Uk SMOG Wannabes ~ February

[HopeandDreamG]

Is it me what just happened to the like button. Indigo I went to like what you just said no button!

[deaks66]

Chocolate- I'm hoping I can conceive a girl. I have before and she had chromosome issues. How blxxdy (for my uk girls) cruel.. I wasn't swaying but I was losing weight each week. It was actually an oops. I don't have PCOS but I'm def most likely a gal with high T. So is Dh.

So sad :( Hope you conceive a healthy pink bean this time :)

[chocolate]

Chocolate- I'm hoping I can conceive a girl. I have before and she had chromosome issues. How blxxdy (for my uk girls) cruel.. I wasn't swaying but I was losing weight each week. It was actually an oops. I don't have PCOS but I'm def most likely a gal with high T. So is Dh.

I hope you do too, for me its kinda good to just accept Im a boy Mum, Ive swayed once and it didnt work. At the moment Im telling myself my family are perfect, I need to think positively and so right now HT is just a dream, its reachable but Im hoping positive thinking about my loving boys will stop me reaching for that dream and either we stop at 3 or we go for 4 and be positive about 4 boys.

Im ill again, OH felt sick and shaky monday and last night I felt sick, hope its the same bug and not morning sickness, I dont think Id be able to get pregnant again if I suffered with sickness, Id rather childbirth over morning sickness any day. Hungry but dont want to eat, had a lolly and a biscuit. I suck at being ill recently

[Kell]

Don't count yourself out yet chocolate, we are due a girl for the smog thread :)
I'm not sure how I manage course work, college, home life, looking after kids and being pregnant either lol, hey atleast I'm not working as well now, that was super stressful!

Where's inglewood? Hope you and the girls are ok? I'm not sure if she's on Facebook? Maybe someone a checks she's been around...

[HopeandDreamG]

Thanks deaks. Me too!

Chocolate- I think you have a great attitude. Im just trying to focus on a bfp right now and staying away from what if it's a boy. I've thought about HT. It would kill me to spend countless $ and have nothing in the end. I guess I'd know I tried. That's actually how I feel about swaying. I did everything a person possibly CAN to try to conceive a certain gender! Hope my attitude stays this way :)

[HopeandDreamG]

Kell- I second that odds are a girl is next over here for the smog ladies! No fair we all can't get what we want.

[chocolate]

Yeah Id like to see lots more girlies due on this thread, Im certain this one is another boy.
Ive had to have today off work and only just feel slightly normal but tired, couldnt study and raise my boys etc.
Not sure about inglewood?
H&DG, my attitude hasnt always been like that, it changes with hormones but hope I stay on track. If I did ht id have to have enough for 4 cycles, couldnt do just one and walk away with nothing

[auroara78]

Chocolate, you don't know for sure it's a boy, do you? Please don't hate me for saying this, but my feeling does lean boy for you. Again, sorry to say that, dont' want to hurt your feelings, it's just a gut feeling I got. *hugs*

I do think it's quite maddenning how the SMOGs atm have a ton more boys expected. You'd think it would be an even 50-50 ratio like in nature. I know all you ladies will love your little bundles of blue, but i totally understand how you feel, as I have swayed pink, and I'm begining to really deal with my feelings if I hear blue in a few weeks. I understand what ya'll are going through.

[Lavenderlime]

I'm such a lethargic mood today so drained and tired haven't done anything today bar a small amount of house work, and pre-school run this a.m.
DP only worked a half day so has taken the boys to the woods for a walk. Just so hummmph... right now need a big surge of energy or a good night of deep sleep.

Charlie hope your ok and once you feel you have moved past the news of ds4 can come back we'll miss you on here.

Chocolate we are due some more girls, LMW will def be having a girl I think and Deaks too. We really need to even up the numbers.

H&G that injection sounds great will ask for it if I don't get my BFP this month.

[indigoviolet]

I agree, we definitely need more girls on this thread, seems crazy how many of us are expecting boys....

like your attitude chocolate and Pinga, you said about focussing on what you do have and not on what you don't, that is so sensible and helpful. chocolate, was it you who wrote about having 3 boys around the dinner table? you described such a nice scene, can you remind me what you wrote as it sounded so nice and made me feel ok about having just boys.

my friend had a boy yesterday after her two girls, I'm starting to feel happy for her now but gosh, I felt so jealous of someone getting just what they wanted without even trying. So horrible to feel like that, I suppose it will be nice, our youngest can play together.

hope you all having good days :HH:

[chocolate]

Aurora, I prefer people being honest, I'd hate to have false hope and fall harder. Lavenderlime - I've been in dressing gown all day and managed soup but am starving now so braving some chips. I can't wait to feel well again, puts me off having a 4th! Indigo - I think I was saying how I can imagine having all my boys at the table for tea and being the only female there and this being a special thing because they would feel more connected, where as if I had a girl I think they would feel our relationship would be different. Boys really take on board what they learn from their mums and I think they always think of their mums as the number 1 women to rely on. My brother has a great relationship with my mum, they don't argue where as me and my mum have loads. My mum and I have only been close over the last 2 years after I told her to stop being so full on. So even though I crave that mother daughter relationship for myself, I think sometimes that can be a biy of an imaginary dream at times.

[deaks66]

Yes please to more girls on this thread!!!!! I hope all us ladies that dont know yet, get one!

Sorry you have been feeling so ill chocolate, i hope it passes soon! Hope you are able to take it easy!

Lavender, swaying is so energy consuming that i felt rundown and lathargic constantly...im pretty sure thats why i got that horrible psaoriasis because my body couldnt fight the bacteria from shaving/swimming. I dont think it caused it but i think it stopped my body from fighting it. Try and look after yourself!

I have seen inglewood post on fb and all seems fine!

I bet in a years time when all these expected boys are here, we will be telling each other how much we love them and couldnt imagine life without them! I hope to that we all have that feeling of contentment that we are all after.

Had offer on house yesterday, not high enough though! Fx we get increased offer and can make offer on farmhouse :)

[Sunset]

The reason I don’t really comment on sways anymore is because most ladies on genderdreaming are doing the LE diet and I did the IG diet for my sway so unfortunately I’m clueless when it comes to the LE diet.. i just tend to refer people to Zanacal :p

HopeanddreamG ~ great sway! and i'm so sorry about your girl.. it breaks my heart everytime i think about what you've gone through :( it's just not fair!

Lavenderlime ~ good luck testing on Tuesday! :) fx this is your month!

Zanacal ~ love the u/s pics you’ve uploaded on FB, she’s beautiful!

Chocolate ~ hope you feel better soon! I know you’re telling yourself it’s a boy so that you don’t get hurt, but i would just like to say that I hope you’ll be pleasantly surprised when you find out :) will you be having an early sexing scan? Btw are you on FB?

Kell ~ how are you? Bought much pink yet? Are you on FB?

Auroara78 ~ i don’t want to upset anyone, but i’m gonna go against the trend and say i don’t actually think it’s that “boy heavy” here.. over the 2 years i have been on smog it’s been pretty 50/50 to be honest and i’m sure some of the ladies who are due to find out gender soon are gonna add to the girl statistics :) and just like in nature it’s never a 50/50 ratio “all the time” but the ratio varies over the course of a year.. and it has been proven that seasons sway! the ladies finding out gender atm and who are due in the summer did conceive in what is thought of as “boy months” when naturally more boys are conceived than girls.. i personally believe that as we move into march and spring months we will see more and more ladies pregnant with girls as late march and forward is girl season which will bring the smog statistic closer to 50/50. We can’t look at the statistics at any one time, we have to look at the bigger pictuAre. Smog has been around for a very long time, much longer than i’ve been on smog and there are lots of smog graduates and over the course of time the odds do work out as 50/50 :agree: I think maybebaby is one of the originals and she always says from her experience the odds have been 50/50 :)

Indigoviolet ~ congrats to your friend :) you never know she might have swayed her butt off for her little boy. I never told any of my real friends about swaying so they all definitely think i conceived my dd “without trying” when we all know that’s certainly not the case. How are you doing now? will you have the gender confirmed at your 20 week scan?

Deaks ~ how are you doing? Hope you’re not suffering from too much morning sickness ;)

Inglewood ~ getting worried hun, hope you and your girls are ok! x

AFM, I got the other end of GD today.. or at least i hope it was GD talking or I will be thoroughly offended! At my sons nursery there is this boy mum who has 2 sons. She’s really lovely and has expressed her GD to me. Her mother (the boys grandmother) sometimes helps with the school runs and today was one of them days. The boy mum and her boys + grandmother was walking home from nursery in front of me and my sons today and as we stopped at a crossing the boy mum said to her son:
–look there is a little baby girl in there (referring to my dd in the pram)
and the grandmother bursts out:
– we don’t like girls, do we? We like boys! Girls are whingers!
She then looks over at my dd and says “ohh and saying that she hasn’t cried yet today has she” (Serena doesn't like being in the pram)

Like Wth?? Is it just me or am i overreacting? I got really offended and didn’t know what to answer to that.. i’m sure she didn’t mean anything by it and was just making conversation but what was she initiating? That my baby is a whinger because she is a girl? :S

[Inglewood]

Hi all, sorry been MIA! had a stressful couple of days, so so tired and Dh been 'hogging' the laptop looking for cars!

Had to apply for a loan for the loft conversion and was worried we wouldn't get it due to the current financial state of the country! But fear not... was approved today! So got £ for conversion and to out towards a bigger car. Still more £ each month which worries me, but a bigger mortgage would of equally worried me, at least this is only over 5yrs, not my mortgage term. :)

So so tired, my haemoglobin up a little, but still a long way to go for a good pre-c-section value. Feeling lousy, huge and braxton hicks sore....just at that stage.... keep reminding myself that I measure at 36wks and I'm only almost 31wks, so bound to feel fed up.

Thanks Kell for asking after me!! Just couldn't keep my eyes open to read many of the posts, would read a few then say I'd come back on and fall asleep!

Charlie, I understand... not sure how I would of felt had I heard 2 boys and like u would need time to take it in. Always here for you, much love xx

H&G, That's nice your mum is happy to hear my news. My mum and Dh are the only 2 people in the world that know about this site and my mum thinks it's been an amazing place for women to talk, how we support each other without knowing each other in real life and thinks that's the beauty of it all, as how many of us tell people on our lives how we really feel? She asked if there were men? Not on this thread, but there is a dad's section I'm sure.

Deaks, FX ur get a good offer!!!

To everyone else feeling 'low' for diff reasons, I hope it passes soon and you feel better soon. We can all relate to being there at some point and it's not great, but Fx things get better all round.

Maybe, OMG...ur on a countdown to baby Dave!!!!! WOW!!!!

OBEM tonight!! If I can stay awake!! lol

Hello to everyone else, my brain has officially gone....put my vanish stain remover soap in the fridge.....don't need to say anymore........lol xx

[Kell]

Sunset what a weird thing to come out with especially in the presence of a mum with a new dd!
Maybe she was trying to show her daughter how lovely boys are in a weird way, kinda dismissing the need for a girl? Who knows but she was a plum in my opinion!

Nope I actually haven't brought much pink, I'm being told not to my dp because he knows everyone will buy for her. When he said that I told him where to go! I want her to wear what I like for her not necessarily what others like for her! Does that make sense? Guess I'm just being a cow lol. Nope not on fb have been off it for a couple of years now, brings about bad memories for me relationship wise.

Thanks Deaks for the lil update on inglewood, it's very weird her not being on here so got a little worried!

I have a chemistry exam tomorrow and I'm totally unprepared :( think ill be resorting this one! Lol
I went into college and some how left my phone on the top of my car, I am very lucky as someone handed it in to reception! Phew!

[Kell]

Yay inglewood! So glad to hear your ok! Brilliant news on the loan! We are saving but I think we may need to get a loan together it done quicker!
Hope you feel better soon, altho I fear it's the way things may be for a few weeks till the girls arrive! And then real hardcore tiredness kicks in!
Remind me why we've all decided on more babies lol!

[indigoviolet]

I bet in a years time when all these expected boys are here, we will be telling each other how much we love them and couldnt imagine life without them! I hope to that we all have that feeling of contentment that we are all after.

Wouldn't that be great? I hope we all stay in touch :HH:

[indigoviolet]

Inglewood- yay to the loan, the conversion will be brilliant for you. Will it be a bedroom for the boys or girls?

sunset- yes, very weird comment, bet she was just trying to make her daughter feel better about having only boys. Not sensitive at all but then almost every gender comment is.

chocolate- thanks for the lovely image :) I need to focus on that and try to stay positive.

Maybe and I were some of the first smogs back when the thread started in 2008. I will go back and look at the stats but like you said it is about 50 50. The problem is that since it is a swaying thread it should be better than that on the girl side, 50:50 is not fair /good enough really since we are all trying so hard!

[HopeandDreamG]

Lavender~ the name of the injection trigger I had was Ovidrel in case you wanted it. Hopefully, you'll have a BFP this month and not need it anyway.

Chocolate~ I have often thought similarly about being the only woman surrounded by my boys. I have sworn to myself if I get my DD (PLEASE, PLEASE) that I would make sure it didn't effect my relationship with my boys in any way... And FWIW I have no feelings on gender I never do, the only person I ever had a really strong feeling about was Inglewood. Have no idea why, and I told her at the time I knew she was having girls and I NEVER get feelings/predictions.

Sunset~ I CANNOT Believe that grandmother. What a terrible example for her grandson, did grandma forget she is a SHE! and his MOTHER!! Their JEALOUS! How can they not be look at that beautiful baby girl :)

Ingelwood~ My mom and DH are also the only ones that know about this site. I wouldn't tell anyone about it. My mom thinks its so cool that I can talk to women also going through similar things. And what makes it even more amazing is how far apart we live. Zanacal was talking to me about my Crohns and gave me a link to a show that aired in the UK, my mother was just amazed! Oh, and yay on the $ for reno. We did this a couple of years ago, its awesome. I have an empty bedroom waiting!

Don't know of this means much I am beyond thirsty for several days now (5dpo), and really hungry right now. I still have not cheated AT ALL on this diet. I have also been totally turned onto OBEM. I think its different then what you see, but Im loving watching it!
What is the history of the SMOG ladies? would love to know the story, I only know of it from PL. I'm guessing it started over at IG.

[deaks66]

Very strange comment of that lady to make sunset, but im with indigo, i bet she was just saying it to make her daughter feel better. Weird though and totally unnecessary!

I truly believe in swaying but i also believe that swaying is only going to work if all 7 factors are done fairly hardcore. Most of us on here end up reducing our sways or dropping them altogether for various reasons so at the end of the day we all know that our odds are no more than 50/50 really, besides the fact that swaying is never a guarentee anyway. The fact that a few girls have been conceived is probably more than would have been without any of us swaying at all!

[Kell]

Oh *£&k I'm stuck in bed and it hurts! Just tried to turn over and my hip is in agony, damn SPD! I thought I'd gotten away with it but nope! I know I need to move to click it back into place but it's going to hurt soooooooooo much and I'm scared! :(

[zanacal]

Hi everyone, just popping by to say hi while I watch OBEM!

Deaks - I have a really good girl feeling for you because you dropped some sway tactics! I go with Atomic's view that going all out and creating this 'perfect' sway can increase testosterone and lower testosterone for a girl is one of the aspects of swaying which has pretty good evidence behind it.

Sunset - I tell my children if they can't think of anything nice to say, to not say anything at all. What a shame adults can't be that considerate! I would have been miffed by that comment too.

Inglewood - when they estimated my baby is 2lb 6oz I thought of you carrying twice that. No wonder you feel uncomfortable!

Ladies, third boys are amazing! I started potty training DS3 2 weeks ago (he's 2 years and 4 months) and not only does he have it during the day already (he's so over potties already - he uses the big boy toilet now!) but he's waking up dry in the mornings too. The easiest of the bunch (and that goes for most things too!). I'm so glad he was a he and not a she because I don't think we'd have had a fourth then and we'd never have met him!

Are any of your LOs dressing up for World Book Day tomorrow? My two want to go as Gandalf and Frodo (Lord of The Rings). We've had a right palaver with DS1's white Gandalf cape as they were too long when I bought them and pregnancy brain took over when I went to take it up last weekend - I cut off twice the amount I meant to! I had to order him a new one (paying a ridiculous amount for express delivery!), get my mum to take it up (too scared to put scissors to it again!) last minute and now - he's just thrown up twice so probably won't be at school tomorrow anyway! Poor lad's heartbroken.

[deaks66]

I seem to be getting alot of people thinking pink for me but it really scares me and im having to counter balance it by telling myself boy constantly!!

Just watched OBEM and that lithuanian family cracked me up! Poor old victor not only banished during labour, but banished when his daughter arrived too!

[zanacal]

I know, poor Victor - I'm sure he's seen her boobs before for goodness sake!!

[Kell]

I said that Z! I'm not sure how they managed to have sex based on her reactions to labour etc! Poor man!

[maybebabythree]

When we moved from ig to pl I did the stats and it was 50:50 not exactly spot on but a few ladies left at 20w at the sexing scan point soi think it fair to assume that most of them heard boy and left. I agree with indigo - it's not fair it's not higher but I also agree with deaks - maybe it would be 75% boys if we did nothing? I didn't sway the months before I got pg but after seeing the ig stats for extreme swaying the did make me wonder.

Sunset - what a rude woman! I had two woman at gym sit next to yesterday flagging off a friend who was on her fourth baby saying how horrible babies are blah blah I'm sure they knew I could hear. Looking like I'm going to give birth any second! I want my boys to respect woman! If I say things like that to them then will marry some old bag with no self respect! My boys need to respect me as a woman and a worthwhile human being and look at women as equals or they they will grow up to be very poor individuals. If woman don't belive we are as good as any bloke then god help us all!

I might say 'I don't do girls' as I clearly don't have any but my friends little girls or boys are just all kids to me. The boys play with them and don't think of them differently. I only babysit for girls as my friends have girls. If I was to say 'oh no I can't help I only know about boy's I would think myself unfit to have kids. I would given her my best evil stare

[chocolate]

Sunset - how rude, sounds like that lady was battling some gd issues herself!
I am on Facebook, quite often lol. We will find out gender at 19 weeks but this time I have 0% belief this is a girl, had all boy guesses by the pro's and feel 100% this is a boy and to be honest at least I have accepted that as wouldnt like to be in limbo.

Inglewood, I bet your knackered! Try to take it as easy as possible even if that means just chilling in your dressing gown on weekends.

Deaks, hope you get a better offer today!

H&DG - I think smog wannabee's who then get their girls will be great mums to both their boys and girls as they have experienced it from both sides so know not to loose that bond with their boys once girls have arrived so may an extra effort. I just think its sad when I see my OH's mum give her 100% to her own Mum and her Daughter but nothing to my OH, I know she thinks hes a man and has his own family now so leaves him to call her when he needs to or whatever, but I just can't imagine my love and worry for my boys suddenly switching off when they leave home, I dont know how she can go 6+ weeks living 5 mins up the road without speaking or seeing him, regardless of if he has given the impression before of needing a bit more space than weekly visits.

Zanacal - your poor DS after all that effort! Maybe he could have some friends for a dress up tea once better?
I look at my DS2 and say I couldnt be without him so know a 3rd boy will be loved just like him too.

Kell, hope you can move soon,must be awful!

Maybebabythree, I used to say 'Im glad I dont have to do the whole girls teenage years thing' to my friends but have stopped saying that now as I soon realised teens, wether boys or girls can be a handful lol. I embrace my friends little girls now and enjoy shopping for pink for them. Probably makes people think 'aww, sad as I bet shed love her own girl' but Im coming to terms with accepting people thinking that as Ive probably thought it too about others and its pity in a nice way, not a bitchy way.


I feel like a new woman today, no more sicky feeling bug so off for a pizza hutt lunch!

[GeCon]

Those of you who are taking or have taken Acidophilus. How much are you taking? The pack says take between 1 and 6 tablets daily.

[Petal]

Hi girls,

Sorry i havent been aboutl lately! Hope you are all well, and all those little babies are growing nicely :-)

Oh Charlie, im so sorry you didnt hear pink :-( take time to deal with your feelings, they will get easier in time, thinking of you x

OMG maybe, the 5th!!! eeekkkkkkk fantastic :-))))) you finally get to meet little Dave yippee

Ah Kel, poor you, sure hope it eases soon x

Deaks, so pleased everythings going well for you, roll on 6 weeks for the nub shot!!!

Babymad, still think of you often, hope you are ok :-)

Sunset, that granny sounds like she was trying to make her daughter feel better incase hers is a boy id say, i mean all babies cry reguardless of thier gender, such a stupid thing for her to say!!!!


DS3 is finally better!!! bless him. Dh was ill all last week with the dreaded 'man-flu' hence why i wasn't about!!

Love and hugs to you all x

[Inglewood]

Afternoon ladies!

Indigo, the conversion will be for the boys, who are HYPER about the thought!! Ds2 announced at the school assembly on Monday that he's being "put up the loft" lol waiting for social serives chapping my door! kids....

Hi Petal! glad DS3 is better and my Dh had that 'man flu' wish I got as much sympathy!!

Chocolate...woohoo...bring on the pizza buffet!!!

GeCon, I started taking 4 a day for a month, but had to cut to 2 a day as my ph dropped way to low.

I had my hair cut and coloured today...no more grey!! lol Was in the chair and felt a 'pop' down below thought OMG, MY WATERS!! felt a pushing feeling/pressure and sat worried, but nothing came of it!! Feel ok, certainly wasn't my waters, prob just that 'clicking' noise I get but lower down....had a cold sweat for 5mins then laughed at myself...never said to anyone.. lol

[littlemisswilko]

hiya girls!

been busy making an outfit for ds1 for todays world book day! his class had to dress up in something spacey and i never had time to order him a suit off the net and get it in time so decided to make him one! It ended up look pretty good and i was quite pleased with myself! :) He went as an Astronaut. I bought him a disposable white overall you can buy when you are painting etc and added logos i printed off, then made a helmet from a paper mache ballon and sprayed it white and again added some printed off logo's. Then made a jetpack out of 2 pop bottles and covered them both in tin foil and added more logo's. All his teacher were well impressed with the effort we had gone to as many of the kids were still in there school uniform and there parents had either forgotten or hadnt bothered! will post a pic if i can as i havent managed to take a pic of him this morning so hoping he comes home and his outfit is still in one peice so i can take some photos. DS2 went in a woody outfit that i had got from Argos as i didnt think id be able to make 2 outfits in the time i had!

Zanacal - hope you little boy got to go to school today and wasnt too ill..

Sunset - i bet that old woman didnt think that of her own daughter when she was pushing her round in a pushchair!

[littlemisswilko]

Charlie - i hope you're ok. i know exactly how you feel about taking time out.. sometime you need to stay away from this site just to be able to gather your own thoughts instead of constantly thinking about it. You take as much time as you need and remember were always here when you feel ur ready!

[littlemisswilko]

just wondering... has anybody else had an anterior plancenta? im 16 weeks tomorrow and havent felt the baby move at all yet which i know is perfectly normal when you have an anterior placenta but was just wondering when you start to feel them. i carnt honestly remeber when i started to feel both ds1 and ds2 but i know it was early and earlier still with ds2.

[chocolate]

GeCon sorry I cant remember what I took but dont think it lowered my PH

Petal, poorly men are no fun, although saying that Ive been ill alot recently and have never moaned so much in my life, payback lol

Inglewood, omg that would have scared the shit out of me lol. Maybe you should start carrying extra trousers and underwear and a towel just incase at this stage lol

[maybebabythree]

Just finished getting the house ready for dave - woo hoo! A bit upset as a evil squirrel has been in my loft eatingthings I needed - big down side of living in the country!

Nice to hear from you petal

Inglewood I amworried my waters will go in public but they have only gone during labour before. I wonder how much of my sons outfit he has lost at school. It gets so expensive so he he is always a variation on a knight! Tudor knight, famous person from history - St George, world book day - Tom from beast quest! I am so un creative :-) the spaceman sounds amazing! If it was made by me he would be mistaken for a microwave....

[littlemisswilko]

I am so un creative :-) the spaceman sounds amazing! If it was made by me he would be mistaken for a microwave....

A MICROWAVE!!!!! lmfao hehehehe

[littlemisswilko]

just made the new thread for march!! if one of the moderators could please make it a sticky xxx

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-conceive-girl/8811-uk-smog-wannabes-march.html#post153846

[littlemisswilko]

just made the new thread for march!! if one of the moderators could please make it a sticky xxx

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/trying-conceive-girl/8811-uk-smog-wannabes-march.html#post153846

[charlieispy]

Hi ladies

Sorry i am just not strong enough to come online at the moment, am not even on FB either i just cant face it. Its gone past the tears now and I am so low I have suffered with severe depression in the past and at the moment feel as though it may not pass for a while. I dont even think about the baby i am having i dont even notice whether it moves along with this the terrible guilt as its no fault of the baby its mine I shouldnt have let myself get in this situation again, I swore I wouldnt after ds3. I had a consultant appointment this week I thought due to my previous high risk babies but apparently it was for my reoccuring PND whether anyone can help me I dont know they seem to be trying....I just wish I had thought this through better.

Sorry for the me post I will try and come back at some point although when that will be I dont know x

Good luck petal for you and dave x

[Sunset]

just wondering... has anybody else had an anterior plancenta? im 16 weeks tomorrow and havent felt the baby move at all yet which i know is perfectly normal when you have an anterior placenta but was just wondering when you start to feel them. i carnt honestly remeber when i started to feel both ds1 and ds2 but i know it was early and earlier still with ds2.

I've had anterior placenta twice... with ds2 i felt kicks quite early on actually.. about 16 weeks but with dd i started to feel the odd one at around 17 weeks but nothing 'regular' until after 20 weeks.

[zanacal]

just wondering... has anybody else had an anterior plancenta? im 16 weeks tomorrow and havent felt the baby move at all yet which i know is perfectly normal when you have an anterior placenta but was just wondering when you start to feel them. i carnt honestly remeber when i started to feel both ds1 and ds2 but i know it was early and earlier still with ds2.

I didn't feel anything regular until around 20 weeks with this one and I don't have an anterior placenta. A friend of mine never felt her baby kick while pregnant due to one of those!

[zanacal]

Massive {hugs} Charlie xx

[Inglewood]

I didn't feel anything regular until around 20 weeks with this one and I don't have an anterior placenta. A friend of mine never felt her baby kick while pregnant due to one of those!

LMW, I was the same this time too!! x

[Inglewood]

Looking at my ticker...if 1 baby almost 4lbs.....holy mo...I have an 8lb'er already!!! lol and lots of leg cramps now :( ouch!!

[Inglewood]

Charlie, just saw ur post. Thinking of you, sending hugs. xx

[chocolate]

Ahh Charlie, wish I could give you big hugs, I hope you have supportive family around or good friends, try to surround yourself with those people. Im sure if you give yourself time you will start to feel a bit better, its still very early days, it took me a couple of weeks to start feeling happy again after hearing boy again and that was without a depression history so dont be hard on yourself. Bear with it all for now and the light at the end of the tunnel will come through xx

[Babymad]

Hi girls...

Sorry not been around, still having breathing problems on top of an awful cough and virus...not slept for over a week. This pg is really taking its toll on my body.
Boys ill too so no fun at the moment. A very fed up house :(

Charlie ~ pleased you posted hun. Sending loads of love and hugs. Always here for you. Xxx

Maybe ~ not long to go!! :) im very envious!!

Not had a good few days. Turned my phone on yest to get a text from a friend saying her sister had had a baby girl, popped on FB to see a friend post that shes found out shes having a girl, OBEM is girls girls and more girls...and then I got a text today from hi-tech friend as her dd arrived today... Thrilled for all of them but hurts like hell. Its like im being punished all the time. Sometimes I feel like I must have been a really bad person or it wouldnt all to be happening :(

Sorry I never seem to have anything good to say.... :(

[chocolate]

Ah big hugs babymad, days like that on top of being sick really hit home hard, hope you have a better day soon and everyone starts to feel well, good health makes all the difference when facing gd news x