Due in June/July/August 2016

[Fiya]

@has2: I'm so sorry hun. Big hug :HH::bighug:

@Milybaby: 10 days to go until your scan :) Hopefully you'll get a great nub shot to guess on. Still feeling sick?

I was again sooo nauseaus today. This little girl is definitely putting me through my thoughest pregnancy, but she's TOTALLY worth it.

[has2gentlemen]

It was the "SneakPeek Gender Test", mily. They claim 99% accuracy. There are a lot of reviews online that say it's closer to 60%, but they also just changed their testing procedures in Nov 2015, so it's hard to find people with recent results. I'm not holding out much hope that it's wrong, as I knew in my heart we wouldn't have a girl since I was off my sway for the loss.

We already had a boy and girl name picked out from before we even conceived, so this will be Tobias Asher.
I think I'm the most disappointed because of things in the long run, not so much the short term. No daughter means no wedding dress shopping, no prom dress, no "mom, I'm pregnant" phone calls, no father/daughter dances, and no passing down of the heirlooms that have been on the female side of my family for many, many generations. I love my boys to death, but parenting boys is never in my wildest dreams what I saw myself doing for the rest of my life. I wanted painted nails and frilly dresses, not mud and tonka trucks.


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[mammacass]

Milybaby my NT scan is in 2 days! I'm excited but also very nervous [emoji4]

[yogi&booboo]

Congratulations Fox****blue!!! This is amazing news! Extremely happy for you! ♡

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[sweetdream]

Has2 I looked in to it a bit. I would start preparing myself for a boy. But wouldn't give up hope with this test just yet
I thought you did a Panorama or something.
Hope the test was wrong.

[netti02]

Congrats foxcub enjoy boy shopping.

Has2- i know exaclty what you mean. I LOL'd at the no "mom, im pregnant" phone calls 😂😂😂😂

Then you mentioned painting nails. I was painting mine before work last night (i swear they only grow during pregnancy) and my boys wanted theirs done (they're 7 and 10 😂) i bargained and just painted 2 😂
But I certainly get where you're coming from has2. If someone had said i would have four boys 10 years ago I would have laughed in their face. Now im potentially and most likely going to have 5. Just like you im trying to see the 'positive' side to it like the things you mentioned above (even though i know we would both love to be doing those- minus the pregnancy phone call) yet im also trying to be thankful and greatful because i know these are the things that are going to help me get through hearing 'its a boy' but im crossing everything it was just a dodgy test you took.

OMG the night I had at work didn't even give me time to think about the scan today!! We had a storm pass through just before i left and when i got to work one of the building's top floor had water in some residents rooms and staff areas so we had to evacuate certain areas. My legs were already burning before i left as i mopped my own floors and i didn't stop walking and helping move and clean. Ive finally had something to eat and im about to lie down before the scane in 3 and a half hours 😯😯😯 will update you all this afternoon thanks for the luck, prayers and wishes i hope they do the trick.

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[netti02]

P.S Love the name has2. I would love to use Tobias but its not 7 letters with a 'on' on the end (My boys are Brandon, Cameron, Jackson and Braxton)

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[netti02]

Leaving for my scan in 20 minutes 😯😯😯😯

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[mammacass]

Yay, wishing you luck Netti! Hope all goes well [emoji4]

[luvmyfam]

Hopper that was 13+1 and here is the potty shot from that day. 29596

[luvmyfam]

Good luck netti:pray:!

[luvmyfam]

Sweetdream did you sway for your DD? DH and I are thinking about one more sway some day.

[TaytumJ]

Foxcub: YAY!!!!! So happy for you!!! [emoji170][emoji170] Now send me your blue vibes! [emoji4]

Has2: I agree about preparing for a boy, but I don't feel like those tests are as accurate as Panorama or Materniti21 (or whatever that one is haha). And actually, my MIL is actually much closer to me than my mom. She and I are literally two peas in a pod and my mom and I are so opposite. I love my mom and she is an amazing mom and always was, we're just opposite. I took my mom AND MIL wedding dress shopping and we told her first when we got engaged and pregnant. I actually told her about our TTC struggles and NOT my mom. We go shopping every weekend basically and email daily. She only had my hubby and his brother. So I hope that even without a daughter, you'll still get to enjoy all of that. ❤️

@netti: good luck!!! Can't wait!!!


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[yogi&booboo]

Has2 I had the Sneek Peak done which was offered at the place where we had our scan for free. Did you do the test at home? I hear you can contaminate your sample very easily. I had it done there and they had a "female" lab tech draw a vile of blood. They emphasized the importance that no male should be near and absolutely not draw my blood. I believe they only have females processing and reading these samples. I hope its wrong for you ♡

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[yogi&booboo]

Alright ladies I need your input. I dont know how to approach this situation. My dh keeps insinuating that he would want one more son besides this one. I don't see my self with more children. Its very hard for me to accept his remarks and I feel bad since he is telling everyone that he wants a brother for his son :(. My heart, mind, and soul say no. He is a single boy and has one sister and he keeps saying how much he suffered without a brother :( It feel bad but not convinced since I always have horrible pregnancy experiences. Has anyone experienced this? How can I finally put my foot on the ground and say absolutely no. I usually laugh and say no, but it's never a serious no, and I would want him to either allow me to tie my toobs or he get a vasectomy as soon as possible. I feel pressured and this keeps being brought up on a daily basis :/

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[XXforhubby]

Yogi- I would talk to him and tell him how you feel, gently. The more this goes on unaddressed, the more he feels that it will happen. Just be very gentle about it.

I say this because my DH is adamant he doesn't want anymore kids, yet he is the one that brings up having a fourth child, not me! If I express that I too feel complete, he doesn't say anything. However, he becomes very moody. I've finally become gentle about expressing my desire to be done having kids while making sure he feels he is heard.

I hope and pray you guys can come to an agreement. Huge hugs!!


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[netti02]

We are expecting our last little boy. Not really surprised i think it was a stretch to expect a girl. Im ok. At this point im not as upset as i thought i would be and im not sure if its because i know this is the last baby or it's some kind of calm before the storm, obviously hoping for the former.

Very obvious turtle shots like ive seen before. Baby looked like an armadillo squashed in some weird yoga pose with hands and knees in his face.

I'll be packing a few things away for my granddaughter box in anticipation. (Which is years and years away i know but i can't quite let go of some things)

It certainly feels like sweet relief. All the waiting and anticipation felt like a heavy weight to carry and now i feel lighter.

I just hope my bittersweet mood continues but i certainly feel complete and blessed. I think we have a name, Lachlon Matthew but will browse some more later.

If anyone needs blue dust i have it by the truckload 😂😂😂 and im so sure my husband is only full of 'Y's 😂😂😂😂

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[mammacass]

Oh Netti I'm sorry you didn't hear girl, however you sound very much at peace with having another little boy [emoji4] beautiful name xx

[luvmyfam]

Big hugs Netti! I'm happy to hear you feel complete with your last little man on the way. Love the name! It goes so well with your other boys. Do you have any pics of your sweet little guy to share? Congrats on this precious little boy!

[netti02]

I do. I will post them shortly. It took ages for him to get his hands away from his face 😂😂😂

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[Faithinpink]

Huge hugs to you netti02
Take it easy xx

[luvmyfam]

Alright ladies I need your input. I dont know how to approach this situation. My dh keeps insinuating that he would want one more son besides this one. I don't see my self with more children. Its very hard for me to accept his remarks and I feel bad since he is telling everyone that he wants a brother for his son :(. My heart, mind, and soul say no. He is a single boy and has one sister and he keeps saying how much he suffered without a brother :( It feel bad but not convinced since I always have horrible pregnancy experiences. Has anyone experienced this? How can I finally put my foot on the ground and say absolutely no. I usually laugh and say no, but it's never a serious no, and I would want him to either allow me to tie my toobs or he get a vasectomy as soon as possible. I feel pressured and this keeps being brought up on a daily basis :/

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Yogi I would definitely have a serious conversation with him about your feelings. But I am a little torn on the more "permanent" birth control options. You COULD eventually change your mind no matter how "done" you feel now.

[netti02]

Yogi- i can see the 2 sides to your dilemma. I feel for your DH because i get why he would feel like that and I also see your point in not wanting anymore. Even with swaying doesn't always guarantee the next one would be a boy so he would have a brother. I guess you just need to lay all the cards out on the table now and your feelings about it to DH. That way you are firm on where the issue stands and maybe he will have some time to reflect about your feelings xx

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[yogi&booboo]

Thank you Ladies!

Luvmyfam I have thought about possibly changing my mind but all of my pregnancies have been complicated with csections. My doctor's all say it is too much of a risk. It has been very painful from day one to the end for me and it not once has it been a pleasant pregnancy :/ I seriously would have stopped at three but the pressure was too much from him and his parents. My inlaws who care for my children are old and ill and I personally want to move on and take care of my self. I want to get in shape, and finally get a tummy tuck. I also want to prepare for my girls sweet 16"s and for them to go off to college. I am overjoyed with this baby but if it would have been a girl the dh said no more children would have been in our future.

Netti Thank you!! That is totally how I feel :( a boy is not guaranteed and thats is what I tell him. I think I am and I am going to have a serious talk with his parents so they can help him get passed this sudden desire. They need to put their responsibilities on the line to him because my kids would and will never go to a day care.

Thank you again ladies for your input. I need to really talk to him and see how he takes it.

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[netti02]

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[Milybaby]

Netti I'm Sorry It didnt go your way. Sure your Little boy Will be loved😍😍😍 big hugs to you

Fiya, i Hope you Will stop feeling sick soon. i am Still nauseous but a little less, i feel more and more that It could be a girl, perhaps. I really Hope i Will Have a clear nub shot on the 9th to Have an idea of the gender!!! I really want to move from all these doubts😳🙏

Mamacass, how exciting that your scan is only in 2 days! OMG how are you feeling? I would be completly stressed and excited at the same time...!

Hopper, i am Thinking about you and your waiting, courage and lot of pink dust!

Mizziz, how are you?

Yogi, Glad praevia placenta is gone😃😃😃 now enjoy your pregnancy!

Mommymachine, how precious and beautiful is your Little baby😍

Xxxx

[sweetdream]

Sweetdream did you sway for your DD? DH and I are thinking about one more sway some day.

Yes I swayed for my DD.
I never heard of swaying before. And wanted to try at least once.
We swayed with DS2 without knowing what we were doing.
With DS3 I was convinced it was al bogus.
Then I had a friend who started swaying via this site after 3boys and she succeed.
That made me wonder. I started reading and Trying to understand what AS had learned.
And it worked.

[sweetdream]

Netti! What a beautiful boy! And wonderful name! I would to save a granddaughter box!

[mammacass]

Mammacass, how exciting that your scan is only in 2 days! OMG how are you feeling? I would be completly stressed and excited at the same time...!


Thankyou milybaby Yes very exciting! I purposely made my appt for after 13wks so I could hopefully get a great nub shot. It's hard to say how I am feeling - I'm feeling a little more hopeful than I would like to but I just can't help it lol with DS2 I could clearly see he was a boy at my NT scan so I feel like I will know if it is a boy if I get the right shot. Also feeling a little down as if it does look boyish I will be deflated. Not long to wait now [emoji4]

[Pbn3]

Hi netti! I'm really sorry you didn't hear girl but your little baby boy is adorable! Hugs xxoo

[TaytumJ]

Netti: so sorry you didn't hear girl, but I love the name and what a lucky little boy to be so loved! Plus, his pictures are adorable!! Those cheeks! [emoji7][emoji7]

Yogi: I agree with you about being done for your health and yourself. I also agree with others about sitting down with DH and his family, but I think keeping in mind how many women feel when they're told no more kids and are longing for that daughter/son. It's so tricky, but I hope that DH can see this is what's best for YOU! I think physically, emotionally and mentally.

Mamma: scan coming up fast!! Hope you get some great nub shots!


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[XXforhubby]

I'm so sorry you didn't hear girl [emoji20]. I love your attitude and idea about a granddaughter box. I think it will help you and give you something else positive to look forward too.

When it gets tough, if it gets tough, just focus on snuggling with a squishy newborn! That is what helped my DH and its seemed to work. So much so that when he has a tough day at work, he loves to snuggle with our DS3 when he gets home! It's so cute!




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[Fiya]

@has2: I took a quick look on the internet for the reviews of Sneakpeek and it really doesn't seem reliable at all. 60% is just a little bit better than a guess. They look for the Y chromosome, but for some people they said boy so they found Y, but it was a girl. A little bit strange, isn't it? I wouldn't put too much stock in it. It's good though to prepare yourself for hearing boy and Tobias Asher is a wonderful name, but I just don't know if the test you did is reliable...

@Yogi: your hubby has to realize that it's not because he felt bad about being the only boy with just one sister, his son will feel the same. He has 3 lovely sisters to take care of him and very loving parents. And the sway worked this time, but it might not work the next. What if number 5 is another girl? Would he want a 6th one? Or 7? I think he really has to discuss this with you before announcing it to the whole wide world. I hope you'll be able to come to an understanding. Big hug, hun.

@Netti: I'm so sorry you didn't hear pink hun, but you seem to take it very well and you sound very happy with this sweet little boy on the way. How is your DH feeling? I'm sure he'll be a wonderful adition to the family. Just out of curiosity, a girl would also have been called a name ending with -on and with 7 letters? Like Allison?

@Luvmyfam: I agree with you about the more permanent birth control. I do feel now this is our last one, but that might change 5 years from now. You never know what live brings. It's more of a financial choice for me, but if my hubby or myself earn a lot more money in the future, maybe I'll sway again for another daughter.

I'm starting to think about decorating my little girl's nursery. Do any of you want to share pictures of the nurseries of your girls? I am thinking baby pink and light grey and maybe a grey wallpaper with white dots and some scandinavian style accesories. I want to keep it simple and not to flashy.

But first the boys will get bunkbeds, so we can reuse one of their beds for the baby. We have received their beds and will be assembling it this weekend, 'we' as in my 'DH' :giggle:

[hopper]

I'm sorry your result wasn't your DG has2. I am sending shedloads of hugs and support your way, and hoping its wrong xxx

Fiya I was on LE for about 26-28 weeks, actively TTC for 3 months. It was emotionally draining and I won't do it again lol. HT isn't an option either. This is definitely 100% our last child. I just have to come to terms with never having my girl. There are worse things in life and I wikk be fine in time x

Netti hun I am so sorry your heard boy but can I just say those pics are absolutely fabulous. He is gorgeous!! You sound so OK with things, I definitely feel inspired by your right now so thank you xxx

Yogi I agree with the girls. Try talk to your DH about needing to draw a line and complete your family. As one if the ladies said just cause this sway was successful doesn't mean the next will be too. This pregnancy has been a roller coaster for you, I can understand not wanting to do it again in a hurry! X

Mammacass I have everything crossed for your scan hun xxx

I'm feeling a little better today girls, sorry for my massively negative post yesterday. I'm OK now. Another son is in the cards for me, I am excited about his arrival (I am not holding onto any hope the nub theory is incorrect for me, I can't do that) and the loss of a possible daughter will be dealt with over time. I'm finding it easier today to put it to the back of my mind and I hope that as time passes I won't even have to consciously put it to the back of my mind, that it wikk just remain there. This is definitely our last child, I just want to enjoy my final pregnancy and I can't wait for those wonderful newborn snuggles :) But I will be taking a step back from the site for a little while, just while I move past these feelings. I wish each and everyone of you your DG and I will be back in the not too distant future I hope. Hugs xxx

[mommymachine]

I am so sorry Yogi for your struggle. I see both sides as well. Pregnancy with the added risk of more C-sections would be hard to go through again. I see your husbands side too. I grew up with 2 brothers and no sister and it was something that I craved my whole life growing up and even still to this day I wish I had a sister. So that made me all the more important to me to make sure my kids all had sisters and brothers. It makes it all the more frustrating for you because you would have no promise that the 5th one would be a boy as well! Big hugs!! I am sure you and your DH will work through it.

[sweetdream]

Well I always wanted a sister as Well. I didn't get one then at least I wanted a daughter. (Wich at Some point seemed that wasn't gonna happen) lucky me I did get my DD and would loved a sister for her. But we are done.
I know she probably wants a sister at Some point too. But hope its enough with 3 brothers.

[mommymachine]

I'm sure it will be! My sister in law had 3 older brothers and I don't think she had the same need as I did. So all families are different for sure!!


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[netti02]

Fiya dh is taking it better than i thought. I think since our nt scan when we got likely boy we both kind of started thinking this is another boy and tried to push that disappointment aside and just be greatful and thankful. If i had a girl her name would be Evelyne Joyce Ann. 7 letters but an exception to the 'on' 😊

Thank you ladies for your kind words. I really just want to enjoy this last pregnancy 😊 i can't change anything that's happened and theres no more opportunities to try for a girl (unless i come into money but i doubt it 😂) so im just going to enjoy this last little snuggle bear because that will be it til grandbabies 😂



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[netti02]

My boys are pretty adorable so im definitely lucky 😍

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[netti02]

My boys are pretty adorable so im definitely lucky 😍

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[netti02]

Accidently copied my own post just wanting to chnage my signature 😂😂

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[TaytumJ]

Your boys are so handsome, netti!! Love that bottom pic!


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[sweetdream]

Omg what a handsome boys you have there! Melting absolutely with your little bear! Adorable! They look kind and sweet too. There can never be enough sweet men in the world! You contribute well!

[netti02]

Aww shucks thankyou 😊 they sure are full of sweetness

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[mommymachine]

Netti, your family is so beautiful.


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[mommymachine]

How DO you ladies get that signature? I can't find out how. I have a signature that you can see on the computer but not on the phone.


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[netti02]

Settings is where i changed mine mommymachine

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[XXforhubby]

Tapatalk settings is where you need to go Mommy!

I should post pics of my sweet boys. They are full of sweetness too. My DS1 said the other day he wishes he and his brothers were triplets. I asked why, and he said so that he and DS2 could run around and play with the baby [emoji4]! Melted my heart!

We are all fortunate to have the sweet children we have been blessed with!


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[luvmyfam]

Such precious, handsome boys Netti:HH:!

[yogi&booboo]

Thank you Ladies for all of your very much appreciated responses. I think expression of my feelings and a lot of communication will finally close the baby making chapter in my life.

Netti ♡ I love your 4d Pictures. I love them in color :) are your boys are so very handsome ♡♡

Fiya how exciting! I love Grey & Pink. I think those color combine beautifully ♡

Big hugs for you Hopper ♡ You have a big heart and your decision is highly respected.


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[Boyzmommy]

Ladies i have been reading ur posts. Netti ur boys are adorable.
Has2 gentlemen i wont put so much trust in this test. U still hve hope.
Hopper i can understand ur feelings
Mamacass good luck for ur appointment
Yogi i m happy ur placenta previa is gone[emoji106]
Yogi its really hard with too much complications


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[Boyzmommy]

I m thinking of getting a private scan for peace of mind. Every one is telling me 14 weeks to be early for genitals to be differentiated. So many ppl got wrong at this stage n their daughters turned out to be sons[emoji85]


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[mammacass]

How far along are you now boyz? Wouldn't you be due for your 20wk anomaly scan soon? I understand it would be hard to believe you have a girl cooking x

[Dreamofpink]

I am so sorry I bailed out on this thread so early. So much has happened here. I swayed in 2013 and got my ds3 - my perfect sway opposite. However, the build up to the gender scans, nub guessing and Harmony tests was too much for me to bare this time. I've withdrawn from so much in the last few months both irl and online just to protect my emotions and guard my heart. It was so hard as I had a very strong intuition that I was carrying a girl. I saw her in my dreams many times. I had my anomaly scan a few days ago and baby was moving around so much the tech could only give me a 60% guess. We had a private scan yesterday that revealed after 3 boys, my intuition was correct and I am indeed carrying my DAUGHTER! I can't believe it after struggling with GD so badly for the last two years especially, but seven years in total. For those of you struggling after hearing you're having an opposite, my heart aches - it's so painful, bittersweet and hard to come to terms with. Much love xx

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[Faithinpink]

All the best dreamofpink xxx congrats

[mammacass]

Wow that's amazing news dreamofpink, congratulations, i am hoping for the same result after my 3 [emoji4] I'm sure many woman on here can relate to your GD and need to withdraw to guard your heart. [emoji4]

[Boyzmommy]

Congrats dreamofpink.
Mamacass i m almost 21 weeks. I already had my anatomy scan at 19 weeks in Canada. I m out of country for sis wedding.
At anatomy they couldn't tell me the gender. [emoji17]
I m so worried to hear opposite now after having my hopes up
I m so sorry for the ladies whose sway didnt go their way. I can feel their pain[emoji17]



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[Dreamofpink]

Boyzmommy I can hear the anguish in your words ❤ Have you any plans to get another scan soon?

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[Boyzmommy]

I m thinking dreamofpink


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Princess in belly

[TaytumJ]

Congrats dreamofpink! So cool that you were right all along! Enjoy your daughter! [emoji175][emoji166][emoji882]

I hope that intuition is true...I've had dreams this is a boy and I don't even look at pink/girlie things because my intuition is so strong. Hoping mine is right too! [emoji170]


Team green baby due May 21! [emoji170][emoji166]

[mommymachine]

I am so sorry I bailed out on this thread so early. So much has happened here. I swayed in 2013 and got my ds3 - my perfect sway opposite. However, the build up to the gender scans, nub guessing and Harmony tests was too much for me to bare this time. I've withdrawn from so much in the last few months both irl and online just to protect my emotions and guard my heart. It was so hard as I had a very strong intuition that I was carrying a girl. I saw her in my dreams many times. I had my anomaly scan a few days ago and baby was moving around so much the tech could only give me a 60% guess. We had a private scan yesterday that revealed after 3 boys, my intuition was correct and I am indeed carrying my DAUGHTER! I can't believe it after struggling with GD so badly for the last two years especially, but seven years in total. For those of you struggling after hearing you're having an opposite, my heart aches - it's so painful, bittersweet and hard to come to terms with. Much love xx

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I've been thinking about you!!!! This is such an amazing update and I am so happy for you!!


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[mammacass]

Silly me, sorry boyz I do remember that now, I will put it down to baby brain lol if you are feeling very anxious perhaps it is best if you can get another scan, just for reassurance?

[Boyzmommy]

Lol i can understand ur forgetfulness
Blame it all on preg[emoji12]


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[yogi&booboo]

Congratulations Dreamofpink ♡ That is wonderful news! Enjoy your baby girl :)

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[luvmyfam]

Congrats dreamofpink!! So exciting! You give me hope if we ever decide to sway again!

[missiz]

@Fox - congrats on hearing blue :P what an exciting new stage for you!

@has2 - I am so sorry you are struggling with hearing the news, I cant imagine how it would feel. I hope for your sake the test is wrong and you have your girl xox p.s. I think the name you picked is lovely

@netti - Sorry you didnt hear girl, I know what you mean about feeling relief from the pressure.. I am still waiting for my harmony blood test results and my heart is just aching at the moment because I feel so torn... hoping and then thinking realistically and then getting my hopes back up :( Its good to see how well you are handling it, I hope you enjoy the rest of your pregnancy xo

@Milybaby - Im hanging in there, still getting morning sickness but at the moment, I am struggling big time with waiting for these blood test results, I just want it to be over already.

@dreamofpink - congrats on your girl, I hope you enjoy every minute xo

I ended up putting a couple of photos on that "Strictly Nub Theory" facebook page just for fun, they were only from 11 weeks so too early to really tell but pretty much everyone said girl... I am not getting my hopes up... its too hard to handle. especially when a lady posted this morning that despite over 100 guesses that she was having a girl, her 20 week scan confirmed she is having a boy! gah... how do you deal with that :(

I will hopefully be getting the results to my harmony blood test this week, and the waiting its just killing me... my tummy just drops everytime i think about it.

[TaytumJ]

I hope you get your girl missiz! I agree, it is hard to hang on that, only to find out a few weeks later have a lot of hope that it's the opposite. I feel the same way about a boy - I think so many have guessed boy that I'm cautiously just expecting a boy in May. That might be a bad thing though if it's a girl!

Side question: do you ladies still use preseed while pregnant? DH and I use it since I've been more dry since getting pregnant and I assumed that since it helped me get pregnant it was still safe to use during pregnancy haha


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[netti02]

Hope time flies for you missiz.

Can't help with the preseed question Taytum i didn't use it 😊

Some more pictures of my little bean. Obvious turtle shots no second guessing here 😂

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[yogi&booboo]

Taytum preseed is safe during pregnancy. I used Conceive plus and now anything on hand lol[emoji14]
Netti are your pictures Potty pics?

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[netti02]

Yep im guessing they are. I just went through the dvd. There was a very clear shot of the boy bits in 3d but i didn't find that pic on the disc.

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[mammacass]

Hi ladies well I have had my NT scan this afternoon, all went well and results all great [emoji4] I did see a long forked nub during the scan but Bub was moving a bit so hard to assess angle, unfortunately I wasn't given a pic or video of this :( bit annoying!!! Anyways here are a couple of pics. Was so awesome seeing Bub move around and sucking it's thumb ❤️❤️http://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20160201/2e7434dbf2c217cd4754dbddec472fad.jpghttp://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20160201/5d6048a9b33e6026e60be67a44bbc46a.jpghttp://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20160201/a6784b42745cdbdff9c75a499cf0ea89.jpg

[Fiya]

@Mamacass: what a gorgeous little baby! Do you have any other 2D profile pics? I'm starting to get pretty good at nub guessing, so maybe I can distinguish something :)

I'll come back later to read the other posts :)

[netti02]

Cute pics mammacass

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[mammacass]

Unfortunately Fiya I don't have another side profile pic, only 1 that's front on. I was so sure I would get a video of the entire scan as I always have with my other babies...

[Dreamofpink]

@mammacass I too saw long forked nubs at my NT scan. I was 13 weeks. Fingers crossed!

Three beautiful boys and my longed-for DD due in June 2016!

[TaytumJ]

Beautiful babies mammacass and netti!! So jealous of you netti - at our anatomy scan she said she'd give us video, but never did and of course we didn't know until we got home. She wouldn't let me take any on my phone either, boo!


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[Milybaby]

@dreamofpink, very happy for u that you Have your DD cooking!😃😃😃

@mizziz, i understand very well What you mean about It being over already😉 When Will you Have your results? It is better to Have a girly nub even at 11w that No Hope 👍🏽 i am praying for u

@mamacass, What a beautiful Little Baby!😍 i Hope that It is your girl, the nub you see is a good sign I think and I Hope!!!

@netti, your Baby is so cute on the pics😍

I am 11w4d and gosh I am so impatient to be at NT scan but at the same time sooooo afraid... I know that My hopes Will go done in a second if I see a boyish nub.... That is so stressfull...
Besides, i Have a big pain in the Low belly (uterus?) sometimes coming sometimes not. I don't know if It is because of My tilted uterus?? Because It was Still very tilted 12 days ago and It was pushing on the back. Ob told me it's gonna take its normal place within 2-3 weeks.... Perhaps My pain is because of that??
I'm anxious...
Xxx

[luvmyfam]

Mammacass adorable little baby! So cute how she/he has her/his ankles crossed!

Mily I'm not sure what you're feeling. I have a lot of different pains. Is it crampy? Maybe have your doctor check you for a UTI if it continues.

[yogi&booboo]

Beautiful baby Mammacas ♡♡

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[mammacass]

Thankyou ladies [emoji4] looking forward to our gender scan in a couple of weeks.

Mily I'm also not sure but hope all is ok x

[Pbn3]

Gorgeous bub mammacass!! Can't wait for gender confirmation! Thinking pink!!

519b48 Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/519b48)

[mammacass]

Thankyou Pbn, hope your doing ok xx

[has2gentlemen]

Ladies- I've been window shopping/considering buying a coming home outfit to help me feel a little better about this boy news, but I just realized I've never had to buy for a summer baby! Every baby on either side of our family has always been born in February, October, or early April. With being due in August (and being told I'll most likely deliver in July or maybe June), I have no clue what to buy. My oldest came home in a onesie and pants, my youngest in a long sleeve sleeper. Will a long sleeve sleeper be too warm for a summer baby? Our average temperatures here are usually in the 70s, maybe 80s. We get hot days (90-100) but usually only in late July to mid August.

I'm trying to decide between these two outfits
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[Dreamofpink]

@has2gentlemen the bottom outfit is absolutely adorable! With a little cardi and some booties I'd say that'd be fine for a cooler day if needs be. 😊

Three beautiful boys and my longed-for DD due in June 2016!

[maidentomother]

Has2gentlemen, I adore that 2nd outfit and it doesn't look too hot!

[netti02]

Love the 2nd one has2 iwould get them both though 😂

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[mammacass]

Both are adorable has2, I agree with Netti - grab them both [emoji3]

[Boyzmommy]

I love them both but bottom one is unique n cute


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Princess in belly

[missiz]

I think the 2nd one is especially cute has2 :)

[netti02]

Hi Ladies

Ive been feeling flutters all morning 😂 I think this child has finally started to move instead of being in a ball.

Ive been looking at the gender selection review in Australia which looks like a decision could be made sometime this year. I might hold off hubby going for a vasectomy at this point as it will be more chances hubby would go down the HT if we can remain in Australia than travel o'seas. I should start saving my pennies just incase.

Some days its easier to be ok and then at other times it's not.

Hope everyone is well xx

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[missiz]

thats lovely that your feeling flutters netti :) I cant wait to feel it again, it always bonds me when I can feel them inside xo

oh really, I didnt know anything was happening as far as the gender selection review... I would love it if they could bring it back. I think we would seriously consider it if it was in Australia.

Will be getting the results from my harmony test any day now.... I have been FREAKING myself out by reading about the test and that despite the 99% gender claim, lots of people are getting the opposite to what the test told them!!!! gah.... I just CANNOT wait until I know 100% for sure

[netti02]

Eeek fx for you missiz. Hopefully the test is accurate 😕

Yes theres been much debate but who knows when a decision will be made. I might even contact the regulation council for an update.

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[more pink]

You make handsome kids make it half a dozen ;-)

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[Milybaby]

Has2, lovely outfit!😃 i really don't know how to explain in english about the baby's clothes but i'm gonna try. My first is Born on a 20th of August. I had for him long pyjamas/outfit but not warm for the first few days in the hospital. Then i had some short ones when We were outside during the day. For nights, It dépends If it's hot or not in his bedroom. Try to remember that your Baby needs to Have just like you + perhaps a little Blanket or vest if he is sleeping. Here temperatures are hot (around 85 during june/july/August).

Mizziz, i am freaking out for u!!! I hope that you'll Have soon your results🙏 And that it's pink! I Have always seen that harmony was 99% accurate😉
I am 11w6days today just like u😜

Netti, how lovely to feel fluttering😊 Enjoy!

Luvmyfam, Thank you for your answer. I phoned to gyn and he told me to take a spasfon (medicine) and to call him yesterday if Still painfull. But yesterday and today, i feel ok 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

Will Have My NT scan in 6 days from now😱 I am so impatient to see My Baby AND the nub😄 Sometimes feel it's possible My babe is pink and sometimes not, that It is obviously a boy...!

Xxx

[Boom]

Hi all, just wanted to celebrate that I had my 18w monitoring scan today and they confirmed the harmony result of GIRL!!! Like you Missiz I had tied myself in knots reading stories of opposites and with the bad luck I had last year I thought that I could easily be that 1% wrong result. Or that it was Rosie's DNA still in my blood or something. But no, my rainbow is a pink one and she's doing just fine in there!
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[Babygirlquest]

Congrats boom! You deserve this so much :-) xxx

[luvmyfam]

Congrats boom!! So happy for you! She's adorable!

[Dreamofpink]

Huge congrats Boom! So exciting!!

Three beautiful boys and my longed-for DD due in June 2016!

[TaytumJ]

Congrats Boom!! That's so exciting!


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[Milybaby]

Congrats Boom!!!!! That's a great news👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽😍😍😍😍 i am over the moon for you!

I had to postpone My NT scan on the 12th of February..... Sooooo long but perhaps more accurate for nub theory?

Xxx

[Milybaby]

Will be at 13w1d

[Milybaby]

Good luck ladies and happy pregnancies! I think i am gonna so a little break from this thread. Will tell you If boy or girl when I'll know. 😘

[missiz]

@Milybaby - I didnt realise we were the same being 12 weeks today? :) although our due dates are slightly different lol goodluck with your scan, I hope you get a great nub shot and that bub is healthy

Congrats boom, such exciting and well deserved news! I hope the rest of your pregnancy is healthy and worry free, I bet you cant wait to hold her in your arms xx p.s. her profile in the scan is so gorgeous!

[mommymachine]

Congrats Boom!!!

Milybaby 13 plus weeks is excellent for a nub shot.


Mommy to 5 with number 6 due in June!!

[mommymachine]

Boom I just notice I don't have you included on the front page. Did you want me to put you there? Just need your due date and if you swayes pink or blue.


Mommy to 5 with number 6 due in June!!

[yogi&booboo]

Good Luck MyLilBaby ♡ Hope you get some great pics :)

Congratulations Boom ♡

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[TaytumJ]

Good luck Milybaby! Can't wait to get your update in a few weeks! [emoji4]

I feel like lately I know more people having girls and everyone seems so happy for them! (Even if it's their first). I almost feel a little left out on this, and, I feel like I would be excited even if this baby is a girl. These feelings throughout pregnancy are just nuts!


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[mammacass]

Aww I can't wait to feel flutters also Netti, how lovely [emoji4]

Good luck with your results Missiz, looking forward to your update x

Milybaby not long until your NT scan, hope all goes well and you can get a great nub shot [emoji4]

Congratulations Boom that's wonderful news! Beautiful pic.

I keep debating on wether we should find out gender for sure and if we do should we let other people know. I think it would be nice to have a suprise but I just don't think I can NOT know. And I'm getting lots of pressure from some people to find out, and others not to find out. I'm leaning toward finding out but not telling anyone IRL. Those of you who have found out have you told others?

[netti02]

Mammacass- i am glad i found out. This is our last baby (but im currently resesrching high tech with Dr Potter- not sure i can convince hubby though)

Im glad because i need time to accept/deal with this being boy number 5. I had my sister come with me the day of the scan i wish i hadn't though. Ive only told my parents/mother in law. Im not looking forward to telling people just to hear the same shit from them and it always seems to come from people with both genders 😐 it always as long as its healthy like i haven't appreciated that fact. Uggghh i wish i coukd hude in a cave for the rest of the pregnancy.

Congrats boom.



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[mammacass]

Thanks Netti, that's what I'm thinking - that it will help me to deal if it is another boy, I don't want to have hope building all pregnancy. And the stupid comments are why I'm thinking of not telling anyone IRL. I hate it when they say as long as it's healthy or it will be loved just as much etc that's just a given and seems a cop out like they are just trying to make you feel better.
I felt similar with my previous failed sway Netti, big hugs and hope you are doing ok xx

[netti02]

Thanks mammacass. I have ds4 first birthday in a few weeks and im waiting for the barage of 'what is it?' Ugghh. I kind of have a flicker of hope though as i have received info from the gender selection australia website that works with Dr Potter and im ready to work my butt off (even though i already do) for it i just have to get dh to agree😂😂

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[missiz]

ok so I am sitting here at my desk with the results of my harmony test.... the tears are ********* down my face, I am scared to believe what I am reading.... it actually says girl!!!! I want to be jumping up and down with excitement and celebrating but at the same time, I am terrified the results are wrong... I think I am in shock, I just didnt think I could have a girl. I am feeling very grateful but scared that its too good to be true, if that makes sense.

[netti02]

Missiz congrats 😀

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[mammacass]

Oh wow missiz, massive congratulations to you hun. Your feelings are understandable, but know that this is definitely your girl!!! [emoji178][emoji166][emoji322]

[maidentomother]

Missiz, those tests are HIGHLY accurate, that's your girl.

[TaytumJ]

Congrats missiz!! I agree - those results are very accurate and I would go celebrate that girl of yours!! [emoji166][emoji177][emoji882]


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[sweetdream]

Missyz i felt exactly the same after they told me girl at the ultrasound. Every scan i asked still a girl?
Just couldn't believe it. And i was so shared something would happen to her.
She is almost a year now. And it is still unbelieveble! Congratiolations and enjoy!

[luvmyfam]

Congrats missiz!! So happy for you :HH:!

[Dreamofpink]

Aaaaah SO exciting Missiz! Those tests are close to 100% accurate. You're carrying your dd!

Three beautiful boys and my longed-for DD due in June 2016!

[Fiya]

Hi ladies,

I didn't have the time to write on here for a couple of days, so back to page 181 to read everyone :)

@Hopper: I don't know if you'll still read this, but I'm thinking of you. I really hope you're allright. This baby is going to be sooo precious, boy or girl.

@Netti: your boys are stunning. How old are the two eldest ones? And you almost make me cry when I read your posts. You were so positive about this 5th boy from the start, but now I feel you're hurting a little bit and I would have loved to see you get to use these clothes in the granddaughter box. Would you want a 6th child with HT? I think if your hubby agrees with 5, he'll do with 6 too. Or is it really the HT-part he doesn't want to hear about?

@Boyzmommy: How are things going at your sisters place? Did she already get married? And I wouldn't doubt the gender of your little one. She looked just the same between her legs as my little girl at 15+3.

@Dreamofpink: congrats on your little girl. She will be sooo loved by her wonderful parents and her three sweet brothers. Do you already have a name picked out for her?

@Mammacass: these 3D pics of your little one are just sooooo adorable. And seeing a long forked nub at the stage you were at sounds pretty promising. When is your gender scan? I told everyone about the gender of all of our three babies, but I just can't hide things like that :) I was also afraid of the comments if this one would have turned out to be a boy. People are soooo stupid sometimes. But what it you don't tell and everyone starts making assumptions about the gender. Ooooh I'm sure it's a *** You'll get stupid comments too :) People just like talking about pregnant women.

@Milybaby: My belly also hurts some times, just like when I'm about to get my period. I think it's the stretching of the uterus. Is it that kind of pain for you too? I recognize your feelings when you say sometimes I feel this baby is a girl, sometimes a boy. I felt just like you... Swaying makes it so much harder not to know the gender afterwards in the first months of pregnancy. But you'll know pretty soon now, I promise. And 13+1 was when I got my convincing girl nub, so it's perfect. Chances are very small the nub changes at this stage.

@Has2: I would get both outfits, they're adorable. I still hope the test was wrong and you'll get your girl. When will you know more?

@Boom: congrats on your little princess. She's adorable.

@Missiz: oh my goooood, I'm SO HAPPY for you :running: Harmony is more accurate than a scan, so I would believe it if I were you. And if she's just as pretty as her 2 brothers, you'll have to lock her in the house until she's 20 :)

[Dreamofpink]

@Fiya How are you now? Hope baby's treating you kindly 😉 I'm really keen on Felicity Aurora for this little one. It means the dawn of happiness and my mum's name is Dawn hence the link.

Three beautiful boys and my longed-for DD due in June 2016!

[Fiya]

Here, everything is just fine. The thought of finally having my soooo longed for daughter is still sinking in though. But sometimes I wonder if the ladies who didn't get their desired gender aren't offended by my posts of happiness and disbelief. I just hope I'm not hurting anyone even more than they already are. I know I have the right to be happy, but I also know how I would have felt if this was another boy, so I'm a little bit torn about posting here all the time about our little lady...

I started thinking about her little room some more and I chose to go with soft colours, baby pink, apple blue sea green, yellow, light grey. Yesterday I bought the bed linnen and I think it's just adorable. I also bought her some more clothes. I can't seem to stop buying dresses, tights and hair accessories :giggle:

I'm starting to feel a little less nauseous, but still very tired though. I could sleep all day. This pregnancy is just flying by. I can't believe I'm already half way. Tomorrow I'm going to see the midwive for a quick check-up. I hope she'll let me hear her heartbeat. And my 20 weeks scan is planned for the 8th of March. I'll be a little bit further along, but that's fine.

[Dreamofpink]

Here, everything is just fine. The thought of finally having my soooo longed for daughter is still sinking in though. But sometimes I wonder if the ladies who didn't get their desired gender aren't offended by my posts of happiness and disbelief. I just hope I'm not hurting anyone even more than they already are. I know I have the right to be happy, but I also know how I would have felt if this was another boy, so I'm a little bit torn about posting here all the time about our little lady...

I started thinking about her little room some more and I chose to go with soft colours, baby pink, apple blue sea green, yellow, light grey. Yesterday I bought the bed linnen and I think it's just adorable. I also bought her some more clothes. I can't seem to stop buying dresses, tights and hair accessories :giggle:

I'm starting to feel a little less nauseous, but still very tired though. I could sleep all day. This pregnancy is just flying by. I can't believe I'm already half way. Tomorrow I'm going to see the midwive for a quick check-up. I hope she'll let me hear her heartbeat. And my 20 weeks scan is planned for the 8th of March. I'll be a little bit further along, but that's fine.
You're so thoughtful 😊 I remember the pain after finding about ds3 on here, the fact that I couldn't be as excited as I wanted to be. I set up a sway opposite group which helped a bit but we had quite a few opps in our dd group 2.5 years ago. I really do feel for you ladies too, I've been there and it is such a horrid place to be in. Tbh I've been there since finding out in 2013 and it's so very hard. I wish I could say something that helps, all I can say is that I understand. ((hugs))

Three beautiful boys and my longed-for DD due in June 2016!

[yogi&booboo]

Huge Congratulations Missiz♡

Beautiful bedding and clothes Fiya ♡ This group is to express our feelings so dont be shy or hold back with expressing your joy and happiness for having a baby girl♡

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[Bluebooties]

Congratulations to all the ladies who got there DG and hugs for those who did not.
I am still in my "phase" there is a big void that i dont think will ever fill and so i am finding ways to get on knowing that its there. Have absolutely zero excitment for this pregnancy though but hoping once the baby is here i would be able to feel better but i wont be surprised if i am not.
Funny i am feeling this way since i went into the sway knowing its not a gurranntee but i guess since my girls were concieved unintentionally on the lines of atomic's girl sway i guess i felt hope.

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[Boom]

Boom I just notice I don't have you included on the front page. Did you want me to put you there? Just need your due date and if you swayes pink or blue.


Mommy to 5 with number 6 due in June!!

Yes please. I'm due 4th July and I swayed pink :-)

[Boom]

Missiz - I know how you feel but believe it! Congrats!!

[mammacass]

Thankyou Fiya, gender scan is only 8 days away! Also I think you are so nice and thoughtful to be thinking of how your positive posts may be affecting those who did not get their DG, but I agree with yogi - you should be able to express your feelings and not hold back, if I get an opposite I certainly wouldn't want you to play it down on my behalf. You have waited a long time for this moment, enjoy it! Everyone here is on their own journey and I'm sure each is well respected [emoji4] I love your bedding and clothes pic, just adorable.

Dreamofpink I love the name and meaning behind it - just perfect [emoji108]

Bluebooties sorry to hear you are struggling, hope this eases for you with time. hugs xx

[mommymachine]

Dreamofpink beautiful name:) my DD2 name is Aurora!


Mommy to 5 with number 6 due in June!!

[Dreamofpink]

Dreamofpink beautiful name:) my DD2 name is Aurora!


Mommy to 5 with number 6 due in June!!
I remember - she was born just before my ds3 wasn't she? At the end of 2013?

Three beautiful boys and my longed-for DD due in June 2016!

[mommymachine]

Yup! I was due November 27th ish but she came on November 5th.


Mommy to 5 with number 6 due in June!!

[Dreamofpink]

Exactly a month before ds3 who was 5th Dec!

Three beautiful boys and my longed-for DD due in June 2016!

[netti02]

Hi Fiya

My 2 eldest are 3 years apart. I was trying to be so positive from the start especially for my DH. Hes placed so much of the blame on himself I didn't want to be acting a certain way to upset him more so i kind of just put on the mask. I want to use those clothes too 😊 dh isn't opposed to the technology im just not sure how he would feel if we use it. I'm wondering if it would heighten his feeling of being 'hopeless' that we would have to go down this road to get our dg.

After getting the information about HT, the simplicity of it and the fact its not as expensive (we're in Australia) as i first thought im really keen to give it a go. I think due to our age and great medical background conception/pregnancy/birth wise we have a really good chance of making it work the first time. Im ready to work about 10 jobs to fund the whole thing 😂😂.

I kind of have a timeline in my head if i get dh on board and im hoping we can go to the USA after ds5 first bday so August next year. I will be 33 and dh would be 34. I feel like ive asked so much of him already though so ive just researched myself but i think if i have all the info he may change his mind. I think the travelling part would freak him out as it would me too 😂 but im thinking an anniversary present to ourselves as we don't do much together except work and raise the kids.

Feel free to talk about your dg. Theres nothing id love more than to also be chatting about my dg too but im crossing everything for the future. I certainly enjoy seeing the pics and hearing the joy particularly as you have waited so long and its finally here xxx

Mum to 5 special princes

[netti02]

Thinking of you bluebooties


Mum to 5 special princes

[Bluebooties]

Fiya dont feel bad about sharing ur happiness as they say a happiness shared is doubled and a sorrow shared is halfed ... these forums are a way for each one of us to express them selves and get something back in return. Infact i hop on here from time and again to try to get out of my gloom by looking at ppl celebrating the miracle of life both those that succeded and those that did not.

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[missiz]

Thanks everyone xo I think my brain is having trouble comprehending its real, I cant wipe the smile off my face lol

@mammacass - I would drive myself bonkers not knowing what I had, I also enjoy being able to buy certain baby items knowing the gender so for me I definitely find out, and I also tell family and friends too. But I have also not come across anyone who has pressured me to not find out so I suppose that makes it feel a little different. I think you do whatever your happy with, remember its your baby and your journey, so do what feels right/best for you :) Also, I hope the next 8 days goes by quickly and you get a good result xo

@netti - yes its hard when people say silly things in an attempt to either make you feel better or make you think you should be grateful for a healthy baby regardless of gender, like you arent already feeling that. Before coming to this part of the forum and doing a natural sway, we had started the process for HT with Dr Potter, we had got pretesting done and started setting dates for consults with Dr Potter and when we would head over to US. But we had some financial things change temporarily for us and then the Aus dollar dropped badly and it became quite hard for us to do it at the time. So I agreed to try one time naturally, boy did I pray hard about it!!! I hope if you go down that road, that it works well for you, there are alot of supportive ladies in that part of the forum who will help you through the process, it can get a little overwhelming but there is plenty of help and information.

@sweetdream - yes I will definitely be asking alot at any future ultrasounds to check she's really a girl :P

@Fiya - hehehe thank you, I love the things you bought, such beautiful colours :) I am yet to buy anything but its going to feel so weird when I go into the girls section for the first time!!!! and I also feel exactly the same way you do as far as celebrating when there are ladies struggling with not getting there hoped for gender. The last thing I want to do is create more heartache for anyone going through it, I know I would have found it hard despite being happy for everyone else. Also, I am glad to hear you are feeling less sick, I think that might be the case for me too, I think I am pushing through it better and eating more and that ends up making me feel better anyway. I am also EXHAUSTED!!

@Bluebooties - I am so sorry you are still struggling, I understand the feeling of zero excitement, until I found out the gender I refused to allow myself the happiness because I was too scared of how hard I would fall if it wasnt a girl like I hoped for. and on top of that, I felt bad for not being excited about just being pregnant in general. I hope once you hold your beautiful little baby, there will be some good feelings for you xo

[mammacass]

Thankyou missiz, yes it is strange having people pressure you to not find out. They say please don't find out, keep it a suprise it's much nicer, and what difference is it going to make finding out etc but then they say if you do end up finding out they want to know [emoji849] Damned if I do damned if I don't lol.

[TaytumJ]

Mammacass - the anxiety of not knowing was REALLY hard for me in the beginning, but now I feel like I can put my GD aside and just enjoy the pregnancy and baby. I totally understand though being prepared ahead of time if it's not your DG, but I'm also confident that when it is time to have the baby even if it's not a boy, I'll just be so happy to have my baby in my arms! I enjoy people guessing, but I can see where it would get annoying for you if people kept saying something about your DG. It's a tough decision to make!


Team green baby due May 21! [emoji170][emoji166]

[XXforhubby]

If, big IF, I am fortunate enough to conceive our fourth baby while still BFing a young baby, I want to go team green. I think it would be fun to do for our last baby. I say that, but I'm a master at nubs! There was no way the tech could have stopped our boys from showing their parts during our NT scans!

People are going to make brass and insensitive comments no matter what. When you're pregnant, people feel they have a license to comment on things they wouldn't dare to comment on otherwise! It's almost as if carrying a baby is a public process instead of a private one. Makes no sense to me how seemingly logical people behave so badly during, what should be, a special time!


[emoji170]DS1[emoji125]🏼, DS2[emoji577], & DS3[emoji602] completes our family![emoji170]

[mammacass]

Thankyou Taytum and xx, I feel I need to know and will go ahead with the scan in 7 days, and I will decide from there wether or not I tell but I am truly leaning towards just hubby and I knowing until birth [emoji4]

[TaytumJ]

We've talked about doing that with the next one - finding out, but just us knowing. What a fun secret to share!


Team green baby due May 21! [emoji170][emoji166]

[Fiya]

Hi ladies,

How is everyone doing?

I had a check-up with my midwife yesterday and our little girl is doing just fine. I heard her little heartbeat and it just made my heart melt. I would love to hear it allll day. I feel her move everyday now, which is just such a joy. I've bought her another little outfit today. I just can't seem to stop :)

@Mamacass & Milybaby: I'm counting the days until your scans!

Are there other scans coming up?

[mammacass]

Aww lovely Fiya it's a wonderful sound isn't it, and knowing its your little girl must make it that much sweeter.

Yes the big countdown is on!!! Not long now.... [emoji4]

[Poptart32]

Hiya mamma glad to hear all is well [emoji175] my scan is coming up on 24th.. Can't wait!


DS #1 [emoji170]DS #2 [emoji170] ttc #3 using a girl sway [emoji175][emoji170]

My Ovulation Chart (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/40b78c)

[netti02]

Great to hear fiya. I have my first hospital appmnt in a few weeks.

All the best for your scans mammacass and poptart.

Ive been abit MIA. I think reality has sunk in and im having a hard time dealing with it. I finally talked to dh and how i felt about HT and a few other things that were on my chest and that's made me feel a little better.

I have ds4's bday coming up and his little party so Im very much looking forward to that.

Mum to 5 special princes

[mammacass]

Good luck with your scan also pop tart [emoji4]

Netti I'm glad your chat with DH has made you feel a little better, it's a difficult time and have been thinking of you xx the birthday party will be a happy distraction [emoji512][emoji322]

[hopper]

Was just checking in today and saw Fiya's post about possibly hurting others by posting about her little girl. I just had to say Fiya we are ALL ecstatic for you, and everyone else who has gotten their DG but your post is just so so so thoughtful. Bless your heart! I, for one, love seeing everyone post about their babies, what they are buying them, names they are thinking of - whether its the persons DG or not I think it is lovely to share these things with other mamas. I'm mostly radio silent on here at the moment but when I do check in the odd time I love seeing happy posts. They lift me up :)

Missiz I'm delighted for you getting your DD! You better believe it, she's on her way x

Mammacass I'll be checking back in to follow you. I'll eat my hat if thats not your girl!!

Netti I'm sending huge hugs your way hun. Best of luck with researching HT, its great to have that to hold onto on dark days xxx

Bluebooties I hope you are ok hun, or that you will be ok. I'm sure when your little girl is here you will feel differently, that's what I keep telling myself if indeed this is another boy but that doesn't really help on the bad days you are dealing with in the here and now xxx

Another month til my gender scan anyway ladies. I am trying not to be too hopeful of this little one being my girl. I think the hardest thing to stomach at the moment is just how wrong my gut is - I genuinely feel this baby is a girl so I think that will be the hardest part to get past.
Feeling great the past week or so, nausea is completely gone and I'm eating left right and centre!! On my iron supp now so starting to get more energy which is nice. Meditating at night which is helping my sleep issues lol.
Had a party to attend yesterday with my in-laws. Of course they all wanted a look at my NT scan pics. My SIL has 3 boys and she took me aside and said to be sure I find out the baby's gender and have any disappointment dealt with before they are born as she said she couldn't get out of bed for about a fortnight after hearing she was having boy #3. I didn't know that before but I really appreciated her honesty.
We have picked three boy names we love - funny cause we couldn't agree on a single one on either of our boys lol. DS2 was in fact nameless for 2 days as we couldn't think of any names lol. Obviously that hope is still there, I can't shelve it no matter how hard I try. The psychic who predicted this is a girl contacted me again and said she would do another 3 card reading for me if I liked. I said to go for it and she said that baby is a girl, to keep the faith and that this isn't my last pregnancy. She said I need to change my method of BC if I don't want any more babies cause she sees another baby on the cards. I know its all in fun though. Just again feeding that hope!
Anyway I'll be checking in from time to time. Hope all mamas and bumps are keeping well, even when I'm not posting here I'm still thinking of each and every one of you. Whether we get our DG or not we have been through a lot together and its lovely having women who just "get it" in my life xxx

[netti02]

Goodluck with your scan hopper i truly hope your dg is in there.

Ive been so forgetful with my iron supplement and ive been feeling like crap so ive set a reminder on my phone. HT has certainly felt like a life raft right now. My mother in law (who has 3 boys) also mentioned in a joking way last night that me and hubby will have to go to the USA for gender selection and i had only talked to my dh about it earlier in the day and what i wanted to do and when etc i have it all planned out. 😂😂 but ive reasoned with myself to enjoy this pregnancy and birth and then approach hubby again about it later in the year

Mum to 5 special princes

[mommymachine]

Fiya so glad your appointment went well!!

Hopper, I am very glad to hear that you have your SIL there for you, and that she knows what it's like to hear DS3. So *IF* you have DS3 then you have someone who can relate to you! (Besides the hundreds of amazing ladies on this board of course!!!)

[luvmyfam]

Fiya, definitely don't worry about talking about your little girl. This is our due date group and we are so excited for you! I want you to be able to talk about your little girl just like I talk about my little guy on the way :).

Mily and mammacass I can't wait until your scans! Hang in there!

Netti I'm glad the prospect of HT is helping you through!

Hopper I'm thinking of you! I still have hope this is your girl but I'm glad to hear you have some boy names picked out and are thinking of that possibility too. A whole month until your scan.... hang in there!

I feel Isaac move everyday and I can't wait until we can feel him from the outside and the boys and DH can feel him! I'm also feeling contractions everyday which I'm used to as I have uterine irritability with my pregnancies. And I'm also starting to get some swelling in my hands and feet. It usually starts around this time every time as well. My bump has grown a ton! We have our anatomy scan on February 16th which I'm very anxious to have done. I just want to see him again and know he's healthy. We also scheduled a 4D ultrasound for April 9th! Can't wait!

Hope everyone is doing well!

[netti02]

We have our anatomy scan around the same time luvmyfam 😍 looking forward to seeing how much my lil nugget has grown.

Mum to 5 special princes

[mommymachine]

Exciting Luvmyfam!!! I have a 4D ultrasound schedule for March 1st. I'll be 23 weeks 2 days.


Mommy to 5 with number 6 due in June!!

[mommymachine]

I'm 20 weeks pregnant today! I'm alternating between "yay I'm half way!" And "this is taking forever"


Mommy to 5 with number 6 due in June!!

[Dreamofpink]

@luvmyfam my ds3 is called Isaac 😀 I love the meaning behind it - he laughs. Mine certainly lives up to his name!!

Three beautiful boys and my longed-for DD due in June 2016!

[XXforhubby]

@luvmyfam my ds3 is called Isaac [emoji3] I love the meaning behind it - he laughs. Mine certainly lives up to his name!!

Three beautiful boys and my longed-for DD due in June 2016!

So does my DS2, who is also Isaac [emoji4]!He is also a prankster- he loves to laugh and to make others laugh! Plus, he has a contagious belly laugh that causes you to laugh too!


[emoji170]DS1[emoji1379], DS2[emoji577], & DS3[emoji602] completes our family![emoji170]

[sweetdream]

I love the name Isaac! Don't have one off those though. LoL do have a prankster though.
Two as a matter of facts. I love to follow you girls! And I'm so happy to read About these proud moms! Strong moms too!
GD is a b*tch and our kids are so awesome.
I have a friend who recently got her 3th son and her sister had 3 boys too. Both would have loved a girl. But the family is to die for!
And another friend who has 2sons and her sisters all have sons.
Its so special.

I know that everything turn out find because every family is special. A specialy if its yours.
I try to imagine the familys al grown up.
Mothers with all these grown men!
How proud will I be with these 3 big boys in a couple of years!
I imagine i feel Tiny! I guess my girl will be taller then me too.

Sorry just melting and dreaming with you lovely pregnant lady's as there wil not grow another tiny human with me sigh..,
And my baby is almost one....

[missiz]

@mammacass - gah that sounds frustrating that even though they are saying dont find out, if you do, they want to know! lol craziness. In all honesty, I have always found that I still get a surprise at the birth anyway, because its the first time I see what my child looks like, how they cry, how they feed and snuggle, how they feel in my arms, there are many special first surprises that await at birth and I dont feel you have to be surprised by what gender your having when all those special moments are already there :) thats just my thoughts on it anyway hehe and besides all that, when I had GD with DS2, I had lots of time to work through my emotions and come to terms with everything, I think the shock would be have alot harder to handle if I'd found out right at birth and I would hate for it to affect how I bonded in those first few minutes of meeting my child.

@XX - yes its amazing how being pregnant changes everyones opinion on what they think is ok for them to say to you!

@Fiya - how lovely you got another chance to hear bubs heart beat!! I cannot wait until I goto my appoint and hopefully my Dr will let me hear too! I also cant wait until bub starts to move, its always a great feeling of reassurance knowing they are there and ok.

@hopper - hope the next month goes quickly for you and you get a great result xx I understand how hard it is to try and let go of hope, its amazing how strong the feeling gets! its nice to see that your SIL can understand your feelings and perhaps be someone you can talk to about your experiences with GD.

Can I ask everyone, when was the earliest you felt baby moving? whether it was this pregnancy or previous ones? I think it was around 16 weeks with my 1st son, but I dont remember with my 2nd.

[netti02]

Missiz its been anywhere from 15 weeks up until about 18/19 weeks for me. As ive been so busy these last few pregnancies having quiet time and catching those first flutters has been difficult as im wondering if its the baby or my stomach 😂

I think I have a snugglebum on board though this one gets comfy and stays there 😊

Mum to 5 special princes

[luvmyfam]

@luvmyfam my ds3 is called Isaac �� I love the meaning behind it - he laughs. Mine certainly lives up to his name!!

Three beautiful boys and my longed-for DD due in June 2016!

I know we loved the meaning of it too! So sweet!

[Dreamofpink]

@missiz I've felt ds2, ds3 & dd around 10 weeks. They've then each given me a fright for a couple of weeks around 14 weeks as my tummy has popped out & I stopped feeling them move regularly every day.

Three beautiful boys and my longed-for DD due in June 2016!

[yogi&booboo]

Missiz I felt this baby #4 @exactly 12 weeks :)

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[hopper]

@netti - thank you xoxo I am glad to hear HT is your life raft right now! I started looking into it but DH is adamantly against it so I've stopped teasing myself. Thats hilarious that your MIL was thinking along the same lines as you!! Great minds ;)

@mommymachine - yes it helps to know there are people "in real life" that feel the same way I do. It can be very isolating can't it! People just don't discuss gender preferences. It almost feels like a taboo topic!
Halfway there hun!!! Look at it as the glass half full ;) Doesn't feel that long ago since you got your bfp. You'll be 30 weeks before you know it x

@luvmyfam - thank you hun!! You won't feel Feb coming around for your next scan :) Its always lovely to look forward to seeing baby jumping around. It just makes my heart swell so much I feel I can't breathe :)

luvmyfam, dreamofpink and XX thats lovely you all have an Isaac. I love Hebrew names, our boys middles names are Jacob and Caleb. This LO will have Elijah as his middle name if he is indeed a he :) I didn't know the meaning behind Isaac though, thats a wonderful meaning!

Well girls I've finally found a private clinic about 90 minutes drive away that will do a gender scan at 16+ weeks so....I have my gender scan booked for 10 days time on Thursday 18th! In one respect its great to know I will KNOW but in another I suppose its the end of the road so its a bit scary. But definitely more exciting than scary ;) I can't wait to know who's in my tummy lol. I'll be sure to update you girls - and THANK YOU for all your support and kind words xxxxx

[missiz]

my 2nd DS is named Elijah :) so first and middle name is Elijah Luke.

Goodluck with your scan hopper, thats great you were able to find one to do it at 16 weeks. Hope it goes well FX xxxxx

[Dreamofpink]

@hopper 10 days is not long but equally, such a long wait for you. I'm glad you've found somewhere that'll do your scan. Fingers crossed for your little girl. Xx

Three beautiful boys and my longed-for DD due in June 2016!

[hopper]

Thanks missiz and dreamofpink xxx 9 days and counting! It will be great to know either way and just be able to let things be, I'm really obsessing now which is driving me crazy!!
The psychic who predicted my pregnancy was talking to me yesterday and she is still sticking with her prediction of girl, she will be shocked if she's predicted a baby's gender wrong for the first time in over 20 years lol. I told her that it would be my luck to break her streak :P
How's everyone else getting on? Are there many left waiting to find out baby's gender?

[has2gentlemen]

We posted our pregnancy announcement this morning, only 5 weeks til we get the gender for sure.

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[Dreamofpink]

Awww that is so cute!!!

Three beautiful boys and my longed-for DD due in June 2016!

[mommymachine]

My goodness! What cute little boys!!! The older one looks so concerned that his little brother is crying!


Mommy to 5 with number 6 due in June!!

[hopper]

Awww has2 that is THE cutest ever!!!! I think our two year olds are in for a shock lol!!

Speaking of two year olds, it's my DS2s second birthday on Thursday! Have to say I am so emotional about it. Of course he hasn't a clue why he's getting even more kisses and cuddles than usual but he's loving the snuggle time bless him. I just can't get my head around how fast they grow up!!! And on the other hand it makes me SO excited for a new born in the house this year!!!

[mommymachine]

2 is a hard one for me too hopper. DD2 turned 2 in November and it was hard!!!


Mommy to 5 with number 6 due in June!!

[XXforhubby]

They grow up so fast, don't they?! Sweet DS2 was 2.5 when DS3 was born. I can't believe he will be 3 in 3 mo [emoji20][emoji4]! It makes me happy sad.


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[missiz]

aww that picture is just adorable has2!!! makes me want to cuddle your littlest man :P and its so sweet to see the concern in the older brothers face, what beautiful boys you have xo

[hopper]

It's definitely bittersweet isn't it!!

Girls I have a question regarding feeling baby move. Third baby here, felt my second move around the 12 week mark but have been told my placenta is anterior this time so assuming that fact would mean I won't be feeling baby move for a while yet, right? Any moms had an anterior placenta blocking movement on a past pregnancy? When did you begin to feel movement? I even felt DS1 move at just past 14 weeks so at almost 15 weeks now, while still early I know, I'm just mad to feel baby move! Maybe this one is my quieter of the 3 lol. Lord knows DS2 is crazy enough for 10 kids :P Not that I'd change a hair on his head, my little chicken <3

[Dreamofpink]

@hopper ds3 had an anterior placenta but I felt him move from 10 weeks until around 13, then he went really quiet as my tummy popped and everything moved up, as it were. I then started feeling him regularly from 16 weeks onwards.

Three beautiful boys and my longed-for DD due in June 2016!

[TaytumJ]

Has2 that is the CUTEST thing I've ever seen!!!! Oh my word - adorable!!!

Hope all of you ladies are doing well! I read every day, just not much going on with me. Had my 25week apt yesterday and fundal height is 25cm so right on target, I've gained 14lbs total and baby is super active! S/he kicked the Doppler as nurse was listening! Heartbeat was 152 I believe. I have my glucose and rhogam screening next apt. It's in the afternoon though so any tips on getting through the day and passing the test I'll take them!

Edit: I had a dream last night I looked at u/s pics again and could clearly see baby was a girl. And I cried! Like, bawled! I have been pretty laid back and even the other day thought about how neat it might be to have a girl. I don't know if this is my subconscious or what, but I hate dreams like that! I always feel guilty. [emoji53]
Team green baby due May 21! [emoji170][emoji166]

[Boysboys]

Hey girls!!!! I have been missing in action a long time now. I tried to catch up a little but I need to know what everyone is having?!?!? :):):)

ASF, we are doing great. 24 weeks, go to the doctor tomorrow again. I hope I get to see her! I have gone absolutely crazy buying her pretties... Like it's a real problem!haha

Hope you are all doing fabulous!! :)

[Fiya]

Hi ladies,

@Mamacass: when is your scan exactly? I'm sooooo eager to find out if you'll get your little girl :HH:

@Netti: I'm sorry you feel that way hun, but it's totally normal and we're all here to make you feel a little better. What did your DH say when you talked about HT? Would he be on board?

@hopper: I'm so glad to see you're still present on this thread. Ok, the nub was boyish, but there sure is still hope for a baby girl. It's amazing you were able to program a scan soon. You'll finally know and I wanted to say at first, you'll sleep better too. But that was actually not the case for me. I'm not anxious anymore, but still sleeping like crap though :) Do you want to tell us the three boy names you have in mind? And a girl name? It's great your SIL was able to talk to you about her dissapointment, it sure wasn't easy for her. One of my SILs had two girls and then a boy (without swaying whatsoever) and the other one had three girls and still wants a boy. When I told them about my swaying, they laughed soooo hard and said it doesn't matter at all, so I was happy to announce it dit work for me. Not much support from them if it was a boy, I think...

@missiz: is the thought of a little girl already sinking in? I felt DS1 move at around 15 weeks, DS2 at 12 weeks en DD at 11 weeks. DH is now able to feel her from the outside, which is amazing. I try to get my little ones to feel her, but they are sooo impatient. They can't even sit still for a second (3 and 4 years old)

@Has2: oh my, that's the sweetest thing I've ever seen. Such handsome boys and it's always great when you succeed to get that special shot without trying :)

@taytum: Great your appointment went well! And a super active baby is always nice to see. Don't feel guilty about the feelings you have. A preference is totally normal, as long as you're not devastated if it turns out to be a girl. Everything will be fine, you'll see!

@Boysboys: we have a girl on board after 2 boys, just like you. And that thing about clothes shopping being a real problem sounds sooooo familiar :suprise:

@Milybaby: just 2 more days until your NT scan. I hope you're alright hun?

So many scans coming up :) I'll be checking every day to read all those updates! And thanks to all you ladies for all your sweet words about me and my fear of hurting you with my posts about my little girl. You're all soooooo sweet! This group is such a blessing!

[Fiya]

Oh my god... she's sooo spoiled already :ballerina:

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[yogi&booboo]

Sorry for being MIA good luck to all you gals with your upcoming scans♡

Fiya- super dupercute outfits ♡ id spoil her the same too.

As for me, like the saying goes ,when it rain it pours. I got a really bad cold since last week which I am just getting over. Specialist prescribed me acetaminophen with codine for my frequent and recurring headaches and me bing in pain decided to take them on a empty stomach with my high blood pressure medicine which did not turn out good. DH and Father in law had to pick me up from work and drive my car home as I almost passed and had severe vomiting. I am just recovering from that too :/ I have lost seven pounds in two weeks and Md said if I keep it up ill end up in bed rest. I wish I had positive things to say about being pregnant but I have been hexed with bad pregnancy luck. On the bright side DH finally felt him move which was a heartwarming experience ♡ Hope everyone is doing great.

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[mammacass]

Hi ladies I have just started to feel baby move @ 15wks. So so beautiful. Thankyou Fiya, my scan is only 2 days away on Saturday. I am feeling surprisingly calm [emoji4]

Taytum glad all is going well for you and Bub and yes, your feelings about your dream are totally normal, hope you are feeling better x

Hi boys boys good to hear from you and that you are enjoying your girlie shopping!!

Love the pic has2 your boys are adorable x

Yogi it must be miserable feeling so sick, thinking of you and hoping you pick up soon x

[Boom]

Elijah is my DS2's name as well! Elijah Daniel Ethan

[netti02]

Yogi im battling abit of a cold too in the moddle of summer or all things....... hope you feel better soon.

Lovely clothes fiya. Must be great to finally shop for little girls clothes. DH is not really on board as he doesn't want anymore kids but i at least had the talk about what page im on and that i want to try HT. The main thing is financing it but i also hinted at the idea of it being a holiday for us too so we will see. Im just trying to enjoy this pregnancy 😊

Cute pic has2

Mum to 5 special princes

[Boyzmommy]

Hi ladies, sorry i missed a lot of action due my sis wedding.
I m doing great with mild diarrhea.
I went to have checkup n everything seems normal.


Mom to two princes
Princess in belly

[missiz]

@hopper - both pregnancies my placenta was at the back so I was able to feel bubs move about 15-16 weeks. I am 13 weeks today and seriously cannot wait til I feel bub move for the first time!!!

@Taytum - I have had a couple of dreams that felt so real they made me cry, cranked up my adrenaline and brought an ache to my chest. I had one only last night about my SIL who is 21 weeks pregnant announcing that she was having a girl and that I was to have my 3rd boy... your body tricks you into thinking its real!!! Even though my harmony test says I'm having a girl, that dream still played around with my emotions.

@boysboys - hope your Drs appoint went well, its always nice to see/hear bub on a visit like that. I havent bought anything yet, I think I feel too scared to seeing as I am only 13 weeks. When did everyone else start buying clothes after finding out what they were having?

@Fiya - no I am definitely having trouble with it sinking in, I keep forgetting and then I surprise myself realising I will actually be raising a daughter along side my boys... its such a long lasting thing that I dont think it feels real yet... if that makes any sense lol p.s. those new baby clothes are just devine!!!!

@yogi - I hope you are feeling better soon, sounds like you've had a bad run of it lately :(

@mammacass - that is so awesome that you are feeling bub move and I really hope your scan goes well, its so soon!!!! FX xx

@Boyz - glad to hear everything checked out ok, hope your feeling better soon xo


I went in for my monthly Drs appoint this avo and was hoping the Dr would try and get a listen of bubs heart beat with the doppler but he said because I am only 13 weeks, it can be hard to find and he doesnt do it so it doesnt stress the mums out if the hb isnt found.... does that sound right? I was really hoping at least try :( oh well, gotta wait til im 17 weeks at the next check up, and then I will be booking in my 18-20 week scan.

[hopper]

@Taytum oh honey sending you hugs. Our minds play nasty tricks on us, don't be letting that guilt eat at you whatsoever. I remember having a dream while pg on DS2 that I went into hospital to have him, we knew at that stage we were having our second boy. In the dream I left DS1 with my parents, had DS2 and went to collect DS1 only for my parents to tell me they had given him away because it was "greedy" to have two boys. It was crazy but I know it was my subconscious feeling guilty on DS1 about bringing another baby boy home, another baby full stop really! It would be lovely to have control over our dreams - and over our GD feelings.

@Fiya lol I hope I end up sleeping better. I'm not even sure its anxiety related right now, I think its just pregnancy in general. My hips feel really uncomfy in bed and I keep having to change sides or even lie on my back for a while to give them a break. I must book a visit to my Osteopath, she might help matters ;) I'm afraid I am setting myself up for a huge fall even holding out hope for a girl. At least its just another week and then I'll be out of this limbo. I had a dream last night that I was told its a boy and I was ok with it, maybe this whole thing with the boyish nub was a blessing in disguise. I so felt this was my girl that it never entered my head it might be a boy so I would definitely have had a meltdown at the gender scan. At least now I can go in and be prepared!

@yogi OMG you are really having a rough time of it hun!!! I hope you are feeling right as rain asap. Delighted your hubby got to feel your son move though, thats really special :D x

@mammacass counting down the days hun!!! Everything crossed you hear pink!!! X

@netti I hope you get to enjoy being pregnant this time hun and your DH comes around later this year. Its great having the HT option to hold onto! My own DH won't even entertain the idea of HT unfortunately.

@boyz glad you are doing well. Hope the diarrhea passes asap!

@missiz They say baby is usually felt earlier with each pregnancy so any day now for you!! :) I think the whole doppler thing and checking bubs HB varies from doctor to doctor. I remember on my first they checked for HB at 10 weeks but on my second I think it was like 17 weeks or something before they checked. It was two different doctors so I just assume the second one was erring on the side of caution just in case he didn't pick up the HB.

A week today til our gender scan ladies. I think I might be setting myself up for a massive fall by even hoping to be told girl. I can't stop myself from remembering the 13 week scan and remembering how sure I was that there wasn't a boy nub visible and then I find myself convincing myself that the nub shot I did get can't be a "proper" nub shot cause baby was mid jump - ugh, it is all feeding the hope. DH got frustrated with me yesterday, I'm frustrated with myself truth be told! Sorry for constantly going on about it. I know I will love and adore another boy but it would just be nice to not feel this "want" any more. I feel I am becoming a very bitter person, thats not who I am at all. I'm usually so happy go lucky and I get along with everyone. I was holding a baby girl yesterday, she's the first girl after a boy, and I know that her parents could see the blatant longing on my face - along with the envy I was trying so hard to hide. What horrible emotions GD makes us feel!!

[Fiya]

So ladies, this pic was taken yesterday at 18 weeks pregnant. I'm hugggge and she sure does have enough space to swim :giggle: I'm coming back later to read all the last posts


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[mammacass]

Thankyou, aaahhh yes tomorrow is the big day [emoji4] A few nerves have started to settle in now....but not doing too badly [emoji4]

Hopper I think it's really hard for us not to have some hope especially after we put so much into swaying. My fingers are tightly crossed that you hear pink at your scan xx

Aww Fiya your photo is just precious, I love it x

[Milybaby]

Hi ladies,
I 've just had My NT scan at 13w1d and i Saw a very Clear boyish nub!!! Gyn told me 80%boy but I know this is quite close to 99%... I am so sad, i don't know why i can not Have a little girl... 😢

I'm Sorry I did'NT read What i missed but I'm too shaked right now....

Xxx

[has2gentlemen]

Oh no mily. I hope for your sake that it's wrong!

Fiya- I am loving that photo! It's beautiful!

We did 2 year portraits for Ben (youngest) today, even though the little girl in front of us was absolutely beautiful in her frilly little dress, I am still amazed sometimes at how adorable my boys can be too.

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[Fiya]

Hi ladies,
I 've just had My NT scan at 13w1d and i Saw a very Clear boyish nub!!! Gyn told me 80%boy but I know this is quite close to 99%... I am so sad, i don't know why i can not Have a little girl... ��

I'm Sorry I did'NT read What i missed but I'm too shaked right now....

Xxx

Milybaby, I'm so sorry hun. Could you show us the scan to get our opinion on it? Big hug. I was thinking about you all day!

[Fiya]

@Has2: oh myyyy, they are A-DO-RA-BLE :HH:

[Milybaby]

Thanks Has2 and Fiya😍
How adorable are your Little boys Has 2😊😊
I am feeling better now. I Saw the nub but don't Have a clear profile pic but I think this is pretty obvious😜

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Xxx

[Fiya]

Yes, it seems like he isn't shy milybaby! I hope you're really okay hun. What did your hubby say? And will you be back here on this thread with us from now on?

[mommymachine]

I'm sorry you didn't hear pink Milybaby. I have no idea how accurate potty shots are at 13 weeks. None of your profile shots show angle. So I would say 50/50 on these pictures. But I'm no expert. Big hugs.


Mommy to 5 with number 6 due in June!!

[Fiya]

I think the 4th pic shows boy parts, but I'm not an expert either.

@luvmyfam: your boys were obvious at 13 weeks, no? Did it look like this?

[mammacass]

Milybaby I'm sorry it's looking like a boy. At my NT scan with a previous preg I could also tell immediately it was a boy - I think you just know when you spot it once you have had a boy or two. Hugs and I hope you are ok x

Has2 those pics are adorable x

[Fiya]

@Mammacass: how many hours till your scan? :nails:

[mammacass]

Only 2 and a bit to go Fiya!!

[Fiya]

It's Friday evening here in France, so I wasn't sure, but how excitting. I come to read first thing in the morning. Hope you'll get a great nubshot so you'll know what's hiding in your belly :babym::babyf:

[netti02]

Cute pics has2 😊

Looking like a boy Mily 😊 Cute pics, i went shopping for baby the other day felt good to finally enjoy shopping for the new little man on his way 😄

All the best mammacass i have everything crossed

cute bump fiya 😍

Hopper i feel for you. I just wanted to get to the ultrasound and know already fx for you

Im currently getting mynhair done. Feels good to do something for myself for once. I went shopping for bubs yesterday and got some really cute onesies as it will be the middle of winter when this baby is born. Im excited now 😍

Mum to 5 special princes

[Dreamofpink]

Sorry Mily, it does look boyish. 😞
Mammacass & Hopper best of luck with your scans. I remember the nerves almost finished me off, my heart was almost always in my mouth in the lead up.
Your boys are so cute has2!
Netti enjoy the pampering & shopping. 😀
Fiya that is such a sweet pic!
Hello to everyone else, hope you're all feeling well xx

Three beautiful boys and my longed-for DD due in June 2016!

[mammacass]

Oh my goodness ladies IT'S A GIRL!!!! [emoji178][emoji166][emoji146]

I burst into tears, such an amazing thing to hear and see. OMG I just can't believe it WOW!!!

[netti02]

Congrats mammacass

Mum to 5 special princes

[Dreamofpink]

Huge congrats Mammacass!!! Very exciting news 😀

Three beautiful boys and my longed-for DD due in June 2016!

[mommymachine]

Mammacass I am so happy for you!!! What amazing news!


Mommy to 5 with number 6 due in June!!

[has2gentlemen]

Amazing to hear mammacass! That must be an awesome feeling :)


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[mammacass]

Thankyou so much, I'm still shaking and it all just feels so surreal after 3 boys lol I will post pics if I can once we get home tonight xx

[mommymachine]

I completely understand that surreal feeling!


Mommy to 5 with number 6 due in June!!

[XXforhubby]

Huge congrats mamacass [emoji175]!!

Going to look at your sway now....hehe


[emoji170]DS1[emoji1379], DS2[emoji577], & DS3[emoji602] completes our family![emoji170]

[mammacass]

Some pics [emoji7]

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[netti02]

Lovely mammacass

Mum to 5 special princes

[Pbn3]

Gorgeous mammacass! Congratulations again!!

519b48 Ovulation charts on FertilityFriend.com (http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/519b48)

[Fiya]

Like I said, I came to read first thing in the morning and OH MY GOD Mammacass, that's just amazing news! The pictures are gorgeous and that's definitely a girl you have there. The potty shot looks just like mine did. :HH:

Did you sway for a long time? And was it your first sway? Now it's time for some shoppppping!!!! :)

[Milybaby]

Congrats Mamacass!!!! I am really happy for you😃😃😃 i can't imagine how happy you Must be.

I am Sorry that I am feeling so down at the moment. I don't know how I'm gonna handle with a third boy... This was such a Roller coaster, i thought I was having My daughter with HT, then misscarriage... And now this baby I just don't want😥 I am really hungry at myself since I knew I Will Have another boy naturally. I feel that this pregnancy doesn't mean anything... That It was not supposed to be. This was My DH pression to try naturally and now.... I really dont know when i Will feel better😭😭😭

[yogi&booboo]

Congratulations Mammacass ♡

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[Milybaby]

I just don't want this baby. I was supposed to Have My daughter in My arms in a month and now I'm almost 3 months prégnant with à Baby I dont want.😩
How am I gonna do to feed him? To wake up at night? 😰
I am Sorry ladies for What I am saying but Even before knowing It is a boy I felt that It was too much for me this Baby and this pregnancy.
When I went HT I knew why and was determined to Have a girl for My third child and I wanted this Baby only if It was a girl. Then misscarriage and all My feelings were upside down... This was not the Life I wanted...

[mammacass]

Like I said, I came to read first thing in the morning and OH MY GOD Mammacass, that's just amazing news! The pictures are gorgeous and that's definitely a girl you have there. The potty shot looks just like mine did. :HH:

Did you sway for a long time? And was it your first sway? Now it's time for some shoppppping!!!! :)

Thankyou so much Fiya x I was on the diet for 22 weeks, not super strictly though. I did sway with DS3 but was an IG type sway - made quite a few changes This time around [emoji4]

As for the shopping, I have been looking at some online for the last few weeks hoping I would be able to buy them, and if It was a boy I found it good to be able to be hopeful maybe for the last time if that makes sense xx

[mammacass]

Oh Milybaby I'm so sorry you are feeling so down, please give yourself some time to process your feelings x must be so very hard after going through HT also. Hugs xx

[Fiya]

Atomic is a hero!!! :) I'm sure I would have had a boy without the LE diet, but hubby is convinced nature gave us a girl even though my diet before was sooo sooo boyish.

[Fiya]

I just don't want this baby. I was supposed to Have My daughter in My arms in a month and now I'm almost 3 months prégnant with à Baby I dont want.��
How am I gonna do to feed him? To wake up at night? ��
I am Sorry ladies for What I am saying but Even before knowing It is a boy I felt that It was too much for me this Baby and this pregnancy.
When I went HT I knew why and was determined to Have a girl for My third child and I wanted this Baby only if It was a girl. Then misscarriage and all My feelings were upside down... This was not the Life I wanted...

You'll love him no matter what milybaby, I'm pretty sure about that. But the longing for a daughter will definitely still exist after the birth. Why didn't you try again for HT? Was if for financial reasons or were you just too hurt after the miscarriage?

What does your hubby think about everything? He was the one who wanted to try naturally, so he might feel guilty now?

Just know that you can express this feelings overhere. No one will judge you for feeling like you do and those feelings will eventually fade away, I promise!

:bighug:

[Milybaby]

Thank you Fiya and Mamacass for your words, It does help me💕 I really appreciate that I can can speak freely here and you understand My feelings.
Sometimes I feel better and sometimes not. DH feels guilty and he is completly lost when seeing me so sad. I know he doesn't know What to do. He thinks this is perhaps his fault because he Has perhaps a problem with his X sperm. His father has had 3 boys and 1 girl with Turner syndrom that died at 5 months pregnancy. So We are wondering if perhaps this is hereditary since aCgh screening doesn't see very Little mocaïsm and perhaps My misscarriage was du to this abnormality.
We really don't know but I told him there was just a little possibility this was because of his X sperm and I love him anyway😍
We are Thinking about doing a genetic test on his X sperm to see if there is a problem because We don't want to put a lot of money in HT for nothing😳
So yes We could do HT again but I am really freaking out. My plan is to do It as soon as possible after the birth of My third Baby to have 2 Little ones to care at the same time😉
My first son Will turn 10 in August. My second 5 in October and this one Will Born in August, I don't want to wait.
My AMH was not good too...

What do you think?

[Fiya]

@Milybaby: it's good to hear you're thinking about the future with possibly a girl in it. I think the genetic testing on his X sperm might be a good idea, but I don't know anything about those things so I can't give you advice.

It isn't anyone's fault anyway, not yours, not hubby's. A baby is always a miracle, boy or girl. But I do understand your strong gender desire and I just hope you'll find a happy place during this pregnancy :pray:

[Babygirlquest]

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[Fiya]

Hi ladies,

Look what I've received yesterday, I think she'll sleep like an angel :HH:

[hopper]

Mammacass!!!!!! I am seriously THRILLED to read your fantastic news! I am sat here with tears of happiness ********* down my cheeks!! Absolutely HUGE congrats on your long awaited and hard swayed for little lady!!!! So so so so so happy for you! Your princess is absolutely beautiful as well, roll on July xxxxxxx

Milybaby I am so sorry to hear you are having your third little boy. There's nothing I can say that will make this time easier for you but just know you can say exactly what you feel here with no judgement whatsoever. I truly hope you will be able to come to terms with this baby and these feelings, my heart is breaking for you xxx

Thank you girls for the kind words and well wishes for my scan next week. I feel bi-polar the last while, flip flopping between being ok with being team blue and then being devastated at the idea of never having a chance at a daughter. Sometimes I think I would probably have been better off not showing anyone that nub shot from my 13+4 scan BUT on the other hand at least it has opened my eyes to the fact that this baby may indeed be a boy as I was so utterly convinced it was a girl. At least I can go into the scan next week and not be blind-sided by "It's a boy!" I'm prepared to hear it now so bring it on!

[mammacass]

Aww Thankyou so much Hopper [emoji8] I truly hope you also get your Little pink bundle, nubs and their guesses aren't always true and as you were sure you didn't see boy bits at your scan then you just may well be suprised! I'm excited for you also and will be stalking [emoji4]

Fiya your bedding is beautiful x

[yogi&booboo]

Fiya it's absolutely beautiful ♡ is that her lovely crib set up I see in the background?

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[Boyzmommy]

Milybaby i m sorry u didnt hear girl
Fiya bedding n sleep bundle is so cute
Mamacass congrats hun
Hopper good luck wid ur scan
Milybaby plz dont feel so sad. Feel free to share ur feelings. I hope u ll get better when u ll hold ur little bundle in ur arms

I m doing gud ladies. Just busy with some weddings.
I havent got full confirmation on gender yet. But i m happy with a healthy baby. I get anxious on babys health sometimes.


Mom to two princes
Princess in belly

[luvmyfam]

Mily I had a scan at 13+1 and the pics looked a lot like yours. I know it's a punch to the gut at first. It took a little while but I'm very excited now for my 3rd little guy on the way. My heart breaks for you and the loss of your daughter. I can't imagine what you must be feeling. I think it's a good idea to get his sperm tested. Big hugs!!

Mammacass I'm so happy for you! Congrats!!

I have my anatomy scan on Tuesday. I can't wait to see him again and I pray he's a healthy little man!

[Boyzmommy]

Good luck for ur anatomy scan luvmyfam


Mom to two princes
Princess in belly

[TaytumJ]

Big congrats mamacass!! So happy for you!! [emoji177][emoji166][emoji882] She's beautiful!!

Luvmyfam - good luck at your anatomy scan! I bet little man is perfectly happy and healthy!

Fiya - super cute bedding!!

Milybaby - I'm so sorry you're feeling so down; GD is a horrible feeling. I agree with others that it's neither you nor hubby's fault, and knowing how you feel, I would definitely recommend getting him tested and going into HT knowing everything. It sounds like you have a great plan to begin after this baby, which will give you something to look forward to (as well as your new baby!). I can't wait to follow your journey and see your little ones!


Team green baby due May 21! [emoji170][emoji166]

[mammacass]

Thankyou ladies. I'm a bit tired as I've been waking up in the middle of the night being suprised all over again that I'm am actually having a pink one!

Good luck with your scan Luvmyfam x

[Boyzmommy]

I know what u mean mamacass
[emoji4]


Mom to two princes
Princess in belly

[Milybaby]

Hi ladies, Thank u for ur support. I'm terribly sad and don't feel well. I wake up in the morning Thinking I don't want this child. Perhaps someone Will love him? But for now I don't I am not feeling anything for this baby... I don't want to take care of him, to feed him, I don't know how I'm gonna do. I can't think of a name for him, i Have already 2 boys and the first one is really difficult... And I don't see how I'm gonna do with à Baby? I searched about abortion but I don't want to kill him, I don't want him to be sad or to feel What I'm feeling. I know he is here and I can't do anything about that so I searched to deliver and to give him to a family who Will love him as much as he deserves.
I feel I'm fool to say that. How am I gonna do? i don't Have the courage of anything. It was not supposed to be this way. I wanted 3rd children if It was a girl. I didn't know I Will react like that...
Sometimes I feel better and I think everything is gonna be ok but sometimes I don't and am in total despair...

Xxx

[XXforhubby]

Hi ladies, Thank u for ur support. I'm terribly sad and don't feel well. I wake up in the morning Thinking I don't want this child. Perhaps someone Will love him? But for now I don't I am not feeling anything for this baby... I don't want to take care of him, to feed him, I don't know how I'm gonna do. I can't think of a name for him, i Have already 2 boys and the first one is really difficult... And I don't see how I'm gonna do with à Baby? I searched about abortion but I don't want to kill him, I don't want him to be sad or to feel What I'm feeling. I know he is here and I can't do anything about that so I searched to deliver and to give him to a family who Will love him as much as he deserves.
I feel I'm fool to say that. How am I gonna do? i don't Have the courage of anything. It was not supposed to be this way. I wanted 3rd children if It was a girl. I didn't know I Will react like that...
Sometimes I feel better and I think everything is gonna be ok but sometimes I don't and am in total despair...

Xxx

Huge hugs!!!

It's totally ok to feel the way you do! Let it all out! Don't suppress your feelings- allow yourself to work through them. You don't have to have it all worked out right now and that's ok! Give yourself the time to grieve. You might not begin to bond with him until he arrives, and that too is ok!

Hang in there sweetie! The darkest times are right now, I promise! It WILL get better! Just take each day at a time. Know there are two things going on right now. 1. You are grieving the loss of a dream to have a daughter and 2. The disappointment of having a third boy. It's important to realize there are two things going on here. Sometimes we lump things together when we are in despair. Realizing there are two things going on can allow you to begin to work on them once you are able.

I too had a challenging 1st child- he never slept through the night until he was 2.5 years old, and he needed constant interaction with us. He was not one to play independently. Know that this child you are pregnant with will be different! He will have his own personality.

Take deep breaths when things feel super bad and be kind to yourself right now. We are here for you!

Huge hugs [emoji8]!


[emoji170]DS1[emoji1379], DS2[emoji577], & DS3[emoji602] completes our family![emoji170]

[Inforthree]

Hi Mily - I just wanted to jump in and say that I wish things were different for you and I'm sorry you're having such a hard time. I think XX is right and all the emotions are so complicated and you have to sort through them and share how you feel. Don't feel bad about what you feel. You're having a hard time right now but you won't feel this way forever. Hugs to you.

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[Bluebooties]

Sorry u r feeling this way milybaby. I am not going to be of much help to u since i myself am dealing with GD. I am hoping time will heal us both and we will be able to give this child the love he/she deserves.

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[Bluebooties]

Congratulations mammacass

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[Dreamofpink]

I wish I had some comforting words for you Mily. I completely understand how you're feeling, hearing boy for the third time was so hard for me. I fell head over heels in love with him when he was born but the GD was still very present. I was determined to ignore it for his first year but it was always there, lurking. DH was adamant that we were having no more too and I struggled with that so badly. It is so important to acknowledge that GD is very separate from the love you have for your children. Do you do any crafts at all? I found throwing myself into knitting a few cardigans for him really helped and for the first time I enjoyed buying blue. I felt like I needed it to scream to the world proudly that I had three boys. I couldn't bear the question of boy or girl when he was a baby so by making it very obvious I avoided it. Please be very kind to yourself and don't do anything rash. Xxx

Three beautiful boys and my longed-for DD due in June 2016!

[luvmyfam]

Mily.... it's really hard for me to hear what you said in your last post. Think about your boys and how much you love and adore them. You will love and adore this one just as much. He's your baby boy. I think you need to name him. That helped me a lot. But I also think you need some counseling. You've been through a terrible loss already and now you're grieving another "loss" of the baby girl you hoped for. You really need to process all of this grief. Thoughts and prayers for you. I hope you can see that you will love this little guy.

[atomic sagebrush]

Mily I'm so sorry that the sway didn't work out...thinking of you. :heart:

[Milybaby]

Thank u ladies for your comforting words. I am so Sorry to feel this way and I am Hating myself for What I feel sometimes. I feel that it is not normal to think such horrible things.
I know I Will love him when he'll be here but I just can't for now. I'm trying to find him a name but I don't love anything. My first one is Eytan and My second one Aaron. Aaron kissed My belly this morning saying he loved the Baby and that he is really happy he's here, he gave him some carress and massage through My Belly😍
I think My HT misscarriage and this Baby boy are too much. I was perhaps imagining that this Will be My daugther return and this Baby is taking her place. I know he Will be perfect like his 2 big brothers... But I just can't imagine myself mother of 3 boys for now. I Should Have Thinking about that before but I thought I Will be fine with It but I am not.
Sometimes I feel better like now but when I am sleeping and then wake up I feel terribly sad realizing it's reality and I am not dreaming.
I know in My deepest that love for My children does not depend on Their gender and that I love them just as they are💕💕
Trying to cope with It. Thinking about a name, a 3D/4D scan to see him and the future... I Have so many things to do, me and My family really need me to get better like really soon but I don't know how to do It... I think perhaps each day Will be better Than the previous one.

I am really wishing to u all ladies happyness and joy with your babies😍 I don't feel any sadness to see you having your DG but just happyness for u! I am Sorry if I hurted some of you

Love💕💕💕

[Jany1025]

Mily I was so gutted for you when you had your HT loss, I can' even imagine how are you feeling at this time..I am so sorry it is not your "girl". I remember feeling horrible when I found out DS#2 was a boy and the only thing that kept from going crazy was planning HT.

Is going HT again totally impossible?? Coralsky is a perfect example of someone who had a few HT BFNs, swayed and got pregnant with another boy, tried HT again and is pregnant with a girl...

I find gender disappointment is probably the worse when you are pregnant. My heart is so very sad for you and I hope that you find peace one way or another.

[Dreamofpink]

Mily I was so gutted for you when you had your HT loss, I can' even imagine how are you feeling at this time..I am so sorry it is not your "girl". I remember feeling horrible when I found out DS#2 was a boy and the only thing that kept from going crazy was planning HT.

Is going HT again totally impossible?? Coralsky is a perfect example of someone who had a few HT BFNs, swayed and got pregnant with another boy, tried HT again and is pregnant with a girl...

I find gender disappointment is probably the worse when you are pregnant. My heart is so very sad for you and I hope that you find peace one way or another.
Mathilde is also pregnant with her girl after HT not working out previously, swaying in 2013 & getting her third boy - she tried HT again last year and was successful.

Three beautiful boys and my longed-for DD due in June 2016!

[TaytumJ]

Sending you lots of love Mily. It sounds like you have up and down days and that's totally normal, just like XX said. Sounds like your little Aaron is already in love with his brother! I do agree too with counseling - it sounds like between HT loss and DS3 you have a lot of feelings a professional can help you work through. But we're all here with love and support too!

I agree with others about HT not being totally out of the equation If I remember correctly from a previous post. I would suggest you also look into it at least in the mean time, to give you some hope and a light at the end of the tunnel. ❤️


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[Milybaby]

Yes i think GD is the worse when pregnant because knowing you Will not Have your dream, cannot do anything because pregnant and no Baby to love yet...
This morning i feel better, I am trying to imagine My Little baby boy and how cute he's gonna be💕 He deserves My love as much as his brothers.

I am Thinking about all the things I Have to do today but perhaps Step by Step would be better.

I didn't know for Coralsky and I am soooo happy for her😊
We Have No News of Mathilde and I don't know if she's ok🙏

Yes HT is possible but I would like to plan and do It now lol
I went to R but Now things Have changes there and should move to O. With Dr Good if I want same Thing but seriously I don't want to hide again and Stress about GS not being openly discussed and agreed.
Then There is C. In CZ where It seems that this is more open but more expensive. And I didn't see a lot of success with this clinic? Am I right?

And US!!! It is more expensive but legal and success rates are much better... So leaning for the US but We live in the South of France so it's very far. I looked into Dr Potter because I feel he is the best and I trust him. But this is in LA? Price is 12200 dollars per cycle?
NYC is better for us because Closer! There are RMANJ or SIRM and cycle price is around 14500 dollars?
Am I right?

Wish all of u a Nice day! 😃

Thinking about you Hopper and your upcoming scan, FX for you to Have your DG💕

[Dreamofpink]

Mathilde and baby are both doing well 😉😀
(I am in touch with her away from this site)

Three beautiful boys and my longed-for DD due in June 2016!

[Milybaby]

Mathilde and baby are both doing well 😉😀
(I am in touch with her away from this site)

Three beautiful boys and my longed-for DD due in June 2016!

Love this post!!!!!😊😊😊 Could you Tell her I am really happy she's doing well😍😍😍?

[netti02]

I know how you feel Mily. Ive been all over the place and i hate it as im usually much more level headed and in control. You are correct about the HRC proces im not sure about NY. I know Dr Potter has good success rates so i would go there but im not sure where i am in that topic atm.

Mum to 5 special princes

[Dreamofpink]

Love this post!!!!!😊😊😊 Could you Tell her I am really happy she's doing well😍😍😍?
I will do. Xx

Three beautiful boys and my longed-for DD due in June 2016!