Officially decided on baby #3!

[Sperando3]

Hello! My husband and I have officially decided (as of this past weekend) that we will try for baby #3 (our final baby) next year. We have two boys, our oldest is 8 and our youngest will be 3 in January. We would absolutely welcome a third son into our family, but have both agreed that we would love to have a daughter. I found this site this morning while googling, and from the lurking I've done today I think this is exactly where I need to be to sway the odds in our favor! I plan to share the site and information with my husband tonight.

I look forward to learning a lot and getting to know all of you!

[Kelbear]

Good luck, i hope you get your little girl. This site is amazing, filled with lots of good information and supportive members. I don’t think i would have my DD if not for gender dreaming and Atomic’s advice.

[4blue2pink]

Hi sperando3 how exciting good luck and pink dust

[Sperando3]

Thank you! I showed my husband the site last night and we agreed that we will purchase the personalized plan. I’m cautiously optimistic!!


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[atomic sagebrush]

Hi and welcome!!! Let me know how I can help you guys!!!

[Sperando3]

Hi and welcome!!! Let me know how I can help you guys!!!

Hi! Thank you so much for replying I just purchased the personalized girl sway plan. I am really excited to start the process!

[atomic sagebrush]

I have your questionnaire! Thank you so much!!

[Sperando3]

I have your questionnaire! Thank you so much!!

Yay! Thank you so much - we are excited!


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[Sperando3]

Hello, Atomic!

Long story short - we didn't end up swaying last year.

A couple weeks into our sway, we learned our younger son has a possibly-genetically-inherited neuromuscular disease. We decided it was best to put our sway on hold until we met with more doctors and learned more.

In the last year, we have not learned much, unfortunately, about our son's disease. What we do know, is that it is rare (still undiagnosed), and if it is inherited and not a random genetic mutation, we have no indication of the likelihood of it happening again. This also means we aren't candidates for IVF with genetic embryo testing, because they don't even know what to test for. For what it's worth, our son is doing really well right now and isn't that far off from "typical" four year old. This could change in the future, but it's a waiting game!

Through lots of conversations this last year, my husband and I decided our desire to expand our family was greater than our fear of parenting another medically complex child. We have the knowledge and medical teams in place to help us, if need be. We are revisiting our personalized sway and hope to make our first attempt in March.

To regain access to the coaching/forums, would I purchase the dream member plan or the extension of the personalized plan? I'm not sure what is the way to go about it. Or do I need both?

Thanks so much for your help!!

[atomic sagebrush]

I replied to you via PM but I'll post it again here:

Hi again - I'm so sorry to hear of your son's diagnosis but so happy that he is doing well right now. I hope and pray that continues indefinitely!

Do you still have your plan available?? I'm happy to send it to you again along with anything else you need.

Normally we'd just have you renew your coaching service for a small fee. But we have a totally bizarre situation going on here right now. The woman who owns this site, does all the technical stuff, and posts the plans for me has gone missing. I don't know if she's ok or what is happening. So what I would say is I'll coach you however I can via PM and the forums and then I'll email you anything you've bought in the past so you have it at your disposal. No need to give me any more money for it.