd14 but my digital still says blank circle. Go figure.
We had an attempt last night but I might have another tonight and tomorrow night. Not sure but it's our Last shot before I do ivf with PGS Jan 8th! Eelkk
Then I think.. stick to one attempt bc your so close to getting your girl with pgs (hopefully) you don't want to ruin it by adding multiple attempts.
On the other hand I think.. but I'll save $20k if it's a girl that we made naturally. Aaahhg the confusion!https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171223/abe25c9ba1208f3eb0042339f5bdb363.jpg

Pbn3
December 23rd, 2017, 03:13 PM
Star implantation bleeding/spotting is actually quite rare. I know it seems alot of people do get it but way, way more dont than do [emoji4] What dpo aee you testing?

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Pbn3
December 23rd, 2017, 03:28 PM
Robin that looks only 'just' positive so your digi may be positive approx 6 hours after this test was done. Can you do a digi tonight for confirmation? Otherwise I would say by morning it definately should be. As for whether to add attempts or not, gosh what a decision [emoji46] how do you even begin to decide when like you said you're so close to getting your girl.... but to save $20k...... In my mind I'm thinking, well this is you giving it your last natural shot at your girl, you'd still have clomid in your system and you now have one attempt in the bag. Sometimes not trying too hard seems to work better than trying our best (go figure [emoji12]) I would definately follow up with another attempt 72 hours after the last though to cover yourself in case you get a long slow surge and don't o for another 2-3 days. Other than that I'd probably leave things as is, because at least if you do conceive this cycle and with an opposite you'll know you did your best to keep things 'pink'.

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Georgia_Peach
December 23rd, 2017, 03:36 PM
Robin that looks only 'just' positive so your digi may be positive approx 6 hours after this test was done. Can you do a digi tonight for confirmation? Otherwise I would say by morning it definately should be. As for whether to add attempts or not, gosh what a decision [emoji46] how do you even begin to decide when like you said you're so close to getting your girl.... but to save $20k...... In my mind I'm thinking, well this is you giving it your last natural shot at your girl, you'd still have clomid in your system and you now have one attempt in the bag. Sometimes not trying too hard seems to work better than trying our best (go figure [emoji12]) I would definately follow up with another attempt 72 hours after the last though to cover yourself in case you get a long slow surge and don't o for another 2-3 days. Other than that I'd probably leave things as is, because at least if you do conceive this cycle and with an opposite you'll know you did your best to keep things 'pink'.

Sent from my SM-G900I using TapatalkYes I'll try and test tonight but I'll be drinking bc we have a party.
Youre right about the attempt... hubby won't be super thrilled though! [emoji23]

Pbn3
December 23rd, 2017, 03:42 PM
Enjoy your night Robin!!! Maybe test before you leave (will it have been 3/4 hours'ish by then?) otherwise just hold off until AM. Put it out of mind and party instead!! [emoji322][emoji322] It's not going to change the outcome after all and I say you more than deserve to let loose (plus it may also help come conception time [emoji3])

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Pbn3
December 23rd, 2017, 03:43 PM
Oh and if hubby (and yourself) are keen to bd (especially after a party and drinkies [emoji6]) can you not use protection?

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HGmama
December 23rd, 2017, 05:47 PM
Still questioning .... did I O? Did i get miss the blazing surge when my test fell apart at work on the cd 11 afternoon? We may never know?!?! Why isn't this such a clear process? I feel like getting this girl might be a long process. I'm also crampy left side only. My temps are so much different than last months. I wish I would have started temping a long time ago. So many regrets. https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171223/c7a1a0f484534974555af890598b7bd7.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171223/63f84e4c6c1e75279f449ac43a109ab7.jpg

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Pbn3
December 23rd, 2017, 06:11 PM
GirlswayHGmama I would 150% dont think you've oed going by your chart. It also looks like your lh surge may be coming back in. In a day or two I think you'll see your pos. Hang in there!!!! Your time is just arund the corner [emoji173]

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Verena
December 24th, 2017, 05:00 AM
We're waiting bc I miscarried last weekend and I don't feel ready to try again next week (when I'm expecting I'll ovulate again). Plus I want to be back solid on the diet for at least a few weeks, plus my obgyn is going to put me back on Clomid next cycle so I want to wait for that. But yea waiting sucks :(

Sent from my SM-G900T using TapatalkI can imagine that it's really a hard decision to wait a cycle. I guess I would always think "what if this was THE month...". But on the other hand if you are not satisfied with your diet atm and you will get clomid next month, you would always wonder if it would have been better to wait if you had an attempt this month and got pregnant with a boy... Really difficult... I guess it's just a matter of how much you want a girl compared to how much you want to get pregnant...

Maybe you could try something really crazy with very low odds of coneption like hole in a condom method or something like that... But if you're not ready after last month then you are not ready of course and I wish you all the best for the next cycle! :-)

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Georgia_Peach
December 24th, 2017, 10:14 AM
Again you were right pbn.
Today was a very obvious positive and the digital had smile face. So today is cd15 and it looks like today or tomorow is ovulation day!
We will prob have attempt tonight
We did not last night

Girlswaylondon
December 24th, 2017, 10:42 AM
Merry Christmas Eve all!

I had a party last night and a few drinks! I’ve learned not to restrict myself until I get a postitive! Drink till it’s pink right?!

Also does anyone notice sore boobs every cycle 1-2 days after O? I’ve noticed since tracking I get it without fail until Af! I’ve learned not to think it’s a pregnancy symptom!

Eighme
December 24th, 2017, 11:11 AM
Merry Christmas Eve all!

I had a party last night and a few drinks! I’ve learned not to restrict myself until I get a postitive! Drink till it’s pink right?!

Also does anyone notice sore boobs every cycle 1-2 days after O? I’ve noticed since tracking I get it without fail until Af! I’ve learned not to think it’s a pregnancy symptom!

Merry Christmas Eve! I’ve still been drinking because I don’t want to trick myself into thinking I’m pregnant and I may not be.

Yes! I had that too. Extreme boob pain as I’m telling myself it’s just AF.


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Pbn3
December 24th, 2017, 01:33 PM
Good luck Robin!

Merry Christmas everyone else!

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Pbn3
December 24th, 2017, 01:34 PM
@mtolbert I hope you see this [emoji120][emoji120] please delete some pm's!!!! Your inbox is full and I cant respond!!!!!

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Girlswaylondon
December 24th, 2017, 02:49 PM
af is due not far off from my birthday in January so would be a lovely present if it was our month!

Noemi2017
December 24th, 2017, 04:04 PM
Merry Christmas to all sweet girls here. May our dreams come true:HH::LotsofLove:

Star4012
December 24th, 2017, 04:38 PM
Hello ladies! How is everyone feeling? I'm keeping myself busy (or at least trying to)

My temp really plunged today and it kinda caught me off guard. I'm 10DPO now... hoping it's not AF showing just yet.

I also attached my FMU FRER test from this morning. Hmmm... hoping my temps spike tomorrow! https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171224/d51f4b287e0ca2e1a873d896d51e44cc.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171224/e765c7845d7dc0562abf21b4a3b8fe87.jpg

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Georgia_Peach
December 24th, 2017, 05:00 PM
Ok.. I just had a gush of bloody cm.
Does ovulation bleed actually happen. Omg this cycle is so weird for me!

Pbn3
December 24th, 2017, 05:08 PM
Wow star now that is what I would call an implantation dip [emoji50] it seems a bit dramatic for an af coming drop and falling below coverline like that can be really promising.... however I'm not sure whether this is your norm or not as haven't seen previous cycle [emoji848] if it is implantation then you should see a faint line maybe tomorrow morning but surely by the next (on an frer)


Robin wow I've heard of ovulation bleeding but never experienced it either! What a crazy cycle!!!


Mtolbert delete some pm's!!!!!

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mtolbert1
December 24th, 2017, 05:22 PM
I just did pbn! I got an email they were full!

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Dreaming of a [emoji304]baby [emoji178] to add to our wild bunch, but would be just as in love with a baby [emoji170].

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HGmama
December 24th, 2017, 11:40 PM
Looking at my November cycle and noticed I don't have an ovulation red line and baseline temp line. What do I need to do to get that?https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171225/38940554cf4acdbfa8575740d8c6e400.jpg

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Pbn3
December 25th, 2017, 12:25 AM
GirlswayHGmama that's a strange cycle you had there! I'd remove your opks entries and see if it allocates o based on temps (will be cd8 or 9 I'd say) wont matter if its right or not as this cycle is looking far more normal :)

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Eighme
December 25th, 2017, 11:24 AM
Merry Christmas to all you lovely ladies!
Tested this morning and still got a negative. AF is supposed to start Wednesday. So we will see! I hope all you ladies get a BFP for Christmas!


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HGmama
December 25th, 2017, 12:10 PM
GirlswayHGmama that's a strange cycle you had there! I'd remove your opks entries and see if it allocates o based on temps (will be cd8 or 9 I'd say) wont matter if its right or not as this cycle is looking far more normal :)

Sent from my SM-G900I using TapatalkI think that worked! I wish I would've started temping sooner. With my last TTC process, I worked night shift so didn't have consistency to test.

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Babybeaublue
December 25th, 2017, 12:12 PM
Merry Christmas everyone!! :running:

mwilson
December 25th, 2017, 01:07 PM
Ah so I’m ov’ing early. Tested today and blaring positive opk (cd 10). We bd on cd 8. I had planned to bd tomorrow on 11 but now that I got a positive should I go again tonight or still stick with tomorrow?? Swaying girl but also just want a positive after 6 months of trying. Help!!

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Verena
December 25th, 2017, 01:51 PM
Ah so I’m ov’ing early. Tested today and blaring positive opk (cd 10). We bd on cd 8. I had planned to bd tomorrow on 11 but now that I got a positive should I go again tonight or still stick with tomorrow?? Swaying girl but also just want a positive after 6 months of trying. Help!!

38493Hi mwilson, maybe bd tomorrow morning as a compromise? Good luck whatever you decide to do!

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sunstars
December 25th, 2017, 02:14 PM
Merry Christmas, ladies!
May we all hold our healthy babies of desired genders in the coming year! Good luck!

mwilson
December 25th, 2017, 02:58 PM
Hi mwilson, maybe bd tomorrow morning as a compromise? Good luck whatever you decide to do!

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Yeah mornings don’t really work with a 3 and 7 year old at home haha.

Star4012
December 25th, 2017, 02:59 PM
Merry Christmas everyone!! I hope you all are enjoying the holiday spending time with your family <3

On another note, my temp didn't spike as much as I thought it would, and I tested this morning with wondfos and bfn.
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Pbn3
December 25th, 2017, 03:35 PM
Eighme what dpo are you?

Merry Christmas to you too BBB! How are you?!

Star **if** that was an implantation dip then hcg will have only just started to be produced. Give it another couple mornings and hopefully something starts to show! When is af actually due? What is the longest your lp has been? Or is this first cycle temping?

Mwilson I'd stick to bding tomorrow for now. With such a blaring pos you could potentially only be hours away from oing (giving you a 2-o attempt). Are ypu doing e3d (bding every 72 hours) this cycle? Of course though if you're just wanting a bfp at this point then definately dtd tonight. If you cant decide you could flip a coin, let the universe decide (done this plenty of times myself for all kinds of situations [emoji23]) I like to think the 'universe' will make the right decision for us [emoji173]

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Pbn3
December 25th, 2017, 03:38 PM
Merry Christmas, ladies!
May we all hold our healthy babies of desired genders in the coming year! Good luck!Merry Christmas Sunstars! Can you update where you're at again?

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Eighme
December 25th, 2017, 04:23 PM
Eighme what dpo are you?

Merry Christmas to you too BBB! How are you?!

Star **if** that was an implantation dip then hcg will have only just started to be produced. Give it another couple mornings and hopefully something starts to show! When is af actually due? What is the longest your lp has been? Or is this first cycle temping?

Mwilson I'd stick to bding tomorrow for now. With such a blaring pos you could potentially only be hours away from oing (giving you a 2-o attempt). Are ypu doing e3d (bding every 72 hours) this cycle? Of course though if you're just wanting a bfp at this point then definately dtd tonight. If you cant decide you could flip a coin, let the universe decide (done this plenty of times myself for all kinds of situations [emoji23]) I like to think the 'universe' will make the right decision for us [emoji173]

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Pbn, I am 10 DPO now!


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mwilson
December 25th, 2017, 08:16 PM
Eighme what dpo are you?

Merry Christmas to you too BBB! How are you?!

Star **if** that was an implantation dip then hcg will have only just started to be produced. Give it another couple mornings and hopefully something starts to show! When is af actually due? What is the longest your lp has been? Or is this first cycle temping?

Mwilson I'd stick to bding tomorrow for now. With such a blaring pos you could potentially only be hours away from oing (giving you a 2-o attempt). Are ypu doing e3d (bding every 72 hours) this cycle? Of course though if you're just wanting a bfp at this point then definately dtd tonight. If you cant decide you could flip a coin, let the universe decide (done this plenty of times myself for all kinds of situations [emoji23]) I like to think the 'universe' will make the right decision for us [emoji173]

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Ugh I can’t deicde. And yes doing every 3 bc one attempt wasn’t sticking. But I thought I’d have another day or two before positive so now I’m thrown. I’ve flipped a few times and can’t commit haha.

Star4012
December 25th, 2017, 09:18 PM
Eighme what dpo are you?

Merry Christmas to you too BBB! How are you?!

Star **if** that was an implantation dip then hcg will have only just started to be produced. Give it another couple mornings and hopefully something starts to show! When is af actually due? What is the longest your lp has been? Or is this first cycle temping?

Mwilson I'd stick to bding tomorrow for now. With such a blaring pos you could potentially only be hours away from oing (giving you a 2-o attempt). Are ypu doing e3d (bding every 72 hours) this cycle? Of course though if you're just wanting a bfp at this point then definately dtd tonight. If you cant decide you could flip a coin, let the universe decide (done this plenty of times myself for all kinds of situations [emoji23]) I like to think the 'universe' will make the right decision for us [emoji173]

Sent from my SM-G900I using TapatalkMy cycles range from 25 days to 30 days... lately I was ovulating early in my cycle... but since I began Clomid, it pushed it back some. This is my first round of Clomid and so I'm really not sure when AF will show... Fertility Friend predicts the 28th of Dec.

I've screen shot my charts from July to now for you to look at. I've been temping for a long time, but I love bouncing ideas off of other women who are going through similar experiences. https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171226/388b51c241458bd5b0ba8c6c1541499c.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171226/35d9a996e37307ec100866dd3ea8df40.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171226/b1e49302dcbf5bc9d492f9004c5e7ddd.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171226/fc125d905e542991b8beee20576d4045.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171226/38d8f2b7c44212ee373e135bce45e560.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171226/71391ceb540fa371e1b95036df057874.jpg

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Pbn3
December 25th, 2017, 09:49 PM
Thanks for that Star!

I actually think there's two cycles ff may have allocated your crosshairs two days early - Oct and Nov and that you may have oed closer to the 48 hour period after pos opk.... it also looks like a sharp dip between 9-11dpo is quite normal for you so in that case I think we could rule out seeing your dive in temp as an 'implantation dip'. It could still happen of course but I wouldn't rely on it as being a good sign of things to come. Clomid can increase your lp so I'd not be shocked to see your lp increase up to possibly 14 days. It may not affect it but better forewarned that assuming af is late [emoji4]

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Pbn3
December 25th, 2017, 09:56 PM
Star pretty much I'd have to say that only the July cycle and this cycle had any chance of conception looking at when you dtd in relation to when o occured [emoji848] I think you'll be far better off doing an e3d (every 72 hours) bd pattern until o is well confirmed by temps (example cd6, 9, 12, 15, 18) would that be something that could work with yours and dh's schedule?

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Pbn3
December 25th, 2017, 09:59 PM
tt

Ugh I can’t deicde. And yes doing every 3 bc one attempt wasn’t sticking. But I thought I’d have another day or two before positive so now I’m thrown. I’ve flipped a few times and can’t commit haha.You're only supposed to flip once!! [emoji23][emoji23] so what was the first flip result? For or against? Because I would do the opposite of whatever is was because subconsciously you obviously weren't happy with the first answer [emoji6]

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Pbn3
December 25th, 2017, 10:00 PM
Pbn, I am 10 DPO now!


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Star4012
December 25th, 2017, 10:03 PM
Star pretty much I'd have to say that only the July cycle and this cycle had any chance of conception looking at when you dtd in relation to when o occured [emoji848] I think you'll be far better off doing an e3d (every 72 hours) bd pattern until o is well confirmed by temps (example cd6, 9, 12, 15, 18) would that be something that could work with yours and dh's schedule?

Sent from my SM-G900I using TapatalkAtomic and I talked about my plan with Clomid... and we agree that it was no wonder why I didn't get pregnant before, bc timing was off.. I was trying to follow the shettles method to sway girl... Atomic said that shettles isn't working, and suggested that I BD E4D especially since Clomid will help sway girl. I'm not doing anything with my diet. If I'm not pregnant this cycle, I may BD E4D plus an attempt at positive OPK.

Hmmm....

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Eighme
December 25th, 2017, 10:13 PM
What hpts are you using?

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I’ve used first response... is it the five days test and the regular cheapie tests.


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mwilson
December 25th, 2017, 10:22 PM
You're only supposed to flip once!! [emoji23][emoji23] so what was the first flip result? For or against? Because I would do the opposite of whatever is was because subconsciously you obviously weren't happy with the first answer [emoji6]

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Haha well it said to wait but then I panic I’ll miss but going tonight I worry I’m too blue. Blah. Come on eggs, why you can’t you be in schedule?!?

Star4012
December 25th, 2017, 10:32 PM
Atomic and I talked about my plan with Clomid... and we agree that it was no wonder why I didn't get pregnant before, bc timing was off.. I was trying to follow the shettles method to sway girl... Atomic said that shettles isn't working, and suggested that I BD E4D especially since Clomid will help sway girl. I'm not doing anything with my diet. If I'm not pregnant this cycle, I may BD E4D plus an attempt at positive OPK.

Hmmm....

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Pbn3
December 25th, 2017, 10:52 PM
Ok sounds a good plan! So is your e4d what I call e3d? Eg. Cd6, 9, 12 etc or is it cd6, 10, 14 etc?

In regards to taking the clomid as far as I knew the earlier you start taking it the more chance you have of more than one egg releasing? Not sure how true that is though. I only ever took it cd3-7 as per my obs advice but mc the only cycle I conceived on it. The baby I'm pregnant with now was conceived the cycle followig a clomid cycle.

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Pbn3
December 25th, 2017, 10:55 PM
Haha well it said to wait but then I panic I’ll miss but going tonight I worry I’m too blue. Blah. Come on eggs, why you can’t you be in schedule?!?It's a really hard decision.... you know you may not o until day after next even with a blazing pos? Or as I mentioned before, you could o sometime in the next few hours. It can peetty much happen anytime between now and 48 hours time. Are you temping? If so, do you usually o day after pos opk?

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Pbn3
December 25th, 2017, 10:56 PM
I’ve used first response... is it the five days test and the regular cheapie tests.


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Mommy2apples
December 25th, 2017, 11:00 PM
Nvm, looked at it wrong!

6/2003 [emoji1349]2/2009 [emoji1407] 12/2012 [emoji1349]4/2015 [emoji1406] 2015 [emoji1356] 2016 [emoji1413] The Lord Answered my [emoji1317] 2017🤰due 2018, would love a [emoji1405][emoji166]to fit into our crazy bunch! [emoji7][emoji8] Main thing is healthy though!

Eighme
December 25th, 2017, 11:01 PM
Hope then tomorrow brings better news xxoo

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Thank you! I’ll be okay if it doesn’t. It’s our first month of actually attempting so I may still have to get the hang of things. I really appreciate all your help!


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Mommy2apples
December 25th, 2017, 11:02 PM
Nvm! I was looking at it wrong. Yea that is a true positive sorry!


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mwilson
December 25th, 2017, 11:02 PM
It's a really hard decision.... you know you may not o until day after next even with a blazing pos? Or as I mentioned before, you could o sometime in the next few hours. It can peetty much happen anytime between now and 48 hours time. Are you temping? If so, do you usually o day after pos opk?

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I do not temp. We probably aren’t trying tonight, daughter is up with an upset stomach so it’s probably going to be tomorrow anyway. I guess it’s not meant to happen tonight. Hopefully some stuck around from the first one or delayed o and tomorrow catches.

Pbn3
December 26th, 2017, 01:06 AM
GirlswayHGmama are you having an attempt tonight or waiting for pos opk? Speaking of which, post a pic of todays!

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HGmama
December 26th, 2017, 08:10 AM
GirlswayHGmama are you having an attempt tonight or waiting for pos opk? Speaking of which, post a pic of todays!

Sent from my SM-G900I using TapatalkI was hoping to have attempt Christmas night, but when I got home from work, i found out my 2 year old had fevers all day and was crying for mommy. I don't have a fever but a very sore throat. Then I was like hopefully tomorrow the 26th I'd have a positive opk and attempt then. Now my temp has shot up & i had left sided cramping yesterday so I might have already o'd but I never got a true pos opk. Pics below. Thanks for asking and keeping track of me. I really do appreciate it. https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171226/d3d825d5bc2b04a46b7882ee5b4cab39.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171226/279520e52bfd37bb630412e10d543fd9.jpg

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Pbn3
December 26th, 2017, 08:26 AM
Oh no! Hope both of you feel much better soon. Even though you don't have a fever your temp may have been elevated due to being ill. Hopefully you haven't oed but if you have there's still a chance with the 3-o attempt. Can I ask when you're doing your opks if your limiting fluids and holding for 2 hours prior?

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HGmama
December 26th, 2017, 09:21 AM
Oh no! Hope both of you feel much better soon. Even though you don't have a fever your temp may have been elevated due to being ill. Hopefully you haven't oed but if you have there's still a chance with the 3-o attempt. Can I ask when you're doing your opks if your limiting fluids and holding for 2 hours prior?

Sent from my SM-G900I using TapatalkThat's what I was thinking about the 3-o attempt. This is probably not my cycle, but that's okay. I didn't expect it to be. Maybe next one.
I did take it consideration the temp factor...so who knows.
Yes, I'm not a big drinker so limiting fluids is a yes. Since I'm a nurse, bathroom breaks are few and far between so definitely holding >2 hrs. Usually more like 6hrs so maybe that's affecting it. Looking back to last months, I never found my blazing positive either.
At least I'm documenting to track things now.

Thanks pbn3!

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Georgia_Peach
December 26th, 2017, 09:28 AM
I'm so lost. Remember how I got a positive opk on Christmas eve the same day I had some spotting? My temps haven't risen. Does this mean I didn't ovulate yet?

Girlswaylondon
December 26th, 2017, 02:28 PM
Well it’s officially been impossible to not cheat this Christmas!! :rolleyes: hoping it doesn’t mess me up for next month! ��

Pbn3
December 26th, 2017, 04:17 PM
I'm so lost. Remember how I got a positive opk on Christmas eve the same day I had some spotting? My temps haven't risen. Does this mean I didn't ovulate yet?Robin can you post a pic of your chart?

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Noemi2017
December 26th, 2017, 04:24 PM
Yess me too. Impossible during Christmas:D

Pbn3
December 26th, 2017, 05:10 PM
Noemi I cant believe you're 7dpo already!!! Cant wait to see the next few days temps! What dpo are you planning on testing?

Girlswaylondon don't sweat on xmas treats! If you were relaxed enough to not deny yourself that's fantastic and the best way to be (not stressed and obsessive) during this part of the 2ww. Just regather now and lets hope to see a bfp in a few days time [emoji3] When will you test?!

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HGmama
December 26th, 2017, 06:01 PM
@pbn3 positive? Way darker than they have been. Done at 2pm my timehttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171226/de18a88c0f76f0fc3ffffccd9c8cce64.jpg

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Pbn3
December 26th, 2017, 06:05 PM
GirlswayHGmama I would say just off positive, *maybe* fully pos by tonight? BUT this may be as dark as yours gets! How exciting!!!! You'll get an attempt in tonight right?!! It will have been 4 days since last attempt so definately pink friendly! Plus even if you get a blaring pos opk tomorrow an attempt tonight would still likely give you a 2-o attempt which is fantastic! You'll be covered either way whether this is 'your' pos or not.

Also I was looking up HG last night and omgoodness I hope so much this next pregnancy is much kinder to you. I couldn't even imagine a day like that let alone months..... Were you part of a HG support group last time? Are the chances 50/50 of it happening again?

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Noemi2017
December 26th, 2017, 06:12 PM
Hello pbn3 yess already 7dpo, i really hope my temperature stay high:pray:i planned to test 10dpo but maybe i will already try 9dpo:D isnt it early?

Pbn3
December 26th, 2017, 06:34 PM
Yes 9dpo is really early but I've sen bfps on that dpo before (my own included) but its mostly such a faint line if there is one that its not believeable until 10/11dpo anyway [emoji23]

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Pbn3
December 26th, 2017, 06:36 PM
GirlswayHGmama I edited my previous post in case you read and ran as such. Can you just check its the same message as before when you see this? [emoji4]

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Georgia_Peach
December 26th, 2017, 07:11 PM
Robin can you post a pic of your chart?

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HGmama
December 26th, 2017, 07:23 PM
GirlswayHGmama I would say just off positive, *maybe* fully pos by tonight? BUT this may be as dark as yours gets! How exciting!!!! You'll get an attempt in tonight right?!! It will have been 4 days since last attempt so definately pink friendly! Plus even if you get a blaring pos opk tomorrow an attempt tonight would still likely give you a 2-o attempt which is fantastic! You'll be covered either way whether this is 'your' pos or not.

Also I was looking up HG last night and omgoodness I hope so much this next pregnancy is much kinder to you. I couldn't even imagine a day like that let alone months..... Were you part of a HG support group last time? Are the chances 50/50 of it happening again?

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Thanks, Planning on an attempt tonight. I'm super nervous because I will always feel like I didn't do enough.
Yes, I had hypermemesis gravidum with my son. Because mine lasted past 20 weeks (until I delivered and some after intermittently), I have about a 95% chance of it happening again. I lost 22 lbs in first 18 weeks. Another reason I really don't think LE diet is doable for me. I need to keep the weight on because I already lost 25+ lbs this past year. I had one two visits to the hospital for fluids before home health was started and i got fluids at home. I had a zofran pump in my abdomen (like an insulin pump) for 15 weeks. I was apart of a support group last time. It's really scary, and I hope it's manageable this next time.

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Pbn3
December 26th, 2017, 07:29 PM
Robin I would say you didn't o yesterday, maybe today? A 2-o attempt is still great conception odds. Can you post a pic of last cycles chart?

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Pbn3
December 26th, 2017, 07:36 PM
Oh wow GirlswayHGmama that's awful [emoji22] I hope so much its at least a little kinder this time around. I got caught up in a ladies blog who also had it all pregnancy and the second time was worse. Crazy to think they haven't a better solution yet! She also used a zofran pump, was on fluids via IV's and her veins ended up collapsed, multiple trips to ER etc. I think we've all heard about it (HG) but just assume its bad nausea/vomiting that passes. It is so much more than that though, mind boggling stuff!!

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Girlswaylondon
December 27th, 2017, 02:40 AM
I really want to try wait till af is due but I think I’m kidding myself! :poas:

Girlswaylondon
December 27th, 2017, 03:12 AM
Also in regards to temping when would I see a temp drop which meant af was coming? My LP is usually 13 days

Pbn3
December 27th, 2017, 07:08 AM
Girlswaylondon I like the direction your chart is starting to take and cant wait for the next few days temps!! In regards to the temp drop signalling af is likely on the way, everyone is different. You may experience a steady decline in the few days before, a sharp drop the day before or even day of af. I've also had cycles that my temp stayed elevated in the post o range until af fully finished so being your first cycle temping it could be any of the above.

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mummy2boys
December 27th, 2017, 09:40 AM
Hi ladies, Merry Christmas! How is everyone? I had a little break away from the forum but back now :)
Have I missed any bfps?



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Star4012
December 27th, 2017, 09:46 AM
We had a great Christmas! Thanks for asking! How was yours?

My temps have been so wonky! This was my first round of Clomid and I thought we had great timing swaying for girl... I don't feel pregnant.. but I also can't tell if AF is on her way or not. Prior to Clomid, I would have had AF by now.. [emoji848] hmm...

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Noemi2017
December 27th, 2017, 10:08 AM
I see there some faint line:)

Star4012
December 27th, 2017, 10:23 AM
I see there some faint line:)Thanks! I saw it too, but I can't tell if it's an indent or not. [emoji848]

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mummy2boys
December 27th, 2017, 10:53 AM
I can see a faint line! maybe that big temp dip was implantation..



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Filzma
December 27th, 2017, 11:25 AM
Hey everyone! Nothing to report here but a huge blaring bfn this morning. My bbt steadily declining but hit the cover line today so expecting AF but no cramps today, no symptoms... nothing.
Hoping there’s better news from everyone else. [emoji120][emoji846]
Star I see it!! And I never see them lol. Congrats!!

Eighme
December 27th, 2017, 11:47 AM
I’m SUPPOSED to be getting AF today. So far she is a no show and I’m out of pregnancy tests so I’ll have to venture out into the snow to get one because it’s going to drive me crazy if I don’t test!


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Filzma
December 27th, 2017, 11:59 AM
Lol Eighme. Good to see you. Literally after I made that post, AF showed. Cheeky one she is. That’s me officially out.
I hope it goes better for you! How are your temps?

Eighme
December 27th, 2017, 12:09 PM
Lol Eighme. Good to see you. Literally after I made that post, AF showed. Cheeky one she is. That’s me officially out.
I hope it goes better for you! How are your temps?

I am literally waiting for that to happen. I told myself as soon as I posted that it would show but so far no sign. I honestly didn’t track my temps this cycle. So if this isn’t my turn, I’m going to track next cycle so I have an idea. This was our first attempt month.


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Filzma
December 27th, 2017, 12:23 PM
This was my first month attempting and tracking too. I wasn’t really aiming to ttc this month but in the lead up to the pos opk got so excited and decided to abandon my initial plan [emoji23][emoji23]
Good idea Eighme. I learnt so much from temping!! Funny thing is, my cycle went haywire this month. It’s always been about 27/28days and today was cd33!! So I really don’t know what to expect next month.
Planning to stock up on more ICs and a FRER. I got a FRRR instead, so hopefully none of you make the same mistake at the shops. [emoji5]

Eighme
December 27th, 2017, 12:28 PM
This was my first month attempting and tracking too. I wasn’t really aiming to ttc this month but in the lead up to the pos opk got so excited and decided to abandon my initial plan [emoji23][emoji23]
Good idea Eighme. I learnt so much from temping!! Funny thing is, my cycle went haywire this month. It’s always been about 27/28days and today was cd33!! So I really don’t know what to expect next month.
Planning to stock up on more ICs and a FRER. I got a FRRR instead, so hopefully none of you make the same mistake at the shops. [emoji5]

My cycles have gotten wonky since starting the LE diet. But I still have a ton to learn with charting and temping because I had no idea so much went into it! So if it’s not this cycle, atleast I’ll have better knowledge next month and hopefully can pin down the exact day!


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Filzma
December 27th, 2017, 12:43 PM
Sounds like a plan Eighme. I hope it’s a bfp for you, if not looking forward to the company. [emoji5]

mwilson
December 27th, 2017, 01:08 PM
I'm back on the wait train again. Maybe 1 dpo or could O today. Not sure as I got two positive opks in a row. First was super dark and the second day was same darkness as control. So we will see!

Filzma
December 27th, 2017, 01:22 PM
Fx fx mwilson! Good luck

Georgia_Peach
December 27th, 2017, 01:24 PM
Im.on the wait train too. I'm either 2 or 3dpo based on FF today.

Let's start the waiting game..!!

Girlswaylondon
December 27th, 2017, 01:34 PM
Good luck everyone I’ll be 8dpo tomorrow! Wish my boobs didn’t play tricks on me they are so so sore but were sore last month too! Must be progesterone!

Babybeaublue
December 27th, 2017, 01:37 PM
Oh my goodness people, how am I supposed to stalk properly when no one has a link to their chart??!?!?? Driving me crazy lol!!

My nausea kicked in at 5+1. With dd5 it lasted til 26 weeks:(

Noemi2017
December 27th, 2017, 02:34 PM
Here is my chart:)
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5eaa0f

mummy2boys
December 27th, 2017, 02:37 PM
Well I think I'm your cycle buddy again mwilson, I think I'm ovulating today or tomorrow. Had an attempt last night but hubby had 'helped himself' [emoji23]earlier whilst I was out with the boys so not sure if that will effect our chances. Can't try again now as he's gone away with work..

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4216d8

Pbn3
December 27th, 2017, 03:34 PM
Im.on the wait train too. I'm either 2 or 3dpo based on FF today.

Let's start the waiting game..!!Did your temp end up rising?

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Pbn3
December 27th, 2017, 03:41 PM
Star I can see something too but I'd test again in 48 hours and there should be some progression if this is the start to your bfp. Fx fx fx!!!!!! Hopefully your temps do come back up though in the next day or so.

Mummy2boys good to see you back and yay for pos opk the day before dh leaves for work [emoji3] not so yay that he helped himself earlier but will certainly lean towards pink for you [emoji3]!!

Filzma big hugs and may next cycle be more straightforward for you xxoo Other than multiple occasions of pos opks your temps are definately pre and post o ranges and your lp is great! Could be this cycle had delayed o due to the intense scrutiny and things will relax back to normal now that your first cycle of montioring is done [emoji4]

Eighme hope af stays away and you post a bfp tomorrow!

GirlswayHGmama good to see your temp dive back down and hopefully your pos opk will come in the next few days. I'd check mark the discard box for yesterdays high temp so it will stay there but not be included in the data analysis [emoji4]

Noemi and girlswaylondon not long now ladies!!!! Getting so close to testing [emoji3]

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Pbn3
December 27th, 2017, 03:44 PM
I'm back on the wait train again. Maybe 1 dpo or could O today. Not sure as I got two positive opks in a row. First was super dark and the second day was same darkness as control. So we will see!Fx for mwilson! Sounds like your super dark pos was peak surge and you caught it receding with the second days opk so I'd probably lean towards o day being day after super dark pos but of course allow an extra day leeway when it comes to testing time [emoji3] Did you get an attempt in on the super dark one?

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Georgia_Peach
December 27th, 2017, 03:44 PM
Did your temp end up rising?

Sent from my SM-G900I using TapatalkYes not super high but tomorrow it should be higher. I looked back and my natural temps sometimes take a few days to shoot up.
I have creamy cm today and I always get that 2-3 dpo. Tell tail sign for me that I've ovulated

Georgia_Peach
December 27th, 2017, 03:45 PM
Good luck everyone I’ll be 8dpo tomorrow! Wish my boobs didn’t play tricks on me they are so so sore but were sore last month too! Must be progesterone!Yes the progesterone can do that... But so can a bfp! When are you testing?

mwilson
December 27th, 2017, 03:48 PM
Well I think I'm your cycle buddy again mwilson, I think I'm ovulating today or tomorrow. Had an attempt last night but hubby had 'helped himself' [emoji23]earlier whilst I was out with the boys so not sure if that will effect our chances. Can't try again now as he's gone away with work..

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4216d8

Yay! We had an attempt last night too and then one on Saturday so I covered anything early. Plan to do another in about 2-3 days just in case. I ovulated earlier than expected so I’m glad we had the Saturday.

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mwilson
December 27th, 2017, 03:51 PM
Pbn, We did on Saturday and then got the super dark on Monday but hubs wasn’t feeling good and my daughter was throwing up so not a good night but we did Tuesday night so hopefully between the Saturday and Tuesday we have some luck!

Star4012
December 27th, 2017, 04:11 PM
Here is my chart:)
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5eaa0fHow do you share your chart via a link? Teach me please haha!

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Pbn3
December 27th, 2017, 04:16 PM
Star in your ff app press the dropdown menu top rh corner. Select share chart and data, create/preview homepage. Click on the link/web address shown and ff will open in your browser. Copy the link in the address bar and paste into a comment in here :) You can also paste the link into your signature.

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Pbn3
December 27th, 2017, 04:20 PM
Just seen you use Tapatalk so to add your chart link to your Tapatalk signature do the following. Copy the link from your browser as per previous instructions, go to your profile in tapatalk, select settings, signature, and press on the message 'sent from xxxxx (usually a phone description) it will bring up that message in a box that you can delete it from and then you paste your chart link in there instead :)

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HGmama
December 27th, 2017, 06:51 PM
My temp is dive, more like bottomed out, this morning.... Usually never that low. So as for disregarding I was thinking today's vs yesterday appropriately high for pending ovulation based on last months. Last night's opk was lighter but today's was darker again.

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Girlswaylondon
December 27th, 2017, 07:11 PM
Yes the progesterone can do that... But so can a bfp! When are you testing?

Probably not until 10/11dpo! I was so sure I was pregnant last month because of them grr!

Georgia_Peach
December 27th, 2017, 08:20 PM
Probably not until 10/11dpo! I was so sure I was pregnant last month because of them grr!Ya I have taken them in the past and they deff trick you. Hoping this is your month!

HGmama
December 28th, 2017, 01:56 AM
If I was buying some pregnancy tests to prep myself for testing later on, what would you get?

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Pbn3
December 28th, 2017, 02:50 AM
GirlswayHGmama either frer, wondfo or OSOM

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Pbn3
December 28th, 2017, 02:53 AM
Noemi I cant wait for you to test!!!! I don't suppose you caved and tested this morning? [emoji23]

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Girlswaylondon
December 28th, 2017, 04:20 AM
Thank you robin :)

Noemi have you tested?!

Noemi2017
December 28th, 2017, 04:43 AM
I tested today 9dpo and bfn:worry:
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5eaa0f

Girlswaylondon
December 28th, 2017, 04:54 AM
Could have only implanted yesterday or today! :) think it’s takes 48 hours to show in urine! Do you have any symptoms?

Girlswaylondon
December 28th, 2017, 04:55 AM
Noemi will you be switching to e4d next month?

Filzma
December 28th, 2017, 05:01 AM
Awww pbn3 that’s really kind. Thank you for all the input and kind words. Look forward to the next cycle! [emoji6][emoji5]

Girlswaylondon and Neomi [emoji120][emoji120][emoji178][emoji178] I know the waiting games hard, just hang in there...few more days/hours!

Pbn3
December 28th, 2017, 05:04 AM
Noemi 9dpo is really early! Let's see how tomorrows looks!

Filzma you are very welcome [emoji173]

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Verena
December 28th, 2017, 05:06 AM
O-day for me today... We have an O-7 real attempt and O-2 pull out [emoji21] my opks have been fooling me this month. They looked almost positive 3 days after the real attempt so that I got my hopes high, but only turned positive yesterday. And hubby is fooling me as well. I thought he would go for on O-2 again, but then he wanted to pull out [emoji22] hoping for more commitment next month...

I know I'll start testing anyway in a few days [emoji85]

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Noemi2017
December 28th, 2017, 05:13 AM
Thx u girls, im little disappointed, i know it is early...i dont have symptoms, just little higher libido before was zero:D, im more emotional and tired. But could symptoms before af. I will test again tomorrow:pray:

Noemi2017
December 28th, 2017, 05:24 AM
I visit my doctor in January and she said if im not pregnant she would recommend me visit some fertility clinic coz till age 39 you have treatments free (in Czech republic)and i will be 38 in April:)we are not swaying for long time and also husband started to smoke and finished to play football so maybe it wants just time...we will see

Girlswaylondon
December 28th, 2017, 06:14 AM
Thx u girls, im little disappointed, i know it is early...i dont have symptoms, just little higher libido before was zero:D, im more emotional and tired. But could symptoms before af. I will test again tomorrow:pray:


How long is your Luteal phase?

Noemi2017
December 28th, 2017, 08:22 AM
12 days (sometimes 10-11) so i expect af on Sunday and yours?

Girlswaylondon
December 28th, 2017, 08:51 AM
12 days (sometimes 10-11) so i expect af on Sunday and yours?

12/13 days! I’m starting to get the urge to test :think:

Eighme
December 28th, 2017, 09:37 AM
Well, ladies still no sign of AF and still no BFP. My period is a day late so I’m just twiddling my thumbs until tomorrow because I tested yesterday and this morning with both negatives.


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Noemi2017
December 28th, 2017, 10:05 AM
Are u also temping?

Eighme
December 28th, 2017, 10:09 AM
Noemi, no, that was my newbie mistake. This was my first month actually attempting and I didn't even consider temping.

Babybeaublue
December 28th, 2017, 11:19 AM
Thanks for.the links girls!! I'm glued to those charts! :nails: :fingers::fingers:

Noemi2017
December 28th, 2017, 01:02 PM
Girlsway will u test tomorrow?

Greydore
December 28th, 2017, 01:50 PM
Omg. I didn’t know there was a part 2 and I have missed so much!! Good luck to everyone testing soon!


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Girlswaylondon
December 28th, 2017, 02:16 PM
Noemi - probably but I wish I could hold off! :p

Greydore- was thinking about you today hope you are well?!

Greydore
December 28th, 2017, 03:40 PM
Girlsway I’ve missed you!! Where are you at in your cycle? I haven’t been able to catch up on this whole thread.

I was 8 weeks yesterday, so just feeling that first trimester grossness- tired, nauseous, all that. But it will pass, and I’m grateful to be pregnant.

Hope you all had wonderful holidays!


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Girlswaylondon
December 28th, 2017, 05:54 PM
Girlsway I’ve missed you!! Where are you at in your cycle? I haven’t been able to catch up on this whole thread.

I was 8 weeks yesterday, so just feeling that first trimester grossness- tired, nauseous, all that. But it will pass, and I’m grateful to be pregnant.

Hope you all had wonderful holidays!


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I’ve missed you too! But glad you got your bfp :) I’m 9dpo tomorrow!

Greydore
December 28th, 2017, 08:21 PM
Girlsway so close to testing!! How are you feeling??


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HGmama
December 28th, 2017, 11:13 PM
I got a BLAZING positive this morning (11am) in addition to a solid positive yesterday early test. All day I have had left ovary pain. I have had ovarian cysts in the past, every once in awhile, but dang... this one is really uncomfortable. Maybe that explains my delayed ovulation.

Looks like Tuesday night's attempt will be my one attempt. Honestly couldn't even try an attempt tonight at +opk.

I've already decided that I'll test Monday January 8 unless my body goes crazy. I already have wondfos. I know I won't be too upset if this cycle is unsuccessful because we have a trip the end of January- and due to HG I might be completely out of commission and that would suck.

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Pbn3
December 29th, 2017, 03:03 AM
GirlswayHGmama hoping to see a spike in temp tomorrow morning giving you a 2-o attempt fx fx fx!!!!!

Mummy2boys waiting for your temp to see if you oed yesterday...... wake up! Wake up! Wake up 🕪 [emoji23][emoji23]

Girlswaylondon did you test this morning?!

Noemi I'm sure I've asked before so apologies but what hpts are you using? Your chart is looking really nice and temp is higher than last cycle for 10dpo [emoji3]

Eighme any luck with your latest test?

Who else is almost at testing time?

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Pbn3
December 29th, 2017, 03:04 AM
Star any news??!! Have you been testing? Did your temp come back up?

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Girlswaylondon
December 29th, 2017, 04:20 AM
Really wasn’t gonna test today but had a first response glaring at me and BFN of course!! Annoyed with myself said I wouldn’t test early this month!

Boobs still sore but guessing that’s just the norm for me in my luteal phase, also tmi but feeling wet down there instead of dry but that’s about it!