Awesome April 2ww & TTC thread [emoji120]

[ABC.2606]

Thanks for asking ABC! Looks like I'm just one day DPO ahead of you! Sooo had to pee AGAIN about 4 hours after falling asleep, so I just tested then since my next sleep was going to be 3 hours or less- it was bfn *sad trombone* it was pretty clear too (tmi?) so clearly I'm drinking too much late in the day ha.

So I am going to wait to test now until Sunday unless AF comes then. I agree and think today I'm 10 DPO, so hopefully I can get a good test eventually OR Af will arrive.

FX for you ABC!

Do you usually test with FMU? I've found my positive HPTs are way lighter with FMU than with SMU or even TMU. I think it's b/c I too drink a lot late in the day/evening. I tend to neglect getting enough water during the day so I try to drink more at night, and I think it dilutes the urine a lot making FMU no good for me.

[HGmama]

Thanks for asking ABC! Looks like I'm just one day DPO ahead of you! Sooo had to pee AGAIN about 4 hours after falling asleep, so I just tested then since my next sleep was going to be 3 hours or less- it was bfn *sad trombone* it was pretty clear too (tmi?) so clearly I'm drinking too much late in the day ha.

So I am going to wait to test now until Sunday unless AF comes then. I agree and think today I'm 10 DPO, so hopefully I can get a good test eventually OR Af will arrive.

FX for you ABC!Thirst was one of my first symptoms, therefore needing to pee a lot. Not to be over-analyzing, but who knows right?

ABC- i think my cyst is gone... no more pain there. I got a voicemail with a message from my OB. She said that as long as my hpt appears negative, no more blood testing and no need to wait for AF and "if you're ready, you can have intercourse to attenpt to conceive. " that was the most awkward voicemail ive ever had. Haha.

Anyways, im 32 dp d&c. Im PMS-y and i still think i possibly ovulated last friday with the pains i had and cyst like pain following for three days.

I'm debating on asking for an emergency sway plan as i have been doing lots of boy friendly things. I took prenatals from the time of my positive early February until now.

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[kikurose]

HG I've definitely noticed I'm really thirsty the past two days, but again, I'm probably totally symptom spotting haha.

HGmama I hope things settle for you soon. Are you swaying girl or boy? Are you feeling good to go or want to wait a bit? That voicemail sounds like gold ha.

[ABC.2606]

Thirst was one of my first symptoms, therefore needing to pee a lot. Not to be over-analyzing, but who knows right?

ABC- i think my cyst is gone... no more pain there. I got a voicemail with a message from my OB. She said that as long as my hpt appears negative, no more blood testing and no need to wait for AF and "if you're ready, you can have intercourse to attenpt to conceive. " that was the most awkward voicemail ive ever had. Haha.

Anyways, im 32 dp d&c. Im PMS-y and i still think i possibly ovulated last friday with the pains i had and cyst like pain following for three days.

I'm debating on asking for an emergency sway plan as i have been doing lots of boy friendly things. I took prenatals from the time of my positive early February until now.

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LOL - that is awkward!!! Glad they left the message for the right person and not some random person as that would have REALLY been weird!! :) I've found that my OB is pretty blunt about the whole "getting pregnant" thing. When I talked to him recently on the phone about my RPL tests and mentioned our little "oops" incident and was trying to be subtle he straight out asked "When did you have sex?". Just right to the point :) I guess that's the business they are in though!

Good news about the cyst & the message from the OB though! So you think AF is on its way then? Will you definitely go ahead and TTC next cycle?

One attempt is always a really good last minute tactic and if I remember correctly didn't you get pregnant last time with one attempt? You could also try J&D - atomic says it does seem to sway girl a bit, although it may also cut the odds of conception. If we do try next cycle (assuming this cycle is a BFN), I plan to do J&D. Maybe just try to keep your blood sugar levels low the next few weeks as well?

[Pbn3]

Kikurose I second what Abc aaid about your smu might be better to test with. If you're waiting a couple days now though it wont matter. Your chart just gets better and better!

Hgmama yes one attempt seems to be the most commonly recommended last minute sway tactic and the low blood sugar environment is said to be friendly for pink at implantation time so start skipping brekky now. Not much else you can do other than j&d but as Abc said, that will cut conception odds. Maybe wait 5 minutes first? The couple cycles following mc are also said to sway pink.

[Pbn3]

Abc I cant remember how your 2ww temps looked previously... can you do an overlay of this chart with your last bfp one and screenshoot it? How are you feeling?

[kikurose]

I totally didn’t see ABCs response about SMU! That’s a great idea- I still think I’m going to wait - I only have one FRER left and I’m too cheap to get more right now ha. I’ll be interested to see what my temps do tomorrow. If I can’t get FMU I’ll definitely try later on Sunday if I keep this waking up to pee business.

ABC I’ll be watching your chart! Fx!

[ABC.2606]

Abc I cant remember how your 2ww temps looked previously... can you do an overlay of this chart with your last bfp one and screenshoot it? How are you feeling?

I don't know how to do an overlay but here is a screenshot of my last BFP chart. I feel OK. Just tired! Just really want to know either way :)

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[HGmama]

LOL - that is awkward!!! Glad they left the message for the right person and not some random person as that would have REALLY been weird!! :) I've found that my OB is pretty blunt about the whole "getting pregnant" thing. When I talked to him recently on the phone about my RPL tests and mentioned our little "oops" incident and was trying to be subtle he straight out asked "When did you have sex?". Just right to the point :) I guess that's the business they are in though!

Good news about the cyst & the message from the OB though! So you think AF is on its way then? Will you definitely go ahead and TTC next cycle?

One attempt is always a really good last minute tactic and if I remember correctly didn't you get pregnant last time with one attempt? You could also try J&D - atomic says it does seem to sway girl a bit, although it may also cut the odds of conception. If we do try next cycle (assuming this cycle is a BFN), I plan to do J&D. Maybe just try to keep your blood sugar levels low the next few weeks as well?Swaying girl and we talked last night and yes we are ready to go next cycle. I dont want to delay in case it takes longer than 2-3 months like last two times TTC.
Yes, i got pregnant last time with e4d (every 96 hrs). Our one attempt was o-3 and had an o night attempt that was unsuccessful. I was sick and on antibiotics. I accidentally did j&d when i coughed so hard at like 2 mins and felt everything come out. Apparently not, because egg met sperm. Took folic acid and dha but not prenatal. Did caffeinated coffee and liquor/beer almost daily. Skipped breakfast usually but not always because in my line of work,nursing, you might get caught with no lunch until late afternoon. Never been a snacker so we are good there. Wish i could get my hands on some lose dose clomid.
Glad to have an OB that is blunt. I feel more comfortable talking about the science of sex and TCC, especially when we were having troubles with having successful attempts. E4d worked well with us having a 2 year old and long hours at work.


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[hannahptrussell]

HG! I love my OB for this reason. She is so incredibly blunt. It makes for a great relationship bc I never question her intentions.

So my temp is steadily rising, which is typical after Ovulation for me. A steady increase rather than a spike. So if I did indeed ovulate earlier than expected, I think I did what I could do. Should I continue OPKs for a few more days just to cover my bases? (Since I’m getting a dotted crosshair) Husband is currently on a hunting trip so if indeed I am 3dpo, that works in our favor. Otherwise he’s coming home to jump straight into bed! Hahaha.


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[kikurose]

My temp dropped this morning. Not a good sign so thinking I may not test unless AF isn’t here Tuesday. What do you think?

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6dbc88


Hannah I bet you ovulated but I’d maybe keep checking the next few days otherwise, if you’re pretty confident then I’d probably take a break.

[kikurose]

Here is an overlay from last cycle- they actually look similar so I’m really thinking I’m out again.

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[ABC.2606]

Sorry Kikurose :(

My temp dropped today a bit too & I had a BFN on FRER. I always get BFPs by 10 dpo - so I think it's probably a no go for me as well. Which I'm very ok with. But now I'll have to decide whether we're going to start "officially" trying again this next cycle or wait one more cycle :nails:

[Pbn3]

Kikurose that sucks [emoji22] your chart was looking sooo good! I'm still holding onto some hope though. One dip in temp doesn't mean much, I'll be waiting to see what the next couple days do. Also you know your body best, is there any chance you're actually only 9dpo? Temp wise I had to throw it out there...

[gafan]

Here is an overlay from last cycle- they actually look similar so I’m really thinking I’m out again.

39404Sorry, kikurose.

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6e5253

[kikurose]

Kikurose that sucks [emoji22] your chart was looking sooo good! I'm still holding onto some hope though. One dip in temp doesn't mean much, I'll be waiting to see what the next couple days do. Also you know your body best, is there any chance you're actually only 9dpo? Temp wise I had to throw it out there...

So I have had really bad intestinal issues the past two weeks, usually I feel ovulation pain, but this time due to really bad gas issues, I'm not sure I could distinguish them. I know I caught my LH surge much earlier than I usually do thanks to the cheapies, I usually catch it late. My best guess is O last Tuesday 4/17 so today would be 11 dpo. MAYYYYYBE 10 dpo, but likely not 9. Since I got my positive OPK on Monday 4/16 for me to be only 9 dpo would mean I didn't O until Thursday. My CM did switch to creamy though.

ALL of that is to say I think I'm 11 dpo minimum 10 dpo. But I do think my crosshairs are not correct- I don't think I'm 12 dpo.

I think I will test tomorrow. I woke up AGAIN in the middle of the night. Going to try to drink more earlier today. Movers come Monday and I'd rather just have these tests gone lol.

[kikurose]

ABC, maybe one temp drop isn't to be a concern? FX for you that you don't have to make the decision this month and a sticky bean is already there.

[ABC.2606]

ABC, maybe one temp drop isn't to be a concern? FX for you that you don't have to make the decision this month and a sticky bean is already there.

Eh it's more the BFN that makes me think it didn't happen, since I normally have a positive by this point if pregnant. Honestly though I'm ok with it - we weren't even trying, it was a total "oopsies" moment (thanks, red wine!) as we really weren't ready yet to try again (at least I wasn't - DH has been ready!).

Will still keep FX for a BFP for you tomorrow!!!!!

[kikurose]

Eh it's more the BFN that makes me think it didn't happen, since I normally have a positive by this point if pregnant. Honestly though I'm ok with it - we weren't even trying, it was a total "oopsies" moment (thanks, red wine!) as we really weren't ready yet to try again (at least I wasn't - DH has been ready!).

Will still keep FX for a BFP for you tomorrow!!!!!

Ohhhh that makes sense! That’s me and 11 dpo! But I didn’t test today so we will see tomorrow.

Will you test again?

[ABC.2606]

Ohhhh that makes sense! That’s me and 11 dpo! But I didn’t test today so we will see tomorrow.

Will you test again?

Yea I will :) I normally only have a 10 day LP so technically I'm due for AF tomorrow but I started 1 progesterone capsule a day to try to lengthen my LP/cycle so we'll see what happens. Will probably stop progesterone in a couple of days to let AF start.

Well if you didn't test today then I will definitely be hoping for a BFP tomorrow!!!!! You have so much strength to not test - I'm such a POAS freak it's ridiculous!!!

[kikurose]

BFN guys.

I’m so sad. Just hope AF comes soon if she’s coming so we can try again.

[Noemi2017]

So sorry kikurose:sad::hugs:

[gafan]

Sad for you, kikurose.

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[ABC.2606]

Sorry Kikurose :(

[kittendreams]

So sorry kikurose xx

I think I'm out this month too- 9dpo and bfn this morning and af is due today/ tomorrow.

Feeling ok about it but was secretly excited to maybe get a surprise bfp without all the stress of actively ttc.

Both hubby and I are keen now to try in may so I will be here to cheer you all on next month too xx

[kittendreams]

ABC your chart looks interesting!

[kittendreams]

I've got everything crossed for you Gafan for next month xx

[ABC.2606]

So sorry kikurose xx

I think I'm out this month too- 9dpo and bfn this morning and af is due today/ tomorrow.

Feeling ok about it but was secretly excited to maybe get a surprise bfp without all the stress of actively ttc.

Both hubby and I are keen now to try in may so I will be here to cheer you all on next month too xx

LOL we're in the same place Kitten - I really didn't want a BFP but oh, it would be nice to not have all the stress of having to actively try! :)

Oooh exciting that you may be trying in May now!! We'll definitely be cheering you on as well!!!

[Pbn3]

Kikurose I'm sorry [emoji17] I shouldn't have been so confident without having a previous chart to compare to. I still feel like your chart looks really good and I'm going to hope af stays away and you do get a surprise xo How long is your lp usually?

[Pbn3]

Noemi I'm also really liking your chart but your temps have plateaued like this in the past so holding my breath at the moment! In any case very much looking forward to the next few days temps and will keep everything crossed they don't start going down x

[hannahptrussell]

So my temp is still steadily rising. But now I’m getting high cervix, ewcm. Of course this last month is going to throw me for a loop. My husband is letting me chill today. Running errands and getting a massage before I head home. Trying all of the stress relief things. I’m keeping up with OPKs and I think they look like they’re progressing darker. So now I need to jump back on the EOD schedule. Hunting. Geez.


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[kikurose]

Kikurose I'm sorry [emoji17] I shouldn't have been so confident without having a previous chart to compare to. I still feel like your chart looks really good and I'm going to hope af stays away and you do get a surprise xo How long is your lp usually?

My LP was 11 days for two cycles after coming off birth control and then it lengthened to 15 days one cycle then 16 days last cycle. Soooo IDK??? FF has AF due tomorrow but I wouldn’t be surprised if she doesn’t come until 5/2.

[kikurose]

Kikurose I'm sorry [emoji17] I shouldn't have been so confident without having a previous chart to compare to. I still feel like your chart looks really good and I'm going to hope af stays away and you do get a surprise xo How long is your lp usually?

And pbn I appreciated your support! Don’t feel bad!!!!! And to everyone thanks for all the virtual group hugs. Means a lot.

[kikurose]

Also PBN here is an overlay from my BFP chart with my first (purple home chart) with my last two BFN cycles. You can see they have some similarities so you shouldn't feel bad at all! <3

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[Pbn3]

Thank you kikurose [emoji173] So what dpo did you get a bfp on with your first?

[Pbn3]

So my temp is still steadily rising. But now I’m getting high cervix, ewcm. Of course this last month is going to throw me for a loop. My husband is letting me chill today. Running errands and getting a massage before I head home. Trying all of the stress relief things. I’m keeping up with OPKs and I think they look like they’re progressing darker. So now I need to jump back on the EOD schedule. Hunting. Geez.


https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5f0afcYeah I wouldn't assume you've oed yet either as going by last cycles chart you haven't hit post o temps yet....

Post a pic of todays opk! Fx its pos or close to!!

[Noemi2017]

Thx u Pbn, im 9dpo and today my temperature went little down:(but it is still early for af. Normally it is going down 2 days before... do u think i still have hope?

[Pbn3]

You absolutely still have every chance! One days dip in temp means nothing! It could very well pop right back up again tomorrow! Different is good! Especially between 6-12dpo when implantation generally takes place, so a temp dip where you usually wouldn't get one could be an exciting sign. But have to wait and see what happens now over the next few days [emoji102] fx and everything else!! Are you going to hold off testing? Or are you starting tomorrow if temp doesn't fall any further?

[Noemi2017]

Pbn thx u for your answer, i feel sad. I will see tomorrow morning due to my temperature if i test or no...

[Girlswaylondon]

Noemi look at my bfp chart, mine dropped too :)

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[Noemi2017]

Hello Girlsway, thx for your chart and some hope, i really need it today:bighug:
When i saw this morning my temperature i was crying and my husband too:sad: i will see tomorrow and will just pray:pray:

[Pbn3]

Big hugs noemi [emoji173] I'm sorry you're feeling so down [emoji22] Hope tomorrow raises your spirits again. There's really nothing in your chart to feel negative about, hang in there and you'll have a better idea in a couple days. Please dont feel defeated [emoji173]

[Girlswaylondon]

So sad to hear you’re feeling so down Noemi :( I completely understand it’s so hard watching the Months go by but I just know your time is coming :heart: and like pbn said nothing in your chart looks negative :)

[HGmama]

Unlike everyone else... can my friends send me some AF vibes? This waiting game is worse than the TWW. Plus, it would be great to not be flowing during my son's birthday weekend.

There is a friend at work that is due in October. She's showing already and i would've been 16 weeks today. A little depressed.

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[Pbn3]

That sucks hgmama [emoji17] big hugs [emoji173] and lots of af 'get your butt on over to hgmamas' house thoughts headed your way. Are your tests negative now?

[Pbn3]

Emshe haven't heard from you in awhile? How are you? Any update?

[hannahptrussell]

HG, I know that feeling. It’s so discouraging. Hoping that you have some bright spots in your day today that lift you up!
Here is my latest am OPK. I’ll do another this afternoon too. But they did go from barely there to a lot darker so it’s making me think that my body is gearing up for ovulation. What do you ladies think?
https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180430/46217ff551e9a15df0a9c0c4e096d470.jpg
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5f0afc



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[ABC.2606]

May is here ladies! New thread: http://genderdreaming.com/forum/2ww-gathering-place/64282-may-2018-ttc-2ww-thread.html

[onebigwish]

Who else experienced the Menstruation cramps on 5dpo? In the morning when i get out of my bed i got really bad cramps like af is coming, but i have never have such bad cramps at CD18. Could it be implantation?

[hannahptrussell]

Who else experienced the Menstruation cramps on 5dpo? In the morning when i get out of my bed i got really bad cramps like af is coming, but i have never have such bad cramps at CD18. Could it be implantation?

I remember having these with one of mine. It was different from my normal AF cramping. Crossing fingers for you!!


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[onebigwish]

I remember having these with one of mine. It was different from my normal AF cramping. Crossing fingers for you!!


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I hope soo ! Fingers crossed ��

[Throwaway_panther]

Unlike everyone else... can my friends send me some AF vibes? This waiting game is worse than the TWW. Plus, it would be great to not be flowing during my son's birthday weekend.

There is a friend at work that is due in October. She's showing already and i would've been 16 weeks today. A little depressed.

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Oh I'm so sorry <3 I would have been due in October, as well. It's so hard to see the bumps grow where ours should have :( It makes me feel so stuck in time. Thinking of you

[ABC.2606]

Unlike everyone else... can my friends send me some AF vibes? This waiting game is worse than the TWW. Plus, it would be great to not be flowing during my son's birthday weekend.

There is a friend at work that is due in October. She's showing already and i would've been 16 weeks today. A little depressed.

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HG - Yea it sucks, I understand. October is my birthday month and I was so excited to have an October/ autumn baby. :(

I'm waiting for AF now too. On CD30 which makes this the LONGEST cycle I've ever had in my life.

[kikurose]

Thank you kikurose [emoji173] So what dpo did you get a bfp on with your first?

11 dpo for both my pregnancies but I never tested earlier.

[emshe]

Hi lovelies! I’ve had a little scroll through. Man I’d so hoped to come & find more of you in happier places.

I’m sorry there are not more bfp’s I wish so much this were different.

I will get caught up today I promise, until then I’ll be somewhere under the mountain of backed up washing [emoji849] but all the while hoping & wishing for brighter days ahead of everyone!!!

Noemi I hope your temp is up again this morning.




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[ABC.2606]

Hi lovelies! I’ve had a little scroll through. Man I’d so hoped to come & find more of you in happier places.

I’m sorry there are not more bfp’s I wish so much this were different.

I will get caught up today I promise, until then I’ll be somewhere under the mountain of backed up washing [emoji849] but all the while hoping & wishing for brighter days ahead of everyone!!!

Noemi I hope your temp is up again this morning.




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Eeeeek emshe happy to hear from you!!! Please let us know how your time away was, and I'm anxious to know if you got any spontaneous BD-ing in :wink:

My laundry is never not backed up :( It drives me nuts! And that's with two kids - can't imagine what it would/will be like with 3!!

[emshe]

Eeeeek emshe happy to hear from you!!! Please let us know how your time away was, and I'm anxious to know if you got any spontaneous BD-ing in :wink:

My laundry is never not backed up :( It drives me nuts! And that's with two kids - can't imagine what it would/will be like with 3!!

Thanks ABC, it was nice to get away. Unfortunately I got sick, and spent the one full day we had there in bed. So sad. Seems to be the way with us...But its a special place to us and felt good to be back there. The boys got to see our entries in the visitors diary from the years before they were born, including our wedding day & when I was pregnant with one of them.

I don't even have a guess of where my cycle is at, my temping has been thrown out with getting up and down for some reason or another the last few nights so not really accurate enough to record I don't think. AF will surely tell me when its ready. Ill be taking May off.

What about you ABC, are you trying for May? ... Gosh I so hope its time for you to get that BFP

[emshe]

Unlike everyone else... can my friends send me some AF vibes? This waiting game is worse than the TWW. Plus, it would be great to not be flowing during my son's birthday weekend.

There is a friend at work that is due in October. She's showing already and i would've been 16 weeks today. A little depressed.

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Come on AF get the show on the road.

Sorry you feel down, it is so hard. And there just seems to be pregnant women & new babies everywhere when you're finding it the hardest. Thinking of you HGmama

[emshe]

So my temp is still steadily rising. But now I’m getting high cervix, ewcm. Of course this last month is going to throw me for a loop. My husband is letting me chill today. Running errands and getting a massage before I head home. Trying all of the stress relief things. I’m keeping up with OPKs and I think they look like they’re progressing darker. So now I need to jump back on the EOD schedule. Hunting. Geez.


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Wishing you luck hannah

[emshe]

Kikurose Im sorry, what a bummer. Wish I was reading that you got your BFP

[Pbn3]

HG, I know that feeling. It’s so discouraging. Hoping that you have some bright spots in your day today that lift you up!
Here is my latest am OPK. I’ll do another this afternoon too. But they did go from barely there to a lot darker so it’s making me think that my body is gearing up for ovulation. What do you ladies think?
https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180430/46217ff551e9a15df0a9c0c4e096d470.jpg
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Sent from my iPhone using TapatalkHannah how did the PM opk go?

[Noemi2017]

Hello emshe, how do u feel? My temp is up but bfn...

[emshe]

Hello emshe, how do u feel? My temp is up but bfn...

Good news about the temp, do you think it maybe just still too early for the bfp?

I will keep hope for you 🤞🏻

I’m ok, thanks for asking! Pretty certain I’m going to take a break for may & try clomid again in June.


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[Girlswaylondon]

Noemi your temp looks great!!! Remeber I didn’t get bfp till 12/13dpo :)

[Noemi2017]

Yess i remember Girslway, i pray i have it similar as u:pray::D

[Noemi2017]

Im 10dpo so maybe still early...

[Pbn3]

Was just coming on here Noemi to say woah!!!! If that spike is implantation related you'll hopefully see something by 12/13dpo on a sensitive test. Please please please let this be your cycle [emoji120][emoji120][emoji120]

[Pbn3]

*may* even get a faint line tomorrow if testing with frers....

[Pbn3]

So excited!! Wish we could be waiting outside your bathroom door when you test hahaha [emoji102][emoji23]

[Girlswaylondon]

Yes me and pbn would definitely be waiting hahaha! :bluecheer:

[Girlswaylondon]

You could have implanted yday Noemi!!

[Noemi2017]

Thx u Pbn:heart:i really hope temp stay high:pray::nails:

[Throwaway_panther]

AHH, fingers crossed Noemi!!

[kittendreams]

Wow that's a great temp spike noemi! Fx this is it!!!

[emshe]

Looks great Noemi 🤞🏻


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[Noemi2017]

Thx u girls:HH:

[ABC.2606]

Thanks ABC, it was nice to get away. Unfortunately I got sick, and spent the one full day we had there in bed. So sad. Seems to be the way with us...But its a special place to us and felt good to be back there. The boys got to see our entries in the visitors diary from the years before they were born, including our wedding day & when I was pregnant with one of them.

I don't even have a guess of where my cycle is at, my temping has been thrown out with getting up and down for some reason or another the last few nights so not really accurate enough to record I don't think. AF will surely tell me when its ready. Ill be taking May off.

What about you ABC, are you trying for May? ... Gosh I so hope its time for you to get that BFP

Awwww that sounds awesome! (not the being sick part but the rest of it). I'm such a sentimental/ nostalgic person - I bet you and I would connect really well IRL :)

I understand wanting to take a month off. Will be excited to follow your TTC stuff in June. Damn I just wish we could all get our rainbow BFPs :( It's so frustrating to me how hard it is for some when I've seen it be SO easy for others! My two SILs have 3 kids each, they have both genders, NO m/c's, and they got pregnant easily each time. It's hard not to be resentful sometimes!

Yea we're trying this month, if the doc gives us the OK to use Clomid. I feel very weird about it though!

[emshe]

Awwww that sounds awesome! (not the being sick part but the rest of it). I'm such a sentimental/ nostalgic person - I bet you and I would connect really well IRL :)

I understand wanting to take a month off. Will be excited to follow your TTC stuff in June. Damn I just wish we could all get our rainbow BFPs :( It's so frustrating to me how hard it is for some when I've seen it be SO easy for others! My two SILs have 3 kids each, they have both genders, NO m/c's, and they got pregnant easily each time. It's hard not to be resentful sometimes!

Yea we're trying this month, if the doc gives us the OK to use Clomid. I feel very weird about it though!

I believe we would! We wish we could actually experience living in the US, when we went to do HT, we were checking out areas we could possibly move too. It was hard to leave, oddly enough we all felt very much like it could be home. Tears flowed each time we left. I don't actually know if I've ever truly found home, even though I have lived in the area we do pretty much all my life, bar times living/working in the UK. Our town and is beautiful, but I still feel unsettled.

I think a get together with all you ladies would be magic. There would be tears, laughter, tmi, and so much talking!!! I met up with an Australian girl whilst in the US who I chatted with throughout the HT journey
it was surreal...

I hear you on the hard to see stuff. Although I was really fortunate with my first 2. But I have only nephews. So that kind of makes it a little easier in one respect, but also fuels the desire more.

Once you get going again Im sure it will become easier day by day. I hope so anyway. I wish I wasn't so hesitant to try this month. Im really limiting my chances based purely on silly superstition

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I believe we would! We wish we could actually experience living in the US, when we went to do HT, we were checking out areas we could possibly move too. It was hard to leave, oddly enough we all felt very much like it could be home. Tears flowed each time we left. I don't actually know if I've ever truly found home, even though I have lived in the area we do pretty much all my life, bar times living/working in the UK. Our town and is beautiful, but I still feel unsettled.

I think a get together with all you ladies would be magic. There would be tears, laughter, tmi, and so much talking!!! I met up with an Australian girl whilst in the US who I chatted with throughout the HT journey
it was surreal...

I hear you on the hard to see stuff. Although I was really fortunate with my first 2. But I have only nephews. So that kind of makes it a little easier in one respect, but also fuels the desire more.

Once you get going again Im sure it will become easier day by day. I hope so anyway. I wish I wasn't so hesitant to try this month. Im really limiting my chances based purely on silly superstition

Oh my gosh a get together would be SO amazing!! It's still so crazy to me how many of you on here have gone through so many of the same experiences, feelings, disappointments, etc. that I have had - I think that's what connects me to this board so much. I don't really have that connection to those I know IRL. It's made going through 3 m/c's in a row so hard - no one in my family/friends has gone through that. And I'd love to visit Australia - I've traveled internationally a lot but not to Australia and that may be the top country I'd like to visit at this point!!

I know you're hesitant b/c of the Chinese gender chart. Just to say again that I've never found a version of that that has been right for both of my kids. And recently there was a biorhythms thread on here that seemed to be right for several of the ladies on here, but it was wrong for both of my kids (both should have been girls according to that!). I know it's hard not to think there is something to one on those things when it has been right for you but you can always find a lot of people it was wrong for. BUT that said, taking a month off is not a bad thing, and if it's the right decision for you, then it's the right decision!! I'm going to cheer you on SO MUCH in June!

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Oh my gosh a get together would be SO amazing!! It's still so crazy to me how many of you on here have gone through so many of the same experiences, feelings, disappointments, etc. that I have had - I think that's what connects me to this board so much. I don't really have that connection to those I know IRL. It's made going through 3 m/c's in a row so hard - no one in my family/friends has gone through that. And I'd love to visit Australia - I've traveled internationally a lot but not to Australia and that may be the top country I'd like to visit at this point!!

I know you're hesitant b/c of the Chinese gender chart. Just to say again that I've never found a version of that that has been right for both of my kids. And recently there was a biorhythms thread on here that seemed to be right for several of the ladies on here, but it was wrong for both of my kids (both should have been girls according to that!). I know it's hard not to think there is something to one on those things when it has been right for you but you can always find a lot of people it was wrong for. BUT that said, taking a month off is not a bad thing, and if it's the right decision for you, then it's the right decision!! I'm going to cheer you on SO MUCH in June!

Sending you the biggest virtual hug ever ABC!




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