Due March/April/May 2017 (3)

[Girlieplease]

Thank you for what you said, Girlie. I am hurting for you. You can only feel what you feel and denying it DOES make it worse. I think time only heals if you allow yourself to feel everything and work through those feelings truthfully.

I know I will be more OK than I am now with time because I am feeling all the ugly stuff and not forcing myself too much. I say that because I keep telling myself that I couldn't handle a girl and I wouldn't be the right kind of mom for a girl and I am believing it. Not sure if that's denial or a true realization. My way is to try to make divine sense of it...like I could actually do that! Haha. I'm a pretty closed Agnostic bordering on Atheist...LOL. But, I feel something exists that is "bigger" than us. I call it the Universe.

I honestly think that the Universe didn't place a daughter in my care for a reason. One that I am trying to understand.

My biggest problem is working through jealousy of everyone who gets their hearts desire.

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I suppose we just don't know what the future or the universe has planned for us, I guess that is what is exciting about life? My best friend got engaged and am just so excited, I think I must be starting to adjust? We went Christmas shopping today I needed a few parts of the children's Christmas outfits and I can't say the pink tutu for baby girls did give me a pang of sadness but it passed!

One of my neighbours an elderly man has three grown up sons and he has six granddaughters. He had no daughters and his sons have had no sons. Funny how life works out! X

[Girlieplease]

Anyone have awful skin? My skin is terrible but I never had this with previous pregnancies neither my dd or ds 1 or ds2 x

[Burakoam]

I do tend to have that girlie. We have the thyroid in common so maybe its related to that. Ive only had it with DD2 and DD4...so i dont have it every pregnancy either.

I think you will have lots of grandaughters girlie just like i will have lots of grandsons

[Lissastick]

I have terrible skin. I have adult acne since my mid twenties (I'm mid thirties now). Had extra horrible acne with DS1 and again, extra bad acne with DS2.

Sigh.

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[Lissastick]

Oh, I have two nieces, whom I love to death! And they look like me!!!! And my son looks a bit like my brother, who will never have a son, like I will never have a daughter.

They are girly like me too. I can't wait to show them all my beauty knowledge! Their mother is not into makeup so she's letting me step in to be the beauty guru aunt.

I am extremely lucky despite me not getting exactly what I wanted ❤

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[purple]

My skin is better than with my boys but I still get some breakouts. I had about 2 weeks of clear skin which was awesome but it came back. I can't complain as with ds2 it was terrible and also cystic acne.

The only time in my life I have had good skin was when I was on the pill but I don't want to take it again as it makes me feel depressed.

My little girl will have to ask her aunt for makeup.advice when she is older as I'm not good with that. My SIL has one boy and they are apparently ttc so I'm hoping she can get pregnant to start with and that she gets a girl, alth I think she has pcos and doesn't know about swaying so she will probably get another boy.

[squigglepink]

Thanks bukoram but it's no movement at all, not reduced that is the concerning part.

Lissastick I feel like this two, my sister in law has just announced she is pregnant with a third, she has two girls, she popped her first girl two days after I saw at my 36 week scantily ds1 was a boy not a girl, like I was told at 20 weeks. Then the night before I was due to be induced with ds2 she announced she is having dd2, she is not a nice person anyway, she is not particularly maternal and in my opinion does not care for them properly but she is really keen on having a boy now and it's awful but I hope she has another girl. I just feel so jealous that she got two girls and I did not and she does not even care for them right! But she will probably have a boy because she is just the sort of annoying person who life works out for, but your not alone Inn feeling like this. My brothers wife is pregnant with her first, I love my brother and I hoped and hoped that it would be a boy, he really wanted a boy but of course it is a girl, we have her baby shower on Sunday and I could just cry at the thought if it. My sister in law ( brothers wife) is such a happy, excited pregnant woman it just makes my situation so much more stark and I still look at baby girl clothes in shops qnd think what would I buy! X o

Hey Girlie

I want to offer you my support. I totally relate to your feelings and i think you are very brave for saying how you feel. I know your jealousy stems from a good place, if that makes sense at all. You dont wish bad on anyone, but rather you feel hard done by - 'how life works out for everyone else' type of feeling. A perfect example, my BFF just had her 3rd child, a girl, after two boys - she didnt mind the gender at all, she just always wanted 3 children. I mean, how lucky for her? - that made me jealous because its ALL i want and she got it without even giving it a thought. I love her and her children to the ends of this earth and it doesn't make me a bad person for feeling how i felt. We are the best of friends and i cuddle her daughter as much as i can (AND she took vitamins, had sex two days in a row, ran twice a week for 30 minutes, 3 meals a day with after noon biscuits and tea, didnt drink alcohol and only drinks tea!) I consider her to be incredibly fortunate that she barely adjusted her lifestyle and still managed a girl.
I found no peace in what anyone told me really with DS2.. i just had to come to terms with it on my own. Talking about it helps though hun and this is the place for that! Wishing you all the best regardless xx

On a side note - I wish i could still be part of this group. I never did find out the gender of this one i lost. Im still bleeding unfortunately, going on since 26th October. Im going for a scan on Thursday. Wish me luck

[All*blue*everything]

Hey Girlie

I want to offer you my support. I totally relate to your feelings and i think you are very brave for saying how you feel. I know your jealousy stems from a good place, if that makes sense at all. You dont wish bad on anyone, but rather you feel hard done by - 'how life works out for everyone else' type of feeling. A perfect example, my BFF just had her 3rd child, a girl, after two boys - she didnt mind the gender at all, she just always wanted 3 children. I mean, how lucky for her? - that made me jealous because its ALL i want and she got it without even giving it a thought. I love her and her children to the ends of this earth and it doesn't make me a bad person for feeling how i felt. We are the best of friends and i cuddle her daughter as much as i can (AND she took vitamins, had sex two days in a row, ran twice a week for 30 minutes, 3 meals a day with after noon biscuits and tea, didnt drink alcohol and only drinks tea!) I consider her to be incredibly fortunate that she barely adjusted her lifestyle and still managed a girl.
I found no peace in what anyone told me really with DS2.. i just had to come to terms with it on my own. Talking about it helps though hun and this is the place for that! Wishing you all the best regardless xx

On a side note - I wish i could still be part of this group. I never did find out the gender of this one i lost. Im still bleeding unfortunately, going on since 26th October. Im going for a scan on Thursday. Wish me luck

Your best friend sounds exactly like my lifestyle there's hope for me yet lol!
Hope your scan goes well x I know people can bleed for a long time x

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[squigglepink]

Your best friend sounds exactly like my lifestyle there's hope for me yet lol!
Hope your scan goes well x I know people can bleed for a long time x

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Lol, She drinks coke and is a vegetarian (eats chicken occasionally) - BUT she did same when she had her two boys. Hence i say she didn't adjust much, unless i pinpoint her changes i can honestly say the only difference noted was that she started taking vitamins & running - and that was with me - so i know how often we ran and for how long. I know when she started ttc and what meals she ate because she asked me for dinner inspiration I use her as an example because our lifestyle is so similar and we are such boy moms that i didnt expect her to have a girl and she wasn't fussed either way! And there you go - little effort and boom, GIRL!
Music to my ears strangely - that you know people can bleed for a long time! My GP thinks i started my period almost 3 weeks ago - which means ive had AF for a long time.. concerning. Hope i can get sorted soon so i can try again!!

Are you finding out gender?

[All*blue*everything]

Lol, She drinks coke and is a vegetarian (eats chicken occasionally) - BUT she did same when she had her two boys. Hence i say she didn't adjust much, unless i pinpoint her changes i can honestly say the only difference noted was that she started taking vitamins & running - and that was with me - so i know how often we ran and for how long. I know when she started ttc and what meals she ate because she asked me for dinner inspiration I use her as an example because our lifestyle is so similar and we are such boy moms that i didnt expect her to have a girl and she wasn't fussed either way! And there you go - little effort and boom, GIRL!
Music to my ears strangely - that you know people can bleed for a long time! My GP thinks i started my period almost 3 weeks ago - which means ive had AF for a long time.. concerning. Hope i can get sorted soon so i can try again!!

Are you finding out gender?

I don't drink coke but I am a vegetarian I think if this was a girl then I did start taking vitamins (magnesium ok, and angus castus) and was going aqua Zumba once a week apart from that nothing change ...but im sure it will be a boy we find out Christmas eve x

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