Do you tell others you are swaying?

[Ipadmad]

I'm fairly new to this, been doing IG for 3 weeks, but now starting LE as was v constipated on IG.
Anyway, obviously dh knows and I've also told my sister, but am not telling anyone else in real life.
I wondered if others are telling friends/family or keeping quiet?
It's really hard isn't it, I just cant face all of the questions and cynicism. I also don't want others to know, in case I have a boy. I feel guilty that they'd think I wouldn't want him (I'd love another boy, just want to see if we can sway for a girl).
This forum is great, such useful information, thanks.

[The Anchor]

I'm fairly new to this, been doing IG for 3 weeks, but now starting LE as was v constipated on IG.
Anyway, obviously dh knows and I've also told my sister, but am not telling anyone else in real life.
I wondered if others are telling friends/family or keeping quiet?
It's really hard isn't it, I just cant face all of the questions and cynicism. I also don't want others to know, in case I have a boy. I feel guilty that they'd think I wouldn't want him (I'd love another boy, just want to see if we can sway for a girl).
This forum is great, such useful information, thanks.

No way! JEEZ, I don't even tell DH I'm swaying!

[Dreamofpink]

My DH, parents, sister and two closest friends know about the sway but no-one else really. Couldn't hide the dramatic weight loss from my parents as they know I never had any interest in dieting before all of this!!

[My Three Sons]

I don't tell anyone. DH thinks this is nuts and that I am going to do all this stuff and either it won't be a successful sway or it will keep us from getting pregnant altogether. I have only told a couple of people IRL that we are even trying because when you already have 3 kids, people think we are nuts for wanting more. Heck, sometimes DH thinks I am nuts for wanting another.

[Emily]

No I am not going to tell anyone - I would hate years down the line for someone to let it slip to my children. If I have a boy this time he would feel unwanted and if I have a girl my two DSs would feel slighted. Lol anchor how are you managing to sway without DH noticing? I am jealous of your sex life if FR seems normal to him!!

[ThreeMenAndALAdy]

I'm with Anchor. Dh didn't even know.

[pebmcpd7]

No only me and DH know.

[Rosie85]

Only dh knows to what extent I swayed.

[Ipadmad]

Oh, ok, I feel a bit better now!
How do you hide it? My mum thinks I'm on a weight loss drive, though now at 121 bmi, I know she'll start to tell me I need to stop now.
Luckily, I work from home, but can't imagine how to hide it from colleagues in an office!!

[Ipadmad]

Oh, ok, I feel a bit better now!
How do you hide it? My mum thinks I'm on a weight loss drive, though now at 121 bmi, I know she'll start to tell me I need to stop now.
Luckily, I work from home, but can't imagine how to hide it from colleagues in an office!!