Dh is sick, should I still try?

[babyb5]

Dh is sick from Sunday till now, but I should be O tomorrow(Thur.) or Friday. Should I still try or pass this month?

[Mackenzie]

How sick is he? Are you fine?

[babyb5]

I think he had a cold (fever and body aches) I'm fine. Had a +opk last night. I think I'm going to O tomorrow.

[atomic sagebrush]

So sorry only just now seeing this - what did you do??

[babyb5]

I passed this month. Will try next month.

[babyb5]

Atomic, I told you we skip this month. Yesterday, I had a surprised BFP. We dtd on cd9 and cd11 and O on cd16. That is 5 days before O. Will this sway girl?
We have been ttc for 8 months without success, dtd every 2-4 days, and dtd 2 to 3 times around O. This is very unexpected BFP. I'm very happy, but also very worry this may be my 5th girl.

[The Anchor]

Is your O confirmed - that is, +OPK? Timing doesn't sway, but how crazy that you got a BFP with bd at 0-5? CONGRATS!

[babyb5]

Yes, I had a +opk on cd15 (Thur.) O on cd16. Also by temp. Yes, -5 days before O. I still can't believe it.

[atomic sagebrush]

are you sure about when you ovulated?

That is quite difficult to conceive that way - this baby was meant to be!

I do not think timing sways in any way and I got 3 of my 4 boys with cutoffs.