frequency of BD for pink and blue

[BabyRendu]

Yes! That is how many of us boy moms, myself included, got our boys. We had regular unprotected sex outside of our fertile window, and then when we were NOT trying to get pregnant, used protection only during our fertile window. Then when we were trying to conceive, we stopped using protection and had unprotected sex during our fertile window too!

Shettles DOES NOT WORK. It's been debunked as much as it is possible for anything in science to be debunked. Dozens of studies have shown it doesn't work. I know it's hard to let it go but studies have shown regular unprotected sex boosts your fertility and everything that boosts fertility, seems to sway blue!

Thks I feel so gd knowing this. Debunked n I know it well based on how I conceive my gals.. Yes need to let it go.. let it go..
N sorry it was supposed to be unprotected done CD8 & CD6 and O-4.
Tomorrow will be O-2 so we will DTD O-2, O-1 and on O..

Using preseed (a coin size) this whole week too.. Fingers toes crossed....

[atomic sagebrush]

You are doing exactly perfectly! Keep up the good work and sending you tons and tons of blue dust!

[BabyRendu]

Atomic small problem. I didnt get my expected LH surge on 30 Mar so wat should I do now? It was consistent these few months but now I dont have the surge yet. Could it be because DH is releasing into me (Sorry TMI) this month? Im still BD-ing every 2days. Yesterday we still DTD. Is there a chance that I may not be able to detect an LH surge? Im afraid I might miss the 5 attempts.

[atomic sagebrush]

No, DH releasing in you cannot affect your LH surge. Sometimes when you're tense about TTC it can delay ovulation. What supplements are you taking? Some supplements can also delay or even stop your ovulation.

I would keep having regular sex and testing for LH surge.

Are you having a lot of EWCM?? Or any other symptoms that are telling us that ovulation may be coming?? If you think you are ovulating, have a couple extra attempts even if you don't get a surge (you can get false negative LH strips.)

[BabyRendu]

Supplements
Vit D
Folic Acid
Omega 3
probiotics
Guanefesin

Yes I had CM hanging (TMI) when I use the toilet which I normally dun have. Could be due to diet and lots of coconut water and guanefesin. I had cramps yest which I believe may not be reliable. I just went with my instincts and had attempt yest and today morning and intend to have it tonight too. Yest night when I check my opk no signs but the day before 1st Apri (CD14) I had the below mentioned results.. Previous months both lines were way way darker. So I believe this is not a surge or is it?

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[atomic sagebrush]

I suspect it's coming, take a day off now, keep testing with OPK, and then hit it again with a couple attempts not today but tomorrow.

This doesn't look positive to me but sometimes you can be surging and then the OPK are false negatives. your symptoms make it sound like O will be coming along soon, but you can have those symptoms for days before surge occurs so I don't want to completely exhaust DH in case the real surge is coming.

[BabyRendu]

I suspect it's coming, take a day off now, keep testing with OPK, and then hit it again with a couple attempts not today but tomorrow.

This doesn't look positive to me but sometimes you can be surging and then the OPK are false negatives. your symptoms make it sound like O will be coming along soon, but you can have those symptoms for days before surge occurs so I don't want to completely exhaust DH in case the real surge is coming.

Yes agreed. Now all the OPK are just one line unlike the others I saw.. Maybe like you said maybe Im getting false negatives but surging.. Shall keep testing though..

[atomic sagebrush]

Just keep BD every other day for now and see what happens! FX and blue dust headed your way

[BabyRendu]

Yes sure cos the lines are no longer visible..
Thanks so much for your advise all along...

[atomic sagebrush]

The OPK are not the end all, be all! It may be that you have not Oed yet and having attempts doesn't hurt anything.