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kikurose
July 31st, 2018, 04:46 PM
Hi guys-

thought I would help PBN out and start the august 2ww thread!

wildlyluna
July 31st, 2018, 05:22 PM
Looks like it worked [emoji16]


https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/2fdf7e

kikurose
July 31st, 2018, 05:31 PM
Looks like it worked [emoji16]


https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/2fdf7e

Woohoo! I had no clue what I was doing :happy:

emshe
July 31st, 2018, 05:52 PM
Good work kiku!


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strawberrybella89
July 31st, 2018, 06:57 PM
Omg yes thank you I have been waiting for this!!

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/474f80

Pbn3
July 31st, 2018, 07:14 PM
Thank you kikurose [emoji8]

It's so lovely to hear from you, I only wish it were in better circumstances [emoji173] Are you trying in August did you say? I'm so sorry to ask, I know you posted not long ago and I'm pretty sure you are?

Emshe how did your flashing test cartridge look this morning? Eeeeek!! Cant be long now till your solid!

Hopeful I'll be stalking for a temp rise tomorrow morning [emoji102] fx fx fx!! The # indicates an attempt right?

Thunder yay!! 4dpo!! What dpo are you testing?!

Strawberrybella are you charting this cycle or giving it a miss?

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kikurose
July 31st, 2018, 07:48 PM
Thank you kikurose [emoji8]

It's so lovely to hear from you, I only wish it were in better circumstances [emoji173] Are you trying in August did you say? I'm so sorry to ask, I know you posted not long ago and I'm pretty sure you are?

Emshe how did your flashing test cartridge look this morning? Eeeeek!! Cant be long now till your solid!

Hopeful I'll be stalking for a temp rise tomorrow morning [emoji102] fx fx fx!! The # indicates an attempt right?

Thunder yay!! 4dpo!! What dpo are you testing?!

Strawberrybella are you charting this cycle or giving it a miss?

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Thanks PBN! I remember my mental state after our friend's tragedy and thought if I could lessen your load in any way, I would love to do it.

So, I plan on trying this month. But I definitely have a lot of emotions about trying. I'm also slightly sad that I'm in this situation again charting, waiting for positives, etc. I was feeling really positive and hopeful about everything, but now that AF has started (or what I think is AF) all these weird emotions have popped up. Was hoping that TTC was behind me, BUT it's totally worth it and I'm so grateful for this forum! :) My OB said to wait 5-6 weeks to try again, which lines up with when I *might* ovulate this cycle, so I'm just going for it even if I O early. Hope I'm not setting myself up for another miscarriage though, but I also don't want to wait if I don't need to.

I'm also having a very light AF, assuming it's even AF (all the emotions make me think it is lol). I'm going to start temping to see if this was AF and if I ovulate this cycle. I'm anticipating it might be a weird cycle given my D and C was July 5. Currently on what I *think* is CD 3.

I'm so excited for everyones BFPs, it's so encouraging. I am simultaneously happy and sad to see some familiar faces here. FINGERS CROSSED SO HARD for those of you who have been here <3

Thunderstruck7
July 31st, 2018, 08:49 PM
Pbn3, my heart goes out to you and your friends [emoji175]

I didn't even realise that I was already 4dpo lol. I removed the ewcm from the chart from earlier in the month therefore it's given a clear cross hairs! Made me so excited to see.

Think I'll be leaving it as long as possible to test, but no doubt will cave around 10dpo

Last month was a very successful month with so many BFPs let's hope we can keep that trend going!
Good luck ladies [emoji170][emoji173][emoji256]

strawberrybella89
July 31st, 2018, 09:42 PM
I am charting! This month I did it at the same time every morning so plan on doing it the same. Spotting but not CD 1 yet so just waiting for that now
Thank you kikurose [emoji8]

It's so lovely to hear from you, I only wish it were in better circumstances [emoji173] Are you trying in August did you say? I'm so sorry to ask, I know you posted not long ago and I'm pretty sure you are?

Emshe how did your flashing test cartridge look this morning? Eeeeek!! Cant be long now till your solid!

Hopeful I'll be stalking for a temp rise tomorrow morning [emoji102] fx fx fx!! The # indicates an attempt right?

Thunder yay!! 4dpo!! What dpo are you testing?!

Strawberrybella are you charting this cycle or giving it a miss?

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RaisingGentlemen3
July 31st, 2018, 10:24 PM
Cd2 is behind me now. I decided to take bcp for 1 week (through cd8) and stop then use opks starting cd10 just in case I O early due to bcp. The pack says after 1 week it is safe to not use any other barriers so I figure 8 days will offer some sway benefits without causing too much delay. Other than that my sway will stay the same except no glob of sylk before dtd but that wasn't in the plan to begin with anyway. GL ladies! July had A TON of bfps, I hope this month will have many too!

emshe
July 31st, 2018, 10:29 PM
Thank you kikurose [emoji8]

It's so lovely to hear from you, I only wish it were in better circumstances [emoji173] Are you trying in August did you say? I'm so sorry to ask, I know you posted not long ago and I'm pretty sure you are?

Emshe how did your flashing test cartridge look this morning? Eeeeek!! Cant be long now till your solid!

Hopeful I'll be stalking for a temp rise tomorrow morning [emoji102] fx fx fx!! The # indicates an attempt right?

Thunder yay!! 4dpo!! What dpo are you testing?!

Strawberrybella are you charting this cycle or giving it a miss?

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You called it Pbn! Any chance you can call in a bfp for us too please, and a pink one if you can [emoji6][emoji8]


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Happymommy1987
July 31st, 2018, 11:37 PM
Hi!!
Thanks for starting the thread.. CD4 here and first cycle with Femara... this month im going to try to distract myself (organizing photos on my computer.. making photoalbums, etc) and started a class of high intensity aquaerobics today... I was so buffed. I needed a new cardio work out besides walking lol.
So im going to take this month really relaxed and distracted hopefully.



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emshe
August 1st, 2018, 12:23 AM
Kiku were all here cheering for you [emoji847]

Hope the wait goes quickly thunderstruck

Good luck raising

Sounds like a great plan happymommy!

Strawberrybella I’m hoping for a smooth & successful cycle for you




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wildlyluna
August 1st, 2018, 02:44 AM
Thank you kikurose [emoji8]

It's so lovely to hear from you, I only wish it were in better circumstances [emoji173] Are you trying in August did you say? I'm so sorry to ask, I know you posted not long ago and I'm pretty sure you are?

Emshe how did your flashing test cartridge look this morning? Eeeeek!! Cant be long now till your solid!

Hopeful I'll be stalking for a temp rise tomorrow morning [emoji102] fx fx fx!! The # indicates an attempt right?

Thunder yay!! 4dpo!! What dpo are you testing?!

Strawberrybella are you charting this cycle or giving it a miss?

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Hahaha yes, for some reason it won’t show BD attempts? So I put in notes lol
I tested again before lunch and it’s positive so I’m waiting for my temp rise tomorrow. My temp has been all over the place this month, and FF have disregarded lots of them due to being sick. So 🤞🤞🤞🤞
Have been toying with the idea of maybe another attempt? But I think I’ll leave that for for next month [emoji4]


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Babybeaublue
August 1st, 2018, 04:26 AM
Hi mummy I'm good thanks!
3 weeks until my due date, but everyone is convinced I'll go early this time. Baby was measuring 7lbs at 36 weeks and I feel so huge and uncomfortable. 3 weeks feels longer than the whole 40!

HGmama
August 1st, 2018, 06:45 AM
Thunderstruck- looks like we are the same dpo. Hope we both get our BFPs next week.
Who's testing next???

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)

kikurose
August 1st, 2018, 11:39 AM
Ughhhhh I forgot to temp today. CD 5 somehow already. I’m so out of the habit. I even got my thermometer out! Maybe I’ll set an alarm on my phone for tomorrow.

When should I start using OPKs? I doubt this will be a normal cycle. That was the lightest AF of my life (assuming it was AF).


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strawberrybella89
August 1st, 2018, 12:12 PM
Kiku were all here cheering for you [emoji847]

Hope the wait goes quickly thunderstruck

Good luck raising

Sounds like a great plan happymommy!

Strawberrybella I’m hoping for a smooth & successful cycle for you




Sent from my iPhone using TapatalkThank you I hope so too!! I told the donor he better just take my 3 fertile days off so I can have my one attempt any of those days!

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/474f80

strawberrybella89
August 1st, 2018, 12:17 PM
Officially CD 1! I ate a chocolate croissant from Starbucks this morning lol but I'll be on my best diet starting this afternoon!

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/474f80

HGmama
August 1st, 2018, 12:36 PM
Ughhhhh I forgot to temp today. CD 5 somehow already. I’m so out of the habit. I even got my thermometer out! Maybe I’ll set an alarm on my phone for tomorrow.

When should I start using OPKs? I doubt this will be a normal cycle. That was the lightest AF of my life (assuming it was AF).


Sent from my iPhone using TapatalkMy first AF post d&c was so light I can't even decide if it was true AF or not. But I did have a positive opk and temp shift so I'm counting it.
I would start cd10 or so or whatever you were doing before all this mess.

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)

HGmama
August 1st, 2018, 12:39 PM
Officially CD 1! I ate a chocolate croissant from Starbucks this morning lol but I'll be on my best diet starting this afternoon!

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/474f80Donor,
please get your act together and give our friend strawberrybella the dose she needs and make them good swimmers too.
Sincerely,
GD internet friends

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)

kikurose
August 1st, 2018, 12:51 PM
Officially CD 1! I ate a chocolate croissant from Starbucks this morning lol but I'll be on my best diet starting this afternoon!

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/474f80

Dude those things are SO GOOD! [emoji23]


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strawberrybella89
August 1st, 2018, 12:51 PM
[emoji23][emoji23] thank you I'm totally sending that little message to him!

Donor,
please get your act together and give our friend strawberrybella the dose she needs and make them good swimmers too.
Sincerely,
GD internet friends

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/474f80

kikurose
August 1st, 2018, 12:52 PM
My first AF post d&c was so light I can't even decide if it was true AF or not. But I did have a positive opk and temp shift so I'm counting it.
I would start cd10 or so or whatever you were doing before all this mess.

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)

I hate you went through this too [emoji20] Hugs. but thank you, that’s incredibly helpful. I might start CD 8 just in case it’s early- I’ve had some CD 12 ovulation in the past.


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emshe
August 1st, 2018, 04:41 PM
Thank you I hope so too!! I told the donor he better just take my 3 fertile days off so I can have my one attempt any of those days!

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/474f80

Sounds like a GREAT plan! And that croissant sounds delish


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Thunderstruck7
August 1st, 2018, 05:04 PM
Thunderstruck- looks like we are the same dpo. Hope we both get our BFPs next week.
Who's testing next???

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)It's nice to know I have someone joining me on this tww!
This cycle has been a long and confusing one. So glad to be finally in the tww (as impatient as I am to start testing and find out!)

Here's to hoping we get our BFPs this cycle too! 🤞

I've attached my chart for comparison, not sure what this signature is doing lolhttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180801/e328fece558ca9c7371b5a7b74048f3b.jpg

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6a760f

HGmama
August 1st, 2018, 05:18 PM
It's nice to know I have someone joining me on this tww!
This cycle has been a long and confusing one. So glad to be finally in the tww (as impatient as I am to start testing and find out!)

Here's to hoping we get our BFPs this cycle too! 🤞

I've attached my chart for comparison, not sure what this signature is doing lolhttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180801/e328fece558ca9c7371b5a7b74048f3b.jpg

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6a760fYour signature worked for me! There doesn't seem to be many of us left after the big influx of BFPs, but I'm sure there will be some newbies here soon. I've learned that after being in the groups since December.
Sorry you've had such a long cycle. Hope it's a random one or sometimes the crazy cycles are the ones that turn out the best.

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)

HGmama
August 1st, 2018, 05:21 PM
I hate you went through this too [emoji20] Hugs. but thank you, that’s incredibly helpful. I might start CD 8 just in case it’s early- I’ve had some CD 12 ovulation in the past.


Sent from my iPhone using TapatalkGood idea. I'd start early rather than late. My first cycle I did O really early and it was a very short cycle.

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)

kikurose
August 1st, 2018, 05:36 PM
Thanks, HG. I don’t have my hopes up this cycle but I’d rather try than not.

When is everyone going to test? Thunder and HG you are in TWW right now, yes? Anyone else?


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emshe
August 1st, 2018, 06:00 PM
Your signature worked for me! There doesn't seem to be many of us left after the big influx of BFPs, but I'm sure there will be some newbies here soon. I've learned that after being in the groups since December.
Sorry you've had such a long cycle. Hope it's a random one or sometimes the crazy cycles are the ones that turn out the best.

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)

Hoping I ovulate today so I will be here ladies! Silly puppy woke me up at 12.30am so not too sure on temp this morning, always the way


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strawberrybella89
August 1st, 2018, 06:28 PM
It was so good but i felt so bad eating it because it was only 9 30 and I don't eat till noon!
Sounds like a GREAT plan! And that croissant sounds delish


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kikurose
August 1st, 2018, 06:37 PM
Hoping I ovulate today so I will be here ladies! Silly puppy woke me up at 12.30am so not too sure on temp this morning, always the way


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Fx emshe!!!


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kikurose
August 1st, 2018, 06:37 PM
It was so good but i felt so bad eating it because it was only 9 30 and I don't eat till noon!

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/474f80

Haha well, I think sometimes a cheat helps us keep going ❤️ and those things are so good!


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emshe
August 1st, 2018, 07:06 PM
It was so good but i felt so bad eating it because it was only 9 30 and I don't eat till noon!

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/474f80

Whatever keeps us sane, some days especially during AF you just need it!

My youngest birthday today so I may have to sample the cookie ice cream sandwich cake I’m making him [emoji51]🤫


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emshe
August 1st, 2018, 07:11 PM
Fx emshe!!!


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Thanks!


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kikurose
August 1st, 2018, 08:59 PM
Whatever keeps us sane, some days especially during AF you just need it!

My youngest birthday today so I may have to sample the cookie ice cream sandwich cake I’m making him [emoji51]🤫


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My youngest has his birthday in two weeks! That cake sounds amazing.


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wildlyluna
August 1st, 2018, 09:59 PM
Hoping I ovulate today so I will be here ladies! Silly puppy woke me up at 12.30am so not too sure on temp this morning, always the way


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Fx for you!
And happy birthday to your son today [emoji322]


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wildlyluna
August 1st, 2018, 10:02 PM
Your signature worked for me! There doesn't seem to be many of us left after the big influx of BFPs, but I'm sure there will be some newbies here soon. I've learned that after being in the groups since December.
Sorry you've had such a long cycle. Hope it's a random one or sometimes the crazy cycles are the ones that turn out the best.

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)

Good luck to you both! 🤞❤️


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wildlyluna
August 1st, 2018, 10:04 PM
Thanks, HG. I don’t have my hopes up this cycle but I’d rather try than not.

When is everyone going to test? Thunder and HG you are in TWW right now, yes? Anyone else?


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Yes, I think you’re better off giving it a shot, you just never can tell x

I’m in no where land right now, but that’s ok [emoji4]


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kikurose
August 1st, 2018, 11:28 PM
Yes, I think you’re better off giving it a shot, you just never can tell x

I’m in no where land right now, but that’s ok [emoji4]


https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/2fdf7e

Thanks Hopeful ❤️ I’m hoping you get that temp spike tomorrow!!!


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kikurose
August 1st, 2018, 11:29 PM
Whatever keeps us sane, some days especially during AF you just need it!

My youngest birthday today so I may have to sample the cookie ice cream sandwich cake I’m making him [emoji51]🤫


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And duh! Forgot to say it- HAPPY BIRTHDAY to your little one!!!


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Pbn3
August 1st, 2018, 11:36 PM
Happy bday to your youngest emshe! You'll have to share a pic of whhat you're making! It sounds delish!

Love the letter to strawberrybella's donor hgmama [emoji23][emoji23]

HDP I seen your chart screenshot in July thread and have to say it's strange how it can go from looking so discouraging to hmmmm those plateaued temps look suspiciously promising.... I've seen a number of charts where the temps flatline like that go onto be bfp charts but I've been fooled a couple times by said pattern too [emoji848] especially when the flat line temps are likely pre implantation. You need to post us a daily screenshot though as I'll be very interested to see the next few days temps!!

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emshe
August 2nd, 2018, 03:17 AM
Thanks for his birthday wishes ladies!

I went with this because I was making cookies for his class so it was a bit of an easy effort to do for home. Not so easy to cut though!!!!

Not my most attractive creation but tasty

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wildlyluna
August 2nd, 2018, 03:37 AM
Thanks for his birthday wishes ladies!

I went with this because I was making cookies for his class so it was a bit of an easy effort to do for home. Not so easy to cut though!!!!

Not my most attractive creation but tasty

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Drooling 🤤
Looks yummy! Well done!

All this talk of sweet things today has given me cravings for chocolate lol


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emshe
August 2nd, 2018, 03:51 AM
Drooling 🤤
Looks yummy! Well done!

All this talk of sweet things today has given me cravings for chocolate lol


https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/2fdf7e

Sorry!!!! Pretty funny I was carrying the plate away & hubby says here I’ll take it, & I was like “no way I’m licking that clean” [emoji15]
How good things taste when you’re not meant to have them


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Pbn3
August 2nd, 2018, 06:15 AM
Looks awesome emshe!!

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Heart desires pink LP
August 2nd, 2018, 07:48 AM
Hi pbn
Latest chart below. I've never seen such a slow and (hopefully) steady climb. Fx.
Also I got the closest to pos on CD 19. Negative on 20 and 21. My chart says I Oed on 21.
Our BD attempts were CD 17 and 21 as DH was traveling.
I had slight EWCM around cd 19, but took antihistamines twice on 19&20, so I think that makes CM unreliable.
Is there a chance at conception this cycle? I'm not very confident.

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Heart desires pink LP
August 2nd, 2018, 07:48 AM
Hi pbn
Latest chart below. I've never seen such a slow and (hopefully) steady climb. Fx.
Also I got the closest to pos on CD 19. Negative on 20 and 21. My chart says I Oed on 21.
Our BD attempts were CD 17 and 21 as DH was traveling.
I had slight EWCM around cd 19, but took antihistamines twice on 19&20, so I think that makes CM unreliable.
Is there a chance at conception this cycle? I'm not very confident.

Sent from my ONEPLUS A3000 using TapatalkI forgot the chart https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180802/ea9b98b5cf338cc8ff678655c4e6bb67.jpg

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HGmama
August 2nd, 2018, 07:52 AM
Met with my OBGYN yesterday. Short version of the appt- have more sex. So I'll try q72hr next cycle. Work on root of why DH isnt finishing. Reduce stress in household. I'm going to start zoloft and counseling. She offered femara with monitoring but DH said no. We agreed to revisit the offer after 6 failed cycles. I'm on cycle #4 post mc now. We both hope I find a BFP next week. She drew thyroid levels, just to check again.

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)

wildlyluna
August 2nd, 2018, 08:50 AM
Met with my OBGYN yesterday. Short version of the appt- have more sex. So I'll try q72hr next cycle. Work on root of why DH isnt finishing. Reduce stress in household. I'm going to start zoloft and counseling. She offered femara with monitoring but DH said no. We agreed to revisit the offer after 6 failed cycles. I'm on cycle #4 post mc now. We both hope I find a BFP next week. She drew thyroid levels, just to check again.

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)

Sounds productive?And a good plan !
How are you feeling about it?
Have everything crossed for next week 🤞🤞


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wildlyluna
August 2nd, 2018, 08:55 AM
I forgot the chart https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180802/ea9b98b5cf338cc8ff678655c4e6bb67.jpg

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Looks very steady doesn’t it!
I would think you’re in with a good chance 🤞🤞


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mummy2boys
August 2nd, 2018, 09:54 AM
Hi ladies, I’ve just been to the doctors and they’ve took blood (results on Monday) but she won’t refer me to the early pregnancy unit till 6 weeks or do a repeat blood test as she said that it’s too early and the results wouldn’t change what they would do, so I just have to wait. It’s not looking good though as today’s test is definitely lighter than yesterday’s. Im sure if it was progressing normally it would be as dark as the control line by now and it’s not. I’m so fed up and just want to know either way [emoji53]


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jgojah
August 2nd, 2018, 10:23 AM
I forgot the chart https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180802/ea9b98b5cf338cc8ff678655c4e6bb67.jpg

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Can't wait to see tomorrow's temp hdp...how do u feel today?

jgojah
August 2nd, 2018, 10:24 AM
Met with my OBGYN yesterday. Short version of the appt- have more sex. So I'll try q72hr next cycle. Work on root of why DH isnt finishing. Reduce stress in household. I'm going to start zoloft and counseling. She offered femara with monitoring but DH said no. We agreed to revisit the offer after 6 failed cycles. I'm on cycle #4 post mc now. We both hope I find a BFP next week. She drew thyroid levels, just to check again.

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)

Attempt looks well timed this cycle !!! FX

Heart desires pink LP
August 2nd, 2018, 11:09 AM
Can't wait to see tomorrow's temp hdp...how do u feel today?There's the bloated, gassy feeling. Since 5dpo, I've had a weird bad taste in my mouth. But I'm not going to symptom analyze. If I did, I'd convince myself I'm pregnant and end up being too disappointed then. Keep your fx for me jgo. Will be 10 Dpo this Sunday. I might not test at all though.

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Girlswaylondon
August 2nd, 2018, 11:25 AM
HDP that looks similar to my bfp chart ;)

Heart desires pink LP
August 2nd, 2018, 12:20 PM
HDP that looks similar to my bfp chart ;)That's good to know. How are you feeling ? Can you post a link to your chart if you can.

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mummy2boys
August 2nd, 2018, 12:24 PM
There's the bloated, gassy feeling. Since 5dpo, I've had a weird bad taste in my mouth. But I'm not going to symptom analyze. If I did, I'd convince myself I'm pregnant and end up being too disappointed then. Keep your fx for me jgo. Will be 10 Dpo this Sunday. I might not test at all though.

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HDP, I had a strange taste in my mouth just like you describe all through the tww. Still have it actually. Looking forward to you testing! 🤞


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emshe
August 2nd, 2018, 04:59 PM
Met with my OBGYN yesterday. Short version of the appt- have more sex. So I'll try q72hr next cycle. Work on root of why DH isnt finishing. Reduce stress in household. I'm going to start zoloft and counseling. She offered femara with monitoring but DH said no. We agreed to revisit the offer after 6 failed cycles. I'm on cycle #4 post mc now. We both hope I find a BFP next week. She drew thyroid levels, just to check again.

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)

You have a plan! But you’re not going to need it, bfp soon HG 🤞🏻


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emshe
August 2nd, 2018, 05:02 PM
Hi ladies, I’ve just been to the doctors and they’ve took blood (results on Monday) but she won’t refer me to the early pregnancy unit till 6 weeks or do a repeat blood test as she said that it’s too early and the results wouldn’t change what they would do, so I just have to wait. It’s not looking good though as today’s test is definitely lighter than yesterday’s. Im sure if it was progressing normally it would be as dark as the control line by now and it’s not. I’m so fed up and just want to know either way [emoji53]


https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4216d8

Mummy lets see how mondays results go. Try to keep enjoying your summer break, hopefully busy will help pass the time.

I will be hoping and wishing for you & your little bean


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emshe
August 2nd, 2018, 05:02 PM
There's the bloated, gassy feeling. Since 5dpo, I've had a weird bad taste in my mouth. But I'm not going to symptom analyze. If I did, I'd convince myself I'm pregnant and end up being too disappointed then. Keep your fx for me jgo. Will be 10 Dpo this Sunday. I might not test at all though.

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🤞🏻


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Pbn3
August 2nd, 2018, 05:09 PM
Hi pbn
Latest chart below. I've never seen such a slow and (hopefully) steady climb. Fx.
Also I got the closest to pos on CD 19. Negative on 20 and 21. My chart says I Oed on 21.
Our BD attempts were CD 17 and 21 as DH was traveling.
I had slight EWCM around cd 19, but took antihistamines twice on 19&20, so I think that makes CM unreliable.
Is there a chance at conception this cycle? I'm not very confident.

Sent from my ONEPLUS A3000 using TapatalkHDP I posted a comment before this about your chart, about 4 posts above it I think [emoji4]

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Pbn3
August 2nd, 2018, 05:16 PM
Hgmama I'm sorry you appt didn't go great. How does she expect you to bd more if dh is having issues finishing [emoji17] And why was hubby against femara?? I have been on zoloft for nearly two years and am very slowly weaning off with my last two packets. I'm down to half tablet e3d. It truly did wonders for me and the reason I'm weaning off over several months is to make sure I can. I hope it helps you as much as it did me [emoji173]

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Thunderstruck7
August 2nd, 2018, 05:18 PM
Your signature worked for me! There doesn't seem to be many of us left after the big influx of BFPs, but I'm sure there will be some newbies here soon. I've learned that after being in the groups since December.
Sorry you've had such a long cycle. Hope it's a random one or sometimes the crazy cycles are the ones that turn out the best.

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)On the up side it's nice that there's less of us because of BFPs ! It give me hope and inspiration.

Back in May I was pretty stressed out and it put my ovulation out of synch, so this is the 3rd crazy cycle but I think it's finally sorting itself out again.

Emshe, happy birthday to your youngest for the other day! My son's birthday is also in 2 weeks!

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Pbn3
August 2nd, 2018, 05:19 PM
Hi ladies, I’ve just been to the doctors and they’ve took blood (results on Monday) but she won’t refer me to the early pregnancy unit till 6 weeks or do a repeat blood test as she said that it’s too early and the results wouldn’t change what they would do, so I just have to wait. It’s not looking good though as today’s test is definitely lighter than yesterday’s. Im sure if it was progressing normally it would be as dark as the control line by now and it’s not. I’m so fed up and just want to know either way [emoji53]


https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4216d8Mummy2boys I really hope this isn't heading towards another loss [emoji17] and seriously? Wth is wrong with your docs over there that they cant even order one round of repeat betas???!!! Like one result is going to be of ANY help. You already know you're pregnant and that's all it will tell you. How incredibly frustrating!!! [emoji34][emoji34] That p*sses me off no end [emoji34]

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kikurose
August 2nd, 2018, 05:22 PM
HDP I think there's definitely a chance this cycle!
HG mama you also have really great odds! FX FX FX for all of you!
Mummy I can imagine how stressful this must be for you. I hope time goes quickly and that Monday gives encouraging results <3
emshe- that cake looks amazing!

mummy2boys
August 2nd, 2018, 05:29 PM
Thanks ladies [emoji4]
My gp called earlier as my results came in quicker than expected and hcg is 95. I’ve no idea if this is good or not.. I’m 15dpo. Anyway, I pretty much begged her to let me do a repeat one and explained how anxious I was and she’s letting me have another test on Monday “but only one more, we’re not getting into serial hcg tests until you have symptoms” So at least I won’t be in limbo for too long.


https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4216d8

emshe
August 2nd, 2018, 05:34 PM
Thanks ladies [emoji4]
My gp called earlier as my results came in quicker than expected and hcg is 95. I’ve no idea if this is good or not.. I’m 15dpo. Anyway, I pretty much begged her to let me do a repeat one and explained how anxious I was and she’s letting me have another test on Monday “but only one more, we’re not getting into serial hcg tests until you have symptoms” So at least I won’t be in limbo for too long.


https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4216d8

I’m so glad she is letting you do a repeat draw mummy, I’m not sure about numbers either so am absolutely no help, sorry [emoji6]

Make some plans to go on a nice family picnic or something over the weekend or do a little project you’ve been thinking about maybe


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mummy2boys
August 2nd, 2018, 05:34 PM
Emshe, that birthday cookie cake looks delicious!! Hope he had a lovely birthday.


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mummy2boys
August 2nd, 2018, 05:35 PM
I’m so glad she is letting you do a repeat draw mummy, I’m not sure about numbers either so am absolutely no help, sorry [emoji6]

Make some plans to go on a nice family picnic or something over the weekend or do a little project you’ve been thinking about maybe


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Thanks Emshe, yeah I’m going to take the boys out tomorrow and try to stop thinking about it all so much.


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Pbn3
August 2nd, 2018, 05:57 PM
Mummy2boys that is THE best news ever!!! Thank god! I'll post a link to a beta conversion for doubling time later if you like? That first number tells you nothing unfortunately [emoji17]

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Heart desires pink LP
August 2nd, 2018, 05:58 PM
Happy bday to your youngest emshe! You'll have to share a pic of whhat you're making! It sounds delish!

Love the letter to strawberrybella's donor hgmama [emoji23][emoji23]

HDP I seen your chart screenshot in July thread and have to say it's strange how it can go from looking so discouraging to hmmmm those plateaued temps look suspiciously promising.... I've seen a number of charts where the temps flatline like that go onto be bfp charts but I've been fooled a couple times by said pattern too [emoji848] especially when the flat line temps are likely pre implantation. You need to post us a daily screenshot though as I'll be very interested to see the next few days temps!!

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emshe
August 2nd, 2018, 06:16 PM
Emshe, that birthday cookie cake looks delicious!! Hope he had a lovely birthday.


https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4216d8

Thank you. He went to bed upset that it would be another 365 days until his next birthday. So funny.


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emshe
August 2nd, 2018, 06:17 PM
Thanks Emshe, yeah I’m going to take the boys out tomorrow and try to stop thinking about it all so much.


https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4216d8

Sounds great, hope you guys have a lovely time


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mummy2boys
August 2nd, 2018, 06:18 PM
Mummy2boys that is THE best news ever!!! Thank god! I'll post a link to a beta conversion for doubling time later if you like? That first number tells you nothing unfortunately [emoji17]

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That would be great, thanks Pbn!


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mummy2boys
August 2nd, 2018, 06:19 PM
Thank you. He went to bed upset that it would be another 365 days until his next birthday. So funny.


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Aw! That’s so cute!


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Mommy2apples
August 2nd, 2018, 07:27 PM
Only thing that matters is doubling numbers mummy. That’s a pretty good number I think for 15dpo. Keeping you in my prayers ❤️


6/2003 [emoji1349]2/2009 [emoji1407] 12/2012 [emoji1349]4/2015 [emoji1406] 2015 [emoji1356] 2016 [emoji1413] The Lord Answered my [emoji1317] 2017🤰due June 2018, with a healthy [emoji1405][emoji166]to fit into our crazy bunch, and Complete our Family![emoji7][emoji8]

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Pbn3
August 2nd, 2018, 08:14 PM
Here you go mummy2boys and remember up to 72 hours doubling time is considered ok bring you'll be past 4w at second draw [emoji4]

HCG Doubling Time Calculator (http://perinatology.com/calculators/betahCG.htm)

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Pbn3
August 2nd, 2018, 08:17 PM
HDP I'm (secretly [emoji6][emoji6]) really excited with your chart. I think o day is possible for either cd20 or cd21. More often than not flatline temps result in a bfp on my experience but again you're smack bang in the middle of when implantation generally takes place so let's see how next two or so temps look. Will you be testing at 10dpo'ish regardless?

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Pbn3
August 2nd, 2018, 08:22 PM
Emshe that's so cute but sad about your ds being upset his bday was over for a year [emoji173]

Looking at your chart I have to ask, do you think it's worth continuing temping? I'd seriously consider stopping for now as due to the dicky temps it doesn't tell us much anyway [emoji848] will you carry on with e4d now? I think you're in with an excellent chance this cycle!! I have a good feeling *rubs hands together with glee* [emoji14]

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Pbn3
August 2nd, 2018, 08:27 PM
Hgmama cant wait for the next few days temps!! So far, so good!

Hopeful really hope you get a spike tomorrow morning or the next! It's so deflating when it doesn't spike when expected but hang in there and make sure you attempt again 72 hours from last attempt [emoji173]

Thunderstruck absolutely no doubt you've oed which must be such a relief after a slow start.... you're at the start of possible implantation eeeeek!!!

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emshe
August 2nd, 2018, 09:28 PM
Emshe that's so cute but sad about your ds being upset his bday was over for a year [emoji173]

Looking at your chart I have to ask, do you think it's worth continuing temping? I'd seriously consider stopping for now as due to the dicky temps it doesn't tell us much anyway [emoji848] will you carry on with e4d now? I think you're in with an excellent chance this cycle!! I have a good feeling *rubs hands together with glee* [emoji14]

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I wonder too!

We had our scheduled e4d attempt this morning. I had real pressure pain last night so hoping that was “pop”


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wildlyluna
August 2nd, 2018, 09:58 PM
Hgmama cant wait for the next few days temps!! So far, so good!

Hopeful really hope you get a spike tomorrow morning or the next! It's so deflating when it doesn't spike when expected but hang in there and make sure you attempt again 72 hours from last attempt [emoji173]

Thunderstruck absolutely no doubt you've oed which must be such a relief after a slow start.... you're at the start of possible implantation eeeeek!!!

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Thanks pbn - I have honestly given up this cycle lol I got a blazing positive OPk again today at 11, so my body is either trying to ovulate or it’s a huuuuggeeee Lh surge!
And we had an oops moment last night and totally blew our e4d attempt [emoji24][emoji24][emoji24]


https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/2fdf7e

wildlyluna
August 2nd, 2018, 10:04 PM
I wonder too!

We had our scheduled e4d attempt this morning. I had real pressure pain last night so hoping that was “pop”


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Ohhhhh I hope so 🤞🤞🤞


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wildlyluna
August 2nd, 2018, 10:05 PM
Thanks ladies [emoji4]
My gp called earlier as my results came in quicker than expected and hcg is 95. I’ve no idea if this is good or not.. I’m 15dpo. Anyway, I pretty much begged her to let me do a repeat one and explained how anxious I was and she’s letting me have another test on Monday “but only one more, we’re not getting into serial hcg tests until you have symptoms” So at least I won’t be in limbo for too long.


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Oh that’s good news! Hope it can ease your worry! Hope you can take it easy until then xx


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Happymommy1987
August 2nd, 2018, 10:06 PM
Good luck emshe!!
Sounds promising


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Pbn3
August 2nd, 2018, 10:11 PM
Thanks pbn - I have honestly given up this cycle lol I got a blazing positive OPk again today at 11, so my body is either trying to ovulate or it’s a huuuuggeeee Lh surge!
And we had an oops moment last night and totally blew our e4d attempt [emoji24][emoji24][emoji24]


https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/2fdf7eDidn't blow it at all!! If you o tomorrow you're in with a fabulous chance!! Oops bd's are often the ones that result in a bfp [emoji12]

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wildlyluna
August 2nd, 2018, 10:34 PM
Didn't blow it at all!! If you o tomorrow you're in with a fabulous chance!! Oops bd's are often the ones that result in a bfp [emoji12]

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Hahaha true! [emoji6]


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Girlswaylondon
August 3rd, 2018, 03:02 AM
That's good to know. How are you feeling ? Can you post a link to your chart if you can.

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It’s in my sig

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emshe
August 3rd, 2018, 04:43 AM
Thanks pbn - I have honestly given up this cycle lol I got a blazing positive OPk again today at 11, so my body is either trying to ovulate or it’s a huuuuggeeee Lh surge!
And we had an oops moment last night and totally blew our e4d attempt [emoji24][emoji24][emoji24]


https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/2fdf7e

Awesome, love that spontaneity!


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Thunderstruck7
August 3rd, 2018, 04:55 AM
Hgmama cant wait for the next few days temps!! So far, so good!

Hopeful really hope you get a spike tomorrow morning or the next! It's so deflating when it doesn't spike when expected but hang in there and make sure you attempt again 72 hours from last attempt [emoji173]

Thunderstruck absolutely no doubt you've oed which must be such a relief after a slow start.... you're at the start of possible implantation eeeeek!!!

Sent from my SM-G900I using TapatalkOh I'm beyond excited to be in the two week wait, since I've never done temps so accurately before I'm also happy to see the pattern emerge... I started to think maybe I'm just different lol

Ovulation did fall right on the full moon which I had suspected and I'm trying not to over-analyse every little niggle thinking it might be implantation... this next week will feel like it'll last forever!!

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6a760f

Pbn3
August 3rd, 2018, 08:37 AM
Hgmama I bet it's hard to try and not get too excited because after seeing your chart just now I know I am [emoji3]!!!

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HGmama
August 3rd, 2018, 08:57 AM
Hgmama I bet it's hard to try and not get too excited because after seeing your chart just now I know I am [emoji3]!!!

Sent from my SM-G900I using TapatalkAnd the right sided cramping I'm having. 🤣[emoji848][emoji12]

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)

kikurose
August 3rd, 2018, 10:28 AM
Oh man! So excited for those in the 2ww. I feel like there are some really exciting signs!! Following HG mama, Thunder, and HDP excitedly!

Hopeful I agree with pbn3- spontaneous is good sometimes! Have to live a little!

Emshe- do you have a chart link?

Mummy- you've been on my mind. I hope you have a wonderful weekend and delightful picnic.

I'm in a big funk over here guys. I want to try again, but I feel like my sway is completely ruined at this point from being pregnant ten weeks (I had dropped the LE diet and exercise). I had worked so hard, and I'm back on the sway now but won't be very long. I didn't go right back on it after my miscarriage, it was just too soon for me.

We also were lucky to conceive but we chose to do Egg meets Sperm after a few months of nothing with one attempt/one at opk, I don't know if my husband (who is now in an incredibly demanding job) and I will be able to do that again. So we may just have to dtd when we have the chance, and pray we don't miss it.

Sorry to vent, just didn't know where else to write this. I know some of you all have experienced miscarriages and I'm wondering what your perspectives were on all this? I'm definitely ready to try again, I guess I'm mostly sad about my "sway" and how much harder I think it will be to sway well enough and to even get pregnant with his new job.

strawberrybella89
August 3rd, 2018, 11:46 AM
CD 3 and nothing exciting going on! Trying not to go to target as they just launched a harry potter baby clothes collection [emoji7]

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/474f80

jgojah
August 3rd, 2018, 12:22 PM
Hdp how was temp this morning? And how r u feeling?

FX for everyone in the tww!!!

gafan
August 3rd, 2018, 02:08 PM
CD 3 and nothing exciting going on! Trying not to go to target as they just launched a harry potter baby clothes collection [emoji7]

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/474f80really?! uh oh

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gafan
August 3rd, 2018, 02:21 PM
Oh man! So excited for those in the 2ww. I feel like there are some really exciting signs!! Following HG mama, Thunder, and HDP excitedly!

Hopeful I agree with pbn3- spontaneous is good sometimes! Have to live a little!

Emshe- do you have a chart link?

Mummy- you've been on my mind. I hope you have a wonderful weekend and delightful picnic.

I'm in a big funk over here guys. I want to try again, but I feel like my sway is completely ruined at this point from being pregnant ten weeks (I had dropped the LE diet and exercise). I had worked so hard, and I'm back on the sway now but won't be very long. I didn't go right back on it after my miscarriage, it was just too soon for me.

We also were lucky to conceive but we chose to do Egg meets Sperm after a few months of nothing with one attempt/one at opk, I don't know if my husband (who is now in an incredibly demanding job) and I will be able to do that again. So we may just have to dtd when we have the chance, and pray we don't miss it.

Sorry to vent, just didn't know where else to write this. I know some of you all have experienced miscarriages and I'm wondering what your perspectives were on all this? I'm definitely ready to try again, I guess I'm mostly sad about my "sway" and how much harder I think it will be to sway well enough and to even get pregnant with his new job.

Kiku, I dont know what the timeframes are for being off the sway and then returning after awhile, but it is possible that you might still benefit from the previous sway- I bet you aren't back at square one. I think most of us don't start swaying again right after a miscarriage. (I started this sway about a month after my d&c.) As for the timing- I understand being worried. I hope it works out for you soon.

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kikurose
August 3rd, 2018, 04:20 PM
Kiku, I dont know what the timeframes are for being off the sway and then returning after awhile, but it is possible that you might still benefit from the previous sway- I bet you aren't back at square one. I think most of us don't start swaying again right after a miscarriage. (I started this sway about a month after my d&c.) As for the timing- I understand being worried. I hope it works out for you soon.

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Thank you gafan, I appreciate it so very much. I'm so excited for your little bean <3 You definitely give me hope!

Heart desires pink LP
August 3rd, 2018, 04:28 PM
Hi ladies
Posting today's chart below. I don't think the drop in temp is good. But I woke up every 2.5-3 hours last night, and not sure how reliable this is. https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180803/bac15390a08d5a4bb5836105303b43af.jpg

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emshe
August 3rd, 2018, 04:28 PM
Oh I'm beyond excited to be in the two week wait, since I've never done temps so accurately before I'm also happy to see the pattern emerge... I started to think maybe I'm just different lol

Ovulation did fall right on the full moon which I had suspected and I'm trying not to over-analyse every little niggle thinking it might be implantation... this next week will feel like it'll last forever!!

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6a760f

🤞🏻


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Heart desires pink LP
August 3rd, 2018, 04:32 PM
Hdp how was temp this morning? And how r u feeling?

FX for everyone in the tww!!!Thanks jgo! Pray for me!!! So much I wish I can join you in the due group soon! I'm feeling okay, the wait is the worst as you'd know too well. Noticeable cramping and sore boobs. I'm 8 dpo today. I want to test on 10 Dpo, but can't bear the negative. Didn't you test with opk first? Does a pos opk around 10dpo indicate pregnancy?

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Heart desires pink LP
August 3rd, 2018, 04:35 PM
HDP I'm (secretly [emoji6][emoji6]) really excited with your chart. I think o day is possible for either cd20 or cd21. More often than not flatline temps result in a bfp on my experience but again you're smack bang in the middle of when implantation generally takes place so let's see how next two or so temps look. Will you be testing at 10dpo'ish regardless?

Sent from my SM-G900I using TapatalkThanks so much for keeping a check on my chart. I posted the one from today below, but I woke up to pee many times, so likely not reliable. At this point, I'm 8dpo, is an increase in temp a good sign? I know that a steady drop will eventually bring AF.

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emshe
August 3rd, 2018, 04:39 PM
Oh man! So excited for those in the 2ww. I feel like there are some really exciting signs!! Following HG mama, Thunder, and HDP excitedly!

Hopeful I agree with pbn3- spontaneous is good sometimes! Have to live a little!

Emshe- do you have a chart link?

Mummy- you've been on my mind. I hope you have a wonderful weekend and delightful picnic.

I'm in a big funk over here guys. I want to try again, but I feel like my sway is completely ruined at this point from being pregnant ten weeks (I had dropped the LE diet and exercise). I had worked so hard, and I'm back on the sway now but won't be very long. I didn't go right back on it after my miscarriage, it was just too soon for me.

We also were lucky to conceive but we chose to do Egg meets Sperm after a few months of nothing with one attempt/one at opk, I don't know if my husband (who is now in an incredibly demanding job) and I will be able to do that again. So we may just have to dtd when we have the chance, and pray we don't miss it.

Sorry to vent, just didn't know where else to write this. I know some of you all have experienced miscarriages and I'm wondering what your perspectives were on all this? I'm definitely ready to try again, I guess I'm mostly sad about my "sway" and how much harder I think it will be to sway well enough and to even get pregnant with his new job.

Kiku Im sorry you’re feeling apprehensive. I read a response only the other day similar to this from atomic and it was quite reassuring. Start a thread and ask her I’m sure you’ll get some feedback and some tips. I believe that your loss also sways pink.

The job thing can be tough it always sends me into a panic around ppl time but usually attempts work out. We found early morning e4d before leaving for work a bit easier this time round, not sure if that could work for you?

We’re all here for you! Vent away [emoji847]

My chart should be in the link below, has it disappeared? Agh, I’m hopeless hope I can fix it




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emshe
August 3rd, 2018, 04:42 PM
And the right sided cramping I'm having. 🤣[emoji848][emoji12]

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)

My goodness it looks so good HG


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emshe
August 3rd, 2018, 04:43 PM
Pbn I seem to have lost my chart link! Help...
How do I fix it again!

I’m sorry I’m hopeless [emoji30]


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mummy2boys
August 3rd, 2018, 04:46 PM
Hi ladies
Posting today's chart below. I don't think the drop in temp is good. But I woke up every 2.5-3 hours last night, and not sure how reliable this is. https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180803/bac15390a08d5a4bb5836105303b43af.jpg

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HDP, is it possibly an implantation dip? I think I had one at 8dpo..


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mummy2boys
August 3rd, 2018, 04:51 PM
Kikurose, thank you for thinking of me [emoji4]
It’s no wonder you’re feeling confused and don’t worry at all about venting, this is the best place for it! I wouldn’t worry too much about your sway, I’m sure atomic told me once that a few weeks off wouldn’t make much difference if you had been on the diet for a while before. Doesn’t a loss sway pink too? I’m sure I read that somewhere.


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emshe
August 3rd, 2018, 04:53 PM
Kiku here’s a snapshot until I can figure it out

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mummy2boys
August 3rd, 2018, 04:53 PM
Hgmama your chart is looking good [emoji7][emoji7]


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mummy2boys
August 3rd, 2018, 04:56 PM
Kiku here’s a snapshot until I can figure it out

https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180803/50bad9bd380c95ec30b3272cb8d4b98c.png


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Emshe, looks like you’ve done an excellent job with attempts! Looks like you’re into the tww now?


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mummy2boys
August 3rd, 2018, 05:00 PM
Thanks pbn - I have honestly given up this cycle lol I got a blazing positive OPk again today at 11, so my body is either trying to ovulate or it’s a huuuuggeeee Lh surge!
And we had an oops moment last night and totally blew our e4d attempt [emoji24][emoji24][emoji24]


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Oopsies are definitely recommended when Ttc I reckon [emoji23]you are more relaxed and just doing it because you want to and that’s gotta be good. Fx for you! 🤞🤞


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mummy2boys
August 3rd, 2018, 05:07 PM
Good luck in the tww 🤞thunderstruck and anyone else I’ve missed!

Well as for me, I tried really hard not to test again today and took my boys out for the day ( in the pouring rain..) which was good to take my mind off it. Then my clear blue tests arrived from amazon and I couldn’t help myself!! ( I seriously have a problem [emoji23][emoji23]) Anyway I got 2-3 weeks which I’m cautiously pleased about, with my last loss I didn’t get that till 20 dpo and I’m 16dpo now. I’m getting my repeat hcg done on Monday but I just wondered if anyone knew what hcg level clear blue is for 2-3 weeks?! Hoping I might find out if it’s going up or not eek https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180803/cc5311acd6ff12c9a6dac230872dc2c8.jpg[emoji51][emoji51]


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emshe
August 3rd, 2018, 05:07 PM
Emshe, looks like you’ve done an excellent job with attempts! Looks like you’re into the tww now?


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I truly hope so to both mummy! Did you enjoy your outing with the boys?


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emshe
August 3rd, 2018, 05:13 PM
I think I did it!? Can you guys see my chart link again now?



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Mommy2apples
August 3rd, 2018, 05:25 PM
Mummy2boys what a great thing seeing 2-3 weeks! I agree when I miscarried. Never did get a 2-3 weeks.

Here’s what I looked up. https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180803/ef2e5abb1b87fa0632772c73a27c6896.png I’ll search others too.


6/2003 [emoji1349]2/2009 [emoji1407] 12/2012 [emoji1349]4/2015 [emoji1406] 2015 [emoji1356] 2016 [emoji1413] The Lord Answered my [emoji1317] 2017🤰due June 2018, with a healthy [emoji1405][emoji166]to fit into our crazy bunch, and Complete our Family![emoji7][emoji8]

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Heart desires pink LP
August 3rd, 2018, 05:44 PM
I think I did it!? Can you guys see my chart link again now?



https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/35220bYep I see it!

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Heart desires pink LP
August 3rd, 2018, 05:45 PM
HDP, is it possibly an implantation dip? I think I had one at 8dpo..


https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4216d8I don't know. I thought the ID had to be very obvious like below the coverline. If temps go back up tomorrow, that might be a good sign. Fx

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Pbn3
August 3rd, 2018, 05:49 PM
Mummy2boys I'm going to be the annoying person here and say as someone who has had repeated losses (meaning yourself) take the test result with a grain of salt and put zero thought into what numbers *should* be etc to get the different readings. You'll find a thousand stories of inaccuracy regarding these weeks estimators. They have caused a lot of unnecessary stress on one hand and false confidence on the other, and I can say that as someone who researched for hours about them when I went through similar. I know how hard it is to wait but the only accurate result will be your bw results. Even then though, I learnt the hard way that great early repeat beta results dont always mean a successful pregnancy BUT it is definately comforting and more often than not a sign of success plus it's alot more accurate than test progression.

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Pbn3
August 3rd, 2018, 05:56 PM
Emshe your chart link is back!

HDP one small dip in temp means nothing. As for what to watch for now, either a rise back up and higher is promising but so is a rise back up and maintaining. As long as you dont see a steady decline - like you mentioned - over the next few days, I'd be feeling pretty darn good about testing. I understand your hesitation though at seeing a bfn and when your chart looks good it makes a bfn so much harder to swallow. The opk thing doesn't always work. So lh and hcg are kinda like twin hormones, an opk will pick up hcg and show as pos (but not before a hpt would) but a hpt doesn't detect lh (not that we'd use hpts as opks anyway [emoji857]) however, a lh surge just before is possible and I myself have gotten a dark but not pos opk i nthe days prior to af being due. So in short [emoji23] a pos opk from 10dpo onwards would be promising BUT neither a gaurantee that it would be followed either a bfp OR bfn.

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Pbn3
August 3rd, 2018, 05:58 PM
I don't know. I thought the ID had to be very obvious like below the coverline. If temps go back up tomorrow, that might be a good sign. Fx

Sent from my ONEPLUS A3000 using TapatalkYes usually implantation dips are characterized by a dip down to or below coverline. Not everyone sees an implantation dip though remember. It's more common to not see one than to see one. Usually a week or so after o a secondary estrogen surge can cause a dip in temp and that is what we most commonly see.

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Pbn3
August 3rd, 2018, 06:04 PM
Kikurose I second what emshe said about creatng a thread for atomic to respond to. I also agree that attempts have a qay of just working out most times and the less thought and stress you put into it the better [emoji173] I know it's hard to remember but it takes a single sperm to fertilise an egg so while smep certainly ups your odds, if you only get one attempt in at 'go' time then you still have every chance. I would just bd whenever possible at least every few days and then if using opks try for an extra attempt then. If it works out with hubbys work great! If not, you'll still have a viable attempt by dtd every few days anyway [emoji4] As for the swaying side though, definately ask Atomics advice. She has a great way of calming things down with her explanations and advice [emoji173]

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mummy2boys
August 3rd, 2018, 06:05 PM
Emshe, yes we had a lovely day out thank you!
Thank you Mommy, yes it did feel good to get that result. Thanks for the screenshot, that’s really helpful [emoji106]
Pbn, thank you for your honesty. I totally get what you are saying and I too have done a bit of googling and I won’t be putting my faith in the test. It has just made me chill out a little though and I suppose that must be a good thing as my anxiety is pretty high at the moment. The waiting is so hard!! I just feel in limbo. How did you cope whilst waiting for your first scan?


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kikurose
August 3rd, 2018, 06:12 PM
Emshe thank you! Great idea on the am!! And thanks for the chart- when do you usually O after opk? Fx for you this cycle!

Mummy thank you! I’ve heard loss sways pink too, but I know several people who had boys when they got pregnant right after losses. And I was on the diet for seven months so you’re right- hope some of that stuck [emoji51]




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kikurose
August 3rd, 2018, 06:19 PM
Kikurose I second what emshe said about creatng a thread for atomic to respond to. I also agree that attempts have a qay of just working out most times and the less thought and stress you put into it the better [emoji173] I know it's hard to remember but it takes a single sperm to fertilise an egg so while smep certainly ups your odds, if you only get one attempt in at 'go' time then you still have every chance. I would just bd whenever possible at least every few days and then if using opks try for an extra attempt then. If it works out with hubbys work great! If not, you'll still have a viable attempt by dtd every few days anyway [emoji4] As for the swaying side though, definately ask Atomics advice. She has a great way of calming things down with her explanations and advice [emoji173]

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Thank you so much, pbn <3

Pbn3
August 3rd, 2018, 06:22 PM
Mummy2boys as awful as this sounds I just assumed I wouldn't get that far... when I got to the dating scan I was measuring 2? days behind and in my mind the hb was too slow. So more waiting to mc until I got my NIPT results back at 11-12w which showed bub had no abnormalities. Only then did I start feeling a glimmer of hope but it wasn't until my 12w scan and seeing bub happy and healthy in there that I actually allowed myself to believe that this was going to be my take home baby.

I'm not sure what to say here as of course I want you to have hope and I have a gazillion truckloads of it for you but I'm not going to insult your intelligence either by saying you shouldn't worry and try not to stress as once you've been through repeated losses it's impossible. All I can say is have hope but let it be cautious hope until you get to your first scan [emoji173] Feel like a big fat meanie for saying all that [emoji17] but life isn't all rainbows and unicorns. Just know I'm here for you to vent, stress and celebrate with at any time. You can pm me whenever you need and I'll always be honest with you [emoji847]

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mummy2boys
August 3rd, 2018, 06:41 PM
Thank you Pbn, I truly appreciate all your help, kindness and honesty. I don’t know what we would all do without you in this group! I am so, so happy that you got your precious little girl and that all the worry you had was utterly worth it in the end. I know I will continue to stress and freak out until/if I manage to make it through to the 12 week scan and probably after too [emoji51] I am a big worrier unfortunately. Thank goodness this group is here to have somewhere safe and supportive to get all this stuff out! Thank you again [emoji4]


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Pbn3
August 3rd, 2018, 07:00 PM
Thankyou mummy2boys [emoji173] I don't know how I would've got through the last few years without the wonderful ladies on this site. I'm just simply paying it forward plus seeing bfps (especially long and heartbreaking in the making ones) brings such a joy and happiness that sometimes I feel like a bfp parasite [emoji23]

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jgojah
August 3rd, 2018, 08:12 PM
Thanks jgo! Pray for me!!! So much I wish I can join you in the due group soon! I'm feeling okay, the wait is the worst as you'd know too well. Noticeable cramping and sore boobs. I'm 8 dpo today. I want to test on 10 Dpo, but can't bear the negative. Didn't you test with opk first? Does a pos opk around 10dpo indicate pregnancy?

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With my last pregnancy I read that a positive opk may indicate pregnancy and so I tried it and it was positive. So this time because I was so scared to test and see a negative i decided to just try the opk and see what happens and because it was positive I got some courage to do the hpt. I did mine at 11dpo with pretty concentrated fmu.

Most sites I read that the opk would turn positive after a positive hpt. I was just too chicken this time to do the hpt first lol

Pbn3
August 3rd, 2018, 08:46 PM
Hopeful how are you? Have you got pics of your pos opks? 4 in a row is unusual but I've seen it a couple times so it does happen. Terribly frustrating though [emoji17]

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Pbn3
August 3rd, 2018, 08:47 PM
Oh and maybe hold off until Sunday with next attempt if you're wanting to keep a pink lean with attempts... hoping you o today so you have an awesome timed 2-o attempt fx fx fx!

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Heart desires pink LP
August 3rd, 2018, 08:52 PM
Emshe your chart link is back!

HDP one small dip in temp means nothing. As for what to watch for now, either a rise back up and higher is promising but so is a rise back up and maintaining. As long as you dont see a steady decline - like you mentioned - over the next few days, I'd be feeling pretty darn good about testing. I understand your hesitation though at seeing a bfn and when your chart looks good it makes a bfn so much harder to swallow. The opk thing doesn't always work. So lh and hcg are kinda like twin hormones, an opk will pick up hcg and show as pos (but not before a hpt would) but a hpt doesn't detect lh (not that we'd use hpts as opks anyway [emoji857]) however, a lh surge just before is possible and I myself have gotten a dark but not pos opk i nthe days prior to af being due. So in short [emoji23] a pos opk from 10dpo onwards would be promising BUT neither a gaurantee that it would be followed either a bfp OR bfn.

Sent from my SM-G900I using TapatalkThis is so very true - 'I understand your hesitation though at seeing a bfn and when your chart looks good it makes a bfn so much harder to swallow.' thank you for being so kind and patient and explaining the lh and hcg equation. I think when God and the universe wants me to bring a baby into this world, it'll happen :-)

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gafan
August 3rd, 2018, 09:51 PM
Mummy2boys as awful as this sounds I just assumed I wouldn't get that far... when I got to the dating scan I was measuring 2? days behind and in my mind the hb was too slow. So more waiting to mc until I got my NIPT results back at 11-12w which showed bub had no abnormalities. Only then did I start feeling a glimmer of hope but it wasn't until my 12w scan and seeing bub happy and healthy in there that I actually allowed myself to believe that this was going to be my take home baby.

I'm not sure what to say here as of course I want you to have hope and I have a gazillion truckloads of it for you but I'm not going to insult your intelligence either by saying you shouldn't worry and try not to stress as once you've been through repeated losses it's impossible. All I can say is have hope but let it be cautious hope until you get to your first scan [emoji173] Feel like a big fat meanie for saying all that [emoji17] but life isn't all rainbows and unicorns. Just know I'm here for you to vent, stress and celebrate with at any time. You can pm me whenever you need and I'll always be honest with you [emoji847]

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Thank you for writing this, Pbn. I feel like I am holding my breath until a 12 week scan. With my miscarriage I heard a heartbeat at 7.5 weeks and thought I'd made it to the second trimester, but the embryo stopped developing very soon after that scan. When/if I reach the second trimester and hear that strong hearbeat I will believe this is really going to work out. Until then I will hope cautiously. There's nothing to do except worry or hope cautiously, so let's aim for hope.

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emshe
August 3rd, 2018, 09:56 PM
Good luck in the tww 🤞thunderstruck and anyone else I’ve missed!

Well as for me, I tried really hard not to test again today and took my boys out for the day ( in the pouring rain..) which was good to take my mind off it. Then my clear blue tests arrived from amazon and I couldn’t help myself!! ( I seriously have a problem [emoji23][emoji23]) Anyway I got 2-3 weeks which I’m cautiously pleased about, with my last loss I didn’t get that till 20 dpo and I’m 16dpo now. I’m getting my repeat hcg done on Monday but I just wondered if anyone knew what hcg level clear blue is for 2-3 weeks?! Hoping I might find out if it’s going up or not eek https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180803/cc5311acd6ff12c9a6dac230872dc2c8.jpg[emoji51][emoji51]


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Beautiful!


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Pbn3
August 3rd, 2018, 11:26 PM
I will be hoping right along with you Gafan and stalking the ddg [emoji173]


Thank you for writing this, Pbn. I feel like I am holding my breath until a 12 week scan. With my miscarriage I heard a heartbeat at 7.5 weeks and thought I'd made it to the second trimester, but the embryo stopped developing very soon after that scan. When/if I reach the second trimester and hear that strong hearbeat I will believe this is really going to work out. Until then I will hope cautiously. There's nothing to do except worry or hope cautiously, so let's aim for hope.

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wildlyluna
August 3rd, 2018, 11:57 PM
Oh and maybe hold off until Sunday with next attempt if you're wanting to keep a pink lean with attempts... hoping you o today so you have an awesome timed 2-o attempt fx fx fx!

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Thank you [emoji4]
I think its finally going to happen! Lots of EWCM ( well actually slightly blood stained , weird !) today and my temp slightly dropped.
I’ll try and attach a pic .
One is the last one I took and the other is all of the others [emoji6]
And yes no more attempts now lol https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180804/cdf9353cc4b69017832979a6b22dbc87.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180804/de39e72e510e0d3c9fb9a9c1e0985e48.jpg


https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/2fdf7e

wildlyluna
August 3rd, 2018, 11:58 PM
I think I did it!? Can you guys see my chart link again now?



https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/35220b

Yes I see it now, been wondering why I couldn’t see it! Looks good 🤞


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emshe
August 4th, 2018, 01:10 AM
Thank you [emoji4]
I think its finally going to happen! Lots of EWCM ( well actually slightly blood stained , weird !) today and my temp slightly dropped.
I’ll try and attach a pic .
One is the last one I took and the other is all of the others [emoji6]
And yes no more attempts now lol https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180804/cdf9353cc4b69017832979a6b22dbc87.jpghttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180804/de39e72e510e0d3c9fb9a9c1e0985e48.jpg


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Yay! I think the slight blood streak is a surge if estrogen? Good luck hopeful. TWW!!!


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Pbn3
August 4th, 2018, 05:38 AM
Hmmm todays and yesterdays definately positive and I've heard of (but not experienced) ovulation spotting? Hopefully it is that and we see a temp rise in the morning.. Otherwise an attempt tomorrow will cover you for delayed o regardless [emoji173]

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wildlyluna
August 4th, 2018, 06:23 AM
Hmmm todays and yesterdays definately positive and I've heard of (but not experienced) ovulation spotting? Hopefully it is that and we see a temp rise in the morning.. Otherwise an attempt tomorrow will cover you for delayed o regardless [emoji173]

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Ohh sorry, I meant to say, that was the positive from yesterday , I took one at 4pm yesterday and it was negative finally!!
So it’s around the corner, this will be my longest cycle of my life 🤣🤣


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Heart desires pink LP
August 4th, 2018, 06:40 AM
Good morning ladies
Temps from this morning. I did wake up every few hours.
Against my better judgment and resolve, I tested with frer this morning. I'm 9dpo. Got BFN. I really wish I hadn't tested and ruined my mood at the start of the day. Not knowing would have given me hope to wait optimistically for the new few days :-(
My boobs are sore, larger and the aereola /nipple area looks a shade darker. That got me excited to test.
Now, I don't want to test tomorrow. If I can hold out, I'll test on 11dpo. Wish you all good luck! https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180804/6bff96b07c209a113dd6e5be084a97a4.jpg

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emshe
August 4th, 2018, 06:52 AM
Good morning ladies
Temps from this morning. I did wake up every few hours.
Against my better judgment and resolve, I tested with frer this morning. I'm 9dpo. Got BFN. I really wish I hadn't tested and ruined my mood at the start of the day. Not knowing would have given me hope to wait optimistically for the new few days :-(
My boobs are sore, larger and the aereola /nipple area looks a shade darker. That got me excited to test.
Now, I don't want to test tomorrow. If I can hold out, I'll test on 11dpo. Wish you all good luck! https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180804/6bff96b07c209a113dd6e5be084a97a4.jpg

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HDP hold onto hope, your symptoms sound positive, 9dpo is very early. Give it a couple of days and you may just get that bfp we’re all wanting for you [emoji847]


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wildlyluna
August 4th, 2018, 06:54 AM
Good morning ladies
Temps from this morning. I did wake up every few hours.
Against my better judgment and resolve, I tested with frer this morning. I'm 9dpo. Got BFN. I really wish I hadn't tested and ruined my mood at the start of the day. Not knowing would have given me hope to wait optimistically for the new few days :-(
My boobs are sore, larger and the aereola /nipple area looks a shade darker. That got me excited to test.
Now, I don't want to test tomorrow. If I can hold out, I'll test on 11dpo. Wish you all good luck! https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180804/6bff96b07c209a113dd6e5be084a97a4.jpg

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still very early ! Your chart looks very promising . Have everything crossed for you! 🤞🤞


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Heart desires pink LP
August 4th, 2018, 06:57 AM
HDP hold onto hope, your symptoms sound positive, 9dpo is very early. Give it a couple of days and you may just get that bfp we’re all wanting for you [emoji847]


https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/35220bThanks emshe. Are you in the 2ww too? I'm rooting for ya!

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Heart desires pink LP
August 4th, 2018, 06:57 AM
still very early ! Your chart looks very promising . Have everything crossed for you! 🤞🤞


https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/2fdf7eThanks and I love your username. I need more of that to keep this up! :)

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Girlswaylondon
August 4th, 2018, 07:11 AM
As I always say I didn’t even get a Squinter until 12dpo! And my first sign was dark nips :p

Pbn3
August 4th, 2018, 07:39 AM
HDP a rise is always a hopeful sign but yes disturbed sleep can cause a falsely high temp too. Good news is 9dpo is normally simply too early for a bfp so will look forward to your next test whenever that will be [emoji3][emoji173] (tomorrow right? [emoji12] just kiddin [emoji173])

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jgojah
August 4th, 2018, 08:16 AM
Good morning ladies
Temps from this morning. I did wake up every few hours.
Against my better judgment and resolve, I tested with frer this morning. I'm 9dpo. Got BFN. I really wish I hadn't tested and ruined my mood at the start of the day. Not knowing would have given me hope to wait optimistically for the new few days :-(
My boobs are sore, larger and the aereola /nipple area looks a shade darker. That got me excited to test.
Now, I don't want to test tomorrow. If I can hold out, I'll test on 11dpo. Wish you all good luck! https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180804/6bff96b07c209a113dd6e5be084a97a4.jpg

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Temp spike is exciting, though as pbn said the disturbed sleep could cause it to have been high.

I pray that you end up having a good day especially knowing that 9dpo is pretty early. I also hope that you can easily hold out until 11dpo :)

I dont know if this is true for everyone but I think a symptom that is not usually a post ovulation one for you is a good sign.

FX that temp stays high!!!

Noemi2017
August 4th, 2018, 08:17 AM
Gafan i understand u. Waiting till 12 weeks is very long and we are worry if everything is ok... we must believe and pray:pray::heart:

jgojah
August 4th, 2018, 08:25 AM
Good luck in the tww 🤞thunderstruck and anyone else I’ve missed!

Well as for me, I tried really hard not to test again today and took my boys out for the day ( in the pouring rain..) which was good to take my mind off it. Then my clear blue tests arrived from amazon and I couldn’t help myself!! ( I seriously have a problem [emoji23][emoji23]) Anyway I got 2-3 weeks which I’m cautiously pleased about, with my last loss I didn’t get that till 20 dpo and I’m 16dpo now. I’m getting my repeat hcg done on Monday but I just wondered if anyone knew what hcg level clear blue is for 2-3 weeks?! Hoping I might find out if it’s going up or not eek https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180803/cc5311acd6ff12c9a6dac230872dc2c8.jpg[emoji51][emoji51]


https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4216d8

:awe:

M2b, this made my heart so happy :)

I pray the tests on Monday reveal that things are moving positively.

Can I ask which Amazon you use? I couldn't find these on Amazon US.

jgojah
August 4th, 2018, 08:26 AM
Gafan i understand u. Waiting till 12 weeks is very long and we are worry if everything is ok... we must believe and pray:pray::heart:

So true noemi!

One hurdle is getting those 2 lines and the next is praying for a h&h 9 months.

How have you been? When is your next appt?

Heart desires pink LP
August 4th, 2018, 09:42 AM
Thanks for the support girls! It cheered me up. My family is visiting and we are driving up to Catskill in upstate NY for the day! So I'm going to just jump into family day and be goofy and take my mind off this!
I think I might be pregnant, because my breasts are killing me. I changed clothes thrice this morning trying to get comfortable. Like most women, I also have some tender breasts as PMS, but never to the point of constant discomfort. I'm also cramping on /off the past 3 days. At this point, I'm sort of uncomfortable and wish this will pass. I've only had this type of discomfort in my early days of nursing.
Hope you all have a relaxing weekend! And may the next week be filled with happy Aug BFPs.
Let's see if we can keep up with July! :)

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Noemi2017
August 4th, 2018, 11:03 AM
Hello jgojah, im tired and i still have nausea. Next appt is on Thursday so i will again worry if everything is ok. What about u? How do u feel?

HGmama
August 4th, 2018, 02:27 PM
Somebody please make me stop symptom spotting! I'm going crazy.

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)

Noemi2017
August 4th, 2018, 02:37 PM
It looks very promising HGmama:fingers::luck:

GirlieCat
August 4th, 2018, 03:27 PM
Hello all, just wanted to say hi and I am jumping in the TTC wagon again. I finally started my cycle again after having my daughter 13.5 months ago. I am not swaying really but I did with my first. This month will be our first attempt.
Any ladies here who had a LO back in spring or summer of 2017? Loved this group with my first and happy to be here again.


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HGmama
August 4th, 2018, 04:00 PM
Hello all, just wanted to say hi and I am jumping in the TTC wagon again. I finally started my cycle again after having my daughter 13.5 months ago. I am not swaying really but I did with my first. This month will be our first attempt.
Any ladies here who had a LO back in spring or summer of 2017? Loved this group with my first and happy to be here again.


Sent from my iPhone using TapatalkWelcome back! What CD are you and are you swaying green? Or hoping anything?

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)

emshe
August 4th, 2018, 04:52 PM
Somebody please make me stop symptom spotting! I'm going crazy.

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)

[emoji23] watching and wishing HG


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emshe
August 4th, 2018, 04:53 PM
Hello all, just wanted to say hi and I am jumping in the TTC wagon again. I finally started my cycle again after having my daughter 13.5 months ago. I am not swaying really but I did with my first. This month will be our first attempt.
Any ladies here who had a LO back in spring or summer of 2017? Loved this group with my first and happy to be here again.


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Hi & welcome! All the best with your attempt girlie cat


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emshe
August 4th, 2018, 04:55 PM
Hello jgojah, im tired and i still have nausea. Next appt is on Thursday so i will again worry if everything is ok. What about u? How do u feel?

Noemi & jgojah, have been thinking of you both. Hope you’re getting some nice rest at times.
I’m sure your appointment will bring you reassurance noemi


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emshe
August 4th, 2018, 04:55 PM
Thanks for the support girls! It cheered me up. My family is visiting and we are driving up to Catskill in upstate NY for the day! So I'm going to just jump into family day and be goofy and take my mind off this!
I think I might be pregnant, because my breasts are killing me. I changed clothes thrice this morning trying to get comfortable. Like most women, I also have some tender breasts as PMS, but never to the point of constant discomfort. I'm also cramping on /off the past 3 days. At this point, I'm sort of uncomfortable and wish this will pass. I've only had this type of discomfort in my early days of nursing.
Hope you all have a relaxing weekend! And may the next week be filled with happy Aug BFPs.
Let's see if we can keep up with July! :)

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Enjoy your day HDP sounds like fun!


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Thunderstruck7
August 4th, 2018, 05:16 PM
Somebody please make me stop symptom spotting! I'm going crazy.

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)It's so hard to not symptom spot isn't it! I keep telling myself it's just too early yet!
What day will you be testing?

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mummy2boys
August 4th, 2018, 05:20 PM
:awe:

M2b, this made my heart so happy :)

I pray the tests on Monday reveal that things are moving positively.

Can I ask which Amazon you use? I couldn't find these on Amazon US.

Thanks jgojah [emoji4] I’m in the UK, maybe you can’t get them over there?


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Pbn3
August 4th, 2018, 05:21 PM
Hgmama and thunderstruck I was just coming on here after looking at your charts to find out when are you testing??!! Both your charts look so good! Cant wait to see the next couple days temps!!!

Hi girliecat! I love seeing ladies return to these threads after their first bub! Not sure if you remember me or not as I wasn't in your ddg but was active in these 2ww threads. Where are you at cycle wise and are you ttc now?

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Pbn3
August 4th, 2018, 05:24 PM
Jgojah I remember a long time ago (as in possibly 1.5/2 years) that US pulled the weeks estimators from the shelves and were no longer selling them in store or online. We were still able to get them either way here in Aus. There was a reason behind it but I cant recall what it was....

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mummy2boys
August 4th, 2018, 05:24 PM
Like others have said HDP, 9dpo is really early ( I tested then too though lol and got bfn) Your chart is looking good, I’ve got everything crossed for you 🤞

Hi and welcome girliecat!

Ha ha it’s so hard not to symptom spot hgmama! Your chat is looking very pretty [emoji7] When will you test?


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mummy2boys
August 4th, 2018, 05:27 PM
Thunderstruck, your chart looks good too! Ooh I am enjoying stalking all these charts [emoji23][emoji23]When will you test?


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Thunderstruck7
August 4th, 2018, 05:31 PM
Pbn3, I'm trying to hold out until Tuesday, 10dpo but it seems so far away!
It's hard for me to not get semi excited seeing the temps I'm getting, tomorrow and the next few days will give s good indication for sure! Eeek [emoji51]

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HGmama
August 4th, 2018, 05:37 PM
Hgmama and thunderstruck I was just coming on here after looking at your charts to find out when are you testing??!! Both your charts look so good! Cant wait to see the next couple days temps!!!

Hi girliecat! I love seeing ladies return to these threads after their first bub! Not sure if you remember me or not as I wasn't in your ddg but was active in these 2ww threads. Where are you at cycle wise and are you ttc now?

Sent from my SM-G900I using TapatalkI test with FRER tomorrow! Especially if my LP is only 10 days then I'll only be wasting 2 FRERs.

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Pbn3
August 4th, 2018, 05:46 PM
Jgojah this was the reason they pulled them but you'd think they'd have sorted it by now [emoji848] https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180804/3925e7ee27ef9595c5f304199e55583d.jpg

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Pbn3
August 4th, 2018, 05:47 PM
Eeeeek!!!! Can't wait for you both to test!!!

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Heart desires pink LP
August 4th, 2018, 07:24 PM
I test with FRER tomorrow! Especially if my LP is only 10 days then I'll only be wasting 2 FRERs.

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)Fx for you mama. Your chart looks very very promising. I hope we both get our bfp's tomorrow.
Any symptoms during the wait?

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Pbn3
August 4th, 2018, 07:37 PM
HDP how long in hours until you test again?

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Heart desires pink LP
August 4th, 2018, 07:47 PM
HDP how long in hours until you test again?

Sent from my SM-G900I using TapatalkIt's 7.45 pm here on Saturday night. I will test with Fmu Sunday morning. Maybe another 12 hours.
I might just do a cheapie. The stark negative on the frer breaks my heart! I'll see how I feel tomorrow.
Pbn, in your experience, do majority of the ladies get at least faint bfp's on 10 Dpo? I know that 11dpo is much better at clear results. I haven't seen squinters at 11 dpo and beyond, in my short time here.

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Pbn3
August 4th, 2018, 08:41 PM
Yes HDP usually 10dpo is a good starting point for a faint but still obvious line. However there is always the exception. There's been 3 ladies I know of during my time that had stark bfns on 10dpo and went on to get bfps within the next couple days. And I'm referring to frers too. Hoping I'll still be awake when you test [emoji102]

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Pbn3
August 4th, 2018, 08:44 PM
Emshe what's your best guess at o day? Cd18, 19, 20? Can you share a screenshot of chart before last as I only get to see the current and previous through links and I'm hoping to get a better idea of how your post o temps look....

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emshe
August 4th, 2018, 09:51 PM
Emshe what's your best guess at o day? Cd18, 19, 20? Can you share a screenshot of chart before last as I only get to see the current and previous through links and I'm hoping to get a better idea of how your post o temps look....

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https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180805/855d4a85dd2a207d0cec1292bd065f3f.png

[emoji23] lol!



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emshe
August 4th, 2018, 09:57 PM
https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180805/855d4a85dd2a207d0cec1292bd065f3f.png

[emoji23] lol!



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Cycle before that may be more helpful

https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180805/8ea2fe8983542c3635417f8f5b513103.png

I had the real pressure pain the night after positive opk, so cd18, I usually see the temp change morning after that, but this time it was that morning so it’s weird. I don’t know. Maybe cd19 but no great rise after that either.

Confused 🤷*♀️


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HGmama
August 4th, 2018, 09:58 PM
https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180805/855d4a85dd2a207d0cec1292bd065f3f.png

[emoji23] lol!



https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/35220bYep that's not going to help the chart queen. Hehe.

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emshe
August 4th, 2018, 09:59 PM
Yep that's not going to help the chart queen. Hehe.

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)

Hilarious!


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HGmama
August 4th, 2018, 10:02 PM
Fx for you mama. Your chart looks very very promising. I hope we both get our bfp's tomorrow.
Any symptoms during the wait?

Sent from my ONEPLUS A3000 using TapatalkWell when I was symptom spotting I had forgotten I started zoloft yesterday. Today and yesterday I have had nausea, headache, and falling asleep at 9. Sooo tired. Well all problems of starting zoloft too.

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Pbn3
August 4th, 2018, 10:16 PM
Emshe yep [emoji52] to last cycle [emoji23]

Well cd19 and 20's temps are both looking post o in any case but either way you have some excellant attempts there timing wise!! So what day will you test? Monday week? Or next Sunday?

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Pbn3
August 4th, 2018, 10:19 PM
Can one dose cause all that though hgmama? Did they have you wean into it? I started on a half tablet for the first week before going onto a full one when I started. I remember getting some headaches and possibly nausea but pretty sure it was during the second week [emoji848]
Well when I was symptom spotting I had forgotten I started zoloft yesterday. Today and yesterday I have had nausea, headache, and falling asleep at 9. Sooo tired. Well all problems of starting zoloft too.

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HGmama
August 4th, 2018, 10:28 PM
Can one dose cause all that though hgmama? Did they have you wean into it? I started on a half tablet for the first week before going onto a full one when I started. I remember getting some headaches and possibly nausea but pretty sure it was during the second week [emoji848]

Sent from my SM-G900I using TapatalkRight... idk... my HG cant start quite this early. I've had two doses. They did not have me wean in to it. If it persists and not pregnant, then I'll call about adjusting med. I really have barely ate all day. Sooo blah.
Secretly hope it's just pregnancy.

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emshe
August 4th, 2018, 10:31 PM
Emshe yep [emoji52] to last cycle [emoji23]

Well cd19 and 20's temps are both looking post o in any case but either way you have some excellant attempts there timing wise!! So what day will you test? Monday week? Or next Sunday?

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Think we will all be kept guessing!
No idea when or if Ill test really. Im confused in all aspects of everything.

Ladies can I ask about zoloft and your experiences. Completely understand if you'd rather not. I am beginning to think, well have for a while actually, that it maybe time for me to get some help. I did try a psychologist last year which gave me some strategies to try. Anxiety is my biggest problem, but I think I am also feeling sad and a bit disconnected from living too. My mind never stops and I think this has alot to do with my sleep issues.

emshe
August 4th, 2018, 10:32 PM
Well when I was symptom spotting I had forgotten I started zoloft yesterday. Today and yesterday I have had nausea, headache, and falling asleep at 9. Sooo tired. Well all problems of starting zoloft too.

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)

Surely not the zoloft that fast, I think you're in with an awesome chance HG! And you have had symptoms longer than yesterday so I think its more likely hormonal :)

Pbn3
August 4th, 2018, 10:34 PM
Right... idk... my HG cant start quite this early. I've had two doses. They did not have me wean in to it. If it persists and not pregnant, then I'll call about adjusting med. I really have barely ate all day. Sooo blah.
Secretly hope it's just pregnancy.

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)Me too!! Literally holding my breath for your test!!

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Pbn3
August 4th, 2018, 10:49 PM
Think we will all be kept guessing!
No idea when or if Ill test really. Im confused in all aspects of everything.

Ladies can I ask about zoloft and your experiences. Completely understand if you'd rather not. I am beginning to think, well have for a while actually, that it maybe time for me to get some help. I did try a psychologist last year which gave me some strategies to try. Anxiety is my biggest problem, but I think I am also feeling sad and a bit disconnected from living too. My mind never stops and I think this has alot to do with my sleep issues.I don't mind at all emshe as for me it was a life saver. I was in a deep depression and experiencing wild mood swings, from deliriously happy to a sobbing mess. I felt useless as a wife and mother and had some insane thoughts about how much better off everyone would be without me and that my kids would be young enough they wouldn't remember me anyway, that kinda thing. After god knows what number phone call ringing my mum drunk in tears I finally made the appt to see my gp. Even that made me depressed as I felt like a failure at the thought of needing meds. She immediately started me on zoloft and I was referred to a psychologist. I only ended up seeing him three times as the zoloft worked absolute wonders!! I felt like 'me' again and realised I had truly lost who I was as a person and had just become this empty shell that functioned normally on the outside but inside I was dying. It was within the second and third week I felt the change and I could cry now remembering the relief I felt at feeling normal again. I weaned back to a half tablet before I fell pregnant as I was planning to stop taking it, but stayed on it during my pregnacy and after as I was too scared the hormones would send me back and that terrified the crap out of me. I have been very slowly weaning off over the past couple months and am currently taking a half dose every third day which I will spread out to every 4 days in 2/3 weeks time. I'll do few weeks of one half dose a week then stop altogether. So far so good and zero symptoms of depression creeping back which I am so thankful for. If I ever in life feel that way again I will have no hesitation at going back on it. I will never ever allow myself to get back in that position. I am now a huge advocate of anti depressants as without them I do not believe I would have got better. They gave me clarity and allowed me to see and recognise what had happened and gave me the time needed to heal [emoji173]

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emshe
August 4th, 2018, 11:01 PM
I don't mind at all emshe as for me it was a life saver. I was in a deep depression and experiencing wild mood swings, from deliriously happy to a sobbing mess. I felt useless as a wife and mother and had some insane thoughts about how much better off everyone would be without me and that my kids would be young enough they wouldn't remember me anyway, that kinda thing. After god knows what number phone call ringing my mum drunk in tears I finally made the appt to see my gp. Even that made me depressed as I felt like a failure at the thought of needing meds. She immediately started me on zoloft and I was referred to a psychologist. I only ended up seeing him three times as the zoloft worked absolute wonders!! I felt like 'me' again and realised I had truly lost who I was as a person and had just become this empty shell that functioned normally on the outside but inside I was dying. It was within the second and third week I felt the change and I could cry now remembering the relief I felt at feeling normal again. I weaned back to a half tablet before I fell pregnant as I was planning to stop taking it, but stayed on it during my pregnacy and after as I was too scared the hormones would send me back and that terrified the crap out of me. I have been very slowly weaning off over the past couple months and am currently taking a half dose every third day which I will spread out to every 4 days in 2/3 weeks time. I'll do few weeks of one half dose a week then stop altogether. So far so good and zero symptoms of depression creeping back which I am so thankful for. If I ever in life feel that way again I will have no hesitation at going back on it. I will never ever allow myself to get back in that position. I am now a huge advocate of anti depressants as without them I do not believe I would have got better. They gave me clarity and allowed me to see and recognise what had happened and gave me the time needed to heal [emoji173]

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Thank you so much for sharing Pbn, I can relate to your feelings. Im so sorry you ever had to feel like that and am so happy that you are feeling good coming off the meds, long may that continue Pbn.

Pbn3
August 4th, 2018, 11:02 PM
I should mention that this all went down after my 2nd loss. There were things that happened with it and other things at the same time that escalated my already fragile feelings.

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Pbn3
August 4th, 2018, 11:03 PM
Emshe remember you can pm me anytime [emoji173]

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emshe
August 4th, 2018, 11:36 PM
Emshe remember you can pm me anytime [emoji173]

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Your such a sweetheart Pbn

wildlyluna
August 4th, 2018, 11:47 PM
Somebody please make me stop symptom spotting! I'm going crazy.

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)

It’s so hard![emoji8]


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wildlyluna
August 4th, 2018, 11:49 PM
https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180805/855d4a85dd2a207d0cec1292bd065f3f.png

[emoji23] lol!



https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/35220b

Hahahhahahahhahaha [emoji23][emoji23]


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wildlyluna
August 4th, 2018, 11:57 PM
Well when I was symptom spotting I had forgotten I started zoloft yesterday. Today and yesterday I have had nausea, headache, and falling asleep at 9. Sooo tired. Well all problems of starting zoloft too.

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)

I wouldn’t have thought 2 days would be enough time to bring it on symptoms? But everyone is different [emoji846] I secretly hope not xx


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wildlyluna
August 5th, 2018, 12:01 AM
Think we will all be kept guessing!
No idea when or if Ill test really. Im confused in all aspects of everything.

Ladies can I ask about zoloft and your experiences. Completely understand if you'd rather not. I am beginning to think, well have for a while actually, that it maybe time for me to get some help. I did try a psychologist last year which gave me some strategies to try. Anxiety is my biggest problem, but I think I am also feeling sad and a bit disconnected from living too. My mind never stops and I think this has alot to do with my sleep issues.

Oh no really? I can’t help in the medication department but when I had PND and severe anxiety , I went and saw a kinesiologist and she helped me so much. But I have heard meds to have helped an awful lot for some, so it couldn’t hurt trying something if you feel that way. Big hugs ❤️


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emshe
August 5th, 2018, 12:41 AM
Oh no really? I can’t help in the medication department but when I had PND and severe anxiety , I went and saw a kinesiologist and she helped me so much. But I have heard meds to have helped an awful lot for some, so it couldn’t hurt trying something if you feel that way. Big hugs ❤️


https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/2fdf7e

Thanks hopeful. My acupuncturist suggested this last year too!! Might be worth a try. What do they do?


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Heart desires pink LP
August 5th, 2018, 06:08 AM
Got a BFN with fmu. 10dpo. Temp dropped back to coverline. I'm out mostly!

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Pbn3
August 5th, 2018, 06:16 AM
Got a BFN with fmu. 10dpo. Temp dropped back to coverline. I'm out mostly!

Sent from my ONEPLUS A3000 using TapatalkHDP I'm so sorry [emoji17]

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jgojah
August 5th, 2018, 06:20 AM
Got a BFN with fmu. 10dpo. Temp dropped back to coverline. I'm out mostly!

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Oh hdp :broken: I'm so sorry. I still have everything crossed for you even if it's not this month *hugs*

jgojah
August 5th, 2018, 06:23 AM
Jgojah this was the reason they pulled them but you'd think they'd have sorted it by now [emoji848] https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180804/3925e7ee27ef9595c5f304199e55583d.jpg

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Thanks pbn! Yea, that's a little ridiculous to have them off the shelves for so long for that reason lol

wildlyluna
August 5th, 2018, 06:32 AM
Thanks hopeful. My acupuncturist suggested this last year too!! Might be worth a try. What do they do?


https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/35220b

The mainly work with muscle testing to shift energy, and it sounds really weird, and I don’t know how but it really honestly works! Xx


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wildlyluna
August 5th, 2018, 06:35 AM
Got a BFN with fmu. 10dpo. Temp dropped back to coverline. I'm out mostly!

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Oh bum! ☹️☹️☹️☹️


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HGmama
August 5th, 2018, 07:01 AM
No good news here either. Hoping it is just too early at 9dpo. It was worth a try. Thanks for all the wishing thinking though. Keep em coming until AF rings her bell.

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mummy2boys
August 5th, 2018, 07:41 AM
Sorry HDP and hgmama, hopefully it’s just too early. Still have everything crossed for you both 🤞


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Pbn3
August 5th, 2018, 07:41 AM
Looking forward to tomorrows temp and test hgmama!

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kikurose
August 5th, 2018, 04:24 PM
HDP I'm so sorry. When is AF due?

HGmama I think your chart looks so good still- 9 dpo seems really early still! FX FX

Emshe, nothing to add, but so many hugs.

emshe
August 5th, 2018, 05:05 PM
Got a BFN with fmu. 10dpo. Temp dropped back to coverline. I'm out mostly!

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Oh HDP I am so sorry


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emshe
August 5th, 2018, 05:07 PM
No good news here either. Hoping it is just too early at 9dpo. It was worth a try. Thanks for all the wishing thinking though. Keep em coming until AF rings her bell.

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)

Very early still HG, definitely still keeping everything crossed for you


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Thunderstruck7
August 5th, 2018, 05:08 PM
Oh queen[emoji73] of charts[emoji173] (aka Pbn3) my temp from this morning is no where near as high as it was yesterday, so I'm thinking I may have to discard yesterday's? There were a couple of factors in hindsight that may have made it elevated...DH snuggled- up he's a hot sleeper, electric blanket, slightly restless.

Even though there's a temp drop today it's still in line with Saturday's temp. And still higher than 9dpo on the last snippet of a chart... which I've attached

I'm not sure I'm game enough to test tomorrow https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180805/4a1f84b6a1d2b7be0cfd71e0707631e1.jpg

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6a760f

emshe
August 5th, 2018, 05:08 PM
The mainly work with muscle testing to shift energy, and it sounds really weird, and I don’t know how but it really honestly works! Xx


https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/2fdf7e

Wow! Sounds really cool. Thanks hopeful


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Pbn3
August 5th, 2018, 05:48 PM
Oh queen[emoji73] of charts[emoji173] (aka Pbn3) my temp from this morning is no where near as high as it was yesterday, so I'm thinking I may have to discard yesterday's? There were a couple of factors in hindsight that may have made it elevated...DH snuggled- up he's a hot sleeper, electric blanket, slightly restless.

Even though there's a temp drop today it's still in line with Saturday's temp. And still higher than 9dpo on the last snippet of a chart... which I've attached

I'm not sure I'm game enough to test tomorrow https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180805/4a1f84b6a1d2b7be0cfd71e0707631e1.jpg

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6a760f[emoji23] queen of charts that's hilarious [emoji23]

I'd leave yesterdays temp and maybe just make a note of why it may possibly be falsely high. Now to wait (im)patiently for tomorrows temp [emoji30]

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Thunderstruck7
August 5th, 2018, 06:02 PM
This baby making business seems to be all about waiting patiently... and I'm not very good at that lol

Thanks for your input, I'm still being hopeful... see what tomorrow brings [emoji4]

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HGmama
August 5th, 2018, 09:49 PM
This baby making business seems to be all about waiting patiently... and I'm not very good at that lol

Thanks for your input, I'm still being hopeful... see what tomorrow brings [emoji4]

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6a760fRight.... my worst attribute.

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)

wildlyluna
August 5th, 2018, 10:06 PM
This baby making business seems to be all about waiting patiently... and I'm not very good at that lol

Thanks for your input, I'm still being hopeful... see what tomorrow brings [emoji4]

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6a760f

Hahahaha - yes! Waiting and google - ing [emoji6][emoji23]


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Thunderstruck7
August 5th, 2018, 11:53 PM
Hopeful and HGmama, it's comforting we're not alone.

And you're right... so much googling! But after coming across many forums on ttc and all things pregnancy related I've found this site is by far the most supportive, positive and understanding group I've come across! So well done ladies! [emoji294]I Many of these other random pages get catty if you post in the wrong place or get hung up on spelling mistakes! I'm so glad gender dreaming isn't hung up on rules!

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wildlyluna
August 6th, 2018, 02:50 AM
Hopeful and HGmama, it's comforting we're not alone.

And you're right... so much googling! But after coming across many forums on ttc and all things pregnancy related I've found this site is by far the most supportive, positive and understanding group I've come across! So well done ladies! [emoji294]I Many of these other random pages get catty if you post in the wrong place or get hung up on spelling mistakes! I'm so glad gender dreaming isn't hung up on rules!

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6a760f

Need to step away from the google bar [emoji6][emoji23]
Oh 100% I’ve been around lots of sites in the 9years of kids! And this has to be the most supportive and informative I’ve ever seen xx


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ManchesterMrs
August 6th, 2018, 02:56 AM
Hi all,
Been lurking on tww a bit but first post.
Just looking for a bit of advice - have two boys from dtd lots throughout fertile window and doing inadvertent boy sways (basically I was worried about my fertility so did every trick in the book - acupuncture, preseed, you name it).
This time have been doing LE diet since January and am on eight cycle ttc.
I am 11 months post partum and have tried Femara for three cycles and vitex for four cycles so this is my first month going au natural.

I am getting a bit impatient so trying to do E4D plus one but my body likes to keep me guessing and I have thought for the last two days that I had a pos opk but my body is keeping the ewcm coming! Anyway, we have DTD the last three days and this morning I got a hugely positive opk for the first time (as in, came up within seconds). Should we D4D tonight? I am erring on just going for it but just wanted to see what you think? Then we won’t do any further attempts from tonight onwards. ECWM seems a bit drier this morning so we think I should hopefully o tonight or tomorrow. What do you think? Many thanks!!

I should add that I ovulate on the last side - cd20 ish or so - and I currently am doing LE fertility diet and raspberry leaf tea to try and lengthen my luteal phase which is 8/9 days. I am taking progesterone after o this month as well. Cheers.

Pbn3
August 6th, 2018, 03:23 AM
Hmmm manchestermrs this is one of those flip a coin decisions I think [emoji848] On one hand, if you've dtd the last three days in a row then hey you're already at multiple attempts anyway so what's another going to hurt plus hubby's tank would near be running on empty.... On the other hand if you don't and o tomorrow then you have a 2-o and 3-o attempt in (I'm not sure I'd bother counting the 4-o as an attempt) which is closer to one attempt per se than three... If it was me I'd probably just dtd tomorrow morning. That at least covers for a later o (as in 2nd day after pos opk) OR I'd leave it altogether and stick with the attempts already done and resume e4d (every 72 hours) from last attempt. You've been on the le diet so long now and would likely still have femara in your system from last cycle so you're doing the right thing by adding attempts. As I mentioned, it's a flip a coin kinda decision imo and I'm really sorry I cant be of more help [emoji17]. I dont think Atomic would see a post asking the question in time so I'm going to lean towards dtd tomorrow morning as what I *think* I would do [emoji85] BUT go with your gut feeling. You know now you can get a proper pos opk so if there's any doubt about another attempt then by all means hold off a further attempt until 72 hours from last and continue with that pattern for the remainder of cycle or preferably bfp [emoji3]


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ManchesterMrs
August 6th, 2018, 03:35 AM
Thanks so much pbn3! Hmmm - decisions, decisions. I feel like we’ve already inadvertently got ourselves into a frequent bd pattern to accident this cycle so erring on doing one more attempt late tonight. We would struggle to do it tomorrow morning as our kids often wake anytime from 5 onwards - it’s really unpredictable - so it would have to be late tonight as we also both leave for work after they are up and out the door to nursery. Thanks so much for the advice.

Pbn3
August 6th, 2018, 03:49 AM
No problem and honestly go for it if that's what you feel you should do. You're very well covered by last nights attempt if you do o tomorrow but if you o later than that you're odds are going to drop by quite (if you stick with what you've done) Also I know a lady who's chart I'll ask for that dtd like 5 times in her fertile window and still got a girl so while number of attempts can be a strong sway tactic for many, some simply cant get pregnant from that 'one' attempt [emoji4] I do know atomic prefers additional attempts instead of going off the diet too so you should feel very good about how far you've come! I'll be back with a screenshot of that chart [emoji6]

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Pbn3
August 6th, 2018, 03:53 AM
Here it is [emoji4]https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180806/f3318ca7dc418f8673d4d43e68e10546.jpg

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Pbn3
August 6th, 2018, 04:00 AM
Mummy2boys how are you??? You go in today for your repeat betas right? (It's 6pm my time so I'm guessing very early hours of morning for you?) I hope they process it quickly for you so you can hopefully get a number by Tuesday.... wont even ask if they marked it urgent as I get the feeling you're lucky to even be getting bw done [emoji30]

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wildlyluna
August 6th, 2018, 04:18 AM
Here it is [emoji4]https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180806/f3318ca7dc418f8673d4d43e68e10546.jpg

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What an effort! [emoji33][emoji33]


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Pbn3
August 6th, 2018, 04:55 AM
What an effort! [emoji33][emoji33]


https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/2fdf7eI know right!!!??? That vajajay was in need of a vacay [emoji12]

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wildlyluna
August 6th, 2018, 05:39 AM
I know right!!!??? That vajajay was in need of a vacay [emoji12]

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Hahahaha totally! [emoji23] so glad they were successful [emoji12]


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mummy2boys
August 6th, 2018, 07:34 AM
Mummy2boys how are you??? You go in today for your repeat betas right? (It's 6pm my time so I'm guessing very early hours of morning for you?) I hope they process it quickly for you so you can hopefully get a number by Tuesday.... wont even ask if they marked it urgent as I get the feeling you're lucky to even be getting bw done [emoji30]

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Hi Pbn, yes I’ve just been in for bloods this morning but my gp is off now and can’t call me with the results till Wednesday! That seems like a long time away [emoji33]


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HGmama
August 6th, 2018, 07:40 AM
[emoji16]🤩[emoji7]🤪🤯🤮 literally all the emojis I can find because I dont have a clue how to go on with my dayhttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180806/866686c129573be0ea1b238bf0f6eea7.jpg

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wildlyluna
August 6th, 2018, 07:41 AM
Hi Pbn, yes I’ve just been in for bloods this morning but my gp is off now and can’t call me with the results till Wednesday! That seems like a long time away [emoji33]


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Oh no! That would feel like forever ! [emoji20][emoji20]
Hope you can do something fun to distract yourself xx


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Pbn3
August 6th, 2018, 07:42 AM
Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrgghh hgmama [emoji7][emoji7][emoji7][emoji7][emoji7][emoji7][emoji7][emoji7][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji312][emoji312][emoji312] WOOHOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Pbn3
August 6th, 2018, 07:43 AM
Hi Pbn, yes I’ve just been in for bloods this morning but my gp is off now and can’t call me with the results till Wednesday! That seems like a long time away [emoji33]


https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4216d8Seriously??!!! That freaking sucks!!! Habe you tested again? How are you feeling?

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wildlyluna
August 6th, 2018, 07:43 AM
[emoji16]🤩[emoji7]🤪🤯🤮 literally all the emojis I can find because I dont have a clue how to go on with my dayhttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180806/866686c129573be0ea1b238bf0f6eea7.jpg

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Holy moly! I could swear but I’ll keep it PG!!!
Yaaaaaayyyyyyy! [emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322] that is So AWESOME!!! [emoji8][emoji8]❤️❤️❤️


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gafan
August 6th, 2018, 07:50 AM
[emoji16]🤩[emoji7]🤪🤯🤮 literally all the emojis I can find because I dont have a clue how to go on with my dayhttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180806/866686c129573be0ea1b238bf0f6eea7.jpg

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)HGmama, wow!!! Congratulations!!!! 🤩[emoji445][emoji272][emoji272]

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RaisingGentlemen3
August 6th, 2018, 07:50 AM
[emoji16]🤩[emoji7]🤪🤯🤮 literally all the emojis I can find because I dont have a clue how to go on with my dayhttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180806/866686c129573be0ea1b238bf0f6eea7.jpg

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)

Congrats HG! Sooo happy for you! I am loving all these bfps 😍 gives me hope

mummy2boys
August 6th, 2018, 08:03 AM
Hgmama!!! Woo hoo!! That’s fantastic news [emoji7][emoji7][emoji7][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322]


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mummy2boys
August 6th, 2018, 08:06 AM
Oh no! That would feel like forever ! [emoji20][emoji20]
Hope you can do something fun to distract yourself xx


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Thank you- yes I’m going to try and keep busy [emoji51][emoji51]


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mummy2boys
August 6th, 2018, 08:11 AM
Seriously??!!! That freaking sucks!!! Habe you tested again? How are you feeling?

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I know- it’s rubbish isn’t it [emoji53]
Yes I’ve been testing every day but only with cheapies, I’ll post a pic. I’ve got one last frer that I might do tomorrow to see if its darkened now it’s been a few days. I’ve managed to chill out a bit and spent a bit less time obsessing haha [emoji51][emoji51][emoji51] This was yesterday’s cheapie which is quite dark I think [emoji848] but I am 19dpo now https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180806/eb408467e94174b34871faa9f4c29da6.jpg


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Pbn3
August 6th, 2018, 08:22 AM
That's great for a cheapie though!

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Heart desires pink LP
August 6th, 2018, 08:39 AM
Hgmama - Wowww congratulations!! I'm so happy for you. I'm so hopeful that this is your pink bean coming back to you! :-)

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Mommy2apples
August 6th, 2018, 08:41 AM
[emoji16]🤩[emoji7]🤪🤯🤮 literally all the emojis I can find because I dont have a clue how to go on with my dayhttps://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180806/866686c129573be0ea1b238bf0f6eea7.jpg

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Ahh!! Hgmama!! I’ve been praying for this!! Yes!! I’m so excited for you!!


6/2003 [emoji1349]2/2009 [emoji1407] 12/2012 [emoji1349]4/2015 [emoji1406] 2015 [emoji1356] 2016 [emoji1413] The Lord Answered my [emoji1317] 2017🤰due June 2018, with a healthy [emoji1405][emoji166]to fit into our crazy bunch, and Complete our Family![emoji7][emoji8]

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Eighme
August 6th, 2018, 08:51 AM
Yay, HGamma!!!! [emoji173]️[emoji173]️[emoji173]️

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ABC.2606
August 6th, 2018, 09:18 AM
Woohoo HGMama!!!!!!!! I thought your chart looked really good!!! Huge congrats!!!!!! [emoji898][emoji322][emoji324]


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Noemi2017
August 6th, 2018, 10:19 AM
Wow HGmama congrats:celebrate::heart:

HGmama
August 6th, 2018, 10:46 AM
I just had breakfast!!!!! Yippee!

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Mommy2apples
August 6th, 2018, 10:46 AM
Thanks so much pbn3! Hmmm - decisions, decisions. I feel like we’ve already inadvertently got ourselves into a frequent bd pattern to accident this cycle so erring on doing one more attempt late tonight. We would struggle to do it tomorrow morning as our kids often wake anytime from 5 onwards - it’s really unpredictable - so it would have to be late tonight as we also both leave for work after they are up and out the door to nursery. Thanks so much for the advice.

Hey I’m that momma, that did the five attempts in a row, because I just wasn’t conceiving. I still stayed on the diet was doing 4-5 days of 60 minutes cardio, drinking coffee. After we got my positive ovulation test we did five days in a row. I kept my faith in the lord and knew I would conceive her though. The lord hinted even before I conceived her in different ways that he was answering that prayer.
Good luck momma and you can have whatever pink dust I have!


6/2003 [emoji1349]2/2009 [emoji1407] 12/2012 [emoji1349]4/2015 [emoji1406] 2015 [emoji1356] 2016 [emoji1413] The Lord Answered my [emoji1317] 2017🤰due June 2018, with a healthy [emoji1405][emoji166]to fit into our crazy bunch, and Complete our Family![emoji7][emoji8]

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kikurose
August 6th, 2018, 11:56 AM
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TEARS IN MY EYES FOR YOU HGMAMA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Throwaway_panther
August 6th, 2018, 12:10 PM
AHHHH YAY HGMAMA!!!!

ManchesterMrs
August 6th, 2018, 12:13 PM
Congrats HGMama!! So happy for you! You must have loved eating breakfast!

Pbn3 and mommy2apples - thanks so much for sharing that. I hope it works for me! Really appreciate you taking the time! I am just getting a bit frustrated as it is Cycle 8 now and so I thought we’d just start bd-ing more. As atomic says, if you can’t get pregnant at all, it’s all for nothing! So I thought I’d give it a whirl! We’ll bd tonight and then not do any more attempts for another 72 hours. 4th night in a row now! x

jgojah
August 6th, 2018, 01:48 PM
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I got gooooooooseeebumps!!!!!!!!! CONNNGRATSSSSS

SO Soooo happy

Happymommy1987
August 6th, 2018, 04:24 PM
Amazing HGmama!!! Congrats!!!!!!


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