Part 2: December TTC & 2ww

[Noemi2017]

Girlsway i also tested 10dpo and bfn:sad:such a bad feeling right?

[Noemi2017]

Hello Pbn3, im using tests from farmacy 10miU/ml today is 10dpo temperature is high but bfn:(

[Girlswaylondon]

Yes, Noemi I’m starting to regret not starting to ttc sooner because the age gap between my son and another one is growing rapidly :(

[Noemi2017]

Yes thats true, i also should start sooner, i thought second pregnancy could be easy like first one:( but u r young.

[Pbn3]

Hugs girlswaylondon and noemi there is definately still time xo

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[Girlswaylondon]

Yes thats true, i also should start sooner, i thought second pregnancy could be easy like first one:( but u r young.

Young but have pcos and endometriosis :( I did fall naturally with my son hoping it wasnt sheer luck! I’m much healthier diet wise than I was back then! I do have regular cycles and my temps confirm I ovulate so who knows :(

[Star4012]

No good news for me. AF arrived yesterday evening. Onto round #2 of Clomid. I'm on 50mg and my doc said I could take it either 3-7, or 5-9... for my first round, when I picked it up from the pharmacy, it was already CD5 for me so I just took it CD5-9. I keep going back and forth whether I'm going to do days 2-6 or 3-7 for my second round. I asked atomic and she recommended 3-7 for more viable eggs. I so badly want a little girl in the worst way. I believe I will feel that our family will be complete once I have my girl. The thought of twin girls excites me, but I'd also be happy with just one as well. I'm okay that my journey is taking so long, but if it means waiting just a little longer to have my girl, I'll wait and do whatever it takes.

My plan: take an overload of folic acid daily-- I've read that your body will rid yourself of what you don't need (pee it out, per say) .... hubby is jogging 3 times a week, I run an at home daycare and that's my exercise... drinking lots of coffee (decaf).... BD E4D (CD6,CD10,CD14, etc)... Clomid either days 2-6 or 3-7... Opks staring 3 days after last pill... skipping breakfast... taking pregnitude as soon as it arrives (today! And then will do every other day during 2WW)... no big O during BD... use softcups to keep sperm in all night, dump in early morning.... chart temps.

Anything else I'm missing that will surely help?

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[Noemi2017]

Im sorry Star but you do so much so im sure you will be pregnant soon with your baby girl:DD:

[Eighme]

So, I’m seriously stuck in limbo over here. Day two and no sign of AF (I haven’t tested today and will shortly) but I got a negative yesterday and that’s the first day after missing my period. I don’t know what’s going on! I can’t remember with my son how quickly I got a BFP because we weren’t tracking and anything. So, I have no idea! I’m slightly assuming I am because my period is notoriously on time, every time. But I haven’t gotten a positive yet.


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[Girlswaylondon]

Eighme the exact same thing happened to me last month 2 days late and I always have a 13 day luteal phase! Think it was the diet! Hoping it bfp for you!

[Star4012]

So, I’m seriously stuck in limbo over here. Day two and no sign of AF (I haven’t tested today and will shortly) but I got a negative yesterday and that’s the first day after missing my period. I don’t know what’s going on! I can’t remember with my son how quickly I got a BFP because we weren’t tracking and anything. So, I have no idea! I’m slightly assuming I am because my period is notoriously on time, every time. But I haven’t gotten a positive yet.


Sent from my iPhone using TapatalkPraying you just implanted later, and your BFP is on its way! Can you ask for a blood test? You can get blood test results much sooner than a pregnancy would show on a HPT. Thinking about you!! *hugs*

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[Star4012]

Im sorry Star but you do so much so im sure you will be pregnant soon with your baby girl:DD:Thank you, Noemi! I sure hope so!! We have 2DS and I love them so much, plus their bond is special, but to feel complete, I need a little girl. <3

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[Eighme]

Eighme the exact same thing happened to me last month 2 days late and I always have a 13 day luteal phase! Think it was the diet! Hoping it bfp for you!

Thanks, Girlsway! I just have no idea. I hadn’t really had a wonky cycle until now. But it could be a wonky cycle or pregnant! I just wish I knew which it was!

Thanks so much Star! I’m hoping so too but trying to remain optimistic either way!


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[Eighme]

Just tested this morning and still negative but no sign of AF thus far. This may slowly drive me crazy. Props to all you ladies who have endless patience.

[Eighme]

Just tested this morning and still negative but no sign of AF thus far. This may slowly drive me crazy. Props to all you ladies who have endless patience.Well, AF came tonight so I'm out for this month! Wishing everyone else a BFP!

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[Pbn3]

Sorry to hear eighme [emoji22] wishing you the very best for next cycle [emoji173] I will try to check in occasionally [emoji3]

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[Pbn3]

Oh and remember because af arrived at night that tomorrow is considered cd1 rather than today....

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[Pbn3]

Big hugs star and that all sounds great. Are you doing an extra attempt at pos opk? That's the only thing I'd suggest being 2nd cycle of clomid [emoji4]

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[Pbn3]

Noemi and girlswaylondon looking forward to you ladies waking and testing [emoji3] fx so tight you post a squinter for us to obsess over!!!!!

Mummy2boys thats a possible o spike you have there! Has cm turned post o? If not will dh be back anytime soon so you can get another attempt in to cover the possibility of late o?

GirlswayHGmama you also look like you've possibly oed. I'd consider discarding that temp on cd18 if ff has trouble allocating your crosshairs [emoji4]

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[Noemi2017]

I didnt test coz my temperature dropped, i expect af tomorrow:SS:

[Noemi2017]

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5eaa0f

[Girlswaylondon]

Eighme sorry to hear af came, my cycle played those tricks on me last month too!

[Girlswaylondon]

Noemi it’s not over till the witch arrives!

[Pbn3]

I'm sorry noemi [emoji22] as girlswaylondon said its not over till af arrives but I understand not testing. Any signs af is on the way? Can I ask if you're having unprotected bds other than your one attempt?

Girlswaylondon did you test???!!!!

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[Girlswaylondon]

Just tested - bfn as expected!

[Girlswaylondon]

Ok I just wiped and there’s pink blood? Surely can’t be af?! Pbn im freaking out, Would my temp have dropped if it was af? I’ve never had a LP this short!! I have no cramps!

[Filzma]

I hope it’s implantation bleeding girlswaylondon! Neomi until AF shows ... it definitely isn’t over. [emoji120]

[Pbn3]

How long is your lp usually? Mine shortened from 13 to 10 back to 12 while on and off the le diet way back when I did it (2015 [emoji50])....

Yes at 10dpo it could definitely be implantation spotting. Really hope this is the case!!! We'll know more over the next few days. Fx fx fx!!

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[Girlswaylondon]

13 usually I hope it hasn’t shortened! I still have sore boobs usually when af arrives my boobs Ease up! I’ll just have to wait and see! There was no blood in my panties just pink when I wiped!

[Filzma]

Little rant here. It’s funny, just when we’re about to ttc and think we’ve got a grip on our cycles, then it goes mental. Surely there must be a known phenomena for this?

It’s 10:40am and haven’t had breakfast and feel nothing. Have to remind myself to eat! Seems like I’ve inherently swayed pink my whole life and didn’t realise it. It’s hard breaking the cycle.
Wishing everyone bfps next cycles for those who’ve started a new one. The rest, we need at least one bfp this cycle!! No pressure [emoji5][emoji5]

[Pbn3]

That could be a good sign that it was only when you wiped [emoji3] cant wait to see what your temp does over the next couple days!!

Filzma that's so true and I'm surprised the 'phenomena' hasn't been named yet [emoji23] and yes would be nice to see the year out with another bfp or two!

I'll create a January thread now and post the link so its done [emoji16]

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[Pbn3]

January 2018 TTC & 2ww thread (http://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/showthread.php?t=62685)

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[Noemi2017]

Girlsway im 100% sure witch will arrive tomorrow:( basal temperature showed it:( :fingers:for u, i hope that pink was implantation:)

[Noemi2017]

Pbn3 we had just one unprotected bds during ovulation, others protected i dont write in charts.

[Noemi2017]

Thx u Flizma, i am sure af arrives tomorrow:( i dont feel happy but ‘’show must go on’’:D

[Girlswaylondon]

Noemi will you try e4d next month?

[Star4012]

Last cycle we BD at positive OPK... I'm thinking of BD every 4 days, but in the shorter sense... like say: Monday pm/Thursday pm. Praying it works this time!! 🤞

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[Noemi2017]

I already tried e4d maybe it is better coz this month we did just one attempt in ovulation day and husband waited 6 days and nothing. Yess i think next month e4d

[Girlswaylondon]

Me too I’m even thinking of stopping opks! Maybe it’ll just happen!

[Verena]

I'll create a January thread now and post the link so its done [emoji16]



Pbn that sounds like you are having some presentiments about your coming birth? Like the baby will be here within the next days? [emoji44][emoji44][emoji44][emoji6]

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[Pbn3]

Verena I never went into early labour with my boys so I doubt I will this time but you never know! [emoji12] My Monday job is packing ny hospital bag for 'just in case' [emoji3]

Noemi the reason I asked about other unprotected bds was that its a good idea to do some even if its only during the 2ww to allow the body more familiarity with sperm. That's why e4d (whether cd6, 10, 14 etc or cd6, 9, 12 etc) is good because it still gives you one attempt but helps your body adjust to having sperm swimming around up there [emoji12]

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[Pbn3]

Last cycle we BD at positive OPK... I'm thinking of BD every 4 days, but in the shorter sense... like say: Monday pm/Thursday pm. Praying it works this time!! 🤞

Sent from my SM-G950U using TapatalkThat's my fave 'go to' bd pattern after ttc a few cycles! Good luck star xo

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[mwilson]

How often does late ovulation happen? Like you get a positive opk and then don’t ovulate until over 48 hours.

[mummy2boys]

Hi all [emoji112]
Pbn, I'm not sure tbh, my opks have gone negative but cervix is still high and open so unsure really. And still quite a bit of cm. hubby home tonight so may have another go. It's getting pretty close for you now!! So exciting!


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[mummy2boys]

Mwilson, I don't think that's ever happened to me so far but weirdly it might have happened this cycle because I'm not sure I've ovulated. Has that happened to you this time?


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[mwilson]

Mwilson, I don't think that's ever happened to me so far but weirdly it might have happened this cycle because I'm not sure I've ovulated. Has that happened to you this time?


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I have no idea. It’s just a fear I’ve had. About 2 days after ff put as o day I had a sharp pain and made me think what if ov was delayed. Today I’m crampy. I try not to over analyze but the dull cramps are throwing me off. Supposed to be 4 dpo today. We bd early and during what I thought was ov to cover bases but if I o’d late, then I may have missed. Just didn’t know if that was rare or not. I don’t temp so not sure.

[Pbn3]

Mwilson that is the norm for some people oing 48-72 hours after first pos opk. Can also happen randomly to someone with the most regular cycle. That's why its so important to keep bding that extra once or twice after planned attempt/s or until o confirmed by temps.

Mummy2boys that's great dh is going to be back so you can get another attempt in just in case!!

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[mwilson]

Hm well I guess we will add in tonight but I’d think it would be too late if I o’d yesterday and possibly today. I think if I am anything but typical I’m early but I guess there is always the chance of late.

[Pbn3]

Mwilson better to be covered for 'just in case' than not. How long is your cycle usually and what cd are you on?

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[mwilson]

Mwilson better to be covered for 'just in case' than not. How long is your cycle usually and what cd are you on?

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The last few months have been 26/27. I’m cd 15 today.

[Pbn3]

So definately could still be around o time then and have a comfortable lp... is cm fertile?

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[mwilson]

Just a little. Not like it was when I was getting the two days of positive opks.