How do I handle the comments?!?

[luckyfourleafclover]

I WANT STEAK AND POTATOES!

[sweetdream]

Yeah, are you guys with 2 boys really getting that many comments?? I do remember people occasionally saying "you need a girl" when I had two boys, but no one seemed to think it was strange...till I had 3...and then 4...LOL!!!

People are SO weird!!! Good luck and I hope you have a great time!!

Plz don't ask.
When my second son was born. I was proudly walking around with him. This women came up to me.. aah.. a girl would have been so nice... (WHAT?!)
she had 4 girls herself before having her boy!

I even had questions like Are you happy with it?! (I should have said NO don't want it at ALL.. do you want him!) my goodness ofcourse I'm happy with MY baby!

and this is only a nutshell.

[atomic sagebrush]

Ack rereading my comment that almost sounded like I was doubting that people are getting comments - but I mean that I am incredulous about how horribly RUDE people are sometimes. I can understand why people might remark about 4 boys I suppose, it's just not that common but 2 boys is just so...normal!!!!

[sweetdream]

Written words! No I did know how you ment it! Its cruell rude and insensetive. And UNBELIEVEBLE ppl can be like this.
But they are.

I was somewere I had the only boys and 4 baby girls were present. Someone said!!! Oooo how Nice al these girls. ........ And oh boys are Nice too

[Pinkmeup]

I'm pretty sure people dont mean what they say a lot of the time, at least I hope not!!! I used to dread the comments every time I left the house with my baby triplet boys and my elder boy. Top comment being "you've got your hands full" (several times a day, and everyone thinking they were funny and original. Sigh. Worst ever being "that's my worst nightmare. I'd have had one put down"!!!! And always getting "Aaaw, what a shame. You'd have thought one of them would have been a girl....

[sweetdream]

I don't think they mean to be cruel. But they are. They just don't think.

Pinkmeup. Thats awfull!

[weeziewoozles]

I'm lucky to have never had a bad comment like that. I normally get the "you've got your hands full" one. If I get asked "Are you having any more to get a girl?" I always answer "Yes! We've always wanted four or five kids so hopefully we've still got a chance get a mixture"

[2boysJustOneGirl]

People are always remarking on my boys. Sickening. As if they are are bad thing, not good enough or something. I can't stand how ppl can be such jerks. I love my boys and can't imagine my life without them and when ppl devalue who they are based on their gender I can't help but feel sick. If I do have ever have a daughter I doubt I will love her more (or less) than my boys.


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[zibibbogirl]

Worst ever being "that's my worst nightmare. I'd have had one put down"!!!!

Wow that is atrocious. Did you say "pity your parents didn't think of that". I wouldn't have been able to help myself!