Roll-call!! Due June/July/August 2013

[Maple]

3Boys - sorry you didn't hear your desired, and that you feel low. It's such a hard emotion to come to terms with. That ultrasound image you posted is so damn cute though. Hope you cope ok in the next while.
Did you find out the gender at 12 wks+? Was it an ultrasound or? Big hugs XX

Sorry - just read your explanation re Doc specialist in gender.
Thinking of you XX

[Maple]

I'm still very sick. Can get in to see my doctor until tomorrow morning. Seems they are very booked out due to Christmas. I just lay in the fetal position most of every day and cry and hug my toddler with him watching cartoons to keep him busy or he potters around the house because I have no energy to do anything with him and am too sick. My big boys come home tonight after spending time with relatives over the holidays and then they will want me to do all kinds of thing (active) with them and I won't be able to. Poor kids.

Hope you feel better soon!
I feel for my kids too, I cant motivate myself to do anything energetic.. I'm actually bored, but don't have energy. Sigh. XX

[spinningmadly]

I hope you dont mind me popping in! I read in here every once in a while since
Im Due the very end of May!

3boys sorry about your scan . I don't want to give false hope but my peri kept telling me it was a boy at my nt scan (despite the tech who did not agree ) and I had friends who told me that specific peri is always right. Anyway, he was wrong. But again I don't know your drs background.. I know despite my peris insistence he did admit that nub theory even with clear nubs was only 80% accurate

my gut instinct has also been wrong all 4 times. I was sure ds1 was a girl same with ds2. By three I was sure I couldn't make girls and it was a girl. And this time I told the tech I know it's a boy and I was wrong .. Again!!

[hopingforsaskia]

Hi spinning!! pop in any time..!

3boys.. I hope he was wrong, but if he's not, I know that you will make it through this time and once he's here, you'll never feel sad that you made him. Huge hugs honey.. xoxo

[LO123]

3boys, I am so sorry you didn't hear what you were hoping for. All of us totally understand and are here for you. You must allow yourself time and don't feel awful for the way you are feeling. The way I see it (and I am sure another lady wrote this as well) is that any of us are not sad about the boy we are having but the girl we may never have. This is something you are allowed to feel. We are all thinking of you....

[Mbmk]

I'm so sorry you didn't hear girl 3 boys, I think the other girls have said it all - there is no need to feel guilty about how you feel, it is a natural emotion and something you are entitled too. Take time to process the news and be kind to yourself. I just read your sway and it was killer so it was nothing you didn't do - this little boy just fought to be in your lives and that is truly special xxx

[dreamingpink77]

I'm having a boy! I will post a pic when I feel up to it. Not feeling great to be honest. Can't believe I have four boys! I now share my house with five penis's ten pairs of balls and 35 boys collars to iron a week

I'm so sorry 3boys I was hoping so much you'd have your dream girl. It seems we are destined to have boys. I know right now you probably feel very sad, it's totally understandable, but we'll be fine in the end when we'll see our little ones in our arms. I wish I could give you a big hug sweetie. How did your hubby take it? Does he understand your GD?

[dreamingpink77]

Had my 15 week doctor's appt today. Finally got the hear the heart beat for the first time. As soon as she touched the doppler to my tummy she found it lol that is why I can feel baby so early she said! She's popped right out!!! The heart beat was 147. So crossing fingers that OWT is super debunked haha. So I have the 3D ultrasound Jan 3rd at 18+3, then Jan 10th my regular hospital scan at 19+3 so hopefully both techs say the same gender!! Hope everyone else is feeling well and doing great!

Glad everything went well cvd. So nice to hear heartbeat for the first time

[dreamingpink77]

I'm still very sick. Can get in to see my doctor until tomorrow morning. Seems they are very booked out due to Christmas. I just lay in the fetal position most of every day and cry and hug my toddler with him watching cartoons to keep him busy or he potters around the house because I have no energy to do anything with him and am too sick. My big boys come home tonight after spending time with relatives over the holidays and then they will want me to do all kinds of thing (active) with them and I won't be able to. Poor kids.

So sorry you are feeling so sick Violet, hope you will be feeling better soon. It's so upset to feel miserable and not up to doing anything

[Pearl327]

Thank you all so much for such lovely comments and support. I honestly don't know what I would do without you. The doctor told me he was 95% sure it was a male foetus, he even wrote it on my report. I have lots of pictures and the nub sticks straight up in the air. This man is very good and specialises in sexing early so I have no reaso to doubt him. I will post a picture tomorrow. Right now my eyes are puffy from crying (I feel awful for being so upset) and I need to sleep. xxx

3boys I am so sorry that you did not hear girl. You have no reason to feel awful for being upset. Your feelings are your feelings and you have to be true to them now so that you can move on with your new little man.