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Pbn3
December 30th, 2017, 07:10 AM
May new life be conceived with the New Year [emoji322] All the best ladies and may January be jumping with bfps [emoji173]
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Filzma
December 30th, 2017, 07:37 AM
Jumping in quick! Bfp [emoji120][emoji120]
Girlswaylondon
December 30th, 2017, 10:39 AM
So I’m pretty sure af has arrived 3 days early!! The le diet really does mess with your cycles! I was 3 days late last cycle! :sad:
Eighme
December 30th, 2017, 11:09 AM
Would you ladies keep trying one attempt or switch to E4D this month? Does one sway more pink than the other.
This was the weirdest cycle I've had yet and I don't know if I should keep up with testing for ovulation, or switch to E4D
Wishing all you ladies a BFP in the new year!
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Girlswaylondon
December 30th, 2017, 11:11 AM
Eighme I’m going for e4d next month I’ve tried 1 attempt for 3 Months now!
Eighme
December 30th, 2017, 11:14 AM
Eighme I’m going for e4d next month I’ve tried 1 attempt for 3 Months now!Thanks, Girlsway! December was my first month TTC but it's far more stressful trying to track ovulation than I thought
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Girlswaylondon
December 30th, 2017, 12:20 PM
Thanks, Girlsway! December was my first month TTC but it's far more stressful trying to track ovulation than I thought
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Good luck :)
Eighme
December 30th, 2017, 12:27 PM
Good luck :)You too! ☺
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Noemi2017
December 30th, 2017, 12:28 PM
Girlsway so af arrived?:(
Pbn3
December 30th, 2017, 12:52 PM
Thanks, Girlsway! December was my first month TTC but it's far more stressful trying to track ovulation than I thought
Sent from my SM-G950U using TapatalkE4d would be a good choice for you eighme if you find tracking stressful [emoji3] Some people find tracking stressful, others find it stressful not 'knowing' so go with whatever you find more relaxing xo
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Pbn3
December 30th, 2017, 12:54 PM
Girlswaylondon nooooo!!!! [emoji24][emoji24] Is it increased spotting or flowing now?
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Noemi2017
December 30th, 2017, 01:26 PM
Pbn3 what do u think add big O after attempt, it could help conception?
Girlswaylondon
December 30th, 2017, 01:51 PM
Actually it’s completley Stopped?!?
I don’t want to get my hopes up because I do spot a day before af since le diet but never this early! It could be IB but I’m doubtful!!
My temp hasn’t dropped yet not sure how reliable that is?!
Eighme
December 30th, 2017, 02:26 PM
E4d would be a good choice for you eighme if you find tracking stressful [emoji3] Some people find tracking stressful, others find it stressful not 'knowing' so go with whatever you find more relaxing xo
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Filzma
December 30th, 2017, 05:17 PM
Ladies, I know there’s a whole thread on what blue swaying mums did/do. Just curious though, in terms of bd, any routine? Was bd liberal or did you focus on when you oed?
Btw,only see baby boys lately. Saw a mother to 3 boys today at the shopping till/counter and just smiled wondering if she was swaying without knowing. Is it the same for pink swayers? You only see baby girls and little girls everywhere?
Pbn3 am I doing a lazy e2d/e3d with a 3-o,1-o, o and o+1? [emoji846]
Pbn3
December 30th, 2017, 05:23 PM
Pbn3 what do u think add big O after attempt, it could help conception?It's said to help as the contractions help move the swimmers up faster but if its not possible then laying with elevated hips for half hour may help as well. I used to also flip over onto knees and elbows a couple times from this (so basically a laying down downward dog yoga position [emoji23]) just to be sure it all went up and little to none would come out afterwards [emoji6]
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Pbn3
December 30th, 2017, 05:25 PM
Girlswaylondon we don't know if its normal for your temp to drop pre or post af so hard to say, though I would say more than not do see a drop in temp whether a steady decline over a few days or a sudden drop day or two before. That's a good sign the spotting has stopped [emoji3] the waiting game continues [emoji102]
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Pbn3
December 30th, 2017, 05:39 PM
Thanks, Pbn! Would you say this sways one way more than the other or about equal for pink?
Sent from my SM-G950U using TapatalkWell as far as I know the recommendation for swaying pink is to start with one unprotected bd at pos opk. This sways the most pink as its the most 'hostile/hardest' way to try and fall pregnant. One unprotected attempt has low conception odds which is the whole idea behind it swaying pink. However if this doesn't work the first few cycles then its time to switch to e4d which still gives you one attempt in fertile window but also introduces sperm to the body on a semi regular basis so its not seeked out and destroyed so effeciently. That's my understanding anyway [emoji3] Also there's two versions of e4d as you're aware. There's eg. Cd6, cd10, cd14 etc or cd6, cd9, cd12 etc. I prefer the latter and used to call it e3d but dont anymore to avoid confusion. You could try the longer e4d first then the shorter (entirely up to you) and if you're still not conceiving move onto e4d (longer version) plus an extra attempt at pos opk (dtd the day after pos opk if it falls on an already scheduled e4d day). Yes this is two attempts by then but if its taking this long then its time to increase conception odds anyway most people will be well and truly over the le diet by then. My personal preference is the short version of e4d as to me it increases odds of conception whilst still realistically only one attempt. Not at all saying its the best to move onto just that it's my preference [emoji3] If you're ever on the fence I always recommend creating a thread to get atomics opinion. Let her know how long you've been trying and what you've done attempt wise to date and ask what she believes is best to try next.
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Pbn3
December 30th, 2017, 05:48 PM
Filzma no! You are not 'lazy' at all! That is hard enough to do already! Honestly it comes down to what you believe is possible to achieve. The ideal end result is 2+ attempts. There's alot of dh's that simply cant perform 3 x bd's in the space of 24 hours, it really is a tall order! If you can achieve bding every 48 - 72 hours in the lead up to pos opk then manage a PM bd that night of pos opk and an AM bd the following morning then you're already there attempt wise and IF by chance you get that 3rd PM attempt in then great but otherwise you've achieved multiple attempts in any case. The majority of people will o day after pos opk anyway so realistically in many cases only 2 of those 3 attempts will count anyway, it's more to cover a later o than anything as far as I know. I'm pretty sure the key is at least two attempts however that is achieved :) Again though its always a good idea to run it past atomic in a thread you create for her opinion as it gives people confidence in their decision [emoji3]
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Eighme
December 30th, 2017, 05:53 PM
Well as far as I know the recommendation for swaying pink is to start with one unprotected bd at pos opk. This sways the most pink as its the most 'hostile/hardest' way to try and fall pregnant. One unprotected attempt has low conception odds which is the whole idea behind it swaying pink. However if this doesn't work the first few cycles then its time to switch to e4d which still gives you one attempt in fertile window but also introduces sperm to the body on a semi regular basis so its not seeked out and destroyed so effeciently. That's my understanding anyway [emoji3] Also there's two versions of e4d as you're aware. There's eg. Cd6, cd10, cd14 etc or cd6, cd9, cd12 etc. I prefer the latter and used to call it e3d but dont anymore to avoid confusion. You could try the longer e4d first then the shorter (entirely up to you) and if you're still not conceiving move onto e4d (longer version) plus an extra attempt at pos opk (dtd the day after pos opk if it falls on an already scheduled e4d day). Yes this is two attempts by then but if its taking this long then its time to increase conception odds anyway most people will be well and truly over the le diet by then. My personal preference is the short version of e4d as to me it increases odds of conception whilst still realistically only one attempt. Not at all saying its the best to move onto just that it's my preference [emoji3] If you're ever on the fence I always recommend creating a thread to get atomics opinion. Let her know how long you've been trying and what you've done attempt wise to date and ask what she believes is best to try next.
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Filzma
December 30th, 2017, 06:04 PM
Filzma no! You are not 'lazy' at all! That is hard enough to do already! Honestly it comes down to what you believe is possible to achieve. The ideal end result is 2+ attempts. There's alot of dh's that simply cant perform 3 x bd's in the space of 24 hours, it really is a tall order! If you can achieve bding every 48 - 72 hours in the lead up to pos opk then manage a PM bd that night of pos opk and an AM bd the following morning then you're already there attempt wise and IF by chance you get that 3rd PM attempt in then great but otherwise you've achieved multiple attempts in any case. The majority of people will o day after pos opk anyway so realistically in many cases only 2 of those 3 attempts will count anyway, it's more to cover a later o than anything as far as I know. I'm pretty sure the key is at least two attempts however that is achieved :) Again though its always a good idea to run it past atomic in a thread you create for her opinion as it gives people confidence in their decision [emoji3]
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Pbn3 lol, you’re the best! Wow you’re really good. I liked what you said about our body getting used to sperm. It makes sense, after bding protected for a while I guess the body perceives sperm as an invader. So maybe that explains why ttc may take a couple months.
Thank you as always!![emoji177]
mwilson
December 30th, 2017, 09:14 PM
We started with 1 attempt at pos opk, this past month we did cd 8, but then had an early positive opk on 10, another positive on 11 so we bd that day too just in case. We plan to do again tonight (cd15) to cover in case it was late. So it was 3 day and then 4 day between attempts. Hoping one catches this month since this is our 6th month ttc baby #3. First baby was in like 4 months, second was first month trying, and now this one is not going as easily and I had an chemical mc our first month trying which I've never had one before. So not sure what is going on with my body this go around. I'm swaying girl, but pretty sure my diet is out the window besides skipping breakfast and coffee/alcohol. Its low but with all the holidays ive eaten more food and for sure more sweets! So who knows what the gender will be if I ever get pregnant.
Pbn3
December 30th, 2017, 09:42 PM
Mwilson I've seen several ladies get pos opks that early in their cycle only to not ovulate (confirmed by temping) and go on to get another pos opk (sometimes more) a few days later or even a week or so later. (Filzma - sound familiar [emoji6]) Can you do an opk today just out of curiosity? I'd keep testing in future up to cd17 at least with a 27 -29 day cycle unless of course you are 110% positive you've oed. Alternatively maybe try and stick to e4d next cycle (the every 72 hour version) from say cd7 or 8 through to cd17/18? Let us know how the opk goes and you never know todays attempt very well may count! Or if you have oed then your cd11 attempt is well timed.
Don't give up hope [emoji173] It will happen, and at the end of the day you have zero chance of a girl if you cant get pregnant. A relaxed LE diet is better than none at all. Hang in there!!
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Girlswaylondon
December 31st, 2017, 02:22 AM
No heavy flow yet, god knows what’s going on!
Pbn3
December 31st, 2017, 02:44 AM
I was coming on to see if you've posted girlswaylondon. So have you had continued spotting? Your temp has gone up slightly which is good [emoji3]
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Filzma
December 31st, 2017, 03:50 AM
Lol pbn3 that sure does familiar! Had a pos opk from cd8 through to cd22. Some days darker than others. Mwilson keep temping that’s the only way to know for sure if you’ve oed.
Girlswaylondon I hope this is your month!! [emoji120]bfp[emoji120]bfp
Girlswaylondon
December 31st, 2017, 04:05 AM
I was coming on to see if you've posted girlswaylondon. So have you had continued spotting? Your temp has gone up slightly which is good [emoji3]
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No spotting at all this morning, it was very minimal yesterday but was pink/red! BFN this morning though, kind of just glad my LP didn’t shorten!
Girlswaylondon
December 31st, 2017, 05:27 AM
Noemi how are you today?
Pbn3
December 31st, 2017, 05:39 AM
No spotting at all this morning, it was very minimal yesterday but was pink/red! BFN this morning though, kind of just glad my LP didn’t shorten!If that was implantation spotting you wont see a line until tomorrow morning or the morning after on a sensitive test like an frer. Will you test in the AM?! Please tell me you have frers??!!!
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Girlswaylondon
December 31st, 2017, 05:51 AM
I used them like an idiot at 9dpo :hide: I ordered some more but don’t think they’ll be here in time!!
Pbn3
December 31st, 2017, 06:52 AM
Oh no!!!! [emoji23] can you collect a fmu sample tomorrow then duck out and buy one from a shop?
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Girlswaylondon
December 31st, 2017, 07:08 AM
Pbn im spotting again! I’m really expecting af any minute! It’s so confusing!
Pbn3
December 31st, 2017, 07:57 AM
In that case hold off for a couple days and see what happens... you're 11dpo so you'll know soon enough whether the witch is coming or not [emoji17]
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Noemi2017
December 31st, 2017, 08:45 AM
Hello girlsway, im sorry u r spotting:( im also waiting witch today or tomorrow, temperature low like yesterday:(not good start of new year. Lets hope 2018 we will have better luck:luck::LotsofLove:
Eighme
December 31st, 2017, 10:35 AM
Hello girlsway, im sorry u r spotting:( im also waiting witch today or tomorrow, temperature low like yesterday:(not good start of new year. Lets hope 2018 we will have better luck:luck::LotsofLove:Noemi and Girlsway, I'm so sorry if you don't get your BFP this month. But I will say I'm grateful to have girrls to share this journey with!
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Girlswaylondon
December 31st, 2017, 01:21 PM
Annnnnd the spotting has stopped again, I feel like my cycle is purposely playing tricks on me at this rate lol!
mummy2boys
December 31st, 2017, 01:46 PM
How annoying girlsway! Hope it decides either way for you so you aren't in limbo much longer.
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Girlswaylondon
December 31st, 2017, 02:17 PM
Thanks, mummy! Are you from the uk too?
Pbn3
December 31st, 2017, 04:04 PM
Mummy2boys and GirlswayHGmama will you both be getting another attempt in?
Girlswaylondon when you are spotting is it persistent or just once or twice when you wipe? Confusing indeed! Hopefully tomorrows temp will shed more light!
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mwilson
December 31st, 2017, 04:47 PM
Mwilson I've seen several ladies get pos opks that early in their cycle only to not ovulate (confirmed by temping) and go on to get another pos opk (sometimes more) a few days later or even a week or so later. (Filzma - sound familiar [emoji6]) Can you do an opk today just out of curiosity? I'd keep testing in future up to cd17 at least with a 27 -29 day cycle unless of course you are 110% positive you've oed. Alternatively maybe try and stick to e4d next cycle (the every 72 hour version) from say cd7 or 8 through to cd17/18? Let us know how the opk goes and you never know todays attempt very well may count! Or if you have oed then your cd11 attempt is well timed.
Don't give up hope [emoji173] It will happen, and at the end of the day you have zero chance of a girl if you cant get pregnant. A relaxed LE diet is better than none at all. Hang in there!!
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Didn’t do an opk yesterday, forgot. But did one today and negative.
HGmama
December 31st, 2017, 05:09 PM
Mummy2boys and GirlswayHGmama will you both be getting another attempt in?
Girlswaylondon when you are spotting is it persistent or just once or twice when you wipe? Confusing indeed! Hopefully tomorrows temp will shed more light!
Sent from my SM-G900I using TapatalkNope. I am a little too sick. I am dopped up on Sudafed, nose sprays, humidifiers, etc. And of course, I can't find my thermometer when I woke up this morning. Ugh! Asked my 2 year old and he says "byebye."
Do you know if I can just change my screen name to HGmama?
When are you due pbn3? What's your story?
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Girlswaylondon
December 31st, 2017, 08:19 PM
Pbn - once or twice when I wipe!!
Happy new year everyone!
Noemi2017
January 1st, 2018, 04:28 AM
Hello girlsway and Happy new year to all girls here. This cycle is strange, af still didnt arrive and bfn:( i have the longest luteal phase i ever had:(
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Girlswaylondon
January 1st, 2018, 05:54 AM
Af still isn’t here for me either! :/
Noemi2017
January 1st, 2018, 06:13 AM
Pbn3 look pls at my chart, i did test this morning and nothing but after 2 hours i found this: im really confused 38519
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Noemi2017
January 1st, 2018, 06:14 AM
Could i be pregnant even with lower temperature?
Girlswaylondon
January 1st, 2018, 06:16 AM
Omg! Take another one noemi!
Noemi2017
January 1st, 2018, 06:24 AM
I really wish this is my Christmas miracle:pray:but i see my strange temperature...so i dont know what to think. I will test tomorrow morning again just time will show...
Girlswaylondon
January 1st, 2018, 06:27 AM
Af just arrived for me so I’m out but hoping it’s your month!
Pbn3
January 1st, 2018, 07:01 AM
Noemi I'd love to get excited but if that line wasn't there when you tested this morning I wouldn't trust it being 2 hours later [emoji17] Am really really looking forward to you testing in the morning though!!!! And your temp is well above coverline still so I'd say your good there! Between a longer than usual lp, temp still up and a 'possible' line you have a good chance of being pregnant fx fx fx!!!! Wish it wasn't so far away until your morning [emoji23] Have you had much fluids this morning? Can you poas again and post a pic taken at 10 minutes??!!!!
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Pbn3
January 1st, 2018, 07:02 AM
Girlswaylondon sorry af has arrived but glad you're out of limbo xo
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Girlswaylondon
January 1st, 2018, 07:07 AM
I agree take another test today Noemi!!
Thanks pbn gonna try e4d this month! Not gonna bother with opk but quite enjoying temping although I read you shouldn’t temp ttc girl because it can become obsessive! :oops:
Pbn3
January 1st, 2018, 07:08 AM
GirlswayHGmama if you create a thread under introductions maybe? and ask about changing your username, a site moderator (Atomic or Nuthinbutpink) should be able to help out [emoji4]
That sucks that your thermometer has gone awol [emoji22] will you get another and continue temping? Sorry to hear you're ill and hope you get better really soon. I cant help but wonder if you oed cd20 or not as if we were to remove cd18's temp (the one you had the sore throat on) then its possible you've hit post o temps. Without this mornings though (Sundays) its impossible to know as its quite common to o up to 48 hours after pos opk. Was cd19 a blaring pos or cd20's? I guess if you resume temping once you've got a new thermometer and you're feeling better we'll get an idea of where your post o temps usually sit around...
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Pbn3
January 1st, 2018, 07:09 AM
Oh and I'm due 18th January but going in 10th for scheduled csection (don't get to try naturally [emoji17])
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Pbn3
January 1st, 2018, 07:12 AM
Girlswaylondon I loved temping too! I felt far less stressed knowing where I was at rather then just assuming [emoji23] I enjoyed watching my chart progress!!
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Filzma
January 1st, 2018, 07:36 AM
Girlswaylondon, I had the same thing happen to me 2 days before AF. Surprisingly was super relieved when she showed.
Neomi that looks really good. When you said temps had gone down, I assumed it was at cover line. I hope its a bfp. We need at least 1!![emoji846][emoji120]
mummy2boys
January 1st, 2018, 08:35 AM
Girlsway, sorry AF came, glad limbo is over! Yes, I'm Uk too [emoji106]
Had an attempt this morning pbn but I'm fairly sure I've already ovulated now anyway.
Had way too much to drink at a party last night, would that affect anything? Like stop a pregnancy happening? I wasn't going to drink but I've been putting my life on hold for so long now and that's not worked either [emoji17]
Noemi, test again!!! 🤞
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HGmama
January 1st, 2018, 09:56 AM
GirlswayHGmama if you create a thread under introductions maybe? and ask about changing your username, a site moderator (Atomic or Nuthinbutpink) should be able to help out [emoji4]
That sucks that your thermometer has gone awol [emoji22] will you get another and continue temping? Sorry to hear you're ill and hope you get better really soon. I cant help but wonder if you oed cd20 or not as if we were to remove cd18's temp (the one you had the sore throat on) then its possible you've hit post o temps. Without this mornings though (Sundays) its impossible to know as its quite common to o up to 48 hours after pos opk. Was cd19 a blaring pos or cd20's? I guess if you resume temping once you've got a new thermometer and you're feeling better we'll get an idea of where your post o temps usually sit around...
Sent from my SM-G900I using TapatalkI'll ask. I didn't intentionally steal GirlswayLondon's start. I must have saw it and it was stuck in my brain as an idea.
Used my son's thermometer and my temp appropriately spiked. That coupled with the pain, I'm sure I ovulated. I started puking yesterday evening. I think it was all the mucous upsetting my stomach. No way it could be pregnancy nausea. Not possible. FF is marking my ovulation at cd20 and I agree. https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180101/c8c62a940cf482e41669553d25a8afed.jpg
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Pbn3
January 1st, 2018, 04:47 PM
Agree cd20 does look good :) what dpo will you test? I wouldn't worry about having a similar name at all! There's plenty of almost identical usernames on here.
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Pbn3
January 1st, 2018, 04:50 PM
Mummy2boys don't worry about having a big drink! Good for you for letting loose!! I say it can only help relax you. I personally wouldn't drink past 5dpo but plenty of people drink till its pink....
Noemi wth!!!! Where are you???!!!! We need you to POAS!!!!!!! Stat!!!!! [emoji23][emoji23]
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Eighme
January 1st, 2018, 04:51 PM
Fingers crossed for a BFP for you Noemi!
This particular cycle for me has been so wonky. I'm ready to attempt for this month with better knowledge!
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Pbn3
January 1st, 2018, 05:46 PM
Eighme what cd are you on? Were you doing an e4d pattern (72 hour version) this cycle??
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HGmama
January 1st, 2018, 05:53 PM
Thinking I'll test 9dpo to start getting a baseline. I'm going to get a 3 pack of FRER and hopefully do them 11, 12, 13 dpo....unless I see something starting on the wondos. Maybe I'll have the patience for the plan. Haha. I seriously wanted to start POAS. This 1WW of anxiousness and being sick has me having mixed feelings. Not looking forward to the hours with the toliet.
How long did everyone else wait? FRER VS something else?
Agree Noemi needs to POAS again!!!!
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Filzma
January 1st, 2018, 05:58 PM
We might have to start a petition to get Neomi to poas [emoji848]
Pbn3
January 1st, 2018, 06:26 PM
I'll sign!! I imagine she might be in bed by now 🖓🖓[emoji23] and we'll have about an 8 hour wait ahead of us [emoji30]
GirlswayHGmama that sounds like a good poas plan but good luck holding out on the frers that long [emoji6] please don't ask me for support to hold off testing as I'll only encourage you instead [emoji23] (former poas addict) #wouldstartat7dpo #poasmorethanonceaday #asif3hourswasgoingtochangeresult #spentanembarrassingamountonhpts[emoji85]
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Girlswaylondon
January 1st, 2018, 06:35 PM
Noemi you have the will power of a saint! I would be testing every hour LOL!
HGmama
January 1st, 2018, 06:41 PM
Hahahaha.... love the hashtags! I'm so glad I have this forum. My hubs wishes that we don't tell people we are trying, so therefore I can't have these convos with anyone else. This upcoming weekend we have a funeral to attend. My uncle passed away in an accident, so that will be enough stress as it is. So need to keep it at 9dpo.
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Eighme
January 1st, 2018, 09:02 PM
Eighme what cd are you on? Were you doing an e4d pattern (72 hour version) this cycle??
Sent from my SM-G900I using TapatalkPbn I'm CD3. I think I'm going to give one attempt another try this month while charting temp and see how that works for me!
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Pbn3
January 1st, 2018, 09:25 PM
Pbn I'm CD3. I think I'm going to give one attempt another try this month while charting temp and see how that works for me!
Sent from my SM-G950U using TapatalkOh yay!!! Post a link to your chart!!
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Pbn3
January 2nd, 2018, 02:45 AM
Cmon Noemi!!!! Show us a bfp!!! Look at how your temp has plateaued!!!
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Girlswaylondon
January 2nd, 2018, 04:19 AM
I got a feeling it’s your time Noemi :)
Noemi2017
January 2nd, 2018, 04:25 AM
Girls so i tested this morning and bfn:( im 14dpo i expected af on Sunday and temperature is still the same. I dont have experience with it but i think it is miscarrage what do u think? With my son i have bfp already 10dpo and temperature much higher...now i must wait:( really horrible
Girlswaylondon
January 2nd, 2018, 04:38 AM
Noemi I’ve googked (a lot) in the past and some women don’t get bfps till so much later!!
Your temp is still above the cover line I noticed in your other chart it dropped?! Do you have first response test?
Pbn3
January 2nd, 2018, 04:44 AM
Noemi if this is a chemical you'd still have seen a line. Can you not get an frer? I think you said these tests are supposed to be 10mIU sensitivity but I'd trust an frer more than IC's...
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Noemi2017
January 2nd, 2018, 04:48 AM
Girlsway thx u, yes temperature is still the same not high not low but in my first pregnancy was much higher so i dont have big hope. Do u think digital pregnancy test? I can buy today clear blue digital and test in the afternoon
Noemi2017
January 2nd, 2018, 04:52 AM
Pbn3 they dont sell here frer:( i can order from uk but it takes time till they arrive
Girlswaylondon
January 2nd, 2018, 04:54 AM
Noemi my fingers are crossed for you either way hope you get out of limbo it’s horrible not knowing what’s going on, I know! :heart: :heart:
Noemi2017
January 2nd, 2018, 05:06 AM
Thx u Girlsway:bighug:really i wish bfp or af comes...i wish January is your winner and u get bfp:) and for all girls:fingers:
Pbn3
January 2nd, 2018, 05:36 AM
Noemi yes a clearblue digi will give you an accurate answer especially since af is overdue.
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Eighme
January 2nd, 2018, 10:42 AM
Noemi, hoping AF isn't on her way and you see a BFP today!
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Girlswaylondon
January 2nd, 2018, 12:36 PM
So I’ve decided to do e4d this month and no opk! Last month I did a e5d sort of thing so hoping this gives me better odds! 3 Months trying already I knew it could take a while but it’s hard when you’re atually in it!
May I ask how long it took everyone with now and previous pregnancies?
Noemi2017
January 2nd, 2018, 01:29 PM
I tested with clear blue and negative:( something is wrong, i hope to get af soon. 38526 or maybe i should go to see my doctor? Never happend to me before
Eighme
January 2nd, 2018, 02:10 PM
I tested with clear blue and negative:( something is wrong, i hope to get af soon. 38526 or maybe i should go to see my doctor? Never happend to me beforeHow late is AF? My cycle was the weirdest it has been yet and I was two days late. I had extreme mood swing, tender breasts, and was really hungry. I was worried I was pregnant and just not getting a positive. But my period showed up later than usual
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Noemi2017
January 2nd, 2018, 02:20 PM
Eighme i am 2 days late 14dpo, my luteal phase is around 10-12 days, i hope af comes in few days.
Eighme
January 2nd, 2018, 02:22 PM
Eighme i am 2 days late 14dpo, my luteal phase is around 10-12 days, i hope af comes in few days.I hope you get a BFP or AF comes really soon. The limbo and waiting was the worst part for me.
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Girlswaylondon
January 2nd, 2018, 02:42 PM
Noemi same thing happened to me last month my LP is always 12 days but was 14! :(
Star4012
January 2nd, 2018, 04:01 PM
Hey ladies! Popping in to say. "Hi" and to see how you all are doing? I'm on CD6... and have 1 more dose of Clomid to do tomorrow... We are planning on BD E4D (72 hour version) .... my question to you all-- when should I start BD for this pattern? I finished AF 2 days ago so now I'm just in limbo until I start testing with my opks on about 4 days....
Last cycle (my first round of Clomid days 5-9) I had a positive OPK on CD13 and Ovulated on CD14. Without Clomid, I usually Ovulate early-- like CD9. I took my second dose (this current cycle) days 3-7.... do you think I'll O on CD14 again? If so, should I wait to start BD E4D starting tomorrow?
I know I'm probably looking into this way more than I should [emoji23]
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Pbn3
January 2nd, 2018, 05:45 PM
Star hi! I would start e3d now as in today. I also wouldn't worry about opks unless you plan on adding an attempt as it will just stress you out if see a pos opk (that may or may not darken more) on a non scheduled day. Not doing opks takes away thay pressure of 'do I, don't I' You'll be charting right? So we'll be able to see when you o by temps. Up to you but I've seen it time and time again when people choose an every#days bd pattern only to come undone by an opk that has sometimes been then sometimes not been their pos opk. They have themselves in knots trying to decide whether to add an attempt or not and that kind of stress and obsessing is terrible for conceiving. Opks are great for blue swayers and pink swayers looking at doing one attempt at pos opk OR adding an attempt in with their e4d. If you're doing a e4d 72 version I would leave them out. Again though it's entirely up to you [emoji4]
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Pbn3
January 2nd, 2018, 05:48 PM
Noemi big hugs xxoo Give it a few days before seeing a doctor. I cant tell you how many times I've seen peoples normally by the book cycle go out the window when ttc, my own included.
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ABC.2606
January 2nd, 2018, 10:09 PM
Hey all - I'm back, sort of :) I got really busy with the holidays and then was out of town this past week visiting my DH's family. We've had crazy amounts of sickness in our family - respiratory stuff throughout all of December and now stomach bugs (my boys have had it - thankfully DH and I have not gotten it yet but several family members have, and I don't think DH and I are "in the clear" yet - still waiting to see if it hits us). I'm on day 19 since my m/c bleeding started - I *think* I've ovulated again but I'm not really sure as I haven't really been tracking things. Did a couple of Wondfo OPKs around Christmas day/day after that were I think almost but not quite positive, had a lot of EWCM around then too, and I think my temp has shifted but the mornings I have taken it, I took it much later than usual and on bad sleep. Going to try to check again tomorrow morning. I'm thinking AF will arrive anytime from the next couple of days to early next week, and then I should be able to get back on Clomid and attempt again in a few weeks from now. My diet over the holidays was not great - not terrible, but not great. Several cheat days so I'm worried about that :( Trying to get back on track the next few weeks. I've still been exercising some so I have that, and coffee/alcohol, and soon Clomid again. But I'm feeling sort of defeated about the whole sway thing - this has been such a long and trying process up until now and still no baby girl growing inside me. :( Just feel like it can't happen for me. So whatever - we'll see what happens. I guess I'm more relaxed about things now - 9 months of swaying, 6 months of ttc, and 2 m/c will do that to you.
I haven't been able to read through all the posts from this board and not sure I'll be able to. I'm sorry girlsway that AF found you again. E4d sounds like a good plan. Noemi - sorry you're in limbo :( Good luck Star!! Eighme I can't remember if we've interacted before but hi!!! Hi Filzma!! Hi Mummy2boys!! Hi GirlSwayHGMama!! Pbn OMG your baby is coming soon!!!!!!! I CAN'T WAIT!!! Sorry for anyone I missed on here!
Pbn3
January 2nd, 2018, 10:37 PM
Great to hear from you Abc!!! Sorry to hear you've all been battling illness [emoji22] but glad to hear it sounds as though your new cycle is due to start! I go into hospital one week from today [emoji322][emoji322] I would have had my csection and be snuggling my newborn right now this time next week!!! Cant wait!!
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ABC.2606
January 2nd, 2018, 10:59 PM
Ahhh that's amazing Pbn!! Enjoy your last week!!!!!!
ABC.2606
January 2nd, 2018, 11:01 PM
Pbn - just sent you a PM!
Eighme
January 2nd, 2018, 11:33 PM
Hey all - I'm back, sort of :) I got really busy with the holidays and then was out of town this past week visiting my DH's family. We've had crazy amounts of sickness in our family - respiratory stuff throughout all of December and now stomach bugs (my boys have had it - thankfully DH and I have not gotten it yet but several family members have, and I don't think DH and I are "in the clear" yet - still waiting to see if it hits us). I'm on day 19 since my m/c bleeding started - I *think* I've ovulated again but I'm not really sure as I haven't really been tracking things. Did a couple of Wondfo OPKs around Christmas day/day after that were I think almost but not quite positive, had a lot of EWCM around then too, and I think my temp has shifted but the mornings I have taken it, I took it much later than usual and on bad sleep. Going to try to check again tomorrow morning. I'm thinking AF will arrive anytime from the next couple of days to early next week, and then I should be able to get back on Clomid and attempt again in a few weeks from now. My diet over the holidays was not great - not terrible, but not great. Several cheat days so I'm worried about that :( Trying to get back on track the next few weeks. I've still been exercising some so I have that, and coffee/alcohol, and soon Clomid again. But I'm feeling sort of defeated about the whole sway thing - this has been such a long and trying process up until now and still no baby girl growing inside me. :( Just feel like it can't happen for me. So whatever - we'll see what happens. I guess I'm more relaxed about things now - 9 months of swaying, 6 months of ttc, and 2 m/c will do that to you.
I haven't been able to read through all the posts from this board and not sure I'll be able to. I'm sorry girlsway that AF found you again. E4d sounds like a good plan. Noemi - sorry you're in limbo :( Good luck Star!! Eighme I can't remember if we've interacted before but hi!!! Hi Filzma!! Hi Mummy2boys!! Hi GirlSwayHGMama!! Pbn OMG your baby is coming soon!!!!!!! I CAN'T WAIT!!! Sorry for anyone I missed on here!Hi And! I don't think we have! Welcome back and I'm so happy to meet you! Sending well wishes to you and your family!
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mtolbert1
January 2nd, 2018, 11:46 PM
ABC! So happy to hear from you! My Tapatalk messenger is messed up so I can see you messaged me but can't open it or reply! Will you try to send me a chat on here? Maybe then I can reply!
Sorry to all the ladies who got AF or are in limbo! I know the feeling. I read everything on the TWW threads but just haven't gotten in the swing of posting again since my 2nd m/c. I will try to do better!!
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mtolbert1
January 2nd, 2018, 11:52 PM
As far as me, I'm CD 3 but AF is super weird this go round. Heavy bleeding CD 1 and absolutely nothing since! I'm on another round of femara and feeling so worried as this may be the last dose my Dr will prescribe. I was swaying pink, but I just don't care anymore at this point. I just want a healthy baby. I'm ready to get back to to temping and I invested in digital opks and preseed! FX and baby dust to you all!
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ABC.2606
January 3rd, 2018, 12:16 AM
Hi And! I don't think we have! Welcome back and I'm so happy to meet you! Sending well wishes to you and your family!
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Thanks same to you Eighme!!!
ABC.2606
January 3rd, 2018, 12:21 AM
mtolbert yay good to hear from you! I was getting worried!! Sorry your tapatalk is messed up!! And sorry about the weird AF. The cycle in November I got pregnant on my AF was really weird - super light the first day, heavy the second day and then super super light again. The m/c I had in December was also really weird - spotting the first day, heavy bleeding for about 1/2 a day and then really light bleeding for a few more days. I told doc about it and he said it was probably b/c my hormone levels were so low. I'm thinking though that those meds (I'm on Clomid not femara, but still) can really mess with AF/bleeding. Hopefully that's why yours was off. Aren't you only on cycle 2 of Femara? Does your doc only allow 2 cycles on it? Have you tried Clomid yet - can your doc switch you to that if this cycle on Femara doesn't work?
Girlswaylondon
January 3rd, 2018, 04:17 AM
Lovely to hear from you abc!! :) how long are your cycles usually? Will you be ttc in January? Glad we are ttc along side each other!
Noemi how are you this morning?
Filzma
January 3rd, 2018, 04:24 AM
ABC and mtolbert, good to see you both. Hoping and praying all goes well and that we all get these elusive bfps as well as healthy happy babies at the end of it.
I can also attest to cycles going crazy, AF was heavy and has lasted longer than usual this time. Cd32 last month unlike the usual cd 27/28. Neomi, don’t worry too much, you’ll know soon enough xx
Pbn3 how time flies!! [emoji33]
Noemi2017
January 3rd, 2018, 05:16 AM
Girls very strong witch arrived this morning, i knew something was wrong so i prayed it finished and i can start again. Good luck this month for all sweet girl here and thx for support:kissy:
Pbn3
January 3rd, 2018, 06:20 AM
Big hugs Noemi but glad you're out of limbo land. All the very best for your next cycle xxoo
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Girlswaylondon
January 3rd, 2018, 08:01 AM
The witch played tricked on us both this month Noemi! On to January! :D
Noemi2017
January 3rd, 2018, 08:10 AM
Yes it was strange month, i have feeling i was pregnant but something was wrong:( maybe implantation maybe embryo was damaged who knows...
ABC.2606
January 3rd, 2018, 10:17 AM
Lovely to hear from you abc!! :) how long are your cycles usually? Will you be ttc in January? Glad we are ttc along side each other!
Noemi how are you this morning?
Girlsway my cycles are normally 24 days.... The first month I was on Clomid (when we got a BFN) I think it was 25/26. Have no idea how long it will be this cycle since I'm just off a m/c but my temp this morning was definitely high so I think I probably did O already. I'm hoping AF comes this weekend or early next week. Yup - we'll definitely be ttc this month. Come on January bfps for both of us! (And all of us on here!)
ABC.2606
January 3rd, 2018, 10:18 AM
Sorry AF came Noemi!! On to another month!!
Eighme
January 3rd, 2018, 01:13 PM
Sorry to hear about AF, Noemi. I will say. I'm grateful to have all you lovely ladies company this month!
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Filzma
January 3rd, 2018, 02:13 PM
I wouldn’t be too worried Noemi.[emoji846]
I really hope this is all our month.[emoji5]
Feeling really positive and ready to start. Let’s do this girls!
My vitD ran out- need to stock up.
HGmama
January 3rd, 2018, 02:21 PM
Well I MAY, repeat MAY, have had an implantation dip yesterday! We did find my thermometer. It was stuck in the clean laundry. I truly say MAY because I'm still having the after effects of being sick so I could have had my mouth open a little too much when sleeping. Also been getting poor sleep due to this sickness.
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ABC.2606
January 3rd, 2018, 04:53 PM
FX GirlSwayHGmama!!
mtolbert1
January 3rd, 2018, 11:25 PM
Abc- Yes I agree I think it may be chlomid/femara that makes the cycles wacky! Can you add me on FB messenger? It's easier for me to message that way! This is my 3rd round of femara since my most recent m/c and she wants to monitor me on it this go round. That's the only way she'll continue to prescribe it. The problem is, insurance doesn't cover the monitoring and I'm not sure if I have to pay out of pocket up front or if they'll bill me. It is SO hard to reach my Dr so I don't have answers yet. I went back and forth with her staff today so maybe I'll have some answers tomorrow..
Hey Flizma! Good to hear from you! Yeah these weird cycles are awful and confusing!!! What CD are you now? Will you remind me what you're swaying?
Noemi- I'm sorry AF came, but I know it is relieving to be out of limbo! This past cycle I was late and not 2 mins after I took my last FRER AF came.
Girlswayhg- FX it was an implantation dip!!!I'm sorry you're sick and I hope you get to feeling better!!
Hey Eighme, and star! FX for you both this cycle!! I think im close to the same days in my cycle as you both! I am CD 4 today.
Hey girlswaylondon! Sorry to see AF tricked you too! I was so sure this was going to be my BFP but the witch tricked me too! What CD are you now?? FX for you!
Mummy! How are you??? I've been wondering about you and praying for you! Hope to see your BFP any day now!!!
I hope I got everyone! FX so tight for us all!!
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mtolbert1
January 3rd, 2018, 11:29 PM
Oh and PBN- I can't wait for the 10th!!!! I know you must be so ready to meet this long awaited baby! What about your boys?? They must be so excited too!!!
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Pbn3
January 4th, 2018, 04:53 AM
Mtolbert I'm now officially ready! My sons back to school and bday (5 days after csection) is organised and my hospital bag is packed! 6 more sleeps woohoo!!!
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Filzma
January 4th, 2018, 04:56 AM
Hey mtolbert1! I’m at cd9 this morning. Swaying boy. Not sure how many are, but we seem to be minority around here. It makes sense as I only see baby boys and toddler boys everywhere lately. [emoji7][emoji3]
Filzma
January 4th, 2018, 04:59 AM
Pbn3 your knowledge, experience and invaluable help will totally be missed around here. Can you not split yourself between hospital and here? [emoji17][emoji5] jk, I’m super excited for your new addition. Hope everything goes well for you and baby. Xx
Pbn3
January 4th, 2018, 06:32 AM
Filzma I wont be far away! I'll check in when I can plus I have chart links to stalk [emoji12] being in hospital with a newborn will be a holiday compared to being at home [emoji23][emoji23]
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mwilson
January 4th, 2018, 08:48 AM
I caved and tested early. Either 8/9 dpo unless I o’d late and bfn.
HGmama
January 4th, 2018, 09:22 AM
Pbn3- six sleeps!!! Love it. Can't believe you have a birthday party 5 days post though! Busy lady!!!
As for seeing boys everywhere--- I just keep seeing pregnant bellies. Had a dream two nights ago about girl vs boy. I had a little boy in my grocery cart who was not my son and was admiring this little black girl with pig tails. I'm white.
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Georgia_Peach
January 4th, 2018, 09:34 AM
So excited for you Pbn. You're so close!
Afm.. I am 9 or 10 dpo today and been getting faint second lines on frers but nothing on my cheapies. By this point it should be getting darker than what it is I think.
I'm only 4 days away to starting my ivf cycle. I am anxious but so excited to think that this journey might all soon be over. We are hoping to have some healthy girl embryos!
Girlswaylondon
January 4th, 2018, 10:05 AM
So excited for you pbn glad you won’t be gone complertely I need my chart stalker! :highfive:
Eighme
January 4th, 2018, 11:54 AM
Abc- Yes I agree I think it may be chlomid/femara that makes the cycles wacky! Can you add me on FB messenger? It's easier for me to message that way! This is my 3rd round of femara since my most recent m/c and she wants to monitor me on it this go round. That's the only way she'll continue to prescribe it. The problem is, insurance doesn't cover the monitoring and I'm not sure if I have to pay out of pocket up front or if they'll bill me. It is SO hard to reach my Dr so I don't have answers yet. I went back and forth with her staff today so maybe I'll have some answers tomorrow..
Hey Flizma! Good to hear from you! Yeah these weird cycles are awful and confusing!!! What CD are you now? Will you remind me what you're swaying?
Noemi- I'm sorry AF came, but I know it is relieving to be out of limbo! This past cycle I was late and not 2 mins after I took my last FRER AF came.
Girlswayhg- FX it was an implantation dip!!!I'm sorry you're sick and I hope you get to feeling better!!
Hey Eighme, and star! FX for you both this cycle!! I think im close to the same days in my cycle as you both! I am CD 4 today.
Hey girlswaylondon! Sorry to see AF tricked you too! I was so sure this was going to be my BFP but the witch tricked me too! What CD are you now?? FX for you!
Mummy! How are you??? I've been wondering about you and praying for you! Hope to see your BFP any day now!!!
I hope I got everyone! FX so tight for us all!!
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Mtolbert, that's great! I love having people so close! It's so cool to get to watch everyone else's cycles along with yours!
Girlswaylondon
January 4th, 2018, 12:19 PM
Mtol im cycle day 4/5 so a while to go till O! Thank you :)
Star4012
January 4th, 2018, 12:48 PM
Hey ladies!! I just got home from my appt for my followup about my ultrasound last month. From that ultrasound and the findings of it, my doc feels pretty certain that I have PCOS... based on a bunch of different factors. He said that pregnitude will help, and that he's also prescribing me metformin to be taking in conjunction with Clomid. He wants me to start that immediately, but I'm kinda hesitant and want to wait until next cycle since I'm close to O (ovulation) day. Anyone have experience with metformin?
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mtolbert1
January 4th, 2018, 12:56 PM
Hey ladies!! I just got home from my appt for my followup about my ultrasound last month. From that ultrasound and the findings of it, my doc feels pretty certain that I have PCOS... based on a bunch of different factors. He said that pregnitude will help, and that he's also prescribing me metformin to be taking in conjunction with Clomid. He wants me to start that immediately, but I'm kinda hesitant and want to wait until next cycle since I'm close to O (ovulation) day. Anyone have experience with metformin?
Sent from my SM-G950U using TapatalkHey Star! I take metformin and have been for nearly a year now. I started taking it immediately but my Dr prescribed it a month before she prescribed me femara so I had no worries about ovulation. I say do what you're comfortable with. For me, metformin has made such a difference in my cycles. I went from having a period maybe once every 3-4 months to now having 30-32 day cycles.
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mtolbert1
January 4th, 2018, 12:58 PM
Mtol im cycle day 4/5 so a while to go till O! Thank you :)It seems like time is going by so slow! I wish we could skip straight to O!
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Girlswaylondon
January 4th, 2018, 01:00 PM
What are your periods like star? Mine are regular luckily and I have pcos, never been on meds for it and concieved my son naturally.
The le pcos diet has made me periods shorter and lighter which is great!
mtolbert1
January 4th, 2018, 01:01 PM
Mtolbert I'm now officially ready! My sons back to school and bday (5 days after csection) is organised and my hospital bag is packed! 6 more sleeps woohoo!!!
Sent from my SM-G900I using TapatalkWow you've got a birthday party 5 days later! How awesome your babies birthdays will be so close together!! I'm so excited for you and can't wait to get the update that baby has arrived!!!
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Star4012
January 4th, 2018, 01:02 PM
Hey Star! I take metformin and have been for nearly a year now. I started taking it immediately but my Dr prescribed it a month before she prescribed me femara so I had no worries about ovulation. I say do what you're comfortable with. For me, metformin has made such a difference in my cycles. I went from having a period maybe once every 3-4 months to now having 30-32 day cycles.
Sent from my XT1585 using TapatalkThank you for such a quick reply! I booked myself a bunch of appts all in one day so I'm trying to catch up while waiting for lunch at Applebees lol My concern is that I'm on CD8 after taking Clomid days 3-7, and I started Pregnitude on CD1... will metformin induce my period again or will that have no factor? I'm DTD E4D (72 hour version)... will it help me this cycle? Hmmm... [emoji848][emoji848] I really need to research it
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Pbn3
January 4th, 2018, 01:31 PM
Thanks ladies [emoji3] and just thought I'd mention there's no birthday party as such, it will just be the 5 of us and my mum as I was too worried about exposing a newborn to other kids at 5 days old. I have promised my ds1 a birthday party next year. I just wanted to make the most of it for him being so low key so he got to choose his cake theme and flavour and what he would like present wise [emoji4]
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Filzma
January 4th, 2018, 01:54 PM
Pbn3 thats a brilliant lad you have. No fuss, no tantrums? A sibling is present enough though. My brother and I share a birthday week and it was always special. My mum went over the top for us.[emoji177]
Pbn3
January 4th, 2018, 02:38 PM
I might be a bit of a meanie as I've always said I'm not doing birthday parties until my kids start school [emoji23] family ones (that involve extended family) yes of course! But the ones with friends, games, lolly bags etc I've been saving for when they have school friends [emoji87] He's only turning 6 so plenty of time parties I say [emoji6]
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Pbn3
January 4th, 2018, 02:39 PM
You and your share a birthday!!!! Wow what are the odds??!! Unless you're a twin of course [emoji12]
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Pbn3
January 4th, 2018, 02:41 PM
Star I thought there was a blood test that can confirm pcos or is he certain from your u/s results? Also there's a pcos version of the diet you may want to look at [emoji4]
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Pbn3
January 4th, 2018, 02:47 PM
http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gender-swaying-general-discussion/9052-swaying-under-special-circumstances-part-3-pcos.html
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HGmama
January 4th, 2018, 08:12 PM
My FRER comes in the mail tomorrow.... question is, will I cave and test at 9dpo with a FRER? That's a probably.....[emoji849].
I know it's my first month TTC, but I'm like some people are lucky... could it be me?
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Pbn3
January 4th, 2018, 09:05 PM
Ooooh!!! Good luck GirlswayHGmama!!! Hope we get a squinter to obsess about [emoji3]
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Star4012
January 4th, 2018, 10:06 PM
Star I thought there was a blood test that can confirm pcos or is he certain from your u/s results? Also there's a pcos version of the diet you may want to look at [emoji4]
Sent from my SM-G900I using TapatalkThanks for linking it! I'm really going to have to study nutrition to understand what it all means.
I had blood work, an endometrial biopsy, and ultrasound done ... blood work had a few levels off, biopsy was good, and ultrasound found several bead-like cysts as well as a few follicles just staying put. Amongst this, and other things my doc said he was confident it was PCOS. He also told me that prior to my ultrasound, he was leaning towards it being PCOS but waited to confirm it with the ultrasound.
I went ahead and took the metformin.... My doc also told me that when Clomid and metformin are used together, they work extremely well-- and I've read on here that both sway pink! I'm currently on CD8, just took Clomid days 3-7.... now just waiting to O. :)
Thanks for the tips ladies!!
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Pbn3
January 5th, 2018, 12:25 AM
Good luck star!!!
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ABC.2606
January 5th, 2018, 12:45 AM
Mtolbert I sent you a friend request on here is that what you meant? Or did you mean Facebook? Ugh, your insurance wont cover the ultrasounds? That sucks! Does she want you to do one per cycle around O? I'm sorry your doc isn't easier to stay in contact with - that would drive me nuts! Hopefully this is your BFP cycle!!
Robin eeek can you post your faint lines? 9/10 dpo is still early!!!
Star that sounds positive that your doctor was able to make a diagnosis and you can now get the treatment you need! FX that you get a BFP and a girl!!!
So Filzma is CD9, mtolbert is CD4, girlswaylondon is CD4/5, Star is CD8, mwilson is 8/9 dpo, Robin is 9/10 dpo, and GirlSwayHGMama is 9/10 dpo? Who else am I missing? Eighme and Noemi - what days are you on? You all are waaaaay further along than me as I'm still waiting for AF to start :(
Pbn I've had that same view that no big parties until school age, although I guess we may break down and do a party for my oldest who turns 5 at the end of the month (which means I need to start planning like yesterday haha!). Just a party at our home w/ family and a few of his school friends. Ugh the whole party planning for a kid thing just seems like so much work! :) :) That's awesome that you will have two kids close together!! January birthdays are fun too :) My son's birthday always gives me something to look forward to after all the excitement of the holidays is over.
essnce629
January 5th, 2018, 03:51 AM
Pbn3 I just wanted to jump in and say I'm so excited for you!!!! I guess I've been off the boards for so long that I didn't even know you were pregnant!!! Are you team green? I'll have to check back in in 5 days!
Pbn3
January 5th, 2018, 07:56 AM
Hi essnce!!! Omg haven't seen you forever!! Yes 5 sleeps till csection of my team green baby [emoji3] I fell pregnant the cycle I stopped trying from a random (drunken [emoji87]) bd that I didn't think would have any chance of conception! I'd totally given up after 3 clomid cycles following my third loss last December and bam! How are you? How are things with dh?! Send me an update via pm if you prefer! I'd love to know you're ok and doing well [emoji173]
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Noemi2017
January 5th, 2018, 09:01 AM
Hello Abc im cd 3, i was really sad that i didnt go well last month but i hope to find soon bfp and all girls here too:)
Girlswaylondon
January 5th, 2018, 09:32 AM
Sorry I keep asking Noemi are you doing e4d? I want to but nervous on the success!
Filzma
January 5th, 2018, 01:34 PM
I know how you feel girlswaylondon. I’m overthinking things as well.
Anyone swaying blue? Boy mums, feel free to give me all the tips- I know there’s a whole thread on it...[emoji4]
Star4012
January 5th, 2018, 02:36 PM
Anyone on here take metformin with Clomid? So I started it, and today I'm sooo bloated and gassy-- very uncomfortable. Is this normal? I'm on a low dose 500mg. I was unsure if the pressure was from O pains so I took an OPK and it was negative.
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Star4012
January 5th, 2018, 02:40 PM
I know how you feel girlswaylondon. I’m overthinking things as well.
Anyone swaying blue? Boy mums, feel free to give me all the tips- I know there’s a whole thread on it...[emoji4]Filzma... I have 2 boys... the only thing I can think of that I've changed from my normal diet is red meats-- I ate a lot of steak, hamburgers etc when I got pregnant with both of my boys.. and we dtd on O day. I don't consume dairy at all (I have an intolerance)
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Star4012
January 5th, 2018, 02:42 PM
Sorry I keep asking Noemi are you doing e4d? I want to but nervous on the success!I'm doing e4d this cycle! I started it this past Tuesday so we will bd again tonight :) I'll let you know how it goes! I'm on CD9 right now
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Filzma
January 5th, 2018, 03:29 PM
Thanks star. Have added red meat to diet. Will increase number of times this week.[emoji120]
Star4012
January 5th, 2018, 03:47 PM
Thanks star. Have added red meat to diet. Will increase number of times this week.[emoji120]Will be praying for you!!!
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Noemi2017
January 5th, 2018, 04:50 PM
Hello Girlsway i still didnt decide:( im long time on diet, from April last year, im eating more this month and took 1kg:( maybe i need some break
ABC.2606
January 5th, 2018, 05:00 PM
I know how you feel girlswaylondon. I’m overthinking things as well.
Anyone swaying blue? Boy mums, feel free to give me all the tips- I know there’s a whole thread on it...[emoji4]
Filzma w/ my first boy, we BD'd the day before O and the night of O day, I think, and so might have only had 1 viable attempt. However everything else about my lifestyle was boy-friendly - ate TONS of breakfast cereal, lots of calories/nutrients, exercised sporadically, and had gained about 15 lbs in the months leading up to conception. Also, we used Pre Seed and I naturally make a lot of EWCM. W/ my 2nd I was still eating a lot/ no cereal/ no prenatals (folate, calcium and magnesium supplements only), and was carrying baby weight still from my first. With him we BD-d 5 or 6 days in a row through O day. So both times I had lots of boy-friendly elements to my lifestyle!
Girlswaylondon
January 5th, 2018, 06:08 PM
Noemi, Atomic told me to go to e4d for sure after 3 months 2 attempt, maybe you could too?
HGmama
January 5th, 2018, 11:04 PM
With my boy we had a fluke BD after what I thought was our fertile period. Maybe I O'd late. Strangely only one attempt. Our schedules didn't match up. BD was from behind. Chinese Lunar calendar wrong. I was doing a challenge group trying to lose weight and eating low calorie, but leading up to that month was over indulging on a Brazilian honeymoon so LOTS of red meat. But for the two previous weeks, drinking shakeology and eating very healthy. Working night shift so little good sleep. Wasn't drinking any alcohol during challenge. No soda. Eating lots of fruit.
^^that was from what I remembered.
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Eighme
January 5th, 2018, 11:31 PM
Filzma... I have 2 boys... the only thing I can think of that I've changed from my normal diet is red meats-- I ate a lot of steak, hamburgers etc when I got pregnant with both of my boys.. and we dtd on O day. I don't consume dairy at all (I have an intolerance)
Sent from my SM-G950U using TapatalkI just wanted to chime in on this too and say I had a VERY boy friendly lifestyle. I ate a lot of cereal/granola bars. Ate every three hours. Lots of meat, every dinner was meat based with a vegetable. Exercise if I felt like it (rarely). Snacking in excess and wasn't tracking anything. We BD'D a lot and I wasn't tracking anything to know when ovulation occurred.
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Eighme
January 5th, 2018, 11:34 PM
Mtolbert I sent you a friend request on here is that what you meant? Or did you mean Facebook? Ugh, your insurance wont cover the ultrasounds? That sucks! Does she want you to do one per cycle around O? I'm sorry your doc isn't easier to stay in contact with - that would drive me nuts! Hopefully this is your BFP cycle!!
Robin eeek can you post your faint lines? 9/10 dpo is still early!!!
Star that sounds positive that your doctor was able to make a diagnosis and you can now get the treatment you need! FX that you get a BFP and a girl!!!
So Filzma is CD9, mtolbert is CD4, girlswaylondon is CD4/5, Star is CD8, mwilson is 8/9 dpo, Robin is 9/10 dpo, and GirlSwayHGMama is 9/10 dpo? Who else am I missing? Eighme and Noemi - what days are you on? You all are waaaaay further along than me as I'm still waiting for AF to start :(
Pbn I've had that same view that no big parties until school age, although I guess we may break down and do a party for my oldest who turns 5 at the end of the month (which means I need to start planning like yesterday haha!). Just a party at our home w/ family and a few of his school friends. Ugh the whole party planning for a kid thing just seems like so much work! :) :) That's awesome that you will have two kids close together!! January birthdays are fun too :) My son's birthday always gives me something to look forward to after all the excitement of the holidays is over.ABC, I am CD7!
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Filzma
January 6th, 2018, 03:03 AM
Thank you so much ladies! This will keep me going. I feel really different this time ttc, my body feels heavier and nutrient dense if that makes any sense at all [emoji23] Just want to refocus myself and efforts on my goal. Sometimes I find myself slipping back to default.[emoji17] But here’s hoping this is all our month [emoji120][emoji177]
mwilson
January 6th, 2018, 08:12 AM
Feeling out. Negative test this morning, ff says I’m either 10/11 dpo. So probably out again unless implanted late or o’d late. But not feeling optimistic. Thought with going every 4 days I’d have all bases covered. Not sure what I’m doing wrong since my first two were so easy.
Star4012
January 6th, 2018, 10:23 AM
My temps have been wonky... like more wonky than what it was first round. High temps! I'm not sure what's going on!
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This is the first time I've used a link to my FF profile lol I hope I did it right!
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HGmama
January 6th, 2018, 11:21 AM
Feeling out. Negative test this morning, ff says I’m either 10/11 dpo. So probably out again unless implanted late or o’d late. But not feeling optimistic. Thought with going every 4 days I’d have all bases covered. Not sure what I’m doing wrong since my first two were so easy.Feeling the exact same. I'm 9dpo today and it was as negative as it can be. I think I'll hold out testing the FRER.
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mwilson
January 6th, 2018, 11:51 AM
I’ve been using the cheapies but did frer today and all white. I have another but I’ll save that one.
Georgia_Peach
January 6th, 2018, 11:58 AM
I'm out too girl's. 12dpo today and bfn. Oh well! Moving on
Filzma
January 6th, 2018, 12:46 PM
Don’t give up mwilson, HGmama and Robin. I hope it was late implantation and therefore late bfp.🤞
Star are you temping vag? Mine were the same last month but seem to have settled down this month. Don’t worry. [emoji6]
Star4012
January 6th, 2018, 01:05 PM
Don’t give up mwilson, HGmama and Robin. I hope it was late implantation and therefore late bfp.🤞
Star are you temping vag? Mine were the same last month but seem to have settled down this month. Don’t worry. [emoji6]Thanks hun. No, I'm using tempdrop... It's compatible to the ava bracelet... I've been using it for 6+ months and it's never been this wonky. I feel like the Clomid might have something to do with it. My opks are starting to get darker... I used the Clearblue OPK the past two days
The bottom pic with 3 purple tests are the Clearblue smiley opks-- top one yesterday am was hollow smiley (negative) the middle one was a flashing smiley and bottom was a flashing smiley (indicating LH surge)https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180106/b369392c3bef7099f802ef3bff74233c.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180106/264862beabf87cfcc91e5b6187efff15.jpg
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mummy2boys
January 6th, 2018, 02:01 PM
Don't give up yet ladies, my last bfp I didn't get till 14dpo.
I'm 9dpo and tested this morning (couldn't help myself) and I swear I could see the faintest, faint line. Can't see it now though so must have imagined it [emoji23]
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mwilson
January 6th, 2018, 02:18 PM
Picture???
mummy2boys
January 6th, 2018, 02:45 PM
https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180106/185e1be8cd392c6f4b514f008c748151.jpg
I honestly think I was imagining things. I've tilted it in every possible direction and looked under every light but I can't see it now lol
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mwilson
January 6th, 2018, 02:57 PM
https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180106/185e1be8cd392c6f4b514f008c748151.jpg
I honestly think I was imagining things. I've tilted it in every possible direction and looked under every light but I can't see it now lol
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Either I’m imagining too or I see a shadow of a line! I hold it up to a window and let the light shine through and see if I see a line.
mummy2boys
January 6th, 2018, 03:05 PM
Yes I've done that too haha. I'm still not sure [emoji848]
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mwilson
January 6th, 2018, 03:24 PM
Well hopefully the next is unmistakably darker!
Noemi2017
January 6th, 2018, 03:44 PM
I see there line, so :pray::fingers:for testing in next days.
Filzma
January 6th, 2018, 05:34 PM
Star it probably is the clomid. Hopefully you don’t have to take it too long and this is the one!! [emoji120]
Mummy2boys we’re so overdue for a bfp I hope yours is the first of many. We just want one bfp to start us of... [emoji846]
Pbn3
January 6th, 2018, 06:07 PM
Star clomid can definately cause falsely high temps but strangely enough last cycles look normal [emoji848] Are you doing anything different this cycle? Sleeping with extra bedding, clothing or with heating on? May just be your body reacting differently this time too... Keep at it and try not to read too much into it. It'll all work out eventually.
Looks like your surge is coming in normally regardless so hopefully not long till o time!!!
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Pbn3
January 6th, 2018, 06:09 PM
Mwilson which version of e4d were you doing? The every 72 hours or every 96?
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Pbn3
January 6th, 2018, 06:11 PM
GirlswayHGmama 9dpo is far to early for an IC (and sometimes even for a super sensitive test) I'd use an frer either 10 or 11dpo for a more accurate idea. Fx!!!!
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Pbn3
January 6th, 2018, 06:13 PM
Robin will you continue to update on your IVF journey? Or will you have a thread we can sub into? Wishing all the very best and cant wait to see you pregnant with your baby girl [emoji178]
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Pbn3
January 6th, 2018, 06:15 PM
Mummy2boys I can see something but impossible to tell if it has colour. Cant wait for tomorrow AM's test!!!
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Georgia_Peach
January 6th, 2018, 06:15 PM
Robin will you continue to update on your IVF journey? Or will you have a thread we can sub into? Wishing all the very best and cant wait to see you pregnant with your baby girl [emoji178]
Sent from my SM-G900I using TapatalkThank you!! You're such a sweetie. Can't wait for your little one to arrive!!
I'll come back and update y'all after my egg retrieval and let you know my results!
Fx everyone!!
mwilson
January 6th, 2018, 06:18 PM
Mwilson which version of e4d were you doing? The every 72 hours or every 96?
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Both? Simpler terms, I did day 1, 4, 8. So two days between the first two and then 3 days between second and last. I also posted about delayed ovulation bc I had some what I thought were ovulation days after I had my positive opk when I usually have them the next day or following after the positive. Odds seem against me for being delayed but I hold on to any hope I have until af arrives.
Pbn3
January 6th, 2018, 06:21 PM
Are you charting mwilson? And was it justnthe three bds prior to suspected o? What cds were the bds on and what cd did you get a pos opk on? Definately possible o was delayed or several days after pos.
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Pbn3
January 6th, 2018, 06:23 PM
GirlswayHGmama I just checked your chart and look at that dip near to coverline on 8dpo!! 'If' that's a possible implantation dip then you wouldn't see a faint line until 10/11dpo on an frer and longer for an IC. So your bfn at 9dpo truly means nothing xo
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Star4012
January 6th, 2018, 07:04 PM
Star clomid can definately cause falsely high temps but strangely enough last cycles look normal [emoji848] Are you doing anything different this cycle? Sleeping with extra bedding, clothing or with heating on? May just be your body reacting differently this time too... Keep at it and try not to read too much into it. It'll all work out eventually.
Looks like your surge is coming in normally regardless so hopefully not long till o time!!!
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1. Instead of taking it cd5-9 again, I took it cd3-7.
2. Taking pregnitude
3. Taking metformin
4. Taking extra folic acid
5. Drinking more coffee throughout the day
6. Skipping breakfast
7. DTD E4D (72 hours)
Other than that stuff, everything else is the same. We haven't changed the temp in our house, we sleep nude (lol), I'm still using my tempdrop and inputting the results at the same time daily.
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mwilson
January 6th, 2018, 07:09 PM
Are you charting mwilson? And was it justnthe three bds prior to suspected o? What cds were the bds on and what cd did you get a pos opk on? Definately possible o was delayed or several days after pos.
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I questioned late ovulation the day before our third attempt.
Here is my link. https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/2d6163
Pbn3
January 6th, 2018, 07:30 PM
Mwilson I think cd12, 13 or 14 could be possible so there's still every chance!
Star this sounds like a great cycle for you! I'm excited!!!!
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Star4012
January 6th, 2018, 07:45 PM
Thank you! Praying for a BFP! <3
Keeping all the rest of you girls in my prayers to get your bfp!! :)
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Pbn3
January 7th, 2018, 03:27 AM
Mummy2boys and GirlswayHGmama cant wait to hear from you ladies in the next hour'ish! Don't forget to post a pic if you get a squinter!
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mummy2boys
January 7th, 2018, 05:36 AM
Got no frers till later when my Amazon package arrives so did a cheapie. What do you reckon??https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180107/50c8c45ade074c6a0b37489955d8ee56.jpg
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Filzma
January 7th, 2018, 05:42 AM
Mummy2boys omg I think I see something!! 🤩 I hope those frers come through ASAP!!
Filzma
January 7th, 2018, 05:45 AM
Pbn3 and other ladies, is it possible to get 2 empty smileys (digis) in a row? Or is something wrong with the tester?
mummy2boys
January 7th, 2018, 05:52 AM
Sorry filzma, I don't know anything about those kinds of tests, I'm sure the other ladies will though.
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Pbn3
January 7th, 2018, 06:10 AM
Omg mummy2boys eeeeeeeeekkk!!!! That's a line I'm sure of it!!!! I'll hold off on celebrating until tomorrows test (or you could do another tonight [emoji3][emoji6]) but I am very very excited for you!!!!!!
Filzma that's completely normal and nothing wrong with the tester. It's simply that your estrogen and lh levels haven't picked up enough increase for it to change to a flashing smiley just yet [emoji4]
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Pbn3
January 7th, 2018, 06:11 AM
Bugger it!!! On second look that's a fair dinkum line!!!! Congratulations mummy2boys!!!! I'm absolutely thrilled for you [emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322]
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mummy2boys
January 7th, 2018, 06:17 AM
Hahahahaha thank you pbn! I'm not getting excited yet as it's still very faint and I keep thinking back to the early loss I had in August last year. I will test again when my frer arrives today and will be sure to post pics!
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Filzma
January 7th, 2018, 07:24 AM
Thanks pbn3! The cartridge shows a barely visible line too.[emoji4]
Aaaah Mummy2boys I’m so happy for you. Congratulations. [emoji322][emoji322] HGmama mwilson and robin, hope you’re next!!
Pbn3
January 7th, 2018, 07:29 AM
I'm hanging out to find out whether GirlswayHGmama tested too!!!!
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Pbn3
January 7th, 2018, 07:47 AM
Noemi how are you feeling? I really think it's time to introduce e4d (72 hour version) as just one attempt at pos opk is not working for you [emoji17] (you've been ttc 5 cycles is it?). E4d is going to up your odds of conception and still realistically only going to be one attempt that counts come o time, however the regular bding should help make your body more receptible to conceiving. Is it something you'll consider? You've been doing the le diet since April so I truly believe its time to up the anti. What are your thoughts?
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HGmama
January 7th, 2018, 07:48 AM
I'm hanging out to find out whether GirlswayHGmama tested too!!!!
Sent from my SM-G900I using TapatalkPbn3- still negative but like you said it's a wondfo and probably won't be positive for couple more days, but no AF, no temp below coverline.... waiting until tomorrow to test my FRER. At $4 each, I'd like a questionable on wondfo before use it. Not feeling preggo either. https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180107/cc0b8b52bdb27d834eaa360eafa3e553.jpg
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Pbn3
January 7th, 2018, 07:54 AM
Can you get a clearer unshadowed pic of that wondfo?
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Star4012
January 7th, 2018, 07:57 AM
Got no frers till later when my Amazon package arrives so did a cheapie. What do you reckon??https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180107/50c8c45ade074c6a0b37489955d8ee56.jpg
Sent from my iPhone using TapatalkIt's there girl!!! [emoji16][emoji16] congrats!!! [emoji175][emoji175]
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HGmama
January 7th, 2018, 08:00 AM
Girls... I see nothing at all. [emoji38]https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180107/0c904ba22b8d9f57eac62c72aef94a46.jpg
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Pbn3
January 7th, 2018, 08:04 AM
I don't know GirlswayHGmama [emoji848] I feel like my eye keeps trying to catch something that's there..... but I'm not sure either... by tomorrow morning there'll hopefully be something a little more obvious fx fx fx!!
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HGmama
January 7th, 2018, 08:21 AM
I don't know GirlswayHGmama [emoji848] I feel like my eye keeps trying to catch something that's there..... but I'm not sure either... by tomorrow morning there'll hopefully be something a little more obvious fx fx fx!!
Sent from my SM-G900I using TapatalkHope you're right. Hehe. But I'll do both tests tomorrow. This is CD 30, 10 dpo. I'm not used to long cycles.
You ladies with longer.... dang... this is annoying.
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Noemi2017
January 7th, 2018, 08:44 AM
Hello Pbn,, im swaying for 3 months so maybe i try e4d. Thx u. I think about u and pls let us know, on Wednesday u will have section and finally hold your baby:HH:
mummy2boys
January 7th, 2018, 09:14 AM
Thanks ladies [emoji106] I think it might not be real though as I've just been back to check the test (again lol) and the line has almost disappeared.. why would that happen?! Anyway, my frer has just arrived. Should I use this mornings wee that I saved or a new one lol! I've been holding for about 2 and a half hours but can't manage much more [emoji51]
GirlswayH, I'm sure my eye is being drawn to something! Hope tomorrow's test shows more 🤞
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mwilson
January 7th, 2018, 09:20 AM
Thanks ladies [emoji106] I think it might not be real though as I've just been back to check the test (again lol) and the line has almost disappeared.. why would that happen?! Anyway, my frer has just arrived. Should I use this mornings wee that I saved or a new one lol! I've been holding for about 2 and a half hours but can't manage much more [emoji51]
GirlswayH, I'm sure my eye is being drawn to something! Hope tomorrow's test shows more
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Weird for it to disappear. Ah I don’t know. How many do you have? We all saw the line so since it was there it should show on a better test after the 2.5 hour hold. Is fresh better than not?? Haha. I can’t wait to see what you decide!
mummy2boys
January 7th, 2018, 09:28 AM
Thanks mwilson! I think I'll go for fresh [emoji23][emoji23] Will post the outcome shortly
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Pbn3
January 7th, 2018, 09:51 AM
I was about to go to sleep but now I have to wait for your post mummy2boys [emoji23][emoji23] I would've suggested using your saved sample but hopefully your urine will be quite concentrated after 2.5 hours! [emoji102]
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mwilson
January 7th, 2018, 09:57 AM
Yes I keep checking back haha
mummy2boys
January 7th, 2018, 10:02 AM
Well there's a faint line on the frer but I've just been to the toilet and there is a bit of brown cm [emoji17]just like what happened last time. I'm 10dpo this time rather than 14dpo last time. What do you reckon? https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180107/f28c9e7093b98a23882c5f745ae6eccc.jpg
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Pbn3
January 7th, 2018, 10:09 AM
Oh my gosh mummy2boys!!!! That's not even a faint line!! That's a fantastic looking line at 10dpo!! Congratulations again [emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322]!! Brown blood is old blood, I know its hard to not stress but implantation has only occured in the last couple days so abit of brown cm isn't anything to worry about [emoji173] Just focus on getting past when af would have been due. Have you got more than one frer for testing with over the next few days?
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mwilson
January 7th, 2018, 10:10 AM
Well there's a faint line on the frer but I've just been to the toilet and there is a bit of brown cm [emoji17]just like what happened last time. I'm 10dpo this time rather than 14dpo last time. What do you reckon? https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180107/f28c9e7093b98a23882c5f745ae6eccc.jpg
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well first yay for a definite line!!
I feel ya girl. I feel like we are living the same ride. But don't lose hope. Stay positive! I know easier said than done. I know when I do get a positive, not sure I will tell husband or even call my doctor for an appt until after 6 weeks to make sure it sticks. It wasn't fun cancelling the appt. Fingers crossed it continues to get darker and darker! Mine back in aug didn't so that was my biggest sign.
mummy2boys
January 7th, 2018, 10:14 AM
Thanks pbn! [emoji4]AF due in 4 days so will try and stay positive! I've only got one test left but will buy some more tomorrow. Gosh I can't take it in at the moment!
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mummy2boys
January 7th, 2018, 10:45 AM
Thanks mwilson, sorry you had to go through that too. I can imagine cancelling the appt was awful [emoji17]
I won't be telling anyone for a while either, except you lovely ladies! Mine in August got darker for one day then the spotting increased and the tests got lighter. I am going to try not to stress but I think it will be tricky!
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mwilson
January 7th, 2018, 10:52 AM
I didn't get a line until day I missed my period and I had tested two days before too. I never had a mc before so I didn't think anything of a "late positive". Now I'm scared to get a late one. And of course this cycle I am not too certain of when I o'd bc I had late o pains. I really should temp. So I could be anywhere from 9-12. Forgot to test this morning (may try later) but up until now negative. We've been the same each month, so I should totally get a positive too, right!! haha.:D
mummy2boys
January 7th, 2018, 10:55 AM
Yes you totally should!!! Fingers crossed so much for you. I was the same with my loss, I got the bfp on 14 dpo which was really late for me especially as my lp is usually 11 days or so. I also had never had a miscarriage. We have had similar stories haven't we? Definitely try later and let us know how you get on [emoji4]
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Eighme
January 7th, 2018, 11:33 AM
Well there's a faint line on the frer but I've just been to the toilet and there is a bit of brown cm [emoji17]just like what happened last time. I'm 10dpo this time rather than 14dpo last time. What do you reckon? https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180107/f28c9e7093b98a23882c5f745ae6eccc.jpg
Sent from my iPhone using TapatalkLate to the thread. Congrats, mummy! That definitely looks positive to me!
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Noemi2017
January 7th, 2018, 12:50 PM
Congrats🙏💐
Babybeaublue
January 7th, 2018, 02:03 PM
Mummy!!! Congratulations!!! Can't wait to see those lines get darker!!! You'll be in my due date group Right??!?
Girlsway looking forward to seeing your tests fx fx fx
Don't give up hope everyone xx
Robin excited to follow your journey and see a little baby at the end x
Pbn I'm beside myself waiting for your birth news!!!!
Mommy2apples
January 7th, 2018, 02:21 PM
Mummy! That’s definitely positive! Congrats! I had blood a little bit a week after I got my positive the night before my first ultrasound. I thought for sure I was miscarriaging. Only one that knew about it was my mom. Then I went to the dr for my first scan and all that was there was a sac. I was convinced same outcome as the last time. My baby is just fine, and I’ve not had bleeding since that night. I believe it was the devils doing to try to keep me from testifying, but I. Testified anyways as my beta numbers kept going up.
Mummy just said a prayer for you! ❤️
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mummy2boys
January 7th, 2018, 04:31 PM
Thank BBB and Mommy! If all goes well due date would be 20 September. What's yours BBB? Would be lovely to be in the same group!
Thanks mommy for sharing about what happened with you, gives me a little hope. I'm so glad everything is going well with you! [emoji4]
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Mommy2apples
January 7th, 2018, 04:36 PM
Welcome mummy and it will for you as well! ❤️
You will be in our group mummy! July-September!
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Mommy2apples
January 7th, 2018, 04:37 PM
Part 2: Due July, August, and September 2018
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Mommy2apples
January 7th, 2018, 04:37 PM
Just go under my name to get it as for some reason it won’t allow me to post it in any group! Lol
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ABC.2606
January 7th, 2018, 05:27 PM
Ahhhhhh Mummy YAY!!! So excited for you!!!!!!!!!! CONGRATS!!!!!
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mummy2boys
January 7th, 2018, 05:55 PM
Thanks abc! How are you doing?
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HGmama
January 7th, 2018, 07:09 PM
Well there's a faint line on the frer but I've just been to the toilet and there is a bit of brown cm [emoji17]just like what happened last time. I'm 10dpo this time rather than 14dpo last time. What do you reckon? https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180107/f28c9e7093b98a23882c5f745ae6eccc.jpg
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Girlswaylondon
January 8th, 2018, 02:41 AM
Congrats mummy2boys!!
Pbn3
January 8th, 2018, 04:25 AM
Mummy2boys did you test this morning?
GirlswayHGmama awaiting your update fx fx fx!!!
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Pbn3
January 8th, 2018, 06:55 AM
Filzma can you delete some pm's? You've reached your storage limit/inbox is full [emoji4]
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Filzma
January 8th, 2018, 07:34 AM
Haha, done pbn3! [emoji5]
Came to see if there’s more good news 🤞[emoji846][emoji322]
HGmama
January 8th, 2018, 09:26 AM
No good news, temp drop below coverline, negative test, and I believe AF is on her way. Had some reddish discharge when I wiped.
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Pbn3
January 8th, 2018, 09:34 AM
Sorry to hear GirlswayHGmama [emoji17] I'll have everything crossed next cycle will be the one (hugs)
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Mommy2apples
January 8th, 2018, 09:45 AM
Mummy did you test again? Pbn!! 1 more sleep! ❤️
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Eighme
January 8th, 2018, 11:16 AM
Mummy did you test again? Pbn!! 1 more sleep! [emoji173]️
6/2003 [emoji1349]2/2009 [emoji1407] 12/2012 [emoji1349]4/2015 [emoji1406] 2015 [emoji1356] 2016 [emoji1413] The Lord Answered my [emoji1317] 2017🤰due 2018, would love a [emoji1405][emoji166]to fit into our crazy bunch! [emoji7][emoji8] Main thing is healthy though!Yes, Mummy, I'm anxious to hear if you got a BFP today!
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Filzma
January 8th, 2018, 12:08 PM
HGmama, awww I’m so sorry. Hope the next cycle is your bfp one. Xx
mummy2boys
January 8th, 2018, 01:51 PM
Sorry girlswayH, hope next time will be your cycle 🤞
Sorry everyone, I was at work today and I don't get a minute to myself all day lol! I teach year 2 and it's pretty busy at the moment [emoji51]
Yes I tested again this morning and it was a tiny bit darker, the spotting seems to have stopped for now but I'm still not feeling confident about it.
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Mommy2apples
January 8th, 2018, 02:21 PM
It’s hard not to be scared. Many hugs mummy
6/2003 [emoji1349]2/2009 [emoji1407] 12/2012 [emoji1349]4/2015 [emoji1406] 2015 [emoji1356] 2016 [emoji1413] The Lord Answered my [emoji1317] 2017🤰due 2018, would love a [emoji1405][emoji166]to fit into our crazy bunch! [emoji7][emoji8] Main thing is healthy though!
Filzma
January 8th, 2018, 02:31 PM
Mummy2boys so happy for you! Naturally, it’ll take time to sink in. Yay to being a teacher and year 2 at that! So much respect. [emoji3]
Babybeaublue
January 8th, 2018, 02:32 PM
Girlsway next month for sure! Fx
Mummy do you have a test for tomorrow?? (Get me, I took one and I'm forever pushing everyone to test from like 3dpo :bigsmile:)
mummy2boys
January 8th, 2018, 02:59 PM
Yeah I've just done another one now and it looks a teeny bit lighter than this mornings.. I shouldn't have tested I'm driving myself mad!!
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mwilson
January 8th, 2018, 03:00 PM
Well assuming I’m out. Negative test and started spotting a little.
mwilson
January 8th, 2018, 03:02 PM
Yeah I've just done another one now and it looks a teeny bit lighter than this mornings.. I shouldn't have tested I'm driving myself mad!!
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Don’t worry! Could totally be a more diluted situation! You still have a few days before af so levels are still building.
Mommy2apples
January 8th, 2018, 03:13 PM
Wouldn’t be too concerned, mummy. Can you go get betas? I did to reassure myself.
Ask for beta, and progesterone.
6/2003 [emoji1349]2/2009 [emoji1407] 12/2012 [emoji1349]4/2015 [emoji1406] 2015 [emoji1356] 2016 [emoji1413] The Lord Answered my [emoji1317] 2017🤰due 2018, would love a [emoji1405][emoji166]to fit into our crazy bunch! [emoji7][emoji8] Main thing is healthy though!
mummy2boys
January 8th, 2018, 04:35 PM
Thanks Mommy, unfortunately we can't get those tests on the NHS here so would have to go private. I will test again tomorrow and see how things are looking. Last time my tests only got darker for one day and then went very faint so I guess I'll have a better idea tomorrow [emoji106]
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Mommy2apples
January 8th, 2018, 04:38 PM
That’s crappy mummy. Baby is going to be just fine!
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HGmama
January 8th, 2018, 04:46 PM
So I have been debating on buying the LE 21 day plan, but just can't decide if that's right for me. Do I really want to spend the money??? Am I going to learn something I haven't already by spending hours and hours on this site?
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HGmama
January 8th, 2018, 04:46 PM
Well assuming I’m out. Negative test and started spotting a little.Are we going to be cycle buddies? Full blown CD 1 for me....
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mwilson
January 8th, 2018, 05:09 PM
Are we going to be cycle buddies? Full blown CD 1 for me....
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Not yet but close! Supposed to start Thursday.
HGmama
January 8th, 2018, 06:01 PM
Ladies!!!!! It's pbn3's baby day in AU! Still monday here in US. Hopefully you'll be able to post after you're recovering well. Take all the time you need (obviously) and we would all love to hear your birth story!
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Star4012
January 8th, 2018, 06:51 PM
Oh my goodness, I didn't even realize today was the day!!! Omg so exciting!! I cannot wait to see pictures!!! Good luck pbn! Best wishes for a fast delivery and healthy baby!!! Xoxo
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Bluedreaming
January 8th, 2018, 07:03 PM
Pbn3 was booked for a c section tomorrow morning but her waters broke this morning. She is having a c section either as we speak or very soon.
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