June 2018 TTC & 2ww thread

[Pbn3]

Hopeful I hope af does arrive so you can put the terrible month behind you [emoji173] looks promising she's close with that dip below coverline

Here's to a much better month ahead [emoji482]

[gafan]

Welcome Mom25boys!

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[gafan]

Hopeful- take good care, enjoy some wine or beer, and may next month be your BFP.
HDP- I have no idea [emoji17] hang in there x
HGmama - I saw a flicker too , fingers crossed 🤞
Eighme and everyone else, good luck I’m sending you all of mine [emoji8]
Mom25- welcome !! The June 12-930 looks positive? [emoji846] Pbn3 is the one for charts so she will help assist you.

My temp has dropped below coverline, so I’m waiting for AF to arrive, which I’m kind of relieved about , I’ve had a month from hell [emoji24]
I can’t wait to see all the BFP XX


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[Pbn3]

Oh man. I hope next month is better. I dont really understand the charts. Do you know a good place to explain. Like I guess dropping temps means AF?

Sent from my SM-G965U using TapatalkNot always but commonly yes. You may experience a steady decline in temps or just a sharp dip towards or at the end of your lp (luteal phase - days between o and af) indicating af is immenent. Dips prior to this though (between say 6-10dpo) can either indicate possible implantation but most commonly is caused by a secondary estrogen surge.

Temping is used to track o to within a day or so. But it's charting in total that really helps narrow it down as while some experience a sharp rise in temp, some experience a gradual rise. There are other patterns too like a fallback rise which we'll go into if needed. So your temps combined with opk results, cm and cp if you track (many dont) give an overall picture and you can usually determine most likely day of o from. I like to explain why I think a certain day/s are possible so you'll learn as we go along [emoji4]

[emshe]

That's strange emshe as your temp is usually lower earlier hours of morning (depending on when you went to bed of course [emoji12]) and is falsely elevated later if disturbed (tossing and turning). I hate to say it but I'm thinking you should ditch temping after o is confirmed as I think the stress of it may be affecting your sleep... *maybe* at least commit to not temping the next two mornings as a start and see if that works sleep wise?

Thanks pbn, I think I should ditch it too, opks too! I’m very very anxious and down today.


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[emshe]

That does sound rough! Hope you get better sleep tonight.

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Thank you


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[wildlyluna]

Hopeful I hope af does arrive so you can put the terrible month behind you [emoji173] looks promising she's close with that dip below coverline

Here's to a much better month ahead [emoji482]

Yeah she came 15 min or so after I wrote that. [emoji175] [emoji6]


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[Heart desires pink LP]

I've followed your story through this month and feel your pain, I used to have a regular and predictable cycle but since ttc and the ectopic last year my cycle has gone to pieces. I never get a blazing positive opk. But this month it was stressing me out and because of that I think it's delaying my Os so my partner and I decided to just dtd and be done with it. He's ok with which ever gender we get as long as it's healthy but my heart is still set on blue. If this time around isn't successful I'll be dumping the opk for sure and just stick to natural tracking.
Good luck HDP I have everything crossed for you that you get your pink bfp this cycle and just know you're not alone in this I'm CD 23 and still no real sign for me either and I'm also normally o'ing CD 17 or 18...

Sent from my SM-G955F using TapatalkHelps to know I have company :) misery loves company for sure. No +ve Opk yet and it's onto CD 26 for me. I sincerely hope you have better luck mama!

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[Heart desires pink LP]

I know...i just deep deep down want a BFP.

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)I'm gunning for you too!! Come on BFP, show your pretty pink face!!

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[Heart desires pink LP]

Absolutely, HGamma. Right there with you. I want a BFP so bad. Sending positive thoughts and prayers for a BFP your way

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[Heart desires pink LP]

Oh man. I hope next month is better. I dont really understand the charts. Do you know a good place to explain. Like I guess dropping temps means AF?

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[Heart desires pink LP]

HDP doesn't look like o has happened at all yet. What is the meds you're taking daily?My everyday med over the past few years is synthroid (for low thyroid). I had my dosage upped and tested last month and my endocrinologist is very happy with the results and gave me the go ahead to TTC. Otherwise, only folic acid. I'm 29, healthy, work out, eat my greens, vegetarian all my life, sleep well, no stress . I guess this is my stress now lol!

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[HGmama]

I took another IC. BFN. My body is telling me that I'm pregnant. I'm so convinced it's telling me that I haven't had alcohol at dinner. Stupid nausea and tender breasts.
On to test in when i wake up tomorrow.

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[Eighme]

I took another IC. BFN. My body is telling me that I'm pregnant. I'm so convinced it's telling me that I haven't had alcohol at dinner. Stupid nausea and tender breasts.
On to test in when i wake up tomorrow.

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[emshe]

I took another IC. BFN. My body is telling me that I'm pregnant. I'm so convinced it's telling me that I haven't had alcohol at dinner. Stupid nausea and tender breasts.
On to test in when i wake up tomorrow.

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Hang in there, I’m sure your instincts will be proven right soon enough


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[sunstars]

FX for good news, Hgmama!

First cd1 for me exactly one month after D&C, and I'm not sure if I should ttc now or wait for another cycle.
Pros for waiting: I couldn't really be back on diet after bfp, so more time on hopefully better diet, plus it would give more time for my body to relax,

Cons: I'm 39, and it took me 7 months to conceive last time (not counting one chemical), so maybe I shouldn't waste another month, if I decide to ttc this month, I'll take Femara again. I had an ultrasound the other day, all looks to be fine.

I'm inclined to ttc, but not so sure.

[emshe]

FX for good news, Hgmama!

First cd1 for me exactly one month after D&C, and I'm not sure if I should ttc now or wait for another cycle.
Pros for waiting: I couldn't really be back on diet after bfp, so more time on hopefully better diet, plus it would give more time for my body to relax,

Cons: I'm 39, and it took me 7 months to conceive last time (not counting one chemical), so maybe I shouldn't waste another month, if I decide to ttc this month, I'll take Femara again. I had an ultrasound the other day, all looks to be fine.

I'm inclined to ttc, but not so sure.

Sunstars wishing you all the luck 🤞🏻


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[Pbn3]

Sunstars if you're set on taking femara please wait for this cycle to run its course and try the next [emoji173] Up to you of course and I know how hard it is to wait but IMHO I'd wait for one full cycle post d&c even without the femara before trying..

[gafan]

FX for good news, Hgmama!

First cd1 for me exactly one month after D&C, and I'm not sure if I should ttc now or wait for another cycle.
Pros for waiting: I couldn't really be back on diet after bfp, so more time on hopefully better diet, plus it would give more time for my body to relax,

Cons: I'm 39, and it took me 7 months to conceive last time (not counting one chemical), so maybe I shouldn't waste another month, if I decide to ttc this month, I'll take Femara again. I had an ultrasound the other day, all looks to be fine.

I'm inclined to ttc, but not so sure.Sunstars, I'm 39 too and understand the pressure. For me the pressure about age is probably more worry than necessary. Healthy pregnancies happen at our age, and one month is unlikely to decrease the odds much. I waited 1 cycle after my d&c so I could be on the diet a full month. I hope you make a decision that you feel is right for you.

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[gafan]

Pbn, small dip in temperature this morning. Might have used a blanket fee nights before and only a sheet last night due to comfortable room temperature. If it stays in this range the next day or two is it high enough to suggest I still have a chance this month?


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[HGmama]

Hang in there, I’m sure your instincts will be proven right soon enough


https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/35220bThanks, but it's proving me wrong. :( 10 dpo and still BFN. So disappointed. Last time there was a very clear line at 10 dpo. I am now debating on even testing tomorrow. It's not even 7am here and I'm already feeling so down and wanting to stay in bed today.

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[Pbn3]

Pbn, small dip in temperature this morning. Might have used a blanket fee nights before and only a sheet last night due to comfortable room temperature. If it stays in this range the next day or two is it high enough to suggest I still have a chance this month?


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Sent from my SM-G930U using TapatalkGafan a dip in temp at 6dpo could simply be a hormonal dip (secondary estrogen surge) or could be #something else [emoji6] unfortunately it's too early to say how your chart is looking but the next few days temps *may* help indicate either way. At 6dpo you still have EVERY chance!! It's pretty much the earliest implantation can take place! I still have a really good feeling about this cycle and fx so tight I'm right [emoji120]

[Pbn3]

Thanks, but it's proving me wrong. :( 10 dpo and still BFN. So disappointed. Last time there was a very clear line at 10 dpo. I am now debating on even testing tomorrow. It's not even 7am here and I'm already feeling so down and wanting to stay in bed today.

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)I'm sorry hgmama [emoji17] big hugs and please be kind to yourself [emoji173]

If its possible do you think you'll try e4d (72hr version) for the entire cycle long? I'm not entirely convinced ff had your o day correct. Very likely it is correct but could still be a couple other days [emoji848] can you remind me again what your lp used to be?

[gafan]

Thanks, but it's proving me wrong. :( 10 dpo and still BFN. So disappointed. Last time there was a very clear line at 10 dpo. I am now debating on even testing tomorrow. It's not even 7am here and I'm already feeling so down and wanting to stay in bed today.

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)Hgmama, sorry. That sounds so frustrating.

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[HGmama]

I'm sorry hgmama [emoji17] big hugs and please be kind to yourself [emoji173]

If its possible do you think you'll try e4d (72hr version) for the entire cycle long? I'm not entirely convinced ff had your o day correct. Very likely it is correct but could still be a couple other days [emoji848] can you remind me again what your lp used to be?LP is usually 10-12 days. I'm thinking it just wasn't our month. Sadly, next month, would be giving me a due date right when i lost my daughter.
Ive made myself a deal. When AF comes, I'm going to upgrade FF and buy a plan here.

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[sunstars]

Pbn and gafan, thanks a lot for advises, but I wonder why exactly you advise to wait, especially to hold out taking femara.

[gafan]

I don't know anything about Femara, so I am not saying anything about that.
My advice is to consider your options abd then choose what feels best for you. For me, I felt better waiting a full cycle to give me time on the sway diet and exercise and to give me more time to work through emotions about my miscarriage. I am swaying pink and recent miscarriage sways pink so I thought about the possibility of hormones helping my sway. But ultimately I decided I needed more time because I wanted to lose some weight and exercise more and be on my pink sway diet for at least 6 weeks.
Pbn and gafan, thanks a lot for advises, but I wonder why exactly you advise to wait, especially to hold out taking femara.

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[emshe]

Thanks, but it's proving me wrong. :( 10 dpo and still BFN. So disappointed. Last time there was a very clear line at 10 dpo. I am now debating on even testing tomorrow. It's not even 7am here and I'm already feeling so down and wanting to stay in bed today.

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Oh HGMama I’m sorry, Thinking if you I know how hard this is.


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[Pbn3]

Sunstars I say that because it's better to be sure this is indeed a new cycle and not bleeding from the mc & d&c. That way if you have bleeding again in a cycle lengths time you'll know it is real af. It really is your call whether you ttc this cycle or not, I would just recommend not using femara until its confirmed to be a cycle and hold off taking it until the next. I also think a d&c can be quite rough and it's better to give it that little bit extra healing time. That's just my opinion though xo

[sunstars]

Thanks again, pbn and gafan, yeah, it's a tough decision, on one hand, I will be calmer if I ttc this month, on the other hand, I may feel relieved if I won't conceive this cycle, so I don't know :) On one hand, my diet was bad past month, but I'm afraid it may get even worse :)

[Thunderstruck7]

Helps to know I have company :) misery loves company for sure. No +ve Opk yet and it's onto CD 26 for me. I sincerely hope you have better luck mama!

Sent from my ONEPLUS A3000 using TapatalkLet's hope if either of us don't get our BFPs this month we'll go onto having an amazing textbook cycle next time around. Thoughts are with you [emoji173]

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[HGmama]

Emshe- can you start testing so we can see your BFP!!! It's already the second half of June and we only have one BFP. We need some more!

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[mwilson]

Anyone going through ivf? Or point me to an ivf board? I couldn’t seem to find one.

[atomic sagebrush]

Anyone going through ivf? Or point me to an ivf board? I couldn’t seem to find one.

Yes we have a fantastic group of IVF gals and you can meet up with them here: https://www.genderdreaming.com/forum/high-tech-family-balancing-non-member-forum/

[Eighme]

When do you ladies usually start testing? I don't know if it's just me convincing myself I have syptoms, or if I do. With my son, I was really forgetful, clumsy, and just very off feeling very early on. But it was my first time being pregnant and I had no idea what was going on. I just thought I might be sick. I'm having the same syptoms (atleast, I FEEL like I am) but I don't want to get my hopes too high because, obviously, you just never know and this time around it's just so different and I'm hyper aware of everything.

Maybe I'm just crazy, who knows [emoji23]

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[emshe]

Emshe- can you start testing so we can see your BFP!!! It's already the second half of June and we only have one BFP. We need some more!

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Hope you’re having a nice Father’s Day with the family HGMama


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[emshe]

When do you ladies usually start testing? I don't know if it's just me convincing myself I have syptoms, or if I do. With my son, I was really forgetful, clumsy, and just very off feeling very early on. But it was my first time being pregnant and I had no idea what was going on. I just thought I might be sick. I'm having the same syptoms (atleast, I FEEL like I am) but I don't want to get my hopes too high because, obviously, you just never know and this time around it's just so different and I'm hyper aware of everything.

Maybe I'm just crazy, who knows [emoji23]

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I hope you’re onto something eighme, some start at 8dpo but that’s super early. What day are you?


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[gafan]

Well you are definitely not crazy!
I am trying to wait until 10 or 11 DPO.
Today I was tense and quite irritated at times with my 3 year old but I didn't feel quite PMS level, I think. I'm not sure if it's because I had ice cream, it's too early for PMS, or maybe I'm not having PMS this time. I'm trying not to make too much of the absence of PMS.
When do you ladies usually start testing? I don't know if it's just me convincing myself I have syptoms, or if I do. With my son, I was really forgetful, clumsy, and just very off feeling very early on. But it was my first time being pregnant and I had no idea what was going on. I just thought I might be sick. I'm having the same syptoms (atleast, I FEEL like I am) but I don't want to get my hopes too high because, obviously, you just never know and this time around it's just so different and I'm hyper aware of everything.

Maybe I'm just crazy, who knows [emoji23]

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[emshe]

Emshe- can you start testing so we can see your BFP!!! It's already the second half of June and we only have one BFP. We need some more!

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I did a test bfn.. hadn’t been feeling real positive, but I had tickly nipples last night so thought maybe, but my temp hasn’t had a shift so I think I’m out


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[Eighme]

I hope you’re onto something eighme, some start at 8dpo but that’s super early. What day are you?


https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/35220bI am 6 DPO right now! I am 7 days away from my predicted period.

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[HGmama]

I did a test bfn.. hadn’t been feeling real positive, but I had tickly nipples last night so thought maybe, but my temp hasn’t had a shift so I think I’m out


https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/35220bDo you think you'd be someone who has a triphasic chart? Sorry for your bfn. :/ :(

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[emshe]

Do you think you'd be someone who has a triphasic chart? Sorry for your bfn. :/ [emoji20]

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Thanks HGMama
I remember my last natural ttc pregnancy (which I miscarried around 6weeks) I looked at my chart going what’s going on I have spotting but my temp keeps climbing.
I didn’t temp with my lost HT girl so I can’t be sure how it looked then.
But I am starting to spot now too [emoji24]


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[emshe]

I am 6 DPO right now! I am 7 days away from my predicted period.

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Well I’ll keep everything crossed for you eighme, hope you keep noticing signs


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[Heart desires pink LP]

Guys it's CD 27 of my 32 day cycle, and no signs of ovulation! This is very weird! My Temps have stayed constant past few days, but my usual post O Temps are much higher.. CM is all dried up! (BD one attempt on CD 23, when I had EWCM).
I stopped stressing and the opk testing madness. Testing once a day the past 4 days and it's negative. Very clearly this is not my month.
I'm just hoping for AF and a chance to reset this cycle!! So for anyone who will be TTC in July, you have me for company, and to cheer you on :-)
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[emshe]

Guys it's CD 27 of my 32 day cycle, and no signs of ovulation! This is very weird! My Temps have stayed constant past few days, but my usual post O Temps are much higher.. CM is all dried up! (BD one attempt on CD 23, when I had EWCM).
I stopped stressing and the opk testing madness. Testing once a day the past 4 days and it's negative. Very clearly this is not my month.
I'm just hoping for AF and a chance to reset this cycle!! So for anyone who will be TTC in July, you have me for company, and to cheer you on :-)
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I’m so sorry HDP, I really wish it had gone down differently for you. I’m pretty certain I’ll be there with you, for my last ttc cycle. Thinking I’ll throw all lead up research 🧐[emoji102]aka stress [emoji51] to the wind and just go enjoy e4d plus 1 & hope that July is a lucky month for all of us there


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[Heart desires pink LP]

I’m so sorry HDP, I really wish it had gone down differently for you. I’m pretty certain I’ll be there with you, for my last ttc cycle. Thinking I’ll throw all lead up research 🧐[emoji102]aka stress [emoji51] to the wind and just go enjoy e4d plus 1 & hope that July is a lucky month for all of us there


https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/35220bNooo way emshe, you go get yourself a nice bfp by the end of June! It's my birthday today, and that is my wish! :)

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[Heart desires pink LP]

I know someone asked me where in the east coast I was from.. I live in New Jersey! Anyone here from the area?

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[emshe]

Nooo way emshe, you go get yourself a nice bfp by the end of June! It's my birthday today, and that is my wish! :)

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Oh that is so sweet HDP thankyou [emoji8] wishing you a wonderful birthday, hope you’re enjoying some special treats [emoji513] & 🥂


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[wildlyluna]

Happy birthday HDP! [emoji322][emoji322]


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[gafan]

Happy birthday HDP!

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[gafan]

HDP and emshe, I am pretty sure I will be TTC in July too. Looking back I think I had my PMS symptoms on Saturday and temps are not looking good.

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[HGmama]

HDP- happy birthday!

Emshe- ive started spotting too. That means I've got some time to get more on the LE diet. I've been half-assing it and need to take this opportunity to improve my odds. (That's the right attitude, right? I'm actually really sad & frustrated).

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[gafan]

HDP- happy birthday!

Emshe- ive started spotting too. That means I've got some time to get more on the LE diet. I've been half-assing it and need to take this opportunity to improve my odds. (That's the right attitude, right? I'm actually really sad & frustrated).

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)I think it is helpful to acknowledge the sadness/disappointment and also look for the bright side. It does give us more time on the diet... also sad.

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[emshe]

Good attitude ladies, trying to look at the positives does help so line up the wine glasses [emoji6] & caffeine to get through the effects of silly sleep patterns

But it does suck each and every month that there isn’t a bfp. I feel for you all.

It ain’t over to af really sings though ?!?!?


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[HGmama]

Good attitude ladies, trying to look at the positives does help so line up the wine glasses [emoji6] & caffeine to get through the effects of silly sleep patterns

But it does suck each and every month that there isn’t a bfp. I feel for you all.

It ain’t over to af really sings though ?!?!?


https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/35220bAF is singing now. I'm calling today CD1. Its strange that my ovulation and AF were both in the evening this time around. I'm so used to full flow first thing in the a.m.

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[Pbn3]

Sorry I've been MIA ladies. Have had to take off for a few days to mums as our septic system failed. It is being replaced tomorrow so I'll be home by Friday and will get up to speed then. Thinking of you all [emoji173]

For what I seen in my quick skim, happy birthday HDP [emoji322][emoji322] hope you had a good one!

Hgmama big thumbs down for af and mine was the same. Had always come fast and hard with fmu for as long as I could remember but after my losses it eventually ended up coming in the evenings and I even had spotting [emoji50]

Emshe still crossing everything for you next few days testing!

Gafan and eighme not long till testing now?

Jgojah sending pink vibes your way for your attempt! Seen the pos opk recorded on your chart [emoji322][emoji322] it's GO time!!!!

Will catch up properly with you all in a couple days [emoji8]

[Mom25boys]

Hey everyone.... I have been lurking. Just wanted to wish you ladies luck, for all who didnt yet test. Congrats on the positives, and hugs to those who this wasn't their month. I'm dieting and was going to attempt July, but I dont think it was long enough on the diet... and after 5 boys and me begging to try again... I need to give it my best. GD was scary stuff... so August if my diet and exercise doesn't mess my cycle. Again.

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[Eighme]

Sorry about your mom's septic system, but I'm glad it's getting replaced!

I am 7 DPO and won't probably test till 11 DPO due to my husband's request to save money on FRERs [emoji23]. I can't help myself! I tell myself I won't then I burn through them in a matter of days. I may just do a cheapie for fun.

But I'm prepared for AF this month. I was just so excited to see a positive OPK after trying for quite a few months now with no luck at getting a positive on OPK or tests.

Wishing you ladies all the best and if it's not my month, I'll see you in July!
Sorry I've been MIA ladies. Have had to take off for a few days to mums as our septic system failed. It is being replaced tomorrow so I'll be home by Friday and will get up to speed then. Thinking of you all [emoji173]

For what I seen in my quick skim, happy birthday HDP [emoji322][emoji322] hope you had a good one!

Hgmama big thumbs down for af and mine was the same. Had always come fast and hard with fmu for as long as I could remember but after my losses it eventually ended up coming in the evenings and I even had spotting [emoji50]

Emshe still crossing everything for you next few days testing!

Gafan and eighme not long till testing now?

Jgojah sending pink vibes your way for your attempt! Seen the pos opk recorded on your chart [emoji322][emoji322] it's GO time!!!!

Will catch up properly with you all in a couple days [emoji8]

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[Eighme]

Hey everyone.... I have been lurking. Just wanted to wish you ladies luck, for all who didnt yet test. Congrats on the positives, and hugs to those who this wasn't their month. I'm dieting and was going to attempt July, but I dont think it was long enough on the diet... and after 5 boys and me begging to try again... I need to give it my best. GD was scary stuff... so August if my diet and exercise doesn't mess my cycle. Again.

Sent from my SM-G965U using TapatalkWelcome, Mom25! Looking forward to getting to see your testing! We have some of the best women around here! They are so knowledgeable and helpful with any questions.

Sending pink dust your way!

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[emshe]

AF is singing now. I'm calling today CD1. Its strange that my ovulation and AF were both in the evening this time around. I'm so used to full flow first thing in the a.m.

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Boo! Here’s cheers to this being your lucky cycle


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[emshe]

Sorry I've been MIA ladies. Have had to take off for a few days to mums as our septic system failed. It is being replaced tomorrow so I'll be home by Friday and will get up to speed then. Thinking of you all [emoji173]

For what I seen in my quick skim, happy birthday HDP [emoji322][emoji322] hope you had a good one!

Hgmama big thumbs down for af and mine was the same. Had always come fast and hard with fmu for as long as I could remember but after my losses it eventually ended up coming in the evenings and I even had spotting [emoji50]

Emshe still crossing everything for you next few days testing!

Gafan and eighme not long till testing now?

Jgojah sending pink vibes your way for your attempt! Seen the pos opk recorded on your chart [emoji322][emoji322] it's GO time!!!!

Will catch up properly with you all in a couple days [emoji8]

Pbn I literally just got on to message you to see if you were ok, I was getting concerned! Glad you’re all ok, hope all is sorted when you get home, thank goodness for mums house!


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[emshe]

Hey everyone.... I have been lurking. Just wanted to wish you ladies luck, for all who didnt yet test. Congrats on the positives, and hugs to those who this wasn't their month. I'm dieting and was going to attempt July, but I dont think it was long enough on the diet... and after 5 boys and me begging to try again... I need to give it my best. GD was scary stuff... so August if my diet and exercise doesn't mess my cycle. Again.

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Hi & welcome! I so hope your dream comes true Mom25boys


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[emshe]

Sorry about your mom's septic system, but I'm glad it's getting replaced!

I am 7 DPO and won't probably test till 11 DPO due to my husband's request to save money on FRERs [emoji23]. I can't help myself! I tell myself I won't then I burn through them in a matter of days. I may just do a cheapie for fun.

But I'm prepared for AF this month. I was just so excited to see a positive OPK after trying for quite a few months now with no luck at getting a positive on OPK or tests.

Wishing you ladies all the best and if it's not my month, I'll see you in July!

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I love that you’re hubby is clued in on what goes on in this process eighme. After the journey we’ve travelled I really don’t not think hubby understands much about anything, some things he says I just shake my head, no clue! My youngest son notices more, he’s like “you pee on sticks a lot mum, I saw them all stuck in a book”


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[Eighme]

Oh emshe, that last line made me chuckle about your son. How sweet! My husband has been surprisingly supportive with this whole thing. But I'm also very vocal with him about this whole process so he only knows because I talk about it with him since (besides you ladies) I have no one to talk to about it
I love that you’re hubby is clued in on what goes on in this process eighme. After the journey we’ve travelled I really don’t not think hubby understands much about anything, some things he says I just shake my head, no clue! My youngest son notices more, he’s like “you pee on sticks a lot mum, I saw them all stuck in a book”


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[gafan]

I laughed at the last line about your son. What a funny and cute moment
I wonder what he thinks you do with the sticks.
I love that you’re hubby is clued in on what goes on in this process eighme. After the journey we’ve travelled I really don’t not think hubby understands much about anything, some things he says I just shake my head, no clue! My youngest son notices more, he’s like “you pee on sticks a lot mum, I saw them all stuck in a book”


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[gafan]

Sorry I've been MIA ladies. Have had to take off for a few days to mums as our septic system failed. It is being replaced tomorrow so I'll be home by Friday and will get up to speed then. Thinking of you all [emoji173]

For what I seen in my quick skim, happy birthday HDP [emoji322][emoji322] hope you had a good one!

Hgmama big thumbs down for af and mine was the same. Had always come fast and hard with fmu for as long as I could remember but after my losses it eventually ended up coming in the evenings and I even had spotting [emoji50]

Emshe still crossing everything for you next few days testing!

Gafan and eighme not long till testing now?

Jgojah sending pink vibes your way for your attempt! Seen the pos opk recorded on your chart [emoji322][emoji322] it's GO time!!!!

Will catch up properly with you all in a couple days [emoji8]Sorry about your septic system PBN. That sounds stressful!

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[jgojah]

Hey ladies,

Happy belated HDP!!! Hope it was great

So sorry hgmama...praying hard for next cycle for you!!! You have such an awesome outlook! Absolutely inspiring :)

Thanks pbn3!!! I am excited especially because I was actually thinking that O would be screwed up as my temps are still way higher than usual pre O...I was soooooo over the moon to see the positive opk. We're not doing any "sway" bd pattern this cycle because DH has said this is our last cycle trying :( so just hoping and praying for a bfp no matter the gender....but I'm still taking all the pink vibes for sure ! ;)

On another note - good luck with the septic! Hope it all works out soon.

Noemi how r u? Are you gearing up to O as well?

Praying for bfp for all the ladies about to test!!!!!!! Looking forward to seeing some nice 2 lines :fx:

[Noemi2017]

Hello jgojah, thx for asking im cd 16. I had ultrasound cd15 and i had just small follicle 10mm. My doctor told me i wont ovulate this month:( but im ovulating late like cd20-21. So i pray:pray: i ovulate this month. I wish u pink dust also without swaying u have still chance u conceive your baby girl:XX: are u now after ovulation?

[Heart desires pink LP]

I love that you’re hubby is clued in on what goes on in this process eighme. After the journey we’ve travelled I really don’t not think hubby understands much about anything, some things he says I just shake my head, no clue! My youngest son notices more, he’s like “you pee on sticks a lot mum, I saw them all stuck in a book”


https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/35220bHaha, your kid is a sharp one!

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[Girlswaylondon]

Noemi your charts to me look like you do ovulate I’m confused why he’d say that! Been thinking of you fingers crossed x

[Babybeaublue]

Noemi I'm still checking the tww for you as well! Loads of pink dust to you x

[Noemi2017]

Hello Girlsway, how are u? I also think and feel im ovulating due to my charts...so i try again this month, no ovulation signs yet:(

[Noemi2017]

Thx u so much Babybeaublue. It makes me happy somebody is thinking about me:heart: i appreciate it so much:LotsofLove: soon u will hug your baby boy:babym:and girlsway her baby girl. I pray to conceive soon too:DD:

[Heart desires pink LP]

Thinking of you Noemi! I'm on CD 29 of a usual 32 day cycle and I didn't ovulate yet! And this is my first cycle at TTC. I was so excited, but the month of testing and anticipating has sucked! Wish you good luck! https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180619/a4265ad4f615ee66c63734a553ccaed0.jpg

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[Noemi2017]

Thx u Hdp, i saw your chart and i really hope u will ovulate soon. When do u ovulate normally? I also wish u good luck and conceive soon:awe:

[gafan]

Noemi, I hope you ovulate this month. There is still a chance!

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[Noemi2017]

Thx u gafan, i really hope i will...it sucks these long cycles. Good luck for u and soon bfp:luck:

[Girlswaylondon]

Noemi I always check your chart too :D I’m good thank you!

I always ovulated CD 20/21 so we had very similar charts!

[sunstars]

Noemi, I think of you too, good luck!

[Noemi2017]

Thx u sunstars, good luck for u and bfp for us soon:pray::luck:

[Noemi2017]

Yes girlsway, i remember we ovulated in the same time. That month u conceived u ovulated very late, cd23? It is incredible we started ttc together and u will have soon your baby girl:DD:i hope i will conceive too.

[emshe]

Oh emshe, that last line made me chuckle about your son. How sweet! My husband has been surprisingly supportive with this whole thing. But I'm also very vocal with him about this whole process so he only knows because I talk about it with him since (besides you ladies) I have no one to talk to about it

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Love that, its hard when we only have them to talk to isnt it. Mine tries, but he really doesnt get it! He he

[emshe]

I laughed at the last line about your son. What a funny and cute moment
I wonder what he thinks you do with the sticks.

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He is funny and very curious and knowledgable, I have told him its to check that Im going well on my diet. Although they are aware of my losses, I didn't want to get their hopes up again with continuing ttc. My sons are 7 & 10.

[emshe]

Hey ladies,

Happy belated HDP!!! Hope it was great

So sorry hgmama...praying hard for next cycle for you!!! You have such an awesome outlook! Absolutely inspiring :)

Thanks pbn3!!! I am excited especially because I was actually thinking that O would be screwed up as my temps are still way higher than usual pre O...I was soooooo over the moon to see the positive opk. We're not doing any "sway" bd pattern this cycle because DH has said this is our last cycle trying :( so just hoping and praying for a bfp no matter the gender....but I'm still taking all the pink vibes for sure ! ;)

On another note - good luck with the septic! Hope it all works out soon.

Noemi how r u? Are you gearing up to O as well?

Praying for bfp for all the ladies about to test!!!!!!! Looking forward to seeing some nice 2 lines :fx:

Oh jgojah I really hope you get that bfp, I can imagine just how much you want it. So much luck to you

[emshe]

Hello jgojah, thx for asking im cd 16. I had ultrasound cd15 and i had just small follicle 10mm. My doctor told me i wont ovulate this month:( but im ovulating late like cd20-21. So i pray:pray: i ovulate this month. I wish u pink dust also without swaying u have still chance u conceive your baby girl:XX: are u now after ovulation?

Noemi, I am wishing for ovulation to come soon for you! And the bfp to follow. Hope you're feeling ok lovely

[emshe]

Haha, your kid is a sharp one!

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He is, & a bit of a snoop to boot!

[emshe]

Thinking of you Noemi! I'm on CD 29 of a usual 32 day cycle and I didn't ovulate yet! And this is my first cycle at TTC. I was so excited, but the month of testing and anticipating has sucked! Wish you good luck! https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180619/a4265ad4f615ee66c63734a553ccaed0.jpg

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Oh HDP it does suck, but maybe it'll be a big surprise bfp mixed in there just to really keep you on your toes :)

[Heart desires pink LP]

Oh HDP it does suck, but maybe it'll be a big surprise bfp mixed in there just to really keep you on your toes :)Ooh good thoughts Emshe! I never even thought about it that way. I've just been praying for AF at this point! It's the worst to be in 'limbo'! I've been feeling 'pms' type of symptoms today, and I'm waiting to see if it's a) AF b) +OPK c) BFP.... I have all the choices in the female fertility world haha! But I just hope one of these things occur, so I can get out of the uncertainty and move towards a plan that has a decent chance of materializing! What's happening with you? How many DPO you at?

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[emshe]

Advice please!

Ive just seen first sight of blood this morning, so today or tomorrow will be CD1 of my agreed with hubby last cycle ttc. I am wondering what I can do to up my chances. Background reminder for you all I’m 38 lost my pregnancy with my HT girl in November. And natural pregnancy before that I also miscarried in 2015. Took clomid March (one attempt at +OPK), April (E4D), May without clomid (but also pretty much a month off ttc), and June with clomid all without success.
My last 2 cycles have become longer but I am still getting +OPK and ewcm. I ovulated CD22 both May and June.
I asked for clomid. Dr told me to take it CD1 but I have gone with CD3

I have to remember that I am trying for a girl. Was thinking I will definitely do E4D plus one at positive OPK but the OPK's really stressed me this month as did temping because I have gotten into a really poor sleep pattern I think due to wanting to temp accurately...
Should I ditch clomid? Take it earlier? I know that carries risk of multiples but is that a good thing giving me more chance?

My weight is stable, and has been for a couple of months. I am doing fertility diet focusing on lentils/black beans/some chicken with salmon, egg whites (belly cant tolerate the yolks anymore) 4 x weekly, heaps of veges mostly free type, exercising (although I have just had 4 days off due to awful weather and just feeling fatigued-thought I may have had a shot at bfp this time), dropped coffee to 1-2 a day and then 1-2 decaf. Alcohol I was having 1 per day.

I also take metformin 3 x daily. This was started at HRC and I continued as they link it to improved egg quality. Thoughts?
I know this is long Im sorry, just wondering how I can go out on a high as my last hurrah!?


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[emshe]

Ooh good thoughts Emshe! I never even thought about it that way. I've just been praying for AF at this point! It's the worst to be in 'limbo'! I've been feeling 'pms' type of symptoms today, and I'm waiting to see if it's a) AF b) +OPK c) BFP.... I have all the choices in the female fertility world haha! But I just hope one of these things occur, so I can get out of the uncertainty and move towards a plan that has a decent chance of materializing! What's happening with you? How many DPO you at?

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I’m thinking AF is about to really kick off today or tomorrow [emoji24]


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[Girlswaylondon]

Yes girlsway, i remember we ovulated in the same time. That month u conceived u ovulated very late, cd23? It is incredible we started ttc together and u will have soon your baby girl:DD:i hope i will conceive too.

Month I conceived was crazy cycle! Ovulated cd 26! Was upset because I thought diet had stopped ovulation, things definitely happen when you least expect :)

I see you have watery Cm today woohoo! O is on her way! Will they check your follicle again?

[Noemi2017]

Girlsway reading your post gives me hope...cd 17 now. No more ultasound this month, she was so sure this is annovulatory cycle and i should come next month. They made me hormonal profile from blood and all was ok.

[Noemi2017]

Hello emshe, im sorry af is arriving:( im also 38 and i see we are on the same boat. I would like to take something which will improve my egg quality, i read girls use coq10 ubiquionol. Did u try it?

[Girlswaylondon]

If confuses how doctors aren’t aware you can ovulate later in cycles?!

[atomic sagebrush]

If confuses how doctors aren’t aware you can ovulate later in cycles?!

I don't know but I PROMISE you guys, I have had probably 500+ swayers be told by doctors "this is an anovulatory cycle" or that they hadn't been ovulating for months (if you have 28 day cycles regularly the odds are VERY high that you are ovulating, even if a doctor did not detect it one particular month!) only for them to absolutely ovulate, and in many cases, even conceive in the very cycle they had been told was anovulatory. My very first swayer who paid me for coaching was told she hadn't ovulated, was not even close to ovulating, and was very likely in menopause and she was looking at a BFP literally 7 days later.

These docs look at a single test result for 20 seconds and they apply no common sense to it, they know next to nothing about your cycles compared to what you guys know. Most people WILL still ovulate, just later than normal. Anovulatory cycles are not that common on this site, very few people will have them, most people ovulate late.

Noemi I absolutely want you to keep trying!

You can add in Coq if you want to but to be honest it's no magic bullet and I actually do doubt it does much of anything. I wish we had the magic bullets but they don't really exist. :)

Eating enough cals and fat in addition to the dairy, eggs, and salmon??

[HGmama]

So i upgraded my fertility friend. It has an odds analyzer. Funny thing... i had low odd in January and thats when i got pregnant.
But my real question is that it is listing as my last cycle an anovulatory. Im pretty sure i Oed. Pbn3- i know you had doubts. Do you really think i might have not Oed?

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)

[atomic sagebrush]

HG - I'm not pbn but I think you ovulated in the May cycle. You had one low temp CD 18 that confused the algorithm but you had pos OPK and then temp dip from secondary estrogen surge all at the right time and I believe that to be ovulatory.

[HGmama]

HG - I'm not pbn but I think you ovulated in the May cycle. You had one low temp CD 18 that confused the algorithm but you had pos OPK and then temp dip from secondary estrogen surge all at the right time and I believe that to be ovulatory.Thanks! I had a strong surge, pain for two days, an overall average temp shift, and an average LP for me. I was surprised that FF labeled it anovulatory.

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)

[Noemi2017]

Thx u Atomic, i keep trying. I pray i ovulate just late. Eat enough eggs, dairy and salmon:)

[jgojah]

Hello jgojah, thx for asking im cd 16. I had ultrasound cd15 and i had just small follicle 10mm. My doctor told me i wont ovulate this month:( but im ovulating late like cd20-21. So i pray:pray: i ovulate this month. I wish u pink dust also without swaying u have still chance u conceive your baby girl:XX: are u now after ovulation?

Hey noemi, yes I think ovulation might be today for me.

I pray she's wrong and that you will ovulate. How can she tell so far off from your normal ovulation time anyway.

[Eighme]

9 DPO and got a BFN. But it's still early, I'm predicted to start my period Saturday. Ive given up caring about syptoms because they are all the same during this period. So, we will see.

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[jgojah]

Advice please!

Ive just seen first sight of blood this morning, so today or tomorrow will be CD1 of my agreed with hubby last cycle ttc. I am wondering what I can do to up my chances. Background reminder for you all I’m 38 lost my pregnancy with my HT girl in November. And natural pregnancy before that I also miscarried in 2015. Took clomid March (one attempt at +OPK), April (E4D), May without clomid (but also pretty much a month off ttc), and June with clomid all without success.
My last 2 cycles have become longer but I am still getting +OPK and ewcm. I ovulated CD22 both May and June.
I asked for clomid. Dr told me to take it CD1 but I have gone with CD3

I have to remember that I am trying for a girl. Was thinking I will definitely do E4D plus one at positive OPK but the OPK's really stressed me this month as did temping because I have gotten into a really poor sleep pattern I think due to wanting to temp accurately...
Should I ditch clomid? Take it earlier? I know that carries risk of multiples but is that a good thing giving me more chance?

My weight is stable, and has been for a couple of months. I am doing fertility diet focusing on lentils/black beans/some chicken with salmon, egg whites (belly cant tolerate the yolks anymore) 4 x weekly, heaps of veges mostly free type, exercising (although I have just had 4 days off due to awful weather and just feeling fatigued-thought I may have had a shot at bfp this time), dropped coffee to 1-2 a day and then 1-2 decaf. Alcohol I was having 1 per day.

I also take metformin 3 x daily. This was started at HRC and I continued as they link it to improved egg quality. Thoughts?
I know this is long Im sorry, just wondering how I can go out on a high as my last hurrah!?


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Hey emshe, I'm far from being an expert but wanted to share my experience. With my first son I did many cycles of Clomid and FINALLY one doctor realized I was resistant to Clomid. I got positive opks every month but some months I didn't get a period and had to take provera. The doc eventually gave me femara and I got pregnant that cycle. Two years later we used femara again and got pregnant first try with my second. Maybe you can speak with your doctor about switching to femara ?

[jgojah]

Thanks! I had a strong surge, pain for two days, an overall average temp shift, and an average LP for me. I was surprised that FF labeled it anovulatory.

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)

Looks like you ovulated to me as well.

I actually dislike the VIP fertility friend. Last 2 cycles it gave me like 80pts for pregnancy :rolleyes:

[jgojah]

9 DPO and got a BFN. But it's still early, I'm predicted to start my period Saturday. Ive given up caring about syptoms because they are all the same during this period. So, we will see.

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I agree with the symptoms being the same eighme. I so wish the 2ww didn't feel so long !

Definitely early...hope you get your bfp soon

[Teb]

BFN for me : (

Now hubby wants to wait until September to try again because we are traveling internationally. I'm trying to stay positive and think of it as an opportunity to do an even better sway next time.

[Eighme]

Ah, I'm sorry TEb. Has AF shown up yet?
BFN for me : (

Now hubby wants to wait until September to try again because we are traveling internationally. I'm trying to stay positive and think of it as an opportunity to do an even better sway next time.

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[Eighme]

I agree with the symptoms being the same eighme. I so wish the 2ww didn't feel so long !

Definitely early...hope you get your bfp soonMe too. It's maddening and up until this last cycle I was paying close attention. Now they are all just the same so I'm trying to remain blissfully unaware which is easier said than done

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[Teb]

No, not yet (I was expecting AF two days ago) so I suppose there is hope, but I have done a lot of pregnancy tests and they are all negative.

[Eighme]

No, not yet (I was expecting AF two days ago) so I suppose there is hope, but I have done a lot of pregnancy tests and they are all negative.How many DPO are you? Did you ovate already?

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[Teb]

I got my first positive OPK on the morning of June 4th, so I would guess I am 16 DPO. I only did one attempt the evening of June 4th and hubby could barely get there (lots of previous releases and he was tired) so I'm thinking his sperm count was pretty low. I also used repHresh that morning and Sylk (which hubby also complained was so smooth there wasnt enough friction). I want to have hope but at 16 DPO and still negative pregnancy tests? Probably not. Do you have any thoughts?

[Heart desires pink LP]

Kind of feeling sorry for myself. It's CD 30 and no ovulation yet. Still getting clear - ve in opks, and Temps are not helping! I usually have a 32 day cycle, and the longest cycle I've had in my adult life is maybe 45, which was just once!
I wish this horrible gray zone will end. I just want my period, and to reset:-( attached is my chart!
I haven't even been too strict on the diet, so don't know why this is occurring. I'm not even interested in E4D anymore! CM is sticky /cloudy today. I had lots of EWCM yesterday (CD 29) and on CD 23. This is not really helping anymore.
I've been feeling unusually achy, tired and sleepy past two days!
I've been testing with opks twice a day, every single day, since CD 10. So I didn't miss it, right? The latest I've ovulated is CD 21 and earliest is CD 17. My cycles and ovulation is usually pretty on track! https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180620/d8809513fcd3ec826a655125e91f636c.jpg

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[emshe]

Hello emshe, im sorry af is arriving:( im also 38 and i see we are on the same boat. I would like to take something which will improve my egg quality, i read girls use coq10 ubiquionol. Did u try it?

Thanks Noemi, I’m sorry we are having similar difficulties, it’s not fun. I used ubiquinol through my 2 rounds of HT. 1 cycle was a bust & the other quite ok so it’s hard to say if it helped, but surely can’t hurt!

Hope you ovulate real soon, watery cm looked promising [emoji3]


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[ABC.2606]

Noemi I took COQ10/ubiquinol (200 mg/day) for about 5 weeks prior to this last BFP. I have no idea if it helped (I also took it 5 weeks before my last BFP that ended in m/c), but I didn't have any side effects and I definitely say it wouldn't hurt to try it!

Emshe - I don't know about taking it earlier than CD3 in terms of increasing the chance of twins but my RE says they like to see women on Clomid ovulating more than 1 egg because it just increases the odds of conception. They told me this when I had two dominant follicles this last cycle... well, we know what happened there... Worked a bit TOO well. I took mine CD3-7 and my RE believes 3-7 gives the best odds for conception. I'm wondering - on your chart it looks like you're exercising pretty much every day... Maybe cutting back a bit on that this cycle would help? I've read stuff that TOO much exercise can hurt conception chances. If you dropped to maybe 4-5 days a week I don't think that would hurt your sway and may just give your body a bit more rest to help in conception. I don't know - just a thought. Sounds like you are doing everything you can diet-wise to help! Oh and with the temping and OPKs... I would say if you are doing E4D and OPKs, drop the temping if it stresses you out. I understand it's hard doing that (I told myself the last cycle I was NOT going to temp and then did anyways - although they were super inconsistent due to sleep). But, it may help reduce your stress and you know that with E4D plus 1 attempt at OPK you're going to be well covered in terms of attempts!

HDP - I don't know why your cycle is doing this but I'm sorry- that's so frustrating!! Hope you get some answers soon!

[emshe]

Noemi I took COQ10/ubiquinol (200 mg/day) for about 5 weeks prior to this last BFP. I have no idea if it helped (I also took it 5 weeks before my last BFP that ended in m/c), but I didn't have any side effects and I definitely say it wouldn't hurt to try it!

Emshe - I don't know about taking it earlier than CD3 in terms of increasing the chance of twins but my RE says they like to see women on Clomid ovulating more than 1 egg because it just increases the odds of conception. They told me this when I had two dominant follicles this last cycle... well, we know what happened there... Worked a bit TOO well. I took mine CD3-7 and my RE believes 3-7 gives the best odds for conception. I'm wondering - on your chart it looks like you're exercising pretty much every day... Maybe cutting back a bit on that this cycle would help? I've read stuff that TOO much exercise can hurt conception chances. If you dropped to maybe 4-5 days a week I don't think that would hurt your sway and may just give your body a bit more rest to help in conception. I don't know - just a thought. Sounds like you are doing everything you can diet-wise to help! Oh and with the temping and OPKs... I would say if you are doing E4D and OPKs, drop the temping if it stresses you out. I understand it's hard doing that (I told myself the last cycle I was NOT going to temp and then did anyways - although they were super inconsistent due to sleep). But, it may help reduce your stress and you know that with E4D plus 1 attempt at OPK you're going to be well covered in terms of attempts!

HDP - I don't know why your cycle is doing this but I'm sorry- that's so frustrating!! Hope you get some answers soon!

Thanks lovely! I hope you’re doing well, I think of you & those babies all the time.

Yeah I’ve decided to stick with cd3, so Saturday. At this stage of the game I think I’ll go with what I know, I so hope my body responds better to it this 4th time like yours did ABC. I keep looking ahead of next month & wondering how I’m going to move on.

Yeah I agree I maybe slow down with exercise, it’s what keeps my mind sane though that’s the problem!

Grabbed some ubiquinol again too. Dropped temping. I think clomid May play a part in the crappy sleep, as now af is here I sleep better.

Thanks again ABC


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[emshe]

Hey emshe, I'm far from being an expert but wanted to share my experience. With my first son I did many cycles of Clomid and FINALLY one doctor realized I was resistant to Clomid. I got positive opks every month but some months I didn't get a period and had to take provera. The doc eventually gave me femara and I got pregnant that cycle. Two years later we used femara again and got pregnant first try with my second. Maybe you can speak with your doctor about switching to femara ?

Thanks Jgojah this is interesting. Sadly the quick turn around time with taking with AF I won’t be able to switch & being my last ttc cycle I’ll have to trust in what I have & hope for the best.


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[emshe]

Oh girls the tww is tough but hold in there, I’m sure the bfp will be worth the wait


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[Lmboschma]

Hey ladies! It’s been awhile since I’ve been on any boards, but I’m wondering if any of you can help me understand my chart! I’ve been using FF for a year now, and have never gotten completely different ovulation dates when I switch the settings. Ignoring the crosshairs on this picture, can you guess when I ovulated? I got a surprise faint positive tonight and am wondering if it’s a faulty test or if it truly is positive.39737

[emshe]

Hey ladies! It’s been awhile since I’ve been on any boards, but I’m wondering if any of you can help me understand my chart! I’ve been using FF for a year now, and have never gotten completely different ovulation dates when I switch the settings. Ignoring the crosshairs on this picture, can you guess when I ovulated? I got a surprise faint positive tonight and am wondering if it’s a faulty test or if it truly is positive.39737

Hi welcome back! I’m guessing around day 22/3 but I’m not very good at this [emoji6]


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[Girlswaylondon]

I don't know but I PROMISE you guys, I have had probably 500+ swayers be told by doctors "this is an anovulatory cycle" or that they hadn't been ovulating for months (if you have 28 day cycles regularly the odds are VERY high that you are ovulating, even if a doctor did not detect it one particular month!) only for them to absolutely ovulate, and in many cases, even conceive in the very cycle they had been told was anovulatory. My very first swayer who paid me for coaching was told she hadn't ovulated, was not even close to ovulating, and was very likely in menopause and she was looking at a BFP literally 7 days later.

These docs look at a single test result for 20 seconds and they apply no common sense to it, they know next to nothing about your cycles compared to what you guys know. Most people WILL still ovulate, just later than normal. Anovulatory cycles are not that common on this site, very few people will have them, most people ovulate late.

Noemi I absolutely want you to keep trying!

You can add in Coq if you want to but to be honest it's no magic bullet and I actually do doubt it does much of anything. I wish we had the magic bullets but they don't really exist. :)

Eating enough cals and fat in addition to the dairy, eggs, and salmon??

So glad you posted this atomic because it frustrates me so much! My bfp cycle especially is proof that late ovulation is normal for some!

[Pbn3]

Wowsers so much to catch up on [emoji50][emoji50] too much tonight so can I ask instead if anyone has anything they'd like me to look at can you please post again. So glad to be back home!!! Fill me in ladies! What have I missed?!!

[emshe]

[QUOTE=Heart desires pink LP;986675]Kind of feeling sorry for myself. It's CD 30 and no ovulation yet. Still getting clear - ve in opks, and Temps are not helping! I usually have a 32 day cycle, and the longest cycle I've had in my adult life is maybe 45, which was just once!
I wish this horrible gray zone will end. I just want my period, and to reset:-( attached is my chart!
I haven't even been too strict on the diet, so don't know why this is occurring. I'm not even interested in E4D anymore! CM is sticky /cloudy today. I had lots of EWCM yesterday (CD 29) and on CD 23. This is not really helping anymore.
I've been feeling unusually achy, tired and sleepy past two days!
I've been testing with opks twice a day, every single day, since CD 10. So I didn't miss it, right? The latest I've ovulated is CD 21 and earliest is CD 17. My cycles and ovulation is usually pretty on track! https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180620/d8809513fcd3ec826a655125e91f636c.jpg

I felt like this before AF HDP, I also had some EW cm the days prior. Maybe you'll get AF and your system will reboot for a new & smooth cycle. Either that or your egg is supercharging and ready to pop its magic.
Take it easy HDP

[Pbn3]

I'm so sorry HDP [emoji17] it's awful when things derail just when you're expecting a smooth journey. Going by temps I'd say you still haven't oed but see what happens tomorrow. *IF* the aches and cm turning non fertile mean o has happened then hopefully next few temps will shed some light. You'll have a 1-o attempt if o did happen though which would be fantastic!! Hang in there [emoji173] wish I could give you a big hug, and a big glass of wine to go with it!!

[Noemi2017]

Hdp i had such a long cycle one year ago and it was annovulatory. I was like cd50 and af didnt want to arrive so i had to go to doctor for injection and after af arrived and i could start new cycle. As atomic recommended dairy, eggs and salmon helped in other cycles and ovulation was cd17-20.

[Noemi2017]

Emshe how much do u exercise? Im running one hour daily and it is really my pleasure, im running all my life so im used about it. But as Abc said i also read that was not good for conception.

[Noemi2017]

Abc thx, i bought ubiquinol, i will try it. Atomic also said it wont hurt to try it. So i will start with 100mg daily. Just dont know if start to use it now or new cycle. Still not sure if ovulaton will be this month, no signs yet...watery cm was just for a while after it changed to dry.

[Girlswaylondon]

Noemi I didn’t do any cardio (just one one hour dance class a week) so I’m really positive if you wanted to cut back on the running it wouldn’t hurt :)

[Eighme]

10 DPO, tested early this morning and it was a BFN. So my optimisim for this month is waning. But we will see. I'm due to start on Sunday.

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[Noemi2017]

Eighme i hope u find bfp tomorrow, till af arrive there is still chance:luck:

[Eighme]

Okay ladies, I need your expert eyes. Do you see a line? Husband said he did, and I do. It's a squinter, and I wanted some outside eyes and you ladies are the only ones I can currently ask!

Im 10 DPO. I got a "not pregnant" on a digital cheapie test this morning and this is this afternoon.https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180621/bec00da58fc58f221b88943c315d7145.jpg

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[jgojah]

Okay ladies, I need your expert eyes. Do you see a line? Husband said he did, and I do. It's a squinter, and I wanted some outside eyes and you ladies are the only ones I can currently ask!

Im 10 DPO. I got a "not pregnant" on a digital cheapie test this morning and this is this afternoon.https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180621/bec00da58fc58f221b88943c315d7145.jpg

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Ahhhhhhhhhh!!! I SO see a line without even squinting!!!! :cheer:

[Eighme]

Ahhhhhhhhhh!!! I SO see a line without even squinting!!!! :cheer:Thanks, Jgojah! I'm remaining positively optimistic! But I am SO excited to be able to share this with you ladies!

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[HGmama]

Okay ladies, I need your expert eyes. Do you see a line? Husband said he did, and I do. It's a squinter, and I wanted some outside eyes and you ladies are the only ones I can currently ask!

Im 10 DPO. I got a "not pregnant" on a digital cheapie test this morning and this is this afternoon.https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180621/bec00da58fc58f221b88943c315d7145.jpg

Sent from my SM-G950U using TapatalkNo squinting here. I see it! What made you test again after a no this am?

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[Eighme]

No squinting here. I see it! What made you test again after a no this am?

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)My husband [emoji23]. I asked him to buy me some FRER to test with tomorrow morning and he was like, "Are you not testing now?" So I did expecting another BFN and that was the result.

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[Thunderstruck7]

Okay ladies, I need your expert eyes. Do you see a line? Husband said he did, and I do. It's a squinter, and I wanted some outside eyes and you ladies are the only ones I can currently ask!

Im 10 DPO. I got a "not pregnant" on a digital cheapie test this morning and this is this afternoon.https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180621/bec00da58fc58f221b88943c315d7145.jpg

Sent from my SM-G950U using TapatalkHuge congratulations! How exciting, hope you keep getting darker and darker BFPs!

I'm also 10dpo but am refraining from testing as AF isn't due until Tuesday for me

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[emshe]

Okay ladies, I need your expert eyes. Do you see a line? Husband said he did, and I do. It's a squinter, and I wanted some outside eyes and you ladies are the only ones I can currently ask!

Im 10 DPO. I got a "not pregnant" on a digital cheapie test this morning and this is this afternoon.https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180621/bec00da58fc58f221b88943c315d7145.jpg

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Straight away eighme, no squinting necessary! Wow!!!!


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[emshe]

Emshe how much do u exercise? Im running one hour daily and it is really my pleasure, im running all my life so im used about it. But as Abc said i also read that was not good for conception.

I do an hour most days, fast walking and the coastal town I live in is very hilly. I think I will start doing 2 days on, 1 day off.
I love it too! It’s my time but I will cut back a bit


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[Throwaway_panther]

Okay ladies, I need your expert eyes. Do you see a line? Husband said he did, and I do. It's a squinter, and I wanted some outside eyes and you ladies are the only ones I can currently ask!

Im 10 DPO. I got a "not pregnant" on a digital cheapie test this morning and this is this afternoon.https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180621/bec00da58fc58f221b88943c315d7145.jpg

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AHHH I SEE IT! Those digitals don't register until 50miu, so don't sweat the digital!!

[Eighme]

Thanks so much ladies! Sending all the BFPs to you lovely ladies as well! I can't believe it!

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[emshe]

Thanks so much ladies! Sending all the BFPs to you lovely ladies as well! I can't believe it!

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So so awesome eighme, love seeing you with your bfp!


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[Heart desires pink LP]

Wow I see it eightme! Woo-hoo. That is definitely one good news I'm reading today! Pink dust your way!

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[gafan]

Thanks so much ladies! Sending all the BFPs to you lovely ladies as well! I can't believe it!

Sent from my SM-G950U using TapatalkWow, that is wonderful Eighme!!

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[gafan]

11DPO for me and BFN today and yesterday with Wondfo. Temp hasn't dropped yet and in theory implantation could be as late as tomorrow, so we'll see.

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[Pbn3]

Woohoo eighme [emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322]!!!! Huge congratulations!!! That is a bfp for sure!!! So happy for you [emoji173]

[Pbn3]

Gafan that dip on 8dpo could be promising and you wouldn't see a faint line on an frer for 2-3 days later if it was implantation related plus it's also still looking good that you temp has stayed up after it so I will cross everything I have that you start seeing a line in your wondfos in the next few days [emoji120][emoji120][emoji120]

[Pbn3]

HDP how was todays temp?

[Pbn3]

Jgojah that temp rise looks promising [emoji102] cant wait to see the next couple days to confirm o [emoji16]

[gafan]

Gafan that dip on 8dpo could be promising and you wouldn't see a faint line on an frer for 2-3 days later if it was implantation related plus it's also still looking good that you temp has stayed up after it so I will cross everything I have that you start seeing a line in your wondfos in the next few days [emoji120][emoji120][emoji120]Thanks. Maybe I will use frer tomorrow if temp hasn't dropped.

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[wildlyluna]

Okay ladies, I need your expert eyes. Do you see a line? Husband said he did, and I do. It's a squinter, and I wanted some outside eyes and you ladies are the only ones I can currently ask!

Im 10 DPO. I got a "not pregnant" on a digital cheapie test this morning and this is this afternoon.https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180621/bec00da58fc58f221b88943c315d7145.jpg

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Yep I see a line [emoji2]


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[ABC.2606]

Congrats eighme!! I definitely see it!!

[Heart desires pink LP]

HDP how was todays temp?Thank you my sweet friend, for thinking of me. I'm just staying quiet and cheering for the others here! No luck my way, yet. Attached temps from today.

My CM is all over the place and I've had lots of ewcm at 3 different times this cycle. I'm getting sticky CM as well as EWCM on the same day (today. OPK 's are negative. You can see the two lines though the left one is much lighter. (Meh, but that's how it's been for 2 weeks now).
I will get an attempt in tomorrow to keep the E4D going. But overall not hopeful! Hope you are having a better time over there! https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180622/352fb729d35557411ecbc0ad8c642b90.jpg

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[Heart desires pink LP]

I'm so sorry HDP [emoji17] it's awful when things derail just when you're expecting a smooth journey. Going by temps I'd say you still haven't oed but see what happens tomorrow. *IF* the aches and cm turning non fertile mean o has happened then hopefully next few temps will shed some light. You'll have a 1-o attempt if o did happen though which would be fantastic!! Hang in there [emoji173] wish I could give you a big hug, and a big glass of wine to go with it!!Thank you and hugs back at ya! I'm doing justice to the 'wine' part of the sway as well as the 'whine', which I do here, I guess :)
I'm just hoping I get AF or +Opk tomorrow. I much prefer the latter!

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[Heart desires pink LP]

Just after I read and logged off from this forum, I instantly received this message from one of my old teachers.
In the interest of keeping it secular, just take any positivity/endurance out of the message and nothing more:) I know we all want our BFP s and that beautiful baby to hold and love. We will all get exactly that, when the time is right! https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180622/5c00a4bfd38e2e569511a8b7de0b07d6.jpg

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[emshe]

11DPO for me and BFN today and yesterday with Wondfo. Temp hasn't dropped yet and in theory implantation could be as late as tomorrow, so we'll see.

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Don’t lose hope gafan, I’m still here wishing & cheering for you


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[emshe]

Just after I read and logged off from this forum, I instantly received this message from one of my old teachers.
In the interest of keeping it secular, just take any positivity/endurance out of the message and nothing more:) I know we all want our BFP s and that beautiful baby to hold and love. We will all get exactly that, when the time is right! https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180622/5c00a4bfd38e2e569511a8b7de0b07d6.jpg

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Beautiful, I truly hope all our times are Right real soon


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[Eighme]

Alright, here's yesterday's vs this mornings. I am finally able to let it sink in that I am pregnant. I held my breath all yesterday hoping that line was the real thing and it was considerably darker this morning.

I'm still rooting and cheering for everyone else to get their BFPs soon! https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180622/111cfc4c3918e4265fdbbc65bd79b666.jpg

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[Verena]

Alright, here's yesterday's vs this mornings. I am finally able to let it sink in that I am pregnant. I held my breath all yesterday hoping that line was the real thing and it was considerably darker this morning.

I'm still rooting and cheering for everyone else to get their BFPs soon! https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180622/111cfc4c3918e4265fdbbc65bd79b666.jpg

Sent from my SM-G950U using TapatalkWohooo huge congrats Eighme! Beautiful lines! [emoji2]

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[Pbn3]

Beautiful lines eighme [emoji7]

[jgojah]

Alright, here's yesterday's vs this mornings. I am finally able to let it sink in that I am pregnant. I held my breath all yesterday hoping that line was the real thing and it was considerably darker this morning.

I'm still rooting and cheering for everyone else to get their BFPs soon! https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180622/111cfc4c3918e4265fdbbc65bd79b666.jpg

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Yayyyyyyy CONGRATS!!!!!!!! So happy for you

[jgojah]

I was so excited with my positive opks and my temp increase yest and then this morning my temp dropped :worry: :sad:
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[emshe]

Alright, here's yesterday's vs this mornings. I am finally able to let it sink in that I am pregnant. I held my breath all yesterday hoping that line was the real thing and it was considerably darker this morning.

I'm still rooting and cheering for everyone else to get their BFPs soon! https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180622/111cfc4c3918e4265fdbbc65bd79b666.jpg

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Aghhhhhmazing eighme YIPEE


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[gafan]

I am happy for you Eighme!!!
My temp dropped this morning so I will join some of you on the July board.

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[Pbn3]

I was so excited with my positive opks and my temp increase yest and then this morning my temp dropped :worry: :sad:
39749May just be a fallback rise? I randomly started getting fallback rises out of the blue and they continued every cycle for as long as I can remember.... Let's see how the next couple days temps look. Just in case though I'd bd again today (because cd15 was an AM attempt) and then cd20, cd23 etc until o is confirmed. Or if you're not worried about the extra attempts, which judging by what attempts you've already had you're not [emoji6] continue on with eod until o is confirmed. So today, cd19, cd21 etc

[Pbn3]

I'm so sorry Gafan [emoji22] I had such high hopes for you this cycle [emoji174] please please let next cycle bring your bfp [emoji120][emoji120][emoji120]

[Mom25boys]

Congrats on the BFP [emoji847]
I used to chart and it's been a while. I'm not trying this month but I want to do the right BD when it's time. I forgot how it works. This is my chart and what seemed to be an ovulation. I would have done one attempt at the first +, what do you think? I dont understand that drop that is 6 dpo. BBT was done the same time. The app is usually spot on, even with my irregular cycles, which would mean AF Thursday next week. https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180622/8524f13c4f512c44fe17485a5b67b35b.jpg

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[Girlswaylondon]

Huge congrats eighme!!!

[mummy2boys]

Wow I’ve missed loads!! Huge congrats Eighme! That’s a gorgeous line [emoji7]
Sorry gafan, wishing you lots of luck for July.
How is everyone else? Is anyone else due to test?
I was sad (again lol) after af came this time so decided I needed a little break from ttc so have just been focusing on me and our boys and haven’t been on the board for a week or so. Then I went to a meeting at work and met a girl due in September with a lovely bump and it made me realise I’m not ready to give up yet. So, here goes again. My cycle is weird this month. A really light, short af and now I’m pretty sure I’m ovulating today which is cd 10! Isn’t that too early?! Is it because I’m getting old lol?


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[Eighme]

So happy to see you back Mummy! Wishing you all the best!
Wow I’ve missed loads!! Huge congrats Eighme! That’s a gorgeous line [emoji7]
Sorry gafan, wishing you lots of luck for July.
How is everyone else? Is anyone else due to test?
I was sad (again lol) after af came this time so decided I needed a little break from ttc so have just been focusing on me and our boys and haven’t been on the board for a week or so. Then I went to a meeting at work and met a girl due in September with a lovely bump and it made me realise I’m not ready to give up yet. So, here goes again. My cycle is weird this month. A really light, short af and now I’m pretty sure I’m ovulating today which is cd 10! Isn’t that too early?! Is it because I’m getting old lol?


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[Eighme]

I am happy for you Eighme!!!
My temp dropped this morning so I will join some of you on the July board.

Sent from my SM-G930U using TapatalkI'm so sorry Gafan. I was hoping you'd get your BFP this month [emoji53]

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[Pbn3]

Congrats on the BFP [emoji847]
I used to chart and it's been a while. I'm not trying this month but I want to do the right BD when it's time. I forgot how it works. This is my chart and what seemed to be an ovulation. I would have done one attempt at the first +, what do you think? I dont understand that drop that is 6 dpo. BBT was done the same time. The app is usually spot on, even with my irregular cycles, which would mean AF Thursday next week. https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180622/8524f13c4f512c44fe17485a5b67b35b.jpg

Sent from my SM-G965U using TapatalkMom25boys do you have a pic of your pos opks? Are you sure cd20's was positive? I don't think you've oed until cd23 but without more charts to look at I dont knkw if you experience a slow rise at o that jumps or if you're ping 2-3 days after pos opk. The dip at 6dpo is common however not usually so sharp. A dip that big and to or lower than coverline is often a promising sign of implantation however many ladies will experience a dip in temp between 6-10dpo which is said to be a result from a secondary estrogen surge. Obviously if you haven't ttc this cycle it is likely from the secondary surge but it is steeper than I'd usually see.

If you are really wanting to stick to one attempt at pos opk for a cycle or two then stick to doing it at first pos opk. Just because you got two pos opks this cycle and a delayed temp spike, doesn't mean ir will happen every cycle. This is where switching to an e4d bd pattern will be beneficial if you have no luck the first couple cycles [emoji4]

[Pbn3]

Mummy2boys it's so good to hear from you!! Been watching your chart [emoji102] lol. It's possible you *may be ovulating this early but I would have to say unlikely.... I'd still plan to dtd at least every 72 hours for now... are you using opks or have you ditched them?

[sunstars]

Congratulations, Eighme! Wish you smooth and happy pregnancy!

[mummy2boys]

Mummy2boys it's so good to hear from you!! Been watching your chart [emoji102] lol. It's possible you *may be ovulating this early but I would have to say unlikely.... I'd still plan to dtd at least every 72 hours for now... are you using opks or have you ditched them?

Aw thanks for keeping an eye on me Pbn! I truly appreciate every bit of advice you have given me.
I think I’m definitely close to O, here’s my opk from just now
So should we bd again or not?! We have done for the last two nights, unintentionally last night haha https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180622/c6a598fa7d7108420d06216e07ad15ea.jpg


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[Heart desires pink LP]

F. I. N. A. L. L. Y!!! My turn is here! After 20 days of testing and disappointment, I got my blazing +ve OPK around noon today :-). It's CD 32 for me.

Can't wait for DH to come home and get our first count worthy attempt in. Incidentally, today would also be 4 days since the last BD.
Pbn, you should absolutely say 'I told you so' now :-)

Strangely, my CM is all dry now. I got EWCM many times in the cycle but they were all alongside - ve OPK. This time the opk is positive, but CM doesnt indicate fertile window! Fx for me, please! https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180622/6a4e6b0e5694534cf9d306d1543697ee.jpg

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[Eighme]

Ladies, the line on my FRER keeps darkening. I took a clearblue and it said "not pregnant" is this normal?

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[Eighme]

F. I. N. A. L. L. Y!!! My turn is here! After 20 days of testing and disappointment, I got my blazing +ve OPK around noon today :-). It's CD 32 for me.

Can't wait for DH to come home and get our first count worthy attempt in. Incidentally, today would also be 4 days since the last BD.
Pbn, you should absolutely say 'I told you so' now :-)

Strangely, my CM is all dry now. I got EWCM many times in the cycle but they were all alongside - ve OPK. This time the opk is positive, but CM doesnt indicate fertile window! Fx for me, please! https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180622/6a4e6b0e5694534cf9d306d1543697ee.jpg

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[jgojah]

May just be a fallback rise? I randomly started getting fallback rises out of the blue and they continued every cycle for as long as I can remember.... Let's see how the next couple days temps look. Just in case though I'd bd again today (because cd15 was an AM attempt) and then cd20, cd23 etc until o is confirmed. Or if you're not worried about the extra attempts, which judging by what attempts you've already had you're not [emoji6] continue on with eod until o is confirmed. So today, cd19, cd21 etc

Ohhhbbb never heard of this @ THANKS

will keep monitoring :)

[jgojah]

F. I. N. A. L. L. Y!!! My turn is here! After 20 days of testing and disappointment, I got my blazing +ve OPK around noon today :-). It's CD 32 for me.

Can't wait for DH to come home and get our first count worthy attempt in. Incidentally, today would also be 4 days since the last BD.
Pbn, you should absolutely say 'I told you so' now :-)

Strangely, my CM is all dry now. I got EWCM many times in the cycle but they were all alongside - ve OPK. This time the opk is positive, but CM doesnt indicate fertile window! Fx for me, please! https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180622/6a4e6b0e5694534cf9d306d1543697ee.jpg

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YAYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!! amaaaaazing
Lotssss of positivr vibes your way!

[Mom25boys]

Mom25boys do you have a pic of your pos opks? Are you sure cd20's was positive? I don't think you've oed until cd23 but without more charts to look at I dont knkw if you experience a slow rise at o that jumps or if you're ping 2-3 days after pos opk. The dip at 6dpo is common however not usually so sharp. A dip that big and to or lower than coverline is often a promising sign of implantation however many ladies will experience a dip in temp between 6-10dpo which is said to be a result from a secondary estrogen surge. Obviously if you haven't ttc this cycle it is likely from the secondary surge but it is steeper than I'd usually see.

If you are really wanting to stick to one attempt at pos opk for a cycle or two then stick to doing it at first pos opk. Just because you got two pos opks this cycle and a delayed temp spike, doesn't mean ir will happen every cycle. This is where switching to an e4d bd pattern will be beneficial if you have no luck the first couple cycles [emoji4]Thanks. So I didnt know too much about opk. I thought any line was considered positive, but I've been hearing that it doesn't work like hcg tests. In my pic of the tests, one is darker, but it looked like I dipped it for too long and it bled over. It even stained onto the paper I left it on. It was not positive till I got back later. Before and after these were negative. But I was nervous if the line never got dark because I missed it at night, cant I BD one attempt after the first faint line? I know every cycle is different, but generally my apps and FF gets my cycles right every time even though I'm not regular. Even without temps and opk. I dont even know how.

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[jgojah]

Ladies, the line on my FRER keeps darkening. I took a clearblue and it said "not pregnant" is this normal?

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It's very possible that your hcg level is not yet high enough for the digital. The frer is very sensitive and will detect a lower hcg level. I think got levels double every 72 hrs or so, so maybe try tomorrow morning ?

[Eighme]

It's very possible that your hcg level is not yet high enough for the digital. The frer is very sensitive and will detect a lower hcg level. I think got levels double every 72 hrs or so, so maybe try tomorrow morning ?Thanks! I panicked and was beginning to doubt if I actually am!

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[Noemi2017]

Eighme im happy for u:celebrate: i really believed you would find today second line. Now i pray it is getting darker and darker:heart:

[Noemi2017]

Gafan sorry temp dropped:( i wish next cycle is the right one for u:pray:

[Noemi2017]

Hdp great news:) finally it is here...:bighug:good luck with attempt:luck:

[Heart desires pink LP]

Hdp great news:) finally it is here...:bighug:good luck with attempt:luck:Thanks Noemi! How are you doing? Are you taking the opk tests?

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[Heart desires pink LP]

Ladies, the line on my FRER keeps darkening. I took a clearblue and it said "not pregnant" is this normal?

Sent from my SM-G950U using TapatalkI think you just have to give it a day or two tops. I'm positive that by the end of the weekend, you will have a clear positive. I know the anticipation must be crazy. But we all see the lines, and so it is there. Praying for a sticky pink bean for you! Be calm, and throw yourself into something over the weekend.

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[Heart desires pink LP]

Aw thanks for keeping an eye on me Pbn! I truly appreciate every bit of advice you have given me.
I think I’m definitely close to O, here’s my opk from just now
So should we bd again or not?! We have done for the last two nights, unintentionally last night haha https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180622/c6a598fa7d7108420d06216e07ad15ea.jpg


Sent from my iPhone using TapatalkHow long have you been trying? If you BD today your odds of conception are high. If you refrain, your odds of pink are higher, but conception may be a shade lower. atomic says to keep one attempt. But since you haven't really done that, I'd say go for it and increase your odds of falling pregnant. GL

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[Noemi2017]

Hdp i am testing twice daily, i am a big consumer of opk:D still not positive:(

[emshe]

Aw thanks for keeping an eye on me Pbn! I truly appreciate every bit of advice you have given me.
I think I’m definitely close to O, here’s my opk from just now
So should we bd again or not?! We have done for the last two nights, unintentionally last night haha https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180622/c6a598fa7d7108420d06216e07ad15ea.jpg


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Wow! That’s strikingly positive isn’t it!? All the luck to you in getting you’re own bump mummy


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[emshe]

F. I. N. A. L. L. Y!!! My turn is here! After 20 days of testing and disappointment, I got my blazing +ve OPK around noon today :-). It's CD 32 for me.

Can't wait for DH to come home and get our first count worthy attempt in. Incidentally, today would also be 4 days since the last BD.
Pbn, you should absolutely say 'I told you so' now :-)

Strangely, my CM is all dry now. I got EWCM many times in the cycle but they were all alongside - ve OPK. This time the opk is positive, but CM doesnt indicate fertile window! Fx for me, please! https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180622/6a4e6b0e5694534cf9d306d1543697ee.jpg

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Everything is crossed for you HDP! Go catch that egg, it’s got to be a good one because good things come to those who wait right!!!!!
Have fun


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[wildlyluna]

Omg wow! I have so much to catch up on.
I’m Sorry Gafan- [emoji20] fingers crossed for next month .
Congrats Eighme [emoji322] I definitely think it’s too early for a digital, maybe wait a couple more days [emoji2]
HDP - omg yay!!!! [emoji322][emoji33][emoji33]
Yay mummy welcome back x

How’s everyone else going?

I’m trying to be more laid back this month , no OPk, even though Im itching to go get some lol
And I’m debating which e4d to do - 72hr or 96hr.. hahaha the decisions [emoji23]


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[emshe]

Ladies, the line on my FRER keeps darkening. I took a clearblue and it said "not pregnant" is this normal?

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Trust your frer, I’ve read the clear blues sensitivity it a lot less so takes a lot longer to register.
This is it eighme [emoji4]


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[emshe]

I am happy for you Eighme!!!
My temp dropped this morning so I will join some of you on the July board.

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I’m sorry gafan, I’ll See you there!


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[Pbn3]

Wowsers that is a pos opk alright!!! I would dtd again as it will almost be like smep then.. I think you're past the point about worrying on number of attempts right? Sending so many sticky pink vibes your way mummy2boys@!!! May this change of an early o bring a super big fat positive hpt [emoji120][emoji120][emoji120]


Aw thanks for keeping an eye on me Pbn! I truly appreciate every bit of advice you have given me.
I think I’m definitely close to O, here’s my opk from just now
So should we bd again or not?! We have done for the last two nights, unintentionally last night haha https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180622/c6a598fa7d7108420d06216e07ad15ea.jpg


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[Pbn3]

Eeeeeeeeeekkk!!!!!! [emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322] this is almost as exciting as a bfp HDP [emoji12] go get your baby dancing shoes on! Woohoo!! So happy to see this!


F. I. N. A. L. L. Y!!! My turn is here! After 20 days of testing and disappointment, I got my blazing +ve OPK around noon today :-). It's CD 32 for me.

Can't wait for DH to come home and get our first count worthy attempt in. Incidentally, today would also be 4 days since the last BD.
Pbn, you should absolutely say 'I told you so' now :-)

Strangely, my CM is all dry now. I got EWCM many times in the cycle but they were all alongside - ve OPK. This time the opk is positive, but CM doesnt indicate fertile window! Fx for me, please! https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180622/6a4e6b0e5694534cf9d306d1543697ee.jpg

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[Pbn3]

Ladies, the line on my FRER keeps darkening. I took a clearblue and it said "not pregnant" is this normal?

Sent from my SM-G950U using TapatalkEighme frers have a sensitivity of approx 6.5mIU whereas CB digis are about 50mIU from memory. So if your level was say 10 for the first test it will have doubled in 48 hours (today right?) but still been well below 50. Likely between 20-40. So I'd wait for another 48 hours from today and test then and you'll see your pos digi [emoji173]

[Pbn3]

Thanks. So I didnt know too much about opk. I thought any line was considered positive, but I've been hearing that it doesn't work like hcg tests. In my pic of the tests, one is darker, but it looked like I dipped it for too long and it bled over. It even stained onto the paper I left it on. It was not positive till I got back later. Before and after these were negative. But I was nervous if the line never got dark because I missed it at night, cant I BD one attempt after the first faint line? I know every cycle is different, but generally my apps and FF gets my cycles right every time even though I'm not regular. Even without temps and opk. I dont even know how.

Sorry pic isnt so clear https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180622/2d87f4469aea348d21f706506690605b.jpg

Sent from my SM-G965U using TapatalkI remember now. And yes that test that was left sitting in the sample needs to be ditched as its totally unreliable. Do you have an opk from June 13th? If you did o on the 14th then it likely would have been pos? There's no point in bding on a negative opk (light line) as you will get this for most of your cycle. You're trying to catch your peak surge to time your attempt close to the egg dropping (within 72 hours). Can I suggest testing between 1-3pm after a 2 hour hold and limited fluids (so try to just sip rather than gulp for the few hours before testing) and if the line starts darkening test once again in the evening between 6-8pm? Alternatively you may like to try the cb dual hormone digital opks that use fmu so no need to worry about holds/restricting fluids etc. You'll get an open circle first meaning not fertile, then a flashing smiley (which may continue for several days) meaning there is a change in your lh and estrogen levels, then you'll get a solid (non flashing) smiley that will indicate your peak surge and is equivalent to a pos opk. You dtd the day of solid smiley for one attempt at pos opk.

[Pbn3]

Hopefully not long now Noemi!! Gotta be close!
Hdp i am testing twice daily, i am a big consumer of opk:D still not positive:(

[Pbn3]

Omg wow! I have so much to catch up on.
I’m Sorry Gafan- [emoji20] fingers crossed for next month .
Congrats Eighme [emoji322] I definitely think it’s too early for a digital, maybe wait a couple more days [emoji2]
HDP - omg yay!!!! [emoji322][emoji33][emoji33]
Yay mummy welcome back x

How’s everyone else going?

I’m trying to be more laid back this month , no OPk, even though Im itching to go get some lol
And I’m debating which e4d to do - 72hr or 96hr.. hahaha the decisions [emoji23]


https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/2fdf7eWhy not try a 96 version for this cycle and then move onto 72 hour version next cycle? I'd start today though as there's no bding yet on your chart? Did you really have just a one day af of light bleeding??!! [emoji50] for some reason I'm sure we've discussed this before (sorry [emoji17]) and it's not uncommon?? [emoji85] wish I had a photographic memory!!

[Heart desires pink LP]

Eeeeeeeeeekkk!!!!!! [emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322][emoji322] this is almost as exciting as a bfp HDP [emoji12] go get your baby dancing shoes on! Woohoo!! So happy to see this!I know right! I'm probably more excited about this, than many people might be about BFP. I called my DH at work squealing something along the lines of positive opk, come home early etc. He thought we were pregnant and was like Wowww. Then I explained +Opk to him and he went 'phhhh ah ok ok. I'll get home when my meetings are done' :-D. He did come home early though, and we got our attempt in. I was so happy that I could share the updates with you girls here, vs explaining the female reproductive cycle to a boy, to get a reaction :/

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[Heart desires pink LP]

Hdp i am testing twice daily, i am a big consumer of opk:D still not positive:(Honey, you will get your +ve Opk very soon. Draw faith from my experience this cycle. I got my pos at CD 32, when I usually get AF on this day. My usual O is around CD 18.

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[wildlyluna]

Why not try a 96 version for this cycle and then move onto 72 hour version next cycle? I'd start today though as there's no bding yet on your chart? Did you really have just a one day af of light bleeding??!! [emoji50] for some reason I'm sure we've discussed this before (sorry [emoji17]) and it's not uncommon?? [emoji85] wish I had a photographic memory!!


Haha omg no! I wish! It’s defiantly getting better ie lighter, but no [emoji20] it’s heavy for 1.5days now . I just had to go back and add it in, I kind of forget and take a break from charting lol

That’s uncanny, I actually had that plan, I did 72 last cycle, so I’ll shake it up this month but I will start today as you suggest [emoji6]



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[emshe]

Omg wow! I have so much to catch up on.
I’m Sorry Gafan- [emoji20] fingers crossed for next month .
Congrats Eighme [emoji322] I definitely think it’s too early for a digital, maybe wait a couple more days [emoji2]
HDP - omg yay!!!! [emoji322][emoji33][emoji33]
Yay mummy welcome back x

How’s everyone else going?

I’m trying to be more laid back this month , no OPk, even though Im itching to go get some lol
And I’m debating which e4d to do - 72hr or 96hr.. hahaha the decisions [emoji23]


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I’m going laid back too hopeful! Let’s do this!!! I’ll be on 72hour plus one, CD3 today...


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[wildlyluna]

I’m going laid back too hopeful! Let’s do this!!! I’ll be on 72hour plus one, CD3 today...


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Yeees! Let’s do this!! 🤞🤞 can I ask how you do the plus One? Is it with opk?


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[HGmama]

Yeees! Let’s do this!! 🤞🤞 can I ask how you do the plus One? Is it with opk?


https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/2fdf7eYes its at first positive opk. Increases chances of conception, but lowers girl sway odds. At this point, even i want to increase my chances.

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)

[HGmama]

So what's the politically correct way of saying how long your TTC journey has been when you've experienced a mc? Do you go by cycles from day 1 of trying? Do you subtract the months I was pregnant since it was later than 4,5,6 week mc?

In my mind, I've been actively trying since December '17. Technically 11 weeks of that I was "pregnant", ya know since 1-4 weeks is up to BFP. Then I had a month-8 weeks post d&c of letting hcg leave body. Dang, my story gets confusing. Advice?

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[emshe]

Yeees! Let’s do this!! 🤞🤞 can I ask how you do the plus One? Is it with opk?


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Yeah, it’s meant to be extra BD with first positive opk and stick also to exact pattern of e4d. I’m going to use cm signs and/or possibly opk at peak to work out extra attempt.

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[emshe]

Yes its at first positive opk. Increases chances of conception, but lowers girl sway odds. At this point, even i want to increase my chances.

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)

We shall all do this together, girl power!


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[emshe]

So what's the politically correct way of saying how long your TTC journey has been when you've experienced a mc? Do you go by cycles from day 1 of trying? Do you subtract the months I was pregnant since it was later than 4,5,6 week mc?

In my mind, I've been actively trying since December '17. Technically 11 weeks of that I was "pregnant", ya know since 1-4 weeks is up to BFP. Then I had a month-8 weeks post d&c of letting hcg leave body. Dang, my story gets confusing. Advice?

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I’m not sure, I’d say from when you started trying. It gets very blurry doesn’t it, not only from the tears we shed. [emoji847]


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[HGmama]

We shall all do this together, girl power!


https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/35220bMy ovia app says that "babymacations" are becoming popular. I wonder how many boys will come from those vacations. Haha.

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[HGmama]

Emshe- have you ever had your progesterone checked? Do you normally have a short LP?

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[emshe]

Everything from my HT journey seemed good, but I haven’t done any tests this year. Yeah shorter Lp is pretty standard for me. At this stage I really can’t get tests and stuff before my last attempt, so I just have to have faith that my body can and will do what it needs to, but I do actually have heaps of crinone (progesterone) on hand from last HT transfer so I’m wondering if I should use it!?

Thoughts?

it’s pricey stuff just sitting there


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[Pbn3]

Emshe I wouldn't take it unless it's proven you need it??

[mummy2boys]

Yey great stuff HDP! So glad o has come for you!
Emshe, I’ve no idea about the progesterone I’m afraid, maybe if it’s your last try it’s worth doing everything you can.
Noemi, it will happen soon I’m sure! It must be very frustrating waiting for it to happen. When do you usually o?
Hopeful, I tried to go without opk too and be laid back but couldn’t manage it and ended up ordering some off amazon lol, I’m too much of a control freak. Starting with every 96 then going to 72 sounds like a good plan to me.
Well I’m not sure if I’ve oed or not as this mornings temp is misleading because I drank way too much on a mums night out last night [emoji33] I never want to see a bottle of prosecco again [emoji23]


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[emshe]

Yey great stuff HDP! So glad o has come for you!
Emshe, I’ve no idea about the progesterone I’m afraid, maybe if it’s your last try it’s worth doing everything you can.
Noemi, it will happen soon I’m sure! It must be very frustrating waiting for it to happen. When do you usually o?
Hopeful, I tried to go without opk too and be laid back but couldn’t manage it and ended up ordering some off amazon lol, I’m too much of a control freak. Starting with every 96 then going to 72 sounds like a good plan to me.
Well I’m not sure if I’ve oed or not as this mornings temp is misleading because I drank way too much on a mums night out last night [emoji33] I never want to see a bottle of prosecco again [emoji23]


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Sounds like a good night!!!! Love it, mums really can party


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[emshe]

Emshe I wouldn't take it unless it's proven you need it??

It’s the vaginal gel, still wouldn’t?


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[Pbn3]

Mummy2boys I would definately call that a wine time temp [emoji23] and totally disregard it. The beauty of it is, if tomorrows temp is elevated into usual post o temp range then you know you're in with an awesome chance!!!!! Especially because the first two bd's were 'just because' and you completely chilled out last night! Love it! And cant wait to watch this cycle play out!!! It may eventually be worth adjusting the 'wino' temp when it comes time to crosshairs [emoji6] god knows I've had to disregard a few temps in my time [emoji12]

[Noemi2017]

Girls i found today positive opk:) i cant download file. I had attempt on Thursday evening, should i add one this evening? I am afraid tomorrow could be late...

[Pbn3]

It’s the vaginal gel, still wouldn’t?


https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/35220bIn all honesty emshe I'm a bit of a square bear when it comes to medications so I'll always err on the side of caution [emoji53] (I'll take a panadol like twice a year - one of those annoying people [emoji23]) I have the belief that unless proven otherwise you shouldn't take something for reasons other than needing it (eg. Clomid, aspirin, but I do not in any way hold anything against those that do take it unprescribed) Progesterone is something that can be tested so is that why you have it? Have you needed it in the past? If so then by all means go ahead. Otherwise no, I wouldn't use it....

[Pbn3]

Girls i found today positive opk:) i cant download file. I had attempt on Thursday evening, should i add one this evening? I am afraid tomorrow could be late...Noemi I would DEFINATELY add an attempt! I say this sooo strongly because many times in the past you've oed same day as pos opk plus if you dont, I don't hold high hopes for you conceiving from a 3-o attempt...... entirely up to you as always as it would end up being 2 attempts, but atomic has stated several times this still sways pinkish for those that have taken awhile to conceive and you do fall into that category [emoji173]

[emshe]

Girls i found today positive opk:) i cant download file. I had attempt on Thursday evening, should i add one this evening? I am afraid tomorrow could be late...

Party time!!!!! Good luck Noemi whatever you decide will be perfect. Pink sticky bfp wishes that you


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[wildlyluna]

Girls i found today positive opk:) i cant download file. I had attempt on Thursday evening, should i add one this evening? I am afraid tomorrow could be late...

Omg!!! Yay!! [emoji322]


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[Noemi2017]

Pbn, emshe thx u, i needed some advice:flowerz:I will add other attempt tonight and will pray for pink:HH:

[mummy2boys]

Mummy2boys I would definately call that a wine time temp [emoji23] and totally disregard it. The beauty of it is, if tomorrows temp is elevated into usual post o temp range then you know you're in with an awesome chance!!!!! Especially because the first two bd's were 'just because' and you completely chilled out last night! Love it! And cant wait to watch this cycle play out!!! It may eventually be worth adjusting the 'wino' temp when it comes time to crosshairs [emoji6] god knows I've had to disregard a few temps in my time [emoji12]

Haha yeah I think I will definitely discard the wine temp [emoji23][emoji23]
I might even have another attempt tonight too just in case. Can’t hurt right?!


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[emshe]

In all honesty emshe I'm a bit of a square bear when it comes to medications so I'll always err on the side of caution [emoji53] (I'll take a panadol like twice a year - one of those annoying people [emoji23]) I have the belief that unless proven otherwise you shouldn't take something for reasons other than needing it (eg. Clomid, aspirin, but I do not in any way hold anything against those that do take it unprescribed) Progesterone is something that can be tested so is that why you have it? Have you needed it in the past? If so then by all means go ahead. Otherwise no, I wouldn't use it....

I love square bears Pbn!


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[mummy2boys]

Pbn, emshe thx u, i needed some advice:flowerz:I will add other attempt tonight and will pray for pink:HH:

Yey noemi! Go for it 🤞🤞🤞


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[Heart desires pink LP]

Girls i found today positive opk:) i cant download file. I had attempt on Thursday evening, should i add one this evening? I am afraid tomorrow could be late...Yayyyy! Thrilled for you! I would say add an attempt in to increase odds of conception. Your Thursday attempt might mean 3 or 4 days before O, which might significantly lower pregnancy odds, but may sway pink more. It really depends on how soon you want to get pregnant and how many cycles you've been trying!

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[Noemi2017]

I have been trying from October 2017. So attempt tonight:o

[Heart desires pink LP]

So I got a + ve Opk yesterday and also as of 10 am this morning. Temps have risen from yesterday but only slightly. Does this mean I will still ovulate today, or I already did? I think if I ovulate today, tomorrow's temp must be much higher, right? https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180623/7f716116a6beaeac50da88ff6c49aa65.jpg

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[Pbn3]

HDP yes if you o today we should see a spike tomorrow. Generally most people will o the day after pos opk so rule of thumb is we like to see a rise 2 mornings after day of pos opk [emoji4]

[Thunderstruck7]

So what's the politically correct way of saying how long your TTC journey has been when you've experienced a mc? Do you go by cycles from day 1 of trying? Do you subtract the months I was pregnant since it was later than 4,5,6 week mc?

In my mind, I've been actively trying since December '17. Technically 11 weeks of that I was "pregnant", ya know since 1-4 weeks is up to BFP. Then I had a month-8 weeks post d&c of letting hcg leave body. Dang, my story gets confusing. Advice?

6d1f2c Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6d1f2c)I guess it deepens on who you're telling your story to, a medical practitioners I'd tell the full story to, close friend I'd tell most of the details but an acquaintance barely any details.

For me we started our TTC April 2017, concieved first cycle but unfortunately ended in ectopic termination. We were told not to start ttc again for at least 3 cycles, so my cycle didn't return to normal until November 2017.
So to an acquaintance I might say something like "we've been wanting this to happen since the beginning of 2017 but we've had a few hiccups along the way" more of a hint to why I might say we can't wait to hold our rainbow baby

But I don't think there's a right or wrong way, just go with what you feel comfortable with

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[ABC.2606]

Yay Noemi!!!! Praying you catch the egg!!

[Girlswaylondon]

Definitly attempt Noemi! Good luck I hope this is it!! :heart:

[Pbn3]

Jgojah good to see your temp pop back up [emoji4] looks alot like yesterdays was a fallback. I would say you're 3dpo but just want to see that one more temp [emoji6]

[jgojah]

Girls i found today positive opk:) i cant download file. I had attempt on Thursday evening, should i add one this evening? I am afraid tomorrow could be late...

Yayyyyyy noemi! Praying this is your month!!!

[jgojah]

Jgojah good to see your temp pop back up [emoji4] looks alot like yesterdays was a fallback. I would say you're 3dpo but just want to see that one more temp [emoji6]

Hey pbn3, as I checked my temp this am I thought of you lolll and then they day got crazy so I'm only now able to log on! Hopefully it would stay up tom am :fx:

[Heart desires pink LP]

I hope I ovulated?.....
So CB gave me a solid smiley at noon yesterday. We BDed yesterday evening. Today I got +ve OPK or near +ve using the strips once at 11 am and once at 5pm. All day today I had very little EWCM. It was stretchy but starting to get more opaque.
At 10.30 pm today, I took a CB test and no solid smiley. Just the empty circle indicating - ve OPK. At this time, I had small amounts of cloudy non stretchy CM. Felt sore boobs around 8 pm ish.

I think tomorrow's temp will help confirm. Fx that I did ovulate, and not just my body trying to and giving up! This cycle my body has geared up for O few times and then given up, until CD 32 when I got a +ve on CB.

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[Pbn3]

Sounds good for o today HDP judging by the change in cm anyway. An opk being negative doesn't mean you've oed, it just means your peak surge has passed [emoji4] Loo forward to seeing tomorrows temp!! Be sure to post a chart pic [emoji3]

[Thunderstruck7]

Ok ladies I've tested this morning at 12dpo and it's a BFN with fmu using frer. So I'm pretty certain I'm out this month.

What advice do you ladies give me ttc a little blue bundle, I've tried with the opks but never seem to get a blazing positive and I can't regularly test due to my job. So I feel using opks stress me out too much, I haven't been charting my bbt temps but do you think it's worth trying? Any tips, hints and tricks will be appreciated!

I used to be able to rely on cm and ovulation pains but even those seem to be completely out of whack too.

DH would love a boy but now he just wants a healthy sticky bean and pregnancy regardless. I'm still very much stuck on blue.

Thanks in advance [emoji4]

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[emshe]

Ok ladies I've tested this morning at 12dpo and it's a BFN with fmu using frer. So I'm pretty certain I'm out this month.

What advice do you ladies give me ttc a little blue bundle, I've tried with the opks but never seem to get a blazing positive and I can't regularly test due to my job. So I feel using opks stress me out too much, I haven't been charting my bbt temps but do you think it's worth trying? Any tips, hints and tricks will be appreciated!

I used to be able to rely on cm and ovulation pains but even those seem to be completely out of whack too.

DH would love a boy but now he just wants a healthy sticky bean and pregnancy regardless. I'm still very much stuck on blue.

Thanks in advance [emoji4]

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I’m sorry it hasn’t worked out for you, and I can understand your continued desire.

Thunderstruck I suggest starting a thread and asking atomic but I’m sure you just go for it more with ttc blue. Try searching timing for blue

Wishing you success & plenty of blue dust




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[Thunderstruck7]

I’m sorry it hasn’t worked out for you, and I can understand your continued desire.

Thunderstruck I suggest starting a thread and asking atomic but I’m sure you just go for it more with ttc blue. Try searching timing for blue

Wishing you success & plenty of blue dust




https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/35220bThanks I think I might start one and see what ideas she has that I haven't already read

Thank you x

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[Pbn3]

If you want don't want to use opks to do multiple attempts at pos opk or chart etc the least stressful way is to dtd eod through to when you're sure you've oed if that's possible. So bd every 48 hours. This pattern sways strongly blue but isn't commonly suggested as eod can often be too hard to keep up. If you're quite sure dh and yourself can stay the course then that would be my recommendation. It's great for those who have a short - normal cycle (up to 30 days) but any longer and it is usually too hard. It's very important to keep to every 48 hours if you are going to do it. So if your cycle is 30 days I'd suggest dtd cd8, 10, 12, 14, 16, 18 and maybe 20 to be absolutely sure.

How long is your cycle usually?

[Thunderstruck7]

Thanks, I've just been reading into the eod method a little more, I'm not 100% certain we'd be able to keep up to the eod but I'm sure he'd love to try [emoji23]

My cycle is generally between 30-33 days, it's seemingly is very sensitive to stress and/or anxiety about ttc too.

I'm open to doing temps but will need to invest in a bbt thermometer asap if I decide to do that but it's really only effective if there's multiple cycles to compare.


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[Heart desires pink LP]

My update :
So I suspect I ovulated yesterday evening (CD 33), and hence today's temperature was very important to confirm that! And as luck would have it, I'm in a world of ambiguity!
I went to bed at 2 am last night. Woke up at 4.45am to pee. Took my BBT before getting up to the bathroom. Temp was around 96.7 (close to yesterday's temp). I went back to sleep and woke again at 6.50 am. I temped again, without waking up and it showed a spike of 97.4, which would likely confirm yesterday's ovulation. I usually temp around this time. But will this be accurate, given it was after only 2 hours of sleep? If I go with the earlier 96.7 temp, then it does not confirm ovulation. CB tested negative yesterday night, and strips showed positive during the day yesterday. CD 32 was my first +ve OPK.
Here is my chart below, by logging in the higher temp. Based on my OPK s, and CM, I do believe I might have O yesterday. But the inconsistency between the two Temps confuses me! What do I go with?
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[Heart desires pink LP]

Also, I took an opk test this afternoon. Clear negative!

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[HGmama]

My update :
So I suspect I ovulated yesterday evening (CD 33), and hence today's temperature was very important to confirm that! And as luck would have it, I'm in a world of ambiguity!
I went to bed at 2 am last night. Woke up at 4.45am to pee. Took my BBT before getting up to the bathroom. Temp was around 96.7 (close to yesterday's temp). I went back to sleep and woke again at 6.50 am. I temped again, without waking up and it showed a spike of 97.4, which would likely confirm yesterday's ovulation. I usually temp around this time. But will this be accurate, given it was after only 2 hours of sleep? If I go with the earlier 96.7 temp, then it does not confirm ovulation. CB tested negative yesterday night, and strips showed positive during the day yesterday. CD 32 was my first +ve OPK.
Here is my chart below, by logging in the higher temp. Based on my OPK s, and CM, I do believe I might have O yesterday. But the inconsistency between the two Temps confuses me! What do I go with?
https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180624/e602005eaa8a0fb44bd0dd2de58af4dd.jpg

Sent from my ONEPLUS A3000 using TapatalkI kind of feel like you should disregard the temp all together. Life happens HDP. If you think you Oed, then you probably did. That temp pattern is not reliable, no matter what. Sometimes you just are sleep deprived or forget. Let life happen and say the deed is done.

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[Girlswaylondon]

HDP I don’t think that temp would be reliable on 2 hours sleep but maybe you could do e4d from now?

[emshe]

How frustrating! Always the way when you want that perfect temping, sorry it didn’t happen. I think you probably o’d but e4d from here is probably a good idea just to cover yourself!?

I’ve read that wonky cycles are great for conceiving girls HDP [emoji8]



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[Pbn3]

HDP I agree with the others and would either disregard the temp or leave it as is with a note indicating it's not reliable. Either way its likely you oed and a temp tomorrow in post o range will confirm it happened either yesterday or today anyway. Like the others mentioned too, maybe plan on bding again 72 hours from last attempt just as back up? It's incredibly frustrating when this happens but it does and to us all [emoji17] You know you've oed and it will simply be a matter of being out by 1dpo possibly which is nothing in the scheme of things [emoji4]

[Heart desires pink LP]

How frustrating! Always the way when you want that perfect temping, sorry it didn’t happen. I think you probably o’d but e4d from here is probably a good idea just to cover yourself!?

I’ve read that wonky cycles are great for conceiving girls HDP [emoji8]



https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/35220bI'll do that, thanks. I actually really hate temping. The anticipation (close to O), makes my sleep restless, and I wake up too much because we co sleep with my kicking toddler. I can't wait to ditch this! I think I'm finally in the 2WW. Fx! When do I start testing for pregnancy?

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[Heart desires pink LP]

HDP I agree with the others and would either disregard the temp or leave it as is with a note indicating it's not reliable. Either way its likely you oed and a temp tomorrow in post o range will confirm it happened either yesterday or today anyway. Like the others mentioned too, maybe plan on bding again 72 hours from last attempt just as back up? It's incredibly frustrating when this happens but it does and to us all [emoji17] You know you've oed and it will simply be a matter of being out by 1dpo possibly which is nothing in the scheme of things [emoji4]Thanks pbn. FX

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